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[@elizabethlovesbooks8786]

What I’ve always appreciated about your channel is that you understand the nuances of femininity/lifestyle. You have an open-minded and inclusive view that makes it so easy to get behind you. Great video!

[@MrsMidwest]

Yes !! It’s tough sometimes because I have a singular experience from my own shoes, but I really find inspiration from so many different types of women. It offers a fuller version of femininity IMO!

[@RoxieJoy19]

I love how you always go back to "God made us Beautiful." My style is very Tom boy and edgy and pixie cut short but I still want to show that femininity that I'm a woman. I also love that you include that we can still be feminine with short hair. I've had many ppl tell me I shouldn't have short hair because I look like a "man" 🙄 so thank u. I just needed to hear that I'm still feminine with short hair

[@MrsMidwest]

YESSSSS. Thank you for writing this because people like you were heavy on my heart when I made this video. I think femininity content can be quite intimidating or alienating for some people if it focuses too much on a set of specific attributes, and that's just not how it works. We are women, therefore, we have innate femininity!

[@loganthompson5374]

I had a pixie cut back in 2015 and I still would curl it, style it, wear my earrings and wear feminine (just not super girly because that’s not my style) clothes. You can totally still look feminine because you are a woman! And short hair is different, it’s unique. So have fun with it!

[@NathComH]

Once I decided to go short after about 20 years of long hair, and I've never felt more feminine in my life.

[@raraavis7782]

I think, a lot is just in the overall picture. Short hair can be cute/sexy/stylish, if the overall appearance is that of a woman, who visibly puts some effort into her looks. But it can be the factor, that drags you down towards becoming 'invisble' as a woman, if it's not balanced by other things. Whereas long hair is almost always registered in a positive way, unless it's in really bad shape or something. And I'm speaking from personal experience, btw. I had my first pixie way back in the 90s, as a teen. Then went long and longer and really short again and have currently settled on a layered bob. I worn basically every length and style imaginable over the last 20 years and it's undeniable, that hair length changes the way, others perceive you. Especially men. It sucks, but it's true. So if that's your preferred style and you want to stick with it, you will probably have to make a little more effort elsewhere. But it certainly doesn't doom you, to look unfeminine! Think about celebrities like Audrey Hepburn, for example. She was a fashion icon and very feminine and cute - despite the fact, that she was petite, with a fairly straight figure and short hair in several of her most popular movies.

[@Rosegold1793]

Your videos have really helped me to be brave enough to be more feminine and have that energy in my day to day life. For so long now I've been afraid of coming out of masculinity for fear of survival but I've realized that I can be successful in life AND be my most feminine self at the same time. I don't have to sacrifice what makes me special as a woman in order to be joyful and successful in life!

[@MrsMidwest]

Yes absolutely!! Cheers to feminine intellectual women who forge our own paths!

[@Chryslerdealership]

I would love a video on how to make your space (room/house) more feminine and relaxing! I’ve been on a hunt for feminine decor and furniture and it’s so hard as someone who has a very unique taste and is also bad at decorating

[@kimalonzo3363]

My hair does what it wants, when it wants and I am forever at its mercy.

[@MrsMidwest]

Girl I get you!! If you watch the curl peeking out on the left side of my face throughout this video, it just gets worse and worse as I keep talking 😂😂

[@Jenny-j5f3v]

lol me too but im sure our hair looks good at least half the time! unruly hair is the thorn in my side

[@robyn_marie]

I can relate! Cowlicks, random different textures... 😬

[@zeenkosis]

😂😂❤

[@saisonusgeekus6719]

same, thank you for the relatable comment ^^

[@hidansektas]

as i click on this i remembered how you said pretty long time ago how our natural hair often looks the best with our features. soon after i went back to my natural color. and i absolutely agree with the idea

[@MrsMidwest]

That’s amazing!!! I went on a similar journey and I found it quite healing 😊

[@KatG5286]

I wish having gray hair at 32 wasn’t so taboo because I feel like my natural hair lends to making me look aged… and there is no hair color I can buy that matches my natural color.

[@No12559]

I’m coming from a whole different religion here, I’m actually polytheistic but femininity for women in my religion is SO important and I’m so thankful that you’re helping me on my journey. I never really had a feminine figure in my life and even though I don’t know you personally I’m considering you that figure because I need it right now. Ty.

[@MrsMidwest]

Happy to help my dear!! I’m glad you’re discovering your femininity on your own time in your own way. ❤

[@EvieAswiti]

This was so helpful. I switch between my afro and extensions. I found that the more roundness or curve shapes in your hair it just adds softness overall.

[@MrsMidwest]

Yes! Do whatever you’re feeling and don’t stress!!

[@avgiam]

Well I think Kibbe's body types is a great way to find out clothes, make up and hairstyles that are the most flattering on you! A lot of this content is on youtube and pinterest,and I encourage every girl and women to give this a try!

[@noddytee3749]

I second this. Finding my Kibbe body type and colour analysis has been incredible

[@hmatson3127]

Yes! Kibbe and Season Color Analysis has been a game changer for me!

[@estherhinds6314]

Yes, this has helped so much! But now I'm in constant debate with myself because I'm a 20 year old flamboyant gamine and I can't decide WHAT to do with my hair. I'm a redhead with hip length hair and swoopy side bangs (think Ariel lol) and I can't decide if I want to keep the length or chop it into a super cute vintage Audrey Hepburn style pixie. I'm battling the two extremes, and while I know a pixie cut will look great on me, I haven't ever seen any redheads with that look and I just can't decide!!

[@raraavis7782]

​@@estherhinds6314 Piece of advice: If you do do the 'big chop', use the opportunity, to try different hairstyles on the way. Go shorter bit by bit. Get bangs. Because you will never again have the opportunity, to just try different lengths and styles without lengthy grow out phases in between. Take pictures, you can use as reference later. I so wish, I had done that myself! Because you will most likely get bored with your pixie at some point and it's really helpful, to know what to aim for afterwards. Which you can't really, if all you ever knew was really long and really short hair!

[@lilyrutherford2700]

The biggest game changer for me has been over night heatless robe curls ❤

[@kiara4345]

Hey, you probably already know this channel, but the name is Aly Art and she is wonderful. She speaks about how to work with your features, body type, skin undertone and chosen style to look your best. I just love how she embraces femininity and the different ways it can exist, always preserving that essence.. It's just this video reminded me a little bit of that; the working with what you have been given and instead of forcing a look on yourself, just figuring out what works best for you and brings out that beauty in you. Thanks for the video, I found it very helpful.

[@hmatson3127]

Yes! Aly Art is AMAZING!

[@kiara4345]

@Sarah Hayes Oh, I did not know her. Thanksss for saying it.

[@vanessamvarela]

Having soft, touchable hair with minimal products is by far the most feminine and attractive. Having long hair will typically go hand in hand with this if you work with your natural texture, but like you said it can overwhelm petite women.

[@AbbyMcGuire23]

Absolutely love this video! 💕 I think one of the most important qualities of feminine hair is HEALTH! I think healthy hair looks the most feminine because it showcases the feminine quality of being able to care well for something, the ability to make something thrive. If someone has super stylized long curly hair with cute little hair clips, but their hair is scraggly, broken, damaged by bleach, an unnatural or unflattering color, etc, it just does not give that same classically feminine appearance that healthy hair would give with even no stylization or accessories. 🥰 I used to have long platinum blonde hair that was so damaged and thinned out, and looking back it was the MOST un-feminine looking my hair had ever looked! Once I went back to my natural darker golden blonde color, my hair has never been thicker, shinier, and healthier. 🙏🏻 It is now growing so long and STRONG!

[@poisedwithpurposeco]

Have a blessed Wednesday everyone! ❤

[@ca5924]

A blessed day to you as well

[@rachaelhunter]

Omg I love that you included a pic of Blair Waldorf. She has long been my feminine style icon 🤣❤️

[@MrsMidwest]

Yes !!! She makes me wish I had brown hair and brown eyes 😢😂

[@rachaelhunter]

I know right? The struggle 🤣

[@Kde88]

You look so good with bangs

[@brookemckenzie1862]

I love the way you approach these topics

[@evelinabalinskaite8584]

Hi everyone! ❤❤ Hair is one of my favourite topics to talk about. Your hair is like princess hair, so beautiful!! ❤❤

[@MrsMidwest]

Yes!! It’s a really fun topic and complex as well!! ❤❤

[@Moniisza]

For the longest time I just wanted my hair to be as long as possible and as blond as possible 🙈 I realized that the length and color don’t really matter. I focus on the Health of my hair, a good hair cut and great everyday hair styling now ☺️ that just transformed everything for me, I’ve never felt prettier in my natural hair color and I finally know how to properly care for and style my hair 🥰 blowouts, updos, different curls 👸

[@wineberry6]

This was so ... Happy to watch? Not sure how to explain it but it put me in a good mood

[@nb1393]

To me healthy hair is the biggest feminine thing, no matter long of short, if you have damage hair it doesn't look clean and soft and fruitful. if you have damage hair just cut them off and grow them back. Like you said effort looks feminine. my mom is a hair stylist and she always told me, short and healthy is better than long and damaged.

[@MrsMidwest]

Your mom gave you amazing advice!!! I totally agree 😊

[@daniellarodriguezperez8079]

long and healthy hair is the goal for most women

[@chloesismey731]

Would love to learn more about products you use. Makeup, skincare, hair, body etc 🙂🙏

[@MrsMidwest]

I have a video coming soon that encompasses every single face and hair product I use!! I hope that works 😅

[@kaidawisteria]

16:30 I needed this! I keep saving pictures of women with waist-long hair even though I know for sure that it doesn't suit me (I start looking haggard after my hair grows past my shoulders 😅). I've been trying to be more conscious of this, and my collection of women with pretty pixie cuts and bobs (the 2 hairstyles that suit me best) has been growing ever so slowly. Haha!

[@MrsMidwest]

Yes absolutely! I look a little crazy when my hair is too long. I have a short torso, so it's a very fine balance. I need it long, but not TOO long lol!

[@Offthebeatenpath.]

Loved the thought and execution of this video!

[@MrsMidwest]

Thank you!! It’s complex and sensitive so I took a long time to gather my thoughts for it. I’m glad you appreciate that!

[@della9884]

I love how you empathize how as a woman we just naturally look or carry femininity in us and it is just a matter of enhancing it by hair, clothing etc. You inspired me to just be a little bit more gentle with my hair and more creative when styling, looking for what works for me and my natural features. What do you think about hair colors? Is only your natural hair color a good look or can you even enhance your beauty by having another hair color? For example Dita Von Teese is a natural blonde but with her dyed black hair she eludes absolute glamour and femininity in my eyes because it looks so natural on her or old Hollywood icons like Rita Hayworth, Marylin Monroe, Jayne Mansfield or form our time Shakira, Blair Waldorf/Leighton Meester...?

[@MrsMidwest]

I actually covered the topic of hair colors in my recent beauty tips video, but I think that hair color is different for each person! I challenge the concept that a lot of people have that lighter hair is always better. I think the best hair color is different for each person and yes, that sometimes means lightening or darkening !! For me, darker blonde was better, which I show in that video. Others, like Lily Collins for example, look better with darker hair too. I think Devon Aoki is a great example of someone with a non traditional hair color for their ethnicity that actually looks incredible!! So yes, long explanation short… I’m a fan of hair dye if it doesn’t harm hair health detrimentally and adds to your beauty!!!

[@margaridamdl]

I am petite but I love long hair! I just need to have layers to not give the impression that is "pushing me down" 😊

[@MrsMidwest]

I love this!! Great advice

[@dazzlemefine311]

Dearly Bethany channel shows a petite woman with long hair - she pulls it off really well! Made me rethink keeping my long hair with my short frame ❤

[@derkoenigkoenig]

I saw the topic and was interested, but felt I would turn the video off immediately - expecting it to not be diverse and all about long, wavy hair. The intro was soooo refreshing and inclusive! I was positively surprised. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@jessicam8346]

Thank you for this! I'd love your suggestions on how to look pulled together and feminine as a mom of active, froliciking, nature loving kiddos. I feel like I try to find that balance of not looking so sloppy but being okay with the fact that my clothes need to be active and okay to be stained/soiled as I don't put my child in a bubble but let him play as he wants to, and I'm there with him.

[@missautumn764]

Excited for this video! Will watch as soon as LO is put to bed. 🥰

[@MrsMidwest]

I hope bedtime goes smoothly! 😊

[@samaramcmanimon-myers7719]

Another lovely video-I appreciate how you cover multiple hair types and textures and how they can all be feminine! Also, for everyone trying to figure out the most flattering styles of clothing, hair, and makeup, the Kibbe body types videos are life changing!! 👍

[@heidigunter6766]

Thank you! I like your suggestion about styling. 4 years ago I had my hair cut above my ears, and I'm a long hair girl. I did this because I thiought I had too many split ends. I pin curled my hair and wore a circle pin barrette to get over this period. I like how you remarked how you can have long or short hair and still look feminine. I like your comment about face shape too, or just how a person feels more comfortable. I have a square jaw and wide face. Even though I have fine hair I want it long.

[@MrsMidwest]

Dont be afraid to utilize extensions as you wait for your hair to grow! It's such a journey to know what looks right on us and to get our hair healthy. Proud of you!

[@purplemaiden4283]

BIG WAVES for sure! The hair waver is so easy and quick for someone like me who has a long, kinda plain-looking face and finds it overwhelming to spend a lot of time and work on my appearance; it just makes you look a tiny bit more feminine and dressy. I wish I would’ve realized it a long time ago. I do it all the time so I should be using heat protection spray, but I usually don’t because my hair is thriving and doesn’t seem to look damaged 😅

[@soxwithflipflopsyaho]

What's the brand and where do you get it?!

[@purplemaiden4283]

@@soxwithflipflopsyaho I don’t know if my comment is getting through? I keep trying to reply but I don’t see it showing up… it’s called tigi bed head and I got it at Walmart

[@jgfffffffhjiufdddj]

the world needs to hear what you have to say!!!! thank God for this word and your precious self!!!

[@Princessm2025]

You really put effort into speaking on a somewhat sensitive topic so gracefully! Well done! ❤️

[@viviancardenas4565]

Thank you for taking the time to film videos for us ! I always look forward to watch them! And love the new background❤️❤️❤️

[@MrsMidwest]

Awh thank you!! This was where the sun was hitting that day in my house. I’m glad you appreciate it because I was uncertain if it was glam enough 😂

[@tanyadsouza1100]

Caitlin I'm so happy you uploaded. Looking forward to watching it😊

[@sam-pc7zi]

I did some changes about my hair recently and it completely changed the way I look I got a medical treatment from a doctor (not a beauty saloon) that made my hair softer and healthier and silky Which saved me so much time from using Heat almost Everyday! Also I dyed my hair from black hair to light brown which suit me more bc I have very fair skin I got curtain bangs I fixed my hair ends . I started learning how to style it And I'm thinking of getting another medical treatment to make it more thick. Hair truly make a huge difference and being comfortable in ur own hair whatever it looks like is so important .

[@MrsMidwest]

These all sound so lovely!!! I’m fascinated by the doctor element 😅

[@sam-pc7zi]

@@MrsMidwest same! I didn't know I can achieve this result without keratin and protein treatments!

[@Jacquelyn11]

I love the feminine topics❤️❤️ great video. I would love parenting style videos.. I have kids just about the same age as yours & would love to hear your parenting style. Handling tantrums, being overwhelmed etc. love your content ❤️

[@Uhoh78904]

I love that you included afros and textured hair in this! ❤

[@loveconnection1118]

I am a very feminine lady that had to cut my hair into a pixie cut 5 months ago due to health reasons (psoriasis). I was so upset. thankfully i am able to grow it out now. I am styling with headbands and clips during this messy stage lol. I really loved this video and your viewpoints. Its all about making the best of what we have and accentuating it. Wonderful video. PS earrings are a fantastic accessory to short hair too and can totally elevate your look.

[@rheannonbenton]

As a hairstylist, we’re always told when people bring us a picture of a color/style/length….cover the face in the picture. 8/10 people don’t actually want that particular style. They just like the face subconsciously 😂

[@mangisty1007]

Another well thought out video…you always articulate so well!

[@Bonjour_Lisa]

Hello Caitlin, Thank you for this high quality content, the thorough research is admirable! Length is a big deal, in general, when it comes to kinky hair so it is great to have a reminder that femininity is not about having long hair 🫶🏾✨

[@mrsc6917]

I feel feminine dying my (natural blonde) curly hair black. I did have a pixie cut while going through severe alopecia. I love braids and tendrils, and my hair is nearly ling enough for that! My husband likes plain styling, all natural. I've gotten into accessories recently.

[@McDermottFamily100]

I'm so excited to watch this video!! ❤

[@MrsMidwest]

Yay!! Thank you for the early comment. Always helps the algorithm!

[@jamie7002]

Loved the video as usual. But I just want to say, I think this community understands you are just trying to help and you aren’t judging anyone so I think you don’t need so many disclaimers! Plus, like you said, we all asked for your opinion so too bad for us if we don’t like it 😅! I understand the need for KZbinrs to put them in, but just know that we all know you still think we are in the feminine family even if we don’t have long hair etc etc! ❤❤

[@shahansindhi8141]

I'm impressed by your understanding of different artistic designs. 😍

[@charo8518]

Feeling inspired to start playing around with different hair styles ❤ thanks for another thoughtful video

[@samantha_budhu]

Great content Cait! Love how thorough and inclusive you were with this information. Growing up I wanted light hair but recently I am embracing my dark hair. Now I have to color the grays but I am keeping to my natural color. I also tend to grow my hair long and feel like cutting it short but I have learned my lesson. It takes longer to grow back as you get older. So I am embracing the length. If it gets too long then it looks too sleek and not a lot of volume, then it’s time for a cut. Also I love headbands. I have two that I usually wear if my hair is looking flat or a needing to be washed. One is a pearl headband and the other one is pink and sparkly. I tend to feel better when wearing them especially if I’m not feeling the best about how I am looking that day. But as you said, all types of hair is beautiful. I would have loved to have a short hairstyle and be able to pull it off but it would not work for me. Embrace what works for you individually and not what everyone else says to do. We are all unique with our own style and have different features to play up on. 💖

[@MrsMidwest]

I feel you on the desiring short hair 😂 I love all your ideas in this comment too! I want to get better at utilizing hair accessories. I think that’s the next frontier for me. And I totally missed adding gray hair as a concept into this video, but suffice it to say, I think it’s lovely and feminine ❤

[@mojojojo7172]

Hello Mrs Midwest.

[@MrsMidwest]

Thank you!! I follow a light spring color palette! I break it a lot because I like to wear black every once in awhile, but I find light spring really works. There are a lot of online websites that explain color seasons that can be really helpful!

[@fellowhuman7085]

I've been hoping for a hairstyle video, and here it is! ❤ Thanks Cait!

[@dashafilms]

thank you for this video! you are glowing!

[@MrsMidwest]

Thank you Dasha!! That is so sweet!!!

[@Eviepossible]

Loved your research based approach! You are so wise and careful with your content!

[@lpiapia8632]

Old school mrs Midwest femininity video 🥰 (you look amazing!!😍)

[@caterichards1841]

As a petit girl (5’1), I definitely look better with short hair, I’ve grown it long several times and always end up chopping it back off

[@lisapokuboateng7135]

23:05 And i would also like to add you can use a satin or silk BONNET which is also good for ALL hair types. ❤😊

[@numberone22459]

I loooove when you include pictures. THANK YOU

[@courtneythornton531]

Thank you for including pictures for your examples. I really enjoyed this video!

[@MP-ob9bw]

I secretly hope you don’t upgrade your entire home cuz it’s soooo cozy how it is 🤣

[@MrsMidwest]

Oh my I love this comment. Don’t worry. We’re so attached to it at this point, I don’t think we’ll be leaving until we’re too old to carry on 😂😂😂

[@MariniSol]

I agree! I love how cozy and nice her home looks! ❤️❤️

[@MP-ob9bw]

Lol I love you 🤣 just wanted to let you know you were a critical element in saving my life several years ago, I got very sick and mentally crucified and hated for my Catholic faith. You helped remind me how I used to be before the world got extra hateful to femininity and Christianity. Your personality is sooo similar to mine. I actually think you look similar to a blonde version of my mom and I. We’re Mexican American (but we’re genetically diverse Native Birth and South American, German Italian are the majority of what we are) I was dying due to a genetic disorder and you talking about beef liver saved my life in a literal sense or I wouldn’t be here typing this. Thank you and never lose faith in Jesus!!! You have seriously been the last of the Mohicans lol!! Thank God for you and the powerful Rosary!!!

[@MrsMidwest]

@@MP-ob9bw what an incredible story!! I’m so happy for your healing and growth my dear!! It’s such an encouragement to know that I’ve made a difference here on YT. I definitely wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for you all!! ❤❤❤

[@MP-ob9bw]

I cringe and laugh at all those hateful videos made about you 🤣 lol it’s just satan working overtime cuz he’s scared of women’s beauty’s role in salvation. I remember you admiring to certain insecurities but don’t feel insecure on what intrinsically true about you and what God says about you!

[@viktoriafedosova9641]

I love japan shampoos Its makes magic to my hair

[@MrsMidwest]

This is a fabulous recommendation!

[@jenofthenorth-j8t]

Great intro.... ''If you are a women you have inherent femininity, it's how you where created!" God made us beautiful, just wonderful!

[@mybeautylife3]

One hairstyle that I always admired but I just know isn't for me is long bohemian locs with little accessories like beads and shells, think Lisa Bonnet. Ladies who pull that off always look so feminine, ethereal, regal even but natural and effortless 😍

[@alexandram.1303]

Always appreciate the videos i like that you take the time to explain everything, also you’re absolutely gorgeous💜

[@eliannahankin2971]

I had short hair until I was 20. I though growing my hair was impossible but my nutrition and hair care was not on point. Eating diet with good protein and using good hair products allowed me to grow my hair over my chest. My hair is short at the moment.

[@planckismus]

Did you just eat meat, fish etc. or how did you get that protein? I know Caitlin also recommends it but I usually just eat carb heavy so I’m considering getting protein powder

[@eliannahankin2971]

@@planckismus I was eating a well balanced diet including dairy’s, meat, legumes, eggs, fruits, veggies, and took daily multivitamins. Also focusing on moisturizing my hair and not over washing.

[@planckismus]

@@eliannahankin2971 Thank you for letting me know!

[@deborahosbeck560]

Very helpful. I never know what to do with my hair and this has given me some ideas.

[@agoodlittlewitch]

I sacrificed my long hair for less maintenance when I had my baby. I miss it so much! It’s so much harder to make it look the way I want!

[@lr2ldn]

Thank you for using all races of women in your pictures. That may seem small but it really is great that you do that because I'm sure you have a diverse audience.

[@lovely0th]

I always thought volume is an element too

[@dayanaraviera3840]

I love love love Elizabeth Taylor when she had the Italian haircut, and so I went and got it myself. Not to mention she and I have a lot of similar features. I feel a lot more feminine with my hair cut this short.

[@jk4351]

I only saw the announcement for this vid a couple of hours ago, which was such a lovely surprise on a busy day! Love to be a part of early squad, vibes are very sisterly 🌸

[@MrsMidwest]

Yessss. The early squad are my babies ❤

[@brittneymichelle5835]

I love this video! Thanks for sharing :) Also it would be fun to see a feminine hairstyles tutorial!

[@thatexcalifornian6124]

While I do color my hair, golden blonde simply doesn’t work for my skintone. I’m very cool-neutral pale in my skintone and my eyebrows are naturally dark. I try to go for what works with me.

[@chimerenwaegbu]

Love the video Caitlin. I’m curious to know what you think about wearing hair extensions.

[@rayeannewhite2149]

Please do a video on stylish head coverings/how to wear head coverings stylishly.

[@missmisia222]

After my second baby, my hair fell out in clumps and then my baby had this need to grab onto my hair in the back and I had a baldish patch. I cut it short and the comments have been positive but some were very hurtful. So thank you for this video.

[@anr8507]

Maybe you should consider taking biotin? I do and it works so good for hair growth

[@bethanylaw6175]

I'm getting a haircut this weekend so this is timely advice! I really want to go for more softness because I have pin straight hair.

[@rutheli]

I’m desperate for hair advice as a round/wide faced girl! All my life I’ve always been just a little heavier (weight wise) than I wanted to be. 15-20 lbs, around there. As a 5’5 woman, I did not carry it well and I felt unfeminine. With having a very round, wide face, hairstyles were a challenge - I have thick, textured, wavy fine hair, so I’ve always just kept it long. However I have recently reached my goal weight and my face has slimmed but it is still, in structure, round and wide. I also have long limbs and I was once told “never cut your hair short.” I naturally prefer longer hair but I never really learned how to style it so it continues to be a poofy, frizzy mess. I’m soon scheduling a hair appointment and I’ve been considering taking my hair shorter (at least to chest) but now that I’m thinking about it, with what you mentioned regarding long limbs, and the fact that my face is wide/round, perhaps staying long and just getting a better cut would be a good choice?

[@MsLesset]

real info starts at 6:02

[@rac7773]

Long hair is not necessary, but it REALLY helps most women to look more feminine.

[@Elemiriel]

Love this topic, and great video! BUT I couldn't stop wondering where the bedding is from! I am trying to make our master bedroom more of a relaxing, happy place and have been searching for floral COLORFUL bedding!

[@Izzi-n5t]

Would love you to do a little video on feminine women over fifty, swiftly approaching that age after six kids , I’ve found d a lot of things I did in twenties now don’t work. Thank you for including god in your videos. All praise be to him. Thank you for your content

[@gretabarling1843]

Hi, love your tips! What shampoo and conditioner do you use?

[@MrsMidwest]

I use Herbal Essence Hello Hydration Conditioner and Suave Clarifying Shampoo! I have an upcoming video going through my entire beauty routine!

[@BiancaH1120]

Id love a video on how youve kept your hair in such good condition, or how you restored it after your babies. I had 4 pregnancies in 3 years and my hair is still destroyed 2 years after the last one 😭😭

[@janebalenger9337]

What a great video Caitlin on Feminine hair. I think you are so brave Caitlin and courageous. May Jesus Christ Bless You Richly! More videos and Vlogs please! So happy to be part of the Feminine Family. ❤

[@brittanyrachelle23]

Hi Caitlin! Great video! I have very fine thin hair and was wondering what kind of mousse do you use on your hair? Thanks for your video, it was so informative 😄

[@rachelroussel8047]

Highlight of my day 😂

[@MrsMidwest]

Your sweet comments are the highlight of MY day 😊

[@tiyasteffy3261]

So funny how you said when you were younger you envied super dark hair. My hair is naturally black, and I always wished I had blonde hair lol.

[@brookehaybel9693]

🌸🖤🫂✝️ I definitely needed this on my long hair journey❤ I going for the historic floor length, i’m at under bra length right now. I feel like to the outside eye it looks like a chin length cut compared with where i want it at.. lol even mid length will look short to me i know it!

[@wolfsmaid6815]

I can relate so much to the struggle of being tall and what that means in terms of hair. I´m 6ft tall and even though my hair is more than 70cm long (I think thats around 28inches) it doesn´t even cover my chest area yet. Even though it might sound obvious, it´s such a struggle to achieve waist length if you are tall - and this being one of the most flattering styles for tall ladies is a little bit of a cruel joke.^^

[@sampaguita2455]

Yes some women can definitely look feminine in short hair. Take Kibbe Style and Essence for example, gamine types looks feminine in short hair!

[@SamanthaPearson]

Good evening, & thank you for this video. Can I please ask what would you suggest for a transwoman with thinning hair on top? I had several follicle transplants about 18 months ago. It really has made a difference, but it'll never be as thick as when I was younger. I currently style my hair with an off-centre side parting & keep the shorter side secure with hair clips. While this looks nice being viewed from the front, it does tend to highlight my thinning hair when viewed from above. Do you think I should just brush it all back? I'm sorry to bother.

[@Mom_of_the_Chickies]

Hi Caitlin! Do you think we need to wear our hair in protective styles to keep it healthy? I always wear hair down but I know some say braids will help keep my hair from falling but I just find it so unflattering. And I notice you still have long healthy hair without putting it up

[@doha44466]

I love your videos thank you 😚

[@ingeborg9632]

Are you a soft dramatic in the kibbe system? I’m a soft natural, which has the same width in the face.. I feel you when you say you need to soften your hair to suit your face 😂

[@molierresignoga]

Thank you for this Sister

[@nv6398]

I loved this video! actually, all of them! You are such a great creator! Do you put spray on your hair after you curl it, or it just holds the curls until you wash it? I find it tricky, if I use hair spray, it gets tangly and full of knots, if I don't, it gets straight in a few hours, because my hair is super silky. does anyone have a recommendation for me? :) Thank you!!

[@MrsMidwest]

I have an upcoming video that goes into total detail about this!!! The short answer is that I do hair spray!

[@sweetmagnolias1698]

I’m growing my hair out again, but I’m not sure if I’m going to let it get super long again just because I’m five foot tall and I kind of think it takes me over😂 but I’m still torn and deciding!

[@MrsMidwest]

we have the opposite problems LOL!! Girl do you! If I was 5 ft I’d definitely have swishy short hair !!!

[@sweetmagnolias1698]

@@MrsMidwest I did LOVE my short hair. It felt so stylish. I think I might keep it at medium length with layers. Layers are super necessary with my curly hair or it just looks shapeless and flat!

[@ree3109]

Love the inclusivity in this video!

[@MrsMidwest]

It’s important !!!! Because femininity is women period, not just one type !!

[@saisha_rae]

Hair question! Is that your natural hair color ? If not, what do you do ? I want your color blonde (less ashy) but idk what to ask for !

[@MrsMidwest]

This IS my natural hair color! It looks different depending on how I color grade my videos, but I’d say it’s a natural medium blonde! I’d ask for that from your colorist!

[@CaponeCabin]

What I really hate is at 58 I keep get other women telling me " you know women our age should wear your hair short ". I look bad with short hair and I don't like it. My hair is below my shoulders but always styled

[@unabellavita6541]

Maybe they are trying to be helpful in a gentle way. As hair ages it can look haggard when it gets long.

[@chrystianaw8256]

Don't listen to them. Keep your hair at the length you want