‘When a women says don’t worry about it, that means she will find another man’.
@jayObv Жыл бұрын
This the first comment I saw and yes it’s exactly what the fuck it mean lmao
@hillsideonly Жыл бұрын
Your terms are acceptable.
@dasanigalbreath4247 Жыл бұрын
Does this go for men as well
@lavishlivin9287 Жыл бұрын
@@jayObv😅 right no games
@haitiqueen0119 Жыл бұрын
She's really implying she's had enough and ready to move on to bigger and better things whether that resorts to another man or being single.
@gravitalis Жыл бұрын
You’re changing the world, I swear. Men are offering me things left and right.
@templeofgoddess713 Жыл бұрын
@@Tetris-le4trwhat complaint did she make?😂😂illiterate first bunny
@AyannaWalker-bf4pc Жыл бұрын
@@Tetris-le4trshutup you bozo she didn’t complain you mad that you can’t provide 😢
@CornellG Жыл бұрын
Not the Cheesecake Factory guy.
@samanthachildress1091 Жыл бұрын
@@Tetris-le4trwhat are you even doing here 😂
@josephpenigar5722 Жыл бұрын
I would like to encourage more men to view these type of channels, so they can see the satanic nature of you type of women. This is not being a man’s rib. And you relationships will not last
@ringoisacandyapple Жыл бұрын
The harder someone works to bring you down or humble you, the more scared they are of you. Trust me, you scare them and I remind them of all they lack inside lol
@carolnyaga1714 Жыл бұрын
❤
@made43210 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Reminds me of a guy I was getting to know 😂 He hated my confidence low key
@cassanix90939 ай бұрын
Facts
@cassanix90939 ай бұрын
Facts
@bizzare_dating_stories9 ай бұрын
Yep. I was a dating an EXECUTIVE who openly admitted he was terrified of me and he tried to humble me any time he thought he could and baby, 🗣️HE COULDN’T!
@ErinDeNis Жыл бұрын
In 30 years there will be an award winning documentary film about Shera and her contribution to shifting societal paradigms. It’s gonna be epic. I already see it.
@thehypergamousjourney Жыл бұрын
Yas!!!
@ErinDeNis Жыл бұрын
@@thehypergamousjourney Cardi B’s daughter will play her in the docuseries
@CinematicGriotCollective Жыл бұрын
It’s not going to take 30 years. I give it 5 max
@patriciaburtescu Жыл бұрын
🙌🏻
@proletvladimirova828 Жыл бұрын
She’s a diamond! 💎
@LeonaWorldwide Жыл бұрын
Everytime a man opens his mouth to speak you, he is running game. If you keep that foundational knowledge in mind, you'll move accordingly and win more, ladies. Thank you, Shera!! My spirit guide fr 😂
@tikaroxanne7286 Жыл бұрын
I promise this is the truth 💯💯 I say always assume everything a man says is a lie lol because most likely it is . But never let them know you are onto to them just play the game right along with them and benefit in anyway you can.
@RoxyCherryRozy Жыл бұрын
@@deboii100We know ur tricks silence
@zunaritoxiden Жыл бұрын
@@deboii100you’re just angry you can’t control people anymore
@Supachosen Жыл бұрын
@@deboii100nah feel sorry for the men who will end up lonely 😂
@silverkitty2503 Жыл бұрын
can he run game if you dont let him speak?? hmm
@kathryn428 Жыл бұрын
Learn the art of detachment. Women need to stop attaching themselves to men who don't attach themselves to you. Be completely detached which allows you to focus on what you wants and if they can't comply your not pressed your not attach emotionally so you move on to the next. Unbothered!
@JC-yv8bs11 ай бұрын
This right here is the key
@KatalinaKris11 ай бұрын
Exactly!! Detachment is our friend. Allows us to move on to bigger better things 🎉
@vivianamieres10 ай бұрын
❤
@samanthaj78409 ай бұрын
Yes ma'am.
@nele88888 ай бұрын
😉☀️😅@@KatalinaKris
@aurora8749 Жыл бұрын
I'm just going to say if a man asks you aggressive, belittling questions like, "What do you bring to the table?" Do not give them the chance to backtrack. Get up and walk out because that is an insecure boy who will make you suffer. They don't bring anything to the table and that's why they're asking what they can get from you.
@UniquelyYanique Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@daniellemillis Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@dezmondperry6339 Жыл бұрын
Exactly I am learning not to ask about body count, I am learning not to ask about what a woman brings to the table. It is just dumb. Just get to know her. If a woman asks me about how much money I make or to expects me to pay for the first date. I am walking away. Cause really we are trying to get to know each other. Enjoy the company that we bring to each other we need to match our energies. Do not ask about body count do not ask about what she brings to the table. Do not ask about my bank account do not expect me to pay for the first date. Traditional is just stupid everybody needs to chill and vibe.
@ceyciemateo9411 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@4LuvThySelf Жыл бұрын
Thks for sharing this
@victoriab940511 ай бұрын
“Desperation makes people want to exploit you even more” wise words to remember.
@terresa55 Жыл бұрын
so true.. men absolutely can't stand when you don't need them or pay attention to them
@PreciousOtaigbe Жыл бұрын
What if he gives me money buh no attention what do I do?
@brianna094 Жыл бұрын
@@PreciousOtaigbeLeave. He's basically paying you to have s*x and stick around. My "bf" just broke it off after doing the same thing and the whole time I wondered why we didn't talk more during the day, etc
@lagemmasims Жыл бұрын
@@PreciousOtaigbecontinue to enjoy the monetary benefits! Get attention from the other men that you’re dating. ☺️
@dreamkitty Жыл бұрын
@@PreciousOtaigbeyou’re in the perfect situation. get his money and go find you somebody you connect with 😂
@PreciousOtaigbe Жыл бұрын
@@dreamkitty buh he keeps ghosting me I’m tired of double texting just to ask for money I ghosted him bck kos I feel my self respect comes first
@emilytowry Жыл бұрын
I wish I would have had someone like you when I was a teenager. Would have saved me from sooooo much trauma from men.
@kssgpv Жыл бұрын
i avoid men and i don't have trauma from them, this is the only solution.
@bagels3050 Жыл бұрын
same
@sharonjoan9997 Жыл бұрын
Me too. Though my mama told me all men want is my body she didn’t go further with why our bodies are so valuable. How attached we get from sleeping w a man and how easily men use and discard
@tijeraslack3 Жыл бұрын
It would have saved me as well.
@Kuriouskitty-mz3qx Жыл бұрын
Yesss❤❤❤❤❤
@SonyaKhanOfficial Жыл бұрын
Even if they send money, you don’t owe em shit😂
@venusrx4671 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! 💖
@hillsideonly Жыл бұрын
I'm not beating your method, but there's a reason "provider" men are rare, and this is one of them. I can only encourage y'all to keep doing that.
@venusrx4671 Жыл бұрын
@@hillsideonly They are rare in your experience. You need to stop hanging with bums.
@callmemayhem6366 Жыл бұрын
Stuff like this is why I have zero pity when these men out here take advantage of you back. You objectify another human - you deserve it.
@justinebailey5333 Жыл бұрын
Right
@Liz-ic6jb Жыл бұрын
The last time I guy asked me for pics, I sent him a picture of a refrigerator from Home Depot 🤣. He was so confused.
@xoxogemvenus Жыл бұрын
Lmao I’m gonna use that!
@annamanansala2773 Жыл бұрын
😂❤
@Kevagoddess Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 like Sir pay for the refrigerator
@bossydiva707 Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤣
@1luvlylola Жыл бұрын
🤣
@SheRaSeven1 Жыл бұрын
y’all read the men’s comments …. they are still clueless and mad….. also they have poverty mind .
@gravityclarity Жыл бұрын
Lol. They don't know you're married and wealthy.😂
@FLYPAPERISH11 ай бұрын
a man thats not with the back and forth.. went forth not lookin back..
@feels1510 Жыл бұрын
the white house back drop is sending me 🤣
@SA-ny6ib Жыл бұрын
Shera for president!.
@eljofrva10 ай бұрын
I was seriously thinking she’s a judge 😂
@medusake29268 ай бұрын
Sending us to they bank accounts 😹🙌🏽
@jenniferburton70446 ай бұрын
She’s always telling us to use Photoshop and Ai 😂😂😂😂😂
@argates6507Ай бұрын
@@eljofrvait's the dark clothing. It looks kinda like judicial robes.
@414_kiaraaa39 ай бұрын
I just stop dealing with these men all together … I’m not interested in the games they play anymore
@mihraz479 ай бұрын
4B baby
@ShaliiynSki08 Жыл бұрын
Guys try to talk to me wherever I am, mall, grocery store, walking outside, etc. I just ignore because I know they’re Dustys. This one guy approached me today wearing socks and flip-flops. I simply just walked away didn’t even say nothing to him. Do not approach me if you look like you can’t pay my bills!!
@zakiacamillo2988 Жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@Amethyst454 Жыл бұрын
Hey girl. Make sure you look like they cannot afford you - classy, not bright colored and loud labels clothes and complicated nails and unnatural looking hair.
@alivanessa134 Жыл бұрын
Girl, I’m 21 whenever a man tries to talk to me I automatically say dusty the fashion isn’t mathing I walk the other direction
@natividadramirez4696 Жыл бұрын
Fr & he will just move on to the next basic other b
@Exoticbarbie. Жыл бұрын
Girl, a guy approached me telling me he didnt brush his teeth this morning so he doesnt want to talk to me at close range. But he had to approach me , cause he couldnt let me get away
@maribani Жыл бұрын
I’m blown away by how accurate this is about showing up for yourself always. I got dolled up to meet a online date and when I didn’t want to enter his apartment before the dinner he ghosted me. So I went out by myself and bumped into the new guy I’m dating. Couldn’t of worked out any better 🎉
@Girlwithapurse039 ай бұрын
That's so creepy.. ew that first guy's intention was really to try and get you into bed yikes! So scary he could have overpowered you in his apartment. Glad you said no! 🙌🏼🙏🏼
@6tgugyuoil7 ай бұрын
Same thing happened to me, blocked the guy, and ended up going out with my backup n had a great time! 😊
@alaberegrace279 Жыл бұрын
Men play psychological games most of the time… this is done to know if you deserve their respect or not. When you start dishing out everything about your past and things you have done. *they have got it* Ladies let’s all be smart… getting the bag is the most important..Thank you Shera
@heliana25 Жыл бұрын
men played psychological games since the start of the world. They play psychological games all these centuries through
@iaf4454 Жыл бұрын
@@heliana25 lets play better than them.... sprinkle sprinkle 🌟🌟
@prettykitty5416 Жыл бұрын
This is why you should NEVER disclose too much info. Even to your own husband. So many women lack mystery. He’s not gonna disclose all his past wrong doings so why should you? Always keep him wondering and curious.
@wasimdbala3499 ай бұрын
@@prettykitty5416 😂😂😂😂😂 any luck yet?
@tiktokfamous34464 ай бұрын
@@heliana25 I want to be lesbian so bad
@str8jenn.nochaser Жыл бұрын
If a man says you're mid tell him that's why u went for him... women date down bc looks aren't as important to women 😅
@Emptytopfloor Жыл бұрын
Or dump him. Say you’ve got other options who think you’re hot.
@Mimi-kf8ey Жыл бұрын
Whenever a man calls me mid online I usually tell them they ain't even reaching mid they in the negatives shut they asses right up 😂
@Truthspeakerrrrrr Жыл бұрын
@@Emptytopfloorher comment was better.
@Girlwithapurse039 ай бұрын
This is when you tell him that he's broke.. remember their money hurts their feelings
@Cat-es9rq5 ай бұрын
Profound 😊
@ninawestlake14 Жыл бұрын
You are a flippin' genius, especially the part of creating doubt within the woman to break her. I wish you were my sister. We are so much alike in thinking.
@pamulahwilliams1744 Жыл бұрын
Sweetie Pie, she is your utube sister, Sprinkle, Sprinkle!!🎉🎉😇👍.
@haitiqueen0119 Жыл бұрын
You're better off being single now a days, folks are either traumatized by their past and not quite sane OR have a hidden agenda and its not to say that applies to everyone of course, that's the case with vast majority today. Moral of the story- Preserve your time and energy☝️#StAyWoKe
@themoonbleu627 Жыл бұрын
Facts !
@HONEYLOVE-v4l Жыл бұрын
You're not lying at all
@Whatever11117 Жыл бұрын
Mannnnn listen 💯💯
@mikaylajoelle4249 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could express how real this comment is. If anyone ever sees this , please PLEASE believe it.
@strega_babeharestreets233911 ай бұрын
Seeking help males & pickmes’
@TooPrettiShow Жыл бұрын
Yes ma'am next time I'm ASKED for pics I NEVER agree to send... I ALWAYS say NO! but THIS TIME imma say Yeah 😁 and send pictures of EVERYTHING I WANT AND NEED lol thank you SHERA☺️ SPRINKLE SPRINKLE 💋
@Tatianarain Жыл бұрын
I just take a snapshot of my dp and send. But I like this better
@nanaamakyerewaa6656 Жыл бұрын
Afyer taking the pics and sending to them what do you say?
@TooPrettiShow Жыл бұрын
@@nanaamakyerewaa6656 I'm not finna say anything... I just wanna know what he buying or getting first...if he doesn't respond to the pictures I sent... BLOCKED!!!!
@TooPrettiShow Жыл бұрын
Just like when they don't get what they want from us... They move on to the next 😅 It's our time 😉
@msch3891 Жыл бұрын
🤣 🧔🏾😛:Send some pics 👩🏾💻: 🎁🛍🛍🛍🥘🍡🍏🗽🗼🏰🍱🏎🏖🌇🕌⛴🛥✈🇯🇲🇬🇧🇪🇪🎫🩱👝🛍🛍👛📿💍💎💰🍱
@RadicalforGod Жыл бұрын
When guys want me to send pics, i say lets wait until you take me out, we can take pics and make memories together. Lol
@parisjej Жыл бұрын
nah i don’t want to take pictures with them either. He can take a picture of me though
@Opbabyyx Жыл бұрын
noted
@jmc1111_ Жыл бұрын
I swear I watch shera solely for confirmation that I’m moving right in these dating streets and that she taught me well 💅🏾
@MsCeCe-lt1zg Жыл бұрын
Me too!!!
@WisdomConfetti Жыл бұрын
Yes! She won’t lead us wrong!
@Aleena_McLean11 ай бұрын
Yes ! Had to coem listen to her after some dusty was trying to trip me up lmfaoo
@thehypergamousjourney Жыл бұрын
Shera said “I’m enough for myself.” No offense to anyone. I hollered. That’s the “main character energy” she talks about.
@WilliamCo-oy7ge5 ай бұрын
Got a older man 57 years old. Rich. Wants to fly me out to hang out an event with him but won’t buy me the appropriate attire to be there with him. Hard pass! Spending 300$ for flight And 400$ hotel is not showing me he is appreciative of me being arm candy to show all his friends Nope 👎🏽
@stacemo Жыл бұрын
I never understood why women sent pics!!! I always send a cashapp request. They will leave you alone. Lol
@deejaemma90216 ай бұрын
😂
@keepsit100atalltime9 Жыл бұрын
Sadly, older men can be immature too.
@caitlindavies12787 ай бұрын
Yes they usually are
@anamikapa55344 ай бұрын
Yeah that's true
@anamikapa55344 ай бұрын
Getting older doesn't make em wiser
@stephaniec9355 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 The fact that she’s dressed like a judge
@Cubandragon99 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@user-ez9tz4vt4g Жыл бұрын
I didn’t notice until I read this hahaha
@ddarubienotadiamond Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ivaslife Жыл бұрын
LMAO
@BlossomFlower285 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂🫠order in the court 😅
@marhsantana3881 Жыл бұрын
if he asks "are you going out with other people (guys)?" you resond "why? are you?"
@alivanessa134 Жыл бұрын
Say yes because he then wants to be the winner
@flattery1111 Жыл бұрын
@@alivanessa134True. This also weeds out the dusties because broke men are also usually too lazy to work for a woman’s affection the way he should.✨
@Styledbykurryious9 ай бұрын
Say yes 😂 ! And that you’re trying to see who you like more , which is the truth. But they get all competitive and try to impress you because they see it as a game / chase
@iamReptar7 ай бұрын
And even then, once you have him, still make hom KNOW you are free spirited bird that cannot be caged and and lioness that will not be tamed. For some reason, men cheat on the con trad wife and work harder for the biotches. So being nice and feminine and complaint gets you nowhere
@alexiswaddle47775 ай бұрын
"Maybe, is that a deal-breaker for you?" And smile.
@EricaExploreIslandTours8 ай бұрын
I remember a BOY MAN asked me "What do you bring to the table" I continued to be in the space only to realize, how much I was trying to prove myself that I was the one. BIGGEST MISTAKE
@haleyglossinn Жыл бұрын
anytime they ask me for a “pic” i always tell them to follow my social media and they can see all my photos on there 😂 definitely not sending them a picture they crazy 😂
@Queen-ConsciousYa Жыл бұрын
Lol I used to say I can show you a pic on my phone 😂😂
@haleyglossinn Жыл бұрын
@@Queen-ConsciousYa lmfao 😂 as you should babe
@ultravioletpisces3666 Жыл бұрын
50 bucks 😂😂😂
@domminiquewalker7042 Жыл бұрын
Or send a fake 1 😜
@argates6507Ай бұрын
Send a picture of a really pretty necklace and the link where they can buy it.
@megkeepit1005 Жыл бұрын
" Would you date a bisexual man? You mean a man that's been to prison? "🤣 hilarious. thoroughly enjoying this video !!
@Reree2229 ай бұрын
What😭😭😭
@Wizard-Girl95 ай бұрын
The answer to that is Hell Fucking No!!
@Outofbounds7Ай бұрын
😂😂
@hgh495 Жыл бұрын
my favorite flex is saying i have to go to the bathroom & never coming back if any little thing is said to me that i feel is even remotely disrespectful on a date with a man. thats what i would do if a man ever asked me what i bring to the table ✌️
@anka6356 Жыл бұрын
Unless it's winter
@hgh495 Жыл бұрын
@@anka6356 i’ll abandon a man in any season ❄️🌤️🌧️☀️⛄️🔥
@peachesandpoets Жыл бұрын
@@anka6356Uber run in all seasons
@Angelface_16 Жыл бұрын
@@anka6356I drive myself to the date so I can leave whenever 😆
@karynmaddox93976 ай бұрын
@@Angelface_16 always
@tarahbruno3793 Жыл бұрын
“ send me a picture of some money”😂. I felt that, I hate when they ask for pics. I leave them on read
@pallana37019 ай бұрын
They ask for the pic so they can whack off to them be careful with ur beautiful pics
@bubus6827 ай бұрын
Send me Pic of ur bank account lol
@essiethebestie14 ай бұрын
Same
@youssraansouri64509 ай бұрын
i'm glad o found shera in my 20's
@mayfairmoore4518Ай бұрын
U lucky 😂😂😂
@law11school11girly11 ай бұрын
“Stop falling for these okey dokes” so true “they want you at a discount… but they can’t have you” ❤❤❤
@sindisiwekay3661 Жыл бұрын
Slowly coming out of my pickmesha era. wish i learnt about you 10 years ago😢
@chayo4537 Жыл бұрын
Yall talking smack about pickmeishas and pick mes when you guys are glossy in that era. It takes one to know one.
@sindisiwekay3661 Жыл бұрын
@@chayo4537 whatever go & stay mad!
@Goddessjccabeza Жыл бұрын
Better late then never girllll. Just come out fast not slowly
@K.Shandi-fq9uq Жыл бұрын
girl yes smh. low key feels its too late
@Zombina638 Жыл бұрын
That is not something u should be exposing urself on the internet babes😂 gn
@IndiGeaux Жыл бұрын
Shera stays dropping wisdom and facts. Sprinkle, sprinkle. ✨
@IndiGeaux Жыл бұрын
@@Tetris-le4tr It’s better to be single single than with a dusty dusty.
@ninagh7057 Жыл бұрын
Fools only believe promises!!! ❤ just believe “actions ”!!! Sprinkle sprinkle 🎊 🎉
@thummbuhlina Жыл бұрын
SheraSeven for President! In Shera We Trust.
@TM-nb9zf Жыл бұрын
Its so funny. I had a guy act like he was so interested in me But once he saw how much money i spent on myself he realized he couldn't afford me. I sent him a pic of some $40 shoes ( basic ass converse) i wanted for my bday and he told me he would only buy me things like that once we are together.... 😂😂 i laughed so hard. They were forty dollar shoes and it was my bday. To me that was EXTREMELY REASONABLE for someone i was getting to know for the pass 5 months. But i believe since we weren't having sex he wasn't feeling the gesture 😂 Dusty...cheap.
@nicceym337 Жыл бұрын
Yup, men will white wash u, if they can. Dusties are real real!
@peachesandpoets Жыл бұрын
Omg imagine failing a $40 test. Hahhaha.
@blaccsilverstaff5484 Жыл бұрын
@@peachesandpoetsomg begging for $40 😂 sound like y’all bums
@WisdomConfetti Жыл бұрын
I dumped every guy that tried that. Lol Bye Dusty * sprinkle sprinkle*
@Ktsjay18711 ай бұрын
I'd never buy a girl shoes if we're not even having sex. You are absolutely entitled. You expect to be bought entire presents but wont even give him something that costs nothing. I don't blame him at all, all he did was prevent himself from being exploited by someone that doesn't care for him,
@stoicaanamanuela31198 ай бұрын
What you did to me girl... there is no emotions left, I can't even cry no more...I just want money🙃
@essiethebestie14 ай бұрын
GREAT😁
@mstashstar6 күн бұрын
😂
@nomessnostress10 ай бұрын
She said if you don't know who you are then keep guessing... all facts people... do it as early as you can too... if it means stepping away from family and old friends... do it
@freegame6939 Жыл бұрын
My mama says that “ALWAYS have something else to do” 😂
@TayyyLovvve9 ай бұрын
I need to start standing up for myself and stop being mashed down. I never knew how to detach and not GAF. No wonder I meet all these crappy low grade dudes that say I ask for too much. And most the time I’m asking for the basic shit to maintain a relationship or whatever. Smh I need to do better.
@ms.kalico4489 Жыл бұрын
I never send anyone pics. I say no right away! I don't post pics online and I find it totally insulting to be asked.
@707tich Жыл бұрын
VERY
@getgot3461 Жыл бұрын
What if he doesn't know what u look like at all? Is it still unreasonable for him to ask for a pic? I'm talking regular pics not nudes
@lawonyinye7056 Жыл бұрын
@@getgot3461she has a profile picture.
@gailainsley693911 ай бұрын
What’s their obsession with getting pics? It’s truly |nsane to me 😅
@blackbutterfye9 ай бұрын
@@gailainsley6939 to me it already lets me know 1) he has a collection of different women in his phone and 2) he probably watches too much porn
@mimithestallions Жыл бұрын
My SD ghosted me… I told him he had to pay to get back in
@sobradodelobo Жыл бұрын
Signal to get another one
@xoxotiffanyj4001 Жыл бұрын
How could u even tell him that if he ghosted u
@Mimi-kf8ey Жыл бұрын
@@xoxotiffanyj4001maybe he messaged her after ghosting her out of the blue 😂
@Truthspeakerrrrrr Жыл бұрын
So what, get another. You’re not desperate.
@kikibrown1741 Жыл бұрын
Listening to shera while I do my laundry. Daily affirmations 😅
@kenyaonkoba9713 Жыл бұрын
me currently
@uwishuknewwishbones Жыл бұрын
Yes lol
@Rollingstonee55 Жыл бұрын
I listen to her in the shower or on my drive home from work.
@kenyaonkoba9713 Жыл бұрын
@tookyamanz oh you’re moving DIFFERENT!! i need to do that 😭😭😭😭
@nisg9078 Жыл бұрын
@tookyamanzthis!
@mml9018 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had this advice years ago! I watch this channel AFTER having years of these experiences.
@chayo4537 Жыл бұрын
You guys were lost in the same energy and behaviors you guys talk sh*t about now. And That you're probably still lost in. It's tragic.
@wouldntyouliketoknow873 Жыл бұрын
Wow, this Chayo4537 really on here mad, commenting on every comment. They’re either an angry dusty or lonely pickmeesha!
@sobradodelobo Жыл бұрын
Improve everyday and learn from mistakes nobody is perfect you are not alone gurl
@va9347 Жыл бұрын
same! omg i’ve experienced so much heart ache 🤕
@HeauxlisticLux Жыл бұрын
If a guy wants to reschedule last minute, I just say OK. I never reschedule, when they ask about my availability I just say we'll play it by ear. Which is code for block and delete. You don't get to waste my time. I also never start getting ready or leave to meet until they confirm the day of and also when they are leaving out to the location. Sometimes they are sitting there waiting for me, and I reply "you never let me know you left and I don't like to wait."
@gingerhalo1232 ай бұрын
I do the same. Can’t risk getting ready for nothing
@danimack38 Жыл бұрын
Shera said show up for yourself.
@melloxox111 ай бұрын
@@pocahontas521 4:59
@jadewithan_i10 ай бұрын
Watching Shera is hard but needed. There’s so much I didn’t know, and I’ve acted so sad because my self esteem was low. But now I know better. Thank you Shera!
@ninagh7057 Жыл бұрын
Period … don’t give me financial excuses, give me finances ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@MsLolaTaylor Жыл бұрын
✔️✔️✔️
@whistle_luver9 ай бұрын
I feel dead inside, I don’t understand humans… I feel betrayed to the core, can’t we all be more genuine. Why is it like this? Are ppl really like this?
@whistle_luver9 ай бұрын
Morally I feel disheartened.
@bonvivant37047 ай бұрын
It’s a cold world we live in~ Future
@Ruledbyvenus_7 ай бұрын
Sorry but its much worse..
@kendogg17 ай бұрын
Literally. You are not the only one. It’s hard out here.
@tricetrice2096 Жыл бұрын
A man I just met asked me to send him a picture I told him I don’t send pictures to men I don’t know. ❤
@tiktokfamous34464 ай бұрын
Period
@markoushayes22336 ай бұрын
LMAO I Respect this lady. Women step it up. You are not wrong for having standards. It's ok ladies peace out
@Taurusbaby1993 Жыл бұрын
I just hollered at the short man comment when you said wake up and look down at him while ya bills are paid!!! I’m cryn 😂😂😂😂
@ultravioletpisces36665 ай бұрын
The problem with being desperate is… I’ve been desperate many times but I never knew I was desperate lol
@jenjenk452 Жыл бұрын
I've met a guy like that he asked me for pics before I told him no. I knew he was manipulative, trying to guilt trip me but i didn't know that asking for pics is a psychological trick
@shayemoore Жыл бұрын
Tell him no and leave it at that. No explanation needed.
@beyondallreason-du4pq Жыл бұрын
I didn't know too😂😂😂 but that is as far as they could manipulate me...
@jenjenk452 Жыл бұрын
@shayemoore No, I was just reading some old messages. The dude wasn't a potential interest. It's more like an acquaintance. We just lived in the same dorm while I was in college. Back then, I was desperate to have friends, but even so, I'm actually proud of myself because that little hobbit couldn't manipulate me. Now I'm reading and seeing all his tricks. Guilt tripping and asking for photos. I didn't know that asking for photos is a way of manipulation, too. But seeing how he tried other ways of manipulation, asking for pics must have been one of them.
@shayemoore Жыл бұрын
@@jenjenk452 Ok, I see. That's what they do. They'll try to guilt trip you. Glad you stood your ground😊
@erickwilliam6795 Жыл бұрын
Or...he just wanted photos? Not everything is a trick .
@sisirose9850 Жыл бұрын
I actually ask a man to send me a screenshot of his bank statement… he did lol he had 40 k in his account and thought I would be impressed… I wasn’t
@hannaparkhomenka6360 Жыл бұрын
And what did you do after it 😅
@Opbabyyx Жыл бұрын
did you ask for money
@Truthspeakerrrrrr Жыл бұрын
He has 40 and you need 10
@isagoldenjewels11 ай бұрын
What a loser
@HangLeMinh-xy7kl6 ай бұрын
Hahahaaa just asked for moneyyyyy babyyyyyy
@Fleabag-vf3mi Жыл бұрын
“Tell them to send YOU pictures…OF SOME MONEY” LMAOOO
@maescreativespace444 Жыл бұрын
No lies! Train them to spend the coin 🗣️🗣️ I train them to spend from the DOOR!
@lilygalin Жыл бұрын
Never ever sent pictures thats controlling and disrespectful .
@patriciaburtescu Жыл бұрын
I am lucky i found you. You are honest, strong, to the point and respectful. All other female ‘coaches’ wasted my time and confused me. You deserve to be where you at🙌🏻👑
@IrisGoddess Жыл бұрын
Shera is a once in a lifetime revolutionary! 💖
@exclusivelytay4114 Жыл бұрын
When I go out by myself men approach me more and best believe I dress my best 😙
@kikiandco189911 ай бұрын
I'll do that!
@WildAntics13 Жыл бұрын
She is so true be wise women;these men can exchange women in a blink of their moments stay focused be wise always power😂
@Maimmarei Жыл бұрын
Shera please continue to educate women you’re amazing ♥️ you’re the reason why a lot of women now are making it perfect and clear about what they want
@Atlanta718 Жыл бұрын
Desperation attracts dust. Decide from a place of abundance 😊
@galaxyqueen8835 Жыл бұрын
I wish I can share all these text messages I get from men. They are MAD AS HELL!! I now see that guys are just hooking up with whom ever they can get. I see those pick mesha’s giving me dirty looks when she’s walking next to her dusty because he’s looking at me (while he’s literally next to her) Little does she know that I DON’T WANT YOUR BROKE DUDE! And I low key wish I can teach her to not settle for less.
@sincerelydee4787 Жыл бұрын
The fact these men ALL do this, in various ways in ALL of their different relationships is crazy! They were all raised with society and they Mamas thinking they’re the prize😂. Time to wake them up! You’re not, and I’m not clarifying ish cause you began this game but I’m disengaging 😜
@mochiieekim Жыл бұрын
A dusty got mad at me just because i responded to him 2 days later😂
@flattery1111 Жыл бұрын
But who’s laughing at you for engaging with a dusty at all.
@kittykatz4001 Жыл бұрын
Why are dusties knowing how to contact you? 😮
@Akamakana Жыл бұрын
Why did you respond ..
@CinematicGriotCollective Жыл бұрын
Some of these women asking questions are just dumb. Why are ya'll so focused on getting a man? This is about getting the bag. duh
@venusrx4671 Жыл бұрын
Lol yeah some come on here asking how to save their dusty marriage. Shera has so much patience 💖
@tamarastone141 Жыл бұрын
I'm mean DUMB questions!
@patriciawilliams246 Жыл бұрын
@@venusrx4671😅😅😅
@lolo2good Жыл бұрын
@belltowndaisyI have never met a married couple that inspires me …I’d rather stay single.
@xoxotiffanyj4001 Жыл бұрын
U just messed up right there
@ms.westco Жыл бұрын
Shera for president!!
@soleingridmarie4994 Жыл бұрын
Watching a stream from Shera is in my new self care weekly routine 🎉
@KavyaSharma-cu5fi Жыл бұрын
Same here❤
@4crazy1chick2 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@Fayy_shoes Жыл бұрын
Me too🥰
@stayy_lokeyy Жыл бұрын
I can't stand a "send a pic" dude. I will literally say "well send me some money" because I already know theres nothing long term at that point. second only to the "bring a friend for my friend"🙄 like first of all, i'm not even going...😂 oh and one more thing I can't stand is when they introduce you to a vibe they can't maintain. so lame.
@adithalee8660 Жыл бұрын
SheraSeven is a sigma woman I can tell. Plenty of commonsense and very observational.
@Forexroadrunner Жыл бұрын
the background is sending me lol
@nomalangamahele Жыл бұрын
I’m in tears 😂😂😂
@v3nus894 Жыл бұрын
PLSS the guy i’m talking to just asked me to send him a pic of me and i just went on youtube and this was the first thing in my recommendations and the intro had me shook 🤣🤣😭
@iconsonscreen7291 Жыл бұрын
14 minutes in and alreadz keeping notes! Shera you're a gem!
@briannecharles9163 Жыл бұрын
Hello!!!!
@Maysiez Жыл бұрын
Time to get implementing these tips! Shera is a pure genius
@Cubandragon99 Жыл бұрын
Honestly
@tinarobinson6438 ай бұрын
That's what I'm kno
@theadventuresofme1360 Жыл бұрын
I promise I needed this. My fiancé is being an ass.
@queensun6059 Жыл бұрын
👸remember shera said. he can only be an azzz🐐 to u. if U let him. bc u control the cat. which is what he wants🐈.
@evolutionarytorevolutionar7312 Жыл бұрын
Hunny my husband is an ass.
@MrTwonetwone Жыл бұрын
@@queensun6059I got $40 for you babe
@alivanessa134 Жыл бұрын
Tell me as a student in SSU he is no longer your fiancé or else drop out 😅
@Rollingstonee55 Жыл бұрын
Shera would tell you to get another one
@jara9385 Жыл бұрын
Men are professional l.i.a.r.s ....i never believed awhat they say anyway 😅 If you wanna know how they are look at their actions....their actions is the truth not their words lol
@Plyggdddj11 ай бұрын
You just woke me the FU*K UP! Thank you ❤
@ultravioletpisces3666 Жыл бұрын
1:57 it’s a sales trick… “get someone to say yes and it’s easier to get yes the next time.” I don’t think you should even send your social media pic.. should just tell him “my pics are on my profile.” We gotta tell them “no” to see how they respond to our boundaries.
@selamgidey6665 Жыл бұрын
When a dusty try to approach ask for payment and look at them a straight and make them to feel shameful. Remember giving time for dusty is like sleeping on cold without a blanket
@Iceblaker Жыл бұрын
Coming to you live from the White House, sprinkle sprinkle ✨
@va9347 Жыл бұрын
Thank you SheRaSeven I have been severely depressed today - I broke up with this guy who wasn’t treating me the very best 😪- but for whatever reason it hurts!
@LifeInAmerica1428 Жыл бұрын
Question, how long yall was together?
@wellwateredwoman897 Жыл бұрын
😢
@linahochego6949 Жыл бұрын
You'll be alright
@cytheria07 Жыл бұрын
Why does it hurt? He isn't nice or caring for you properly. Find someone who cares.
@eljofrva10 ай бұрын
YOU broke up w HIM!! Celebrate!!! 🎉 you’re better off and being single is absolutely fabulous 🥰
@lindar80957 ай бұрын
Watching your channel worked! I listened and it helped my relationship! I’m getting married this month
@mrchanerl9 ай бұрын
“Send me a picture of your money your house your car your boat” Lmfaoooo 😂😂😂
@tijeraslack3 Жыл бұрын
These videos help me and I still got work to do. I’m trying to put my sister on because she’s a super newbie with dating and I told her the world is different.
@berri6015 Жыл бұрын
One of your greatest sermons Ashera ❤
@sharonjoan9997 Жыл бұрын
Poor men are complaining of being sexless and lonely. Step up boys!!!
@shivvy101 Жыл бұрын
Lmaooooo Shera you are too damn funny you said what happened when we were “friends with benefits”? We benefited that’s what happened!!! I’m cryinggggg 😭😭😭😂😂😂
@annaa6259 Жыл бұрын
1:09 promise is a comfort to a fool👏👏👏. Shera for President. This!!! How many many man string women on promises
@miso64228 ай бұрын
When he stood me up last minute, i had another guy ready to drive an hour to see me on short notice, and he did. i made the mistake of not telling the guy who stood me up that i already had another guy who wanted to see me that day 😂😂
@moonsniper9262 Жыл бұрын
“tell him to send YOU some pictures… of some money” 😭😭😂❤️ 2:27
@thetruepath4534 Жыл бұрын
Im 17. I came early i guess😅 ❤ to my sprnkle sprinkle community😘😘
@Goddessoftarot2165 ай бұрын
Baby girl get these 💰’s i wish this information was out when i was your age. I didn’t have direction. Sometimes i got things out of men other times i was used. The potential was definitely there in me just didn’t have a female to teach me
@ajmpbangtanminyoongi4 ай бұрын
I'm 19 so glad to be in the same page 😂❤
@flowerbeauty68197 ай бұрын
I just found you. You are a genius,girl!! Speechless!!