Growing Up in Polygamy - Sam and Melissa Zitting Wyson Part 2 - Mormon Stories Ep. 1618

[@catalaya3530]

I was able to keep my tears at bay when he started to tear up, but when Sam said he felt like he was too stupid to learn, and talking about the lost boys, I started to tear up. As a mom, I just can't imagine my child being out there alone feeling that way.

[@lilianmadu]

I was crying along with Sam when he spoke about the family who helped him. 😭 This is one of my favourite interviews. Such a nice couple …

[@Caroline_brightroom]

Interested in knowing what lunch buddies are?

[@cartergomez5390]

Can you tell me more about it? 🤔

[@debraewing2859]

This was my favorite interview yet! I love everything about this couple! Their love and mutual respect for each other is beautiful. Their ability to factually and succinctly tell their stories, but in a way that draws their audience in - wanting to know more and how things turned out. They didn't interrupt each other. They affirmed each other. They shared their truth without disparaging others. Truly one of the most interesting, uplifting interviews I've heard!

[@valerieodonnell6764]

I grew up LDS (pioneer heritage) and left in my 30s. I’m pretty sure I share ancestors with many of the FLDS families and learning about its origins fascinates me. I think I’ve watched most of the videos on Sam and Melissa’s channel. One thing I respect about them is how respectful they are of both the LDS and the FLDS people and their beliefs but sometimes I feel like they candy coat issues and I really just want them to say what they really think. This interview made me feel like I know them so much better now and I loved it. I could listen to them all day. The love between them is palpable.

[@mellatrixlastrange2788]

I am not a Mormon and never have been, but I live in the same community as the Columbia River Temple. I have so many friends who are Mormon, but it has always felt like they held me at an arm’s length. Mormon Stories Podcast has helped me to understand why that is the case. I’ve listened to both episodes of Sam & Melissa’s Mormon Story, and it touches my heart so much. Melissa’s love and support for Sam, and their compassion for the people of their former religions is an example to me. Today I hope to walk with an open heart and less judgement. Thank you for these beautiful stories!

[@stevenparkin6486]

I'm glad you have Mormon friends in the Washington State area. Like any large group of people, individual personalities are different. Please make the distinction between LDS and FLDS. To outsiders, both groups are "Mormons" yet those two churches are very different. As I understand, Sam is a former FLDS member and Melissa is a former LDS person. I suspect your Mormon friends in Washington are LDS; the LDS church owns and runs the Columbia River Temple there. In my opinion, LDS people are more like "regular" USA citizens while FLDS people tend to dress like Amish or Mennonites or 19th century farmers or pioneers.

[@cartergomez5390]

Where is the Columbia River Temple located?

[@neitan6891]

I just want to say how much I appreciate this mini-series, Mormon Stories in general, and John. John is so good at these interviews. I love how he asks seemingly obvious questions that end up having non-obvious or, at least, really profound answers. He elicits all the information and facilitates all the stories in such remarkable way. John, you really have such a gift.

[@mormonstories]

❤️❤️❤️

[@KristyRadio]

Totally agree!!

[@davabeardsley972]

Just wanted to say how much I enjoy this channel. I’m an ex-pentecostal (UPCI) and your content has really helped me along my deconstruction. Thank you

[@Binastarr]

Do you believe UPCI is a cult

[@sallyostling]

Poor Melissa 😔. You freed your Dad, gave him the courage to finally voice his feelings. Please John, get her back sometime!!

[@dianefoster4472]

Would love it if Melissa’s dad would consider an interview

[@merricat3025]

Rewatching this. When she was crying talking about how her dad said he may be an atheist, my thought was she finally gave the freedom to express how he thought and felt and she felt bad about it.

[@nomadicfoodie6286]

yes and the women do most of the emotional work

[@emmaschipper6339]

It was so so sad to see her / Melissa cry.😘 She comes over as somebody who's eternally cheerful and sunny, for her to cry.. Feel for you! 💓 For you both actually!! 💓💓 ;)

[@mkidd991]

What's right,

[@larryballard4475]

I began watching Mormon Stories at podcast #1 a couple of years ago. I have listened to each and every one up until 1617-1618. If I were to begin writing my thoughts and observations, I would likely spend the rest of the day and night expressing the consonance with the concepts, principles and axioms that have been verbalized in these two podcasts. John, I bet you wish you had another few hours with these people. Suffice it to say that I would vote these two episodes as the best of all the rest of which there have been some profound and wise episodes for sure. The paths of the lives of these two wonderful authentic people felt like reading the history of Carolyn Jessop. Thank you all for presenting this splendid experience with us all. I send un abrazo grande to all.

[@Melissaduns]

Possibly my fav Mormon Stories episode. These two are so sincere, and I love stuff about Southern Utah.

[@soleillebolduc2448]

Sam sure is a strong person. It shows that regardless of your faith, how LOVE is what truly matters and makes a difference. It is because people showed him love that he was able to believe he wasn’t stupid and that he could do things in life. Love is all we need.

[@emmaschipper6339]

Yay!

[@whitajeman]

I left the LDS church at 18 as soon as I could move out of my parent's home and was inactive for 15 years. Then after my divorce, I came back into activity for about 3 years starting only when Covid created the need for home church. It felt so wonderful to talk about Christ and feel the spirit just with my family who lived nearby and who were being so emotionally supportive of me after leaving my abusive relationship. But then after about a year or so of being back to normal in person church and really diving into Come Follow Me, I started to deconstruct my faith. Its been good for me during this time where I am trying to navigate what I believe and how I want to raise my son, to hear other's stories and I am so glad after following Sam & Melissa to find Mormon Stories. Thank you for this beautiful mini series! I am excited to dive into more of your content.

[@rebeccacrangle21]

I loved this interview so much, I only wish we could've heard more on Melissa's story! She does such a good job interviewing Sam on their channel, it was nice to hear her being interviewed for a change!

[@caseyjude5472]

I agree, I would have liked to hear a little more from Melissa. If, of course, she wishes to share more. (Edit: she said she would!) Perhaps a Thrive interview. She’s pretty amazing & inspiring, imo.

[@emmaschipper6339]

Hear, hear!

[@KathrynEAubuchon]

I actually found Mormon Stories through Growing up in Polygamy, so glad to see them coming together. I would love to hear more of Melissa's story, I feel like I got so much just from the little she was able to share. Would also just like to say I love to see how you both support one another in telling your stories and are so clearly affected by how the experiences your partner went through affected them with such empathy.

[@OriSnori]

Go Sam!!!! Real men cry in public when they feel the feels!!!! Seriously, my admiration for you hass just grown big time.

[@tryingtobemd-phd3262]

Amanda Rae and her brother would be a good guest to have she was in “The Order” or the Kingston Clan in Salt Lake City. Especially having a young woman’s perspective from a polygamist group and her brother became LDS.

[@mikalin9286]

Second this- but I think perhaps having her on with one of her cousins even would be cool.

[@GoldenMom815]

I mentioned this is on the first episode!

[@MutterallerDrachen2087]

Agree

[@njsmkmmsthatsit3518]

Good idea. I have only more recently started watching Amanda and if John wants a very different story about people living in and escaping polygamy. She would be the one to ask. Amanda and others she knows that have escaped her particular cult tell some pretty eye opening stories.

[@glitterysparkxx3330]

I think Amanda’s been interviewed by him

[@evemaekarain]

It's almost 11 PM o'clock (got it right this time😊) in The Netherlands and I've finished most of the work (I make sculptures whilst listening and reacting) and I'm in for a second round! It will be late into the night when I'll go to bed, probably around 3 or 4 AM... LOVE IT THOUGH!

[@katem2411]

Thanks for this interview - such fascinating stories. Your talking about how dark the toxic side of eternal families can be reminds me of the first time I encountered a Mormon missionary - I was 16 and running away from a pretty awful/abusive family situation and wanted nothing further to do with my family when a very wholesome looking young American came up to me and asked "what if I told you there was a religion that allowed families to be together in this life and for all eternity?" He had such an earnest/hopeful look and I opened my mouth to politely brush him off. What came out was "that sounds like hell to me. I never want to see anyone I'm related to again, much less spend forever with them." It was the truth, but I still remember how crushed/shocked he looked and I feel bad for bursting his all families are happy/good bubble.

[@Yomammy2468]

I left church life about 20 years ago. Living in the South, having a different faith practice, is definitely not the norm. Although not Mormon, I can relate to what is being said. I find our common ground is questioning things and searching for truth. Kudos to anyone that questions everything!

[@sconnielassie]

These two are so well put together and well spoken. What a power couple.

[@sharaharper2253]

WOW just wow, I have been a subscriber to Sam and Melissa for ages, but this interview was so in depth, inspiring, emotional and thought provoking. Thanks John and Jenn

[@mienafriggstad3360]

Me too. I thought I knew their whole story. Wow I learned a lot; especially about Melissa's family and faith journey.

[@Zena357]

What is their channel?

[@susanmoran692]

@@Zena357 growing up in polygamy

[@shabbyshopper]

What an amazing, thoughtful and intelligent couple! Best interviews yet!

[@TheJoxy1]

When I was having the discusions prior to being baptised into the Main LDS church, in the early 80's, I asked about polygamy and was told ' it only happened because women had to be married to be able to join the trek to Utah' mmmm 'Lying for the Lord'

[@thisidahomomreports]

Sam: "I think people underestimate the power of the mind..." Holy cow! I am 50 and am just learning that! Sam and Melissa, you are both so loving and so wise! On another note: I am Addictions counselor. Who knew a young man raised FLDS would get things figured out long before a lot of others "figure it out." Wow. And the mind IS the spirit. And the heart. Reasoning is spiritual but enough of the philosophical stuff. Love Sam and Melissa!

[@thisidahomomreports]

Also, Melissa: " the Spirit is LOVE." So profound and 💯 spot on!!! On a separate note, some of the rhetoric of the church today is not very loving and ward members can really get hung up on things that don't matter. WITHOUT LOVE there is no spirit! The end

[@Indi_Waffle_Girl]

@@thisidahomomreports I LOVED that. And it makes so much sense! The BOM (and my dad) would talk about fruits of the spirit being love, peace, calm. I have chronic anxiety and definitely struggled with religious scrupulosity,.and to help me discern what was the spirit and what was just my anxiety brain obsessing over something, I would think about the fruits. Am I anxious about this and acting out of anxiety? Or do I have a calm determination,.even if still in the face of anxiety? I didn't want to disregard all the times I felt "the spirit". Sure, some of it was emotional manipulation, etc, but not all of it. I love that she said the spirit is LOVE. I usually refer to it as my intuition, but I feel like saying it's love also fills out some of the space. It makes sense.

[@tammarajackson7240]

My heart breaks for all the Lost boy's. He is so brave to leave. We had a large polygamist family in our neighborhood and my friends Mom befriended on of the boys. She was a teacher and she taught him how to read. He was 16 and didn't know how. I was 10 and didn't realize he didn't know how to read because reading is freedom. The sin of keeping people ignorant is the worst thing they do.

[@jy285]

I just got into Melissa’s part after she sat basically in silence for so many hours of an amazing story. Now I’m so hooked on her story, but I have tickets to Top Gun 2 and I don’t wanna stop her story 😬😃😎

[@brucee8332]

Lovely, Jen. Leaving the bubble of my own abusive family, where Dad was god, was so painful but so worth it for my own freedom and joy. But I have to be tender with my siblings who live in the bubble still.

[@dehende07]

Okay you have got to have Melissa back going to tell her whole story, Cuz when she spoke about the part where she met her parents and her father revealed that he didn't believe a temple marriage is necessary or that if he even believed in God, I felt every emotion that Melissa was feeling, I was in tears, Not in tears because how sad that her father believed this but in tears that it almost was his release for him and Melissa to say that they're okay just the way they are

[@koolio5202]

What a wonderful young man. Incredible trials that he overcame. Wow.

[@thisidahomomreports]

At 1:17, I was in tears with everyone else. Regardless of faith it's a beautiful moment in describing a truly good family and two really good 18 yr old boys! ❤️ Cant' say I can relate to the circumstances, BUT THIS IS TRUE CHRISTIAN LOVE RIGHT HERE! P.S. LDS are NOT the only knew who will say that emotions like this are confirmation of spiritual and eternal principles. Such a beautiful moment! I have an 18 yr old son. I personally am so grateful this family was there for Sam!!!! Sam , you are a very unique and special person!!!

[@GoldenMom815]

Me, too! I think it’s really the first time I’ve ever seen Sam get so emotional about anything.

[@nicoleleighk]

I was never involved in the LDS church but in Christianity and my awakening moment was also learning about other religions & how much conviction people had for them. I’m honestly so proud of Sam for growing through all the indoctrination. He turned his situation into something so powerful, about finding truth no matter where that takes you, Melissa was so brave to really do the research that guided their journey. So happy for them. 💛

[@harlanlang6556]

We've had the same awakening. Besides conviction, people of other religions are also just as likely to be good, kind, caring people as Christians. These are the fruits of any religion.....and they're the same. So there's no way to say that Christianity is any better or worse than any other religion. Only a strong personal or cultural bias leads people to feel that there is only one true religion....the one they just happened to be born into.

[@rebekahbaggett1292]

Please, please have them back!! I love their channel but I would love to hear Melissa’s full story in your setting! You guys are so inspiring!

[@KelseyDunlevy]

I love the story about Sam taking on the Wyson name. I think it's such an utterly beautiful tribute.

[@GaliSinatra]

Great interview! Sam voiced something that I've been thinking about for a long time and that is that high-demand religions / cults co-opt the feeling of LOVE.

[@Jumantle]

Really enjoyed these interviews. Thank you John, Jen, Sam and Melissa.

[@megansyck9170]

This has been probably my favorite Mormon stories interview. Thank you Sam and Melissa for sharing your story. ❤️ Love your channel as well!

[@andreaschadeck5596]

What an amazing couple. This really shows how respectful and loving they are to each other. It also shows such a deep love for their children that they would question their beliefs for their children’s sakes.

[@sydneymorgan7951]

Hearing about their second first date was so cute. When Melissa said “we went to the fanciest place in St. George” I immediately thought “anasazi” and then she said it. This was just such a good interview. The whole thing. Sams story and Melissa’s story. John and Jenn are pros. 💜

[@karsn8382]

I’ve been watching Sam and Melissa for a while now and they are an amazing couple.

[@bookslikewhoa]

This was a great miniseries- I would love to see Sam & Melissa back, or maybe even Melissa & her dad? Would be fascinating to hear his perspective as a convert who lost his faith and then watched his daughter go through the same thing

[@Redwings1945]

Any religion that excludes anyone from attending a wedding seriously needs to question that religion, any religion. Family is the most important thing and nothing should prevent a love one from being excluded from anything so precious. Makes me sad. Religion is about love acceptance helping others so to have exclusions sounds man made rules. That’s said in love pain & sadness for these stories not in judgement, as a Catholic with our own issues. Nothing but love to you all♥️

[@PatriciaTennery]

Dominican Nuns are close to this commitment. Bishops tried to take their money and showed their hand and disrespect. So, I get it. Thanks for sharing. ❤

[@LonnieHansen]

I loved these so much. I would love to hear more about Melissa's story too!

[@jamie-leedavidson3043]

What a beautiful couple. I’m a year late to this podcast but there is a lot to get through as a never Mormon but I had huge exposure growing up in Australia and then my move to the U.K. with JW’s ,Mormons and Pentecostal Christianity. And an interest in cults and hight demand religions due to this exposure as a child and teen and into my twenties. I’m so pleased you are speaking out and continuing to keep the pod casts as you do. Huge love to you all. And I love how connected you two are as a couple xxx

[@neitan6891]

I’d love to be able to hear his sister’s story about marrying Rulon Jeffs

[@mariamuller-hornbach1143]

I love this interview- really inspiring how Sam found his way in a world where so much was new to him!! And Melissa is so beautiful and intelligent!

[@anainesgonzalez8868]

1:53:36 this is why I am watching this. As an educator I am so impressed by this man. No proper school until a adulthood and this is how he talks and knows a second language? That is amazing

[@krisy-in-italy]

What a story. I love this couple and am so happy they found each other. I am a recovering Catholic so had a great deal of my own baggage to shed. All these “holier than thou” religions are crippling and cause much damage. Even now at my late age I am wary when meeting people that have strong faith in anything. Fear is what I feel knowing that at any moment they will turn their backs if they know you’re a non believer or won’t join their church. I’m going over now to follow Sam and Melissa. They are so refreshing.

[@heinzhair]

I freaking LOVE Melissa’s commentary in all of this

[@anitah2404]

This was a great interview. I really admire Sam and Melissa -- they are such good people. I think that sometimes when we feel the Spirit really strong in our lives, it is a confirmation that the Lord knows us and loves us. I have felt the Spirit very strong shortly before a tragedy struck my family, and I interpret it to mean that the Lord is very much aware of my situation.

[@melamorgan3433]

I have enjoyed watching your channel Sam and Melissa. I'm first Baptist and have really been interested in knowing about how other religions were formed and their beliefs. I pray God continues to bless your family. My heart hurt when you both were raw with your feelings. I too have gone thru a faith journey not being in a religious family but knowing that someone was helping me navigate my life. I had an uncle that the Lds took in and he was handy caped and slow. They were very good to him. I know that the God I feel loves all and has made all man in his image. So why can't we all be loved equally by him. So I'm sending all of you my love and hugs. We need to hear your words before we judge others we need to walk a mile in their shoes. Thank you Mormon podcast and Sam and Melissa for allowing me into the world you were taught to believe. I also will pray that those who seek a way out can find the comfort in these examples

[@njsmkmmsthatsit3518]

Brilliant interview John you did a fantastic job. Sam and Melissa, I thought I had a mountain of admiration for you guys from watching your channel, already. This interview has upped that admiration about a thousand percent. Thank you for telling your story.

[@mormonstories]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@margybernard]

@@mormonstoriesis there a part 3?

[@tlcngc]

LOVE Melissa & Sam and now Mormon Stories! Thank you for an amazing interview and transparent talk.

[@mr.hermit2433]

As I listened further to this Conversation I believe it sounds like a Story of 'Eternal Progression. My own experience has been that I came to a Better Understanding of God and been able to have a Personal Relationship with God came AFTER I stepped away from the LDS Church. Good Luck to you young people on your Journey...

[@Gjigfvniyf]

Jen adds such a beautifully empathetic but also analytical perspective to the show, I love when she rides sidecar

[@mormonstories]

Thank you, Tori! - Jenn

[@sylviarienzo6955]

I have to disagree. I don’t enjoy her style at all. Sorry Jen. PS I just read about this troublesome lady and I am so glad she is gone. What a troublesome mess she made!

[@harlanlang6556]

What a great interview! Mormon Stories seems to have an endless supply of people with such interesting backgrounds and struggles in life. What's impressive is the courage to do the right thing, because truth matters. Sam's aha moment when he realized that there are people all over the world belonging to various religions who also "feel" the truth of their faith, just like Mormons, was also my experience as a Christian but not Mormon. This is an age-old human experience provided by all religions. One reaction is to conclude that the experience must be delusional because the religions are obviously different. Another conclusion could be that the various religions have unique messages intended for a particular time or culture, just as teachers in school adapt lessons to the age levels they're teaching. One teacher is not superior to another just because she teaches a higher level of math than previous teachers. This way of examining religions allows all of them to be true, but not the only truth, and not the last truth, but the best form of the truth for a particular people. The social laws for marriage and diet may change, but the admonitions to truthfulness, honesty, compassion, love, forgiveness, etc. are the same in all religions. The evidence is in the cultures growing from each religion. Those who follow the moral and ethical laws of their religion are good people, whatever they may call themselves.

[@michaelaspiro8160]

This was so amazing … they are genuinely such a wonderful couple and their children are so blessed to have them as parents … to go thru the indoctrination, the complete loss of freedom , of choice , the loss of of identity only to regain it as an adult is so powerful . If anything their story , love is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit . Thank you for this open and truthful conversation .

[@myrnaeberhardt4993]

I am an ex Mormon convert. When I was in the church I never , ever, at any time heard anything about polygamy or the FLDS. Now it is fascinating to me and I’m loving learning everything about it from Sam. I’m even reading some books about it. Your mother should be so proud of raising you to be the fine man you are. I hope sometime in the future she will know Melissa and your darling children. Aren’t you glad you moved back to St. George and met Sam !

[@dianethulin1700]

What’s so great about the channel Growing Up in Polygamy is showing how we are all the same people. It is so sad that people are still victims of Warren Jeffs. I used to go to Utah a couple times a year and we would visit relatives all over this area. I love seeing the beautiful scenery when you showed us around. Absolutely recall seeing the mountains in the dark as we made our way to relatives homes. Passing through Las Vegas back in the 1970’s was another event. The St. George Temple is my favorite.

[@lindseyz.6200]

I could listen to another 4 hours!!!! Awesome episode!!!! Such lovely people! ♥️

[@kyliesmiles12]

Thank you for sharing Sam and Melissa! Both of your life stories are inspirational and needed today!

[@kimgoeckeritz6320]

I relate to this episode so much! I really appreciate all of your stories and sharing your heart. I completely understand Jen’s tug of war of wanting to tell your loved ones the truth but at the same time not wanting to cause them the Earth shattering pain that comes with finding out the truth. Lots of love to everyone, whatever path you are on 💛

[@ellak1382]

Wow I love Melissa’s honesty. Such an interesting story. I only wish it could be more long form and detailed!

[@marionmoulton5847]

I listen to both podcasts all the time, but I learned so much from this series!

[@makeupbyjessw]

I'm so glad this interview exists. It sheds a much better light on the FLDS church than the media does. Before the more recent major corruption, it seemed more like an Amish community in a lot of ways.

[@moonmonster1000]

An excellent video. Mormon missionaries always talk to me. I always feel so sorry for them and usually offer to buy them food or a drink. Recently, I was on a train, reading 'No Man Knows My History', and a missionary with a massive backpack asked me what I was reading. I was like:'You're not going to like it.'

[@angelahenrique_historiadora]

What awesome couple! I've been subscribed on their channel since the beginning but this interview covered up a lot of new stuff that really impressed me. Double like!! Please John, get them back!!

[@mormonstories]

What else would you like them to cover Angela?

[@angelahenrique_historiadora]

@@mormonstories I think Melissa could talk more about her experience marrying a guy with a polygamist background. Her feelings, doubts and fears about it (If they happened) and Sam could explore a little more about his transition from FLDS beliefs to Lds beliefs. What were the doctrine questions that he carried for a long time or put on the shelf. Thanks a lot. Wow, I have a suggestion: Bring Marcelo and Sandra Ribeiro from "Mormonismo sem censura". This couple rocks and have helped the Brazilian post Mormon community to thrive and find a place. Thanks a lot

[@jamparker969]

@@mormonstories a deep dive into Melissa's mormon story, with maybe a fuller recount of their transition from both perspectives would be amazing! Melissa's story had me wanting a fuller deeper dive. I understand it might seem repetitive, but I think her story about digging into the what she found on mormon approved sources, and what she was able to find out after talking to her dad and looking into "anti-mormom" content would be fascinating and informative. Also hearing about when they were able to learn about Warren Jeff's without the framework of religion and processing all that would be so interesting.

[@smockedtop9720]

GREAT couple. GREAT insight. GREAT story. Thanks for putting me onto their channel Mormon stories!!!

[@hannahclara7929]

Love this interview. Would love to see Melissa back for her own full interview. She speaks so passionately and clearly.

[@michellez13]

Wow, Melissa & Sam… I’ve watched your channel since the beginning. This had me in tears. I would consider myself agnostic. My personal belief is that 100% the universe connected you both. It was so amazing to hear a lot of Melissa’s story which is just as gut wrenching. I cannot wait for the next interview and I’ll be exploring this channel too. Religion has always intrigued me. You two are just such a beautifully intelligent and spiritual couple. ✨

[@oneofmanykats]

Definitely my favorite episode. Felt like listening to a the script of a movie about an amazing love story. Loved listening to both these beautiful people. Glad they have a KZbin channel because if not I'd be begging for a book.

[@jcny11]

Amazing interview. Sam and Melissa have so much grace and love.

[@badgerrambler]

What a heartbreaking and bittersweet journey for these lovely people. Such a powerful episode.

[@lsun5322]

Hello from Australia! So pleased you’re on Mormon Stories Podcast!!!!

[@michellesunshinestar]

I joined when Hinkley was prophet. I felt like I had a connection to him. Because my dad was also an architect. And also, he's the reason why Columbus has a temple. Which really helped my family out, who were non-members. It's an 8-hour drive to DC. We used to visit my uncle who lived there. And when I was a new member, we would go to DC to do baptisms.

[@arkjag2991]

Incredible interview. Thanks to all involved.

[@joycebell6912]

To make such changes takes an enormous strength of spirit. Hats off to both Of you. My wish for you is to keep growing……bless you both .

[@laurengarcia1023]

Thanks so much for not making us wait too long for part 2!!!!

[@cheekymonkey8789]

Loved these interviews with Sam and Melissa!!

[@HumblyQuestioning]

This episode hit me really hard. Thank you for the honesty and brutal, often gut wrenching, transparency.

[@chelseasummers2365]

This was very interesting. I learned a lot and I have to say I take my hat off to this young couple for being so brave.

[@aprilstearns9104]

I totally love the story of your last names, Sam. Bless your adopted family, and bless you and Melissa.

[@terryramsey1484]

It's so interesting to see how the similarities in different Religious groups. I was raised in a very conservative church. So many similarities but just not quite as controlling. Also, many similarities between the LDS and FLDS groups and they don't see it. Once you step away is when you can see it. ( Can't see the forest because of the trees) I feel for people stuck there and for the ones leaving. I remember I cried every Sunday after leaving the group I was raised in. I kept praying to God that I didn't want to go to Hell and if leaving was gonna send me to Hell, please stop me. He just kept giving me peace. I have the most peace that I've ever had.

[@floraher5898]

Wow listening to their stories was like binge watching the Netflix documentary! So much good information. Thank you for sharing your stories!

[@katf1540]

I'm not Mormon, but truly enjoy your videos. I'm so captivated.

[@aprilstearns9104]

I hadn't heard your story of how you left the LDS church before. Although my own story of leaving organized religion nearly 50 years ago is different, I can still relate so deeply with yours. Definitely brings up tears of joy. ❤❤❤

[@sarkahalastova9667]

Wow. The last hour of this conversation really blew my mind. It's amazing that Sam was not only able to shake off the clutches of fundamentalist indoctrination but eventually become such a critical thinker! Some people raised in a free society could not be able to make this journey and realize and accept the "power of the mind" as Sam did. I have seen some truly incredible, thoughtful people on your show and it thought me so much about indoctrination (religious or non-religious) in general.

[@GoldenMom815]

It was super interesting to learn more about Melissa! Thanks for the past few episodes. I came to your channel because so many people mentioned Sam and Melissa would be on during a live stream on Eskel Grant’s channel…now I’ll be binging old episodes.

[@mr.hermit2433]

Stories of Courage. Thank You for Sharing.

[@Redwings1945]

I have never understood this religion, because I’m aware of the shunning if you leave or kicked out among other things, like child abuse. My heart hurts wishing I could do something to help ones who decide to leave. They need more love & support, so they don’t feel that guilt and move to self destruction. Denying access to your family because you believe in something different is next level evil!! If someone keeps you away because they don’t want you to teach something else, it’s because it’s lies, you don’t have to be afraid of anything if it’s the truth. I just want to give you all a big hug.

[@FoxDreams]

Sometimes, it takes years before you can honor the man/woman/family who actually was a parent to you -- When I was divorced after 20 years of marriage I asked my stepfather -- who was the only man who ever WAS my father -- if I could have his name. He cried, I cried, I'm a Fox now ♥

[@yvonnekneeshaw2784]

I’m thankful that my relationship with Jesus Christ is about believing in Him, inviting Him into my heart (life) and asking forgiveness for my sin. Jesus fills the vacuum in my soul rather relying on works. Jesus loves me so much that He died for me and I have certainty of my future in Heaven when I die. ✝️

[@AnnBowers-yw3yw]

Seriously the best episode ever

[@Randibunny]

Oh those poor sweet babies 🥹 I just wanna hug y’all so hard ❤ with all the loves

[@leannhill3741]

Fantastic interview. Super interesting and informative! Thank you Sam and Melissa

[@paulawilliams7030]

These two are so honest and Eloquent in there conversations.

[@susanmagalas3074]

I am so impressed by the ability of this young couple to speak the truth. It's heartbreaking and hard to believe how people can grow up in complete fear of religion. If we teach our children anything we need to teach them to seek the truth and trust their feelings.

[@whimsical_me5135]

Shunning is such a destructive practice.. My granny hasn't talked to her youngest son in thirty years. She's starting to get dementia and I'm not even sure she remembers that she had three kids. My sister and I have both left the religion and I asked my dad how it could be paradise for him without us and he couldn't answer me.

[@sc766]

Such a great interview. Thank you Melissa and Sam for all your time and sharing such deep and sensitive parts of your lives!!! Can't wait for Melissa to come back!

[@amanda_weber1]

I'm so glad we got to hear part of Melissa's story too. I didn't know that's what I needed to hear today. My experience was similar falling inlove with the YSA elders quorum president, the most righteous and faithful man who I expected be a Bishop or mission president soon. We served as temple ordinance workers together and I thought it was the most humbling experience to watch my husband officiate the endowment presentation in his 20s. I never expected to lose my faith. I never expected my foundation to fall apart, but thankfully my husband has been so accepting and loving along the way. I now find myself missing that part of life though. I miss feeling that strong spiritual high or spiritual connection with my spouse from when we were doing so much church stuff. I feel like I'm missing that spiritual growth and connection but I dont know where to get it.

[@steph7614]

Have you seen the episode with Samantha Shelley which I think is titled "finding personal healing"? She has some really good insight into how to find meaning & purpose in life after leaving an ideology like this. You may find it really helpful

[@amanda_weber1]

Thank you 😊

[@susanreid122]

I feel like I've been on an emotional rollercoaster following both of your journeys Sam and Melissa. I'm so glad you're in a good place now. I'd like to know if you are still open to other religions, specifically mainstream Christianity. I have to confess that I'm secretly hoping the answer is no to be honest, but in any case it would be interesting to hear. Much love to both of you. Xx