Ms. Pat SPILLS HER TEA... | Tea Time w/ Raven-Symoné & Miranda

[@jefferlytoussaint853]

Wow. She’s so insightful. “If you cry about the cards you were dealt, you’ll never flip them over to see if you won”. That’s beautiful

[@vaderthekittenchannel1979]

That is so amazing! She’s dropping gems!

[@tguido4139]

Beautiful Ms. Pat❤❤❤❤❤

[@TyandOnGoing]

Very powerful and shows how she wants to be in control of her trauma and not the other way around

[@ZymeenAlphaOmegaC6]

that made me cry it was beautiful

[@MartinMartin-wy2wi]

That was the part that made me pause the video and say: thank you God for the good, bad and in-between. Thank you Raven & Miranda for this interview.

[@s.0.u.p896]

Big shout out to Raven, most people just let Miss Pat gloss over her trauma without explaining how she easily does that or why. Stopping her and having a discussion about it was great. First time watcher, but I’m definitely subscribing.

[@teacupolous]

It’s so trueeeeeee

[@itsjustjae85]

That’s so true. I can appreciate Raven for having her share that, because we never see the back story of how she copes with her trauma.

[@ambriaashley3383]

I do really appreciate the question. But I can’t get behind how Raven was seemingly shaming going no contact with abusive people in this generation though. Whether you go no contact (which going no contact & forgiveness is not mutually exclusive) or whether you forgive & keep contact. Either way, you are protecting yourself.

[@DCHRShow]

This made me subscribe too. Raven found her voice again.

[@leelee3231]

Absolutely!! I’ve heard her tell so many stories from her life & people just laugh with her I love that Raven pointed it out.

[@andreasmiff]

These episodes are always so short and leave me wanting more😭😭

[@Rosierx1]

SAMEEEEE 😩🥺

[@ChristyMK]

Toooo short😢

[@Dailyrecruitingmoment]

Yep

[@JackieDMcKeever]

My niece is gay. She came and visited me and said “ aunt Jackie I got something to tell you”. Then she paused. And I thinking something was wrong said “ child spit it out”. She said “I’m gay!” I said Chile I thought something was really wrong I already knew that. She lit up in excitement and said “ For real why you didn’t tell me I was scared you would get mad!” I responded chile that doesn’t change how I love you and feel about you. It’s your choice. I was waiting on you to get comfortable and say it. I was not going to push you into anything you were not ready for. Then I hugged her. So many LGBQT+ ( forgive me if the letters are wrong) have so many people judging them. Listen It’s our job to love people and help them love themselves and their lives. I enjoyed the episode. I love that Mrs. Pat is able to tell stories, state a point, and bring laughter at the same time. You win when you are able to forgive and release the pain.

[@KyleKreativity]

This is one of the best things I've heard a human being say, as people we tend to hold OURSELVES down and instead you encourage us and the people around to lift us up. You be blessed and have a wonderful day, because now I sure am.

[@JackieDMcKeever]

@@KyleKreativity you have a great day too

[@ayem8709]

BLESS YOU! i wish my family had been this open. thank you for just being there. that's all we ask for!

[@JackieDMcKeever]

@@ayem8709 sorry to hear that. Just know that it’s important that you be who you are and opinions change with time. I pray that things turn around for you and that you have the family you want and need even if not by blood.

[@GinaLibbra-bo9wh]

Youre a delight​@JackieDMcKeever

[@gianniclaud]

This video is a masterclass in forgiveness. I am going to replay this over and over until I finally get it.

[@vaderthekittenchannel1979]

💯 I’m healed just watching it! #AMAZING

[@goddessgraham563]

THIS‼️‼️ i read this comment after the 2nd watch… and the heaviness she talked about i feel it.. i feel myself wanting to cry and let go but the tears won’t come out.!

[@gianniclaud]

@@goddessgraham563it’ll come, hon. And when it does, just let it flow because that shit heals the soul in ways we may never be able to account for!

[@Snoopy_luv]

Yes it's therapeutic

[@Sababbby]

That's beautiful 🤩

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Raven you did a great job directing episode 6 in season 4 of the Ms Pat Show

[@jackyhouston]

Her mindset can cure depression! It’s the same mindset God chose me to have as well… and people look at me like I’m crazy when I share my traumas as I laugh… but I control my narrative! Love her for this!

[@justsaying8358]

This defently needs to be longer

[@finishproject1]

I feel this way about all of their interviews ✨

[@shonj6461]

I love seeing this comment on every Ms. Pat interview 🥰

[@ChristyMK]

Most definitely ❤

[@capitolr1630]

One of my favorite interviews. So natural and genuine.

[@janetofshegatherswellness5403]

As someone who was molested 1000% you gotta let it go. Dont mean it didn’t happen or it was right. It means IM FREE and what you did to me doesn’t define nor control me!

[@shontaraduncan1880]

Amen!

[@ethershakur4768]

Can't agree

[@ambriaashley3383]

Sending love to you ❤

[@jdd0815]

Preach! Fellow CSA victim and going to therapy and letting it go was absolutely freeing,

[@destinedforgreatness11]

I gotta tell my sister that 😢❤

[@wlev123]

I actually liked that she shared these stories including asking the abuser who fathered her first kids to apologize and the awful things he said. Cause it shows that though you may never get the acknowledgment or apology you should from someone that did awful things to you; you can still move forward, grow, and gain control of your story and life. This was a great episode, she talks about a lot of dark things and stories comedically-which may make people uncomfortable, but at the end of the day as she mentions: it gives people the opportunity to relate and also talk about these things when they otherwise may not have been able to.

[@Rissaj07]

Out of all the interviews I've seen Mrs pat on this is by far one of my favorites. She was herself and just seemed like she felt at home

[@alricasheppard2636]

She’s always herself

[@Snoopy_luv]

Mine too your right 💯

[@Prev8ster]

I can’t get enough of Ms pat I love how authentic she is and a great story teller

[@bryce5105]

Raven x Ms pat is an amazing crossover

[@louisianacookingwithkay]

Mrs. Pat told us it was white men that would continuously bring her on their show. So, white people probably knew her story before black folks were put on to her. She BEEN crossed over a long time ago.

[@aaliyahtrue]

I want raven to be a permanent on the ms.pats show !

[@daniellerodgers6493]

Wow she made me cry 🥹 she’s right! Forgiveness will only help you. We can’t keep playing victim if we want to move forward ❤

[@FocalPointElisa]

Forgiveness is for you, not the abuser. Using the term "playing victim" is very close to victim blaming. You can be a victim of abuse and a survivor of abuse. Just like you can express your angry and frustration for not properly being cared for, and still live a fulfilling life after harm. Point is, don't let the harm done to you keep you stuck in time. Ms. Pat sharing her story helps her do that. Hope others find ways to get their stories out.

[@daniellerodgers6493]

@@FocalPointElisa there’s one thing to have been a victim, but if you hold onto that and look at your life NOW through the eyes of the PAST…that is “playing victim” now. At least for me.

[@melloyello783]

E. Lynn Harris was a ground breaking author who we lost too soon. I have read all of his books and yes you cannot put them down. His memoir is unforgettable. I love Ms. Pat

[@Mochasprinkles91]

10:52 “When you cry about cards that was handed to you, you don’t ever get to flip them over to see if you’ve won.” 🗣️🗣️A WORD!!!! I love Ms. Pat! I feel like she’s definitely the rose that grew from concrete. ❤

[@WyBeezy-zm2dg]

This episode changed something in me ...thank u

[@carundianderson1672]

Wow.. this epispode was sad.. was funny.. was inspiring.. i went through a lot of emotions watching.. Ms Pat and Raven.. what a great Tea time🎉🎉🎉😊😊

[@taneshaladielegance465]

Now THAT was a interview and a word.❗️💐 I throughly enjoyed this episode and live Ms. PAT. It truly touched me and made me look into forgiving someone who truly hurt me. And I hope this episode touched you Raven, in a way that allows you to open up a little and share some of your trauma and things you've experienced. So it to, can help someone who looks up or to you in way. Great job ladies ❤🙌🏾✨️😌🫶🏾🌹

[@ballenonlocation]

She’s teaching them a valuable lesson about being real and truly letting go and not living in the Hurt… you can’t change the past, but you can move on and change your future and make life better for yourself and those who are coming behind you.

[@avicausey]

My two most favorite ppl Raven Symone and Ms. Pat :)

[@shalenski83]

This episode was not nearly long enough! Great job ladies!

[@shaturasmiley372]

What I love about the Ms. Pat show is the balance between heavy subjects and humor. The graveyard song, abortion, and "I hate her" episodes made me cry but then laugh at the same time. So, thank you for sharing Ms. Pat🧡💛💚❤️

[@dakotac180]

I've never clicked on this podcast faster. Ms. Pat is hilarious and so real, an actual treasure.

[@lenelove89]

This amount of self awareness, healing and forgiveness is astronomical! She wouldn’t have the life and the experiences she has had if she wasn’t able to tell her story in only the way she could! I absolutely love Mrs. Pat bc that’s her testimony!

[@FocalPointElisa]

Learning your family's story (Mother, grandmother; Father, grandfather...ect.), you'll understand in full the impact of generational trauma. Ms. Pat brings the light as she shares her story of generational trauma. I hope people are digesting the reality of her words with the "Haha".

[@joannaflores7724]

I confessed to my parents and my stepdad I was molested by family… my mother got deported soon after, I had to take care of my younger sibling untill they graduated highschool last year . It’s been a rough past 10 years. But I 1000% agree. You need to let it go. Or I wouldn’t be here

[@sunnyjohansen1958]

May life give you all the breaks and love you need going forward! What you did for your siblings while going through such horrific trauma took a great deal of resiliency, bravery, strength and love. Sending you some extra love and hugs! ✌️💛

[@tinaamariee832]

I see Ms. Pat being interviewed I click. Raven interviewing her was the icing on top! I know I’m gonna get a good laugh, some wisdom, & a good conversation🥰

[@slwalker7]

Wish this episode was longer. Ms Pat is so inspiring, insightful and funny all at the same time! I love that you didn’t gloss over serious topics.

[@MFN.Marcus]

We need a part 2! This was such a great moment! ❤

[@kimbronson3520]

I enjoyed Ms. Pat not being vulgar the whole time. She dropped some great gems in this interview.

[@justlikeyou5338]

I’m so happy you had Ms Pat on your show. I have so much respect for her and love her so much. Only Ms Pat can make me laugh and cry within minutes apart.

[@tovelow9268]

Wish this was like an hour long. This was sooo good! Loved the convo and jokes. Ms.Pat is so inspirational! 🎉 PLEASE COME BACK ON THE PODCAST MS.PAT!❤

[@martineonthescene]

I hesitated, not one bit, when I saw this video’s thumbnail. I’m literally one of the biggest Ms. Pat fans 😍

[@deejevans9892]

This was so insightful. I loved every minute. The unfiltered banter, addressing real life trauma, and making the best of it. It’s truly great to see

[@deejaylib]

How can you not love Ms. Pat? Keep shining Queen! We are all rooting for you ❤

[@ClumsyTrout]

These episodes are literally never enough. 😩😩 This was another great one.

[@C0RpSeZeR0-H4tt3Rr]

My ultimate fav episode it feels so good to breathe after hearing this woman talk. I don’t want anyone to think they can have power over me that’s all. 😢

[@FocalPointElisa]

Blessings to Ms. Pat. Hope she continues to bring the light forward.

[@diamondfolks6781]

Genuinely loved this interview and I mean all the interviews but Miranda 😂 she fits right in and I love it !!

[@kekeorinc2952]

Yesss she does she very seasoned I love it 🥰 and her

[@cspann7123]

Ms. Pat is quickly becoming one of my favorite people. I have watched all 4 seasons of her show and the last episode had me clutching my pearls. If no one knows what it means to watch a Dramedy, Ms. Pat show is a master class. I laugh and cry and learn and forgive. The way she carries herself and the stories help you heal.

[@karmasimone31]

I am just starting the video but I know for certain this is the interview I didn't know I needed desperately!!

[@Sashaa78]

This should’ve been longer! It’s a great episode! Love ms pat and raven

[@carmenlita12]

Definitely should have been a longer video 😂 this was such a good episode

[@hinotbyefelicia9424]

Damn this is so much healing rn! Thank you!

[@jojo43431]

I love this Ms.Pats authenticity 🫶🏾and Ravens direction of conversation was spot on ❤️❤️👏🏾

[@Femtastic1]

Extra special episode right here!! #healing #forgiveness #freedom

[@Rude4eyez]

Ms. Pat should be a honorary third host. She's amazing. A toast to you three for being so awesome. All the best 💜

[@PopCultureKing2009]

Is she a industry sellout

[@safishiamcclendon4318]

Love the interview!!!

[@angiesorganix]

Miss Pat is amazing and I’m so happy that she is being loved! What a strong courageous woman! 🖤

[@FULLOFSUNDAI]

😂😂😂😂yooooo when raven stopped her and said this isn’t funny it’s not because that was traumatic but lord I couldn’t stop laughing when the teacher told me tooooooo 😩

[@AminaLeeTV]

WOW! This show was amazing and Ms. Pat gave such an insightful perspective on forgiveness.

[@Cee.Pizzaro]

She’s the truth! I love anyone who can be transparent & lead by example! Love Ms.Patt 🧡

[@bigtongo5654]

Shout out to Ms. Pat for mentioning my favorite author, E. Lynn Harris. He was an incredible storyteller and writer. ❤

[@michaelhempfield5604]

This was a Hilarious & Great interview!😭😭👏🏾🔥💐💐💐

[@muniramccullar614]

this was an amazing interview/talk.....this needed to be longer.

[@lady_x]

I just purchased a new home and I’m at Home Depot every week!! Love them!

[@gabrielamuniz3298]

bruhhhhhhh!!!! what an interview!!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!!

[@TonioDC79]

Raven-Symoné & Miranda Hat’s off to you two, thank you for holding Ms. Pat within her trauma for those brief moments. Now I fully understand how she was able to release and move forward. I’ve watched many of Ms. Pat interviews she tells her stories but, there is always a section missing the “how to heal” part. You two have closed that gap for me. Ms. Pat, thank you for reassuring me that I am moving in the correct direction.

[@evelynlunsford6415]

Ms Pat is an absolute Gem she’s so right about forgiveness you have to release it I know it’s hard but you can’t live holding on to baggage it weighs you & your body down that’s why Ms Pat looks so beautiful she’s free ❤❤❤❤

[@DKB-bs2eh]

I cried so hard watching this. This was so beautiful and healing. This type of honesty and rawness will help many ❤

[@Boldblackbutterfly]

Thank you both for showing emotional respect, and asking great questions🙌🏾🥰💐Mrs.Pat keeping soaring!!

[@Disturbednum1fan]

Miranda's emotion shift question tie in is perfect XD

[@aeiragonbenjamin6515]

it’s like y’all…. reading my mind 😭

[@devinlaw4]

This this THIS. Wow this episode is iconic! Healing energy

[@roncave994]

This is the reason I love Ms. Pat is because she is so real and raw. She has no regrets. So forward and so truthful

[@L0VEisAmixtape]

I love raven so much. Listening to her feels like coming home. Raven thanks for living in your truth and for being yourself. Love you!

[@breal9028]

All Ms Pat interviews are gold!

[@MiszKaleionalani]

19:42 I am fucking dying at Miranda’s transition. Ahahahahahahahaha crying tears.

[@nakburt40]

Great video and thanks for having Ms. Pat

[@wahaywgr]

This is amazing interview. This is definitely going to help somebody. God bless all three of you.

[@WALLACE0000]

I LAUGHED FROM START TO FINISH.... GREAT SHOW!

[@T.Dee28]

LOVED this 😂 she’s hilarious and raw!

[@alyssafoticastaneda526]

Powerful episode! ❤️

[@danniamendoza9260]

Wish there was 3 hours of this

[@phildenson2330]

I've never heard of Ms. Pat before today. All I can say, is that I want more from her!!!!!!

[@ensabahnur3104]

Oh no. Forgiving is one thing, but just letting it go lets it continue to happen. One can forgive but stay aware

[@daniellerodgers6493]

If you’re always running, then it’s always following you.

[@vivianm.varela]

I did know Ms Pat before your show. Thank you. She is phenomenal 😂 our life stories often demonstrate the lack of social concern and laws to support women and girls

[@nikkimillions28]

I love me some Ms. Pat. She is definitely a lot of people’s inspiration to push through the cards we was dealt.

[@Lvn_liferight]

I’m manifesting having Miranda & Raven on my podcast Ashlii’s Lesbian Lifestyle Podcast. I love their conversation

[@jamarri7340]

Ms. Pat is a human being, and I appreciate that about her. This is the world we live in, and her story is both unvarnished and beneficial.

[@shanec9840]

This fed my soul and watered my spirit, dreams, and aspirations ❤.

[@Shakashack2022]

LOVE Ms Pat wherever she is!!!! ❤ Miranda’s delivery is soo funny & Raven’s reaction faces are lol. I’m a fan of all 3!

[@3000amps]

Wow what an interview. Thank you for sharing Ms Pat, keep shining your light 🥰♥️🙏🏻

[@sassymsty6347]

Yasssss !! E. Lynn , My mom had the whole series and passed them all to me❤

[@June-yi8ov]

Omg llloooovvveee this interview. It was very insightful and beautiful

[@sherrypettye1669]

Raven kept it 100% concerning the whole situation love this Tea

[@RetroDeeJ]

First time listener/watcher and love this episode!! Immediately subscribe

[@TeeTee-fv5ro]

This is so good!!

[@laneegreenwood9203]

Ms. Pat is so refreshing and real. My mom was like her I wanna hug her.

[@gigi1625]

Raven saying she doesn't have the money for another microphone is unhinged 🤣🤣🤣 #wealthy

[@JaeD904]

Right. She been wealthy her entire life 😂😂😂.

[@Njgoessouth]

And we all know she got that paper! But I loved it!!!

[@Ndeaxoxo]

I was like wait a damn minute 🤣

[@brittneynoel1999]

Well she did say she had not touch her Cosby money, so I believe she is probably very tight with money

[@shanquellrobinson6434]

This episode was fire. I clicked for Ms. Pat but I will be viewing more.

[@I.am.sam93]

I love Mrs. Pat and how real and raw she is. It's rare to find someone that has been through what she has been through, has made a name for herself and is still true to who she is. She's not faking it for nobody and I appreciate her for making the money but not letting the money make her. Continue to inspire others you're so amazing!!! 💐

[@silverbeautifullight]

Beautiful. ☀️🙏🏾🌅😍 Such a wonderful conversation. And The Ms Pat Show is amazing!!

[@joshbrown8821]

Ms.Pat saying when you laugh at what you’ve gone through you have control over it. Hit me like a tone of bricks.

[@theVirtuosoArtist]

This was such a good episode. Ms. Pat has really come a long way and to see her happy despite her circumstances she is bright and loving. ❤

[@Marshay]

This was a great interview, each time I listened to Ms.Pat, I learn something, I laugh and I feel better about whatever I’m going through.

[@annaiswil1478]

18:41 that’s what was happening in Richmond, Va and many states, I was in middle school in 2002 with kids being SA carrying there babies. My mother would take in all my friends and neighborhood kids that were pregnant, pregnant while homeless, or in domestic situations. It humbled me as a kid, in glad Mrs Pat survived it all

[@gigi1625]

The episode of The Ms Pat Show that Raven directed was soooo good.