MrBeast Is Evil Actually | Sad Boyz

recorded 2/2/2023
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[@JordanAdika]

thanks for all the love everyone

[@idknemore525]

Here have some more:

[@kb7633]

hope you're doing okay :)

[@salamilid7615]

I love you

[@niutjasgtga2100]

beloved jordan i hate to see you cry :'( i hope you are well x

[@EclipseINF]

Why is he *not* verified??? This is Blasphemy!

[@mahmeme]

I want to say this is my first time watching this podcast, and it's so refreshing to see men be intimate with eachother, sharing their fears and feelings, being empathetic with one another, no toxic masculity, and having intellectual conversations. I hope that more men are inspired by y'all to feel like they can be themselves and share their feelings.

[@starrr365]

Highly recommend their youtube channels too!

[@CeeceeVVS]

I felt the same way when I discovered the Hey Babe podcast with Sal Vulcano and Chris Distefano. Just two homies being vulnerable and genuine with each other talking about life.

[@notpigeon]

Try watching "Cinema Therapy"s videos too🥰

[@gargles5270]

@@CeeceeVVS:0 sal as in impractical jokers sal?? that’s cool i didn’t know he was on a podcast !

[@CeeceeVVS]

@@gargles5270 yesss I love the show and honestly love the podcast more. It’s always a good time watching him and other comedians just shooting the shit yk

[@xero1119]

I teared up when Jordan was talking, I can feel where he’s at, that level of exhaustion, the worst fears being worse than imagined, thank you for opening up about that, I hope you have the support and care you need throughout this process. There is a freedom in your worst fears coming true, what else could you lose that you can’t handle. Loved this episode guys, always appreciate y’all

[@xero1119]

also Jarvis talking about athletic stuff is so real as well, as someone recovering from a severe injury i’m like “why can’t i lift the same!! ugh!!” because u were in a wheelchair for months dumdum. The heart rate thing was such good advice oh my god

[@devilishchrissy5033]

I love the dynamic Jarvis and Jordan have, it makes them super fun to listen to when they're joking around but it's also just really oddly comforting to listen to them just casually talk.

[@johnnyray9107]

There is chemistry here 😊

[@reloreo2899]

I agree. I often listen to certain KZbinrs videos because I find their dynamic and voices comforting.

[@mirandarr4411]

sometimes getting physically pulled out of spiraling is what we need. keep ur head up jordan, we’re so happy you’re back

[@bibsp3556]

I find it the best for me to just force myself to get through the routine and tick the boxes, then try again tomorrow. It doesn't have to be amazing or anything, but it always helps to feel like you've done something and to reduce the spare time you have in your head when in that headspace.

[@prickly.knight]

It makes me feel better when other adults are still getting their license or just starting. I feel very behind my peers in that aspect, but I'm reminded by cool people like you that everyone takes life at their own pace!

[@iimmannii]

We all do things at our own pace, but it's easier to say than to feel okay with. I am a 29 year old college student :)

[@maggiebottoms6526]

@@iimmanniihope you do amazing in your college classes!! You are amazing and an inspiration!

[@juliee593]

Many people get their licence later in life, or not at all, it's pretty normal and totally fine :)

[@staciii]

@@iimmannii I just went back to school to study UX design after getting an associate in something I didn't want to do anymore. I'm 26 and wont graduate until 28-29 and I'm perfectly fine with that

[@eminempreg]

Tbh dude considering all the other options we have than driving ourselves (public transport..sometimes, uber/lyft/all that, or friends and family) like I can see why people may put off getting a license. I didn't get mine till 20..although due to anxiety cuz I qas cursed to drive in one of the states with the worst drivers lol

[@megnog1624]

Absolutely love seeing two emotionally articulate men not afraid to share their feelings in front of others.

[@stinkypete7688]

jarvis’s patience with jordan tearing up made me so happy. i’m happy that other people can have the comfort i’m stripped of. love you two

[@gargles5270]

i hope one day you have a space to be open with people who care about you :) 💖💖💖(hope i didnt misread your comment lol)

[@dominiquedoeslife]

@@gargles5270Me too ❤

[@Naafidy]

Hey Jordan, this is my second viewing of the podcast and I don't know what is going on with your life and more specifically your mom. However I lost my dad to cancer in October, it was rough and it still is. I miss him every day because he was the one I went to about everything and now he's gone. The best thing I did was be open with my emotions and lean on the ones who matter. I don't want to get parasocial but I hope you have safe people and a safe space to break down when you need it.

[@jessdewhurst4996]

Deeply feeling for you with this comment. I lost my dad to cancer in September and I miss him everyday too. Having love and support helps but the pain and numb still consume me regularly. Thinking of you and sending support stranger. 💗 I am sorry for your loss, and mine. Life isn’t fair sometimes.

[@vlogily8043]

I think you meant Jarvis*, clearly 😅

[@vlogily8043]

Also RIP to your loved one and much rest and peace to you as much as possible

[@jaqsre]

@@vlogily8043 idk if you’re making a joke on the fact that ppl mistake them for each other, but this isn’t the right comment to do that on. no offense

[@hell0nicci]

Hi I’m so sorry about your dad!!! I’m happy you got to experience some vulnerable moments with him though emotionally, those are the things some ppl never experience in their lifetime so I’m happy to hear you have those memories to cherish and you understood how much love was shared between you guys! As a long time sad boyz podcast girly I will summarize by saying his mum has memory issues I don’t want to speak for him on her diagnosis 100% because I can’t remember and it’s not my place but I know both Jordan and Jarvis have mentioned they don’t read comments because it can get them in an negative headspace so I figured I’d throw that piece of info in there! He goes more in depth about it a couple of episodes, I strongly suggest watching them all whenever you’re sad because even out of the context of time and relevancy of some of the topics it’s still wildly entertaining. Welcome to the community btw!!! 💛💛 everyone in my experience in the comment section has always been very nice and more often than not very vulnerable so thank you for sharing the bit about your dad and again I’m so sorry but sending love!

[@kianaolive]

Jarvis talking about how eating in his car makes him feel is me but with eating while sitting on the floor 😭 Like I have chairs and tables that I could eat on but there’s just something about sitting criss-cross applesauce on the ground in front of my tv 😂.

[@itsPetal]

Something about this camera angle initially had me thinking they were sitting criss cross on the floor and I thought that was really sweet lol

[@shesthebethest]

Literally me too 😂

[@oneofthemqueers69]

This sounds super cozy tho 👉👈🏳️‍⚧️

[@sadie1606]

Same

[@rey1185]

It simply makes the food taste better

[@AmyAberrant]

The mudblood thing literally is a biracial slur, it’s saying the person has some muggle blood instead of pure wizard blood, so they have two different races instead of one.

[@bedsidebetty]

I appreciated the braces phases of Jarvis and Jordan. It was refreshing to see two people grow comfortable in their own skin and no longer care that their braces were on display in their videos. In the two years that I had braces, there are only three existing pictures of my braces are showing. I wish I hadn't hidden them so much.

[@JordanAdika]

goated thumbnail 🎉

[@mahalapittman8794]

jordan’s joke that jarvis sits in his garage after being out because he can’t figure out how to get out of the car was too funny not to be recognized lol

[@gazblackheart4596]

...I am glad you are doing well Jordan, even though you didnt go into detail about it, I have been evicted and moving is stressful and life can suck so I totally sympathize with your plight. I also am neurodivergent and cant deal with sudden changes well so I have been there. I live very paycheck to paycheck on the edge of poverty so I really felt it when you were talking about your struggle.

[@snavisTM]

Self diagnosed I'm gunna assume 😆 also being evicted and having to move would be stressful for anyone. You know what you are, he knows what he is and these made up ailments aren't fooling anyone.

[@gazblackheart4596]

@@snavisTM You are obviously very ignorant on the subject otherwise you wouldnt make such a stupid comment. I have been diagnosed since childhood and on medication. You have no idea what its like to be for example a person with ocd who is extremely rigid and resistant to any change in their life, having it upended. Its already hard enough just to live my life on any given day and fit into society by trying to hide it from others. Yes its stressful for everyone but its another level for people struggling with mental health. Its not made up and you are an asshole for making light of the subject. Mental health is science and documented very well for many years.

[@ediblerocks7380]

@@snavisTM me when i’m a troll:

[@mintymints8730]

@snavis what was your goal in replying like this? you're bringing negativity to a positive post, towards a topic that you won't change anyone's mind on wasting your time

[@chillarypuff]

@@snavisTM you seem deeply unhappy. So much so that I’m getting secondhand embarrassment from this “”edgy”” comment

[@capobucciarati8324]

Sending love to Jordan, not sure how exactly his situation affected him but he's in a transitional period and those famously suck balls. I have the same mentals as him and it can be more difficult to get through when your brain is working against you. Weirdly enough stability can be scary. Sending good wishes and success to both of you always!!

[@shay-la-vie]

I literally JUST finished relistening to Shaun's Harry Potter video and to have them bring it up is so wild. How did this happen. This is my first time tuning in to this podcast for a full episode and this happens

[@ene66]

I haven’t watched Shaun’s but if you’re also a hp fan and a jkr hater I can really recommend A Brief Look at HP (it’s 10hrs long, but there are chapters) :)

[@thefollowingisatest4579]

It been pretty nuts seeing the snapshots of your struggles over the last few years Jordan. It's nice to hear that a lot of your work is paying off and you've got more support. I know the future is gonna have more struggle, but here is hoping the days are more good than bad for here on.

[@n3ckpill0w]

as a person who takes normal pills, it feels comforting to hear other people talking so casually about it because sometimes i feel like im failing at being a person bc i need meds

[@vespervictrola]

As a pharmacist, I'll let you know that the proportion of people who are on meds for depression/anxiety/mood/mental heath is astonishing. Like wayyy more than you would ever think. People may not be willing to talk about it, but it doesn't mean that there aren't many of us struggling through similar things ♥

[@gargles5270]

normal pill takers 💪 can they stop having shortages i need to progress my main story quests

[@DonnieLouis]

The milticam setup and soft lighting looks nice like a Lysol commercial. Keep it up guys, love ya.

[@rayhem]

i can agree with jarvis that people cant be critiqued for being apolitical, but in this situation i think the main thing for me isnt the fact that mr beast didnt publically criticize american healthcare, its that he used the people who that system is fucking over for content. and theres the argument that its because he's a good person or whatever but if that were the case he wouldnt need to post it and get thousands of comments praising him about being a good person. if i was a person who was blind and had been for most of or my whole life, and i was filmed and posted for millions of people at an intimate moment, looking back with vision i think that would feel violating and exploitative. i dont know, public acts of charity will always rub me wrong. its an unspoken contract that you submit to being public entertainment in order to have a basic human right like housing or healthcare or whatever it may be. it feels wrong.

[@saritavenkatapathynaidu9533]

Yeah and that’s a form of objectification - it’s called inspiration porn (problematic term but the widely used term for objectification of disabled people as sources of inspiration only)

[@rachelzeke]

As a person who just got their license at 25, I also find so much joy in eating in my car watching KZbin. There’s a sense of freedom and calm that you’re enjoying me time isolated.

[@unseenmolee]

ok,, this is just my opinion ofc but i dont think anything can be apolitical. the act of trying to be apolitical is political lol. like you cant pretend we dont all live in a world where our actions and words have consequences. it just bothers me that some ppl cling to being apolitical,, its cowardly imo. it shows how little those ppl really care abt politics in general if theyre willing to throw them to the side constantly yk again just my opinion but i feel v strongly abt this. im queer and trans and neurodivergent. just by existing im seen as inherently political, so i cant just ignore this shit. thats why im so passionate abt it, but i understand why some, esp rich, ppl have a hard time standing up for what they belive in since im sure they know its not popular

[@curs3s_]

THIS THIS AND THIS👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 as a queer black woman I think the whole apolitical stance is one of white/cishet privilege and really unfair for those that literally have no choice to “not pick a side”

[@kellys3514]

Very fair! This was the same argument I made in high school (ap history class during trump era). White cis girls derailed the class and tried to play apolitical “why can’t we all get along” oooooof did not go well with us 5 poc who basically said this ⬆️ I do believe hearing us say this helped her perspective in the end. So speak up when comfortable!

[@jarjarchared]

I think it might be less complicated than many people think. There is definitely a fatigue associated with caring/being engaged in politics and an amount of physical time that goes along with that. Many people are busy/wrapped up in their own world and I would venture to say that Mr. Beast being a full time creator fits that bill entirely. There are literally millions of things that a person can be worried about in a day. So much so that I we tend to shut it out as tending to each would just induce paralysis. Caring about basic human rights is the baseline that I set for myself but it's much more shallow for others. I don't see the Mr. Beast thing as a problem as far as it's doing some good for people and he's working within the shitty system that is our society and political system. I don't expect all people to be political but it's refreshing when it does happen. If that's not their regular style of content, (making political statements) I can and have seen how they would be accused of being performative like has happened here in my opinion. This forces them to shut down and think twice about delving anywhere near that arena again. Give-a-fucked can be lethal in high doses to those who haven't built up a tolerance.

[@WhiteWolf496]

I agree... Being "apolitical" is the same as saying that the status quo is fine.

[@unseenmolee]

​@@jarjarchared ok so first, it *is* complicated. politics are a mess and esp when you get to reading thru actual policies or trying to listen to politicians, yeah its a lot. i do agree its overwhelming and intimidating even, however thats not an excuse imo? politics isnt just what happens in the white house, its literally everything. this conversation, the car you do or dont drive, the money you earn at work, you cant divorce any of this from politics, its all one in the same. clinging to being apolitical tells me that that person likes things the way they are. they see no need to investigate why things happen as they do because those ppl simply dont care. and to an extent i can sympathize with not wanting to think abt how bad the world really is, but i dont think its helping anyone/anything but this system. because the less ppl know how to talk abt it the less ppl care at all to even try to think abt it, the more power the systems in place have over us. ill say it again; im queer and trans. i am immediately made political by virtue of being in the LGBTQ+ community. thats not something i asked for or wanted. if i could id want to just be able to live without having my identity up for debate, but i dont have that privilege. and until EVERYONE, not just queer ppl, but white cis het ppl, can stand up for minorities and *politics*, nothing will change. im passionate abt politics because its literally my life on the line

[@frankensteinlives]

Lack of imagination is such a good term for that mental roadblock that people seem to get around imagining a better way to live.

[@CJhasgoneidle]

Man, parasocial relationships are so weird. Obviously I don't actually know Jordan, and he will never even see this comment or know my name or face, but at the same time I had this moment of emotional connection when he was talking about the struggle of not feeling securely set in what he has, and having experienced his worst nightmares firsthand. Though in a completely separate way, I've 100% experienced that sense of fear and insecurity and loss, and only recently am at a place where I feel solid again. He owes us nothing, so I'm incredibly grateful to see him open up about something so vulnerable, that I have felt so alone about for the past 3 years.

[@shaeccspeare]

Toooooootally get Jordan's emotions here. So glad you felt able to share because more people support you and want you to win than you know. And, Jarvi (because that's what I call you in my head, little brother), love the way you held space for Jordan here.

[@amysaysbye]

and that thumbnail is still insane lmao holy shit

[@wormie77]

sitting in your car with a little snack and youtube video is very calming it’s a safe little closet for you wherever you go

[@luna-p]

I don't mean to complain, and I don't know anything about recording and sound mixing, but I can hear *every* mouth sound. It's very... moist. I don't know if it's just worse cuz headphones. Just a note.

[@julierosemodelproductions]

Ever since moving to a big city (from a town to Ottawa), I have noticed I enjoy eating in my car, I feel the exact same Jarvis and Jordan, I legit shed a couple tears there with you,, just had something unexpected happen and had to take the day off to stop shaking/freaking out... you both calm me down on this podcast and for that and everything else you guys do, thank you, sincerely 💜

[@reloreo2899]

As someone who worked in homecare and hospital care in the US, the lack of access to in home care for Americans is heartbreaking. Everyone who needs it should be able to get 24 hour in home assistance for free. So many people die in the hospital when in home hospice or palliative care would have been possible if money wasn't an issue. Doing 24 hour in home care is actually more cost effective from a public health standpoint as well. It costs a lot more money to put someone in a hospital bed than it does to provide in home 25 hour care. The US just doesn't have the infrastructure and foresight to make in home care more accessible. Most in home care is private pay when it is 24 hour. Either that or someone has an incredibly good health insurance plan. From an ethical perspective, allowing someone to die in their home instead of the hospital is so much better for the patient and the family. Being in the hospital is a dehumanizing experience no matter how well staffed and good your care staff is.

[@saritavenkatapathynaidu9533]

As another homecare, day program, and also disabled person myself - I co-sign and heartily agree with all of this.

[@jamieevans3458]

Hearing Jordan speak his mind and open up and be honest and open about his feelings was such an inspiring experience. ❤

[@sebastiankalstrom237]

funny clickbait title but the content still held up and and the points you guys made seemed really valid. Also really valuable hearing about how you guys are able to manage stress and anxieties of life.

[@waywardscythe3358]

I like the idea of the private safety of eating in my car, but the anxiety of worrying about looking like some weirdo usually wins.

[@shamedgeeky]

I grew up in a cult so I wasn’t allowed to read Harry Potter. I read the first book about 3 years ago and I was so upset about the Dudley thing. Like, Hagrid never took the tail off. So Dudley has to have surgery to remove it. That’s a general anesthesia surgery. I had a bunch of surgeries and stuff when I was 12 so I was like damn that’s a shitty thing to do to a kid

[@Gromow2012]

i only just clicked play SO EXCITED SINCE I FINALLY SUBSCRIBED AND BEEN BINGING SAD BOYZ FOR TWO WEEKS and i just wanna say YOU TWO LOOK SO PRETTY. A SIGHT FOR SORE EYES.

[@kkmomo__]

i’m a little drunk writing this, so i’m sorry if this is too much. it was such a small snippet, but hearing jordan say that he takes care of his mom really like. made me teary. i only just started listening to the podcast a little while ago, but i’ve been watching jarvis for a few years; so, i’m not sure if he’s mentioned his mom before or not :( i could totally be reading too much into this bc i’m drunk. i’m the primary caretaker for my mom, and i have been since i was 16. dropped out of high school, and i’ve only had medicaid-supported therapy to assist me. she’s dying, as a result of her COPD, and has been disabled with her neuropathy (which could paralyze her lungs at any moment and already numbs her touch from the forearm down and thigh down, making it incredibly hard for her to function and puts her in SO much pain) for so very long due to a combination of her diabetes and alcoholism. i just barely turned 21, and i feel so isolated from those in my age range. i don’t know anybody else that lives at home caring for someone, nor anybody that’s had to make peace with the fact that both their best friend and biggest abuser will die soon. i’m not mad at my mom for this, of course not, but it feels so very lonely. idk. just hearing that he cares for his mom - to any extent,,, knowing that somebody my age takes care of their mom makes me feel so much less lonely. god, even just knowing somebody my age has a mother in a unique situation makes me want to sob. i’ve been experiencing relentless and horrible mental illness since i was 9, and have been poor since before then. idk. just hearing this makes me want to cry. thanks guys. just a lil drunken rant ! sorry if i’ve read too much into this, i’m sorta goin thru it lol. i hope this reaches jordan though, so he knows just how much comfort this small bit of information has brought me.

[@grace-4072]

im sorry to hear you’re going through this my friend. ive got no advice to give but you can do this and seriously props to you. it sounds like it sucks ass and it shouldn’t be your responsibility but,, im proud of u internet stranger and i hope that things look up for you soon .

[@livor4]

abt sir beast: i think its def different with vision stuff but i am thinking back on a video i saw from a deaf creator talking about receiving hearing aids for the first time, and how painful it was to hear the world. that they went to a quiet room on their own to do it and spent the first ten minutes in agony. and they spoke about how this is why theyre so uncomfortable seeing parents film their HOH babies getting hearing aids: because the baby is quite possibly in pain, but youll never know that from watching it, and everyone is just cheering regardless. i sort of wonder if part of the reason why this could be uncomfortable is that. regaining your vision is probably a very emotional experience and might not be all positive, so what would happen if someone opened their eyes and it hurt? would they say that? would mr beast cut it out? this is coming from someone who is very likely losing my vision, just to a diff disorder. (most likely keratoconus but they cant be sure because it only started rapidly worsening recently and i had to get a new doctor after moving.) ofc i want to see as well as i used to. im exhausted that i buy new glasses and within weeks i have to turn font sizes up on everything. reading and looking at light is physically painful to me, but i can hardly see in the dark. it would be amazing to have this fixed. but without surgery (which is likely not an option for me) the only option to correct my vision once it exceeds what glasses can fix is a pair of incredibly expensive contact lenses that are the size of my thumb and made of rigid plastic. most people ive seen who wear them say theyre painful and hard to keep in. some people even choose not to wear them, or go to specialists to have a second, softer lens created (EVEN MORE money) to wear underneath so they can avoid the pain. so like... if my vision gets that bad, as it likely will, am i going to do whatever it takes to see? yes! but is it an easy answer with no turmoil to know ill have to deal with that pain? no!! it sucks!! so i think part of the issue is just that initial response. i dont think cataract surgery would be as complicated to deal with emotionally as this, but it doesnt really say what kind of blindness on the video cover. you also have to remember everybody in that video wanted the surgery, bc i do legitimately know of low vision people who do not take issue with their impairment and see it as a part of their identity, and would not want to be "cured." theres just nuance methinks

[@sadie1606]

Temporary homes are honestly awful, ending up homeless is so heartbreaking. You lose yourself, because you get into survival brain, and survival brain doesn't think logically or optimistically, only 'what do I need to do to make it to tomorrow.' I get that fear, I'm personally still in a temporary housing, playing every two weeks. I know I can do it, I can keep this job and succeed but I still panic literally every pay day when I have to pay again.

[@betaniamulugeta9055]

the camera quality is so crisp, i did a double take to see if jordan and jarvis were real

[@hawkeyegough8586]

Jarvis you’re so valid for car eating. I fucking LOVE, taking my break at work, and SLAMMING my food to a youtube vid in the car. There’s a solace to it. Feels uniquely human.

[@elirae9419]

what i don't understand is why/how people manage to not think about the world at large until they're fully grown adults who have been contributing to society for years, and what, they just don't think about it? am i just autistic? what is going on? because in my view, Mr. beast is a fully grown man who should already understand the socio political/economic conditions that got people to the place of needing his help, and the ramifications of what he's doing as well as the message these things send. i think he is fully responsible for what he's doing and i dont think we should be affording him so much grace about it. i'm also pissed that he followed up that tweet with some self aggrandizing shit about how generous he is and about how twitter just "thinks he's bad". i'm really tired of being told to give grown ass people so much room to figure this out, particularly the ones who are prominent/important

[@mahmeme]

No, I'm definitely with you, there's things that people should be understanding of for young people in their 20s, but as someone who is only one year younger than Mr.Beast I am very aware of things going sociopolitically, and with the access to knowledge at our fingertips, he shouldn't really have an excuse to not know this. I won't fault him necessarily for not thinking critically about the system of charity in general because most people don't realize that a lot of the industry is looking out for their own longevity, but he should at least recognize that he shouldn't be needing to gift basic surgeries because of the abysmal healthcare in this country.

[@baby.yogurt]

yess this is what I was thinking. like I'm sure he's naive on some level, but that in no way lessens the seriousness of his actions. he can still be held accountable for the consequences of the content he chooses to create. he himself has said that he thinks about youtube 24/7, so every video he makes has intent and loads of planning behind it, and his main priority is always engagement and retention. regardless of what he may claim about "wanting to change the world". he is not oblivious, I really don't think anything can be excused here by saying "well he's young" like I feel like that's a different conversation. sure he prob has a lot to learn about how to think critically about the structure of our society and the conditions it creates (that allow him to grow his brand) and how to create systemic change (which he DOES have the power to do) but I feel like that's not enough of a reason to minimize the harm he perpetuates. he KNOWS that charity type videos are great for engagement, he has admitted that himself. like we can recognize that mr beast is a symptom of a larger problem and also criticize his specific actions at the same time

[@ritac9769]

For folks who like to think you are "aware of the world" etc., you are all having a hard time understanding that other people can possibly have different paths in life and rates of growth, and different views of understanding. You yourselves as are not fully realized people and guess what? You never will be because people are not static or monolithic. You can think that you would do things differently if you were in the position of Mr. Beast but in actuality you have no way of knowing. Adolescence brain development ends in an age range. There isn't a day you wake up and are fully grown, and psychology and emotional development certainly diverges much more than physiological development. Some people never grow up and are never more than a little aware, some people are too aware from an early age. People need to be accountable for their actions at any age, but there's no such thing as "grown ass people". I don't know anything about Mr. Beast but the fact that he is open to hearing new thoughts and opinions already makes him more mature than many people older than him in the public and private sphere. I think the main issue is that when you hit your 20s and think you know it all so you stop growing and learning. Never think you know everything because you'll always be wrong.

[@elirae9419]

@@ritac9769 yeah no it's not about that

[@snatan7594]

Agreed. Im 23 and have put so much time and effort into learning about the experiences of others and re-training my brain to consider situations besides my own, that to hear people talk about someone older than me as effectively being "too young to understand" really ruffles my feathers. Look, i understand i am young and dont know everything and cant prepare for every possibility, but i DO know enough to not imply to an audience of millions that disabled people need to be "fixed" (with the help of ableds no less) to lead fulfilling lives. People really need to stop treating that guy like he's Jesus. Its getting old

[@kaitlyn_johnson]

sitting in your garage too long is sooooo real... also me when i drive to a store, like imagine thinking i'm going to immediately get out of my car... sitting in the parking lot for 5-10 minutes while getting in the right mental state to go out into the world is where it's at

[@bombattzorzz]

Just randomly had this podcast recommended and decided to give it a try. REALLY enjoyed it, subbed, and look forward to more episodes. Cheers

[@LordDomielOfElysium]

He tries to make rich philanthropy look like a good thing meanwhile the majority of the time it’s not at all, Mr Beast isn’t coming to save everyone- I don’t care that he does this, I just wish he didn’t try to act like he’s some Jesus figure, and he fills the news with these heartwarming stories and it distracts from real life issues- He acts like he’s the solution to everything, and he gets really defensive when you say otherwise. Edit: in her video Tiffany brings up some of your exact points aswell so she probably has better responses to what ur saying than me 😅

[@grnmjolnir]

It is even worse, it sanitizes his image as well as builds trust in a base for any number of possible grifts. He already was part of a Gary V crypto pump and dump. Any number of other scams could be on the way

[@saritavenkatapathynaidu9533]

The white/abled/privilege saviourism and total objectification of disability for the sake of abled people to be inspired is so gross, really. It’s not about his intent or him as a person, it’s about the affects it has on disabled people like me.

[@Jax_isaViewer]

The dream segment aged like MILK my god (I’m binging old episodes)

[@Q-Lady]

Oh Jordon. All the hugs!!!!!! You're just the sweetest ever.

[@Maya-Hayden]

today i learnt that me and jordan cry the exactsame way "intense ugly cry scronch" "uncontrollable tears finally let out" "make a joke or say something outrageous to take away the sadness in the moment"

[@rwolfheart6580]

I enjoy hearing you guys talk about influencers and weird TikToks and stuff but I think my favourite part of this podcast will always be hearing you guys just vibing and being honest about how you're feeling. It takes a lot of guts to put that on the internet and it's always refreshing to hear men doing that stuff without hangups. I enjoy our parasocial relationship.

[@secretaznjen]

Jordan, thank you so much for the recommendation on the Shaun Harry Potter video! WOW the number of things that just somehow went over my head as a little 12 year old nerd just trying to pretend to be a wizard.... omg

[@coco-pouf]

the emotional awareness you both carry is realllly something special. Best of luck navigating health stuff. Personal side note, I hate eating in my car because I feel vulnerable and like out-of-control messy, the opposite of Jarvis lmao

[@Steepled]

Jordan describing super tall white let's players as "long" tickled me to no end

[@ahoytherekaty]

God do I feel for Jordan so hard! My dad got dementia when I was very young and it’s a Hell of a disease. So sad he knows the frustration and sadness of it too.

[@jaye3830]

Love ya jordan. I lost my dad a few months ago (as a result of terrible healthcare in america actually) and it has sent me on a spiral and it's just rough dealing with tough transitional phases. Keep your head up my dude

[@PatrickBC]

Love you guys. Love you guys being so open about your mental problems, the struggle of it all, the constant displacement, the inner black hole/vacuum that seems to never go away, the apathy and at the same time the pure sadness of everything... Anyway. Thanks a lot for everything. Lots of love from a Brazillian Sad Boi™ ❤️

[@maryellenparmenter9303]

In addition to how it highlights our lack of accessible healthcare, I think Mr. Beast's content is fairly exploitative. I'm glad those people got the surgery they needed, but it just has a disturbing focus on spectacle.

[@maryellenparmenter9303]

Tiffany Ferg has done a couple good videos talking about this

[@maryellenparmenter9303]

What bothers me more is that any criticism of Mr. Beast is met with attacks and dogpiling from his fans. No creator is above critique

[@lisabal6431]

I’m sorry Jordan, you aren’t alone. A lot of us are struggling and it’s an uphill battle. Thank you for sharing, I feel less alone❤

[@DPadGamer]

I have Invisalign, so I have definitely felt that nice feeling looking at my teeth... and the absolute horror of doom scrolling through tooth based trauma posts. Gnarly stuff out there.

[@saritavenkatapathynaidu9533]

Looking forward to having the money for it because I HAD braces as a kid but I have a condition that loosens ligaments and me teeth move constantly.

[@yasminprosser4085]

The idea of sitting in a cafe or restaurant alone eating gives me major anxiety, but I feel peace sitting in my car to eat, so I feel you on that! Only time I feel uncomfortable is if lots of people are walking past looking at me

[@peachtea6514]

There is no other media or podcast that makes me feel so connected to other people. We are all trying our best and all dealing with things and all taking things at our own pace. Its comforting

[@mw2487]

I really appreciate Jarvis talking about his journey with weight loss and gain and self image. I'm in a very similar situation minus the boxing training. I've been getting into yoga again, and moving my body helps me appreciate my body

[@ewtyub8466]

Love the production, hello and welcome Jacob! Excited to see more of your work on the pod!

[@amysaysbye]

fuck yeah they upgraded to a couch, this is great

[@Unfortunately_Mickey]

I love when a new season of Sad Boyz hits and we get a ton of episodes at once lol Edit: PLEASE have Noel on

[@lowtech42]

love this era for us! 😂

[@taylifts]

1) the production on this episode is great 2) I'm here for sitting criss-cross applesauce on the couch lol

[@sobblesnoggin]

can't believe they brought up twolegs. brought me back to my warrior cats phase.

[@SlantedSpines]

I really like this set-up. But I also want to say that I'm glad the two of you are prioritizing your well-being and generally kind of feeling better. I also appreciate that y'all are open about some of y'alls ups and downs. Take care and as always, wishing you both the best 🧡

[@supermaryg]

I got braces at like 26/27... i had a front canine that was behind my row of teeth and a slew of other problems of "too many teeth not enough room." But ever since braces I've been grinding my teeth super bad. I've woken up my husband sleeping from the sheer sound of it. It only happened during/after braces and my orthodontist was just like 'No. That's not a thing." Just ignored it ??? Years later with a different dentist in a different city he comments about how grinded down ALL OF MY TEETH ARE. It could be unrelated, whatever, just be aware is all. I don't regret the braces I just wish I had an orthodontist who actually listened.

[@phosphenevision]

this set up feels really acoustic

[@numberonewonyfan]

the shaun video on harry potter slaps!!! one of my fave videos. jordan is so right, jkr uses some horrible fatphobic language mocking dudley for failing a diet

[@njluva301]

very inspiring how vulnerable you got Jordan, sincerely hope things get easier for you, so happy for you that youre surrounded by people that love and support you, never forget you have them 💜

[@redundantmartyr]

My boyfriend agrees with you on the topic of eating in the car! He said it's like having your own little restaurant. :')

[@akisutahatter3245]

it was so amazing to hear a shout out for shaun to an audience that might not know him, he's a favourite youtuber of mine and its awesome to see other creators being a fan of him!!

[@sayeedkizuk5822]

Just want to say I absolutely love that you switched to video and in person format. I can't quite get into the podcast audio only but I will for sure watch every video episode

[@susansaphire5983]

Jordan, I had to leave the audio version on Spotify to comment! Life sucks, but your potion resonated with me SO MUCH. Just had to come by and say be strong, and keep taking those head meds!

[@phonetich4212]

Jordan is perched on that couch like a mama bird

[@haileyin_vegas]

y'all sit like you’re having a sleepover and I love it 🫶🏼

[@mudsludge]

this is the first episode of your podcast i've watched and it didn't feel like an hour had passed :) yall are engaging keep it up!

[@sadwasdead5065]

molly being one of the "good" fat characters also plays into the cliche of the only positive fat female characters being motherly because a woman can only be appreciated if she's nurturing or "sexy" (skinny) apparently

[@stickibug]

I had to get my permanent retainer removed because it was impossible to floss behind, even with the specialized products they make for it. The dentist couldn't even clean behind it with *their* tools.

[@user-vm6mw5xw7o]

just got out of two midterms back to back this is the perfect lil reward 😭

[@jeamsis]

You guys are amazing 💕 thanks for being you. You are such respectable people and I hope others can learn from the great example you guys set. It’s very comforting to hear you guys speak so openly about your struggles and feelings

[@mahbluebird]

Is that Jordan Parentheses, the right wing conservative?

[@gabiinprogress]

we luv u jordan 💗 happy you're back

[@rmarie324]

Jarvis, I need you to know that I was listening to this episode for the first time today and as I was getting into my car to eat my lunch during my break (it really is so safe and good solitude) is when you started talking about eating in your car and I felt validated.

[@moonpixelle]

loved this ep of the podcast, and loved that shaun video rec btw:)

[@tarabirdsong1321]

jordan thank you so much for sharing

[@lia.lia.lia.]

loved this episode, so so proud of both of you, pls keep the amazing content coming, sad boyz 🙂

[@maxxie0777]

I genuinely love this podcast it makes me sad there's not as many episodes

[@saturnbyrning621]

What's up Sad Boyz fam? So excited to see another podcast episode so soon! Gonna practice some mindfulness and try not to anything while watching... we'll see how it goes 😅 Timestamps: 0:00 Welcome to Sad Boyz 0:51 One new camera per episode (also hi new producer Jacob!!! 💕) 1:51 Momentum and doubts 2:36 Welcome to Teeth Boyz 🦷 7:54 Dream is a good looking man 9:39 Jarvis killed a man! (jk jk but liking eating in your car is normal. sometimes it's really nice to just chill in there) 11:22 Jordan and Jarvis are actually the same person 😂 11:59 Dipper keeps saying weird slurs and trying to get them demonetized 12:33 Debating the evilness of 'mudblood' (also fuck jk rowling; TW FATPHOBIA in the hp books; shout out to @Shaun_vids) 16:53 Mr. Beast and addressing systemic healthcare issues within capitalism 35:07 How is Jordan doing? (I hope you feel secure soon. It seems like you have an amazing support system and I hope to find people like you guys one day to form my own. Wishing you the best Jordan 🥰) 41:14 How's Jarvis doing? (We're proud of you and cheering you on! 💪) 56:48 Jarvis is a Jake and Jordan is Logan (Paul brothers talk) 59:28 Fuck Keemstar 1:01:26 Eminem has a musket for home defense 1:04:17 Jarvis has to go to therapy; Send in cringy moments for Pen Palz Mindfulness goal achieved 😁

[@badger6882]

Thank you!

[@WhiteWolf496]

This was a very comforting video. Last few weeks have been pretty bad for the old mental health... nothing specifically setting it off but just a very strong not fun spiral of depression. Still not great but definitely doing better. But this was wonderful. Thank you so much.

[@n3ckpill0w]

i love the cabinets in the back! good interior design

[@DuringDark]

"they wouldn't call themselves tories, but the ideology's basically indistinguishable" isn't that just Labour now?

[@Lucifersfursona]

I love your big omelette pillow and kitchen nook. Sickass colors on that kitchen nook Jarvis

[@LordDomielOfElysium]

Omelette pillow ☠️

[@Lucifersfursona]

No offense you can’t be apolitical about human rights but cool Love y’all anyway Like I don’t think people who want to have thicc thoughts about this kind of thing should censor ourselves so we don’t spook people who’re still unable to imagine anything beyond the current systemic issues. I’m not gonna individually blame people for where they’re at in a state I spent like. Most of my life in. As long as they’re not actively harming other people. But like. I’m not gonna stop having this kind of debate in public spaces bc that’s part of what helped get me out. People literally won’t see shit if they don’t want to or they’re not ready. And that’s fine.

[@Lucifersfursona]

The only thing abt “I don’t understand why the systems are the way they are” is it’s kind of rich (hh) to say that as a billionaire, when you _are_ a beneficiary of the direct cause and effect between the reason people can’t afford healthcare. (No I can’t explain all of the fall of capitalism and postcapitalism America RIGHT NOW)

[@Lucifersfursona]

Keffals ain’t shit. On the trans libertarian grift scale she’s not quite a Blair white but she’s in that area. She’s like the Abby Shapiro of the Shapiros

[@Lucifersfursona]

“This technology is often used for evil, and many of us are using it to deepfake m&ms committing war crimes, and goku being supportive of our progress” My favorite is Eminem goes out to buy a used car but every lyric was used to generate AI art It’s just the way they separated the lines out and the pacing. Fucking kills me dude

[@morganpetts9608]

Thanks y'all for talking about getting adult braces. I need to get adult braces and jaw surgery and it's encouraging to hear about your experiences.

[@reckless_herb]

i love sitting in my car too. it really does feel like a safe space

[@flannelgay420]

59:28 I'm fascinated to know what happened to warrant this jump cut because I was not ready to jump from them talking about NFT art to Jordan just going "FUCK Keemstar"

[@ghosts_5590]

I love it when creators i follow mention eachothers existence

[@cadenza23]

9:38 Jarvis I just wanna say I used to do the exact same thing all the time in college. Get a meal of some sort at a drive through, park my car, balance my phone on the dash, and watch a YT video in solitary bliss. I also used to sit in my car and scroll through my phone sometimes for an hour or more whenever I pulled into my driveway. I’d even recline the seat. It’s not weird at all and u shouldn’t feel embarrassed. I have ADHD and autism tho so it might be a neurodivergent thing. The only reasons I stopped are 1) I have some unhealthy food relationships and that routine was incentivizing me to eat the kind of food you can get at drive thrus more frequently, 2) I don’t drive nearly as much as I used to, 3) delivery became way more common and affordable, and 4) I have my own place so the car is no longer my go-to location for solitude.

[@deaf-tomcat]

I started driving at like 15/16, but man my car is my safe space. being able to sit in my car and hang out before driving home has been a saving grace. I was so depressed and didn't feel comfortable at home, that I would drive for hours at random to feel something lol. oh, and I half miss working at Krogers bc I could walk out to my car for my 30-minute break. I work at a huge airport now, so it now takes like 30ish minutes to and from my car (security and employee bus) although, I feel super conscious eating in my car. as a fat person, it feels like I'm contributing to the stereotype or whatever. it's just a lil embarrassing to be seen shoving some chips or sandwich by strangers. I still do it though. I did it not even 50 minutes ago.