The staying out of your emotions + staying unbothered is so true. It works on all men
@Laoriginal7188 ай бұрын
Facts
@tinyking118 ай бұрын
💯‼️🔥 Preach! Being unbothered is the best way to be and stay when it comes to mehn. They will want you more bc they can’t control you emotionally.
@Anewwayofthinking-bs2fr8 ай бұрын
hard because we arnt wired that way
@marieisiah7 ай бұрын
this was at 888 before i liked it
@Eshabee7 ай бұрын
@@Anewwayofthinking-bs2freven though that may be true for most my thing is I can do whatever my mind leads me to do that’s why it’s mostly mental
@sumayyahgilani7 ай бұрын
1.maintain eye contact; play dumb, tell em what they need to hear, “this is the best date ive had in a long time”, smiling, laughing at his jokes “im so sad this has to end” “idk if youd be down to do it” bait them
@adameve66235 ай бұрын
Thanks gaal!!
@MsCasati8 ай бұрын
This video is very essential in teaching women to value their own bodies ..and not give away their bodies easily thinking this is the only way to win mens’ hearts. Thank you for this
@ellefaitdesvideos16199 ай бұрын
About female friendship : you were right in your videos. I met two girls we went out everything was perfect and suddenly they stopped talking to me. These friendships can really slow you by the way they make you sad etc… stay strong y’all!
@HSBsoulsurfer9 ай бұрын
I have found all women so far to be fake and phony. As a woman, it's very sad.
@chard36518 ай бұрын
Were they already friends with each other before you met them? Just curious. The thing with sheep is that one usually follows the other. So if 1 started getting in her feelings and experiencing jealousy, the other one might appease her by stopping contact as well.
@ellefaitdesvideos16198 ай бұрын
They were!
@fresaconchocolate___8 ай бұрын
what video is that?
@fionagallagherapologist59688 ай бұрын
i mean, anything can make you sad? thats what happens when you get emotionally attached to anything or anyone. female friendships are beautiful, you just need to find the right people.
@SamCarlito9 ай бұрын
I was just feeling a bit down but when I saw you I'm now happy without even watching the first minute yet Knowing you in this lifetime is such a blessing
@Andrea-zv3up9 ай бұрын
Right!!!!! She is blessing us with the knowledge that will save generations from trauma and burden!!!!
@water9baby9729 ай бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree . Think she's some sort of high ranking Angel or something... definitely otherworldly 👌
@jt3059 ай бұрын
wisdom of shera is the best 🎉🎉
@peytonbusby3249 ай бұрын
Ong shera cheer me up everytime!
@water9baby9729 ай бұрын
@@peytonbusby324 yes huni
@katiataggarta19149 ай бұрын
Listening to Shera is like attending college, ‘cause she’s really delivering Masterclasses !! 🙌
@thuglife-po5ys9 ай бұрын
facts make me think of my professor speaking through powerpoints
@marthatowler30578 ай бұрын
“In the meantime…I’ll check my DM’s” 🤣😭
@88.vv18 ай бұрын
After watching sheraseven, here im drinving my own car and about it to buy a 3m house in my country, my husband is seeing me as someone who is worth spending money on and buying a nice home for, because Im asking him for more and more and showing him that i want nice things. I will not settle for less
@danettecook27099 ай бұрын
It worked Shera! Had a feeling I was talking to a dusty &asked him is he sure? I have expensive taste. Does he want me to pick? He sd yes- I picked an expensive place and he unmatched me! Cleared out the dust!! 😂
@ableephraim53449 ай бұрын
Shera's right....I get lots of money from men using my voice, body language and appearance without having to sleep with them
@noanoa89918 ай бұрын
Girl tell us how??? 😩
@ableephraim53448 ай бұрын
@@noanoa8991 just be in your feminine energy, flirt innocently and smile, you'll be surprised how many provider men you'll attract
@KikoModel8 ай бұрын
Young Woman in my 20's, I want to learn and master this. How and where do i start? Thank You
@ableephraim53448 ай бұрын
Be in your feminine energy. Feminine energy attracts a lot to you, esp. the kind of men you desire.flirt confidently and most importantly know your worth
@stephanieh54787 ай бұрын
Are men really that stupid?
@lexingtonwright34269 ай бұрын
Look at the shoppingcenter then look back at him 😂
@tinyking118 ай бұрын
🤣😂😂💀💀
@ZayPacaso-l1p8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@alexandriat59507 ай бұрын
😭😭😭
@gemini86204 ай бұрын
😅😂
@michellemeiburg6399 ай бұрын
I have learned that all men are “narcissistic”. It just depends on what other personality traits they have.
@rickimcfarland22698 ай бұрын
I agree. They are predators too. Never let them see you sweat
@CallHerBrittney8 ай бұрын
😂😂 I’m starting to realize this
@KingDayDayDay008 ай бұрын
Yeah you keep telling yourself that 😂
@LilithsErrand7 ай бұрын
@@KingDayDayDay00 u scared we know :D -- sucks to be a dusty!
@user-kp3rc4eq8x7 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@ringoisacandyapple9 ай бұрын
She has me so entertained 😂
@Dijasrealmm8 ай бұрын
😂❤ same!
@Pthealchemist7 ай бұрын
No me, I’m literally taking notes LMAO and laughing
@lalailm3 ай бұрын
@@Pthealchemistme too!! Im like “lol gurl u crazy” ✍️✍️
@cleo92978 ай бұрын
Loved you since i was 18! I’m 23 now and couldn’t thank you enough. I see my dusty friends and family struggling and i just be like wow! It could all be so simple
@eugepretussole75548 ай бұрын
Hey cleo! I’m 19 atm and I find it hard to find a boyfriend now as I want to date to marry (a provider) and all I see in college are boys my same age, inmature and I am not attracted to them and their dustiness. Did you have the same problem? I need someone young to give me some advice😅
@amila7758 ай бұрын
calling you family and friends dusty is CRAZYYYYY🤣
@camplo7778 ай бұрын
If theyre ur family & friends why are they dusty???
@chimchimshit19368 ай бұрын
@@eugepretussole7554 Hey I have the exact same problem I’m 21 and everyone around me is a dusty I am about to graduate uni and I haven’t found 1 decent guy in my area at all. I think it’s best to try to travel to different areas saying that it’s hard especially if you still in education.
@RealU1788 ай бұрын
@@eugepretussole7554 Hey girl i’m 18 and i also had the same problem but i got some advice lately that changed the game for me so basically i became friends with this girl who got me a job working at a country club so i’m constantly around wealthy men! and she told me the best thing is to think of yourself as a hvm where would you go? what would you do? you want to invest in getting into the wealthy crowds and areas. my biggest mistake was being a home body, girl you got to get out there! in the past i would just depend on instagram but most of the dustys are on there especially the young immature guys who we want to AVOID! think classy and sophisticated! NO clubs, most wealthy guys don’t even drink! examples are High end gyms luxury stores kentucky derby luxury resorts open houses wherever your area is find the wealthy spots! i’ve even walked my dog around harvard university just looking for hvms and found some! so my advice would be to get out there💕
@rili91174 ай бұрын
Y’all I always appreciated shera, I don’t agree with everything she says BUT I used two techniques of hers ONCE and I got a whole bouquet from a two day talking stage LISTEN TO HER SHE KNOWS WHATS UP
@andrazamfirescu17563 ай бұрын
What are those 2 techniques?
@maretsaevellyn26243 ай бұрын
tell us what 2 techniques are?
@sannyvain71969 ай бұрын
I did all of this on our first date and had him spend $1k after a week. Once he mentioned sex I got another one 😂
@legallycurvy9 ай бұрын
yes this box is on lock. I value myself so much I dont even think ill give it to my future husband for anything less than my OWN condo in MY name in addition to the house him and I will live in
@tequilabumbum43738 ай бұрын
Did you ask him directly for the 1000k?
@TIAOFNEBULA8 ай бұрын
That was not smart... you could have delayed it an told him you have a rule not to sleep wih men that you are not in a commited relationship with... how long have you been watching shera lol
@veronicajata31218 ай бұрын
@@TIAOFNEBULA I don't think she slept w/him lol
@sannyvain71968 ай бұрын
@@TIAOFNEBULA He just sent me $300 yesterday for groceries and I still got me another one. Men always come back
@Tynadia9998 ай бұрын
Being in the head too much: masculine Being in the body: feminine 🥰
@ZurizoltanАй бұрын
Nadia! Lmaooo
@Tynadia999Ай бұрын
@ 😂😂😂 u here tooooo
@angelabraham70969 ай бұрын
Facts... who would lay with men that fast....dating is just dating....lunch..dancing.. dinner. Brunch....
@shireensaroea9468 ай бұрын
Who would lay with them at all. Not I, says the wise lady .
@angelabraham70968 ай бұрын
YES, THAT WAS MY POINT
@Luxiouriousprettyme7 ай бұрын
Lots of girls lay with them same night. Or in 48 hours..some invite them to their home sleep qirh them cook for them then same men ve in my dm asking why would a girl do that...gosh
@londonblues70706 ай бұрын
I wish i knew about you Shera in my 20's all these tips would have been so helpful...but I'm listening and taking notes now that Im older. You are the best one of my favorite mentors right now.
@The_MissPerfect8 ай бұрын
On my way to my date rn listening to this to really finesse when I arrive
@GoddessAries9 ай бұрын
This video came right on time! I have a date next weekend with a 61 year old potential. Definitely using these tips, thanks Shera 🙌🏾❤️
@Amandaaaaaa1239 ай бұрын
Where did you meet him?🙏🏼
@GoddessAries9 ай бұрын
Hinge lol. I ppl talk bad about online dating but my schedule is too crazy for just in person free styling, so I’ve been doing both 😊
@Amandaaaaaa1239 ай бұрын
@@GoddessAries Nice thanks!
@jt3059 ай бұрын
@@ellefaitdesvideos1619same and nothing happens sometimes, also got mistaken as a hooker sometimes
@tinyking118 ай бұрын
@@GoddessAriesThat’s where I met my older man too. 🔥😅 He loves spending on me. He bought us front row concert tickets to see Maxwell on our first date and we haven’t even had secx yet.
@khayntamo9 ай бұрын
Todays makeup and hair ? Oh Shera you’re taking it 😍
@holywear268 ай бұрын
Men assume you aren’t married because the other men they listen to aren’t! They’re single!!!
Your videos helped me so much last year, got me finally stepping out of my pickmeisha hood 🎉
@Fairytypepokemon555Ай бұрын
I am truly grateful for Shera, her wisdom and knowledge.
@blurry5995 ай бұрын
The men in these comments are not the target . The desired masculine men are out succeeding, running businesses, on their phone on their investment apps, traveling or dating leveled up women, reaching their goals. Not on female content videos putting others desires down. If you’re triggered about topics of dusty men and you’re a man… you feel like you fit the description and that’s why you get offended. I can watch a man on a video as well and watch him teach men how to use women and their bodies and not give nothing in return and put femininity down and guess what? No offense taken. I’m not the type of woman they are speaking about so those videos do not apply so it really can’t bother me. Men seriously if this content is offensive to you it’s just the wrong channel for you if highly triggered.
@zarib65818 ай бұрын
Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨ thank you Shera! I’m trying this on my next date. I’m 23 and I date older men 30+ and up. This is what I needed.
@imanuellamooy53206 ай бұрын
This class is priceless🙏🏻
@TheJasmincika7 ай бұрын
You are so funny, I' m dying listening to your advice , I mean the way you present it like I'm watching some comedy😂
@sandram60686 ай бұрын
Your body language is priceless! Thank you for all your wonderful advice 🙏🏻🥰
@adelante39388 ай бұрын
this is one of your best videos honestly
@baybekin929410 күн бұрын
Thanks
@Christmas-gv4hv9 ай бұрын
The shopping part… Hilarious 😂😂. Will try it ❤
@knownpretty9 ай бұрын
Your so pretty mam, that eye contact sent me lol😊😍
@lul_lora11959 ай бұрын
Me too. Idk why it made me laugh so much 🤣
@kristalc.28093 ай бұрын
"He's the opposite of dust. He's like sprinkles... like glitter, shka sh sh" 😂
@sabrinarene69099 ай бұрын
best video this pisces szn YET!!!
@legallycurvy9 ай бұрын
its Aries season now happy new solar year 😍
@FunkyBruja9 ай бұрын
That thumbnail is giving all the sprinkles and then some!💰💰💰💰💰💰💰🤑
@BooyouwhOoore9 ай бұрын
Not the thumbnail giving -Okay, Ms. girllllll, you better serve, guh!😍😍😍 So flipppng gorgeous.
@sinentokozosibeko36759 ай бұрын
I’m glad I learnt about the different seduction styles because This method is definitely not standard… excel in who you are and your own personality because this type of seduction is not my style I don’t know how to flirt like this and there’s men who appreciate the otherwise just chemistry… my 2cent
@poppy-bc4vf9 ай бұрын
Yes I have different styles too. I use then when I’m having fun with certain ones. I’m curious What’s your style ?
@yk-who-it-is8 ай бұрын
Yup!!!
@lizz83428 ай бұрын
What’s really amazing about your videos is how funny you are 😭 you are absolutely hilarious
@paulats26927 ай бұрын
There's something in the way that she speaks
@Qurantiktok20249 ай бұрын
Definitely gonna use those tricks in my date next week 🤞🏻🤞🏻❤️🔥
@FudgeTheGoddess9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 not Shera doing the Doe eyes chile😂 Yes Goddess! I'm here for it #playbackgang
@tabathaterry29989 ай бұрын
Men in their 20s= grown boys
@nunyabizness70199 ай бұрын
20s 30s and 40s
@bbygirl83639 ай бұрын
men*
@dayinibatrisyia54248 ай бұрын
Some 30s also
@anitragilmore32397 ай бұрын
40s are like the 20s for men
@jns35848 ай бұрын
Sheera’s reccomended subliminals: I’m the best. I do whatever I want. I get whatever I want. Men always get me money. Men do what I want. (Treat them like you want them to respond).
@sarahedwards1569 ай бұрын
SHERA you’re so unhinged 😂😅
@persianprincessxo15397 ай бұрын
Girl, I had my man taking me to Vegas, buying me Cartier, Balenciaga, Fendi, Dior, etc. Don’t be too emotional like you’ve never gotten anything before, but work it!!!!
@thebffshow60955 ай бұрын
Is he Persian too
@Anna_Banana1235 ай бұрын
Go girl!
@hannahssssssssssssssssss9 ай бұрын
u spit facts in this video fr🎉🎉
@annas3658 ай бұрын
Our teacher master🙏🙏🙏
@MrsGenealogy-vp7ej9 ай бұрын
Shopping as a sport😂😂😂
@veronicarios5679 ай бұрын
The acting HAAHHAAHHA omg
@ASMRSimonaHair9 ай бұрын
Ooou the part with prostitution is so brilliant ❤ so true
@maretsaevellyn26243 ай бұрын
😂if somebody said its sounds prostitution, its only prostitution if u cant get them for free
@Libertiffy8 ай бұрын
Any advice for women looking to save themselves til marriage??
@lc-il6wr6 ай бұрын
Rich shera showing off her wealth in the background..
@peta19862 ай бұрын
That’s not wealth hun, lol. Its called comfortable
@Chernelobear099 ай бұрын
Sprinkle sprinkle
@sincyerejones32629 ай бұрын
I absolutely ❤ Shera .....but...... I never understood the I'm boarding three or four dogs thing......what happens when he asks WHERE THE DOGS AT ???😂😂😂
@CoachAdeja8 ай бұрын
They died in an accident or you gave them away because it became too expensive 😢
@arlitastrose21988 ай бұрын
😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉😊@@CoachAdeja
@sincyerejones32623 ай бұрын
@@CoachAdejanice try 😂 but if you board them on the plane when your going on a trip....they would have had to die on the plane lol
@ddeandreag3 ай бұрын
Right 7:52 match energy!
@ButAVapor6 ай бұрын
Im late, but Im focusing on one man. He's more willing to pay for what I want instead of giving me money for it. He either likes gifting me after hearing what I talk about wanting or he likes being with me to buy it for me. Should i be satisfied with that at least? Hes chased me for years.
@divinemaquillage88585 ай бұрын
The word play is on point 😂 Im am a sponge right now.
@truthteller9949 ай бұрын
I’m 😂😂😂😂 She She for president
@twystedworld584Ай бұрын
The hardest part for me is coming out and saying what I want when the timing is right.
@laurenrestrepo98557 ай бұрын
As someone who thinks exactly like this it’s hilarious because men really are just some simple creatures 😂😂😂
@bookwarmtee775012 күн бұрын
I'm in the talking stage with a guy. He told me that he is dating other women. I answered "I hope so, this is the process that gets you to your person" Yesterday he said to me that " maybe I just need to focus on what is present and active going well" insinuating for me to focus on him.
@palesamotingoe59058 ай бұрын
I’m laughing so much 😂
@prodigiobeautyshop32588 ай бұрын
Amo tu contendido, gracias por tan valioso ❤
@wiztlyketzaly8 ай бұрын
how ironic lmfao that’s my step fathers name and neighbors fathers name 😂
@useryoutube0012 ай бұрын
the staring 😭😭😂
@dullpoint10727 ай бұрын
Not me practicing in the mirror
@nijaheva15113 ай бұрын
your so brilliant omg
@theetravelhippie9 ай бұрын
This is hilarious, I enjoy you so much
@rachaelheelan81218 ай бұрын
I reckon here advice is true: just takes courage.
@kimberlywilkie64148 ай бұрын
He might be too young, but with this info, I’m going to train him to be the man I’m looking for ayoooo
@precious-s4l5 ай бұрын
Seems you are new here…we don’t train boys how to be men…go find a real man outside
@kiachevon15639 ай бұрын
I got a new phone I need to put your lives on notifications
@jessejamesgirl8 ай бұрын
How do you deal with a man who brings up sex on the first date or first convo
@rickimcfarland22698 ай бұрын
He's probably a dud but I'll let someone else give their insight. I get turned off when men do that but some women know what to say/do in that situation..
@tinyking118 ай бұрын
Bring up money 🥴🤷🏽♀️ They won’t bring up secx again. Lol
@arlitastrose21988 ай бұрын
Shera did say to tell them, there is a friend he would be interested in😂😂😂😂😂
@angelm3477 ай бұрын
take him to the bathroom and have fun with him and the waiter that way you’ll get a free meal and you’ll impress the guy that you went out with
@theenaturalmystic9 ай бұрын
Here on the daily changing mind sets 🎉 sprinkle sprinkle thanks Shera
@brittanycirillo94649 ай бұрын
Very much needed this video lmaoo ❤❤thank ya
@sophia-luciakwon27925 ай бұрын
you're such a smart lady Sheera wow!!!
@olyam4569 ай бұрын
Jeorgeeee😂🤣🤣🤣👀
@db44499 ай бұрын
Ain't that the truth!! If you're a Great Seductress ... Do what you have to.... And he DAMN sure forgives Always 😘 *Be Bold*
@ljkoch9 ай бұрын
what about if they are complaining about other women or complaining about money?
@jessixbr19999 ай бұрын
Complain about his brokeness and get another one
@jatzirymartinez94419 ай бұрын
Girl that’s a dusty
@sadelorraine84378 ай бұрын
Dusty men always complain about what women did to them and the money they don’t have. It’s their way of getting you to pity them and lower your standards. Don’t fall for it. Pretend you feel sorry if you must and just keep it pushing.
@GrimReaper-mq7kr7 ай бұрын
Don’t bother. Waste of time and energy.
@Curanderaa8 ай бұрын
Pen and paper
@Livinginmythoughtss8 ай бұрын
32:12 this made me laugh haha 😂😂
@Dapi-rm2zm7 ай бұрын
Well I clearly need to get more in my feminine mode
@browniee1278 ай бұрын
You really be having me crack up! Thank you
@lilambe9 ай бұрын
You are looking stunning 😍
@Ivana-m2o9 ай бұрын
OMG ❤️🔥! You look so gorgeous 🤌🏻💋✨!
@chethsze9 ай бұрын
shera ive been whatching your videos for like 2 3 months and i really enjoy to learn from a seasoned woman im obsessed👀😌 but one thing make this really hard that sometimes i can't hear some of your words because youre a little far from camera or what you using to film so if you can fix this i would be reaaaaaaaaally grateful💖🎀
@MursalRahimi-n7q9 ай бұрын
Your best ❤
@nyladavis11986 ай бұрын
does anybody know if coffee dates are a hard no? like if it’s just something like coffee, boba or a quick eat should i still be like “this date is so perfect blah blah?
@Zuzuky-vt3ly5 ай бұрын
No
@polly71414 ай бұрын
no they’ll probably take those small dates a run with them. use that for some nice dinner dates ❤️
@mrsp58088 ай бұрын
hey shera is the oil sold out when I hit the link it says unavailable but I don't even see the product at all?
@honeyimhosting8 ай бұрын
Do you still go on dates as a married woman? 35:00 is that important to you at this point?
@charliebharlie16218 ай бұрын
She said no in another video. She got her husband n business.