Mother’s love. Dr. Velumani

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Ай бұрын

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@eshaghosh2511 Ай бұрын

I know someone who did doctorate in computer science from Columbia University. Had a bright future in America. His father had a stroke, was paralyzed. He left all the prospects in the US and came back to India to be with his parents.

@jeetshah9348 Ай бұрын

So proud of the guy. I just hope he and his family are doing well in life now.

@saraswathyv8083 Ай бұрын

My daughter's friend... a brilliant girl..got offers from 2 top notch colleges abroad..but she too didn't take it up, as she parents were getting old and she wanted to be with them.. Great girl..

@Kathakathan11 Ай бұрын

@@saraswathyv8083i don’t plan to leave my parents but it’s difficult to stay here, I can earn more with the same skill set. Money somehow has been a limiting factor in my childhood, I am absolutely okay to sacrifice it, but can I deny my children the chance to have better life? This question is pestering me. Also the relatives around me mock me that I was brightest among the cousins but I am still here while they are all over Europe having better work life balance. Even if I complain about simple traffic they say why don’t you go to country where there is less population, see how happy your cousin is. Oh yes, now you don’t have that profile na, so only through your kids you can explore the world. One aunty said such things. I am just frustrated these days and I was never such a person. I love my aai baba, but now they want to marry me off. Now anyways I will go away. We searched for guys, even outside the community, they want IT engineer only. A tuition teacher, why would a educated guy marry someone like that. And the guys who end up saying yes don’t have enough knowledge or wisdom like me, I am mature too early, never lived my 20s, don’t know clubbing, don’t even know what styling is. All I get is, now with such a face & career, you will not find love. I don’t deserve this. Now I have to take difficult decision to go away from my aai baba. I have stayed away from them, but could return in 6 hours.

@NS-jb2iu 18 күн бұрын

🫡

@tamilsongsmixed6120 2 күн бұрын

Only very few people like that, they are different from what others doing.That's why we are talking about them.

@jprakashoram8500 Ай бұрын

I was working in Bhubaneswar few years back. Covid happened and mom & dad fell sick. I came back to Village and never left again. Left my job. Started farming and learning trading in stock market. My neighbours, relative even my few friends suggested to get a job. But i will never leave home again. Sb ka apna apna priority hoti hai. Mera ye hai

@anrag1111 Ай бұрын

True. How is it going now?

@jprakashoram8500 Ай бұрын

@@anrag1111 from farming the basic things are fulfilling. Because in villages there isn't much to spend on things. Bas Ghar ka kharcha nikal jati hai. In investing, till now my portfolio is giving good returns. That will be my long term investing for life. I won't sell those stocks. In trading I consider myself I'm still learning & not earning. Working with a very small capital of 5000 only from the last 2 years. After 2 years of fluctuations of loss & profit, I started making continuous monthly profits (small ones) from this year Feb onwards. Overall till now, life has not improved much but not degraded either. I'm seeing progress in trading now so hopefully in 1or 2 years later gonna see some turn around in my life.

@jprakashoram8500 Ай бұрын

@@anrag1111 mom and dad are happy having me around them. They just want me to get married now asap😄. But as I am starting everything from scratch, gonna take some time. Overall I'm not regretting my decision & I'm happy here. Thanks for asking brother 🙂

@odiamafia Ай бұрын

Starting a venture related to agriculture or something. I've heard govt provides many subsides and also 0% gst on the business. Manure manufacturing business or something like that. Loans are also available at very low interest rates.

@nikhiltinku3232 Ай бұрын

bhai kuch bhi karo par day trading mat karo , investing karsakte ho

@bhavyajainnd Ай бұрын

Now this is a podcast worth watching unlike some bicep people

@sialo1 Ай бұрын

I agree 100%. the interviewer is not making it about himself.

@souravnandi2794 Ай бұрын

Hamesha sabko criticize karna zaruri ho chuka hai sabke liye

@jayaduttabhoumik784 Ай бұрын

Dono hi dekho na..🤔🤔

@nkgnkg4990 Ай бұрын

I did not cry, I knew I could look after family only when I move away from village.To each his own

@nityaneelakantan9203 Ай бұрын

True

@MaithiliKulkarni Ай бұрын

Exactly. Thank God I haven't come across any mother who'd behave like this. Prioritizing her insecurities, rather than supporting g and encouraging her son. Sad.

@manikantapaluri_yt 10 күн бұрын

zindagi me kuch paane keliye kuch khona bhi zaroorat hota hai Meaning: To gain something in life, you have to lose something.

@suganthkv9603 3 күн бұрын

Thank you u translated in English

@KitaReBa 23 күн бұрын

A mother to her son: its been 10 years and you have not returned from US. Son: mom i have a Dog and who will take care of it in my absence?

@dheerajyadav8134 Ай бұрын

This is so painful 😢

@nitichroniclesjourney10 Күн бұрын

From childhood onwords i am studying in hostel, now the time has came to go home and be with mom. Waiting to complete my master's ASAP

@raajeshsinha7783 Ай бұрын

Hats of to your innovation and dwvotion Dr.Velu. 🙏🙏

@liveonlifeonhealthcare3240 6 күн бұрын

India's village dream to b rich richer richest .....lot of industries should come in every village so dat village men n women earn well today politicians give free money .......free money will develop lazy society

@kpsinghMusic Ай бұрын

So much respect sir, as a budding entrepreneur myself who is attached to his family can feel your pain and sadness at that time, more power to you sir

@pramodnani8312 Ай бұрын

had tears in my eyes ❤..😢

@liveonlifeonhealthcare3240 6 күн бұрын

Seriously it's story of every common man till now ......public should not require to leave their villages n old-age parents for money ....india should develop so much where every village is rich enough with strong people n no more lazy people

@fidaulfat589 Ай бұрын

If your aspirations are larger than life, you may need to take a path that leads you away from loved ones, as your goals transcend the boundaries of family and friendship. However, if your objectives are more conventional, prioritizing family and loved ones is perfectly acceptable. It's essential to recognize that both choices involve trade-offs, and neither option is inherently right or wrong. The key is to align your decisions with your values and goals, acknowledging that each path has its unique consequences

@madhavdesai9964 Ай бұрын

Hello Think School Please attach a link to the full interview or podcast here in the comments or description It would be most helpful Thank You

@jivarishi Ай бұрын

Click on the link preceded by a white arrow below the Think School channel name for the full interview.

@ashrithharith3474 Ай бұрын

I don’t think there was any mother’s love involved here, he was clear about his priorities. If he loved her so dearly, he would not have left her.

@user-ke9um7vo2m Ай бұрын

No progress or success is a real success if you have left your mother.

@nkgnkg4990 Ай бұрын

How do you mean ?you need to feed mom sisters

@mohittalreja4309 Күн бұрын

Really painful would be if he stayed n the mother didnt even acknowledge his sacrifice n made conditions more worse for him n his siblings

@itsshowtime9759 18 күн бұрын

Telugu❤

@rockysridhar Ай бұрын

It all depends on individuals and the last dialogue doesn’t suits for your family and have witnessed many people who were doing well in the 🇺🇸 , but for their parents and family, kids , they have returned back to India for various reasons .

@115mohan 22 күн бұрын

Thanks Sir Own express from soul such words really need to think for the pause life.. move on

@niftytrader9869 Ай бұрын

i dont want to leave parents for money

@madhavdesai9964 Ай бұрын

Nice

@Ranjeet-nu4gs Ай бұрын

I feel him..

@HKarts_ Ай бұрын

Pane keliye bohot kuch miss / kho diya, but still kuch nahi mil raha hai 😢

@kushalab Ай бұрын

Inspiring

@rupeshchodankar1688 Ай бұрын

❤😢

@aaaa-qf6bw Ай бұрын

I exactly know how it feels

@akkishve Ай бұрын

Someone please translate last line hindi quote to English

@deepanshuparwani8169 13 күн бұрын

if you want something you have to leave something

@manikantapaluri_yt 10 күн бұрын

To gain something in life, you have to lose something.

@shubhamshankarthakur7881 Ай бұрын

❤

@adiyogi453 Ай бұрын

"Zindegi me kuch pane k liye kuch khona parta hai!" Kaya baat hai😮 Bete, " Kaya pane k liye kaya koya?" 😢

@navaneethakrishnan706 Ай бұрын

What does that mean ? Translate please

@devrath7080 Ай бұрын

True

@user-fe2zf6kl8f Ай бұрын

Some parents emotionally handicap their children

@hemanthbt Ай бұрын

Especially the Mother

@user-fe2zf6kl8f Ай бұрын

@@hemanthbt 100% it starts with troubled childhood and all the struggles then kid when he grows up gets too emotional and then some parents take over manipulating. some might not like my comment but its the truth

@hemanthbt Ай бұрын

@@user-fe2zf6kl8f I believe. I have seen mother or mother in law getting involved with their son/daughters family and breaking it because of their stronghold on the respective offspring. I know a friend of my who is taking care of his father since past 10 years. His other siblings have distanced themselves from him. He is unable to take up any good job since his father don't want to leave his village. Sometimes even the siblings are toxic.

@orbekv Ай бұрын

He was telling a Punch line in Hindi! Could anybody kind enough to convey it English? Thanks in advance.

@hardciderenthusiast4268 22 күн бұрын

In life, "in order to get something, you lose something"

@parshu.9309 Ай бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@sanjulatadas2438 Ай бұрын

This part is not in complete video

@kuruvadi120001 Ай бұрын

😢

@hanudeepkumar9066 Ай бұрын

Can I get the last sentence translated into english?

@anujchhikara-zy4mx Ай бұрын

If you want to achieve anything in life then you have to let go something

@dailyquotes5462 Ай бұрын

@@anujchhikara-zy4mx Thank you for the translation

@sathish1175 Ай бұрын

@@anujchhikara-zy4mxthank you so much

@rajsanfrancisco5074 Ай бұрын

I hate the fact that he utters something in hindi at the end and didn't say that in English. How can he miss this ...and assume everyone knows hindi

@sudiptasil4561 Ай бұрын

Zindagi kuch bhi pane keliye kabhi apna family chor nehi sakta

@gajulathrivikram Ай бұрын

Life of every person living far from home to earn

@rightmoveadyar9323 Ай бұрын

Yeo antha kadasi line ah tamil solli tholai i dont know himdi

@alagarsamyselvakumar1548 Ай бұрын

ஒன்றை இழந்து தான் ஒன்றை பெற முடியும்

@cnu73 7 күн бұрын

romba mariyatha

@kuman9536 Ай бұрын

What is the translation for The punchline

@shivashishsharmas1664 Ай бұрын

Yrrr

@somdebasish Ай бұрын

👍🙏I appreciate your punch line, but what if after losing everything, you don't get anything?✍️ I have had seen people who are still struggling for two square meal a day and are apprehensive of their future.....everybody is not lucky to achieve success. Various parameters and an element of luck factor definitely play a significant role however smart/hard work you do.... you may believe it or not, but now I have started to believe in "What man proposes , God disposes.' The mother story you gave, I myself had also undergone the same situation, maybe not verbatim, but experienced the exact emotions when I left home....🙏✍️👌

@pskamarajind3865 Ай бұрын

Who's he?

@amitbhoirrr Ай бұрын

He Might be sounding like a great person but if you ask his employees he has exploited peoples as much as he can if you go to Glassdoor you will see no work life balance in each review kuch pane k liye logon lootna padta hai

@Kal_Al_Thor Ай бұрын

What is his company name?

@kaydee3407 Ай бұрын

He gained wealth , decding to lose his mother .. Can his wealth return the hours lost with this mother...

@harinaren1989 Ай бұрын

Thats so cringe..Now he is saving millions of mother.

@vt6933 27 күн бұрын

He didn’t lose her, let alone she would be so proud of him for being who he is right now, you do have to take hard decisions in life to grow, where do u think u would be if your ancestors never left your ancestral homes

@kaydee3407 27 күн бұрын

@@vt6933 u dont understand the debt system...all ir laboir and energy is loaned to the banking system for bog corporates .. We all have remedy to credit when we decide to reduce debt at the Crown treasury instead of increasing debt at the Crown debt franchise The whole debt system is based on the mortgage on the womb and its assets..ie the child at berth Utube : what is your status part1 birth certificate

@kaydee3407 27 күн бұрын

Ur media and education also censors the meaning of the borth certificate

@tilakrajgolari1577 Ай бұрын

Life of a Man

@KitaReBa 23 күн бұрын

Then i thought what about Monks/ sanyasis.

@sombuddhachatterjee8163 Ай бұрын

I know of so many kids who could never make it out of their homes, let alone their cities, to achieve their dreams because of parents’ emotional manipulation.

@tilakrajgolari1577 Ай бұрын

Thats called LOVE

@sombuddhachatterjee8163 Ай бұрын

Love is not emotional manipulation. I myself am at the crossroads of life where I need to decide whether I will settle with my parents or not. I think many people don’t even have that liberty. They have been caged up in this cycle of forced responsibility, which people might want to call love.

@hello10694 Ай бұрын

Can someone translate the sentence please?

@yogamayadegala6603 Ай бұрын

To get(achieve) some thing..we need to be ready to loose something.to get some,loose some

@killergaming008 Ай бұрын

Hello

@user-bz7oe5jo8l Ай бұрын

Hlo

@alwayspositive9321 Ай бұрын

Whats the meaning of the punch line? I don't know hindi

@rajavishnuvardhana6830 Ай бұрын

If you want to earn something in life you have to lose something.

@alwayspositive9321 Ай бұрын

@@rajavishnuvardhana6830 thanks bro

@documentin9171 Ай бұрын

"Zindagi paani ke liye kuch khona parhta nahi"... not at the cost of family!!! That's not our Indian values. We don't sacrifice our family!

@lakshmisrinivas9454 Ай бұрын

Very succinctly put he is not a hero if he left his mother n never came back

@lakshmisrinivas9454 Ай бұрын

I went overseas to study got my degrees n started working fir leading bank n okayed a significant role The moment I heard my parent was unwell quit our job n came back n staying here only taking care of home parents n family Thars was best decision of my life

@MaithiliKulkarni Ай бұрын

Thank God I haven't come across any mother who'd behave like this. Prioritizing her insecurities, rather than supporting g and encouraging her son. Sad.

@abhishekkrishnan9153 28 күн бұрын

You must have a rude mindset to make such an opinion about his mother, his mother never stopped him from his journey , in those times when people hadn't much means of communications a journey from a remote corner of tamil nadu to mumbai was something like a journey of a lifetime and it would be heart breaking for any loving caring mother when her son leaves her behind for a new world , don't be so arrogant and silly in judging somebody's emotions in such a preposteorously cold blooded way

@MaithiliKulkarni 28 күн бұрын

@@abhishekkrishnan9153 Yes, I have a very practical mindset. As a mother, I don't go about guilt-tripping my child, and clip her wings. I let her soar, secure in the knowledge that illness and death are a part and parcel of everybody's life; and it shouldn't cone in the way of growth and success of another person (least of all my own child) Thank you

@keerti7479 Ай бұрын

If you have siblings, what's the problem? Your mom never grew up to let her grown kids go...

@deepikakrishna24 Ай бұрын

What's the punchline? Can someone please translate to English? Thank you.

@frankenstein8844 Ай бұрын

To gain something in life, you have to lose something

@deepaksahu6075 18 күн бұрын

We want to be one of the developed countries for that we need everyone to be working with good pay but remember what is ur identity as an Indian as a civilization don't lose it or else u ll be just like a copy cat typical materialistic western... family is important as important it's not taht u won't go abroad or other City to work but u ll do only if ur parents r doing good health is good .if not y u should...