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@TSO_Charlique7 ай бұрын
Nah😂
@mikelamar1127 ай бұрын
This is what separates Fitx from other gurus…..he actually touches grass and interacts with people. Other creators just rant behind a camera for 8 minutes then hit upload💀
@maskedman56577 ай бұрын
It took a long time for Fearless to do these street interviews as well
@JesusisAlive_337 ай бұрын
AMS
@blackogjesus7 ай бұрын
Lol wish I had a camera man, it'd be funny doing interviews like these in randomly populated places or where ppl are under the influence of alcohol/drugs
@Proteinsavage40207 ай бұрын
Makes sense definitely game changer
@jackiechun58177 ай бұрын
@jonathn____ don't come for the 🐐,homie.
@davidespinoza1026 ай бұрын
I’m crying dude said he ain’t saying nun for KZbin and now he got a whole ass thumbnail with him labeled as a virgin 😭
@Slamazzar6 ай бұрын
With a question mark. Whenever a statement in a title is closed by a question mark, we can safely assume that the statement is bs.
@27thAndBethany6 ай бұрын
But he said I'm not doing a straight interview. Meaning he's gay and he doesn't want to get into the topic .
@awemanyfit6 ай бұрын
Hahahahahahahahahah
@xGLLx6 ай бұрын
@@awemanyfit You all have it wrong hes having sex with that mutt.
@Yoshsterpalooza6 ай бұрын
@@27thAndBethanyhe said street interview. It’s totally okay if he doesn’t want to talk about his personal life
@Himmel237 ай бұрын
I'm 23 and still a virgin, I'm not ashamed to admit it or anything, it's not big deal, what i miss the most is a deep genuine connection sometimes. I hate casual dating and hookups. And I don't want to be just another guy chasing meaningless sex...
@I_Lemaire7 ай бұрын
Your SMV is low. As a man, you need to make things happen. Don't get a girl pregnant or into a stupid situation or even engage in fornication but you need to take steps to resolve this before it is too late.
@titaniumcranium37557 ай бұрын
Nah keep doin you. Got a brother your age who decided to fck around kids in high school and act like I'm crazy when I want nothing to do with him anymore. Nah keep doin you. Got a brother your age who decided to fck around kids in high school and act like I'm crazy when I want nothing to do with him anymore.
@Th3TrollinTroj4n7 ай бұрын
Are you religious ?
@Himmel237 ай бұрын
@@Th3TrollinTroj4n Nope.
@realistically90917 ай бұрын
Guys who say that are coping hard
@KyxLimitless7 ай бұрын
Social media keeps raising the bar for what attractive is
@spidavenom47 ай бұрын
It’s really not that difficult tho to up the game. Just workout, IF, cut out drinking and smoking and stop fuckin chicks below 7, and don’t spoil girls just cause they’re above a 7
@Cyrus9927 ай бұрын
Not true. It’s making it harder though to keep someone
@curlyhairdudeify7 ай бұрын
I remember when tall guys were the laughing stock from how ridiculously tall they were.... Now, everyone wants a tall langy noodle.
@tonyadams88127 ай бұрын
No they don't! Delusion women are! They believe that all they have to do is wear fake eyelashes, slap on a lots and lots of makeup and it automatically makes them a 10/10, which means that they deserve a 6ft 6'' man with a six-pack who earns $1million+ pa who also has a mansion with lots of expensive cars on the driveway.
@raymondqiu82027 ай бұрын
You need to realise that looks aren't everything to being attractive. Have you ever spoken to a dumb or selfish or slutty chick? A woman can have good looks but that may be all she have. Attractiveness can also be personality
@rushja41717 ай бұрын
Show out to Carlos!! He knows what he talking!
@Savageking00007 ай бұрын
I'm starting to think that fitx can only get the women he wants online because he can filter his photos, unlike AJ who meets women in person
@MoneyOverHoezz7 ай бұрын
@@Savageking0000 Facts, bro not slick, austin dunham filters his photos too.
@Savageking00007 ай бұрын
@@MoneyOverHoezzprobably so I've seen Austin in person before at a night club in Florida, he can pull some women
@Savageking00007 ай бұрын
@@MoneyOverHoezz also dating in Florida is hard in general, fitx is about to get a reality check!
@MrMarcy767 ай бұрын
Carlos nailed it. Women are mostly users.
@emanuel50697 ай бұрын
Carlos sounds intelligent and knowledgeable. we need more paisas like him!
@cedricmiller43707 ай бұрын
Yea Carlos kept it real and didn't beat around the bush on what's really going on out here
@jacobperez89217 ай бұрын
Carlos is exactly what i've been saying for years, but people online never believed me. Nowadays, they know i was right. Dating apps is a losing battle for men since dating app developers need a constant paying customers to keep the service live. Meeting people in person, especially within your friend circle, is always the best.
@BrianChristian-up7tk7 ай бұрын
Carlos is very short, ethnic/ Latino, he's obviously not rich or a baller or extremely good looking like the top dudes in Miami ... He's going to get black pilled very soon from both dating apps and real life if he doesn't get the fck outta Miami ASAP.
@Thatrandomguyonyoutube5477 ай бұрын
That’s assuming we have a friend circle, lol.
@thenewjord507 ай бұрын
It's hard to make friends period too many fakes
@PS-lv1mr7 ай бұрын
dating apps only work if you’re 8+
@throwawayaccount64097 ай бұрын
@@730holdings2you must be good looking then. If you aren’t in the top 20% looks wise, dating apps will only waste time and destroy your ego. Granted I met my ex on there too, but these are low quality women typically
@edwindiaz80757 ай бұрын
Focus on money dudes trust me. Chasing box is for the weak
@Methy_Watches7 ай бұрын
My plan - I have 9000 AUD - how do I get 100k saved ?
@punisher44997 ай бұрын
Keep coping , sex is one of the most basic needs of a man , if ur being deprived , it will fuck you up mentally
@ISLAMICSTORIES137 ай бұрын
buy car from auction and sell for more than you paid. learn about cars so you can profit on each one. scale up until you have a fleet. cash out the fleet if you really want to have 100k or keep doing it and have high revenue. its good to save money but cash flow is more important than hitting some random arbitrary number of saved money. ppl dont get rich from saving u get rich from investing @@Methy_Watches
@404Nehemiah7 ай бұрын
Real
@ClutchGene7 ай бұрын
Money won’t buy you hap-penis
@amanuel77167 ай бұрын
I like how fitx asks questions sees the flaws and then cusses them
@beatlesiracundos7 ай бұрын
He roasts them post interview 😂
@mateaukalua44266 ай бұрын
@@beatlesiracundos😂😂
@tanicwhisper06476 ай бұрын
@@beatlesiracundos😂😂 I liked that he did that though
@LimitlessVibrations7 ай бұрын
Carlos is right. Social media made dating super difficult. I remember back in the day it was super easy to pick up girls, i was cute back then and still im attractive. Yet dating has been become pretty damn hard. Its sad
@bballah99697 ай бұрын
Lol you claim your cute so how can you not be able to meet women? Just walk up to a woman and break the ice it's not really hard bro. Just be yourself and be respectful and the rest will follow
@whoishim29987 ай бұрын
Yeah dating apps a waste unless you really that guy and got time otherwise it’s easier in person
@maryamadedeji247 ай бұрын
@@bballah9969lmaoo😂, I see what you did their. As a woman it is very true that dating is more difficult, Carlos was spitting facts
@bballah99697 ай бұрын
@@caloFi Well we all have high standards, at least some of us lol, but I rather meet someone in person and see how it goes from there. On a dating app everything is rainbows, sunshine, and butterflies 🤣
@bballah99697 ай бұрын
@@maryamadedeji24 Lol Mary am I right or what? Would you be flattered a gentleman approached you on the street and started talking to you? I'm sure you would l.
@Evilwhisperrs7 ай бұрын
I don’t approach women anymore my success rate with women is very low and I have no confidence whatsoever to even talk to a female I didn’t use to be this way but after constantly getting rejected left and right I gave up and don’t plan on getting back into the dating game
@dtf92BL6 ай бұрын
I feel you bro it’s really hard out here for us men in this day and age . Gotta come together about a podcast for average to below average men
@Evilwhisperrs6 ай бұрын
@@dtf92BL yeah true my confidence is so low it’s ridiculous I have no woman looking my way or every time I try and talk to a female she’s so fucking shy and nonchalant so I gave up completely on talking to women it’s not worth the risk nor self esteem damage the only men who can talk to women are Chad and Tyrone’s with me being average my rate with women is low as hell plus even if I do get a woman in my life she’ll most likely cheat on me with the man she really wants
@robbyotxxx4 ай бұрын
Seems like a skill issue buddy
@bushidobrown99967 ай бұрын
Took Carlos a little bit of time to come around. But he knows what’s up. Keep up the good work Fit!
@Savageking00007 ай бұрын
Bro Carlos seems like a smart guy, he realized that this isn't a regular debate you have with your friends so he had no choice but to agree to disagree because he didn't want to make fitx look bad to his followers!
@Savageking00007 ай бұрын
Almost everyone has agreed with someone just because they knew their point wouldn't get across to them
@mob_one717 ай бұрын
@@Savageking0000 Agree with this!
@Savageking00007 ай бұрын
@@mob_one71 tbh to me I think that online dating is best for long distance like another state or country, it's a different feeling and I would invest more but using it for local women is more for the hook up culture!
@victorsoto48217 ай бұрын
Im 6'1, 38 a physical therapist, keep myself physically fit, decent looking and sure i can get laid but sometimes it feels like im scrapping the bottom of the barrel and women that i start becoming interested just start treating me as a "ATM" its brutal out there.
@tanicwhisper06476 ай бұрын
You’re even locked in too. 😂 If you’re having a bad time we are all f*cked
@brenandemossita10006 ай бұрын
It could be your attitude?
@Killernaut166 ай бұрын
Date older.
@ahappilydrunkpuppy89616 ай бұрын
What do you mean bottom of the barrel?
@dd650936 ай бұрын
Gotta stay one step ahead of them
@DaytonBounds7 ай бұрын
FITX you the only KZbinr that really be interviewing these folks. Asking them questions getting to the root of their issues.
@solidwisdom87497 ай бұрын
It’s just hard to get laid, period. Social media, and stuff. Dating coaches make it seem like it’s supposed to simple. Fit just has looks money status. But for the normal regular man its a challenge unless you pay
@fitroadwarrior7 ай бұрын
Facts these dating gurus just want you to buy their 5 thousand dollar courses just for you to still struggle women’s standards are damn no impossible to compete with my solution is to get your passport 🧳
@OgeeThegodfather7 ай бұрын
True be told dats facts brother social media totally changed the game an im very confident this game ain’t no where near how it was
@Kumari_447 ай бұрын
You dont need money & status though. Just looks, physique, good dress sense & good social skills. That alone puts you right up there. Sure the media has brainwashed & ruined women. So no, you wont likely get a good modest woman. Those days are near over. But you’ll deffo get casual one night stands no doubt. The real dating problem actually starts when you no longer want casual one night stands and want a decent woman. Thats when youre likely to find nothing. Because the good respectfull women almost dont exist anymore in certain parts of the west.
@carterjones55837 ай бұрын
Speak for yourself
@tonyadams88127 ай бұрын
@@Kumari_44 ''You dont need money'' Really! So you think that the seriously 'hot' females (not the 304's who think that they're 'hot) are going to be happy dating/living with a man who lives in a tiny studio apartment and eating sandwiches from Subway , KFC and McDonalds day in day out and doing their day job which is delivering pizzas on his clapped out electric bicycle? GTFOH!
@tcompound3277 ай бұрын
You stepped up your videos by 100 percent! Seriously the dating app challenge, this video. Good solid stuff
@eh87067 ай бұрын
Last time was in 2015. Im 37 average 5"10 man. I work eat sleep. Im no CHAD. I used dating apps last 5 years and no matches and no dates. This is very common for the average man
@iceee00207 ай бұрын
but are you not in your prime? 35-40
@MatthewJarvis-zw2sz7 ай бұрын
I'd be interested to hear some clarification on what you mean by "no matches"? Did the apps (firstly, the fact that you used multiple apps and got the same result is suspicious to me, but I digress.....) not give you a single profile to look at? Did you bother to browse through women's profiles at all? Or did you wait passively and expect them to contact you? If you did look through profiles and yet found no-one you wanted to speak to, could your standards have been too high? With the thousands of women out there looking for dates, what exactly was it that prevented you from attempting to arrange a date with a single one of them for FIVE years? And if you did send out messages and yet got no replies, how many messages did you send? I found that the majority of my messages were not replied to, so I just had to keep sending them. I probably got replies from about 10% of the women I messaged. It's a numbers game, you just have to keep trying. You don't have to fall in love with the woman before you can send her a message, she merely needs to look promising enough that it's worth trying to initiate contact. I'm a pretty shy guy, but in six years of using dating apps I went on numerous dates, and I'm the kind of guy who NEVER approached women when I was younger. I met my girlfriend just over a year ago now, and she's the best thing that ever happened to me, the perseverance was absolutely 100% worth it. If a nerd like me can do it, what was stopping you? Did you really try hard enough?
@spitsomefire7 ай бұрын
Compared to 2015 to now id say my luck on apps was better
@tigerstripey48857 ай бұрын
33 5,9 regular build, and my last time was 2019. I no longer use dating apps and have checked out until I can passport bro.
@knownasxristako33217 ай бұрын
I feel you my brother. Make friends if possible and try finding people who basically understand you and honestly want you around. Take it a step at a time as it will come naturally meeting someone worth it down the line.
@lj2official8827 ай бұрын
Content getting more level headed. Straight 🔥🔥
@stevetrevor26337 ай бұрын
Carlos definitely knows the plug on a personal level!
@Narwaro7 ай бұрын
“You need to have a life outside your career.” Ah crap, everything always tied to those pesky conditions 😂😂
@shreddedguy6797 ай бұрын
bro doing infields and outside interviews, bro levelling up fitxxx u g
@snoowbrigade7 ай бұрын
I remember being a teenager and my parents talking about how many girlfriends I would have when I grew up. I'm 22 now and I have already given up on it.
@huynhyurivanvladamir79787 ай бұрын
Life is full of disappointment
@emilianoyaboi59117 ай бұрын
Putting too much pressure on yourself, keep going even tho it does seem hopeless, I didn’t start getting any serious play until I was 17 18 (lost my v card then) now I’m 20 been w my woman for a year now
@snoowbrigade7 ай бұрын
@@emilianoyaboi5911 Not really putting any pressure on myself since I've given up on it. I focus on my hobbies and I guess if I found "the one" I would change my mind but I don't live in a fairytale so I won't hold my breath waiting for some imaginary person to appear.
@longschlongdingdong7 ай бұрын
Imagine being in the beginning of your best years in your existence and already giving up
@Snowboarding20206 ай бұрын
Good for you. That's winning in life. Save yourself time, money and energy.
@PastraniO1ER7 ай бұрын
Women standards are ridiculous nowadays
@madboi15914 ай бұрын
Yep, they should just date a woman
@robbyotxxx4 ай бұрын
Seems like u just have a skill issue bud
@johndoofus96027 ай бұрын
Carlos is real asf
@josephcieplak89207 ай бұрын
If a woman rejects you on any dating app, she might still do it in the “real” life. the best way to start solving the issue you deny facing is by accepting it and then figuring out what is wrong with you in order to fix it. none says that this is going to be easy, but if you don't try, things won't change for the better for you. Im getting a lot of compliments since I've been improving my physic. I even look younger!
@adaml56936 ай бұрын
facts
@gaeldilamh25726 ай бұрын
I really look bad on pictures . Whatever I do. Be failing hardcorely on dating app. However I be sitting outside or going to club and having women approaching me or sending choosing signals. Don’t know what to do cause with my dating problem
@ernestoalvarado62027 ай бұрын
All jokes aside there is a secret to all this madness. It’s simple, society has to change, pride and ego has to be put to the side.
@shinultima21406 ай бұрын
Its simple really. Guy with money = women say I love you. Guy who is built physically and knows his priorities = Boss and knows which women is worth his time.
@certifiedzniper58486 ай бұрын
Im in debt and a woman told me she loved me this week. They aren’t all the same brother.
@KaiserNightcoreMusic6 ай бұрын
@@certifiedzniper5848 they could probably be way more in debt than you tho.
@astroo19915 ай бұрын
That's BS. Women usually don't even know how much money you have, unless you are some kind of a celebrity
@blueeuphoriaaa5 ай бұрын
Here's a reality check. Most women are disgusted by muscles.
@Lamplays-y1b7 ай бұрын
So in 2022 i stumbled across a fitx fearless video and have watched fit's videos get better and better till today. My fellow African bro keep up the good work on the content. Alot of guys look up to you man.🇿🇲🇳🇬 .
@richerthaniam90674 ай бұрын
He is not African though he is American.
@RogueHero7 ай бұрын
Good video , i agree with all points because ive personally have had all those excuses and still currently working out my own issues so i can be a better me. FitX is right , dudes need to drop the ego and just accept the fact they not as good as they think they are and use every excuse in the world to not approach.
@Kevin-qn2kw6 ай бұрын
Many of us are just not interested in playing the game anymore. Sure, we can admit we're not the best when it comes to meeting, attracting, and keeping women but we'd rather focus our energy elsewhere. Not every man is destined to be a ladies' man. Not every man wants to be.
@RogueHero6 ай бұрын
@@Kevin-qn2kw I get that and you don't have to be a ladies man to be happy. However I'm a realist and I want a tsudo wife one day and a certain type at that. I also know the type of chick I want would have her pick of the litter so why wouldn't I want to compete for that? I'm not saying to simp out but self improving is always the answer to getting what you want.
@kevin157765 ай бұрын
@@RogueHeroyou do what makes you happy. I'm 5'5" and not terribly masculine. I'm not interested in jumping through hoops to get a woman. It's not worth it IMO.
12 күн бұрын
@@Kevin-qn2kwdenial of inadequacy is named Kevin
@frankiemiller25407 ай бұрын
Ur right I can always improve my looks...I'm constantly working on self improvement.
@Herozonex2007 ай бұрын
I feel attacked lol. I'm 30 years old ( just turned) never had a girlfriend, never dated, and I'm still a virgin. I used to be looking for relationship until I was 22 years old. Women standards are too high. They all just want some bad boys. The reason why I stopped caring when I was 22 because I've realized it was a waste of time and money. Now I'm just focus on career goals now instead of talking to women. Yes, I also dont go out as much anymore unless I get some gas out of the gas station or food. That's it!
@2jjulian7 ай бұрын
It's not a waste of time but yea don't make it your priority
@Herozonex2007 ай бұрын
@@2jjulian what you mean its not a waste of time? The moment when I was 22 years old, I realized I need to work on myself more before I go after women. I'm chasing dreams, not women. Yes, any woman that approach me ( like they ever do in the first place) , I ignore them. I must stay focus while all the bad boys be fun with them in their 20s because I'm not helping them in their 30s or 40s.
@2jjulian7 ай бұрын
@@Herozonex200 That's just cope, women aren't a waste of time because you have to learn to be around them and experience. Hamza has even said this before,obviously if you are just focusing on women and leaving your goals then it's a waste of time. But it's not bad If you go out on dates once in a while
@Herozonex2007 ай бұрын
@@2jjulian I'm not coping lol you sounded like this therapists that I'm currently talking overseas. He literally saying the same thing! I'm not completely ignoring women, I'm just staying focus on my goals and not letting beautiful women blocking my path. Yes I do think talking to women in small talk like "Hi" or "How you're doing". I'm not ready for that next step of taking anyone women on dates. No I'm not poor either. I have a good steady paying job, a kickass car, I'm just saving for a house and looking to go into a career field. Until I get these things, I won't be attractive to women or be ready to get into relationship with women.
@2jjulian7 ай бұрын
@@Herozonex200 I have my own business,I have money and a nice car too and got a gf at the age of 24. You are 30 with no gf experience like I'm not trying to put your down you clearly need to focus a little bit more on women. You do you tho. Goodluck
@dd650936 ай бұрын
I think lots of men are indeed afraid of rejection or think that’s what’s going to happen if they approach so more of a confidence problem. I also get that feeling sometimes but I try to remember is just a woman, the opinion of a woman I don’t even know yet shouldn’t really matter at all.
@divineprovidence8035 ай бұрын
I've been rejected many times. It doesn't deter me from continuing to approach and ask women out. Being anxious is normal but men need to be bold and strong not meek. It doesn't bother me. I move on and ask the next one!!
@SuperVoidBoyz5 ай бұрын
What I also see a lot of is a ton of fear being called a creep or sexual harasser etc..
@tronlegacy27427 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with that. Having a lot of sex is draining & sets you back in every way. God’s will is for u to master lust and when you get married sex is a gift for you to grow closer to someone you will be with for Life.
@I_Lemaire7 ай бұрын
You are correct but your SMV needs to be high or else the hot youth pastor will steal your wife
@mateaukalua44266 ай бұрын
As a man just getting a few choosing signals from a woman will boost the ego.
@darkmidnight8186 ай бұрын
@mateaukalua4426 it boost my confidence when im home or away from them. But I get REALLY nervous when they are showing that infront of me
@abyss70826 ай бұрын
Cope
@darkmidnight8186 ай бұрын
@@abyss7082 🤓🤡
@Yallamzing7 ай бұрын
Fit is a real g wanting the best for us men keep up the great work 👊💪🔥💯
@dbased19157 ай бұрын
Miami is hard. Huge competition. i went to a club LIV up north beach and the average dude there was like 6 foot 2, i am 5'11 and felt short. I was one of the ugliest dudes in the entire club, been all over the US and never seen anything like it lmao
@Andrembramwell7 ай бұрын
miami is a different breed i met a chick down at the club on south beach fine af and the very next day some smooth latin dude flying kites on the beach stole her away lmaooo
@Smokeybob-sz6be26 күн бұрын
@@Andrembramwellthe Miami guys also get all the 18 year olds
@trxndesign33317 ай бұрын
These sunday vids are the best 💪
@painexotic37577 ай бұрын
first dude is capping saying he's 39.. Dude is def in his late 40s lol
@paul_02187 ай бұрын
exactly
@Thechosen00107 ай бұрын
white guys tend to age faster
@marvin26787 ай бұрын
you think so?
@cliffchampion55017 ай бұрын
Some people look older than their age why would he cap?
@letshugandlove3246 ай бұрын
I wonder if the guy would cap if you ask him if he does steroids? you know who I mean.
@Casper_3927 ай бұрын
keep doing your thing fitx, appreciate the content
@Renaissancefitness-017 ай бұрын
This guy is really teaching valuable skill sets and I would suggest everybody just to take in more than just the initial message that he's saying but just a lifestyle message it's really great to hear about this
@dd650936 ай бұрын
I didnt know how to or which women to approach outside on the streets. Then I start trying to go after only the ones that stare/look at my eyes when we see each other crossing by. If they look for more than 2-3 seconds then I may Approach them and see if they are interested. Sometimes the ladies are very awkward, especially if they are young but it is what it is. It does work sometimes, just gotta have confidence and know it’s just the opinion of a woman, an interaction which you shouldn’t let it define or determine your value as a man in any given way.
@davet74547 ай бұрын
i think all men lied at some point, if a guy tells you (about 2 weeks ago i got laid) maybe is 2 or 3 months
@MoneyOverHoezz7 ай бұрын
UU arent those dudes tho.
@shanecorr16947 ай бұрын
True
@shanecorr16947 ай бұрын
It's embarrassing to admit but I think the stigma is gone cos us straight guys all realize where in the same position
@thejaqclub18647 ай бұрын
Fit do u understand people can have their own preferences, just because somebody don’t want to use a dating app don’t mean they’re wrong or doing bad at dating.
@GregPiggot4 ай бұрын
For real and ive seen replies to people saying "cope" or "incel" its so weird😂 if you are out of the dating scene and give a reason those seem to be the most common responses. Its not cope or incel. The dating scene is a damn mess now thanks to social media and insanely high demands and unrealistic expectations
@jacobcutrer7 ай бұрын
I laugh every time someone says Tyrone 😂 I knew a homeless guy named Tyrone and he lived in a run down rv and would help with small tasks at my work in exchange for some money. He was a character for sure.
@BlackJoker-w5t7 ай бұрын
That sounds hilarious😂😂😂
@ISLAMICSTORIES137 ай бұрын
if he had a rv that makes him not homeless right
@donttrip41717 ай бұрын
Video idea : approaching American women vs foreign women show the difference in feminine nice & how polite either curving or getting you a chance
@tiphotisted7 ай бұрын
Push towards legalizing brothels. Confidence will come after.
@misutasutanto63125 ай бұрын
How about just approach women and be respectful🤷🏽♂️
@SentByNatureАй бұрын
@@misutasutanto6312does that actually work?
@rbfarrell17 ай бұрын
Guys work on being the best version of yourself. You can always rent a garden tool if you need one. Get your money right and travel to where you are valued by women that have value. The U.S. is bad place to fish because what you will catch has usually been caught and throw back many times.
@courtneyphillips78377 ай бұрын
The alcohol part are very factual points
@bzb85547 ай бұрын
Good job switching up formats to curate an engaging collection of content, bruh. Respect the hustle💯
@jhondoe92677 ай бұрын
FIT you keep doing it man. Fantastic video!!
@tcompound3277 ай бұрын
You should do a video where you show a guy how to dress for a date. Show guys good fits to wear ( walk into hm and Zara show us how it should fit on a reg guy). Do a video wear you ask woman what cloths they think look most attractive on men. Show them two pictures both guys are equally attractive just dressed different.
@zeppdude3357 ай бұрын
Struggling between societal pressure and sexual morality is tough bruh
@doctorfresh38565 ай бұрын
🙄 Who cares about sexual morality other than you.
@GregPiggot4 ай бұрын
You shouldnt care about societal pressure. You must be young if you care what others are doing😂
@doctorfresh38564 ай бұрын
I don't get the struggle. Do what you want. If you don't want to do it because it's against your moral values than don't do it. If you enjoy it and do want to than do it. 🤷
@dmonk9267 ай бұрын
I approach women semi regularly and with my excellent memory I could easily make a PowerPoint of how every approach failed either immediately, or in the days and months or years afterwards. Trust me...roughly 50% of the time the women were expecting money ( for you to look like money, spend money on them or give them money). The other 50% of the time they had serious personality issues: some were hung up on an ex ( one couldn't continue because my freaking hairstyle reminded her of her ex), some hated or distrusted men, some were looking to cheat, others were still more into wilding out with thier friends (my last date was 30 years old and STILL in that phase), two that were not interested in men at all, but trying to please their parents, and two that were straight up sociopaths. The only subset of women I've come across that truly put some effort into finding or keeping a man were those that had kids and I'm not about that life. My stats are about 20% of women will give me a number. But at least half those numbers are fake. The juice ain't worth the squeeze
@gme_chnger85577 ай бұрын
Where do you typically meet women at?
@dmonk9267 ай бұрын
@@gme_chnger8557 just walking about on my daily business, otherwIse parties, dances, concerts, beach etc
@chanceklein7 ай бұрын
I completely agree with you about women with kids. I've had the same experience.
@fiat_ow78767 ай бұрын
Where did you meet most of them?
@shanecorr16947 ай бұрын
What race are u approaching
@swinfeflue7 ай бұрын
Dating in Miami is COMPLETELY different than lets say dating here in Eastern Europe. miami is 🧢 city and everyone is money and fame hungry. If you look good and confident you are already ahead of many men. Why torture yourself in miami?
@I_Lemaire7 ай бұрын
It is the same everywhere. At least in Miami guys have access to plastic surgery
@swinfeflue6 ай бұрын
@@I_Lemaire no its not.
@devonforsure2605 ай бұрын
Miami is an awful metric for long-term anything. Everyone is pounding poon every minute and making 7 figures
12 күн бұрын
@@swinfeflueyou're insecure with your confidence
12 күн бұрын
@@devonforsure260you need a ego boost
@manuelgarciam92057 ай бұрын
Fit working the blade 💪
@stevend87856 ай бұрын
My image, lol. I'm 5'6". Maybe I'll just try harder to grow 6 inches taller. Dating coaches, "It's easy, just be blessed with good genetics like me! Then success begets confidence!"
@tiagopereira902029 күн бұрын
FITXFEARLESS is 5'7
12 күн бұрын
you boys a whimps
@josephang99277 ай бұрын
Zoloft killed my libido and helped my depression. Kinda sad but also freeing.
@Wuanty7 ай бұрын
23 and undefeated 😅
@MarijuanaSmog137 ай бұрын
?? 23 of what? Your age or body count?
@MarijuanaSmog137 ай бұрын
Undefeated in what?
@mhmtakeyatime90007 ай бұрын
23 year old here and no girls
@masterlee19887 ай бұрын
@@MarijuanaSmog13Age.
@titaniumcranium37557 ай бұрын
Just be glad yall have lives in your 20's and not like my brother tryna fck teenagers
@Methy_Watches7 ай бұрын
Yep I’m 40, last time laid about 36 years old
@shynethegod3607 ай бұрын
😳…
@FordFitness3347 ай бұрын
DAMN!
@OgeeThegodfather7 ай бұрын
Damn dude it’s all good
@aymen22287 ай бұрын
hold on 40-36= whaaaaat ???are you okay bro
@maskedman56577 ай бұрын
That's not that bad. This is America. It's common now
@Dilqule7 ай бұрын
Havent been laid this decade. Going to a bar or club by myself sounds so scary. I wish i could find confidence again
@scorpioguy947 ай бұрын
Are you joking, you look very handsome according to your profile picture I'm confused
@malibu36027 ай бұрын
Wait but you’re actually a good looking dude tho. It should be easier 🤔
@malibu36027 ай бұрын
@@scorpioguy94 That’s what I’m saying. If he was a ball player he would be getting celebrity women with those looks at a high rate
@scorpioguy947 ай бұрын
@@malibu3602 if he struggling I'm definitely I'm no snack to most women
@shanecorr16947 ай бұрын
Just cos he's good looking doesn't mean he gets laid or can get women it's the man who approachrs women not the other way around
@Armando3167 ай бұрын
Thing is, in a city like Miami the women are a different breed. Miami is the capital of IG, OF, and gold digging. I lived there for years. You can’t compare the women there to the rest of the world, imo.
@Filthy_Larry4 ай бұрын
That’s ashame. I was going to visit Florida for 2 days. I’m Jersey. I heard Florida girls are hot.
@lwinhtet36997 ай бұрын
Love these new styles of videos you been doing bro
@GodWorksOut6 ай бұрын
You can spend your whole twenties building a life and legacy with someone and they can leave with most of it. It’s not worth it
@jordanbriggs35997 ай бұрын
Big bro advice. Don’t sponge too hard on your sides just yet. Your hair is not long enough. But I see the vision 🔥 great vid
@Savageking00007 ай бұрын
AJ can pull more girls then fitx, fit can only get attractive women online with filtered pics, he thinks he is that guy!
@itstheiceman117 ай бұрын
Oh look here kids a Chad/Tyrone archetype trying to explain to Normies/Sub5 guys on how to get women. Out of touch.
@roylusby25647 ай бұрын
I agree he could not relate to a regular guy he's a tyrone/Chad type
@Prescotmills87327 ай бұрын
how's he tyrone when he's 5'7?
@I_Lemaire7 ай бұрын
Get above a 7, Iceman. No excuses. Punish yourself with retention until you make it happen.
@throwawayaccount64097 ай бұрын
@@Prescotmills8732he still has face and physique. Probably a 6~ irl accounting for height and race failo
@josephang99277 ай бұрын
Yeah delusional privileged men
@get2it72 ай бұрын
I’m approaching and I’m still getting rejected even with a fresh cut, in good shape, good hygiene, nice clothes, good cologne, and a decent mouth piece. I am broke but they don’t know that yet. Sht is ridiculous
@zukodude4879874 ай бұрын
People talk about not getting laid, but nobody talks about if its worth getting laid to begin with. If i have to put in effort and she doesn't then its called unfair.
@rampagesmackssons508Ай бұрын
If she puts in 0 effort then move on.
@zukodude487987Ай бұрын
@@rampagesmackssons508 I am not talking about no effort, im talking about equal effort. I dont see woman having to learn game, face constant rejection and being come after later with false accusations.
@mydarling327224 күн бұрын
@@zukodude487987 Thats the game point. Thats the resson why these videos exists.
@zukodude48798724 күн бұрын
@@mydarling3272 I did not understand your point, are you talking about using game?
@zukodude48798724 күн бұрын
@@mydarling3272 That is not a solution. Game doesn't fix unfairness in dating. That is like saying i will abolish slavery by being a better slave, its absolutely self defeating. The only way this gets solved is by having either men compensated for dating or woman picking up the slack, otherwise we are better off being single.
@TheDarkHorseRides6 ай бұрын
Im 6'3, 6-pack, 6 inches and 60k. Ive been celebit since 2017 by choose! Why, because its not worth the price anymore and it always has a price! It sucked the first couple of years after a lifetime of indulging, but now, im very empowered by taking my power back and not allowing myself to be controlled by my base nature that actually puts the control of my being in her hands, someone much less competent! I have more money, better credit and more clothes and toys than Ive ever had before. I regret the years I wasted persueing and obsessing over women! I could have been where Im at now a long time ago, thats my only regret in life, wasted time and resources that came to nothing, a fools game!
@rudedogtx7 ай бұрын
First guy is right I'm getting a lot Fake Catfish Profiles and Profiles that want to sell investments or services.
@dahotone1067 ай бұрын
I like the new format, keep doing these street interviews
@ghanaentertainmentconnect7 ай бұрын
FitX much love ❤️ from Ghana 🇬🇭 west Africa
@datguy94087 ай бұрын
It’s hard to get laid for lots of dudes which used to be weird to me but once I started talking to more girls I’ll just say they’ll admit they just simply get bored.
@cornelksttx20807 ай бұрын
28 years old 😭 i never even kissed or touched a women
@masterlee19887 ай бұрын
Dude that is so brutal!
@Chainler7 ай бұрын
Who cares if anything that's a good thing that just gives u time to focus and improve on urself
@snoowbrigade7 ай бұрын
@@Chainlerwhat do you mean he has had 28 years to improve himself you think 28 more will do the trick?
@Chainler7 ай бұрын
@@snoowbrigade ok
@jimbobfisher89047 ай бұрын
@@masterlee1988who says he ain’t winning in other areas of his life that actually matter.
@cedric37637 ай бұрын
I don't care if you laugh at me pick on me etc but last time I got laid was 2016
@cedricmiller43707 ай бұрын
Least you keeping it real tho homie it ain't about what people think cause considering how horrible things are in America nobody can't laugh at nobody but much respect to you my dude
@yatessixecho17 ай бұрын
There is nothing wrong with that. I am 36 years old and I have NEVER been laid. I have never been on a date, never had a girlfriend, never been in love. And you know what, it doesn't bother me. I wouldn't have it any other way.
@I_Lemaire7 ай бұрын
@@yatessixecho1 Bro. Snap out of it. Have a plan. I'm not saying fornication but unless you pledge celibacy for God or a cause, make things happen.
@shanecorr16947 ай бұрын
Don't think anyone can
@lelelew27356 ай бұрын
Less chance of disease i would say is a good thing. Cause people sure dont disclose if they have herpes before they try to kiss you gotta be careful.
@chicagocousins7 ай бұрын
im not alone 🙏🙏🙏 im 28 havent got laid since 23
@patrick220146 ай бұрын
Fit did Carlos dirty lol
@jujuinator7 ай бұрын
Fitx last week: you are more attractive than you think Fitx this week: you aren’t as attractive as you think
@albertwesker88837 ай бұрын
Gotta keep changing the advice to keep subs confused lol
@HiImRheya7 ай бұрын
Wow u don’t understand context ?
@jujuinator7 ай бұрын
@@albertwesker8883 never let them know your next move 🧠
@jujuinator7 ай бұрын
@@HiImRheya lol out loud
@tobeslmao7 ай бұрын
dont get too comfortable around here ☠️🙏🏽
@kevl96097 ай бұрын
This guy’s interaction is so down to earth spitting facts every couple second
@jaylee67697 ай бұрын
This is giving guys false hope. You absolutely ARE born with it. You can only do so much to make your face more attractive. Even if you smash the gym and get in phenomenal shape if your face isn’t cutting it then it won’t matter that much. It’s just the way it is. Women aren’t like men in that most of them won’t mess with an in shape guy if his face isn’t hot
@thenewjord507 ай бұрын
Even with skincare
@greatbuilder1007 ай бұрын
Getting in shape does improve your face tho
@ministryofwrath7 ай бұрын
I was 320 lbs. I now have a six pack, taller than average. guess what? my face did get more attractive, I"m above a 5 out of 10, and you guessed it, it didn't matter, I'm invisible to women, in the west that is. @@greatbuilder100
@tylerharris43926 ай бұрын
@@greatbuilder100you obviously missed the point
@FrickinCCDeVileV5 ай бұрын
Come to Colombia so your jaw drops to the floor
@rome68725 ай бұрын
I like carlos. Laid back intelligent level headed and realistic. Seem like a kool guy
@growing.grounds40544 ай бұрын
I’m 29 and I’ve gotten one girl from an app. She ended up STEALING my CAR !!!
@Sunset4us7 ай бұрын
Great video - love the content switch up - the game breakdown edits between live interview was smooth
@shem2k7 ай бұрын
Carlos a real one
@DanglyLingham6 ай бұрын
I grew a long beard and let the hair mat up to keep them away from me. It still doesn't work 100%
@liamdimicali22537 ай бұрын
The only reason to use a dating app is if you don’t have time to go out in person
@gme_chnger85577 ай бұрын
Why not use both is the point to have more women that are interested in you. To get yourself more options
@liamdimicali22537 ай бұрын
@@gme_chnger8557 Personally I don’t live in the biggest city, I live in Denver and know too many people here. I think it’s embarrassing if people see me on there, and I can get way prettier girls in person.
@jasontamay55157 ай бұрын
Fitx you are such a motivation. I will work to get a physique similar to yours. Keep up the great content.
@CaezarTheEmperor7 ай бұрын
That Mexican dude had the 411 lol fellow raza layed down the facts tho!! 🔥💯
@jth_printed_designs7 ай бұрын
“Don’t you think you can apply the same to Instagram?” You can’t because the simple fact that she’s on Instagram or a dating app IS the issue. If you screen for attention seeking behavior then you have to automatically disqualify everyone on Instagram.
@mannymoon5016 ай бұрын
I used to be a simp in my 30's but through experience and growing confidence; having purpose in life, I ain't even have to try. They usually be approaching me now. Make men great again!!
@tubularbill5 ай бұрын
What’s the point of approaching these days? If you are not over 6ft and look like a Chad you have very little chance. It’s incredibly difficult even for a coffee date.
@ryanandrews3214 ай бұрын
Invest in yourself, build your own business, go to the gym and get into the best shape of your life, and pursue hobbies that make you truly happy. Chasing sex is what makes guys weak and unhappy.
@anthonymanuel550004 ай бұрын
100% facts
@episodebeats28174 ай бұрын
The times we live in don’t promote confidence & attraction in the average straight male struggling to pay rent.
@marcusrosales33447 ай бұрын
I get attention and have been told I should model, but I do not have confidence. Confidence is definitely part of what makes you attractive! I'm doing better in this department though. Since it's 2024, I should say I am autistic... I always had this in my head, and was embarrassed of it. I realized I'm always going to be awkward, but it only makes it worse when I am anxious about it. In fact, it was embarrassing being good looking and having zero game! I really think an "ugly" person can be attractive if they are just calm, cool and collected
@accept4157 ай бұрын
That 39 year old is definitely a virgin
@Luan-b8d5 ай бұрын
The better question is what is better. A peaceful joyable or stressful despair life.
@Manabook-vf9cg5 ай бұрын
Fr I’m not gonna get sum half assed woman I hate myself with, like everyone I see is like that
@anthonymanuel550004 ай бұрын
@@Manabook-vf9cgfr, I would rather be alone than be someone I’m not attracted to or someone that’s annoying
@ISLAMICSTORIES137 ай бұрын
im 26 havent been laid since 23 but im trying to be more religious so it doesnt bother me. if an attractive girl threw it at me i would probably cave but it doesnt happen lol
@titaniumcranium37557 ай бұрын
Least you got laid at 23. I have a brother that age trying to sleep with teenagers
@IramCoercere6 ай бұрын
May God bless you abundantly in Jesus Christ name
@a.tfitness_4 ай бұрын
This a cool video I have a girl, but I had no idea how many people genuinely struggle to get layed at all
@berberecivilise28253 ай бұрын
What’s ur abs workout bro
@__Mikee23Ай бұрын
Same here , it’s ridiculous out here
@Rich_Killa7 ай бұрын
These are the best videos Fit make more
@Khi4206 ай бұрын
Bro got cylinder blocks for arms god dam 😂
@leol12436 ай бұрын
My man I can tell you if you live in a city area such as NYC woman here are dating for a free ride. I'm on TV and told I'm good looking by ladies often however I have sex maybe every 6 months. I don't have to really try when it happens. I also have things going on and sex isn't my first priority. Dating has changed since social media 100% Woman ask a bunch of questions that have to do with financial things. If you answer the way they are seaching you will get a date and played. I never tell them my financial things. I lie about my money and my assets which equals way less dates. Looks only cut it for a quick hookup with young girls. After 35 it's all business 💸 💰