Kayise Ngqula on life after loss | Wisdom & Wellness Podcast

[@brendenpraise_]

Si LA!!!!!!

[@anitasese3980]

Location!!

[@pksimom2429]

📍📍📍

[@siyasangadyalo-paliso3218]

Fix the surname...its NGQULA.

[@lufunomphaphuli]

Location📍💃

[@nombulelogidimi2056]

We are here 📍

[@sabamasaya2064]

Kayise is so eloquent, and her voice?🔥

[@tiyiselanin]

Loss can be so complicated. Mine was of a child and I’m still trying to pick up the pieces after 3 years. Strength to everyone who is on their healing journey ❤️

[@carolm1738]

So sorry 😞

[@ditabok8589]

❤❤❤

[@ma_ncube]

Renewed strength to you, Mama ❤️

[@minniendabokutya7860]

So sorry mama, I know your pain. You are in my prayers, no woman deserves that pain 🥺❤️

[@tiyiselanin]

@@minniendabokutya7860 ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mosibudi_xx]

Mpoomy Ledwaba in our generation!!!🙌🏻🔥😍What A Woman!!

[@nontobekomaphalala7992]

Trust!!!!

[@reginahmwepwe5904]

WORD!!!

[@Busiesholo]

“My journey was always going to bring me back to where God needed me to be” Kayise 🙌🏽🔥🔥

[@Thandolwethuolwet]

But then Mpoomy is a blessing yazi.

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

Why is everyone so happy. Can relate to that. Even my dad was sick. I felt like that. It was over December period. People were happy, I was in so much pain.

[@kopanoshimange]

Goodness this conversation... Kayisa Sisi thank you for sharing in this way. So real so important

[@thokozileomuhle]

"When you seating in darkness, you can tell that theres light somewhere but you cant locate it." that is so profound Kayise, Thank you for this conversation Zithandwa 🙌❤ ❤

[@carolinabukeka7017]

Profound indeed, Mpoomy u such a blessing.

[@inganath1_cq]

❤❤

[@boitshepodiketane1351]

So good😭❤❤

[@Nokubonga_M]

Kayise's Voice says listen to me🔥♥️♥️ Mrs Mom thank you for awesome content.

[@athenkosibanjatwa1167]

Theres no way anyone cam listen to such conversations and not be grateful.. And not introspect.. And not dig deep in their thoughts just about life in general. Thank you Mpoomy and Kayise for sharing... We definitely are growing through whatever we are going through...because God definitely is for growth.

[@ayandaayah8549]

Love this so much 😭so much truth and I can only agree ❤️❤️

[@lindokuhlejele8158]

Did I not shed a tear when she expressed sharing videos and the son says 'dada'..... Without comprehending his physical absence.

[@isabellanothando]

You look exactly the way you looked just before Nuri. Im here for it

[@AbenaAbuah]

Loss and grieving is something I wouldn’t even wish for my greatest enemy..it’s never a good experience..I lost my grandma, the woman I’ve known all my life and just within a second she was gone!!!! I just couldn’t accept the fact that she was gone! and that she left me behind, my whole world looked like crushing up on me.the sorrow, the depression OMG....it’s been 3months and I can’t still get over it. And the most saddest part of it all that keeps draining me apart is “I couldn’t take care of my grandma as wish to because I didn’t have enough money to spoil her 😭😭😭😭, but I’m also glad that I was with her in her final days and I was able to thank her and express my gratitude to her for taking care of me since I was a little baby. I told her a day before she died to come back as a baby to me. I hope God answers my prayers..May your humble soul Rest In Peace grandma. I love u

[@malebelomaphutha6566]

Sounds like she was great Abena, healing to you sisi. It's gonna get better

[@pertuniasoboyisi8671]

Same experience sis...you not alone! Take your time, cry when you need to and over time healing will come.

[@phelokazihlatshwayo5641]

The pain gets better with time. i know it sounds cliché, that's what I thought when I lost my gran, who was a mother to me, but allow yourself to go through the emotions, don''t act strong when it hurts..it will get better. the pain is still there even though its been a couple of years , but it doesn't hurt much. I am so sorry for your loss.

[@boitumelomolotsane3428]

I lost mine last week ....

[@AbenaAbuah]

@@malebelomaphutha6566 she was more than the word great 😊. Thank you ❤️

[@thandimabuza]

Loss and grief is the most painful journey,lost my mother last year and I’m still recovering from that,I knew that woman all my life,she raised me all by herself,there’s no knowledge she did not give of me. Strength to everyone going through grief

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

sending love and strength sis

[@carolm1738]

So sorry Sis, light and love

[@nolizwilanga]

Kayise’s description of grief is exactly what I’m going through right now, having lost my mom three months ago. I now have faith in that kuzokhanya, it might not be right now, but eventually it will happen. Grief is a very tough process to go through. Strength to everyone going through the same thing, God is our redeemer.

[@ciwem4764]

Mine 5 months full Akonto ilula sweetheart ❤

[@nolizwilanga]

@@ciwem4764 Kuzolunga sis. Sending you love 💕

[@jabuncwane810]

Love and Light to you Sisi..Kuzokhanya ngempela

[@mabotsechoshane]

Take heart Kayise ♥️ I relate to your story so much because my father died in a car accident when we (myself and my twin) were 2 weeks old. An unfathomable tragedy but my mother survived and raised us to be God-fearing successful women. Thank you for sharing your story ♥️

[@yolobangani5755]

Me liking even before listening because I love these women

[@ntandomtwa2220]

How do you even speak through a conversation like this and not cry... yhooo!!! Kayise enkosi sisi... Mpoomy, thank you.

[@thokozileomuhle]

We are never fully healed though they say time heals. Praying for Strength always ❤❤

[@priscillamakinita6903]

tragic passing sucks, it's really painful, you never know if you are going or coming . I went through the most when I lost my only sister! I had to drive on the same highway regularly to a point that I preferred to use a bus. God is faithful, He allowed it so that a new wine could come out of me. He will never forsake us. Let us keep trusting Him no matter what 🙏🙏

[@purposedrivenwomen]

I fell in love with Kayise from my perfect wedding cause of her voice and till today l still say condolences sis. This was heartfelt ❤

[@dudumalapane4880]

My two strong 💪 favorite ladies in one room . I love you both and draw a lot of positive things from you

[@Ezomgosi]

God's hands has touched you Kayise as you name says You are your Father's child and He will hold your hand even after dark. May God prosper you and protect you. To Mpoomy thank you for bringing this beautiful soul I really enjoyed it. God bless you all

[@matshedisotshidi8981]

Oh kayise😭.. Thank you for being so open I lost a new Born a day after giving birth last year. I must say I've been following kayise's journey and I'm also getting to my place of healing. Thank you so much guys. God bless.

[@ezikanozifaithnozizwematho5580]

I can relate to the journey of grief, it's very painful but we see the light and we try to walk towards it. Walk towards God

[@SisterInChrist-r3r]

Mrs mom, your content ma’am! So wholesome

[@elizabethmmapaseka7364]

Didn't i just sob from the start of this video.. wow, 😢😢 grieving is definitely something else

[@thabosibanda4923]

Every time Kayise shares her grief, I cry. I feel ur pain cc

[@MmaNoko]

Her experience is soooooo painful. Was disturbed the whole day .😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@zinhlephiwokuhledlamini8194]

I really love these wholesome conversations, they have completely changed my outlook of life and therefore changing my life! Thank you so much Mpoomy❤. And thank you to Kayise for choosing to be here❤

[@pksimom2429]

After losing my granmother on the 2nd March. I need this 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@sphelelengcobo3887]

Hi, I lost mine same date trust me I haven’t healed

[@pksimom2429]

@@sphelelengcobo3887 ❤️❤️love and light. We. Will heal as time goes 😭

[@kedibonemashilo2305]

@@pksimom2429 i lost my bestfriend on the 12th of March and it still hurts😭😭❤️

[@pksimom2429]

@@kedibonemashilo2305 😭😭😭 May God heal your heart🥺🥺🥺

[@onkgopotsemalele2885]

What a strong woman ❤️ Kayise kaNgcula

[@thandiswabusakwe4665]

Kayiso i watched your story 💔but i can see you are healing sisi

[@boitumelomakobosheane2928]

Listened to the Podcast now I m here .. shuu this is good. “ increase your capacity to receive love “ 🔥🔥🥺

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

thank you so much

[@johannamanchu]

I see myself crying throughout their conversation, thanks Mpoomy I love your channel :-)

[@valentiamangethe7181]

Thank you, Mrs. Mum, oooohhhh.......... Kayise's what a journey and that you for being so real and letting us in. May God continue to heal.... "Ngisekukhanyebi"

[@ifyouwereinmyshoes.1036]

That description of grief is so on point.

[@silindelegantsho6257]

Im so happy to see Kayise here, I love her so much❤️😭🙏

[@sphelelengcobo3887]

This is exactly how I feel, thank you Kayise and Mpoomy... I really need to heal but ngyahluleka

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

it takes time, all will be well

[@micadoh7749]

I love these 2 women.

[@letumile1]

Grief is a terrible pain. It's 11 months now since my mother passed away. It is the worst thing ever.

[@tsholofelodlamini4166]

Keeping you in my prayers mama! Love and light!!🥺❤❤

[@SuperFoodParents]

She shared some practical ways for moving through a very tough situation🙏🏼Including daddy in her son's life because daddy is a real part, even if not physically😊

[@hlengiwemdleleni495]

Siyasabela masibizwa thina banye... Sila sizofunda ... Thank you for your time...

[@andisiwediko4198]

Shuuuu so much grace and poise in Kayise. Love and light to you and your son sisi❤️

[@tebohomnguni7261]

The peeps who thumbs down the video,🤔 explain your logic .

[@alettahtsotetsi3276]

Mpoomy you're anointed for this. Kayise is a strong💪 and powerful woman. May God bless her 🙏

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

She really is ❤️

[@nanzkhumalo8611]

Mpoomy ledwaba thanks for today's guest Kayise

[@ntshiengworldwide]

Bathong.. Let’s discuss Kayise’s voice. 😭🥰😌❤️

[@ciwem4764]

😭😭😭😭😭😭Kayise first line!!!!! I felt every word.....relate

[@khathutshamaano1314]

My journey is mine and mine alone. Don't try to make sense to someone who doesn't know your story

[@nthabisithole1487]

Grief can be the worst experience ever, but we thank God for the grace we have to overcome it. Thank you opening up to us with your story❤️❤️

[@nelsilemaluleke1279]

Kayise such a strong and powerful lady, thank you Mpoomy for this 🙏🏽

[@AllThingsLindo]

All our love to you Kayise. You are conquering day by day just by virtue of not giving up and choosing to give one more day another chance. You are strength Queen!! There's reason in the season ❤️

[@lethabomoshidi294]

This is soooo powerful. I love the honesty - I experienced a loss of a child, I know that dark place (with my husband being a pastor and I Mamoruti), is real regardless. Love & Light ❤️

[@dumelanglegobere8534]

This woman got me hooked..Such a beautiful soul with an inspiring story❤thank you for sharing

[@ginaashimosi6133]

I love her voice, this is deep.Thank you Mpoomy for this❤

[@allthings_suzieq]

Can’t wait to listen to this conversation

[@maggiekambai4552]

Beautiful conversation here, grief is really complicated and is not linear.

[@samkelisiwemagudulela9558]

Kayise's voice wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

[@mhelukajuliana8375]

My beautiful sister ❤i love you so much God bless you ABUNDANTLY for accepting the call and changing lives

[@phakamamjungula5010]

I came here for Kayise❤️

[@blommymazibuko]

This is by far my fave... I have been following your journey for a while now and I am learning a lot from you. Thank you Kayise for your strength, you are empowering a lot of women who just feel their world's collapsing after the loss of a loved one. Enkosi cc❤️🌸

[@buhlempungose552]

Shew Kayise. God bless you & Mpoomy thank you sthandwa for such content.

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

thank you for watching.

[@VeronaPillay]

This conversation was sooo deep gosh! Omw!! This was deep! Love how she speaks. She drew me in made me sit in her place and feel those things!!

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

Ey sis the honesty in her words 🙌❤️

[@LetiMatlelemu]

Mrs Mom... you're Godsent 🙌🏾 your content is life. May God keep using you to touch more lives.

[@mamsuthundhlovu264]

Just look at God🙌🏽

[@irene_nhlapo]

Wow Mpumi you are so beautiful..

[@saaranangombe]

I am here early today 😀😀😀😀❤️❤️ Also, just 8 minutes and you guys are already over 300 it's the love for me man

[@chilalamudenda8678]

Patiently waiting for the full visual episode 😊

[@matshepomotimele3582]

Hao Mpumi mara m at work 😭😭and now I found myself watching this

[@kelebogilemillicent1392]

I can't wait for the full podcast. Mrs mom your content is 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 👌👌

[@zandy130]

Ohh Cc it can only be Christ who gives you the strength🙌🙌

[@sabamasaya2064]

Nah I know we keep saying that South African women are overly beautiful,”top tier” according to Twitter but yoh guys! Look at these women!🥺🔥❤️

[@Nokubonga_M]

Right!!! ♥️♥️

[@nomthibuthelezi5834]

Thank you Mpoomy for this conversation. I can't wait for the full version.

[@nokuthulamampa1503]

Love this convo 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 when are thy able to post the full video???

[@thandondlovu9853]

Amazing conversation but I request more it seriously felt like 30s, if we could get a P2 please

[@boitshepodiketane1351]

Thanks Mpoomy for this ❤Did I not cry😢I remember I used to cry every night And My boyfriend will just sit with me and hug me and ask me "Baby whts wrong" and I will be like"Bbe is not fair I need my Mom😢I can't do this life on my own😢,It just doesnt make sense",thts how is so painful😢I get it tht they say everything happens for a reason and everything works out for our own good but the Loss of My Mom left me miserable,how is tht for my own good or wht is actually the reason 😢I love God so much but this just left me asking God😢I hope one day he heals me❤..Grief is so painful 😢more especially when u are still young cos u dnt really undestand what is actually going on with u..u are just guessing😢u dnt really hv a full picture of wht si happening😢because no one tells u how griefs looks like,our elders just expect us to be strong bcs thts how they have been taught to deal with pain but I also undestand them and where they are coming frm..But now us we are a different generation..They dnt tell us tht tday u might feel like u are three steps foward and tmrw u might feel like 10 steps back wards😢they dnt tell us tht one day u can wake up and feel the pain like it just happened yesterday 😢sometimes u just wake up and u feel like not wanting to participate in the activities of life😢and sometimes u just feel like just commiting suicide bcs atleast u will get to meet ur Mommy on the other side bcs u just cant do this life thing without her,is hard😢so messy😢We hv been sold this idea tht it gets better with tym but for me time makes it worse😢They dnt tell us tht u get triggered by small things..like small things can actually make ur life fall apart because when u feel pain u just happen to build ur self back to normal with broken pieces and if someone says something mean or negative or u come across something to do with loss it triggers u and u just fall apart so easily😢When u are young is so painful bcs U just want to figure urself out and find ur feet in this world,like u just wanna have fun and then there is grief that is holding u back to be ur best self😢Like u hv to understand grief and urself at the same time and ur mind can't take all tht at once when u are young😢and life is still gonna happen to you also kor yoh hae😢like is a rollercoaster of painful emotions😢I just dnt understand how God does things but I trust him😢Mothers should live forever😢❤Like is not fair for a child to grow up without a Mom❤❤I hv seen My loving father(God) holding my hand and navigating this life with me❤❤Im so thankful ❤And I dnt want to wake up one day And Forget how he carried me through in times where I felt like it was just me against the world😢Thanks Kayise for healing some of us❤

[@mpumelelobuhlebenkosinteng1534]

I love Mpoomy so much aibo...wisdom ekuSis❤️

[@nontobekomnguni543]

I remember going through divorce, couldn't log in to an of my social media accounts, especially on WhatsApp cos it seems like everyone was happy enjoying their lives and mina ngapha I'm hurting yoh I was so depressed but I'm now ok,thanks sisters asibambaneni

[@simphiwekambule3420]

Bless you for these conversations Mrs Mom❤

[@mabotsechoshane]

Love the visuals for the intro Mpoomy 🔥♥️ I’m here for all the sass and confidence

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

thank you much hun

[@LethoHali]

🙏🏾 thank you ladies

[@snaweezy]

Love and light Kayise 🕯❤️

[@Mosibudi_xx]

When she’s starting to talk about the Mic she reminds me of Bishop TD Jakes... now Let me head over to the potcast❤️

[@bongekilehlatshwayo1934]

Hi please share

[@Mosibudi_xx]

@@bongekilehlatshwayo1934 Hey, You can find podcast on the podcast app

[@yangamshweshwe4863]

We need the full episode, please!

[@RealTalkWithNthabi]

Too Beautiful Queens. Love your passion Mpoomy. I definitely see Mama O in you💗💗

[@Naniky_Evolved]

This is so emotional and deep. I really appreciate such conversations. Thank you for such wonderful content❤.

[@tavanashechiropa]

Been waiting on thissss for a longgg time love you both ❤!

[@polaokhoarai4421]

i love her voice

[@mrspboledi]

Thank you for such informative conversations week in and week out Mpoomy, wow🥺🥺🙌🏽

[@teddymosehle9159]

May I one day meet you and share a cup of chamomile tea with you over a deep chat.❤️ Thank you for blessing us.

[@KabeloEmilyNell]

Mpoomy I appreciate this podcast so much, so thought provoking & honest 🥺🤎

[@LuthandoLuyanda]

I already know I’m going to cry here

[@Busiesholo]

Mpoomy you just keep rising 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@mosabarendse]

I love the intro🔥😍🙌🏼...Ohk let me go listen to the rest of the podcast.🤗♥️I truly love your work Mrs Mom.

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

Thank you ❤️

[@MrsD_2022]

Please invite Nozi Qamngana

[@relebogilemohlala7250]

Wow! What a powerful conversation

[@keneilwegao5831]

I feel this video ayaphelelanga ❤️❤️❤️ sicela more! Great content 🤍🤍🤍

[@amogelangmanamela9188]

What a beautiful interview, love and strength to you Sis❤️🙏🏼