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Coach Melannie

Coach Melannie

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@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! Would you like more videos like this one? 🤔 Comment and let me know! P.S. Do you ever feel like a magnet for bad relationships? Check out my free training on what attracts toxic women! Just knowing this will help you avoid bad relationships FOREVER coachmelannie.com/what-attracts-toxic-women-sign-up/
@alancalvo2458
@alancalvo2458 4 жыл бұрын
Hi coach Melanie I love your videos. I was wondering if you could help me find the girl of my dreams!
@blassmaster2888
@blassmaster2888 4 жыл бұрын
That was my ex wife
@billyguilfor1164
@billyguilfor1164 4 жыл бұрын
hi
@housecat1359
@housecat1359 3 жыл бұрын
My ex is toxic she has money good job nice car but a lotta drama two kids and always argues and fights breakup on and off i then i was happier with this other chick that just layed around and just smoked all the time and didnt have a job or car or anything the one with money and nice stuff got me fired before but the one that layed up and just smoked a lot helped me get ready for work and even helped me put my hair up in a nice ponytail for work somehow the one with the car i wasted a lotta money and time the one who was just chill and layed around helped me make money and me and her never argued or fighted but she got arrested for she was in a fight with another girl is this normal is this a normal thing?
@waynesmith1704
@waynesmith1704 2 жыл бұрын
Do more videos like this please. Gotta shine the light on these women.
@sudiptabasak4975
@sudiptabasak4975 4 жыл бұрын
Most important think she always seems to be the victim though she is the root of all the problems
@MrCrimanis
@MrCrimanis Жыл бұрын
Yes
@miguelchavez4597
@miguelchavez4597 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like my eyes have opened more
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this helped! I have more coming on this topic soon that I think you will really like 💪
@mike60y
@mike60y 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah same here, wish I knew these signs before we broke up after 4 years.
@bradkasper7519
@bradkasper7519 4 жыл бұрын
I recently got out of a toxic marriage. Where if I came home late from church or getting groceries or the hardware store she automatically assumed I was flirting with another woman. And if we were talking about something it would turn around and become an argument where she would use my past relationships against me. I wish I would have known these signs sooner. Thank You so much for putting this out here, all of your videos are a great help.
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, I am SO sorry! You certainly didn't deserve to be treated like that. I'm so glad this video was helpful!
@abedalhfeedalreemawy9149
@abedalhfeedalreemawy9149 4 жыл бұрын
Why did fall in love with her the first time
@AskYaMommyBoutMeBoi
@AskYaMommyBoutMeBoi 3 жыл бұрын
@@abedalhfeedalreemawy9149 she a trained trickster? Or he thinking with his corn beef
@giovannicoleman1315
@giovannicoleman1315 Жыл бұрын
Same thing I'm dealing with bro
@JoMama123451234
@JoMama123451234 8 күн бұрын
Yup I dealt with the same thing. I am in grad school and my class ends at 7pm. One time I didn't text her after class and went to the grocery store. I called her on the way home and she accused me of cheating when all I did was buy food. Another time, we were on video chat and I was in the bathroom. She saw a towel that had been there for months yet assumed it was someone else's towel and accused me of cheating. Another time she saw hair in the shower that was from when my mom was visiting and she accused me of cheating. She also didn't like when I went to get treatment for a medical condition I have because of the female nurses there. And wouldn't want me to go to a study group because of potential females there. Oh and she went through my phone while I was in the shower and blew up on me because of a text from a female classmate related to a homework assignment. Ultimately, she dumped me and blamed me for everything when the truth is her insecurity ruined everything
@christianv7177
@christianv7177 2 жыл бұрын
She said this advice is for Christian men, but its still valid advice for non religious and non Christian men
@daktari3055
@daktari3055 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I had this info in the beginning of my college days... I would’ve saved myself from a lot of heart aches.
@josephmatheka8922
@josephmatheka8922 4 жыл бұрын
What a heart, the type of woman i dream of.. Very honest and real
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words! And thanks for watching! 🙏
@josephmatheka8922
@josephmatheka8922 4 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie can i get a chance to talk to you??
@jacobwilliams5271
@jacobwilliams5271 2 жыл бұрын
You won't get that in the social media age
@derickclemons369
@derickclemons369 2 жыл бұрын
I knew she was toxic. Sixty one years old with no husband or close gal friends. Always the victim. Happy one day sad the next day. Count my losses and get away.
@zachara03
@zachara03 3 жыл бұрын
I've been dating this girl for 2 years and she has many signs of Toxic behavior. One thing I noticed very early on ,and she has not stopped this ,is her complete is complete overwhelming praise for herself and the fact that she thinks she is unbelievable unbelievable the best. She compliments herself constantly. I'll say that's a good idea. I guarantee you 100% she'll come back with I know because I'm amazing. Not just with me but in front of people and and it seems really immature and obnoxious
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry! I hope these videos will help you! kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA God bless 🙏
@zippyblessed839
@zippyblessed839 2 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅 wow I didnt know men find tht irritating. Still learning about u guys.🤭
@SAMEntalhealth
@SAMEntalhealth 4 жыл бұрын
Shes so nice in public. To everyone else
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
Yep! That's what they do!
@DS-ft6sd
@DS-ft6sd 4 жыл бұрын
sounds like my ex GF, more out going to strangers,her friends,my family.to me it was just blah.hot one day next cold.she could dish it out but could not take the heat when I would call her out.she would be very sarcastic and almost arrogant to me in public at times and seemed it was alright for her to do it.
@princessmarlena1359
@princessmarlena1359 2 жыл бұрын
I had an ex boyfriend who did that.
@Drumcentric
@Drumcentric Жыл бұрын
Split up 3 weeks ago. It was only a 4 month relationship but she was always annoyed at me for no reason and kept saying that I said stupid things. She did nothing with her life. I would always travel to see her. And she would come down for a couple of hours down my way and would moan she’s tired and go home. She also said she never cared about my hobbies. But she didn’t treat anyone else like this. Only me
@gregoryross3558
@gregoryross3558 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I know no one is perfect but this literally showed me why my past relationship wasn't working we tried two times. I would do really nice things for her and would listen to her. Then she would point out my flaws and made it seem like I was nothing. I had blinders on thinking that it was me the whole time. I just wish I would have seen your video a couple of months ago I would have put an end to it then!
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
So happy you are doing better now! God bless 🙏
@garylagstrom3864
@garylagstrom3864 Жыл бұрын
I was in a very toxic relationship with my fiancée that luckily did not result in marriage thanks to my small group of friends who saw her for what she is a gold digger and manipulator! She demanded a 5k engagement ring 💍 and wanted to wear and get this: A Red Wedding dress to a church ⛪️ wedding. She-Devil for sure! Glad my friends and family loved me enough to tell me straight that she was toxic and not worth my love and time.
@princessmarlena1359
@princessmarlena1359 2 жыл бұрын
They constantly invade your privacy, despite wanting your trust. They claim that you embarrass them in front of friends, family, work associates, etc. They exclude you from events or plans constantly, often claiming you are invited yet lie about the date and time or claim it is canceled yet they carry on with it anyway but exclude you. They always act like you owe them or they are doing you a favor for the smallest request, yet demand the moon from you. They make fun of you behind your back to an audience, they encourage friends and family to be disrespectful to you and get angry when you stand up to them.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
Sharing means caring I agree with that 100%.
@brunebrune971
@brunebrune971 Жыл бұрын
I watched your first video and this one. This is my first time finding out that I’m a toxic gf. I was trying to look up why I, as well as other women, can get so angry all the time over pretty petty things at times and can’t let it go. It feels like a ball of rage in my head and chest and even though at the time, my thoughts are saying it’s no big deal and I’m having one of those episodes and I need to stop, my anger is in control. and came across this. This is a pretty disheartening thing to realize and I have no clue how to control it. My anger is THE hardest things in my life to control. I have gotten better over the years and clearly attempt to do even better based on what I was originally searching for, I’m looking for help and want to understand. I believe it came from things in my child hood. My brother is the same way. How many of us are running around not knowing we are the toxic one. I don’t even know anymore.
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie Жыл бұрын
You sound like a great person! Please reach out to a trusted professional. You can for sure overcome this! God bless! 😀
@SAMEntalhealth
@SAMEntalhealth 4 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend isn't a social media craze, but she's constantly negative, literally makes me do everything for her but will never lift a finger to help me, changes the subject when I talk, never listens to simple things. Im trying to get my life together and constant negativity just brings me down..I feel so trapped. :-(((
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you are going through this! Here are some more videos that will help you with this! kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA And this too. coachmelannie.com/bad-relationships-be-free-forever-free-preview/ Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions. melannie@coachmelannie.com Best of luck to you!!😀
@bigboyquique
@bigboyquique 3 жыл бұрын
Leave bro
@enderjeff293
@enderjeff293 2 жыл бұрын
I am in a relationship that is...hard. I am always in the blame. Everything is my fault. I can't do anything in my own life. I have to always be available to her. She puts me down for my own problems and personal life instead of helping me or making me feel better about it. For example, I am extremely poor. All my life I have been poor. I live in a trailer and my room is literally 3 feet tall. And she is very rich. And she always makes me feel bad about being poor. Yesterday I complimented her clothing which was some black and white pattern leggings with a white and black hoodie with a butterfly and I said it matches well and looks nice and she called me a dumb retard because I don't have enough money to get expensive clothing to understand fashion. Yeah. This whole relationship has been going for two years and I've been trying to help her get over this bs she is doing. it works then it goes back to normal. I'm in love and I can't stop it. I need help to stop this.
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry! I hope these videos help! kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA
@zippyblessed839
@zippyblessed839 2 жыл бұрын
She calls you dumb retard and your still with her???? Have some balls and leave her.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I always thought that my ex-friend Becky Keena treated me like I’m stupid.
@peterparker8534
@peterparker8534 3 жыл бұрын
I've been married for 10 years and my toxic wife has made me hate women and that makes me so very sad because I think women are absolutely amazing, feel trapped and miserable
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry!!! These videos will be very helpful to you. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Please let me know if you have any questions! God bless! 😀
@peterparker8534
@peterparker8534 3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie I wish these tools were available to me before I got married, too late now!
@topnotchtajmahal7216
@topnotchtajmahal7216 3 жыл бұрын
Mines would snatch my phone and go through it all the time especially when I was sleep then make up anything when I was doing nothing or hiding anything snh
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
My ex-friend Becky Keena’s mood changed like a weather front.
@Greenscreenkid1118
@Greenscreenkid1118 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your discussions … even though I’m not a Christian man. You have opened my eyes to what I thought was normal behaviour, and how important identifying these concerns are. I really appreciate it!
@josephblair3958
@josephblair3958 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant thankyou so much .I wish I knew that 15 years ago all the toxic stuff I went through was unbelievable
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀
@SAMEntalhealth
@SAMEntalhealth 4 жыл бұрын
We've had so many talks where im like explaining things to her that would help us, she acts like she agrees and we go right back to that cycle of hell :-(((
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
That is very typical!
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I hope I find my dream girl gosh darn it Coach Melannie.
@iamthestorm1004
@iamthestorm1004 3 жыл бұрын
I love all your videos Melanie I recently called out my LDR girlfriend of 2 years on some of her selfish inconsiderate behaviors... She called me an " A-hole and f-ing POS".... Next day I blocked her I refuse to be disrespected and verbally abused by any woman. As much as I love her , I had to send her a message loud and clear !! I thought we shared something very special and God brought us together... Guess not !! God bless you Mel AWESOME CONTENT 🙏🙏🙏❤
@alanmills-rw2pp
@alanmills-rw2pp 8 ай бұрын
It's not that I don't want to learn, but I am not really ready for more pain, I need to heal first. What I hate about social media is not private.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I tried to do nice things for my ex-friend Becky Keena and she couldn’t handle it.
@bkirn4846
@bkirn4846 4 жыл бұрын
Very on target. I fell for one that seemed to have a playbook just like what you described. I will say that knowing is good but not quite enough. Unfortunately. Knowing doesn’t magically turn off the magnitude of feelings you have for them. Regardless of how shallow they might actually be, it doesn’t exactly heal your heart
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
You are spot on and I am so sorry you've been through this. Have you seen these videos? They will help you a ton in the future!!! kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Please let me know if you have questions!
@somiladial5017
@somiladial5017 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not a Christian man..but it's nice to know these things
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
Hello and thank you for your comment! My methods work for anyone looking to have their dream girl and a happy/healthy relationship. I am Christian so I teach from that perspective but these skills will benefit everyone. Thanks for watching! 😀
@gamalielcovarrubias2757
@gamalielcovarrubias2757 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 17 and I have always been in really bad relationships with other women and I never really last long in a relationship being only 4 months or just getting. My heart broken. I watched your other video of 5 sighns and this one and iv actually opened my eyes to this. I feel more confident with catching signs of future date or future girlfriend. Thank you. I really appreciate the effort you put in your videos. 🙏
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! God bless 🙏
@Jeremy43336
@Jeremy43336 6 ай бұрын
This are all the signs of my girlfriend. She is really toxic. But I’m hoping she will change one day
@stevecavusoglu163
@stevecavusoglu163 2 жыл бұрын
If you attempt to dump a Toxic girl you could be in for a very rude awakening! I had this happen to a close friend of mine. They could literally become very Psychotic! Remember the movie Fatal Attraction from the 80's
@jolly7728
@jolly7728 3 жыл бұрын
You've given us a lot of valuable stuff here in just a few minutes. The business of flipping a switch is an often-used device to trap men (women too) -- from innocent little girl to psychopath in a heartbeat. I'm wondering: do people ever hire a private investigator to do an extensive background check on prospective mates to try to learn about the kinds of toxic things you described before the nuptials (I know it's expensive, but so is a divorce)? And what a fantastic reference to Greek mythology you used here -- the siren. Perfect! One way to try to get a handle on whether or not she's toxic is to see if she genuinely wants to be your friend. Ask yourself this simple question: "Is she my friend?" And go from there. An acquaintance of mine became ill once, and his girlfriend took time from her hectic schedule and drove on a congested interstate an hour each way to pick up his meds. Chances are only a good friend would do something like that.
@magicsmoke630
@magicsmoke630 4 жыл бұрын
She also described my exp... I began to see these toxic signs 4 months into our relationship...
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry! Toxic relationships can be so hard! Here are a few more videos that will help you with this! kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Feel free to email me if I can answer any questions! melannie@coachmelannie.com Best of luck to you! 😀
@SAMEntalhealth
@SAMEntalhealth 4 жыл бұрын
Mood is changing so much too. I suffer from major depressive disorder and that doesn't make it any easier
@frankcrawford416
@frankcrawford416 3 жыл бұрын
This is so good I just found this channel tonight by accident. I never knew this kind of love and caring existed on youtube.
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. 🙏
@frankcrawford416
@frankcrawford416 3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie God bless you. Jesus loves us
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I think my ex-friend Becky Keena had low self esteem and she was a control freak.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I don’t feel that my ex-friend Becky Keena respected my boundaries.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
She always said to me “I’m not trying to tell you what to do, but I always thought she was.
@noorulameen9286
@noorulameen9286 3 жыл бұрын
Really true...i m stuck in one exactly the same..hope i get out of this and find my real dream girl...
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
You totally can! Have you seen these videos? kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA They will help you so much! God bless!
@vincerodaPaxMafiosa
@vincerodaPaxMafiosa 3 жыл бұрын
I must say I love you for understanding so well . I’m in a toxic relationship right now . Only I’m certain I’m kind of toxic too . So I can’t play the blame game and say it’s her and not me . I figure it speaks volumes about me if I accept being with someone such as a toxic girlfriend .
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you for seeing the situation for what it is! That takes a lot of inner strength. Give yourself credit for that. No one is perfect and sometimes we have toxic traits as well. Here's a video I did on this that will help! kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4bNfqF_h9F_btk A good therapist can be SUCH a huge help with this!
@mrreddington777
@mrreddington777 Жыл бұрын
Just dumped an older woman of two months after she was never in the wrong and always played the victim. Omg I was falling in the trap.
@peterhoatson
@peterhoatson 4 жыл бұрын
Yes she can't handle being treated nicely. Why is that?!!
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
There are several possible reasons why that happens. It can be a form of manipulation or it can be low self worth. Either way it's impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone like that. Thanks for watching!
@glencoe428
@glencoe428 4 жыл бұрын
Just happened to stumble across this. I will be honest BULLSEYE with the points. Described a couple of girls I knew at one time and let's just say I sprinted out of that mess.
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! I'm so happy you didn't get caught in their traps! Have a great day 😀
@glencoe428
@glencoe428 4 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie you too
@ghostoferlock
@ghostoferlock 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Melannie, Great video. I didn't really like hearing some of what your comments are, because they sound true, and it kind of breaks parts of me. What you were saying about letting line out, then back, etc., and of a woman not liking nice things being shown to her heart. All I can say is that it hurts.
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so very, very sorry! God bless 🙏
@Bigshow857
@Bigshow857 4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos.I'm so tired of the games women play.I've learned so much...thank you.
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! I'm so glad it was helpful! I have a playlist that might be of interest to you too. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA God bless!
@manuelalejandrogutierrezro3076
@manuelalejandrogutierrezro3076 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much. I never knew what a Toxic Girl was. My question is; Can a Toxic Girl be cured of her Toxicity? And if so, how?
@JaYnUk5
@JaYnUk5 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like my ex may be toxic. -she’s very judgemental of ppl, yet hates to be judged -she tried to control which females I add on social media -she went thru my phone multiple times -every time I try and check her about her behavior, she tells me I don’t have to be here. -she’s called me really disrespectful names. -she ADMITTED being toxic, but says she’s “fine with it for now” I’ve never been perfect. But I never cheated, I don’t disrespect her or talk down on her. We dated almost 4 years 😕. And the sad thing is I’m still in love with her
@miguelchavez4597
@miguelchavez4597 4 жыл бұрын
How has it been?
@L00shkin
@L00shkin 4 жыл бұрын
Are you me?! I feel like I went through the same thing, but she also hit me quite often. Falling out of love with people like that is hard. I would suggest looking up trauma bonding. Its helped me out a lot and it may help you. You dont need people like that in your life. I promise you, you're much better off without her.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I thought my ex-friend Becky Keena was very judgmental.
@RoamingAries
@RoamingAries Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I failed to identify the signs early. My ex had a friend that wasn't a small lady but they would go on play dates with our kids. I didn't hear any thing about this friend for a while and thought they fizzled out. Any way, one day we were driving and we see her. My ex chuckled and said "wow, she getting bigger?" ( WOW!!! the judgemental part just started in the video) "I immediately told her aren't you working out to lose weight too and are you two friends? That's kinda messed up." The look she gave me was loaded with daggers.
@alanmills-rw2pp
@alanmills-rw2pp 8 ай бұрын
I enjoy learning from your video's they are very helpful. But I need to be able to go back and soak in it so I can remember.
@UnexpectedWonder
@UnexpectedWonder 4 жыл бұрын
These are nothin' but Facts! I tell these to Men and Women pretty much.
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
They certainly apply to both men and women! It's good to be aware of the signs 💪
@UnexpectedWonder
@UnexpectedWonder 4 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie Truly! I always promote boundaries and a Backbone. Those kinda of toxic, cancerous persons won't even be Attracted to someone who doesn't put up with that asinine foolishness.
@billyguilfor1164
@billyguilfor1164 4 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie im single
@yousifmq
@yousifmq 4 жыл бұрын
You have opened my 3rd eye 🤣 thank you
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
@dominiquewomack5590
@dominiquewomack5590 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a women and I find this helpful.
@TheVermifuge
@TheVermifuge 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice. Thanks for sharing!
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching!
@Brandonfunky
@Brandonfunky 3 жыл бұрын
I guess we both are tired of constant argument and drama. It even gets to the point where she hits me at one of those conflicts. Even though she said sorry after that. I don't blame her cause apparently im not easy to get along with sometimes. It's a surprise we are still together now but the resentment from both sides makes me think the breakup thing is just a matter of time for us. Sigh
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so very sorry! Please get some help! These videos will be very helpful to you. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA God bless 🙏
@leeostendorf4696
@leeostendorf4696 2 жыл бұрын
Love the analogy about signs of the siren.
@waynesmith1704
@waynesmith1704 2 жыл бұрын
I was happily married for 30 yrs to an amazing woman. I've been a widower for 5 yrs. Last year, I began dating a drop dead gorgeous woman. Starting out, she did and said all of the right things.. two months into the relationship, she flipped to the complete opposite. I believe in chivalry and tried to use it with her. She refused and accused me of being weak. She refused my attempts to romance her. She was critical about everyone including her own kid's and eventually it turned to me. I put up with it for 3 months and tried to break up 3 times. The 4 th time was a charm..
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so very sorry!
@waynesmith1704
@waynesmith1704 2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie I appreciate that..She taught me a valuable lesson..My gut told me she was off her rocker. I ignored it. I'll never ignore my gut feeling again.
@gringodelsur7971
@gringodelsur7971 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you sir. You were in a vulnerable situation and she wasn't sensitive to your feelings as she should have been. You deserve to be respected. Don't settle for anything less.
@robcur1
@robcur1 4 жыл бұрын
How can I know if a woman really wants to be be with me I know how I feel about her but I don't know how she feels about me in truth
@SuperDoncaster1
@SuperDoncaster1 8 ай бұрын
They want you to be there in their hour of need but doesn’t return the favour
@BangDoMusic
@BangDoMusic 3 жыл бұрын
You look so lovely in this video !!
@LL-dv5jc
@LL-dv5jc 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had these great videos and advice when I was starting out dating thank you god bless you
@mariorrodriguez535
@mariorrodriguez535 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I met you long time ago, still I am glad you are bringing your counseling, love it from first words I have heard you. I am in a struggling situation, I thing following you I will get my way to get over of this problem, specially my innocent little daughter is in the middle. thank you
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you seen these videos? kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA They will help a lot. God bless you and your daughter!
@bobburch2151
@bobburch2151 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely amazing
@JohnJones-nq6pi
@JohnJones-nq6pi 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing and caring.
@Dingabasumatary
@Dingabasumatary 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sister , I really needed this, thks for the help! From India 🙏🇮🇳
@rapsrevolutions8772
@rapsrevolutions8772 Жыл бұрын
You are so pretty and inteligent i wish i could meet you , watching your videos from mexico i feel trapped in a toxic relationship please save me..
@freeb4917
@freeb4917 Жыл бұрын
My son's girlfriend trapped him with 2 pregnancies saying the birth control pills didn't work.
@KerryHopkins
@KerryHopkins 10 ай бұрын
What mic do you use? Do you use a focusrite amp too? Seems reallllly good audio quality.
@thebasementstation4622
@thebasementstation4622 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks melony for your videos ❤
@RVCAXD
@RVCAXD 3 жыл бұрын
Misery loves company
@ricardocasgil7108
@ricardocasgil7108 2 жыл бұрын
I see it now where I get ignored less4 days of the week I try be nice she seems to hate it I think maybe she wants to be alone I can't read minds
@ailishlehane6994
@ailishlehane6994 2 жыл бұрын
Kathy Lehane Ballingeary
@marcusavila2961
@marcusavila2961 3 жыл бұрын
On point my g
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry! Have you seen these videos? kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA I hope they help you with this! God bless 🙏
@davidemm829
@davidemm829 3 жыл бұрын
Very good..more please. Ty 😄
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
You got it!
@globaloffensive-nh3cl
@globaloffensive-nh3cl 3 жыл бұрын
Nice videos. Thank you. God bless!
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@globaloffensive-nh3cl
@globaloffensive-nh3cl 3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie just venting perhaps, but I just ended a relationship... All of the red flags were there screaming at me, but I overlood them all up untill she started yelling at me. I feel so duped by myself, because I clearly remember stating to her: I choose to love you. And I did, right up untill she abused me emotionally and gradually killed any love I had for her. I need to take red flags more seriously. I can see them but I choose to ignore them. Be careful out there sirs and madam's. Have a blessed day.
@angelicaredaelli8218
@angelicaredaelli8218 4 жыл бұрын
Do you make videos for helping woman in toxic relationships? Or dealing with leaving them?
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you are going through that! I gear my content towards men simply because I am a coach for men but most of my content does apply to both men and women. I have an online course coming soon about how to avoid bad relationships and embrace good relationships. These are the very tools I used to free myself from toxic relationships forever. I can certainly let you know when it's live if you like! You can totally do this! 💪
@angelicaredaelli8218
@angelicaredaelli8218 4 жыл бұрын
Coach Melannie thanks, yes I’d love to know when it’s live.
@csimp5970
@csimp5970 2 жыл бұрын
Your siren analogy is dead on🤣
@coreybroom
@coreybroom 4 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍 so pretty!
@tesfalidetshemeni728
@tesfalidetshemeni728 4 жыл бұрын
A learn a lot thanks that I told her no
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀
@crazydip7776
@crazydip7776 2 жыл бұрын
Mam so much thanks to you
@MarkConnetti
@MarkConnetti Жыл бұрын
Sounds like maria
@davidbaudouin8073
@davidbaudouin8073 4 жыл бұрын
I dated a girl for 1 year and about 4 months long-distance. Halfway through the relationship she met another guy and we had many discussions on whether or not she should leave me for him. Towards the end of our relationship, she got him to work at the same store with her and she started going to his house every single day for about two weeks, where she would lay on his bed, smoke weed with him, among other things. She constantly spoke to her friends about whether or not to leave me for him, but I was the one who had to end the relationship because she wouldn't respect my boundaries - which were that it wasn't okay to spend so much alone time with someone she already had history with. Am I in the wrong here?
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
In my opinion you are very much in the right to end a relationship like that! Here are some resources that I'm sure will also help you with this situation kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA and this one coachmelannie.com/bad-relationships-be-free-forever/ Best of luck!
@SAMEntalhealth
@SAMEntalhealth 4 жыл бұрын
I get so angry now because I feel I'm stuck
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
Tell yourself you are not stuck!!! Check out the links I sent you!!!!!!!!!!! 💪 They will help a lot!
@mikhailvillacorta1784
@mikhailvillacorta1784 4 жыл бұрын
Whoaw, I just gave my girl a handmade simple gift just to express myself to her, then all of a sudden, she acted weird and mad, and I don't know why. Damn, I love this girl so much, but it's hard to handle her. What's the right thing to do?
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that! These videos will be very helpful. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA If you would like to chat with me after you watch them, feel free to contact me melannie@coachmelannie.com instagram.com/coachmelannie/ facebook.com/coachmelannie/ Best of luck to you!! 🙏 💪
@mikhailvillacorta1784
@mikhailvillacorta1784 4 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie thank you coach Melannie, I'll check it out for sure💓
@kiriyasu4964
@kiriyasu4964 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Melannie. But I'm too late 😐😐😐
@ladidaa3365
@ladidaa3365 3 жыл бұрын
Not sure if its to late to even comment. My current Gf is abusive, shes at work, just told me today isnt gonna be my day. After non stop calls and a hundred texts. Pretty scared yall... not sure if i can defend myself or keep taking the hits. Sucks coming here for this shit.
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry! Please get some help from someone you trust ASAP! These videos will also help you. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA I would be VERY careful and again, please get some help! God bless 🙏
@ladidaa3365
@ladidaa3365 3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie Thank you for the kind words, I managed to get two bite marks and a lil bruise on my throat. Not as severe as other times. Ill continue watching the playlist. Thanks again
@lukaskelber
@lukaskelber 3 жыл бұрын
Just out of curiosity: Why do you only teach Christian men? How does it depend on the Christian belief? But thanks for the movies :)
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
Hello and thank you for your comment! My methods work for anyone looking to have their dream girl and a happy/healthy relationship. I am Christian so I teach from that perspective but these skills will benefit everyone. Thanks for watching!
@mynutsinhd1857
@mynutsinhd1857 2 жыл бұрын
i like you tho.
@jogymogy3691
@jogymogy3691 Жыл бұрын
Spoiler Alarm: Aerith dies, so does Han Solo and Ned Stark...
@MrSpecialk77088
@MrSpecialk77088 3 жыл бұрын
Wow i'm so naive. :O)
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that. If toxic women are attracted to you, here are some videos that will help you stop this. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA God bless 🙏
@rdm5547
@rdm5547 4 жыл бұрын
The initial image is saying "Helping Christian Men find and attract their dream girl". Does these signs not apply to men of other religions (who they don't choose to be born in) ? :D
@CoachMelannie
@CoachMelannie 4 жыл бұрын
Hello and thank you for your comment! My methods work for anyone looking to have their dream girl and a happy/healthy relationship. I am Christian so I teach from that perspective but these skills will benefit everyone. Thanks for watching!
@blassmaster2888
@blassmaster2888 4 жыл бұрын
Prov5:3
@timothyhume3741
@timothyhume3741 7 ай бұрын
You are too cute for your own good.
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