Mum Kicks 16-Year-Old Daughter Out Of The House After Finding Out She Is Pregnant | Unexpected

[@angelicabutterfly1794]

Sheesh. No wonder Myrka ran straight into the arms of the first guy who said he loved her. She's obviously not getting any love or affection at home.

[@toxicgammer2008]

Maybe because She had another kid and divorced and had to support the whole family she can’t be there 24/7

[@mxlahpta]

@@toxicgammer2008 still that is not even an excuse for not being loving towards their child. I have a mom that works 24/7 in both jobs but she shows affection toward me and my brother. I get that people are not affectionate but give them atleast some attention

[@sailorsister211]

@@toxicgammer2008 However, a simple hug and an I love you won't take more than a second of her life.

[@picklejuice500g]

Same.

[@hottiegirl4814]

@@mxlahpta fr human children need affection to be okay mentally and emotionally even if you’re provided for physically, but you don’t get affection/love you’ll be really sad

[@Rusty763]

“I’m not lovey dovey” and “I don’t cuddle my kids” that’s not being a strict parent, that’s showing your children you don’t love them.

[@chandlermayo2563]

my parents are the exact way

[@Ihatethischannel_07]

@@chandlermayo2563 same with mine and they still love me

[@LittlePoncho]

Which is technically emotional neglect

[@gladiolamartinez501]

Its sad but that s the mexican culture .

[@iareil]

My parents are the same way it’s weird but we know that we all love each other very much.!

[@AivisSvirskis]

Parents, who deprive their children of a loving family environment and neglect their emotional needs, put themselves in the position for a teenager to look for love, affection and understanding elsewhere.

[@thiccredgyal3404]

A lot of the women in the comment section have no empathy.

[@thatonegirl3934]

I agree 100 percent

[@SteganDaMallion]

Facts

[@Pinkfairydust23]

Why is not condoning something you told your child about a neglecting situation? It’s just so preventable and they openly said we just didn’t wanna have say sex. She shouldn’t be kicked out but Jesus Christ everything is always a parents fault. I knew what I was thinking at 14 15 and 16. They know better. She didn’t spill milk she had a baby. Don’t kick her out tho but sheesh no one has any idea how moms might be feeling? She seems more disappointed than anything

[@amandahernandez1889]

you can find love and affection that doesn't involve sex.

[@andreaallen1362]

This mother is abusive not only to her pregnant daughter but her son is starving and she doesn't care. The two parents who are helping both these kid's are amazing.

[@ChukwubuDike]

Actions have consequences. It's just dinner, he'll live. He chose to disobey so.... Her mum worked hard to give them a good life yet the one thing her mum warned her about, the one thing. She intentionally chose not to use protection. How wise was that? She exposed herself to the possibility of pregnancy and STDs. We should learn to accept the consequences of our actions. The mum will come around eventually. Her daughter will now understand what her mum had to go through.

[@andreaallen1362]

@Peoplepease but she's NOT that's the problem. She's a bad parent.

[@hansadaan9865]

@@ChukwubuDike girl, she is young, young people make mistakes. Kicking out your child is not being a parent and endangering them to the outside world, 2) starving your child cause they didn’t clean the kitchen is again abuse and the fact you can’t see that is crazy, those are enough reasons for a person to get their kids removed from them.

[@MiaCiders]

@@ChukwubuDikeI hope u don’t and will never have kids

[@Justme-tz1tt]

@@hansadaan9865😂😂😂 Y’all is so fragile he didn’t obey so he have the consequence of is act one meal is not a bit deal y’all really don’t know what abuse is poor thing 😂. And having sex without condom is not a mistake IS A CHOICE! She choice to have this baby knowing exactly what her mom will do it’s he problem!!! This mom look like a hard working woman with 2 stupid kids!

[@d4rkryd]

I bet the mom never heard Myrka say “i cannot raise a child that is not mine” while Myrka was watching her brother.

[@privatep2730]

So true

[@magalicastillo7521]

This comment is extremely underrated 🗣️

[@robinbrown2256]

What a terrible thing to say about your own grandchild.

[@bubbles7398]

@@robinbrown2256 no she meant when Myrka was made to clean and cook for her brother when younger. She probably never heard her said she can’t raise a child that’s not hers yet says it to her daughter and it’s disgusting

[@silverfox5030]

Burn 🔥 😆

[@silasbold1570]

My aunt got pregnant at 15 and gave birth to my cousin at 16. She is now a doctor and head of the covid unit at her hospital, living very comfortably and happily. She came from a family of dead beats and druggies aside from my grandmother, she was told by everyone else that she would never amount to anything. She once even received a letter from her highschool principal telling her how much she wasted her life by getting pregnant. Her moms support was genuinely one of the only things that kept her going

[@SkuIIzz]

I wish it was like that for everyone

[@slenderman-tz6tm]

PERIIIIOD I would jump that principle

[@nanospark1]

@@slenderman-tz6tm he’s right tho she’s just one of the blessed ones

[@edithcasas5035]

Congrats to your aunt

[@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736]

Your aunt is the exception. Most people live destitute lives for a while because of a teen pregnancy

[@jenicalagrana4173]

She never cuddled her kids. Believe me that’s gonna get a huge impact on the kids when they grow up. They will start looking for love from another people.

[@mirikira8632]

She said that she didn't coddle her kids. They learned how to do certain things because she couldn't be there.

[@pjm7243]

right, the way you raise your kids is the way they’re gonna treat you when they’re older. my grandmother was the same to her kids and now they barely visit her. if they do they act like its a burden to them.

[@mirikira8632]

@@pjm7243 she said that she didn't coddle her kids, she didn't spoil them. She's had a rough life and did her best. If her ungrateful kids cannot see that, then she's better off.

[@mirikira8632]

@@pjm7243 also Ethan's mom kicked them both out with the baby too. Myrka said that they made out her mom to be a villain, but she is a loving grandmother. Ethan's parents are getting a divorce. Being together since 15, rarely works out. People are judging by seeing this video alone, they are not right.

[@beckstyles3467]

CODDLED

[@eileenmira5647]

I just want to thank Ethan’s parents for being as supportive as they can be 🙏🏽

[@pipers6529]

Fr

[@ClarkKent-tg6ls]

For treating Ethan like a spoiled baby His whole life lol.

[@prajju8114]

@@ClarkKent-tg6ls I bet he is gonna survive on his parents money ha ha ha!

[@biasantos1405]

Unfortunately I think Ethan's parents ended up kicking them out too :/ Ethan was in a Jubilee video and mentioned that

[@heyitslily3737]

ethan doesn’t see his fucking kid anymore

[@amandawithlov3908]

Myrka is really lucky she got pregnant to Ethan and a family like his.

[@jeanblaaa]

Yeah Ethan and his family seems very nice

[@51Saffron]

NO, Myrka is not lucky she got pregnant. She was either naive and not educated on sex and preventing pregnancy. Nothing lucky about being a teen mother.

[@amandawithlov3908]

You’re right. Teen pregnancy isn’t ideal. I’d be pissed if I were me. But it could be worse. She could be homeless and have a dead bear daddy. At least in her not so ideal situation she has a supportive baby daddy side. Hope they last and she won’t be another statistic.

[@NyhnaLaw]

@@51Saffron GIRL! Tf?! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@asiaaaa2743]

@@51Saffron they never said she got lucky by getting pregnant. they said that even though she so happened to get pregnant, she was lucky to have a baby father who actually wants to help raise their child instead of a dead beat who wants her to figure it out herself. calm down karen

[@jenni2752]

Wait is no one going to talk about how that 12 year old didn’t get dinner cause he didn’t clean the kitchen...

[@casierandolph2254]

@@janellephillips9477 not feeding your child isn't discipline its abuse full stop.

[@casierandolph2254]

@@janellephillips9477 I've never spanked my kids or punished then by not feeding them but here they are 14 and almost 18 wonderful, intelligent, respectful teens, who have never been in any trouble. My kids respect me because I'm respectable not because they fear punishment. My kids make good choices because they're smart enough to know that's whats best for them, not because they fear repercussions from me. Discipline means to teach and guide not to punish.

[@laurenrachelle4620]

@@janellephillips9477 thats not how you discipline children they shouldnt ever GO WITHOUT EATING.

[@laurenrachelle4620]

@@janellephillips9477 eating is not a LUXURY its a fucking NECESSITY.

[@tecumsehzacateco8798]

Janelle Phillips bruh do you have kids?

[@Beefer-e4j]

Her boyfriend instinctively reaches for her when she’s upset. Very loving young kid ❤️

[@Username26425]

Young lust

[@logangrandstaff7129]

@@Username26425 girl stfu, let people love and comfort each other

[@Username26425]

@@logangrandstaff7129 lol

[@samblock4937]

@@Username26425 I agree with you

[@bongowrld]

I hope he will be a good dad

[@scdu]

The idea of kicking out your child in one of the most vulnerable situations they could possibly be in, a situation where they need more support than ever, is fucking psychotic.

[@DaughterofMother1]

💯

[@LDuke-pc7kq]

It is child abuse... She is a minor and the mother needs to be charged.

[@celinemara565]

If the child wants to act grown then be grown.

[@NanaFauziyya]

​@@celinemara565 That doesn't mean they're grown tho

[@celinemara565]

@@NanaFauziyya they are not but they are acting like it

[@purringbaseline]

Not feeding her child because his room isn't clean is abusive.

[@thiccredgyal3404]

That mom is clearly a narcissist

[@user-vd8nm8sv6x]

@@thiccredgyal3404 that’s what I was thinking. the mom said “my world was ending” and “getting pregnant is the worst thing you could do to me” as if she was having the baby. I can understand why a parent might think they’d need to help with childcare, but the daughter was practically already a mom. she was cleaning the house, cooking food, raising her brother, all while in school? the mom needs to get a grip.

[@jademay9047]

It’s how she was raised

[@claramerchant9210]

Oh brother.. One meal? She is trying to teach them. Better the parents I see today A bunch of spoiled losers who want everything handed to them.

[@federalbubinspector1869]

@@jademay9047 my dad was raised by a father who would hit him with whatever he could get his hands on whenever he did something wrong but he was never like that with me that fact that was how she was raised is not an excuse

[@chipflorida]

Myrka’s mother might go to church often but hasn’t learned anything about compassion. She used her daughter as a nanny and it’s unwilling to help on raising her grandchild. did jesus teach her that?

[@alejandragonzalez5763]

Jesus didn't teach her to give herself away before marriage either

[@aliyahallen2000]

@@alejandragonzalez5763 and Jesus didn’t teach people to judge others mistakes either.🙄

[@Jesschoe]

@@alejandragonzalez5763 jesus also taught you to help the sinners, damn man died for the whole world....

[@bianca6206]

@@alejandragonzalez5763 well good thing he forgives sinners so bug off you religious person

[@alejandragonzalez5763]

@@bianca6206 he forgives sinners who repent to him. Not just saying I did a mistake or saying sorry to a person. Those that don't get their punishment in his coming. I'm not religious I'm just a Jesus freak

[@Mariaangeless-]

“Im not gonna raise a child that isn’t mine” yet she made her daughter take care of his brother when they were younger and that wasn’t her job to do. Her mom is religious,goes to church but treats her daughter like this? That’s bs

[@sereneiris6855]

Ikr

[@Max-xm3jk]

What do you expect from a single mother who has to take care of 2 kids and work all day long?

[@apbabyy733]

Literally. and saying she got herself kicked out, like please stop😂. kids aren’t the end of the world. I understand disappointment but to not be there for your kid? especially when she’s never experienced this before.. I’m not all parents are like that but damn

[@nlibby5549]

She's religious, catholic, yet wanted the daughter to abort??? BS on the religious part lol

[@xkxshx]

@@nlibby5549 Catholicism is faulty in many ways

[@yashi273]

I’ve never heard of a more selfish mother. I’m Mexican and my family would NEVER talk to us like this. I feel so bad for her. Like it actually hurts my heart that she has a mom like that.

[@jasmineowens4741]

I feel so bad for Myrka. Honestly.

[@Sasha75995]

🙄

[@stacieanguiano3563]

Real Mexican parents don't but American Mexican parents do... 😂😂😂 they toxic asf and swear it's the child fault

[@birb2627]

@@Sasha75995why that face🤨

[@xdtijnntssyu3314]

You should see Muslim moms

[@grapejuice3988]

His parents look exactly like him and his girlfriend in 15 years

[@alecarrdgz5577]

Exactly what i said also

[@cryslopez13]

Was thinking the same thing

[@brandongarcia3478]

exactly their the spitting image of his parents

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

Yes, and both moms look alike 😰

[@Gisella16]

he looks💅

[@nofacespacetasmr3008]

I cried when Myrka said that even though she hasn’t even met or held her baby she already has a strong bond to it and can’t understand how any mother could’ve abandoned their child

[@Gaetano.94]

She's going to have to be stronger when the dad comes out. My gaydar is never wrong

[@nofacespacetasmr3008]

@@Gaetano.94 uh oh 😰

[@msjrene05]

@@Gaetano.94 I got the same vibe…

[@XC21ALiSoN]

@@Gaetano.94 fun fact: gay people can still be good parents. My SIL came out when my nephew was 2. My SIL and her ex-husband are amazing at coparenting and my nephew knows nothing but love.

[@Gaetano.94]

@@XC21ALiSoN I didn't say that they wouldn't be good parents. I hope I am one day

[@cameronsena9226]

Notice how the mom is constantly like, “I felt like this.” “It tore me apart” “I felt my world crashing.” Everything is ALWAYS about her. I know way too many moms like this.

[@zainss9626]

It proper triggers me

[@bria6777]

Whewww Chile

[@Moonbovine]

It’s most parents who think in that way. They want more for their children to succeed than the children want it themselves. It’s quite normal for parents with culture. It’s not necessarily about the parents, more because it’s out of concern for their kids. Understand.

[@victoriashevlin8587]

Definitely an NPD type situation.

[@Kyonce]

Her mom is coming off really harsh but with the stereotype Mexicans have with being teen moms I can see why she’s pissed. She’s worked her ass off being a single mom trying to provide for her kids and the single rule she gave was broken. Plus more times than none the responsibility for the kid will be put on her because how can a 16 year old provide for a kid. There’s no guarantee the dad and his family will actually stick around.

[@djh19-]

I dont understand how a mother can lack compassion, love and support towards her own child.

[@420blazeeee]

her mom is right tbh id be angry af i wouldn’t kick her out, but id be so mad she asked for 1 thing. don’t get pregnant and she did. she’s a dumb child who is irresponsible.

[@summerfatima2525]

@@420blazeeee key word “child”. Why would you expect a 15 year old who’s brain isn’t even fully developed to make smart decisions smh. I would be somewhat angry and disappointment as well but this mom took it to a heartless extreme with no empathy towards her own child imo

[@420blazeeee]

@@summerfatima2525 she shouldn’t have been having sex til she was a damn adult. i didn’t have any sexual encounters since i was 18. able to be a adult. id be the same way as a mother, strict rules. finish high school focus on school then be a adult you can have sex. she’s irresponsible dumb child who didn’t listen to her moms rules.

[@420blazeeee]

@@summerfatima2525 not even old enough for a damn job. it’s bs

[@coconuthead8616]

Her mother’s eyebrows look like the physical embodiment of the phrase “No Mercy”

[@_____7512]

She looks like a hard working woman.. she had standards for her daughter..

[@sashaboo72]

@@_____7512 As a mother of a 17 year old girl, there’s no way I would do what this mother did.

[@MilitarySpouseChow]

She looks like 🤨 kinda

[@cornstarch9681]

@@sashaboo72 Lmfao I'm not even a parent, shit I'm younger than Myrka and I know that if I have kids theres no way I could just abandon them when they need me most. And don't get me wrong I would be upset that my daughter got knocked up but I would still be there for her and help her cause, thats my daughter. I also made a rant in this comment section abt this

[@sashaboo72]

@@cornstarch9681 Exactly. I’d be disappointed and shocked because she’s obviously aware this could happen, but that’s my daughter and my grand baby. What sort of person would it make me if i abandoned them? I’m disgusted at this mother and I feel very sad for her daughter.

[@loribonner6884]

The mother is gonna regret not being a part of her daughter's life.

[@nidhitapan3046]

Her mother must already regretting to have a daughter like this one.😒

[@user-vd8nm8sv6x]

seriously, why does she think this will help? does she think the daughter is going to go back in time and not have sex? what’s the benefit of abandoning your child in a time of need? Especially since the daughter has basically already been doing things motherhood would entail this whole time. she’s cooking meals, cleaning the house, and raising/taking care of her brother. this is needlessly cruel.

[@traceygarner7764]

@@nidhitapan3046 there's nothing wrong with the daughter, but there is something wrong with the mother. She's disgusting!

[@zenatkhan8702]

Why children want to pop a child when they are still immature no job no support from partner both literally babies themselves and act grown up. Mother is single parent just getting by herself knows the consequences of excepting her first grandchild she will continue doing that burdening her poor mother, her mother maybe setting a good example for her son not to get anyone pregnant while your stiil a minor yourself and no support. PARENTS SHOULD NOT BE FORCED INTO EXCEPTING THERE CHILDREN'S MISTAKES, AS SHE DOSENT WISH TO EXCEPT THE CHILD SHES CLASSED AS A BAD MOTHER. WHEN SHES A PROVIDER FOR HER KIDS!!

[@E.R225]

@@zenatkhan8702 Yea these people are tripping. They're the type to let their kids walk all over them smh. If my 16 year old daughter wants to be old enough to go out and make babies well then she's old enough to get out my crib and go raise them. In the comments all I'm seeing is excuses with no accountability....and by the way making a baby isn't just a simple (mistake), that's a life altering decision lol. You can't fault the parent for being mad about some stuff like that.

[@JozelleRenia]

She won’t raise a child that’s not hers but her daughter raised her son. Make it make sense🤷🏽‍♀️

[@datpsychobytch]

She watched him while her mother worked. She physically didn’t change him, bath him, pay for his clothes or food. She wasn’t responsible for him. Big difference.

[@JozelleRenia]

@@datpsychobytch I mean the girl did say that she was the one who raised her brother in the confessional while sitting next to her mother & her mother didn’t correct her...so what point are you trying to prove?

[@datpsychobytch]

@@JozelleRenia her mother literally shook her head no, her brother also stays quiet and shakes his head no when it’s mentioned again later on. The point I’m trying to make is taking care of your daughter child after having to work your as off to care for both your kids is not ok. The mother payed her dues she did her job her daughters 16 she made the choice to get pregnant she’s old enough to get a job and take care of her own life. If she wants to do adult things she can move out and start acting like an adult

[@tahjjj1488]

Please.

[@jezelleariel9162]

She was busy working .... she was a single mother

[@gabbylopez9091]

My family and I are Mexican, and my mom would *never* kick me out like that. Yes, she would be disappointed that I didn't wait for marriage, but she would still support me in every way, even now that I'm 25. Her mom shouldn't be like this. Her mom needs to *support* her and help her! For crying out loud! She made a mistake, but gained a beautiful blessing out of it! Why can't her mom see that?! My mom's always taught me and my brothers that we can come to her for everything; even if we're considering sex. We have the relationship where we can tell her every and anything. That's what her mom needs to do. She's probably scared and really needs a mama, like Ethan's, that wants to help her through this.

[@AnimatedBlast]

I’m Indian, having kids out of marriage isn’t even a possibility 😂. Let alone teen pregnancy

[@SA-rx3dv]

This is why kids in the West are so screwed. They know they can do whatever and get away with it. No discipline, no morals. Western family system is dead

[@Reptulia]

"I believe you need to let them suffer so they can learn" this woman is just vile. Instead of ending such a toxic cycle, she decided to carry it out. I hope he daughter breaks this

[@mocha8322]

Breaks this what? I am not telling mrkra what you should have done, (cause pass is the pass) but theres other options.

[@KiDDSOMfRADD10]

@@mocha8322 breaks the toxic cycle. Her mom is the way she is cause of her parents. Shes fucked up! All she cares about is herself.

[@paulhackett796]

The fact that she can say these things on TV. She must be way worse in person

[@charliedeegan1598]

@@mocha8322 forcing your trauma on your children is abusive as fuck

[@H20-t3g]

@@KiDDSOMfRADD10 "she only cares about herself" yet worked her ass off as a single mother for them to have a home, clothes and food.

[@pbg624]

“I didn’t kick her out she kicked herself out” “oh he didn’t get dinner because he didn’t clean the kitchen” “oh when she got pregnant it was so hard for me” wow what a toxic parent. Shame on her.

[@lillyadu2874]

It’s called teenage pregnancy for a reason. It’s not a great thing.

[@random.raw1214]

@@lillyadu2874 nobody said it was but kicking her out wasn’t gonna make her not pregnant

[@asiyyahmullen8777]

@@random.raw1214 my mom said she would kick me out but ig it is bad but being pregnant as a teenager is bad too

[@lanawild5201]

@@asiyyahmullen8777 its not gonna help because you're just kicking out your child that you said that you loved and not even help them. Teen pregnancy isn't the best but kicking your kid out doesn't help either.

[@LafiestaDeKicks]

Right coming from a person behind a cartoon profile who believes in vampires I see why they canceled vampire diaries on Netflix🤦‍♂️

[@aginahgohanna8193]

She's lucky to have her boyfriend and his family.

[@janecharlesworth5471]

You right you don't kick your child out no matter what they dun

[@Gaetano.94]

He's going to do it to her once she finds out that he's playing for the other team.

[@miyajackson9876]

This didn’t age well at all

[@usagiprincess4387]

@@miyajackson9876 wait pls tell me what happened

[@beetlesstrengthandpower1890]

@@usagiprincess4387 im not sure but I saw in the comments here somewhere that she got kicked out again, now from the other family

[@thressaritter-fl9uo]

I’m so glad she’s not living in a narcissistic household anymore. She is so blessed to have Ethan’s parents❣️

[@td9057]

Her mom's 38 damn. Wickedness can really age you a lot. She looks 48-50 but she's just 38

[@cecileenouyo2058]

Selon moi c'est le maquillage qui la vieillit...

[@muladeity]

right and she got pregnant young too, not as a teen but at 22?? vv close

[@payeldasgupta2317]

@@muladeity may be that's why she know the problems

[@muladeity]

@@payeldasgupta2317 yea that or her mom was like that to her or shes just a shitty person

[@ImpetuousPorkus]

Ethan’s parents are around the same age as her mom and they’re THRIVING. Really nice looking house, great family relationship, and they’re kind enough to take in someone in need.

[@jenniewright3045]

So basically, her mum is upset that she lost her maid. She's incredibly lucky to have a boyfriend like she does and his family are beautiful. The fact she doesn't feel comfortable around her mother, says a lot about her upbringing.

[@patriciabjeijeh909]

Her son is next to go with that kind of attitude.

[@JessikaRabbitt]

It's all about her

[@mattieonutube273]

Keep in mind, we are only seeing a fraction of what’s going on and what the tv network is portraying.

[@beatrizgarcia9637]

Yup! I came to the comments to say just this. I got pregnant at 21, and my mom had the same reaction because she knew it wasn’t going to be all about her anymore. Thankfully she’s come around.

[@AfricanGirl]

lol

[@paxielle]

Poor girl seems so heartbroken, I'm glad she has a good family with her boyfriend

[@Chillikilli]

@@abigailarmstrong6280 omg noo :,(

[@BetterDeath]

@@Chillikilli lol 💀 now you know why her mom is pissed 🤣 just another single teen mom

[@marisolmartinez5097]

“Why won’t me daughter come visit me?” Is a sentence this mom is going to repeat in the future if she doesn’t shape up.

[@ashleyoliva7588]

So the brother didnt do the dishes on time so he doesn't get to eat? And this is the next day and hes still not eaten? This mom is such a narcissist and this is abuse. His parents love and treat her better than her own!

[@traceygarner7764]

I don't understand how people think her "tough love" is ok. This isn't tough love... this is ABUSE! She's mad because she's losing control & like you said she's a narcissist.

[@cjrg2779]

I see your point but I also see that he is old enough to cook at least an egg or get cereal by himself and I can see why the mom is mad with her... she told her daughter to be careful and she admitted to only using protection the first time the had sex. I sure hope the mom stops being that nasty...but I am not surprised or shocked at her attitude.

[@ashleyoliva7588]

@@cjrg2779 yeah he should be able to make himself food but i think she wouldnt let him eat. Im assuming that means anything. Thats not cool.

[@kayharukawa]

@@cjrg2779 everyone seems to forget that part. they only used protection the FIRST time. that is irresponsible and both the daughter and her boyfriend should have known better. my mom would have done the same if that was how the cookie crumbled.

[@beasworld5155]

The mother is right

[@s.x33]

This happened to one of my sisters friends🥺 Her parents kicked her out thinking it was gonna teach her a lesson & 1month later she killed herself💔 They had to bury their daughter & grandchild

[@thiccredgyal3404]

I noticed that a lot of narcissists are siding with the Mom

[@madierin8525]

That's so sad 😭 parents need to think about their actions and actually help their children in a kind and loving way

[@ayeshapyesha7301]

Oh my god I felt physically sick reading this. I was a teen parent. I know what I went through mentally so I can only imagine what it must be like to have no support. That's absolutely horrific :'(

[@lilhoepeep731]

Ended up teaching those parents a lesson hopefully, sickening.

[@natasham.5329]

My mom always said even when growing up if this happened she would be disappointed but still be there for me

[@imtiredofyall4843]

So this woman didn’t feed her child dinner because of chores and then kicks out her pregnant daughter....yeah she’s a horrible mother

[@Thatgirlcodes]

I was made to stay at friends for a few days but I was never kicked out just think they needed time to think but when I came back there was a playpen

[@Miatta349]

@@Thatgirlcodes wtf They most likey wanted to surprise you🤦😂

[@myworld4739]

Exactly

[@claramerchant9210]

Right She shoul just have let her son get away with it and let him do whatever he wanted. And even though she spoke to her daughter over and over again about not ruining her life and getting pregnant she should just work ANOTHER job and pay for her daughters kid too. By the the way the daughter has giggled her way through this whole video aside from when she was playing the victim I would probably not have kicked out my kid But give me a break you people are acting like she is amonster because she is trying to teach her kids to be good reliable human beings.

[@oliviadetar1834]

Ikr but the pregnant one seemed pretty responsible to

[@christytolliver6763]

I admire Myrka for wanting to keep her harder classes even though she was pregnant and would be a mom soon. I hope your baby is doing great!

[@angelita711]

The mom is a narcissist, she’s just talking about herself ...

[@jcabcd.cwpt32]

“mY wOrLd CaMe CrAsHiNg DoWn” okay? What about the 16 yo that’s PREGNANT!? 🙄

[@annahclaire1765]

this is literally my mom

[@CariDMM]

@@annahclaire1765 mine too. She made our pregnancies about her. My sister was 18 when my nephew was born. I was 21 when my kid was born. They don't grow up or get real self-awareness.

[@ebony8802]

just like my mom but my moms delusional to it

[@ShannonsChannelURL84]

Right?' If that’s the worst thing she’s ever been through then she’s had an amazing life. I just lost my sweet Momma and THAT is the worst thing I’ve ever been through! I lost my Daddy too...she is...UGH

[@Madhulikayaps]

"abortion is wrong" *Proceeds to kick a pregnant woman out of the house*

[@trillmixedtj1572]

What does that have to do with abortion

[@lifewithace2780]

@@trillmixedtj1572 ikr

[@natalieh8023]

@@trillmixedtj1572 Because you don’t punish someone for keeping the baby when you’ve taught them abortion is wrong. It’s hypocritical.

[@Jaypouchie]

@@natalieh8023 But she said, myrka, ethan and his mom decided that. That mean she's not against it, she wanted her to get one .

[@natalieh8023]

@@Jaypouchie Her mom taking her to church has taught her daughter otherwise though so it’s still contradicting to expect her to get an abortion.

[@epicGamer-vi8ll]

HER BOYFRIEND IS SO KIND AND RESPECTFUL I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL FOR BOTH OF THEM 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@lianasoares8052]

@@beigeturtleneck7511, huh?

[@zhanelj_]

@StephanieDotDot umm tf that make no sense they both agree to do it I…..

[@miminbubs]

Beige Turtleneck LMFAOO IKR

[@paytonelizabeth4607]

@StephanieDotDot girl i don’t think you know how pregnancy works

[@vxjinin]

@StephanieDotDot well if she actually didn't want it then she wouldn't have gotten pregnant. There's no point of him being respectful or disrespectful.

[@ratafruity]

i started crying watching myrka crying as ethans mom talked about about how they were always going to love their son unconditionally even though they were disappointed he and myrka got pregnant. it is truly so sad to watch other parents show their children the type of love you know you will never get from your own parents. i hope myrka knows that even though ethan and his family arent blood related to her, their love for her can be that type of familial love that shes lacked from her mother

[@bree5020]

this honestly made me sad, the fact ur daughter took care of ur son for almost her whole childhood but you won’t be there for ur granddaughter? nor ur daughter?

[@hentai142]

Well the Daughter did work and payed the bill too right? Its not easy to be a single mother with kids and ofc the mom needed to work to pay bill and have food on the table and buy them things.

[@paulinacontreras4160]

@@hentai142 then her ass should’ve paid for daycare a child should NOT raise a child.

[@isabels33]

Exactly!!!!! That doesn’t make sense like girl she went beyond just being a sibling. She was basically a second mom to her brother and she took care of him but she can’t do even the smallest thing for her daughter. All she did was kick her out? That woman’s mentality is just crazy🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jeonggukculture9237]

@@isabels33 The mother did not kick her daughter out the daughter kicked herself out cause she thought her mom was gonna be crying for her back but no things don’t work like that

[@natallieanyssa4631]

@@jeonggukculture9237 nah her mom kicked her out and said that she kicked herself out by getting pregnant

[@fgcfelice]

What a terrible mother seriously, she’s a typical narcissist, projecting her failures or fears onto her daughter instead of taking some responsibility.

[@eddie._.n0]

her life, not yours

[@babyyynea5687]

@@eddie._.n0 that’s doesn’t make it not true ...

[@qwertyltrewq7556]

Bruh she is just mad that her daughter did that at that age Edit: also concerned not just mad

[@cainoipinge4266]

@@qwertyltrewq7556 Very much mad. A concerned mother wouldn't throw her daughter out of the house and say "you go your way, I go my way". That's not concern. If she was really concerned she would have been trying to take care of her.

[@qwertyltrewq7556]

@@cainoipinge4266 I do agree with you she went over board but what else would she do? Keep her home and just say don’t do it again. So it does not make her a bad parent for kicking her out. On top of that she probably gives her some type of support you know.

[@msfilipinamerican]

“She kicked herself out” That’s a manipulative tactic. Honestly, it’s no wonder that she went looking for love. If her mom refused to hold her as a young child, what did she think was gonna happen when she got older? I’m just glad that she’s with someone who seems to love her genuinely

[@thecommenter2295]

No. Mom had rules, daughter didn’t take them serious.

[@alyssakiser8882]

You got that right that is a perfect example of a horrible Mom

[@alyssakiser8882]

No no no no that's a bad mom and if you agree with that don't have kids because honey you are not meant to have children that mom should go to hell I am sorry but it's true

[@liv._.]

She did break the rules so understandable that the mom is mad but she should still be there for her even if she isn’t living with her and like they said it’s better for her to live with the boyfriend but her mom is being to harsh honestly she should want to be there because even if her kid is young and should’ve waited to get pregnant this is still her grand baby and she would love it

[@chasebrown7130]

Seems like mom has rules for the but not for me her mother can be abusive not listen be controlling & manipulative but if the kids start to have autonomy she'll end up alone thats her fear thats why shes turning her son into her new husband to take care of her in her later years because she cant find a partner

[@beanzandcats2945]

Props to Ethan and his family for taking responsibility and taking care of myrka when her mom kicked her out. The parents raised Ethan well

[@pumpkinjelly13]

The look on the brothers face when she said “guess what he didn’t get...dinner” was sooo sad... he looks so defeated. She’s a bad mom.... don’t have kids if you won’t love them and support them no matter what.

[@thiccredgyal3404]

I hope her kids put her in an old folks home

[@nolimitsshawty]

time stamp pls

[@k.o.h8446]

I don't think you should support your child "no matter what" depending on tbe situation, but yeah you should offer support both emotionally and financially.

[@JohnDoe-js9ti]

@@nolimitsshawty 4:46

[@JARTV]

I know I actually am friends with him same school,grade and we in the football team together

[@imogenpost2466]

in a lot of these the boyfriends don’t actually love or care about their girlfriends once they were pregnant but he genuinely does, i feel like he will always support her with their child and it’s nice to see.

[@writeonn1437]

Yeah I saw that too like the way he describes her was so loving. Kinda refreshing

[@snowwwshawty1876]

Yeah now he’s not even in the baby’s life

[@roxy06ify]

He has a good example in his father. I completely agree with your comment girl. 👍

[@stephaniecardenas863]

I grew up in a strict Mexican, Catholic household like hers. But my parents never treated us or spoke to us the way she does to her kids. My sister and I are in our 20s now but when we were teens, our parents said that while they would be disappointed if we got pregnant, they would be supportive and always love us unconditionally. And I’m actually shocked that she would have preferred she got an abortion. No que muy santita? Damn.

[@sallyduarte478]

Exactly! She's a faithful Catholic but suggests an abortion for her underage daughter? Like, what???

[@alexagurrola170]

An abortion is literally like a huge no no in the catholic faith. No que muy catolica es? Ya porque vas a la misa ya cree que eres una Santa! Thank Goodness she did not have the abortion. Cannot believe a mother not even a person like this!

[@miaa1762]

I am not a very religious person but I was like 'wtf' when they mentioned that she would have preferred her daughter to get an abortion. Like?? First of all, religion aside, you shouldn't force anyone, let alone your DAUGHTER, to get an abortion 😐 It can scar someone mentally FOR LIFE. But especially since she is catholic, isn't that against her religion??

[@TheVikingActual]

She's using that as an excuse for herself, not for us. She doesn't want to admit to herself that she's a shit parent.

[@welp5468]

Literally, my parents would be so disappointed, but they would never kick me out, atleast my mom HAHA, if my dad kicked me out, she would move out to I bet HA

[@rubycondron428]

I’m Mexican. Raised by a single mother and my aunt.When I was growing up in my teens my mom always told me if I ever got pregnant she’d do whatever she could to help me be successful with my baby she’d strap my baby onto her back while she worked (has always worked from home) so I could go to school if she ever needed to. Knowing you’d have that support and love makes you appreciate and make smarter decisions for yourself so that they would never need to. Now I’m almost 25, married and being asked when her nietos are coming.

[@relentlesley1630]

“In Mexico the culture is different the parents are very strict, and not loving”... okay so continue the generational trauma, instead of handling it and ending it...🤦🏼‍♀️ Her mom is so toxic and narcissistic!

[@ashleyimaginee8134]

Sadly that's how it is with the older generation of Mexicans, my family is the exact same way as well a lot of my friend's family, we cant really do anything about it bc if we speak our mind we're obviously just gonna be torn down by them, at least the current and younger generation of us mexicans will never treat our future family like that especially with all the trauma we've gone through

[@jenniferarriola3268]

You put my feelings into words

[@mariamacruz107]

@@ashleyimaginee8134 if you don’t mind me asking, why is the teen pregnancy rate higher for Hispanics/Latinos even though the families are super strict?

[@emotionaldamage9894]

@@mariamacruz107 yes I wanted to ask it as well. No hate, no judging just wanted to know please

[@mariamacruz107]

@@emotionaldamage9894 yes same, I don’t want to sound judgemental either

[@crazifyit]

I hate that she is pregnant so young, but Ethan and her are just so adorable together. I'm so glad these two have Ethan's parents. Ethan's family is wonderful! Myrka's mother is brutal, heartless and negligent! It is sad!

[@bst9148]

They are no longer together from what I’ve read.

[@njay4399]

@@bst9148 That’s the problem with teens getting pregnant, they think it’s real love, that they’ll marry and be for each other till the day they die, but reality hits quick and once you become an adult that reality can change everything

[@mizzekp]

Ethan’s mum kicked them out . According to Myrka , Ethan isn’t involved in his daughters life and Myrka moved back into her mum’s house with her daughter

[@leocardiafelipe3541]

@@njay4399 you said the same problem with most adults today.

[@JD-ht7yw]

@@njay4399 You think they wanna get pregnant? More like the problem of the EXPECTATION of teens NOT to have sex

[@amygarcia2202]

as a mexican young woman...yes, this is also my mom. Despite getting into college on a full ride and starting medical school this year, my mom still reminds me that if i get pregnant all of her dreams will be shattered and i will become an embarrasment to her

[@marielynieto2749]

😞bro it's literally almost all mexican moms.. I feel for you

[@XxWatulookinat69xX]

Then dont get pregnant until your of age...

[@moccisimo]

@@XxWatulookinat69xX that's not the point the point is parents living vicariously through their children are fucking hell and will drop you the second you do something they dislike 🙄

[@psychedelic.dreamer]

@@XxWatulookinat69xX please never have children if that's how you really feel. Good god.

[@frizzyhairedgirl]

Latina moms tend to be soooo toxic. I don't even mention fathers because oftentimes they just vanish and abandon their children. My mom once told me, when I was around 10 years old, that if I ever got pregnant, she'd die of sadness 🙄 I didn't even understand the whole pregnancy process. Luckily that never happened and I'm now 25 and able to call her on her BS.

[@ladystarlite5]

Wow the way Myrka's mom called her grandchild "That Baby" .. this broke my heart. Myrka is already the best Mother in the world 💖💞

[@selenagarcia5448]

“Let them suffer so they can learn” 🥴 I NEVER want my kids to question my love I have for them

[@victoriaconcepcion8631]

YO IM SAYING

[@gabbylopez9091]

Amen. The only "suffering" my brothers and I went to was when we would get spanked or smacked for misbehaving, if that even counts. It's like the mom only had her daughter around to do everything for her. Once she was pregnant and actually *needed* her mom, she left because she had no use for her anymore. I hope this young lady and her boyfriend are doing wonderful!

[@armandolira4456]

It is the best way to learn I had to go to jail and learn then have my mom and dad back me up now I’m mature and raising my family

[@2delicious57]

Letting a child learn from their mistakes is love not neglect, if your kids think that you don’t live them because you let them Learn their lesson first and then help them, then they are the ones with the problem not the parents

[@oh.s]

@@gabbylopez9091 Decades of read earth has shown that spanking your kids does not work and is actually bad for them. Also, why is it accepted that grown adults can physically assault someone 1/3 their age and much smaller and weaker than then just bc the adult is a parent?

[@natm2443]

I’m crying. All I wanna do is hug that poor girl. “You kicked yourself out of the house.” Sweet Jesus. She’s not ugly: she’s heartless and abusive.

[@H20-t3g]

She's right. She did it to herself.

[@ThePinkHardHat]

@@H20-t3g yeah she did have a point but doesn’t mean she has to be heartless and a abusive like nat said.

[@joannafernandez6565]

@@H20-t3g I agree

[@Mmmtruk]

@@H20-t3g at the core of the concept of what her mom said, mom kicked her daughter out

[@serenasimms1400]

@@H20-t3g you realize it’s illegal to kick your under age child out? Her mom did it to her and should have served time 💀. It was absolutely heartless.

[@kayleighlaurie1185]

Just because you’re pregnant doesn’t mean u can’t be successful

[@shaniyajulie]

And i think alot of people get that shit confused !!! Cause cause you get pregnant doesn’t mean your gonna be a homeless junky on the street !!

[@octaviahollywood635]

Please say that again !!!

[@icyunvme2400]

No but it can be more difficult especially if you’re young coming from a dysfunctional/toxic family

[@rubyyy325]

you cant watch a kid while youre in college, working, etc

[@sabinakhan4051]

@@rubyyy325 exactly! Why do people make it out it's easy to just become anything 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jessinthesky9232]

No sympathy for this couple if they weren't even attempting to use protection. Time to grow up!

[@jemaloha1213]

Ethan's parents is like a look-a-like couple of them in the future.

[@strawberryfields222]

I know holy shit she looks like their child haha

[@elsie3724]

For real when his dad and mom were on screen I had looked away at first and was so confused why Ethan was talking about himself in the third person lol

[@JessicaTayB]

“In my culture, we didn’t love” is basically what she’s saying.

[@Cindyslifeandlikes]

It's a real thing, but it's so good to see the guy's parents have a totally different response. They learned from their environment and Myrkas mom is just perpetuating it.

[@jenrhemgotcha1417]

That's how my hispanic parents were

[@ella6634]

Unfortunately that's how it is a lot of the time

[@caseyanthonysbabysittingservi]

Just because that’s usually how it is, doesn’t mean it’s right or that it should continue. Remember that.

[@metheanimallover]

There's a difference between being more strict and less physically affectionate as a parent versus being abusive like this mother

[@mariarobles1256]

Mothers like this question their children years later asking “why don’t you want a relationship with me.” And act surprised at the fact that they’re no longer a person they want involved..

[@jodeemackenzie]

This!! My husbands parents are like this. He got a girl pregnant at 18 and they got married, it didnt work out and they tell him its his fault. That he did it all wrong and hes a terrible person....then turn around and say idk why we cant see you or the grandkids.....hmmm i wonder. Smh

[@toxicmilia1144]

@Nevaeh Yessenia Yeah but 18 isn’t legal everywhere, maybe where they live it’s considered a minor

[@nopecomehere9230]

This

[@MsVamPireChic]

Literally.

[@ms.untypical3575]

The reason I abstained from sex in highschool was that I didn't want to be a statistic. I feel for both of them.

[@himmy_turner_]

that good and all but condoms are a thing

[@TheBeautifulOne_Char]

Condoms do not 100 percent prevent pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases 💯 only ABSTINENCE

[@bhazerelli7611]

​@@himmy_turner_They don't always work. Why do so many people want teens to have sex? It's so disturbing.

[@himmy_turner_]

@@bhazerelli7611 im a teen myself i don’t want us to be screwing around but we know it’s going to happen teach safe sex not abstinence

[@bhazerelli7611]

@himmy_turner_ Nah. Teens are capable of abstaining and they should be expected to. Lowering standards has not worked at all, it has increased teen pregnancy. Teen pregnancy happened before but nowhere near as much as it does now.

[@pwr2th3peaceful]

The worst thing that has ever happened to HER? All this mother thinks about is herself. I feel so sad for Myrka.

[@maddielove4979]

Yup seems narcissistic

[@sgiiprizz7510]

Omg so she can’t have feelings?

[@pwr2th3peaceful]

@@sgiiprizz7510 not those feelings. This woman is straight abusive.

[@Mariidhatchick1127]

This is how I grew up we were not allowed to show emotion or give my mother a hug we got disciplined for it I feel so bad for her

[@Mar-vt2iy]

Finding out your daughter is pregnant at such a young age is one of the worst feelings. It completely delays everything for them that they could’ve accomplished.

[@angelie1875]

The mom doesn’t care about the daughter. All she talks about how much the pregnancy has affected her and not the daughter. “It was so hard on me” how do you think the daughter feels?

[@amandawithlov3908]

The mom said "this is the worse thing that ever happened to ME" and I was FLOORED. Like Jesus women, this isn't even about you.

[@theresashores2512]

She’s pregnant, it’s not like she killed somebody

[@miminbubs]

Nanospark1 boy stfu

[@chynaadadoll]

@@miminbubs litterally

[@ederadee]

She's ruining her life. You're ignorant as hell at how 16 year olds getting pregnant and keeping the hellspawn ruins their life and the family at large.

[@MNcoquicoqui]

It's a taboo in Spanish culture to be pregnant before getting married. Mother's of pregnant daughters are looked down. I'm from the area Mirka is from, and statistics show these girls don't go to college. Most are on welfare with multiple children fathered by different men. It's a nasty cycle. I don't agree with Mirkas mom (my mom was identical to her) attitude, but I understand where it was coming from.

[@yumii.2123]

@@ederadee this is an insult to most moms because most moms that are in their 30’s and up had a child at 15+. It’s nothing new.

[@StormySeas4596]

"I'm not a lovey dovey person." Then why did you have kids if you weren't going to love them?

[@shannonwilliams773]

It’s really sad that she has to listen to his parents say that they love him unconditionally and they will always be there for him when she hasn’t received the same

[@PrincessOverDoesIt]

Myrka’s mom is a hypocrite. “I will not raise a child that is not mine” yet her daughter has been pretty much raising her siblings... and how can you be devout Catholic and FOR terminating her pregnancy.

[@honest7535]

right?

[@IncredibleIceCastle]

She won’t raise a child either way is what she means

[@megrit9742]

My mom is the same way. She always said she kicked me out at 15 for being pregnant because she didn’t want one more child to raise when she wasn’t even raising the children she had, I WAS! Now my older sister has my little brother and sister, I have my child, and my mom has none of us because of her cruel and selfish ways.

[@NotMyChickieNuggies]

My mom was upset when she found out I was pregnant. She didn’t speak to me for weeks. I will never forget her words when I told her: “Thank you for ruining what should have been a beautiful moment.” But once she saw my ultrasound, she fell in love as gave the baby and me her full love and support. I am still thankful to her to this day. I couldn’t have done it without her. What’s done is done. She needs to be there for her child and grandchild. She wasn’t (and isn’t a good mother), but she has a chance to be a good abuelita and she should embrace that.

[@IncredibleIceCastle]

@@NotMyChickieNuggies how old were you? That determines the potential of “beauty” in that moment. If you were under 21 and unmarried I’d say your reasonable expectations for maternal excitement in that moment were capped at “mixed bag” at best 😂

[@elizabeth8270]

You can just see the sadness on her face whenever she talks about her mother. It's heartbreaking. I grew up with one of the most strict parents I can think of, my former Marine of a father, and I could likely relate to her on many levels when it comes to the interactions she has with her parents but my father always made it very clear that if something like this were to happen while I was still living under his roof he would support me 100% in raising a child. I cant imagine the pain she must feel from how heartless her mother is

[@ashleyhenley8413]

My folk was also very strict lock you out the house for no reason and etc

[@abbystephens9766]

The mother did the right thing she’s too young.

[@stephaniecoggins733]

LoL 😂 sounds like me growing up my dad was a drill sergeant and ran the local RTC no body dared to date me

[@gabbylopez9091]

That's what my mom said! I don't understand why the mom is being so indignant! It was an accident, but a beautiful accident! That's probably why she never came to her mom to talk with her about sex because her mom acts like this. My mom was abused as a child, and has *never* treated me and my brothers the way her parents treated her and her siblings, so her mom has no excuse.

[@rebeccapeacock8279]

Can we talk about how much love Ethan treats myrka with. I found it so sweet how you can see in his eyes he would do anything for her

[@adisenimilicovunisaqa7799]

Myrka and Ethan are just a splitting image of Ethan's parents 😳

[@moho873]

And not in a good way

[@livelife3719]

@@moho873 oh stfu stop being rude

[@moho873]

@@livelife3719 honesty isn't being rude, but taking time out to @ someone and tell to "stfu" is 😂🤣

[@livelife3719]

@@moho873 why be rude “ Not in a good way “ stfu

[@moho873]

@@livelife3719 🤣😂 ok kiddo

[@ELPRES1DENTE45]

Obviously, they were just being extra studious with their biology assignments.

[@coconuthead8616]

They passed the pregnancy test too

[@amiahspencer829]

😂😂

[@courtneyblair5527]

😂😂

[@ELPRES1DENTE45]

@@coconuthead8616 - Well, yeah. They studied extra hard.

[@inkasilasakti5264]

🤣🤣

[@yukaori784]

That women disgusts me. The fact that she threw her child, her own daughter out of the house because she was pregnant is disgusting to me. I could never, EVER do that to my daughter.

[@littlepetkingdome7492]

The sad reality is many families do that😬 especially in hispanic households. Its made clear that a baby at a young age wont be tolerated

[@valentinamarie9005]

she warned her. myrka knew the consequences and she still did it. the mother is right,

[@khristinabee]

...and calling herself a Catholic, but demanding an abortion. She lost her maid, and control. What a hard, ugly heart.

[@ariesbaby5672]

@@valentinamarie9005 I’m sure that you’ve done things you weren’t supposed to before

[@anythingmimi]

Same with families in the Philippines. Not all of them but most of them.

[@Kokomoiro]

Anyone else feel like that after the baby's born Myrkas mom is going to suddenly want to see the baby?

[@Emily-cw7tj]

I feel like that too

[@idc4163]

The mom really thinks she’s the victim😭

[@emotionaldamage9894]

Delusion

[@olpporsetty]

Pretty classic narcissist behavior

[@yahairanajera7322]

She really said “ I will not raise a child that is not mine” yet her daughter was raising her brother🙄

[@mirikira8632]

She didn't exactly raise her brother. Let's start there. You're cooking a bit and cleaning, is not raising a child. Plus her mom was not out there partying in bars, she was working to put food on the table. Could a 9 year old child do that? No.

[@lupitaaa5625]

@@mirikira8632 i agree! the mom was working and trying to support her family. if she could barely afford food on the table what makes people think she could afford a babysitter? I do think she could be more supportive to her daughter tho :(

[@lettipehara4354]

@@mirikira8632 but you shouldn’t do it at the age of 9. Before anything else, the kid is hers. If it was an only child she would find her way through it but just because she has another kid at home doesn’t make it ok to throw these responsibilities to her

[@miaa1762]

@@mirikira8632 A 9-year-old shouldn't be cooking and looking after another child. At nine, you're a child yourself. Stop defending this mom.

[@mirikira8632]

@@miaa1762 at 9 you are old enough to be a good kid, to do basic things like an omelet and do basic cleaning. Every kid in my generation did it. I don't know of one friend of mine who didn't do this. It taught us responsibility and structure. If my mom worked 2-3 jobs, I wouldn't be that ungrateful as to wait for her with a messy home. I made my bed every single day until I stayed in that house. Don't think that Myrka was required to do some sophisticated cooking. She chopped some salad, fried some eggs. She was required to do the dishes, which I have done since I was 6. She was required to take out the trash, not that difficult either. She learned things that will help her in life, so she should stop complaining. She is not a damn victim here.

[@sunflowerbelle9797]

Mom is low-key borderline abusive like at the part where her son said he was hungry and she told the girl that because he didn’t do the dishes he didn’t get to eat food

[@thatgirl3960]

Poor kid, I felt for him.

[@wafflewafflegod]

“Dude, you’re making me sound, like, easy or something.” - Teenager who put out after knowing the guy for 1 week

[@jaylani01]

the fact she said that her daughter won’t have a future bc shes pregnant at a young age is honestly heartbreaking. All children deserve loving parents, all parents dont deserve loving children🤌🏽

[@sambito702]

Yeah that’s BS. I was pregnant when I was 18, had my son at 19, and BECAUSE of my parents support I finished college and am now working on a masters.

[@allyabbott3601]

@@sambito702 I’m in the same situation. I’ll be 19 when I have my baby. My parents have been there for me from the very beginning.

[@sambito702]

@@allyabbott3601 best of luck to you! You can do it. Both my (now husband) and I graduated from our undergrad program with honors. My husband attended one of the best law schools in the country and is now an attorney. I’m now attending the same school, working on a masters in social work. We did all of this while raising and providing for a child. Don’t think we could have without parental support...

[@starchannel123]

Yes. Schools are actually decently supportive of young mothers so there is no need to overreact. People are always so afraid of a little bit of hardship.

[@jaylani01]

@@allyabbott3601 Good luck love you can do anything you put your mind too!!

[@angeln2550]

I feel like she is going to prove to her baby how a real parent should love. She’ll give her baby every hug she would ever need because she knows what it feels like to not have them 😪❤️

[@zurdi33]

Yes!! I had that mom who never hugged me or kissed me bc she was a strict Mexican mom and now i have a 3 year old and i hug her and kiss her and tell her how much i love her. I hope she does the same

[@desertmoonlee6631]

@@zurdi33 well it doesn’t always work like that. Many boys grew up with dads beating their mothers and do the same thing

[@FaithMichelle420]

@@desertmoonlee6631 but she’s not in a physically abusive home.. neither is her kid.. so like what’s the comparison

[@aussiemma8426]

Lol what are you people talking about ? You don’t even know these people

[@Glenys8080]

Heck yes!! Unconditional love.

[@sadie5351]

I couldn’t imagine how crushing it is for Myrka to have your mother reject you after all she did for her mother growing up. She’s a good kid who stumbled into the arms of what seems to be a better family environment for her and her baby.

[@abbystephens9766]

I think the mom did the right thing she’s too young.

[@whatamachine89]

Myrka's mother is a pure narcissist. So is mine. I truly feel for Myrka.

[@whatamachine89]

@Nevaeh Yessenia no, because her mother is a painfully obvious narcissist

[@linamalepeai9956]

Mind too !!! I felt Myrka’s pain . She’s so tough and I hope she becomes a better mother to her child .

[@lissaC.W.]

Yeah she has some kind of personality disorder. Idk my mom is Latina and I know she wouldn’t kick me out if I got pregnant. she is a helicopter mom that’s for sure but I rather have that than Myrka’s mom. I’m Latina/Jewish there is no way I would kick my daughter out if she got pregnant. Just help her through it the best I can. Of course as a parent you don’t want these kind of things but unfortunately these things sometimes happen.

[@backtfup7410]

“I can not bring up a child that is not mine.” But you made you daughter “bring up” you own son....

[@giannaj99]

It's so toxic when parents blame it on the "culture" instead of taking responsibility for their bad behavior and being a horrible parent

[@ThesePartiesAreResponsible]

Facts

[@samosez1929]

I’m from that same culture yet I know better than to continue these toxic practices it’s sad that a lot of the older generations from my culture don’t take accountability and just do these things because that’s how things have always been

[@2delicious57]

It’s truly is the culture as it affect many people over a long period of time,

[@danielledanielle2501]

That little girl was wrong and foolish to let that boy get her pregnant. That girl is a horrible daughter for doing that to her family.

[@oliwiakrzyzoszczak517]

I kind of agree with the mother a little bit, because it's a child having a child, and every person's actions have consequences, if Myrka thought she's an adult who can have sex then she can take care of her own child, there's a saying "You sleep in your bed exactly how you make it".

[@freedommatters7677]

Selfish

[@krista3686]

The worst thing mom has gone through!?!? Myrka is going through it. I thought being religious meant forgiveness. There’s no forgiveness here.

[@patsyayy4505]

And selfish. God doesn’t like ugly.

[@lianasoares8052]

krista, but she warned Myrka ahead of time on what will happen if she got pregnant. Hey, I'm not taking sides. I'm simply just saying what I heard in the video.

[@Rae0f_Sunshine]

@@lianasoares8052 seeing as you’re writing this exact statement on every comment negatively left about the poor excuse for a mom I would say you’re picking sides... and for some reason have a vendetta against a 16 year old who was abandoned by her “mom”

[@tahjjj1488]

Just because a person claims to be a Christian doesn’t mean she/he is one.

[@هدي-ه8ظ]

@Chad Mower makes sense. Be against killing innocent life

[@caligirlmarti]

The child is not hers??? The child is her grandchild! It's got her blood running through it's veins. That mom is effed up!

[@anshuneupane8882]

@@sashaboo72 lol she does look old

[@anshuneupane8882]

@@sashaboo72 ya i can see that her being in her late 40's or early 50's

[@kevinwilson705]

@@sashaboo72 are you slow

[@lianasoares8052]

Marti, but that child didn't come out of her. It came out of her daughter. Still family but Myrka is her child.

[@CandyBoot]

Grandparents aren’t supposed to raise grandkids though. That’s the parent’s job.

[@user-ge8qx4he4s]

No one talking about the fact that they seem like a really healthy couple even tho their young

[@goofing_]

The guy's family seems so warm and welcoming wow

[@shirleybender]

I am in shock how cruel the mother is. For being such a strong Catholic… Maybe she should open her Bible and read about forgiveness and read about how God is love.! Children are a BLESSING. NOT The ultimate sin we can commit. May God change her heart and restore their relationship

[@thiccredgyal3404]

I'm annoyed by the hags that are siding with the Mom

[@velvetthunder3856]

Strong Catholic but wanted an abortion for her daughter?

[@b.rose.a.7338]

AMEN AMEN AMEN!!! 🌹

[@silviapascual977]

Rite. For so called catholic she needs to open her heart, mind, and eyes

[@hi.goodbye2167]

Agreed!

[@marian8229]

I don’t give af about how much the mom sacrificed for her child!. She’s part of the reason why her daughter turned out like that! A lot of girls who lack emotional support from parents want emotional feelings from a guy so they do what they do and end up pregnant.

[@I_AM_90s]

I agree... it’s sad but harsh truth. The mom started this.

[@zeeeefineass1930]

True

[@icyunvme2400]

Not always

[@427skies]

Idk if that was the case. Ethan actually is caring. You can end up pregnant with loving parents or end up not pregnant with crappy parents. It's just an unfortunate situation but it is what it is.

[@thatonegirl3934]

My mom was accepting and supportive when I found out I was pregnant because it was already done and there was no point punishing me for it. I ended up eventually growing and evolving and being a successful single mother because of that.

[@mariecat1806]

My sister was in a similar situation to you. Mom had the downstairs of the house renovated into like a little apartment with a kitchen, two bedrooms, a living room, play room, and full bathroom, so her and her partner can feel like they have their own space but are still always supported and have family around. You are an amazing, wonderful, strong, powerful woman. I may be a complete stranger but I am so proud of you and all you’ve accomplished for yourself and your child! Your child is so lucky to have you as their mother. 😊❤️ (I have a soft spot for single mothers because of my sister. I hope you have a great day)

[@kimberlyasitimbay8366]

I found out I was pregnant in august like a week after my 15th birthday and my mom didn’t kick me out but wanted me to get an abortion look into adoption but I said no and she would make me feel worthless and make me feel bad about myself because I was pregnant and she wouldn’t let me take breaks because it’s my fault for getting pregnant and if I can do that then I can clean around the house, run errands for her, take care of the kids that she babysits, and cook. I would cry everyday and it was too much stress and I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks and everything has gone downhill from there and my mom didn’t let me grieve properly either because it was better that way and that I shouldn’t cry and my dad would barely talk to me and so many other things have happened now and I’m in the darkest place I’ve been in in my life (I’ve been depressed since I was 12 but never this bad)

[@centigradz]

It really depends on the person. But I think the affection should have been there before she found the boy so that she wouldn't have gone to a boy to get the affection she needed. I know a girl who had amazing parents who took her in. But as soon as she got the support she started going out clubbing, drinking and smoking with her baby daddy. And when her baby daddy dumped her she started dating older guys and then her parents were left with taking care of her kid and even doing her homework so that she would graduate high school. Her dad had to take extra jobs to pay for diapers and he got ill and passed away. It was torment for the parents. There were daily fights that were in front of the baby. That girl never learned her lesson and it cost her parent's life.

[@traceygarner7764]

@@kimberlyasitimbay8366 I'm sooo sorry. This is truly disgusting & it is wrong of your mother to treat you this way. I'm sorry for the loss of your unborn baby. You should talk to someone & grieve properly. I hope you find the help you need.

[@georgina-a]

@@kimberlyasitimbay8366 I'm so sorry to read about your situation. Please know that you are important, special and loved - regardless of what your mother says. Every child deserves a parent but, sadly, not every parent deserves a child. I grew up with abusive parents, too, and I understand just how hard it is. Nothing you do is ever good enough. But things *do* get better. I got out of there in the most constructive way I could (uni and then the military) &, once I was out of that environment, I realised that nobody else called me names or thought I was worthless. The problem was my parents, not me. I cut them out of my life and have never been happier. You sound like you are in a very vulnerable place right now. *Please* look up support services in your area - particularly grief counselling/support. Many have free helplines and your mother never needs to know that you've spoken to them if that's safer, but I beg you to get the help and support you need. You are worth it, you are important. If you are able to, stick with school, talk to your careers adviser/school counsellor and teachers, and figure out a constructive path out of the situation you are in that will give you the tools to support yourself. It helps to have that light at the end of the tunnel, I promise you. I'm most likely old enough to be your Mum. Sending you a huge virtual hug. You've got this, sweetheart 💖 x

[@kerryalabama6716]

I will always be here for my kids. No matter what!

[@kimchidoll898]

I don’t like the mother, she seems cold. Not everyone is meant to be a mother

[@lianasoares8052]

KIMCHI DOLL, but she warned Myrka ahead of time on what will happen if she got pregnant. Hey, I'm not taking sides. I'm simply just saying what I heard in the video.

[@XiraKira13]

Not everyone is meant to be a mother but the whole world pressures women to have children no matter what

[@jeonggukculture9237]

That’s just how Hispanic mothers are they come off cold hearted and selfish but it’s called TOUGH LOVE

[@holagirl7144]

Liana Soares why are u saying this everywhere

[@lauren3010]

I don’t think she’s cold at all. She clearly LOVES her daughter and has standards for her daughter, like all parents do.

[@freespirit_oldsoul5589]

Her mother doesn’t understand that by treating Myrka the way she does and basically being heartless towards her, it’s setting her up for a bigger loss already. Notice how people who have strong bonds and a supporting family end up better later in life despite having been in a difficult situation. Besides her mother is a bit hypocritical when being so harsh to her, but at the same time not seeing how wrong it is using her to take care of her little brother. That wasn’t Myrkas responsibility, but she had to as a consequence of her mother’s decisions.

[@Pinkfairydust23]

Sometimes people need to understand tough love. She doesn’t need to kiss myrka’s ass because she decided to not follow directions and has reprocussions. Now mom is expecting to coddle her? THIS is why people get pregnant. Cus they know the rest of the world is going to treat them like it was some kind of horrible accident. Her making her raise her brother and her not supporting a mistake she chose to make (which they both admitted) are two different things. Kids get away with everything. Just go ahead and get pregnant and expect your parents to help! :)

[@haleyt3754]

@@Pinkfairydust23 she deserves to feel loved by her mother and needs that support system...

[@kayharukawa]

@@haleyt3754 that doesn't change the fact that she was irresponsible. they used protection the first time and then ditched it after for a "better experience". that is just immaturity. the mom went too far but the daughter was being far too careless.

[@haleyt3754]

@@kayharukawa I agree :)

[@Silveryback]

Well-written.

[@traceygarner7764]

I am truly disgusted by this woman. I am even more disgusted that there are people in the comments who think that the way she's treating her child is ok. I am 38 years old & had my first child at 16. My father had passed & my mom had 4 children to raise on her own. Yes, she cried & was heartbroken that I got pregnant. I would hear her cry at night in the next room & it would tear me to pieces, but you know what... she NEVER GAVE UP ON ME & NEVER TREATED ME LIKE THIS WOMAN TREATS HER DAUGHTER. I thought my momma was super woman. She did it all & if it wasn't for her love & support I wouldn't have made it. She told me I can be whatever I wanted to be. I can STILL have a life, be a mother, & she would be right there as long as God allowed her to be. All the stereotypes about teenage mothers in these comments are just as disgusting! People like this is the reason why I succeeded. I was already an A student in school, but even when people counted me out I went on to graduate college MAGNA CUM LAUDE & have a decent career that pays well. All those that laughed, pointed fingers, & made comments STILL have nothing going for themselves. Those same people had sex before marriage but curled their noses at me. I feel sorry for this young woman. The one person that's supposed to be there & that should be there is not. I wish her & her family well through all of this.

[@AccessTrinity]

I felt sick reading all these comments. It's crazy how people are supportive of this mother who emotionally neglected her children, but dump on the daughter? Granted teen pregnancy is a life changing thing, but holy shit people are even more heartless than the so-called mom here.

[@jademarie912]

I know the mother is wrong but you guys have to understand that hurt people hurt people. She probably grew up in the same way and that’s probably all she knows. She wanted her daughter to have a better life than she did, to grow up and be successful and then have children so her daughter could be there for her kids and not live paycheck to paycheck like she was. And she was most likely afraid of having to raise another kid when she was already struggling with two of her own

[@hicosexistence1046]

People like myrka’s mom are usually the ones later trying to reconcile with their children in an attempt to start playing grandma. It’s honestly just sad, but you can’t always expect things to go your way when you choose to become a parent. I just hope everything goes well for her.

[@ashleyriosrizo]

Facts

[@taliaasims]

Yup. That’s my mom now smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@taliaasims]

Best comment. Because it’s real!

[@desertmoonlee6631]

@@taliaasims you are spoiled brat that’s it and expect everything to be handed to you and then complain when things don’t go the way you want

[@rainbowpandasays8851]

The mom doesn’t believe in birth control , iud , pills , nexplanon but, does believe In abortions - . 🤦‍♀️

[@beckkeyihine2205]

Yeah seems weird especially if she is catholic because I would think abortion is a big no no for them.

[@s.w.d4010]

That’s how most Catholics are. The Catholic Church is against all forms of birth control. BUT If a situation comes up where an abortion is needed, or required most Catholics turn a blind eye to it.

[@KabbitPatch]

An abortion is not a form of bc

[@loribonner6884]

ABORTION is not birth control!!!!

[@beckkeyihine2205]

@@s.w.d4010 i didn't know that wow seems really odd doesn't it.

[@bingeyeat]

She is so narcissistic, she keeps saying “I” but it’s never about her daughter. It honestly disgusted how manipulative she was when she started crying and saying “MY world came crashing down” like dude??? Think how your daughter feels.

[@gabbylopez9091]

Exactly! It's like she has no empathy or anytihng! Her motto is, "You got pregnant?! Get out!" Like why?

[@kellyr3179]

did her mom force her to get pregnant? as a single mother, it must have been tough for the mom and her two kids. So the mom knows where she is coming from. Are teens so horny these days that can't use their brains only after they see the results of their irresponsible actions?? Prevent it!!! There are tons of options.

[@stefanieschneider8884]

Very narcissistic yes

[@aussiemma8426]

@@stefanieschneider8884 lol you people judge someone over a few mins of tv

[@verjuices]

@@aussiemma8426 are you slow? if she have no problem in portraying herself as a narcissist on television then she is obviously most likely to be a horrible person.

[@ccaelah]

“my world came crashing…it’s the worst thing i’ve ever gone through” it wasn’t ur world to be crushed and it’s not ur thing ur going through.

[@anaispersephone6041]

I think the mom feels betrayed because she was working hard to make sure her daughter had a better life than she did and teen pregnancy can sometimes derail someone's future. I understand where both sides are coming from but I think therapy would them greatly with their relationship.

[@writeonn1437]

Yeah but kicking a pregnant teen out the house was not a smart move. It made her look like she only cares about herself.

[@mitraavesta7548]

I hate teen pragnancy

[@grumpoggo2636]

@aesthblooded. riley I know that she (the mother) should face repercussions for kicking out a minor. But I think that just because you were not loved as a child that is no excuse to get pregnant at 16. And sorry bout saying “disgrace”. Poor choice of words.

[@OrangeCopperTop]

Well I can understand that she feels disappointed about the pregnancy, but not one bit of this 'performance' is about love. She also left her daughter's baby daddys family to pay all the medical expenses as this baby is: 'not her problem' I hope that Myrka doesn't allow her any access to the baby because she’s her problem’.

[@KingsnowmanzThe1st]

I fully respect your opinion but when someone has a baby is when a time a kid needs there mother most you don't just go and kick them out like what if the baby isn't healthy