MtF Transition: Life through Transition

A deep dive video about my male to female transition! Warning: Lots of cute cats and happiness!
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Video Contents
0:00 - Baby
1:13 - Early Childhood
3:28 - Christian School
4:17 - College
5:26 - Soulmate
6:02 - Social Transition
7:00 - Medical Transition
9:04 - One year HRT
10:08 - FFS
11:23 - Wedding
13:26 - Move Home
15:33 - Breast Augmentation
15:53 - Cat Mommies
Hi there! Welcome to my transition story. I’m Schyler, a trans woman who transitioned from male to female after 25 years due to a condition known as gender dysphoria. My gender dysphoria stemmed from my personality and autosexual orientation. I'm bisexual, attracted to both men and women, and autoheterosexual, attracted to myself as the opposite sex in terms of my mental experience.
Growing up in the early 1990s, I was the firstborn of four boys in a loving, evangelical Christian family. My parents showered me with love and attention, nurturing my sense of self through various experiences. I had a vivid imagination and loved role-playing, often entertaining myself for hours. Around ages 6-10, I started having cross-gender dreams where I was a girl, which resonated with me but I couldn't quite understand.
The most vivid memory of my early gender dysphoria occurred at age 8. While taking a bath at my grandparents' house, I prayed that God would turn me into a girl, a secret I kept hidden for years. As I hit puberty, my dreams became more sexual, revealing my autosexual orientation. I also experienced dysphoria which manifested in nonsexual coping rituals, like shaving body hair and trying to simulate breasts by pulling the fat forward.
During my teen years, I leaned into masculinity to fight against my dysphoria, growing facial hair and deepening my voice. Despite appearing well-integrated as a male, I privately struggled with my gender identity. In college, I explored my sexuality and cross-gender expression, hooking up with both girls and boys and going out in drag. These experiences intensified my inner conflict and led to moments of emotional torment. By end of college, I was desperately unhappy as a male despite all my achieved success.
Meeting my future wife in 2017 was a turning point. Our relationship forced me to confront my dysphoria and consider transitioning before making serious life commitments like marriage. I began by socially transitioning, wearing feminine clothes and expressing my female identity outwardly with makeup. During this time, I also started laser hair removal and electrolysis. My therapist and I agreed that medical transition made sense as a next step for my treatment goals. In early 2019, I started hormone replacement therapy, which brought significant relief from my dysphoria.
Throughout my transition, I faced challenges with family acceptance and societal perceptions. Telling my parents was particularly difficult, but it brought a deep sense of relief and freedom. At first, they responded with complete disapproval, citing restrictions on any feminine expression if I was to return home. I refused to cut them off and expressed myself openly in gradual changes. I continued to visit them. Over time, they observed my prosocial behavior and shifted their viewpoint to the point of attending my wedding, which they had previously stated they would not attend. I began HRT and gradually underwent medical procedures, including facial feminization surgery and breast augmentation, to align my body with my desired gender expression. Each step brought me closer to feeling at peace with myself, but only after careful deliberation and recognition of the risks and limitations.
My journey also included a spiritual reawakening, leading me to reconnect with God and a desire to give back. I want to help others navigate their own transitions by sharing my experiences and lessons learned. I encourage living with balance, open-mindedness, honesty, and love.
Today, I am incredibly happy with my transition. My partner and I are married and living a fulfilling life together. My story is a testament to overcoming inner conflict and finding true happiness by facing adversity. I hope to inspire others to navigate their own journeys with courage and love.

[@lucychelerini6616]

The world would be a better place if everyone accepts change and things as well as this portraits. Even more considering how drastic and rough a transition is. I am glad your bravery paid off as we could watch it. Well done and looking gorgeous!

[@heatblast876]

Yeah, but the world would have gotten worse. If people accept change and things as well as this portraits.

[@Colaberry1]

This feels like a fairy tale. Thank you so much for sharing your journey! Best of luck! 😊 ❤

[@jovazquez6102]

As a trans woman who wants kids with my gf one day, you're such an inspiration really. I watched your interview with Benjamin Boyce. Honestly after the whole Kris Tyson situation I needed some hope core 😭

[@alvarohurtado7864]

What a beautiful love and support story... I really love it ❤ congrats for everything and your 12 cats ❤

[@buffylow68]

She’s living her dream! Becoming a woman and marrying her girlfriend too! She seems so happy! Congratulations on the wedding! By the way you both make beautiful brides! And you love kitties definitely my kind of people!😻😽❤️💕😍😘🥰😁

[@buffylow68]

It meant a lot to me your reply my kitties are my children!❤️🤍💕

[@donaldforbes8652]

I came across this video just when I needed to see this. It contains my two favorite things in the world: Love and cats. Have a beautiful and loving life together. Blessed Be.

[@braaaplife557]

Wow beautiful glow up sister. Your joy radiates through your smile. Cheers

[@buffylow68]

This is just so cool he becomes a she and still gets the girl! That’s the way it should be! Congratulations you two!❤️🤍💕

[@Sasha-doll-2023]

Loved, loved, loved this! SOOOO happy for you! And on your wedding day, OMG, you looked amazing! And while this is your beautiful story, I also think your wife is wonderful too. I hope you personally and your relationship continues to blossom and become ever more fantastic.

[@prettygirl14531]

what a beautiful story of love and acceptance. Live long and prosper.❤❤❤❤

[@johnmyers4649]

Keep the faith and keep living life. I’m 73, full time and happier than ever. Look at all the love around you! Peace

[@WellRoundedWoodsman]

That was incredible!

[@wendykhill5069]

you are a beacon of love on this wide planet may you both have a wonderful life XXXX

[@MakingMayaRose]

Loved every second of this Schyler. Love from the UK 💕

[@kyleheon5050]

Fantastic story and video, congratulations 🎉

[@laurenemilykoster7362]

There is so much love on each "page" of this beautiful photo album. I keep turning back the pages to take in all the sweet moments that you have documented. It really just comes down to two women who found their soulmates: each other! And then one them helped the other find herself.

[@laurenemilykoster7362]

Wanted to add that you Schyler changed on hrt so much even before ffs. Your face became visibly feminine and natural. It was as if your body "knew" something was wrong but, given the right hormones, understood how to fix it.

[@TLM860]

Next video - ask the cats about how they experienced your transition 😂

[@emmagilpin]

So beautiful, your smile shows how right this is for you.

[@CDHfilms]

You're basically living the dream!

[@liviaho.7634]

Beautiful story ❤👍

[@gillianomotoso328]

You are both gorgeous!! I am so happy for you and your wife :) Seems like you both have really found splendor. I am curious, your voice is impressively feminine! Did you train it, or was it surgical? There’s a lot of power to it but still undeniably female in pitch and tone!

[@schylerspace]

@@gillianomotoso328 thank you for watching! Nope no surgery or voice training, just wide vocal range

[@JordansSpears]

​@@schylerspace dude same lol people always asked me this as well.

[@laurenemilykoster7362]

This isn't a transition video, it's a happy couple video. Or, They Lived Happily Ever After. You are so beautiful together.😊

[@lorenakademar5267]

OMG Schyler, you're a lucky girl, you've found an incredible soulmate!! take of her!!!!!

[@pranjitsaikiawrthunderx1648]

💜

[@lizicadumitru9683]

You and your lovey wife are awesome! ❤🎉

[@gisellereeves7815]

i am green with envy but so happy for both of you

[@gillianomotoso328]

Looking forward to more from you (if you so feel fit)!!

[@ShawnMFields]

Bro to be for real most of you males are good looking and could have got all the women I ain't see why y'all swap teams 🤦

[@PradeepthaObeysekara]

14K in the first video.. I think you have a future on KZbin! but only 394 subscribers seems unnatural

[@LeidyLizethGutierrez]

Que bonito

[@NikkolasGaskins-pi8me]

Beautiful

[@lorenakademar5267]

The FFS was a success!! In your wedding you were a couple of princess!!! What an amazing story..a dream come true!!

[@danielgoudard4651]

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😭😭😭😭😭

[@lorenakademar5267]

and btw, you do a pretty couple!

[@betterhomebetterliving]

You’re pretty. :)

[@TransConservativewaifu]

Beautiful you are

[@ambulance-tanger]

And you girl beautiful ❤

[@Lucinda666]

🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ Be truly beautiful 🎉🎉🎉

[@PhilomenaAgbanyim-Oragui]

Jesus christ pray for their souls 😢

[@JesusandTiffany67]

Is Jesus still important in your life,when I came out my commitment to Him got stronger.I wish you joy!!!!

[@schylerspace]

@@JesusandTiffany67 yes! I took a detour in my life but have since returned to Him 💖

[@JordansSpears]

Hi you commented on one of my videos i thought i should comment on one of yours. So first off cool wedding so proud of you and your wife very lovely. Second in the gay community back than it was called transvestite or dragqueens and they were feminine gay men most of the times that's why they were included in lgb however now days it's ushally straight men like you who crossdress and take hrt. correct me if I'm wrong your completely straight right? If so it makes no sense your supposably in our group. Also it goes without saying your not a woman but good try. Well great video anyways, it must all be sentimental to you and you seem like the type of person who likes capturing all of life's moments, god knows i should of captured my own graduation, maybe when i graduate college. You have an amazing, inviting smile and seem like you have a good heart. Also good for you to afford a house after covid, the market got so expensive. Btw All your cats are very cute it would be cool to see them in future videos as well. Anyways amazing video would love to see more. ❤