Multifandom | Trauma (abusive parents)

[@petrovaarmy]

stop commenting "this and that person isn't abusive and shouldn't be in the video". have some respect for my hard work please. just because I put their scenes into the video doesn't mean that I think they're abusive but the scenes FIT for the theme of the video and that was the point. the point of the edit wasn't to direct at each character personally and attack them but to give an overall vibe about the toxicity of abusive families and that's why those scenes fit. so please stop commenting that, be mature and respectful. also, all movie and TV show names I used are in the description box!!

[@mariaeng2227]

Exactly

[@vrushipatel5348]

Exactly!!

[@Izzy-iz]

I think this video was amazing!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jamiekersey5156]

Petrоvа Armу oh I’m sorry I didn’t see this comment. Ignore the comment I posted.

[@elumylauv7155]

hey, i wanna know some of these shows/series/movies names, it would be helpful for me and many others, thank you. and btw great editing skills and song choice, loved it thoroughly!!

[@linderforstna2209]

*imagine bringing a kid into this world and hating it*

[@maggie_29]

My dad indirectly admitted that he doesn’t love me... it f**king sucks💔

[@jolene_x4961]

@@maggie_29 hey. I just want to let you know, that you matter and you are in charge of your destiny. Dont let cruel family members take your future or happiness away from you

[@greaper_1233]

My mom only wanted me cause I was a girl and she thought we could bond but I ended up not liking dresses, make up, and pink.... she told me I’m a disappointment.... sorry if I spelled it wrong

[@douba_plusa]

Yeah that’s actually a big fear of mine: Having a kid and hating the responsibility, regretting it, and being sick of them. But I would never take it out on them because I hate seeing people in pain and it’s not their fault how their parent feels. I’d probably have really bad postpartum depression and just ask family and friends to help.

[@pupdawn]

Imagine bringing a kid to this World, always love it and then Marry an abusive man and leave your Kind alone, abuse it... Thanks for nothing mom. For nothing.

[@lila-qi6eb]

the worst feeling in the entire world is being scared of your own family. your own home.

[@xxdeftonesfreakxx7005]

Tbh idk if i have a place to call home. For 7 years idk if i have a safe place. I agree to you, it is very very scary to be scared of your own family.

[@janahayajneh6796]

Yeah, when you do everything you can to not be there like so many sports, clubs, going over to friends houses, after school things, but even then you still have to come home at some point

[@ChileanDud]

In any home with them it was never safe..

[@jarintasnimalin6681]

Yes, then I am the unluckiest person in this entiree world. I am scared of my parents.

[@zinusoida9764]

i know that feeling very well.

[@jenniferseid7695]

Abusive parents wonder why their kids dont want anything to do with them, but never think about the amount of trauma they put the kids through. It's hard to grow up with abusive parents. Because in most cases the kids hate their parents but love them because they feel the need to make them approve of them. I know that's how I feel about my abusive parents

[@shrisemontgomery6094]

I never had abusive parents but i had a friend that would get in my head mentally it hurts like hell

[@melinapihlajaviita6733]

Im sorry

[@tiya2958]

What the na me of the movie in 2:59 please

[@jenniferseid7695]

@@tiya2958 no idea

[@melinapihlajaviita6733]

@@tiya2958 its riverdale :) and its series

[@lili.reinheart2832]

I want every single person watching this video to promise me promise we won't grow up to be like our parents.

[@lol-wr4dx]

I promise hahah but quick question: is it just me or does it start to be normalized for parents to beat up their children

[@eliseanghel3556]

I promise

[@fluffy.teddyy]

I promise

[@fluffy.teddyy]

@@lol-wr4dx it's getting normalise for no reason..... Sadly

[@cloudiyahamster3325]

I promise

[@moe2884]

I don’t know what’s worse. Me finding comfort in the others pain or me realizing that I’ve become accustomed to this.

[@talsmile3400]

Neither they both suck... a lot.

[@talsmile3400]

@@jadewu111 I was just say that one is not worse than the other. They both suck and it just sucks to feel either.

[@amukajyrameau5128]

Same here... gotta find comfort and some sort of relation somewhere.

[@naomirivas5821]

@Qween This is something I needed to hear today. 🖤 Much love to you 💘

[@eliciaellis1567]

I know what you mean.

[@hoseokbts1986]

Shameless is a whole other level

[@sofiareyna9114]

Ye

[@kina9758]

So true

[@silverdarling2]

Yes it is...

[@macoconnor4518]

That's the point of the show. It did what many other's weren't willing to do: it portrayed life for inner city Americans, it portrayed alcoholism, homophobia, in a way that was realistic.

[@chloeferguson7104]

Yeah.

[@jesusitself654]

being abused both physically and emotionally for almost 17 years is not an easy thing to forget

[@fatimashireen5700]

I can feel you it's ok just accept the fate. Now I think God is also slowly giving up on me 🙃🙃

[@hollytyler2111]

God doesn't give up on people! And we may talk about the trauma but the war doesn't stop that's where the survivors unite and we become a family! We fight everyday! We aren't our parents!

[@Kate-gg4ws]

bestie I hope ur feeling ok I luv u and I care abt u it hurts to see u so hurt so pls get better :< I'll be here if u need to chat

[@hollytyler2111]

@@Kate-gg4ws thank you just a nice person that means a ton to me and same to you

[@Kate-gg4ws]

@@hollytyler2111

[@hashtagteen7941]

Every child deserves parents, but not all parents deserve kids. 💔

[@darkreaper9205]

Definitely

[@Keykey11271]

So true like my parents

[@altheaashleyy8614]

Parents don’t know what they do to their kids. They think they are doing “what’s best” but inside they are destroying us.

[@nevaeh9420]

I know💔

[@KhluKhlu]

No, some know exactly what they’re doing but continue to do it anyways

[@conserztasfia0078]

Nope not all parents My parents are strict and has a lot of strict rules but i love them♥️♥️ Sometimes they do hurt me but They raised me with love

[@mireasx]

my mother called it "parenting" and "tough love". i actually used to believe her

[@conserztasfia0078]

@@mireasx it is parenting (unless she does child abuse) U will realize when u will gonna be a parent

[@tessi233]

How can you have children only to treat them like that? It's something I'll never ever understand.

[@haxxmna]

well, our parents do that.

[@ravena1441]

Because a bunch of people think abortions are wrong and think it's better for kids to end up in shitty lives like this

[@liiiiionnnn]

Sometimes it’s because of the stigma of abortion. Sometimes when you don’t want a kid and you’re forced to have one or you’re raped and forced to have one you hate it. It could be because you married someone abusive and it carried out onto the kids. If it’s in foster care the parents are only taking care of it for money. There’s thousands of reasons.

[@sophiegeetman4271]

Thats why I never want to be a mother. Ever. I'd rather die childless than treat my kids the way my mother treated me and my siblings. Im gonna break that vicious cycle of abuse...forever!

[@erikadelgaardnielsen9391]

My mom gets drunks every day 😭😭😭😭 no joke i just wanted to die everything IT HAPPENS

[@eldilemma]

7: I wanna be older 13: I wanna be younger 21: I wanna die

[@estebanscodanibbio3416]

Please stay strong

[@ines1084]

Plz stay strong

[@FrickMyLife]

50:I'm glad I stayed this strong 💖

[@alexheughins7823]

5 I want to be older 8 I want to be younger 12 I want to be dead 16 still want to die

[@miat_t5980]

Why do so many people relate to that? Wait, no, I know. Hope you’re okay.

[@TheFishbowlSyztem]

“This place might be my house, but I can't remember the last time it felt like home.” - Me

[@salakomojisola7469]

Same way I feel most times😞

[@SahanaRavi9235]

Same

[@m4h4lia]

literally, never feel safe anywhere

[@gigachad17423]

@@m4h4liaexactly. worst feeling is when you don’t wanna go home from school but you don’t want to be there either.

[@keepingupwithanaly3458]

fr

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

My parents tell me they weren’t abusive because of the things they didn’t do, but never focused on the things they did. They never emphasized on the constant blame and guilt-tripping, the way they’d roll their eyes when I cried or deny me any form of affection when I truly needed it, the way they wouldn’t respect my things or my boundaries, and tell me that the clothes I wore, the room I slept in, the food I ate, was all theirs because it was their house and they paid the bills. But you know, as long as they’re not slapping me around anymore leaving cuts or bruises on my face, that’s not abuse, right? Right?!

[@rincivy21]

Same here 💔💔

[@cassiecampbell2017]

Same. Studies have shown that emotional abuse has had more lasting affects on a child when they grow up than even physical abuse, because there is nothing that can stop it. There is no proof of abuse, meaning you can't get any sort of help, especially when your parents are masters at putting on a facade in front of other people.

[@alex.kemansou]

i feel you and your words very deeply and i pray for you, for all of us ❤️

[@isihosena635]

Hey, I hope you're doing okay! What you're describing sounds is a manipulation tactic and a sign of emotional abuse. Please know that you're experiences and emotions are valid, never start doubting yourself! Is there anyone you could talk to that you trust and who could help you in your situation? If you haven't done so already you can look up keywords like "gaslighting" and "emotional abuse" in KZbin or just google and maybe find support that way or at least understand what is happened a bit better so you don't feel like you're going insane (horrible, horrible feeling but I promise you're not crazy!!!). All the best to you

[@ilovemealot6832]

My family would just laugh whenever I cry even if the reason is that I’m in a lot of pain. They think my pain is funny.

[@TheWayOfVia]

i have been verbally abused for almost half of my life. I am going to make damn sure my future child has no idea what that pain is like.

[@theofficalsilentraven]

❤️ I've been through that pain as well I hope you heal

[@TheWayOfVia]

@@theofficalsilentraven thank you so much god bless you 🙏

[@theofficalsilentraven]

@@TheWayOfVia you too 🙏

[@hillary6016]

Sorry to hear that

[@Asmi.]

Same.

[@GarfieldCatty]

Shameless sad edits just hit diffrent dont you think?

[@miyah7946]

Ong they do .

[@GarfieldCatty]

@@miyah7946 yea

[@chloeferguson7104]

Fr

[@taylormontgomery4524]

yes

[@21637]

Yea I cry every time I see them

[@Elena-en3zc]

Being abused for 17 years both physically and emotionally is really tiring

[@Catloafcafe]

As soon as I saw that little kid crying I started sobbing. Don't bring a kid into this world if you know that you won't be able to love them for who they are or will be.

[@scarystation7871]

That would literally happen to me daily

[@armiradobruna4246]

Thats why i dojt want kids. Im afraid im gonna be like my Parents

[@melisauniverse4453]

That scene reminded me of all the times I did cry and couldn’t because my mom would threaten to beat me again if I did

[@Catloafcafe]

@@melisauniverse4453 Unfortunately, I am still going through the same thing but with my dad. I hope you're okay and know that you are loved❤

[@melisauniverse4453]

@@Catloafcafe I hope your doing okay as well stay strong 💖

[@playingwithmilly7730]

We all need to hear a *true* I love you.

[@shaikhaalthani862]

I’d settle for a fake one

[@itsyogurlkashmoney7204]

Ya but sometimes it feels like some of us won’t ever here

[@hi-kt8jj]

i just need someone to truly care. done with fake father and fake everyone

[@mamacita278]

@Mayssoun Rebey thank you so much

[@itsyogurlkashmoney7204]

@@hi-kt8jj fr tho

[@johndoefilms2120]

I’m not abused like in this video but I’m emotionally abused by my parents they would cuss and insult me EDIT: Wow y’all have to be the nicest people y’all support each other :D

[@darinaperez5995]

Same

[@Vils8888]

Same

[@ellanaamora1485]

same and i have trauma from my house getting burned down and men coming back in forth i the house and touching me on my chest when i was 9 i thought it was normal when i was little but when i got older i got so scared when i realized it

[@evanqs9352]

do you all need a hug? 🥺

[@wdwlimelightfan688]

lupinsmile yes we do. Let’s be real

[@daniballard27]

*Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child* This quote will always be in my heart even though I don’t have abusive parents it’s just so deep bc I feel sorry for the kids who have abusive parents.

[@bethanyv309]

It’s a sad and painful feeling when the two people who brought you into the world makes you wanna be out of the world......

[@hollytyler2111]

Yeah oh my god yeah beyond hell

[@kimg2692]

Yea it definitely is and I feel exactly the way you sad every single second of every day

[@plekste6331]

it hurts to relate to this. ive attempted so many times because of them and i know i will in the future aswell..

[@nobodycansaveme733]

Relatable

[@heidistorer8363]

You can’t put supernatural in here and expect me not to cry

[@enexius67]

Fr, especially this last season, it's gonna f me up

[@juliacinelli4581]

Exactly

[@amaranthinenight8733]

I was honestly so happy it was in here because as the seasons went on it was obvious that John abuses Dean when he was younger and Dean always looked out for Sam and protected/put him first for everything.

[@natalyasquiggle]

Honey me too😢

[@acooper5941]

@@amaranthinenight8733 remember when there was a flashback episode and Dean had marks on his arms? He claimed they were from werewolves, but he didn't see werewolves for the first time until years after that... soooo therefore, John did abuse him and grab him....

[@bangchansthickthighs3464]

POV: you're here because of your abusive parents.

[@ky024]

StoP CALLING ME OUT-

[@gracepotts8223]

im so sorry

[@homairarahimi3122]

Man how’d you know?

[@butterflysoup5966]

My mom isn't abusive she tried to help me but my step-dad was the abusive one Ik ik nobody asked

[@lyssiiiooo]

Parents and siblings for me😔

[@Letmetalk123]

Billy from stranger thing is my favourite “hated child” kinda concept because rlly nobody knew what was happening while everyone hated him

[@melinanonn-pretty7582]

" your are a useless" thanks u mom, now I can't hear that without crying

[@rishitasplaylist6679]

No you're are really important!!! Stay strong 💜💜

[@gab._.byyj.]

But you aren't useless so don't believe her.

[@libertybee1307]

the fact I’ve lost the count when she said I hope you were never born

[@shristijalan8082]

@@libertybee1307 I tried keeping a count you know It's so hard SO hard

[@guacamolelover3005]

You’re not useless, you’re so capable of achieving so much and you’re so powerful. 🧡🧡

[@yourlocalavgeek72]

I almost busted in tears I also have abusesive parents

[@migi7597]

Me too I don’t even have parents they abused me so I got tooken away then an abusive person adopted me

[@SG-gx1nx]

joonie are you okay love?

[@lemonsquishy956]

@@SG-gx1nx lol

[@jaciewall9108]

Same ;-; But mine are divorced but still abuse me :(

[@lemonsquishy956]

@@jaciewall9108 rip

[@neptuneex_]

i watched this yesterday, and i legit started to cry. i don't even have an family that is so abusive, they don't really hit me and they are only verbally and/or emotionally abusive sometimes. but i still cried. so much. i was gasping, trying to calm myself down. i almost never cry, specially if something that i have seen didn't happen to me, but this made me cry.

[@supravietuitoriblog547]

Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.

[@neptuneex_]

@@supravietuitoriblog547 aww, thank you so much for your kind words!

[@vintageheels]

emotional abuse is just as terrible as physical abuse. your feelings are valid, I hear you! please seek help, you can do it

[@aarnarchy8093]

3:35 I broke down after seeing this scene and I'm still crying because I know what that feels like

[@alishabhullar]

Im sorry u had to face that, if u ever need someone to talk to I’m here

[@vintageheels]

makes you feel disgusting

[@MinTae07]

Mm, The fact that my own dad told me To go and kill myself when I was 11years old

[@salomae-ql7iu]

i've been through the same if u ever want to talk about it

[@hobiwrecked]

​@@MinTae07 im so sorry. are you okay?

[@xxcoffee_addictxx3197]

Imagine not getting gaslighted and abused by the people who we’re supposed to care and love the most. Must be nice...

[@rishitasplaylist6679]

Yes it's is nice... Really sorry for all of you, stay strong I'm sure you will find someone who is you're sunshine and will take care of you

[@Chronically_Lazy]

@@rishitasplaylist6679 You know what, that’s exactly what I was thinking, I like people like you

[@ellieyoung3286]

yeah, i can only imagine:( it sucks.

[@C0deB1u3]

I'm really happy that there are people who don't have to go through that. Sometimes just knowing that is comforting.

[@radiredwolfgirl]

I'm always jealous of one of my friends, cause her mother always puts cute emoji and "I love you" after nearly every text message, and my mother will never do that. my mother doesn't even text me, unless its some useless article she wants me to read

[@erickim6328]

as someone who is abused by my parents i dont want anyone to go through this. i can feel what they felt and it makes me really angry and sad

[@supravietuitoriblog547]

Hi! I don't want to bother you or something,but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.

[@lol-wr4dx]

same same mine even threathned to kill me when i was 8 :D

[@michellehellofs8857]

my mom is abusive but my dad tries to protect me

[@evergreen_5]

Non of my parents are abusive they help me to grow in live . I'm happy !!

[@Chill_330]

The fact that this happens everyday is...just heartbreaking. I'm so sorry. You dont deserve any of this. You deserve so much more. I doubt anybody is going to listen but its okau

[@laleshahin4942]

That made me feel a little better,I’m so grateful thank you🥺❤️

[@misbahashrafmir4337]

Thank you army ⟬⟭💜

[@Zoya_kim.]

💔💜

[@chickenwing3608]

Clips like this, make me realise my dad completely abandoning me, never showing any genuine interest in me as his kid, but a string attaching him to my mother, isn’t that bad. That way, i can choose if i let him continue to hurt me, or move on and be a better parent than he cared to be. When they’re actually in your life, they are able to ruin it so much more than flat abandonment could never compare to.

[@equestrathena]

your feelings are still valid. you deserved a present father❤ -someone w/ abusive parents

[@jxlaep]

0:24 is stiles being drugged and letting his anxiety get the best of him. His dad is not like that and it wasnt real. Dont think bad

[@xoxsaimaxox9117]

It fits in with the video, even though Sheriff Stillinksi was never abusive to Stiles in the show it fits in with the theme to raise awareness to abuse.

[@fislife8735]

read the first comment

[@xy-se6qn]

YH all of their drinks had wolfsbane in it

[@leahnobody3716]

What episode was that

[@alinagomez7714]

@@leahnobody3716 season 2 episode 9

[@thechelseachannel794]

I’ve always been interested in these types of films / shows. I grew up with abusive parents so I know how it feels. Not only verbally but physically as well. This montage is so saddening. And the song “Trauma” by NF is one of my favorites and fits the video perfectly.

[@supravietuitoriblog547]

Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.

[@thechelseachannel794]

@@supravietuitoriblog547 Thank you so much for your comment, I really appreciate that. Recently I’ve gone through a lot of trauma but I’ve held a strong head on my shoulders and have a strong faith in God who has got me through my struggles. I’m also here if you ever want to talk, I’ll be with you.

[@supravietuitoriblog547]

@@thechelseachannel794 I'm happy for you! Thanks!

[@Jdabomb93]

Precisely why I think parents should go through proper training, to earn a license to legally raise a child (or animal), and not just be given full rights over one. When they clearly have no clue on what they are doing as a legal guardian, or any care in the world for their child/pet.

[@youraveragebyotch]

i couldn't agree more with this

[@Jdabomb93]

@@youraveragebyotch Just the only problem would be trusting who would regulate it.

[@tanita6234]

When your parents call you stupid cause you don't know how the real world works, but they haven't teach you how the real world works, how am I supposed to know? (Sorry for my english)

[@supravietuitoriblog547]

Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.

[@tanita6234]

@@supravietuitoriblog547 You are lovely, thank you ❤️❤️

[@kyanamendoza1773]

My parents didn't have to teach me how the real world worked. Because the real world beat them to the punch. I saw the crew reality filled with abuse and poverty because I lived in a ghetto neighborhood and in a scary household was scary parents and scary family members. But luckily I had someone who loved me enough to show me how family should be treated

[@sista363]

My mom just said I talk too much non sense because is asked her to stop generalizing strong women as "bossy" or "too bold" or "they'll never get a man". She loves saying the word "nonsense" to me. Like my opinion,words, thoughts doesn't matter because I'm kinda anti social and i don't have real world experiences too much. She'll continuously compare me with others and call me dumb, too much imaginative, dreamy, she says I'll never achieve anything. But I'm strong and I'm surviving these bs. The sad thing is...she is 100 % sure she's being a great parent and she will never understand the way she broke me. Literally out of all the times I've cried.. 98% were because of my mom's words and hatred.

[@tanita6234]

@@sista363 they always think they are the best parents cause maybe they don't beat you up or they didn't abandon you like if the traumas are not there anyways. I hope you stay strong, i hope i stay strong 🤜🤛

[@btspavedthewayforyourfavs13]

I can feel every second of this video

[@whoknows2420]

Same 💔

[@tiya2958]

What the na me of the movie in 2:59 please

[@bangchansthickthighs3464]

Same Army

[@orchidmalfoy2304]

"daddy dont leave me, please, daddy dont leave me!" That hurt me so bad..

[@zInNwinZ]

2:04 The fact that I relate to Sam more than I ever realized, a light shined in me this very moment

[@yka9767]

How can parents expect their children to respect and still love them, when they have put too much trauma to them

[@me-gv5ok]

Fr tho... Then make fun of who you love.

[@nevaeh9420]

My parents are verbally and emotionally abusive and sometimes physically. My whole life they’ve been and I’ve always excused it because then they have their redeeming moments.. that’s why I thought it was all normal up until this year. Idk if I want kids... but I just can’t imagine bringing someone into this world and then treating them like this. If I do have kids... I want to treat them as I always wanted to be treated growing up.

[@cristianvergara1980]

Trust me I can sympathize with that my dad was also both physically and verbally abusive with me and my mother.

[@ennokang2417]

Sometimes I'm scared of the thought of having children beacuse how can I be sure my partner will be a good parent? What if I'm not around, how will they treat my child? Ik I'll do my best to be a great parent for my child beacuse I never want them to feel what I'm feeling rn with my parents... But how can I be sure my future partner won't be abusive? Or won't slip up... This is why I have trust issues

[@Sam-oo1uo]

I can guarantee they thought the same way when they were young. Then you grow up. It's a cruel world out there.

[@Shxmmie]

i hope youre safe and i hope you now feel loved... im proud of you

[@user-sj1yz6mg8w]

Same honestly I don't want to be a parent because I have this fear of becoming like them I don't want my child to cry like I do because of me

[@rica2269]

veronica’s father literally manipulating her into mafia, then trying to kill her boyfriend and then THREATENING her just because she fell in love will forever be the most underrated storyline, no one ever sees what she actually went through because she always acts so strong, her father really broke her.

[@Guilhermelol007]

The worst felling in the entire world is being scared to back to home from your abusive parents who hate you, by you not be the proud son who gives proud to the house, sometimes i just wanted not to be alive.

[@pragy17]

"He takes what he pleases and offers nothing" that line just hit me

[@twilightrose917]

My whole family is like this constantly, and being a single child I'm generally alone. I completely feel what these people are

[@TRx_643]

People never notice how lucky they are to have parents not like these.

[@deliacozo8542]

I thought so many parents are sweet like mine😢

[@parkjiminliesalot2642]

I’m not allowed to cry, have friends, have my own preference, dress like how I want, watch what I want, text people, and so much more. They hit me when I’m trembling and force me to be okay accept that they’re good parents. Emotional blackmailing too. When I don’t feel like eating they talk about how I’m not gonna be able to eat soon because I refused and just force myself to shove it down the throat. If I cry I’m weak. It’s always do better.

[@Gracelyn8]

Omg that’s HORRIBLE I’m so so so sorry

[@am.ruth.aliya2168]

igy,i go through this everyday. we're just helpless.

[@treasuretvjackson8018]

@@am.ruth.aliya2168 You need to call 911 because the police actually will arrest someone for this type of abuse. Tell them exactly what you are going through, this can end the abuse.

[@anam_mirza7]

💔🥺

[@elmo1225]

İ used to call my teachers or so close friends mom.... Cuz they comforted me more than my own mother showed me more love than my own mom did

[@xxdeftonesfreakxx7005]

Same.

[@Asmi.]

I imagine that I have different people as my parents like a mother or a father just to fill up hole in my heart. But it doesn’t fill it. Why?

[@rameesha9432]

My mom left me after a year of be being born

[@raghavjoshi3450]

It's better to say you are fine then telling them what's killing you inside - Joker

[@atlanticxmoon55]

it's kinda sad how we can't say our problems to parents, but have to keep them to ourselves.

[@adi4032]

"kinda" sad KINDA!?!!!

[@unnamed_duck5603]

Parents are the people who bring us into this world, the people we look up to, the people who should love us more than anyone in the this world. When they abuse this power, they manipulate this power, it can have colossal effects not just on how we view past experiences but how we may view our future experiences. Its so damaging that a lot of kids think that a lot of what may have happened to their past is normal as it happened so frequently and now how its being normalised in the media. All kids deserve a parent but not all parents deserve a kid

[@Kiah1995]

I used to think that once I leave home, once I'm older, I can finally start living. The truth is the hurt comes with you and consumes you all at once. you realise you have so much trauma you thought didn't exist.

[@mich1934]

This absolutely breaks my heart. Let’s try, as a generation; to do better for our own kids 💜

[@C0ffeeobssesed]

you should say that to my dad he just broke my nose the other day and my mom was cheering for him 👁👄👁

[@user-iq2ie4qk5x]

@@C0ffeeobssesed Same my mom encourage my dad to beat me

[@C0ffeeobssesed]

@@user-iq2ie4qk5x I'm so sorry that you have to go through that I hope one day our lives will get better mate :')

[@Cupidteez8]

@@C0ffeeobssesed DAMN-...your Parents are NOT GOOD! :/ Sorry if that came off as rude but that had to be said. Because NO Parents in their right mind do/say these kind of things!

[@adrigrace23]

Thank you for including Sam and Dean! John was an absolute horrible father. This is amazing! You’re talent is unbelievable!

[@MENDACIOUSHELL]

I legit watch this once a year because of how much I can relate to these characters. The abuse is real emotionally and physically. The trauma will never leave me and always remind me of how much trauma I had to go through that I'd make sure I never do this for my child. What's worse is feeling scared of my own family because my mom won't do anything to put her foot down.

[@missintrovert1404]

Is it dat everyone in this world face d same kind of pain and trauma like dat we face ..but someone can cope up with it .nd be cheerful ..nd some(like me)..always depressed..

[@equestrathena]

SAME KMG. i always come back to this video when im having a hard time to know im not alone

[@lvrlark]

When I say Billy Hargrove my heart shattered. All Billy knew was ABUSE! He loved Max with all his heart, and wanted to keep her safe. But he only knew what his father did, so he tried to keep Max safe by using his fathers ways. He wanted to express love to her but he didn’t know how... He only knew pain and hate. He was in pain and needed someone to love him. He needed comfort, but no one showed him love.

[@orangeflavoryawp3064]

That clip at 3:33 literally made me stop the video, walk into my bathroom, take a breath, and stare at the ceiling for a solid two minutes. Just...the guy's face. His forcefulness. The fist on the table top. The child's frozen fear. The woman's voice when she screamed for him to stop. That really struck an uncomfortably familiar note and I had to walk away. The terror and trauma of that clip isn't overt, but holy shit did I feel it in my bones.

[@alesha2071]

No it didn't

[@jessicalyons5403]

“i wish you’d just love me back” I wasn’t what he wanted. i disappoint him. I’m scared of him. i’m not allowed to be a child.

[@pugsforeveryone]

This made me even more thankful for my loving parents, who always support and keep me safe. I‘m really sorry for all the people who are having parent issues, I really hope it’s getting better.

[@dearlybelovedgaming373]

One of the ah, the scenes. I have no clue what show it's from, honestly. But the dad, and the son, when they were sitting at the table, and the dad is talking about punishment. The tension in the air is so familiar, because with parents like that, that calmness, when there should be anger? That's dangerous. Even screaming would be better than that. Because the calm always leads to something so much worse. Later in the video, it shows more of the scene. The dad starts towards the son, and the kid throws himself back and away, trying to get out of harm's way. that flinch, it's something you only ever really develop in a home where physical punishments are commonplace. And it sticks with you, all through life. You gain a sort of sense for when people are moving towards you, even if it's just a pat on the back. You flinch away from nothing, because you are so used to it being not nothing. And it ruins you. It ruins you in a way that will never really be fixed, so you just have to live with it. Get used to laughing it off, trying to convince people that you are just twitchy. It's one of the many scars that you earn by surviving in a household like that. Congratufrigginlations, am I right?

[@beansonbread7452]

Issac from teen wolf

[@haxxmna]

I just realized this a few days ago, my friend was about to hug me and I flinched and moved back. and then I realized that I was so accustomed to being hit that whenever anyone near me raises their hand I flinch back and tighten my muscles and Idek why.

[@ruxyrux9084]

That was Issac from teen wolf. He was abused by his father

[@gracepotts8223]

im so sorry for the people who have abusive people🥺 I’m very lucky to have non abusive parents. STAY SAFE BAES💘💘💘

[@xxdeftonesfreakxx7005]

Yes you are lucky . Congratulations 😭💖

[@ceriired]

@Saniya Abedi idk but things might just get better so lets fight together :]

[@NehaSingh-ty2vk]

Great for you ❤️😭

[@urfavcatgirl8798]

You are so lucky

[@myralunat.deguzman8827]

Same I feel bad 😣

[@FinnKomTrikru]

Holy shit this is amazing work! You're very talented

[@petrovaarmy]

Thank you so much ❤️❤️

[@myfairytalelife3]

@@petrovaarmy I agree with FaithKom Triku. You did a great job!! The only thing that's missing is Mickey and his dad from Shameless.

[@phoebesworld1516]

I've mostly been emotionally abused more than physical but it still hurts when your parents call you a failure, a disappointment, lazy, and a useless daughter.

[@nveon]

SHAMELESS IS SO SAD

[@deathtrope]

2:04 irrelevant but damn Jared’s acting and everyone’s acting is so amazing

[@peachyfeathers]

I cried so much during this. Amazing work! The part with Sam and Dean hurt the most 💔 But it‘s beautiful that they (with Cas) became such amazing dads for Jack even though they didn’t have that!

[@enexius67]

Yes omg🥺

[@unknownyoutuber2407]

I've seen a lot of these abusive parents multifandom videos and I've got to say this really is the best one. The editing and emotion of this video is well done and as someone who had an abusive mother it hits home.

[@juliathompson1179]

when Klaus says “there were moments when you all you had to do was be my father”. he says the best lines.

[@ripitoff7311]

There is more anger in this world than we'll ever know.

[@Jenny-mo1be]

This video reminds me everytime of how lucky I am to have parents who would go off their limits to provide me everything I need and will need no matter how much struggle, anguish they have to go through and all I want them to know is I AM SO GRATEFUL for everything they've done for me and will do for me. I'm so sorry if I wasn't the daughter you both deserved trust me i'm trying my best and I promise I won't ever let you down !!!

[@user-em2do8sd7l]

I'm here because of my emotionally toxic mother and I cried buckets of tears while watching this video. It hurts, it really hurts.

[@haileedasilva8117]

I live in a emotional abuse family and I ran away when I was younger but got caught and I sit here every night crying and talking to my only friend I’m so tired of it I’m so sad I wish I could just die or live in a place where people would accept me

[@petrovaarmy]

keep on being strong, you got this. it will all be better one day, you just have to hang in there.

[@shrisemontgomery6094]

You got this be strong dont let that shit happen no more fight bsck you have to pray to god call his name and if you need anyone to talk to im here to talk my discord account is dstgirlshriser 1915

[@Sanjali04]

There are shelters. Or if you have friends you could stay with them. Or if you're able to get your own place you could do that and move in without telling them. And just buy what you need after (I'd suggest taking what you can carry in hand and leaving the rest, unfortunately). Are you an adult now? If so, and your family calls the police, the police can't bring you back because it's legal for you to go.

[@treasuretvjackson8018]

Sometimes you have to call 911

[@saiegelovely1675]

We break the cycle by healing fully before becoming parents ourselves.. There's a lot of pain and wounds if we don't heal we move forward with destruction.

[@teri_bckv]

i’m being verbally abused for almost 8 years now..and i just have enough.. being told that you’re not good enough and that u should be more like the other ones just hurts..it hurts a lot. i don’t know when they’re gonna realize that it hurts to be told something like that or being called „unwanted“. but i’m sure and i promise that my kids won’t know what kind of pain that is! i can’t protect them everywhere at anytime but i can promise that their home is gonna be a safe place..a safe place at anytime!

[@lenifarebelo2985]

i hold my breath every time my parent passes by me as if that will help me be invisible. To everybody including me who silently cried while seeing part of ourselves in the clip i hope it gets better for us.

[@Babyzilla6742]

Imagine being told your entire life mom will always be here for you no matter what and than she just walks out

[@blakeworld2001]

I feel so bad for kids that go through this kind of stuff they don’t deserve and it makes it worse that this can cause kids to feel worthless and feel like it’s their fault when it’s not.

[@reality8079]

What hurt the most is when they say it's out of love when your on the ground crying and screaming for help but they cover your mouth and tell you to shut up. But it's out of love right?

[@jcharmaine1]

They were brainwashed into thinking it's love

[@treasuretvjackson8018]

@@jcharmaine1 They're trying to brainwash YOU into thinking it's love. Abusers have a plot, they're wicked and the Bible literally states that "The wicked plot and scheme" and these people plot their entire approach, maybe not most of the time, but their tactics are SO similar, people can relate to having Narc abusers to the point where it seems like they're getting their manipulation tactics from a book

[@ronakinwonderland]

No one deserves to abused or mistreated that way, please stand up against abusive behavior

[@puppyysniper]

We also hate it when people say "call the police" Like NO -the solar system (DID)

[@popcorngirl1018]

I don’t want to get separated by my family when they say that

[@amandaenriquezstudent8854]

my friend literally said "just call the cops theyll take care of it" yeah and theyll take my family too

[@joshie3815]

if that were the case we would be long gone but we don't have that choice even if we could it still would be hard to do with your own consent because you feel the aching need for a figure in your life and your scared

[@chaoticsock6929]

I called the cops when it got really bad one night. I've been treated like I'm not even human ever since. I want to die. I can't escape them now that im in quarantine.

[@joshie3815]

@@amandaenriquezstudent8854 Yeah like they don't understand.

[@R0.R0.R0]

We all wish we could get our parents love and comfort..

[@Mydearxbangtan]

Coming from a abusive family this video is tearing apart i can't stop sobbing. Sometimes parents don't realise how much they are hurting their children. I envy each and every person who has a good supportive non toxic family.

[@samanthaelwood9560]

I don’t know why but somehow this video is…strangely comforting? And coming to the comments is even more and I can’t really explain it. I feel less alone. Thank you for this video. Even if the characters are fictional, the message and meaning is not ❤️

[@anpanmann1516]

when u understand the feelings of almost every person here. That's when u understand there is a problem

[@amberanderson6806]

The abusers are the ones suffering more than you realize, coming from a victim, who sporadically lashes out at people. Because of him I’m considered a “brat”. Because of him, I don’t like physical touch. Because of him, I always suspect abandonment, so I never commit to relationships-friendships for that matter. Because of him, I have to act like I have a strong head on my shoulders, but yet I don’t, in actuality, I’m completely and utterly broken.

[@diksharawat3939]

Nothing hurts more than seeing in their eyes how they truly hate who u are and while sobbing u could also see how truly toxic they are

[@myuniverse9629]

Let's promise, that we don't become our parents. Let us strive to be better parents for our kids ❤️

[@jannatrizwan9347]

Promise

[@PrincessMavenKittyDarkholme]

This

[@johncarlotolentino2884]

Agreed...

[@adelMN2]

don't become a parent you idiots

[@malutrevenzoli2297]

"i'm proud of you" said john, and dean knew. that wasn't his father.

[@Live-a-little99]

I was also a victim of verbally abusive mother but after watching "princess switch 3"the reconciliation scene of fiona and her mother, i started forgiving my mother even though she didn't ask for one

[@aniya8623]

3:43 I've spent so many years doing that every night

[@yusufabdullatif7640]

Me too

[@sagarikamaitra9619]

Imagine making your children believed they are loved only to grow up and realise they were abused and ‘have no proper concept of respect and are abused in all their relationships.

[@SoftTinyRose]

my mother hurt me mentally and psychologically, all she did was hit me or yell at me and tell me how useless and stupid I am, I never got a chance to hear an "I love you" from her, all she has done is remind me every day that i was just a heavy load for her and that it would have been better if i had never been born. Gladly I'm not living with her anymore and now I'm living with my uncle and aunt, who truly loves me and take care of me.. I think the best thing my mother could do to me was to kick me out of her house.

[@monicalabor5681]

This is so heartbreaking to watch. Having abusive parents are the worst thing you could ever have.

[@lyssiiiooo]

when you relate to the abuse that is showcased in the amazing video. Great work, your hard work really paid off with this one!

[@Somi_luna]

You may find thousands of amazing people in your life but not having loving parents can never be healed, a huge part of you will always be broken.

[@GACHAnabiiee]

remember just because they dont hit you or physically harm you doesnt mean they arent still abusing you.. check how they treat you mentally and emotionally...if you need help ask for it, if you need to talk..I am here for you

[@yogeshwaran8343]

I'm a late teenager I'm being verbally, emotionally, physically abused for over years it's hard to forget I know this feeling be like. Controlling ,manipulating , not living my life of my own It's very tough.

[@cybergr4pe]

Please seek help if you can. I’ll pray for you. You deserve better, you deserve the best.

[@rajshreepardeshi_]

OMG, I’M CRYING !! MY LOVES, I LOVE YOU ALL SOO MUCHH MY BEAUTIFUL ANGELS !! SENDING Y’ALL LOADS OF LOVEEEE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY, BIG HUGS AND KISSES !! MAY GOD BLESS Y’ALL SOOO ABUNDANTLY !! I can totally understand, both of my parents are physically and emotionally abusive and it breaks my heart that soo many of us have to go through such traumatic and heartbreaking experiences !! I’M SOO EXTREMELYYY PROUD OF Y’ALL NO MATTER WHAT !! MY LOVES, I’M ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED ME !! YOU’RE NOT ALONE MY ANGEL, WE’RE GONNA GET THROUGH THIS TOGETHER !! PLEASE PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND BE KIND AND COMPASSIONATE TO YOURSELF !! SOOO MUCH LOVEEE, POWER, STRENGTH AND GIANT HUGS TO Y’ALL !! We might not know each other but I deeply means this !! I’M SOO EXTREMELYYY PROUD OF Y’ALL NO MATTER WHAT !! Y’ALL ARE INSANELY WORTHY AND YOU ALL DESERVE THE ENTIRE WORLD MY LOVELY SOULS !! Y’ALL ARE SUCH BEAUTIFUL, AMAZING, ADORABLE AND LOVELY SOULS AND YOU MATTER SO DAMN MUCH !! MY LOVES, Y’ALL ARE ALWAYS MORE THAN ENOUGH AND INSANELY WORTHY NO MATTER WHAT !! I LOVE Y’ALL SOO DAMN MUCH MY BEAUTIFUL SOULS !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️😭🦋

[@Thickynicky027]

the worst thing is when your parents hurt you and make you cry, but you still love them and can’t tell them their hurting you bc they’ll feel as if they are doing the wrong thing, which they probably were…