MOVING ON FROM A PAINFUL BREAK UP | DATING & COURTING | TOSIN ALABI

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[@temiquadry]

I love the fact that Tosin spoke from her experience. To be honest you need to also forgive, you will maybe never forget, but forgive ! So if by accident a picture of them pops up, (even after "blocking the blockables ") you are not raining curses. Remember God loves them too.

[@caraepetuire]

My dear mind was worst.

[@omodesolagraceelusoji5552]

Thank you for this video. I just broke up from a long distance relationship that wasn’t God’s plan for my life. Although I saw signs that he was not the one. But because our families like each other I continued the relationship. As I’m writing this comment our parents don’t even know we have broken up. I’m trying to keep things as quiet as possible. I feel a lot more better since I have left the relationship. I’m now at peace. I still feel bad sometimes when I remember everything that happened in the relationship. Although we are born again Christian our purpose in life don’t match. I gave 150% even when I only had 100%. Let me just rest my case. It’s well. Thanks for all you do Aunty Lynnjaphet ❤️

[@shalomonoh3581]

I definitely enjoyed this video, one thing I know is “God’s better will blow our mind” I feel relieved, just two months down and I was broken, blocked and unblocked😩it’s not an easy part to go..”when someone shows you who they are, don’t try to paint them” that I have learnt...Thank you Tosin❤️

[@asaficangel5260]

Hei sis, uve gotten yrself a new convert. I love u cos ure being real and I've seen few videos of yours. I really find solace in God and in Yr videos. More wins sis.

[@luakin]

I HAD to comment while watching. Sis I CRIED for a week. Ko su mi. I was crying in the shower, crying at events. Listen, I could relate to this 😂 thank God for my husband now.

[@samirakate]

It's the honesty for me literally. Thanks for Sharing

[@ChinomnsoP]

La Diva! Profound wisdom. I cannot over emphasize how liberating it was for me to see the person as God sees the person. Acknowledging that this person belongs to God as well. The experience also made me gracious- it made me reflect on my humanity and how forgiving God is. When I remember how forgiving and loving God is, with the help of the Holy Spirit daily, it got easier to forgive. Not just forgiving the other person but forgiving myself.

[@folakeokunade8635]

Thank u so much for this video!!...I truly love and appreciate the videos u create. I pray that the Holy Spirit Continues to put amazing ideas into your heart and mind. This really hit home!, I cried after watching this video because I have been there and I am still healing!.A whole 7 years down the drain, Sis Tosin I almost lost it. Now, I am learning to know and accept God’s love for me and at the end I know that he is enough....Time to put all the things you mentioned into more and more practice. Keep Baskihg in the Glory, Favour and love of God!💃.

[@bukunmiadejobi9821]

What really stood out for me on this video is “Trusting God’s plan for your life” God also turns things meant fir evil to good.

[@abisolafasuhanmi]

Love it, so articulate!

[@temitopeidunnuoluwa3762]

Your videos are always something I look forward to, especially when they are faith based and relationship focused😉🙈

[@omoladefadase7471]

If a person shows you who they are believe them for it... THIS HIT ME HARD. I always gave excuses and hoping for a change..... I cried a whole lot. Thank God for the healing process🙏🙏 this video helps. Thanks sis

[@temiloluwadurojaiye]

That emotional guilt trip is real! Takes a lot of courage to stand your ground and not get swayed by their "nice words". Lol in my head you are like my big sis on KZbin 😂. Love you ❤❤. Great tips in the video

[@chelsean7623]

I just clicked subscribe when you said ‘remember that God loves them too’ because flesh and blood couldn’t have revealed that to you lol. But seriously, I’m a Christian too and that was such an intelligent statement that has helped me in my own life. Thankyou, you have a lifelong fan❤️

[@BlissfulBlessedZ]

Thank you! I needed this just experienced this in May. We were on different pages and we try so hard to make it work. It didn’t work out. Watching your video, I hear something was “ Forgive yourself also in the process. A lot of us don’t heal complete because we don’t forgive us for putting ourselves in that position! I get so excited for your videos

[@abbyprintables4867]

Hi Tosin, please do a video about parental pressures with marriage. I am 26, and my Nigerian parents don't understand that I am have just been through a breakup and need time to heal. They want me to get married ASAP!!!

[@ogdiva9735]

I was one of those that were and still are very happy when you announced your engagement on your channel. I think I even left a comment how I was excited about this phase of your life and that the channel will be richer and be helpful to a wider range of audience. This video has just opened my eyes to focus on my self worth truly, cos sometimes we overlook the things that shouldn't be... Thank you Tosin.

[@fashakinbanke3671]

That first one ehnnnnnn, so true even though it’s not easy. At ‘I wept ‘ , I can relateeeeee. I shed tearssssssss. It really helps to express your pain .

[@fashakinbanke3671]

Helpful video thanks 💕

[@fashakinbanke3671]

ALWAYS SEE PEOPLE AS GOD SEES THEM

[@nonsocooks]

I really enjoyed this video and I could totally relate. Blocking the person everywhere is VERY important, not out of spite but just to have a healthy state of mind so that you don't start posting emotional and personal things so that the person will see it and feel some type of way. No sis, block him.

[@angelfortunee4302]

Just watched this again. The queen of evergreen Content

[@annasexpressions]

Thank you Tosin. I always like your videos ❤

[@joansworld6415]

Thank you sooo much Aunty Tosin, blessing my life since 1900. I celebrate you ma'am

[@mjatastes9085]

Really loved this wow funny but very eye opening aswell👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@theblessinglomo]

Thank you Tosin... Doing a good job I love the part of valuing yourself I feel under potentialised(I don't know the word to use lol) in my previous.relationships. The truth is just that we not on the same page can't help each other. The video gives me more confidence. Thanks

[@sisiadebanke5007]

I was actually skipping this video , thinking I don’t need it but wow Thank you 🙏🏾 you always dish out contents

[@francaokafor8873]

More grace and God's wisdom... You're an inspiration mama

[@oreoluwasowunmi]

God bless you Aunty Tosin !!! Resting in God is so important. God’s “good” is so much better than the world’s “best “

[@temiquadry]

Learn to see people how God sees them. ❤

[@rejoicechipepera4627]

I love her deeply,im learning alot

[@kerrytosan]

Flock away.. Lol I was going to say that you should block potential plea extenders too & then you did. Taking into consideration what we want ultimately & God's perfect plan is a great tip. Thanks for sharing 👌🏾

[@LammyJane]

Wow, ma'am watching this video felt like you were telling the story of my last relationship. Though wasn't as long as three years, and with a few differences. I'm glad God gave me strength enough to leave that relationship. Still healing though. And more like in the back and forth stage (cause we're still in contact). Thanks for sharing this❤

[@ngozinwafor2022]

Great advice. I'm a professional blocker and it works😄

[@deborahmatt3197]

Crying is healing therapy

[@fashakinbanke3671]

REST IN GODS LOVE

[@fitfoodnaija]

Thank you, Tosin

[@deborahmatt3197]

Yes sistuurr...block em all..those birds of a feather sef😏

[@ritaeni9018]

Thank u,

[@shyleentracy5664]

Thnx gal...just left my Marriage cos l cldnt have it anymore n this is wot l need now.

[@fadeke_]

BLOCK button works the magic for me too! lool.

[@SoraAdams]

The two dislike is your ex and his best friend. Thanks for sharing Tosin, that hair is on fleek.

[@TosinAlabi]

Hahaha I actually think they are trolls or bots. It’s normal with youtube.

[@KinkDiva]

Good one Tosin alabi.

[@prahstella8410]

Maya Angelou if a person shows you who they are, believe them.

[@simp1eone]

For singles - tell them after watching your video and subscribing and clicking thumbs up they should watch a channel called The Process Life (couple called Vito and MArchelle), as a single lady that couple has helped me tremendously. Just a tip. WAIT on God, that simple, God heals, no matter how hurt you are