Most Entitled Person EVER | Financial Audit

[@CalebHammer]

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[@DudeNamedRed]

I'd subscribe to watch it but then I think about how you'd react to youtube subscriptions on my cc bill.

[@KennethOdom-ve5vc]

​@@DudeNamedRed33

[@noahwagoner7650]

@@DudeNamedRed dude same!!!

[@lucascolantoni8012]

@@jannadark8100well Austin Texas does attract a wide diverse pool of people as it is more accepting than pathetic bigots like you 😘

[@echotango4591]

@@jannadark8100 they’re hyper online and attention seeking, they’re gonna make up a disproportionate amount of any show like this.

[@HM-mz2je]

I genuinely dont understand how someone who is going through something like a transition, also going through a messy divorce, has a 4yr old kid, no job, contemplating bankruptcy, moving across the country and SOMEHOW has time to be getting into a new relationship? Like priorities. Take time to be alone.

[@JunkSock]

This situation isn’t possible without an internet addiction. Plenty of time to connect and affirm

[@katiempojer]

I do not either , in AA they told us NO major decisions within the first year

[@Maialeen]

The fact that anyone wants a relationship with....whatever this is.

[@drea409]

Unless I missed it, he didn't mention how / when he got together with his current partner. I'm thinking it could very well be that he cheated on his wife with this person and conveniently left that out. No I don't know for sure but it might be what happened. It would help explain how hostile she was during the divorce. Not to mention, it would be very hard to establish a relationship in his current position, it would make a lot more sense if he was already in the relationship

[@Tre2cool96]

@@drea409 I am pretty sure they said in the video that they were together for 6 months

[@bobbytabernacle]

If I’m 6 months into a relationship they already wrecked my car and now I’m sitting and listening to them contemplate bankruptcy you bet your ass I’m OUTTA THERE 😳

[@Cattlynt]

Don’t forget about the tires she put on his truck 2 weeks after meeting!!

[@TonyCox1351]

Just got through a very messy divorce where they were accused of felonies. No red flags here!

[@bobbytabernacle]

@@TonyCox1351 I hear you but I wouldn’t put it past an extremely religious person to make up lies about their trans husband in order to get full custody if what they’re doing goes against everything they believe in. Cis gender people do stuff like that all the time just out of spite

[@dealerofgame]

Literally insane. People love the wrong people

[@precious_toebeans]

I really hope the partner reads comments like these. They need to run! Don't fall for the sunken cost fallacy!

[@kristenb2127]

Probably going to catch hate for this - this is not an adult that should have 50/50 custody of a child. Made the 4 year old sleep on the couch of a stranger because of homelessness, refuses to get a job, actively waiting for mommy to die to get an inheritance, etc. And actively abusing the good hearted nature of the current partner doesn't seem like someone that suffered as explained. We already know there is zero accountability being taken for the finances, it seems like that is probably a theme.

[@vale_rawrrrx3593]

PREACHHHHHH 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@DodoLP]

The ex-wife hadnt had a job for duration of their marriage lmfao yet he is wrong because he cant FIND a job ?

[@rd24life]

This DUDE in a dress is not responsible at all and is genuinely a bad person

[@TabithaBrain]

@@DodoLPhe’s wrong bc he decided after getting married and taking a vow then bringing a child into the marriage to appropriate women and pretend he’s not mentally unwell.

[@DodoLP]

doesnt make wife good person either, why you bash only him lol

[@alpacaman6256]

Lifted truck. Works in IT. 4 year old child. Divorce. Contemplating bankruptcy. Is this person 26 or 46? Is my life going too slowly? What the F.

[@bethreacher5538]

It’s absolutely insane

[@Mkrause762]

Quarter life crisis

[@alpacaman6256]

@@Mkrause762 I need to get a move on, I won't be able to transition before 30 at this rate.

[@AlyssaDeDraino-b4x]

Amen, women can't get other women pregnant.

[@shirleymalley5420]

Ntm have an RV yet still got an apartment knowi g he had to make payments but didnt get rid of the rv when got the apartment?? Like wooow a clown is a clown.

[@Highwaffles420]

Paying off a truck from 2007 in 2024 it’s absolutely wild

[@lisawynne1995]

Exactly! We purchased one of those same trucks for $800 needed a little bit of work done but all in maybe $1100 and all paid for no loans! That is NOT a truck you should have a loan on!

[@TechWizard312]

@@lisawynne1995personally I think trucks hold value well. You probably lucked out. I just traded my 2010 in for $11,000. Probably could have got more private. I doubt a 3 year older vehicle would be that much less.

[@jwcarlson]

It's lifted though.

[@MyWins]

@@jwcarlson😂

[@rubydelta6]

Yeah I bought my 2015 dodge dart on 2017 and had it paid off by 2020

[@wolfymaster]

Caleb seems to be giving less of a fuck with these people's excuses and I love it.

[@dmoney7536]

Jaded

[@DarkDramon]

After listening to so much bullshit, he probably spots it and doesn't feed into it anymore.

[@turtleanton6539]

​@@dmoney7536yeeh

[@StephanieBrooks-gi2zi]

He’s tired of seeing the same poor me in the victim entitled stupid purchases he’s over it

[@katheliznelson]

I’m still stuck on the “my Lawyer was wonderful and is letting me pay on my own time” but then is ready to declare bankruptcy which means this fantastic lawyer will get barely anything for all their time, effort, and compassion.

[@RealBoiJare]

No good deed goes unpunished

[@Ripley751]

This is common practice. Lawyers can easily garnish wages. Sure, you don’t have 2k now, but you can pay 4K over 5 years.

[@CidVeldoril]

Honestly? If you can't pay, then you can't pay. Bankruptcy exists for a reason.

[@xbebe]

Yeah people are assholes and only think about themselves. Of course I’m learning this the hard way.

[@MimiRAM0NE]

Everyone is an appliance to a narcissist

[@jenniferb6196]

Am I the only one who thinks the ex could use this video to get full custody ?

[@Al3xTrucho20]

An she should

[@firefalcoln]

We don’t have enough information to make the call either way. There’s a reason judges get both sides of a disagreement to attend court and make their case, rather than just hearing from one side.

[@dwightrenfield2241]

BS. This gut is mental.

[@IndiaNumberOneCoubtry]

​@@firefalcolnUhh bro. Let me ask you one thing, would you let this guy watch your kids? I rest my case.

[@firefalcoln]

@@IndiaNumberOneCoubtry I don’t have enough information to feel confident with her watching a child. Nor do I have enough information to conclude that her Ex would be acceptable. My point remains that one person seeming bad doesn't make their Ex "the more responsible one".

[@Uniquelyneek]

The single in me really felt Caleb’s “Oh so you found someone already…wow..”

[@tear728]

Yea well queer dudes seem dtf anywhere anytime, not really a difficult thing to find

[@3rdsidetriangle]

Not to be bashful. But when your not looking for quality, but to use people of course he found someone that quick.

[@80aj21]

To be fair they have been seperated/in the divorce process for a year and a half, and in the new city for a year ish. Not that outlandish, although not what I would do.

[@TonyCox1351]

@@80aj21I had to hear this at one stage in my life and it was tough to here, but at some point you shouldn’t date simply because you have nothing to offer your partner. This person is emotionally and financially damaged and needs to stay single and work on themselves for as long as it takes to get control of their life.

[@briana5772]

Same. Felt it in my bones.

[@Ali-je7tt]

If I catch my kids depending on the inheritance/handouts over taking care of themselves, an animal rescue is going to be very happy when I die.

[@pacifica9718]

❤😂

[@AnalyticalMenace]

Good call.

[@nikki__west]

💯

[@BzerkBnny]

lol my oldest sister asked our dad if she could have her part of her inheritance earlier to buy a house… my dad was like 50 years old at that moment 😂😂 how does she know how much she’ll get IF we get something? 😂 I thought it was sadly funny. I think the worst part of it is that they‘be not been talking to each other for years when she asked that. The balls on that girl.

[@trellified]

🤣🤣

[@fivepoint2]

I think the worst part about this wasnt even the debt. It was the taking advantage of the new partner, falling back on mom and grandma, giving up because "Oh well I'll get a $250,000 inheritance". Overall super gross and irresponsible I've been bad with money in the past but no way I'd just give up that easily.

[@DevHazy]

When though when is the inheritance

[@davisholman8149]

$250,000 is nice - but definitely not a fortune. When the average home is $425,000 in Tucson - it’s a nice down payment, but NOT a free house.🤷🏾‍♂️

[@MotherOfWednesday]

All of the borrowing from mom will be a regret. It is disgusting to talk about inheritance as if it is a retirement fund because someone has to die for you to get it. It doesn't feel good to gain a bank balance at the expense of a parents life.

[@zackc3767]

Betting on the 250k inheritance is such a risk. 250k in 30 years will be like 100k or less.

[@Frosty1026]

Having a divorce and moving can super fuck you not that’s the end all be all but those two things threw a monkey wrench in a life. She could be a 100% better but I can see where the bad ball started really rolling

[@ContrarianBehavior]

When someone repeatedly says "I don't deserve them, they're too good for me" I'm inclined to believe what's coming out of their own mouth!

[@rachelvaupel6915]

This person literally cares more about their 17 year old truck than their 4 year old daughter, who is flesh and blood. They only talked about their parents in terms of how wealthy they are, and how they could be used as a means to an end to get into more debt. And worse still, their partner is encouraging them on this ego trip to go to law school and do whatever they want and shirk all responsibility. This one was just gross. Anyone who cares more about trucks than their kids, or who views family as dollar signs, needs some serious help.

[@LiliumCruorem]

He*

[@KuroiErza]

i felt the partner was kinda done with him/her lmao

[@MissTaelus]

​@thatguy4026generally not more than they love their children.

[@MissTaelus]

@thatguy4026 we live in a world where it's hard to detect what should be obvious sarcasm. Sorry I didn't catch your joke right away.

[@megsley]

dude is a pathological narcissist.

[@cobymclaughlin3453]

“Regarding that, my family has great credit” Immediate hate. All around. That’s disgusting to manipulate and use your loved ones like that. Absolutely not, despicable behavior.

[@3rdsidetriangle]

Yes!! So your telling me your plan is your family. Hes running his family dry or will be in the future if no chance is made.

[@colin1818]

@@3rdsidetriangle - He's running his family dry and also his new girlfriend.

[@shadowfox2120]

His family is the one that says yes. If they stand firm and say no they'll have to figure out what comes next.

[@gregsimoes8645]

This person trying to single-handedly prove Caleb wrong when he tells people their kids will feel obligated to take care of irresponsible parents when they're older and broke.

[@zguy95135]

It's honestly hard to watch, this person is absolutely vile and narcissistic.

[@Anxietyman93]

“I hate car based transportation” proceeds to drive a lifted off roading truck on the daily

[@elizabethrochester6930]

I’m half way though. Dude had 4 vehicles at one point! 😂

[@dukewellington7050]

When your confused on something as fundamental as what gender you are, you're bound to be confused about other things as well.

[@Spaceman99966]

Almost like he has male hobbies , I wonder why

[@jewellry]

@@dukewellington7050 I dont think you have done enough critical thinking to understand what people with gender dysphoria are feeling.

[@SamusKitsune]

My girl should just sell the cars and get something cheap that'll get her place to place fr.

[@rolomomo1]

"That kid has so many emotional problems from being taken from me" are you sure about that

[@Aus10c]

Sure about that…….? You sure about that………?

[@nymaddieaz]

To be fair, that could really be the case. The child likely doesn't understand what's going on, they just know that they went from having this person around all the time to not having them present a lot of the time. I feel really bad for the kid, I hope she turns out ok.

[@shadmahuda]

“That kid” hate when people talk about their children like some randoms

[@williamsherman2776]

@@nymaddieazno they are traumatized from there dad becoming a women

[@current3109]

That kid is definitely traumatized. It’s like their father passed away. Why is daddy dressing up and acting like a girl mommy? Why did he change his name to Venessa? Where is my dad mommy? I miss my dad!

[@Sconstable]

Mooches off parents. Mooches off lawyer. Mooches off new love. Puts dying vehicles before debt repayment. Let’s daughter couch surf. Gets involved in a marriage that is bound to fail because it starts in deception. This is just irresponsible. I can’t with this one.

[@emithesheep]

This one was really sad for the child involved and ex wife

[@amiedavis5257]

Delusional, Irresponsible, ENTITLED, first marriage you can guarantee started in deception and now "current" relationship also started in deception. This person takes absolutely no responsibility for everything. Absolutely couldn't agree MORE with you. I just can't with this one.

[@ssance]

I’m so confused why do these people come on a show about fixing their finances but then push back on every piece of advice they’re given?

[@Poemiserable]

Psychologically, it's actually very simple to explain. It's usually down to one of two things. One, they're a narcissist to the point that they want the attention more than they care about the bad press. Two, a lack of self-awareness and a kind of cognitive dissociation allowed them to get into the debt in the first place. That probably relied on them externalising their mistakes for years, to remove themselves from blame or responsibility. So, in a lot of cases, the person is incapable of seeing that they're the problem and they assume that Caleb won't see that they are either. They think he'll identify some other boogie-man that's to blame instead. And, give them some easy pointers to fix it.

[@Alescandon135]

Because what they actually want is Caleb to say "This actually is not that bad. your spending is pretty good, you're just getting screwed by the world" That and people like to be on camera

[@eedre4864]

It’s funny how people who are chronically bad decision makers with their lives also do not want advice on how to recognize bad decisions. I guess that comes with the territory.

[@ssance]

@@Poemiserable that’s a good hypothesis

[@marklabonte2925]

@@Alescandon135but he NEVER says that to anybody. Do they even watch the show?

[@Kaiser_Paradigm]

It's always a red flag, as a parent myself, when people say "the kid" not "my son/daughter"

[@funnytime1111]

Could be that because she is trans she doesn't want to assign gender

[@dallasarrowood3075]

why? doesn't seem like much of a difference

[@helenr4300]

My kid beats a kid anyday

[@regularity2556]

​@@dallasarrowood3075 It's a big red flag for me

[@rachel3620]

In the context of a public interview with a person that hates children, I feel like "the kid" is just fine. Also, she's autistic and likely does some mirroring of Caleb who calls them the kid.

[@ruthsoger621]

Ok look. I'm literally going through a similar situation. My ex started transitioning after we had been together for 10 years and had an 8 year old (he's 9 now). We live 2 hours apart from each other and meet halfway so we each get to have equal time with our son. So that, "I cant leave Tucson, my son is here." is BS. You do what you need to do to support your child. This person just doesn't want to do anything for themselves.

[@valkyrienails5678]

My stepdaughter's mom moved 2 hours away as well, we meet every other weekend halfway so she can spend weekends with her mom. Earlier on we lived in Texas and she lived 13 hours away, we still met halfway every 3 weeks (this was before she was in school so we could do long chunks of time). You make it work

[@calwooten]

notice how every single one of the exit strategies involves relying on someone else to pick up the slack or pay for them? What a parasite.

[@alb0zfinest]

What are you talking about? She got a IT certification, she opened up her own business (obviously it failed but initiative is initiative), how tf is that a parasite? She got dealt a number of bad cards having to move states because her child was taken from her, divorce, falsely accused of abusing her own child and other insane shit, taking up debts for paying lawyers etc All the while dealing with internal mental struggles about who they are as a person. Fuck off with this judgmental bs.

[@queenvanagon]

Typical failed male.

[@BossMan_Jerm]

Common amongst the leftists

[@23kurtzy]

Yeah I don’t 100% buy my ex wife was completely abusive. Considering I’ll just drain my parents funds is one of his strategies.

[@alexruiz7399]

@@BossMan_Jerm how do you know their a leftist? I can name you multiple conservatives trans people 😂

[@beyondcarolina8512]

I’d love to hear the ex wife’s side.

[@bboy1613]

I want to hear her side so bad

[@carolinetench5043]

The other side of the story is obvious

[@Ben-gg3dp]

Same...

[@Ethiodawg]

We need her on the show 🤣

[@jerrystauffer2351]

I'm on her side. She's Catholic so him declaring himself trans would of course cause her to freak out and run.

[@Edges]

If they started with “my mom is my safety net” this could have been a short episode.

[@pwnzindaface]

Yeah he is a trainwreck

[@MimiRAM0NE]

He shit on the wife for living with her parents rent free.

[@AbbygaileHearne]

@@MimiRAM0NEAND she’s paying his lawyer fees but he’s asking for money from his parents ! What a pos

[@LuluVee-ql4jr]

The way he says “diddling the kid” when speaking of his own child. You’d think someone would put that differently. Not so lightly. And say MY CHILD. She wrongly accused me of touching my child. Not “diddlin the kid” yuck

[@CCLFan1]

Yes! And you'd think that someone who was falsely accused by their religious bigot ex would be more incensed and disgusted that she lied like that.

[@hannahlabyrinth1945]

My exact thoughts of why I believe he did something to the kid

[@wildsoniadiaries273]

Saying you don’t deserve your partner is a huge red flag and means they’re going to continue to avoid responsibility and accountability

[@AdaGeddon]

Saying that seemed manipulative af.

[@TimesUp8888]

And don't forget Weaponized Incompetence. 😂

[@wildsoniadiaries273]

@@TimesUp8888 omg yes classic combo it’s gross to watch

[@Poemiserable]

Saying you don't deserve your partner isn't a red flag at all. In fact, it's a green flag because the most successful relationships are often typified by a strong undercurrent of gratitude. However, like all things, it's contextual. In the case of this person, everything is a red flag.

[@fionna_cool_girl]

​@@Poemiserable more often than not, saying you don't deserve your partner is a red flag. Whether it be from self esteem issues, using those words in order to manipulate, or to make yourself feel better, etc, it's often used in those ways. Saying you don't deserve your partner means there's something wrong going on with yourself mentally that you need therapy for or the relationship itself needs something to change or you need couples counseling.

[@Metonymy1979]

This person will be in perpetual drama. I've never met anyone that blinks that much that isn't all drama all the time

[@truckingwithtobee]

Maybe it’s a medical reason.

[@pwnzindaface]

They're obviously mentally ill, it's a man in a costume

[@lordmaximus5]

hahah that's so true stay clear of the blinkers

[@Mika-yn9mj]

Repetitive blinking can be a trait of autism.

[@Colesauve]

@@Mika-yn9mj autism and transgenderism goes together like peanut butter and jelly

[@juliahall4359]

“My wonderful partner, who is way too sweet and trusting…” “I don’t deserve my partner. They’re far too wonderful for me.” When people say things like this, they’re being honest. Listen to them. They know their partner is too sweet and trusting which translates to easily manipulated and blind to the narcissistic tendencies they’re subject to.

[@sawmill035]

*He

[@6lav]

Not necessarily. It could be a genuinely sincere statement and not narcissistic.

[@Redwoodvoyager]

​@@6lav😂

[@DamisBerrutti]

Or they suffer real mental health problems. I used to think that anybody who cared about me was too much cuz I had severe self-esteem issues but it doesn't feel like that in this case

[@Sootsprite444]

@@DamisBerruttiAw I was gonna comment something similar. It’s 100% a red flag in this context, but those phrases could also point to someone with deep shame and/or relationship issues. I had to unlearn that because I would make unnecessary sacrifices to try and “earn” the love my wonderful partner had already shown me. But then you lose focus on your own life and friends.

[@achach228]

Poor ex wife. This divorce alone, regardless of outcome, is a huge W for her

[@FlexedNoose]

Eh taking their kid halfway across the country due to a transition…not really a win there. Bit unhinged really

[@basilman121]

​@FlexedNoose big disagree. Wife was doing what was best. And we don't know how long it was before they removed their child from this situation after hearing the transition decision.

[@JoeySmith101]

That $250k that someone slaved their life away for to provide for their offspring is going to be squandered soooo bad. That’s the saddest part.

[@africanlipplateandbonenose3223]

250k for sex change surgery LOL

[@brohogany9920]

I'd be rolling in my grave if this dude was my great grand child

[@jamiealfenso737]

Hope she watches this and puts it in the grand daughters name

[@a.salmon8193]

​@@jamiealfenso737Perfect. And appoint a neutral administrator to look after it so the father can't influence her.

[@lizzy9975]

Clogs to glogs I three generations.....

[@jacksyoutubechannel4045]

You know, after watching the whole thing, I just feel badly for the ex-wife. Based on all our context clues, she was a Catholic stay-at-home mom with a house and a husband, who woke up one day and was told her husband was transgender (and, it seems, not allowed to have any feelings about that whatsoever). Meanwhile, Willow goes around acting as though the ex-wife was some sort of red-pill fantasy villain who upended _Willow's_ life. (By the way, the ex-wife and child would've had to have been in Arizona for at least _six months_ without any objection from Willow for it to be considered the home state of the child for purposes of custodial determination. So, being cynical -- and based on what was said in the episode -- it seems like the desire for 50/50 custody might have had a lot more to do with not wanting to pay child support than it did with wanting parenting time.)

[@bahwickee]

you are right. this person noped out big time.

[@nagkampa2781]

He did say that's all I wanted, I will always want 100% of time and custody my my children!

[@uchewb3]

@@nagkampa2781It is very difficult legally to get 100% custody for a child unless one parent just doesn’t care/ is negligent/ is abusive. Sometimes courts still give partial custody to documented abusers. Wanting 50% would read as wanting the kid to still have both parents, which if both parents are nice people, would generally be better for the child. Wanting 100% (to basically take your kid from their other parent) is super selfish if that parent is a good parent and person.

[@pdg7290]

Exactly. People, including Caleb, almost making the ex into a villain. Her whole world literally got turned upside down and pissed on. Her husband said he wants to be a woman and now she has to navigate if he's sound mind enough (clearly isn't based on this episode)

[@erinerinerinOOO]

Caring about your “identity” more than your wife and child is the sign of a truly selfish individual.

[@camille79]

Bring the ex-wife on!! Now THAT would be interesting!

[@lindedesigns]

I would be so interested in her financial situation. After watching only half of this episode I feel like she might have escaped a very bad situation.

[@lamp7746]

@@lindedesignsshe did, there’s no doubt about it

[@KM-re1el]

I feel bad for her. She was a SAHM for years and isn’t likely to actually get any child support from her ex husband.

[@VioletJoy]

That WOULD be super interesting!!!

[@johnkonde1975]

ex wife made a very foolish decision to marry this financially irresponsible man-child so I really don't care to hear what she thinks, she's almost as much of a hopeless case as this dude. Plenty of women are shallow and marry useless men simply because he's tall, handsome etc. and this is what happens smh

[@ChillnKillin]

This guy calling his ex wife “abusive” is wild considering he single handedly destroyed his family with his own selfish actions

[@SydneyBristow0788]

💯

[@natalieknott1426]

With this person's habits $250,000 would be gone in under 3 years.

[@pmcgktr]

It’s almost as if women can like trucks 🤯

[@lineage254]

@@pmcgktr What women?

[@DamisBerrutti]

Or less😢

[@imperialdra-mon5907]

if it was me i would be gone in 1 day for a house and furniture😂

[@jamescaldow5608]

A Year. I promise you

[@turtlescanfly7]

As a lawyer, they will not admit you into the Bar with a recent bankruptcy. You have to pass moral character and fitness which includes a credit check. If you have money problems you’re seen as high risk for stealing or abusing your fiduciary duties with client trust funds. They will not allow you to be an attorney if you have significant money troubles. I knew someone who had a bankruptcy on file from over a decade before and he had to do a bunch of additional things to get admitted to prove he had rehabilitated his money issues. It doesn’t matter if mom takes out a parent plus loan, you’ll do all that work and will end up with a JD without becoming a lawyer and have to be a paralegal.

[@Madamchief]

I've never heard of this but it makes so much sense! I wish there was a similar requirement for healthcare practitioners to be of sound fitness before getting a license. I'm appalled to see other nurses and doctors smoking or having a giant gut telling their patients to change their lifestyle 🤦‍♀️

[@sawmill035]

But he's trans, so doesn't he automatically get exceptions for every policy that exists in the law? Family guy said it best: "You're trans? I'm sorry. Do whatever you want all the time."

[@phaedrapage4217]

The saddest part of that is that you don't even need any kind of higher education to be a paralegal in some states, and some attorneys actually prefer that you not even have any prior experience so they can train you. My mom had to switch careers after a bad car wreck in her mid-40s and an old high school friend of hers hired her and trained her, she turned out to be an excellent paralegal.

[@leandrafernandez3544]

Yep, this is the same with finance. Except the background checks are constant, not just one time.

[@rachaelbrugmans4309]

​@Madamchief you take what you can get when it comes to industries like healthcare where too few people are willing to deal with the stress

[@toddw.8277]

This is a professional victim. The whole world is unfair to them and they will never take any credit for the mess of a life they are leading. Good God I fear for this child.

[@paulj2948]

Who is the "they" you reference? He's one person, singular.

[@SailorScoutSid]

@@paulj2948 *she. She is a professional victim ;)

[@Bettersucksaul]

@@paulj2948”They” has been used as singular for ages.

[@jeffyboi6969]

@@paulj2948 if you think there is only one of this type of person you are laughably naive.

[@jeffyboi6969]

@@paulj2948 hence your rhetorical question asking who "they" is when you know EXACTLY what we're talking about.

[@yesnonotexactly25]

No one whose spouse is abusive and kidnapped their child would ever fight for 50/50 custody, thats a bs story for sure, I'd be interested to know what really went down

[@lostandfound5145]

I can tell you easily what happened. This man is insane. His wife has a small child and an insane husband. Despite her poor choice in spouse she was smart enough to escape with the child to a location she has some kind of support to be a single mom with an insane ex husband she has co parent with. I wish her and that poor little kid the absolute best.

[@I.no.ah.guy57]

​@@lostandfound5145 he said his wife fled to Tucson, and he decided to up and move AND FOLLOW HER TO THE SAME CITY. I get he has 50/50 custody, but its like he said to himself "oh I guess WE'RE moving to Tucson now" 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 Like sure, move close by, but the same city?? Really?? She moved to be AWAY from you and you followed her

[@theangriestoftabbies]

@@I.no.ah.guy57for control

[@SashaFierce411]

The way this person takes advantage of the new partner really makes you question the validity of claims made against the ex-wife.

[@Devion702]

The new partners not much either

[@kybet1764]

I don’t believe a word of it.

[@MimiRAM0NE]

Yup. Taking advantage of the mother and lawyer too. Pretty obvious pattern.

[@AbbygaileHearne]

Best comment

[@ab-gail]

Tbh

[@AstreaJones-m6e]

Who thinks the wife was not the problem?

[@Liimpy]

👋... wierd that half the comments are blaming the spouse based on what I presume are lies coming from this guys mouth.. people are really insane

[@AstreaJones-m6e]

Not to mention the selfishness, immaturity, delusion, and just plain weirdness.

[@elizalupi7316]

You are just transphobic is what it is

[@bboy1613]

Same

[@Judithica]

Idk, when a parent steals their kid across the country...

[@maddyvogel4525]

The partner needs to gtfo. They crashed their car?!? Put them in debt?!? They need to leave.

[@sublimestate931]

The partner seemed just as bad and made even more excuses for him, she might be a perfect match lol

[@DEPUTYGETSOME]

This assault on grammar is so enraging.

[@xgqv]

whose worse, offering to pay a large purchase for someone you just met, OR being the person who takes advantage of someone kindness?

[@philwill0123]

@@xgqv Always Someone who takes advantage. That person will take and go, and always can say no

[@frankvonfrauner]

See how confusing things get when you try to play the pronoun game with these narcissists?

[@bosheepsheep]

Trans or not, you don’t make a life altering decision when your family is struggling! It’s equivalent to a part having a mid life crisis and deciding to quit job to become a singer or painter - something to that effect. Willow should have focused on protecting their family financially. Also when you are a parent it isn’t about you and your personal identity anymore. You become a unit with your family. When your kids get older, you can get more involved with hobbies and further defining your individuality. When you are married and a parent you have to first think of your family and how your decisions may affect their lives. You may really want something and have access to it to make you feel better or feel more you but you have to ask yourself … “how would I be happy if I couldn’t have access to this decision” and hopefully the answer is - “the love and wellbeing of my family”. They always come first just as your spouse would put you and your child first when it comes to their decisions. You become as one and it isn’t only about you- it sucks for a lot of people to hear that but it’s just the truth. Always make decisions based on what will move your family forward in harmony rather than first seeking your own interests.

[@basilman121]

You said this very well. Marriage is a commitment to FAMILY. You are supposed to sacrifice for them to be one. I feel bad for the mother not (possibly) realizing they are a narcassist

[@BK-tp6jf]

That person is spitting on all commitment made I don't know why they always go for very Christian faithful traditional women. I am sure if he felt like transitioning he could have found a woman who accept a trans woman and have children and be this way from the start. Why go ruin a life to a woman who dream of a traditional Christian husband ? He mad evows on front of her the church God her parents and his parents now he like sorry screw you I am a woman. Why not be truthful from the start?

[@ab-gail]

👏👏

[@erindrawsstuff]

Really excited to say I do not have to apply to be on the show after all--during my late teens/early twenties I had recklessly dug myself into over $11,000 of credit card debt (all of them were 30% interest). I finally broke down last October, took a second job in December, moved back home in January, and as of today I made my last payment and am completely debt-free! I'm now working toward opening a 401k with my current job and saving for an emergency fund like a crazy person for the rest of the year (lots of sandwiches in my future). Thank you Caleb for creating this show and for all the hard work you and your team do!

[@matthewb1529]

Way to not have the victim mentality and making it happen, congrats ! not being sarcastic either, well done.

[@Adam-iy2ko]

go get it, girl 🔥

[@StandAloneState]

Amazing!! Congratulations

[@wormytastic]

I just wanted to say I'm really proud of you! Fantastic work!

[@tracy_cakkes]

I’m in the same spot rn Eating turkey sandwiches and paying off this $4,500 in cc debt while being a full time student

[@robhrouda]

Spoiled narcissist. What an embarrassment.

[@MimiRAM0NE]

Just living off their girlfriend waiting for their mother and gradmother to die and get their money. Dude solely lives off exploiting women.

[@lousqwab5761]

Embarrassment is an understatement.

[@joelthemodelcitizen]

“I work on my own vehicles.” Goes to an express line for an oil change.

[@iistheknight]

I haven’t watched yet, literally two minutes in and I can tell I’m not going to have much sympathy for this person- -that said, I’ve tried to figure out how it’s cheaper to change my own oil, and it just objectively isn’t, at least where I live 39 dollars for an oil change at the mechanic vs 31.99 for the oil and filter from the auto zone and my time I’m sure this person doesn’t utilize their time well, but it’s still probably the only financial reasonable thing they do

[@joelthemodelcitizen]

@@iistheknight for me it’s the peace of mind in doing it myself. I’ve been to a number of shops where they screw some minor thing up. They don’t tighten the filter properly, or the drain plug or they underfill it. Then there is all the up charges and pitches to sign up for some credit card. Plus, I’d rather be doing the work than sitting in a jiffy lube lobby watching dr. Phil and listening to customers and kids scream. I know not all shops are like this, but plenty of them are. If you’ve got a mechanic you trust, I think you’re right. There is no financial benefit to doing your own oil change, but peace of mind is a factor.

[@iistheknight]

@@joelthemodelcitizen For sure, the mechanic has known the family for 15 years and the one time one of his guys messed up and didn’t fill the oil all the way, he fixed the whole problem and didn’t charge us for it. I listened to the episode now and the oil change was just laziness on this guys part. Sadly an oil change really is a nuance thing where someone like myself trying to get out of debt has to calculate the cost of dropping the car off to get an oil change while I work vs the time id spend doing it myself, and the 8 dollars I’d “save” using my weekend freelance job time to do it myself isn’t financially responsible

[@wolfrig2000]

Depending on the vehicle it's actually cheaper to get your vehicles oil changed at a quick lube. If your goal is to save money you'll do what's cheaper. (But it doesn't cost anything extra to check the drain plug and oil levels after the quick lube just to be sure)

[@saiーツ]

@@iistheknight I live in TX and the avg oil change costs $100+, maybe $85 if i can find a coupon or promotion. 5Q oil + filter for under $40 at my local autozone so I always save over half by doing it myself.

[@sjastram]

She didn't kidnap her child. She moved away from a very bad situation, established residency and then started a divorce. Good lord.

[@nymaddieaz]

In the state of Michigan the courts consider it kidnapping if you move more than 100 miles away from the other parent without the parent and a judge signing off on it

[@amiedavis5257]

@@nymaddieaz Maybe judge DID sign off on it and we're just not hearing that.

[@nymaddieaz]

@@amiedavis5257 Willow would've also had to sign off on it, and based on the context of the rest of the conversation, it sounds like it was against his consent. Who knows though, they could be lying I suppose.

[@silvercloak7216]

She who?

[@Crow_T_Robot]

That's a dude.

[@Gelatogigi]

“I do everything for my truck myself” “That’s a charge for an oil change I needed that”

[@Beyblade_worrior]

I’ve had a car for like 2 weeks I’ve all ready done that my god what a moron

[@lVlegabyte]

lol you’re listening is as good as their excuses, they had a sale which made it cheaper.

[@dmoney7536]

With no garage to do said work...

[@Gelatogigi]

@@lVlegabyte I promise you right mf now taking ur truck to get the oil changed is more expensive than walking into Walmart buying the oil filter and oil for about 30$ and changing it yourself lmfao. I wouldn’t be surprised if you’re their friend bc who would defend that whack ass statement any oil place would loose money changing the oil for less than 30$ in a ford truck. 😂

[@MimiRAM0NE]

Then why lie and say, "I do all the work myself." It's the lieing that's the problem, not the oil change itself. You also don't need a garage to change oil.

[@kmac7302]

Imagine being such a deadbeat parent that you won't take any job possible to support your own kid and provide her with a decent future and you would rather be preoccupied with your car and new partner.

[@nineteenfortyeight]

And tiddies

[@slevin1157]

Right? Like congrats, you're a deadbeat parent who treats their child as an accessory.

[@frankvonfrauner]

There's another indication that the subject has an extreme narcissistic personality disorder...

[@markcampbell2702]

Thank you! Any responsible parent knows that you would apply to jobs that just require a pulse in order to support your kids. You can’t cherry pick the jobs you’re willing to do. You go out and grind. The entitlement reeks from this guest

[@violetflame2111]

I just left one just like that 🤣

[@amrosh791]

When a guy goes on hormone therapy, leaving a wife and child abandoned by their husband and father, no reason to be surprised by any other level of self centeredness.

[@theangriestoftabbies]

Two thousand percent

[@shawnconway6009]

So my feeling about this episode is this: this is not a person looking for help or a wake up call. This is a person looking for a justification. I feel like they came here hoping that Caleb would be like 'yes you're totally right you need to declare bankruptcy and you're on the right track because your debts are that bad.' And in reality, the debts aren't that bad. The debts aren't catastrophic, and they have no answers because they have no desire to do anything but get confirmation that they're correct. They're not looking for a solution, they're looking for support for their decision. But that tracks with their mindset that since it's happening to them, their discomfort matters more than actually being an adult. They're unwilling to change or accept that they might be the problem with their financial situation.

[@Mwap439]

It’s what he’s been doing his whole life. Looking for people to affirm his bad decisions. Unfortunately people have done it.

[@GigaChad_169]

@@Mwap439 Some have and some haven't. The ex-wife refused to go along with his "decision" and she bailed. The rest of the world isn't obligated to support you in whatever you do. That's just the cold hard reality of life.

[@KB-yourmom]

It should be he, not they/them. It's just one person, who's a biological man.

[@j.t.1086]

Guarantee that finances aren't the only aspect of life where this person is focused on validation instead of reality or responsibility

[@jon859]

Wow, you really care about this man’s pronouns hunh?

[@dude462643]

"Trucks are going up in value because Americans are insane." That's the pot calling the kettle black if ever I've heard it

[@AnalyticalMenace]

The irony is strong in this one.

[@bilson7523]

Yeah, that felt like a crazy statement. The only trucks that are truly going up in value are the small ones, and it's because the economical, compact-to-mid-size Truck is seeing a resurgence after being dead for 20 years... Personally I think it's because Gen Z and Millenials have realized you can get like 80% of the utility of a pickup while also getting good gas mileage. It's why Mavericks and Santa Cruzes fly off lots, and old Toyotas and Nissan trucks don't stay on lots (atleast not where I live). Every other kind of Truck is following a normal depreciation curve. That or he is confusing the general used car market's weird behavior over the last 3 years (due to COVID shutdowns BTW) with a Truck obsession.

[@markcowan3366]

I guess they haven't checked the market in the last few months... No one is buying trucks, auto manufacturers can't sell them because they are too over priced lol.

[@Thebossstage1]

Average r/F*ckCars Mod

[@christinewatson1989]

"I'm transgender." Caleb: "WHAAAT?!" I'm dead 🤣

[@weaselwovel]

😂😂😂 Loved that.

[@maxcentral]

What’s the timestamp? I’m at work right now can’t watch the whole thing. 😅

[@maxcentral]

Nevermind, it’s only 3 minutes in at 3:00 😂

[@rhvette]

Passes as well as a semi truck on a 30% grade with three flat tires.

[@gamemason6830]

Funniest shit ever

[@jacobdziedzic9]

This person does not need custody of a CHILD. They cannot even take care of themselves 🫣

[@daltoncowling1576]

You know they're clinically insane when they say, "I actually hate car based transportation," after saying they love their two vehicles and their lifted truck that "drinks a lot of gas" and they take off roading.

[@chestercopperpot6558]

And then is shocked when the suspension is merked from off-roading lol Unreal A literal man child

[@zaqwsx2811]

It/he's an oxymoron

[@bopeep86]

Is there more than one person in front of Caleb?

[@carlycaye90]

they just hate traffic but want to be special

[@frankvonfrauner]

​@@chestercopperpot6558and he's trying to hack the system by joining the non-accountability gender.

[@davidinwashington]

Ex-wife is right. Take the kid and run. And dont look back.

[@NapoleonicWargaming]

1000%

[@Shillmehowtolive]

50/50 Custody though 😳

[@davidinwashington]

​@@Shillmehowtoliveyeah, that part is a little rough.

[@MrCooper89]

​ @hansendesigns Parent or not, the wellbeing of a child comes before all else and this person is clearly the type who puts their own interests ahead of their children's needs. That kid would be fucked having somebody like this as a "role model".

[@AnalyticalMenace]

They're a train wreck. The kid deserves better.

[@TruthSeeker413_]

Guest: “I went to the psych ward” Caleb: “Well did you have issues?” Guest: “Well, yeah” Caleb: “Yeah well that’s where people with issues go.” 🤣🤣🤣

[@pwnzindaface]

Obviously didn't help him

[@TruthSeeker413_]

@@pwnzindaface Yeah I don’t think many things can.

[@jeronimofrost6990]

I think he is jealous of his ex wife and even their daughter. Something about his body language/ way he looks and speaks is terrifying

[@TruthSeeker413_]

@@jeronimofrost6990 agreed 100%

[@KS0428]

@@jeronimofrost6990yep jealous he has to wear fake tits and they don’t 🤢

[@I.no.ah.guy57]

So this person destroyed their marriage, their ex wife escaped this person and moved to Tucson, AND THEN THIS PERSON FOLLOWED HER TO TUCSON???? Are you kidding me...

[@drock83]

"her and her 4-year-old lived with me and it was deeply unpleasant" let that sink in.

[@michellebeno6577]

This scared the shit out of me tbh

[@brandonporter1990]

It could just be a tiny apartment? Idk it wasn’t a nice comment for sure tho

[@KayWhatnow]

@@brandonporter1990 I’ve lived in tiny apartments with fighting parents… my abusive mom has absolutely said stuff like this. No matter how terrible the experience for him, my Dad would never phrase it that way. There IS a difference.

[@SSM654]

They are definitely unfit to be a parent.

[@3SPY93]

And than to say "tell him about your inheritance" shortly after THAT IS concerning as well

[@gillianconway2536]

Let me get this straight: this person has been accused of “diddling” their kid, blames the ex wife for everything bad that has happened between them, takes advantage of their partners naive generosity, is so irresponsible with money that they would rather declare bankruptcy than take ownership and crack down on their spending, and eager for their grandmother to die to receive their inheritance, and when presented with the sad reality of their pathetic choices has nothing to say but to deflect onto the “quite of bit of money” they have coming their way? And this person is a parent? This is one of the sickest things I’ve seen. God help that child.

[@koraliee]

If I were his ex wife I'd be pulling up this video in future court/custody battles. He is clearly unwell.

[@rubeslatta2186]

Dude sometimes I see people get massive amounts of money and I'm like bro how are people doing this?? I don't understand. Do people take out a shit ton of loans?

[@stephenshelton4267]

Willow: _Activates rainbow shield_

[@honieebean]

That judge needs to lose their job

[@seaurchin4451]

@@koralieewas thinking the same thing. Self incriminating.

[@bluenwhite0226]

News flash. This person is a walking HR nightmare. That's why they can't find a job

[@vale_rawrrrx3593]

Great point! I didn’t even think of that!

[@michaelkrasnor7795]

Can you imagine how insufferable they would be in an interview? Every question would be met with a stupid excuse and a dumb smirk.

[@janellerudloff5073]

Ohhhh my goodness!! This is the comment 😦 😂😂 I honestly didn’t even think of this 🫢

[@Letsgo365]

Exactly!!!

[@mreverly]

why is he going to be a nightmare? a true question.

[@stevebennett4959]

It is so effed up to transition after marrying, and expecting the spouse to be fine with it. Like, I married a chick, not a guy(or vice versa.) Why am I the bad guy? You’re changing the fundamental foundation of our entire relationship and I’m just supposed to go “Ok! Sounds good!”

[@stevebennett4959]

PS what kind of sicko talks about an inheritance they EXPECT to get on a damn podcast?!?! Ugh……

[@ArtOfMoney1]

I’m sure most of them do it so they can have a child before transitioning cause they can’t have a child after. It’s the most messed up thing you can do to a spouse. If people could go to jail for doing things like that, we wouldn’t hear stories like this anymore. It’s disgusting 🤮

[@cookiesncream8490]

yes exactly and they're lack critical thinking too like why they want to stay being someone's partner when they're fully known their partner is not attracted to them anymore. Intimacy is GONE, attraction GONE, everything GONEE

[@TheeNesster]

The way this person takes advantage of everyone close to them is very concerning 😞

[@joeygarcia4277]

facts lol even his lawyer

[@Sketchy--]

Trans101.

[@b3dazzl3]

It’s almost like…. “They” are mentally unwell 🤷‍♂️

[@mackie-jw7dm]

@Sketchy- seriously… imagine taking one look at this person and thinking “yup, they’re definitely mentally competent in every way”

[@mithicash1444]

The scary part is he has 50/50 custody, I wonder how long it would take before they decide their kid is also trans which happens to many children. If you are Trans, that is fine, but don't expect everyone to tip-toe around you.

[@nooneknows689]

That $250k inheritance is going to get blown fast.... This person is playing victim plain and simple. Doesn't want to learn anything at all.

[@TimesUp8888]

"All I need to retire is that $250k inheritance." Tell me you're the most financially ignorant and irresponsible person I've ever seen without telling me...

[@nooneknows689]

Agreed! I'm nowhere near retirement and I have way more than that already in investments......getting close to CoastFire myself.

[@lindajohnson.]

This inheritance won’t last long.😊😊😊

[@buckothecatto]

wants to file bankruptcy so they dont have to use that cash they know is only a matter of time getting to pay off debt.

[@nooneknows689]

@@sdm1568 Well ....not everyone lives in the USofA. Some of us live in a more expensive location. And $250k isn't a lot.of cash nowadays. I'm almost CoastFire myself.....and I'll be able to retire in a couple of years way before 65 with my nice 1800 sqft bungalow fully paid off along with my vehicle. I know how to budget....it's my job and I'm incredibly good at what I do.

[@baileya368]

The way they casually stated they were accused of, and I quote, "diddling the kid" and chose those words over any other form of the statement set the tone for the entire show.

[@Jarvitalize]

*He* you shouldn’t respect child predators

[@courtneya2207]

@@Jarvitalize😂

[@bffr510]

Dude same, I could not get over the way that was said, like wtf, why would you say it that way about your own daughter

[@zoeollie202]

Chillingly nonchalant completely disregarding and so indelicate. I think we all heard the record scratch at the same time and blankly stared on for an hour.

[@lauren4078]

He is a sick person, in his mind, heart, and soul.

[@THAPOKEPINBALLER]

I wanna hear more about the divorce. I dont think we heard the truth about what happened. People dont just kidnap kids and nothing happens but you getting filed with divorce papers

[@stephenshelton4267]

There's no way this guy told the truth! He's a narcissist and will paint himself as tfe flawless hero in any story.

[@THAPOKEPINBALLER]

@@stephenshelton4267 exactly. Looking for sympathy for all the financial and whatever other mistakes they made instead of admitting you messed up.

[@ghhm2705]

Removing your child from a toxic, possibly abusive environment, is not kidnapping 🙄She went to be near family for crying out loud!

[@luckyygrasshopper9508]

Therapy is needed here, not a new relationship w a new partner. This individual needs to face their own internal battles before jumping into anything else. This is a mess.

[@cooperaiken8148]

This individual needs to realize he’s a guy

[@cc-terfay]

@@cooperaiken8148I find it interesting that all the men pretending to be women on Caleb’s show are some of the most toxic, abusive, and entitled people on the show. Terrifying to think someone like this could be put in a women’s prison. Even crazier to think we let male rapists into female prisons. So tired of this shit show of a world

[@elliotmorin5560]

No therapy, just a wood chipper.

[@swizzleinswaggerout]

@@cooperaiken8148there’s literally zero need to be transphobic here; disagreeing with someone’s behavior like this doesn’t make their gender identity less valid

[@mattygg8634]

​@@swizzleinswaggeroutthat's a man whether you're offended or not lol

[@Techcensorshipbot]

if your life is falling apart in multiple different areas its a really good time to truthfully look at things and realize it may not be because of everyone else

[@KS0102]

If you are not good at saying no, it definitely can be because of others.

[@jakiic23]

​@@KS0102 no its still on you for not making adult decisions.

[@heathergray9195]

As I used to tell my psychiatric patients in similar victim mode, If you smell sh!t all over town, it's probably on your shoes.

[@blackout1244]

​@@KS0102 putting blame on others is what a child does

[@megsley]

​@@KS0102 if the common denominator in all these issues is you...😬

[@donteatpaint]

SMH: Uses car for Uber, doesn't have collision insurance. What the hell is with people on Financial Audit not having car insurance?

[@Living_Legends_916]

They have liability insurance so it’s basic coverage if they get hit someone.

[@agilitypoodle99]

I know right? I would NEVER have the nerve 😂😂

[@jarodarmstrong509]

As I understand it Uber's insurance covers them while a rider is in the car

[@mmmd3429]

It's a common theme on this show. Zero personal responsibility!

[@dragonsnack1335]

As someone who grew up poor and is no stranger to financial hardships I can say that it is easy and exceptionally tempting to cut corners on the budget by skimping on insurances. A $40 difference in insurance rates can make or break a budget.

[@BiglyChungus]

I feel bad for their child. So irresponsible. The mother should have full custody.

[@hephesto555666]

Ah yes the person who essentially kidnapped a child in order to move in with her mom and who lied in court to the point she's having to pay the other party's legal fees.........mother of the year material right there. :P

[@triswilsful]

How did the courts approve 50/50 custody if this person was HOMELESS and living in a stranger's house with their four year old child. That's not safe.... Factor in making $0 in income. No childcare while at work (if they ever get a job). I don't understand the decision.

[@123456qwerty939]

the judge didn't want to be transphobic obviously

[@theeccentric7263]

Because the courts are biased in favor of women, right?

[@7856841]

Lmao… my dad was 100% financially responsible for me and my siblings, mom was a convicted felon, no address. Courts ordered my dad paid her child support 😂 for like a full year before it was rectified. Obviously by the time it was fixed that money had been spent.

[@jessicadesmond-robitaille5972]

So they wouldn’t be cancelled for being transphobic. Because that’s the worst possible thing you can be now apparently

[@lostandfound5145]

Family courts are all insane. They’re just insane. There is no other logical explanation. They hand kids to abusive parents and take kids from good parents and seem to always make the wrong call.

[@ShelbySays]

is wild how much this guest is ENJOYING this. like the SMUGNESS is audacious

[@JasonRetribution]

Thinking about all the twitter posts they're gonna make.

[@monicaporta7759]

I noticed that too. Also like getting excited to explain the psych ward and the divorce and car accident. A person that thrives on the rush of drama

[@dwightrenfield2241]

Obviously craves attention, hence the gender dysphoria.

[@snakefarm2388]

Pretty typical trans behavior tbh.

[@janelleh128]

A lot of people who identify as trans score quite high on the dark triad of psychological traits

[@javaskull88]

Can you imagine getting into an Uber and this person is your driver and you have to listen to their nonstop BS the entire 75 minute drive to the airport?

[@chattychelsey]

And then looks in the sun and plows into a pole 😂

[@BeyondOpenSource]

All while in a lifted 2007 Ram 1500 with a broken exhaust and a check engine light that's struggling to keep track of all the codes.

[@maplemel3072]

This guest is such a jerk when he said his ex wife “didn’t work a day while in the relationship”. The wife was a STAY AT HOME MOM, she worked every day caring for their child. His retirement should have been shared with the ex! I wish Caleb would have said something regarding that 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jamiealfenso737]

And she did it for free, while this freak went out dressing in women's underwear and wigs

[@Aardvark8]

Caleb looks like he would rather be anywhere but here right now. Like he’s been cornered at a party searching for someone to save him.

[@C_G1234]

He’s interviewing a mentally ill human living in a fantasy world.

[@Zaurthur]

This is the most distilled essence of Redditor you've had on the show.

[@jarodarmstrong509]

Came to make the same exact comment you magnificent bastard XDDDD

[@geogmz8277]

IKR! hahaha I thought I was getting some familiar vibes..

[@385x01y]

this is a reddit moderator 100%

[@LogosOfBabylon]

@@385x01y specifically r/antiwork mod

[@ecwilson4088]

This is the greatest KZbin comment that I have personally ever seen.

[@KaLeCaFe]

The unhinged laugh is chilling. No wonder the ex-wife wanted 100% custody.

[@MortalCoil64]

The laugh got me to turn off early...

[@user-wk2ei3qg8e]

Let’s hope she gets it soon, this person is an unhinged narcissist and misogynist.

[@garynouban6453]

"I started transitioning so my wife took my kid and ran far away from me" Based wife

[@wingweaver92]

I sincerely hope the ex wife can use this video to get 100% custody.

[@maren3764]

They both seem insane honestly

[@aMae-zing]

Hoping for a child to lose their parent is a sad place to be...

[@kaseebecerra9442]

​@@maren3764you're hearing his side and he's definitely a liar.

[@Gr13fM4ch1n3]

​@@aMae-zingthat's no parent

[@mmmmmmmm1942]

@@maren3764no. He’s insane. The ex was probably right

[@stephiiiless]

I'm sorry they mentioned doing the diddle when having their kid and then also used "diddle the kid" when speaking of the accusations. Really made me feel uneasy.... it's also uneasy that they are depending on inheritance so badly. Their mom is alive!!! Thats messed up. This whole situation is disgusting.

[@CurrentAssistant]

What?? When ewww

[@IzzyHendrix]

So glad i don’t have the brain worms that make people not understand certain words will flag an entire video as age restricted and unmonetizable… almost like they didn’t say the word “sex” about two consenting adults either! And not to mention allll those censor beeps that plague every video.

[@ronnie7100]

Worst kind of people out there lol, I worked with a crazy coworker who was like 40+, whole personality was “I’m a rich guy” but that was depending on his aunt (who’s still alive) dying and him getting the inheritance. Everyone loves this guy cus of his huge “I’m rich” personality as well.

[@AbbygaileHearne]

@@ronnie7100these are the people who never get it too! Funny when they have a whole tantrum

[@joef.2908]

How is this happening? Millennials and Zs are all gender confused and trying to live adulthood like a child would. It's insane! We are so screwed!

[@Sophietherese2001]

The wife didn’t kidnap the child. She moved in with her parents because he was working and she needed to get a job and live separately which the only place safe was her parents.

[@bend_rebel7593]

I think this was glossed over

[@agilitypoodle99]

Exactly! Also have to think of the mental load on the child with a parent transitioning…

[@toomanyrads3827]

Are you surprised the whole story wasn’t told? Why tell the truth when you can be a victim?

[@psychedforlife7176]

This episode was Willow bashing, blaming, and slandering the ex wife.

[@DesireS3]

Where is that stated in the show? Are her parents in another state or same state? There are laws in place for that So by law; it’s considered kidnapping. Also, does she know where her child is?

[@homesteadrevivals]

His wife was not wrong to try to save her child from this man.

[@dearcole123]

Nobody wants to deal with someone like this person. Literally nobody. No employer. Nothing.

[@Jujubean9795]

Except his current gf. She takes shots at him but doesn’t realize the still looks dumb af for being with him.

[@mo-sy9ws]

Or expose a kid to him. Understand you can't legally do it, but I would be tempted myself to spare my kids from the sheer lack of care for them- the entitlement is extreme here.

[@matt3790]

Typical liberal. People like this should not be able to vote

[@megsley]

​@@mo-sy9ws he was accused of diddling his own child - I absolutely believe he did something inappropriate.

[@Addison0526]

He’d want 90 days off for mental health. Last job was just scared of a lawsuit for discrimination is why they gave a severance.

[@regularguy3879]

Hoooly fuck. I'm definitely a loser at 29 renting a crappy studio apartment, no college degree, no partner and little above minimum wage job but hoooly shit. Compared to this mental asylum level of play pretend lunacy i feel like a god

[@Melonhome_yt]

Sounds like you're not as much of a loser as you think! 😄

[@plazma5343]

Maybe you have not had as much luck as most people. If you keep the great attitude, take care of yourself mentally, and physically, things will turn around. In 7 years from 26 to 33 I went from "loser" like you describe (more like lonely, self esteem in pieces, too much drugs and alcool, no carreer idea) to amazing wife, house, kids on the wayn, 100% sober for 4 years, happy and well paid at work, feel like I look good and kinda like myself ==> can seriously say happy. You have a solid head start on all the people who think it's society's job to take care of them. I'd recommand Jordan Peterson's '12 rules for life', a very solid essay on how to turn your life around when you are a lonely man. Saved my life, and many others it seems. Oh and if like me you disagree with a lot of his politics and societal takes, I swear the medical/psychological stuff (99% of the book) is solid, scientific and immensly helpfull :). You can make the journey mate, you have what it takes. The most difficult step is to believe and start changing. You can do it :)

[@fleischlein]

So you're under 30, renting your space without roommates, no student debt, self-sufficient and hardworking, laying a career foundation? Don't be so hard on yourself! 😊

[@Maialeen]

What are you even talking about? Hopefully you're not a narcissist like this thing, you're supporting yourself, you're not in weird living situations with shady people, you're not emotionally scarring your offspring, you're not exploiting someone in a relationship, you haven't bulldozed your marriage, you're not doing insane things to your body. How are you a loser? Sorry to break it to you, but not everyone will be rich. That doesn't make them losers.

[@rachelr9272]

You are NOT a loser! You have a place to live and a job. You’re doing GREAT 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@JaySmith-pv2mw]

Getting tired of people saying "everything was beyond my control" and "I wasn't planning on..." No surprise people who think like this have financial problems.

[@sweatedtrash1743]

You can be mad or annoyed about whats beyond your control. Or you can dust off and do the best you can in the circumstance. Everyone's dealt a different hand in life.

[@WackJack101]

“Kidnap your child” right… Im gonna assume that she wanted to have a child with a Man not another woman, and when she transitioned she didn’t want to be in that relationship. Completely understandable.

[@Beginnerreadsthebible]

Not to mention the SA

[@koraliee]

​@@Beginnerreadsthebible yeah... I wholeheartedly believe the mothers accusations. And if my child was being abused by this person I'd "kidnap" them away too.

[@BradDiBenedetto]

Serious question: setting aside the argument about whether or not transgenderism is “real” - why in the world do we vehemently defend the person who married, created a child with, and pledged their life to a woman, but then have zero sympathy for that woman when she has a negative reaction to learning that the future she had planned for and the man she thought she married was not at all what that man promised he would be? I just think maybe cut the ex wife a bit of a break here, I’d love to hear her side of the story And for those who missed it - the ex took the child and went to stay with family, presumably because she felt like it would be a more stable situation for the child. She didn’t just run across the country randomly. It may still be wrong, but it is understandable

[@Nostradamoose]

Believe me, if Willow was awarded paid legal fees, the wife was absolutely bonkers in court and the judge was not amused. This is a huuuuuuuuuge legal red flag. If you’re the lawyer being awarded this, you are bare chested and rubbing your own nipples in glee.

[@tear728]

​@@Nostradamoose not if the judge is sympathetic to people just because they are trans, which is likely

[@benjaminfitzgerald7011]

It's pretty wild right? It reminds me of that Netflix show where the two long-term husbands come out as gay and leave their wives, and the kids are like, "we're supposed to be supportive of this just because y'all gay?" I'm fine with pursuing personal truth, but if I suddenly came out to my wife that I'm trans, that would 100% destroy the ecosystem of our marriage and everything we built our life around.

[@BradDiBenedetto]

@@Nostradamoose my point exactly. I have a wife and kids. If she came home one day and told me she’s a man now, I would have a breakdown too. I would probably do things that I’m not proud of. I’m not saying she’s perfect, she may actually be crazy. But again, we only have half the story to go off of. And the person giving us that half clearly has issues accepting responsibility Also, the judge awarded 1/3 of the legal fees, not all of them.

[@thepurpleduckie]

I came here to comment this. He broke his marriage vows to her. But has the audacity to get up there with the full chest to say ‘she deceived me’ I think not. I would love to hear the wife’s side of the story.

[@xduwu4257]

What is it with husbands coming out as trans, and acting like their wives are crazy and evil for not wanting to be with them anymore...if my partners started crossdressing and wanted me to refer to them as the opposite sex, that's a pretty big deal breaker. I don't see how that is wrong.

[@xduwu4257]

The way they talk about the divorce really rubs me the wrong way too. Wife may not have been a saint, but I don't think it's as black and white as made out to be...

[@tcgdarren5865]

Wow you are a real bigot!

[@xduwu4257]

​@@tcgdarren5865I'm a bigot for only being attracted to one sex? I'm only into women. Why would I want to be with someone who no longer wants to be a woman? Explain to me how this is morally wrong lmao.

[@tcgdarren5865]

@@xduwu4257 just say that ur transphobic and move on sweetie...

[@Ok20002]

@@tcgdarren5865womp womp

[@amberlarson7890]

“I only wanted 50% custody” spoke volumes

[@tacojesus]

as opposed to less? Your not going to get more. No judge is going to take away a child from her mother. 50/50 rarely happens it is usually 75/25

[@dazed6511]

​@@tacojesusI think theyre saying its crazy to beleive they didnt want full custody.

[@dwightrenfield2241]

50% custody of children for an insane person? No.

[@stygianphoenix7413]

A good parent would recognise 50/50 is best for the child so they could have relationships with both parents (provided no abuse etc) so a true good parent would only pursue 50/50.

[@FeasyFren]

​@@stygianphoenix7413The dude diddled the kid bro

[@CrayolaCoffeeBean]

I’m glad the ex wife took the kid. You abandoned both of them when decided to prioritize your AGP over them.

[@cristinaguzman6825]

her partner saying "I let her stay in my apt with her 4yo daughter, which was DEEPLY UNPLEASANT" is such a huge red flag, why would you be with someone who says that about you AND your kid!

[@Labmom617]

I caught that too!!!

[@jukeboxxx11]

My jaw dropped at that, honestly. I hope the mom takes back full custody. This person is failing themselves and their daughter on every front

[@nateguerra319]

Because the guy is batshit crazy he calls his daughter the kid…he left his family destitute, made the unemployed babies mother pay for some of the court costs, he is not a man and damn sure not a woman😂😂

[@akjy155]

Fr! this relationship and dynamic is deeply disturbing

[@washingtonmarcus830]

Honestly if you didn't want someone's ex wife and their kid living with you, then don't date someone with kids. I would hope the ex wife sees this and gets full custody.

[@emoney1231]

Parents make $200k a year and the inheritance is $250k? Sounds like they don't manage money well either.

[@TheRachag]

Or they have other kids🤷🏻‍♀️

[@breelewis9631]

Yeah I'm guessing they have more kids or didn't wanna give it all to them lol

[@kariforgie457]

Or they are constantly bailing this one out

[@amp0647]

$200k a year household income to raise a family isn't as lavish as you think.

[@vejen5719]

@@amp0647 my family (2 adults and 3 kids) survived on $35k a year when I was still at home. $200k is lavish

[@j.reinholme]

This person seems very unbothered by dragging down the people around them. Good luck to anyone associating with them.

[@mp5249]

Him

[@chrisrichar2379]

It's a guy.

[@mononeo]

Pretty obvious their being trans colored your response and feelings about this. You need Jesus, child. You, not the trans person.

[@marj6377]

*Him

[@marj6377]

*Him

[@Idontwantahandleiresentthis]

The way that person talks about the daughter scares me. Its always distant language. That kid. The kid. I get the feeling the daughter is better off without an unstable, irresponsible, emotionally detached presence.

[@Podzhagitel]

“That kid” vs “My dog” tells you a lot

[@lieschen2634]

So maybe there was a good reason for the ex wife to “kidnap” the child…

[@gabbyreynolds4092]

Yea, I think the ex wife was in the right for trying to take their child away. Every child deserves a loving parent not every adult deserves a child 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@jasonbisdead]

This person= He. Because he's a grown man.

[@TachibanaTengoku]

@@lieschen2634 I didn't watch the whole episode yet, but I am gonna go ahead and assume this person was not trans when they got with their ex wife and had a kid, so between randomly coming out and transitioning when you had a stable relationship in addition to the distancing language used for their own blood child, the wife definitely had good reason to leave. Like it's one thing if you were already openly trans and got married, but pulling a fast one on your significant other is pretty fucking wild. Sadly a lot of trans folk don't seem to get that, I guess they think that you should stay with them even if they never said anything as if that makes any sense.

[@billywilson3285]

3:28 bro you literally weren’t the same person she married. I’m not saying she did the right thing by running off with the child but I honestly can’t blame her.. I’m sorry but I’d be scared for the child life and future at that point. Call me a dick but you can’t expect someone to stay in a marriage when you decide to do something like that. That’s wild.

[@fredfinger7092]

21:42 HOW? All other considerations aside, this "guest" is creepy and manipulative and irresponsible and narcissistic. HOW did they find someone? And whoever "someone" is, you need to RUN from this relationship (already wrecked your car, and blamed it on... the SUN? Laughs about not paying for it and lies "cope smile").

[@zombieBAANAANAA]

Totally agree. What an ugly personality. gives me the ickkkkkk

[@avgitt]

"My wonderful partner who is far too sweet and trusting..." that statement is very telling

[@lazarus381]

Usually, these types of people are considered "interesting" and are attractive to others.

[@petereverett2354]

"The car was only worth 4k... turns out the car market sucks so they had to get a car with paymemts" so the car was worth more than 4k

[@ellisdunegan]

Autogynephilia

[@terraLiquidus]

“I was deceived”. The selfishness and lack of awareness of that statement is astounding. Have an inkling that the ex’s accusations weren’t entirely unfounded too.

[@ShaunaEleven]

Same, feel so bad for them

[@britneyeldredge4690]

Same

[@violetk8025]

What ..?

[@TakeTurnsGaming]

@@violetk8025 He married a women, after marrying a women and having a child with her. He decides to transition to a women, and claims to be the one who was deceived. Sounds like his wife was the one who was deceived.

[@tranquil5892]

Mommy has successfully enabled this person to fail in the real world. I feel bad for the ex-wife and child.

[@nateguerra319]

Yup this man left his family destitute because of his delusion and selfishness

[@CamGarcia]

ex-wife seems like a monster, but the child for sure.

[@nateguerra319]

@@CamGarcia her husband left her high and dry with a kid, I wouldn’t believe a word this man says and yes he is a man

[@tranquil5892]

@@CamGarcia Honestly, I just do not trust a word this person says.

[@washingtonmarcus830]

Nah the ex wife was smart for leaving, he can afford to chop his nuts off but can't afford a truck? Bro had more chances to fix his shit and keeps making excuses. He's a terrible influence to his kid, not because of the "transition" but how reckless he is and how everything is either an excuse or a joke.

[@olufagosebambulagose]

I work for an MSP and it's the best job I've ever had. Great pay, free training, certifications, education, in a year went from paycheck to paycheck to top 25% national average. Never saw it as "IT sweat shop."

[@benstanfill363]

It definitely sounded micromanaged, but nothing crazy.

[@badaudio9685]

I work for a MSP as well and love it. I have heard horror stories so I consider myself lucky

[@TheMFStudios]

This person is a parasite to everyone around them. I literally lost my apartment when I was 19 and slept in my car for 6 months until I found a new place even though I could’ve easily asked my mom to bail me out. It’s called personal responsibility.

[@cloverazar5315]

I was looking for this comment. This individual calls their ex any number of names, accuses her of kidnapping the kid, and is sneaky pleased that the ex is being penalized for living at home with her parents to save money (while getting handouts to the tune of thousands from their own parent). Then, within two weeks of meeting this new woman, they’ve increased her total CC debt 10%, totalled her vehicle, and is taking cash out of pocket. And then giggling about it. Gross.

[@ThatGuyJD]

Exactly this. Adults who think other people should take care of them are leeches. I see that behavior once, I distance myself. The way they talk about their mother is disturbing.

[@KuroiErza]

@@cloverazar5315 that summary is wild hahaha totally true tho

[@jenn541]

I lived in my car for 6 months when I was 19 as well. I also couch surfed. I worked whatever jobs I could get. I finally joined the military just before I turned 21 bc I was tired of it all.

[@mrdavman13]

I don’t think it’s right to expect your parents or family or partner to catch you. But if you don’t have to live in your car, you should at least take the handout and pay them back later. The problem is the maturity to actually repay the people who give you gifts and help

[@stephiiiless]

I feel for the wife, i couldnt imagine her entire world fell apart. She got married to who she thought was a man and then had a baby with them and all for it to fall apart. I am not against lgbtq at all but, BUT i can sympathize with her and how traumatic that would be.

[@Madamchief]

That would suck😒 this person probably didn't discuss their gender confusion with her before they married

[@DamisBerrutti]

They got married because of the baby. It's still sad though. I'll be very angry and frustrated and sad that my partner makes such a decision. It's not easy and the most uncomfortable thing is that this person choose a girl as a partner! It would be devastating for my brain and emotions. I don't care about the transition it self but having a baby with someone and little after that they transition? It would be rough at least 😢. This episode is weird. Normally I can understand the situation or be empathetic but this time is just bleh

[@Sootsprite444]

Same. I remember thinking that randomly about the kardashians years ago with Caitlyn lmao it’s just unfortunate all around. But in reality the trans partner leaving a divorce is starting a new life, while the partner left behind is lowkey.. traumatized? At least in terms of relationships. Hopefully with more knowledge of the topic people will figure out they are trans before getting into marriage so sad

[@TheBasedUchiha]

She married a man, not who she thought was a man. A literal, biological, objective man. She just didn't know he was a delusional narcissist

[@xXxScrattiexXx]

Everyone forgets about the (ex)wife with stories like this. These woman are called Trans Widows; women who have split, or want to split from trans identified male partners.

[@NapoleonicWargaming]

'I went to the psyche ward' Shocked Pikachu face

[@BakedBones420]

🤣

[@shadowmaster1289]

Caleb:"did you have mental health problems" willow: "yes"

[@sqiudgames9856]

then blames it on the ex wife and not the extremely obvious mental delusions

[@crazywhitegrl27]

he literally said it with a smile on his face... that stuck out to me

[@mechanicalfluff]

with a smile, so proud of being admitted. it's just more oppression points