Mother Wound: How To Break Free From A Controlling Mom

[@OliverCowlishaw]

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[@alien078]

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[@chicago9368]

You’re underrated, don’t stop what you do. Mental health is the biggest thing that we need help with in the world. You’re saving people.

[@OliverCowlishaw]

I appreciate that, man 🙏🏻

[@PIRKSTINS]

I am going to sound like a total loser, probably, but.. I am a musician, 26 years old. I started playing piano when I was 7, because I wanted to, I thought it was my passion. But then I wanted to quit, in my teenage years, but my mother forced me to finish music school. With a lot of struggle, I did it. And tbh I am grsteful for the push, because I am a full time musician now. However, the income is not stable, I just had my front teeth fixed, cost a lot of money. Ofcourse, my mother took care of it. She supports me financially still, which is good, but bad at the same time, since I am still relying on that. Also my mother still sees me as a 10 year old and is always worried about what I am doing, giving me so much love, cuddling me etc. and I do not really like that. I feel like a child still, because of it. But it breaks my heart, thinking about leaving my family and going to live somewhere else, but that is what I dream about. But first I need to become independent. This whole situation in my mind seems so complicated. One part of me wants to be independent, but the inner child likes to be pampered and taken care of, living in comfort. Is there any tips in this situation? Thanks 🙏🏼

[@simon-karelhruska2510]

I actually experienced this transformation now. Finally, two weeks after breaking up with a controlling woman after a year of relationship. It actually helped me break this cord.

[@brandonhonaker5493]

I needed this . This video I’ve used for 3 days straight . It’s changing my life . I will keep doing this

[@OliverCowlishaw]

Yes, brother! "A man must live as though his mother and father were dead"

[@danirogerc]

This is surprisingly strong.

[@xorrior4438]

You’re doing a great service to the world! 👍

[@OliverCowlishaw]

Thankyou

[@brayanconejo]

bro you’re goated for this video, i appreciate you for this great advice thank you.

[@budgiespat7883]

YOU ARE TRULY A GREAT TEACHER, OLIVER ... thanks from Pat in Germany

[@916nene]

I try but I can’t I feel so bad I cry and my mom cry and I feel terrible and I stay 😢 I’m 34 and I feel 19 is not ok and now I know is a syndrome and I don’t like it at all Porn and masturbation is addictive daily.

[@thefather757]

Dear Oliver, I just found I had this problem yesterday and started searching about it today and found you. Your content has opened my eyes. There are so much going through my mind that I can't tell you how I feel right now I just wanted to say THANK YOU. You are helping me big time! Continue the good work. There are so many men like me in their 30s that need you. My whole life I had so many weird problems and I didn't know why until I watched your videos. I have almost ALL the symptoms you mentioned. Thank you. Keep up the good work.

[@OliverCowlishaw]

I'm glad you found this stuff, mate. Keep following the trail. It will lead you somewhere good, I assure you.

[@thefather757]

@@OliverCowlishaw I'm doing that. I've been consuming your content since yesterday.

[@Abitube47]

​@@thefather757bro what is your age?

[@thefather757]

@@Abitube47 33

[@steveb8269]

Thank you Oliver, another awesome upload 👍

[@monodefender4176]

Thank you so much, this is the video i am looking for all this time i am trying to identify what's my actual mental problem

[@stephmeisterm8]

Thank you for the follow-up video I remember asking you for it on the previous one. This has a lot of great information and I hope I can finally change this dynamic. Subbed

[@OliverCowlishaw]

Yes mate it was your recommendation I was responding to ✌🏻

[@divyagauravrana]

Do you have a video on expressing sadness cause sadness was not ok at my home?

[@pabbl8087]

Thank you very much

[@OliverCowlishaw]

My pleasure ✌🏻

[@stanstan-m9b]

I did literally all steps, this doesn’t help , disconnect, travel, independence, questions etc

[@OliverCowlishaw]

@@stanstan-m9b and what exactly are you still struggling with? How does the mother wound show up in your life?

[@ajithsidhu7183]

Please do one for south asian men

[@OliverCowlishaw]

I would if I had the experience of being a South Asian man 😂✌🏻

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[@OliverCowlishaw]

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[@adamcotton9657]

WOW epic advice

[@mohammadhanif986]

As for now Im still having a hard time moving outta my mom’s place. Do u think writing her a feeling letter helps the healing process even if I can’t leave yet?

[@TheKlink]

Self actualization might be a more viable possibility if the hands of both my Rents weren't always in my pockets.

[@OliverCowlishaw]

You're absolutely right. I talk about this elsewhere. It's MUCH harder to focus on higher order aims/purpose when you're stuck in survival mode. What I would say is, whatever your present challenges are ... that IS the next step in your self-actualisation journey. Even if it means making that paper. That's why I've started talking about that more recently. Thanks for your comment bro.

[@DonNome]

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[@thefinefrugalline3232]

Hey, be gentle to the mothers who always only meant well!

[@revogenmediadotco]

Most dont mean well at all. First things first almost all parents dont think they need guidance or knowledge how to be a good parent, they just assume that they know... Cant turn out good.

[@tuffandco3745]

Marriage or the nuclear family has not been a thing for common people since before the Industrial Revolution.

[@AliceRosemaryCA]

Enjoyed your action plan - foul language🌊🤔