Trans Vlogmas | Autism, A&E & Winning Money!!!

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@uskidsknow19 10 ай бұрын

I just got back into your channel and idk how to really describe it, but your vibe and seeing you organize and clean and talk about your routines and habits are kind of inspiring to me. Im very bothered by clutter, and surrounded by it. I'm bad at keeping habits but would like to get better. It just really motivates me when I watch your videos, so thanks

@Ocean_Grove 9 ай бұрын

Aww thank you so much! I'm glad you're back here :) Happy to motivate!

@Blubberblase7 10 ай бұрын

as an autistic transguy i do relate so much to what you´re saying about masking. thanks for bringing that up and sharing it ! till this day i struggle with allowing myself to stim freely even at home. the way how my upbringing was telling me to be is so deeply marked in. that even tho i feel super uneasy about it, it´s hard to break these habits and just letting myself be without watshing and judging my everystep out of fear i do stuff wrong. also wanted to tell you how comforting your vlogs are. i wish you and olive happy holidays :)

@Ocean_Grove 10 ай бұрын

Isn’t it wild how much our upbringings can impact us? How things are so deeply ingrained! Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️

@nathanisanewman 10 ай бұрын

thank you for the vlogs ocean! been working in hospitality and these help me to unwind and have the calmness I need to be able to push through my self care at the end of the workday so appreciate all the content. Hope you have the best time this Christmas and have all the love and joy you deserve surrounding you this holiday season 🫶🏻

@Ocean_Grove 10 ай бұрын

Awww I’m glad you liked them ❤️ thank you for watching and coming along to some of the events!! Take care xx

@rainbowtropolis 10 ай бұрын

Hello Ocean and Olive! Thank you for the calm and warm vlogs this year, I love the warm fuzzies 🥰👍 It's always fun to try new foods for sure, when I try them, I make note of what can make them better (spices, sauces etc.) OUCH 🥺oil/grease burns are painful! You're not silly for being anxious. Sounds like your healthcare system is just as uncaring as ours is here in the states. They don't want to acknowledge people like us who have anxiety in a situation where you're already having other issues. I have horrible times trying to get where I'm going sometimes, it's not fun to say the least. *long distance support hug from someone who understands* I would have mixed the toasted marshmallow with the gingerbread flavored popcorn to make "smores" and then drizzled some chocolate on top 😁😏 18:35 "What's up?" "MEEW!" "You're so right!!" 😍 YAY! Happy vacation from work! 🎉 I'm glad to hear you have at least one friend to feel comfortable around, it's very difficult for people like us who are still trying to figure out who we are, and can be around others. I love how our cats "help" us make the bed lol I'll see you in the new year! I hope this one will be a good one!

@Ocean_Grove 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your message! You would have thought health care workers care about mental health too, right? That is such a good idea! Maybe next time I’ll mix the popcorn. You’re so right about it being hard to figure it all out!

@AndroidInHumansClothing 10 ай бұрын

i love the calm vibes of your videos and your voice. thank you for sharing these vlogs with us :) hope you have/had relaxing holidays ♥

@Ocean_Grove 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!

@jaidenlove2419 10 ай бұрын

"Cool story, bro!" 😂 Did Olive suddenly fall asleep here 18:30? I love when kitties do that! 😺 And, I LOVE how happy she was helping you make the bed!! ❤ I'm curious what your stimming looks like. Have you ever done it on video? I'm totally self diagnosed neuro-spicy too. 🙃 Happy Holidays, Ocean! I hope the rest of the year is amazing for you!! 🤗

@Ocean_Grove 10 ай бұрын

Hahaha no she was being silly! I don’t think I’ve done it on video but it’s like flappy feet! Maybe singing is a bit stimmy for me too!? Glad to find other neuro-spicies!!!! Happy holidays !

@aprilmouse8793 10 ай бұрын

I was really moved by this poignant video. I think most people mask at times, just some do it more than others. There’s also code switching which a lot of people employ to varying degrees. There are so many overlaps between ADHD and the autism spectrum that it’s really tricky to parse out. Even professionals disagree at times. I love that you are willing to self reflect in an effort to understand yourself rather than being in denial. On another note, Olive playing with the linens while you made the bed. 😍😍 I hope the burn is all better by now! Happy holidays and see you in the new year. 🎉

@Ocean_Grove 10 ай бұрын

Oh code switching is such a good point! Thank you so much - olive playing when I was making the bed made me smile so much. I wish I was a cat 😂 take care!