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[@sassytela]

Just to clarify, for all the people wondering why the couple's have different surname is because Islamically the wife keeps her surname. However some people still choose to take on their husbands surname.

[@jahedapatel9292]

sassytela .

[@brownasiankid1782]

that is rlly good

[@tvxyzn]

So if they were to have children, would they have their fathers surname?

[@sassytela]

Tee yh

[@evar5831]

I cannot but love Islam uh

[@oumo.3495]

The comment section is so positive!!! I was afraid I'd read bigoted things about Muslims but no I didn't.

[@ADCB510]

Oum O. Yes correct

[@laylaabuobeid6290]

Exactly! I’m so happy

[@aaliyaha1587]

Paola A. Sanchez lol troll

[@queenari543]

Paola A. Sanchez bush

[@ochavty6260]

Paola A. Sanchez those people aren't Muslims smh, they go against literally everything we believe in. smh get educated.

[@emoticonfeliz2129]

Non muslim couples: -So bby we've been togheter 8 years now, how are we going to get married? -Don't rush it, someday Meanwhile muslim couples: -So at the end of our first phone call we decided to get married xd

[@umuhawajalloh3729]

Why u say that is always good to no each other before marriage in a good way

[@emoticonfeliz2129]

@@umuhawajalloh3729 It was a joke, I know

[@umuhawajalloh3729]

@@emoticonfeliz2129 good

[@puurrrr]

I don't get the dating thing. You love each other? Then get married. Jesus.

[@emoticonfeliz2129]

Well, for us muslim, I think the engagemnet is the equal for dates to non-muslims, you're not married, but you are taking the relationship seriously and you get to see eachother more and interact more, so you get to know the other part better, and if it doesn't work it's just an engagement, you can break it in any moment

[@OfficialZari99]

the girl in the red dress is beyond stunning😍😍😍

[@nunuuwu5099]

Zari Hood she’s from Saudi arabia💘

[@Reneeri]

@yasminASMR Abdurahman no, she did not say anything about that. Please do not bring any unnecessary conflict in this comment section.

[@arifchowdhury8855]

yasminASMR Abdurahman no look at the girls facial structure it’s very symmetrical and pleasing to the eye. She is attractive full stop. If she had hijab or not I’d think the same thing

[@leemieee]

I think they r all stunning mashallah

[@pingping-jr4kk]

She is beautiful not like her

[@peppa_pig_]

they're all so pretty

[@katherinex9166]

The women are, not sure about all the men

[@ADCB510]

Bertha Lovejoy yes MashaAllah

[@justice_k6440]

BRUH...I know. I want o get married now lol

[@Nada-zy4xp]

Mohammed never married 9 year old Aisha. That's a LIE and a big myth you miserable person. Aisha was a woman when she married Mohammed. And she was already married before getting a divorce from her husband and then getting married to Mohammed. Many sources from the days Mohammed was alive mentioned that Aisha was in her 20's when she was married. So, she was a woman NOT a girl. And Mohammed has never married a little girl. God does NOT choose prophets to commit sin like marrying little girls or killing people or other lies people have been spreading about Mohammed ever since Mohammed was alive thousands of years ago.

[@Nada-zy4xp]

@Fishers Dad...I'm a Middle Eastern Northern Arab woman and my religion is Shia Islam(Shia Muslim) and I am born with white skin. Most of my family have white skin and even much whiter skin than Europeans. And some of my family have olive skin with Arab green eyes and other Arab light eye colors. In Northern Middle East most pure blooded Middle Eastern people such as Northern Arabs, Turks, Persians,.etc. actually have white skin and olive skin NOT brown skin.

[@Nono-xe4ge]

I think the Muslims in the west are actually more serious about habits and tradition and religion ...more that the Muslim countries, itself where people started to get more open to relationships and stuff

[@الجزائرعربية-ق8ظ]

That's not true

[@Houdasoumiahemaz]

Nour B its kinda of true. Not all of them of course. But some do. Very unfortunate

[@PrincessLeena1]

I agree. It’s because those in Muslim countries bring in culture with religion, which kinda makes people disinterested in the traditional way, whereas those in the west are kinda missing out on it and therefore prefer it more traditional...

[@intrinsicallyme8404]

Nour B you're absolutely right. The reason for that is the muslims in the West freely see and experience western lifestyle and then they realise there is no purity like that of the Qur'an. So they appreciate the Qur'an and Islam more because the truth always sticks. With eastern Muslims, they're a confusion of jahili culture and repressed tradition. Islam isn't always explained to them because most are ignorant of what the Qur'an actually says. They see the West thought their tv box and only see the happy glorified parts and they strive so hard to want that. That's their one mission and purpose in life. They become a "West thirst bucket". That's why the Muslims in the West are truly free believers... And the eastern Muslims need an education on western lifestyle 101 to know with every dance comes an overdose with every kiss comes the risk of STD and with every smile is hidden confusion deception and uncertainty in those people's lives.

[@muhammeddeen7563]

Well then thank god Islam is not promised to a few people from the east or the west. Wether they become open to it or not, Islam is clear in that dating and any other relationship outside the boundaries of marriage outlined in Islam is haram.

[@Paula273Ls]

"Don't EVER ask me if you can wear something..do whatever you want!" YAAAAASSSSSSSS

[@joeo3195]

Salma you're dumb

[@saraslimani6232]

why is he dumb ?

[@wajihfadel4516]

lol the comments tho yes hes dumb because he thinks his wife is an equal to him rofl how stupid right XD و بالمناسبة انا مسلم

[@Yousef-tn1kh]

Jeekos Jeekos his wife IS equal to him. That’s what Islam is all about.

[@wajihfadel4516]

Fifa Yousef not really do you consider women living in saudi arabia free? Or have equality?

[@anonym5165]

Omg the one women in red looked like vanessa hudges soooo pretty wow

[@shazgreen6386]

Anonym say mashallah

[@anonym5165]

Shaz Green chill geeezzz maybe i said it in my head?

[@Jyasmmen]

I like Alaa. Check out her Instagram she’s really cool.

[@miyamotomusashi7867]

vanessa and lily collins

[@MQ-rg7mk]

Anonym she’s cool she’s a fashion designer

[@HooriX]

Women being submissive is just a cultural thing. Islam teaches equality of spouses. They should share the chores and all. I'm so happy that this video is up and the comment section is unexpectedly nice. It sheds light on modern Muslim relationships while staying in the halal path

[@fastfruit5281]

This needs more likes because I say this alll time

[@hawaii1290]

Women are not equal to men. Allah gave women a very high status.

[@miiniimiiniijpeg]

Hoori Rujub Very true

[@imenehadim3097]

hey i'm a muslim girl too and i do have strong faith in god and i feel in peace with every verse of the qoran but not with the one that talks about women submiting to their husbends and that men are responsibal for women beacause od favorise them and cuz they make money pls i really feelll like i need help from someone one this one verse i am strugling so much with plz if you have a persepective you would like to share or explaine to me do it

[@lionesskhadeejah9154]

@@imenehadim3097 What's the verse you are struggling with sister?

[@MAtobias99]

The girl in red is gorgeous!!!

[@nikitasharma9708]

she looks like Miley Cyrus

[@MaSa-bp5qe]

He really is a moron. He literally is ruining her with his own hand.

[@o2xb]

money money money!!!!!! Its all a woman needs

[@DonkeyKong5479]

Nikita Sharma Are u blind

[@trutherasitis2109]

@Thomas Anderson ouch ! Jealous huh .

[@clp480]

Muslim and middle-eastern women are so pretty omagahhhhh

[@af-pqueen4287]

Yaaaas gggirrrl 💕💕

[@clp480]

AF-P Queen 💕💕

[@Y54F]

Chakravarti J oh come one why bring race into this? Keep that to yourself it could really offend someone.

[@nancy1692]

Not all middle easterns are Muslim and not all muslims are middle easterners

[@1920F]

Chao Lee this said muslim not middle Eastern .Majority of muslims live outside the middle East.

[@thebellamays]

You know is a serious relationship when you mute SNL.

[@khalouizaineb103]

Bella Mays army xD

[@tuyubaakhtar8607]

Armyyyyyy!!!!

[@krcaramella]

I just love seeing an army Armys everywhere 👍🏻

[@somalikanye8642]

Lol

[@0o0_27]

what's up ARMY!!

[@Arbnvbe]

Love my community. It makes me laugh when people think muslim women are submisive. If only you knew lol don't mess with a muslim woman ! We are fierce !

[@furdosnurhussen3264]

Arbn Truth! I think we develop a thick skin and fierceness because of all the BS we have to put up with sometimes

[@ADCB510]

Absolutely true!!!!

[@finthehuman3649]

I love that in this day and age a lot of muslim women are strong and have a voice, but deep in the middle east they are still treated very badly and are often made to be very submissive and we must not ignore that.

[@kissandmakeup1612]

FinTheHuman very true.

[@khanmaida]

FinTheHuman well honey same goes for men in India who are Hindus, majority of the country is poor and women are treated brutally, same with poor countries in South America, Asia and deep Europe. Since there's no agenda to invade their countries, you just don't hear about it.

[@dovedive338]

The African American lady is stunning!

[@umaroof3708]

Yes she is! So beautiful!

[@Thembelihle04]

All of them are!

[@saraschneider6781]

QUEEN💗

[@halfvolley11]

How do you know she is African American. There are Black Arabs too you IDIOT.

[@eunicekraka8317]

@@halfvolley11 she said that she was aa

[@anushkachakraborty735]

the woman in the black hijab is BEAUTIFUL!

[@xuanyuuu]

iKNOW BABE!?!??!!

[@ArshadKhan-ys9ey]

Anushka Chakraborty u mean the black women?

[@hina._.hussain]

@@ArshadKhan-ys9ey their is a women in a black hijab

[@englishinpalestine1196]

I agreee shes sooooo prettty 😍

[@yeetrootthebeetroot3872]

Mashallah

[@nafisaislam195]

Aww they all seem like really happy, glowing couples MashaAllah, may Allah bless their marriages 💕

[@MyCrazygeek]

Nafisa ameen

[@nafisaislam195]

b king what makes you think its not based on Islamic laws? And who are you to judge anyway?

[@Amatuallah123]

Nafisa Aameen!

[@afghandiamond1225]

Nafisa lets see after 1yr jklol

[@ibradiallo1018]

Nafisa Amine

[@fatimaayounus]

Thank you for giving us this opportunity! 😊

[@af-pqueen4287]

Are you Afghan or Pakistani ?

[@fatimaayounus]

AF-P Queen Pakistani ❤️

[@af-pqueen4287]

Bilal and Fatima i saw you wear some Afghan dresses on your Insta? Are you pashtun ?

[@fatimaayounus]

AF-P Queen no, I just really like that style ❤️

[@af-pqueen4287]

Bilal and Fatima oooh!! Thankyou :) x

[@Zackar299]

I Met my wife 3 times before marriage. first time met my wife was with her entire family. second met was with my parent. third met was when me propose to her dad. Alhamdulilah this year is our 6th aniversary.

[@roya764]

I'm a Muslim myself and I love watching KZbin videos that involve Muslims is so nice to see the representation.

[@Houdasoumiahemaz]

Roya Zaki very different from what we usually see

[@wickededogirl]

It's*

[@Destinay4lyf]

Majority of muslim women keep their last name for many reasons but especially because islam teaches the importance of preserving identity and you are your fathers child. not his fathers child. However some muslim women take on the husbands last name but this is more of a cultural thing (ive met only few). just like the same way if we "adopt" a child and we have knowledge on the child's original last name, we must keep it (if the last name is unknown then totally diff case).

[@ADCB510]

Right

[@glitter4ever10]

Salaan Sare yass

[@evolsrettam6776]

In Turkey, you should take your husband’s surname or use both your and husband’s surname together. You can not use your surname alone. It’s so stupid isn’t it?

[@Destinay4lyf]

Feyza M was it always like this ? Did your grandparents have to do this? It might be a new tradition to assimilate to the western culture (I could be wrong)

[@cecil123]

Well to be fair, adoption isn't really an official thing in Islam so that is why the child keeps the original name. Iirc, it was because Mohammed wanted to screw his adopted son's wife so to keep things easier in the future, adoption was not really accepted.

[@StephanieTips]

I love how many broke all stereotypes and how some were much closer to a stereotyped Muslim because this proved that any religion has layers and any person is different and we should never, ever judge anyone for it because a religion can be part of your identity but doesn't define who you are as a whole. Some people who assume only based on a person's faith or religion should think about this and learn from this.

[@kakinator2365]

Yeap. I don't get those things, Muslims are 1.9 billion - the Quran is one book. But somehow people think that all 1.9 billion interpret their religion the same way, like WAA?

[@danaabuhashem8801]

indi123 those are people who pretend they’re muslims😉 don’t get manipulated by the media or books everyone can spread lies to destroy islam

[@danaabuhashem8801]

Stefania it’s so beautiful how you think ❤️

[@MohamedSH-iu7ch]

Stefania that is really TRUE. I fully concur with you, is NOT good to judge, but rather its better to judge yourself, your actions and how you go about your life rather than others and make corrective actions to the right path.

[@saber7529]

Esattamente

[@acacius9903]

See how women mostly were talking. Yeah trust me, the media lies so much about Islam. Women power all the way, with respect for others of course. #Islamisthetruth

[@ADCB510]

Sheepishly Ferocious awww MashaAllah dear, may Allah SWT bless him with long healthy life and bless ur family, Aameen

[@ADCB510]

Acacius sooo trueeee MashaAllah ❤️❤️❤️

[@amaranahle8979]

@Andalus101 lmao you're so gullible, explains a lot

[@mosu2973]

Andalus101 So, tell us from which country you are and why it's like hell? And please don't go and google. I know a lot of Christian countries that are like hell for woman too (e.g. East Europe, most parts of South America and etc.

[@siegfriedia9986]

Andalus101 the west has the highest female suicide rates. while muslim countries have literally the very least female suicide rates by far. alhamdulillah, MashaAllah.........but i guess you still say "oh muslim countries are so horrible for women".... lol stop blaming muslims for your own misery and depression in your life

[@thealybot]

May Allah grant you all barakah and happiness in your marriages and may you be reunited in jannah tul firdaus. Ameen

[@smilez8203]

b king please edit your comment brother, because Allah will punish someone who decide where is in Heaven Or hell, because only Allah swt. knows.

[@smilez8203]

b king i Love you for allah and Love the direct way to telling, because the People have to Understand , but the Problem is not that you Are to hard, no, you have to warn the People, of Course, but i heard a hadith in which a righteous believer says to a not good believer or disbeliever he is in hell and after that the righteuos believer was in hell and the bad or nonbeliever changed, the Point is Allah knows who gonna and Up in heaven or hell and he switch the hearts how he like. If they are stay in that mode they will and up, but you never know and cant say he or she is in hell, better is -> „if they stand like that they are in hell.

[@smilez8203]

b king you are totally right but my Point was never say for example michael or someone is in hell. Only Allah knows and decide. I talk about your First comment, better is „sorry mates i think this people don‘t go to jannah when they stand like that.“

[@khalilullahdesai2829]

Abo nnent if I may step in to this conversation. According to ahadith a person who says the kalimah(he believes) and passes away with imaan, will enter Jannah. If they need to go to jahannam first then enter, they will still eventually enter jannah. A person who would have not even made 1 good deed in his life but had imaan equal to a mustard seed, will enter jannah. Allah is the most merciful, most forgiving. It is correct that these people have lost their way but they are still Muslim.

[@smilez8203]

khalilullah desai May Allah help us to practice his deen right. Amin.

[@jabu_isjoy]

This is hands down the most positive portrayal of muslim couples/marriages I've come across. I'm not muslim but his was incredibly beautiful to watch 😍

[@NicoleFabulous]

I admire the fact that both sides are intentional about marriage, they find commonalities and build up from there. These stunning women seem very content of their decisions. Bless!

[@antwto8784]

Because of respect. The spouses weren't forced into a marriage but found each other and chose each other when they were READY to marry and both seem to know their rights as husband and wife and respect each other's rights. I notice that they are all well educated Arab Muslims. This is probably why south Asian Muslims are falling behind, not a generalization but south Asian families are still big on arranged and sometimes forced/emotionally blackmailing their kids into getting married at young ages from people 'back home' (sometimes cousins) and this is why they don't always seem as happy. Wish south Asians would catch up and adopt these modern Muslims mindsets and see how much happier their children could be if they actually allow them to choose their own mate (when they are ready)

[@o2xb]

nothing wrong with arranged marriages, its the forced ones which are unislamic!!!!

[@cocodakilla]

Nelly Sang yea sorry but the men have girls before the wife. Those girls dont make the cut due to the mothers. I've known way too many muslim guys and sorry but the fairytale isnt there. They ditch those girls and suddenly are ready for marriage to suitable girls who will want marriage asap. These men are awful and dont deserve so called respect. Dont talk about respect when most muslim men dont know the meaning

[@NicoleFabulous]

Coco Pops We all do have varying opinions, but I see where you’re coming from.

[@NicoleFabulous]

Coco Pops The issue you have raised occurs in other religions as well and not only Islam. The couples portrayed here are exceptions who have chosen to rise above common stereotypes.

[@chinutay]

I Loved this!

[@yusras3070]

Chinutay A. Omg I love your channel 💖

[@Dinnerfor2]

And I love youuu

[@fatimamustafa4262]

Wish you and Aamir were in the video! It would’ve been even more awesome 👏🏻 💙

[@mostafaelalfy9714]

I am a young Muslim and I am looking for a Muslim wife could u help me?

[@blobby892]

these BETA males only have one wife. they ain't an alpha chad like me I have at least 3

[@iheartunibrows]

I find it weird how people always think that middle eastern women are submissive. As an Arab, with a HUGE family and many middle eastern and Muslim friends I have never not once met/heard of a controlling/dominant husband. In fact, women are raised to be strong and independent, they're are always praised (especially as they get older), and they're encouraged to be doctors, lawyers, engineers (money makers). I feel like they're valued more than "western" women...just an observation.

[@fennecinspace]

@just me you're talking about people who are bad because they are bad .. not because they are muslims .. please understand that no group has 100% good people ... both good and bad people exist in every group ... you can't say that islam is the reason they went bad... islam is a religion it's a set of principles and ideas, at the end it's the person who should be accountable for his action not islam

[@zahrarose6333]

I’m an Arab woman and I don’t think you’re being genuine here. Maybe you and your friends are encouraged to do those things, but that’s your personal experience. Lots of Arab women are not allowed to do even a quarter of what a western woman can. Some are forced into arranged marriages that they can’t get out of. Not all parents are chill and will just let you say no without a fight. Don’t get me wrong! I’ve seen both sides of the coin...just letting you know that it’s not all rainbows and sunshine in the Muslim community for women.

[@taji2806055]

No it's extremely true. Especially in middle eastern and south east Asian cultures like you said. There are however women that are being raised to be submissive. They are taught that life revolves around family only and I find that sad because while you should value family, Islam doesn't take away anyone's personal identity. It's only insecure men that think that way.

[@taji2806055]

@just me on the contrary Islam would actually prevent behaviours like that. There are rules and principles in Islam that we follow solely for the reason to ensure that we are not harming others. And in Islam, we reinforce the idea that every action you do is answerable to Allah. The only problem is that people are so absorbed into their lives that they have forgotten the afterlife and judgement day exits.

[@ayelitasiddiqui4663]

@@iheartunibrows ya n we also don't have to change our surname after marriage. It's rather a choice where mostly women keep their own surname

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

Im not muslim but this is cool. It makes you think going back to traditional values seems to work and last. These new age ideologies are not working at all. My husband to be is traditional and I made the best decision in my entire life.

[@nataliep6046]

Love is love it doesn’t matter your religion, culture or colour. This is a beautiful video I’m getting married next year and I can’t wait to share that moment with my love and my family and friends

[@af-pqueen4287]

Natalie Gayle I wish they mentioned what ethnic background they were from haha

[@ADCB510]

AF-P Queen right, at least the country names 😀

[@yas5392]

md kaifi what exactly was the point of commenting that ? Muslim men cant either but marry athiests etc . Calm down

[@yas5392]

So am i and i cant wait 👌. Im having a summer wedding

[@hotcoffee6911]

Natalie Gayle all the best love 💐💐🎉💐🎉

[@allergictohumansnotanimals5671]

That Saudi Arabian girl in the red dress is so freaking pretty ;-;

[@amanishalabi007]

i recently just got engaged, and I'm a muslim. my fiancé was actually a family friend who i would see almost everyday, he got along great with my parents and i always thought he was being friendly, i had no idea he felt the same way about me like how i felt about him. bc we were good friends before and we already knew each other very well, it was obviously a yes to marriage. of course we sat and talked and got to know each other even more. i think bc i got to see how he behaved on a daily basis and i truly knew how his personality was, that's why it was such a quick yes from me. and everything is so great, our wedding is in about 9 months.

[@amanishalabi007]

i did get to choose actually. it's not like i had no say in it. my parents gave their blessing first and it was up to me to decide if it was a yes or no. i said yes because i already knew he was the man i wanted to marry from a long time ago. we are very happy. the thing about being "engaged" in a middle eastern culture is that its not like you have to get married. its kind of like you're dating. breaking off the engagement is like breaking up with someone. but, the goal is to hope everything works out in the time that you are engaged. for me, everything is perfect. I'm marrying my best friend. i dont think it's sad at all, I'm incredibly happy. it's not sad, it's just a different culture. there are some girls in some places that dont get a say in this, but that isn't muslim culture, that's NOT what my culture, religion, or family is about.

[@amanishalabi007]

thank u! @Murmad Man

[@maryambukhari60]

Congratulations ❤

[@amanishalabi007]

thank u ❤️

[@Windsguidance]

So happy for you!

[@vermition]

the girl from saudi arabia is so freaking beautiful

[@Mal-gy1ic]

You are so freaking beautiful!!

[@Mal-gy1ic]

Thanks honey

[@VicioRay]

mia khalifa?

[@simrenbajaj6000]

Her name is Alaa Balkhy she is a fashion designer

[@ChromeMan04]

She isn’t Saudi

[@kelseysmith8355]

"Actions speak louder than words." This was a beautiful, infomative and still bubbly, lovely and lighthearted segment to watch. ❤

[@الدعوةإلىاللهعزوجل-ظ9ف]

I am looking for a Muslim wife

[@musicgirl2000]

All the women are way better looking than their partners.

[@aishamaalin2226]

Not to be mean or anything, but I see the truth in that. They also seem younger, but well never know.

[@kakinator2365]

Yeah because they dipped their faces in make-up this morning. Besides, appearances aren't that important as long as it's acceptable, then you try to get to know them on the inside.

[@superman6262]

Anosh Khan LOL This! “All the girls here are so good looking”...umm do you not see the fat layer of make up? Not to say that they aren’t attractive with out makeup.

[@faizadaud4085]

Women see quality in men not looks

[@intrinsicallyme8404]

musicgirl2000 now take their makeup off and compare.

[@thanos9346]

Alhamdulilah for Islam ❤️

[@abbassahibole1579]

Wow thanos is Muslim 🤣

[@reemalfarhan9606]

Allhamdulillah ❤️

[@Meelany261095]

We keep our last names :) and in my country we get also our mothers' last names. And my husband (from an Arabic country) was so surprised and so happy our daughter could get also my last name for him it's something women deserve for having that child in the womb :D

[@carymnuhgibrilsamadalnasud1222]

I wonder which country is that.

[@Meelany261095]

@@carymnuhgibrilsamadalnasud1222 Panama. We now can use the mother's last name following by the dad's :) we decided to use my husband's last name first because there aren't people with that one as mine. Trying to keep it unique haha

[@carymnuhgibrilsamadalnasud1222]

@@Meelany261095 Cool.. But you can name your kids however you want. Some people have unrelated last names meaning different last names then their mother or father. Where I live you can give your kids any last name you want. It's a free country.

[@vloggermum]

@@carymnuhgibrilsamadalnasud1222 yupp... I'm that one. Surname of neither mother's nor father's

[@carymnuhgibrilsamadalnasud1222]

@@vloggermum Cool. May I ask where you from?

[@roses8639]

I’m Albanian and so many traditions that they have we have and they’re so beautiful 😍 so nice to see

[@Palestine4Ever169]

Rose S will we 1 family muslims :)

[@SamaraTrollero]

Rose S Albanian too here 😃

[@user-tf6hu5up7k]

Rose S do you live in Albania? What traditions are the same

[@starflower250]

Albanian here! And yess the same

[@mehmetyilmaz2493]

60% of Albanian are muslim, so there are shared values.

[@openmind2161]

When you have two less demanding individual agree to get married to build a family ,kids then there are not many things which can go wrong

[@dinakamal6818]

John Jeffry preach

[@antwto8784]

Yes - totally right. Constant demanding is where many couples go wrong. It's not a dictatorship for crying out loud, wish more couples would realise this

[@tetacito9488]

Thats where ur wrong. U dont get married jus to build a fam. U get married so u can have company with the love of ur life

[@AllaahuAkbarr]

I converted to Islam Alhamdulila after visiting Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦🇸🇦 ALHAMDULILA

[@farishope6540]

Mubarak 😊 Happy for you bro/sister

[@hadjeraissaoui8267]

Welcome to Islam 💓💓

[@prateekkumar9872]

Hijab is worn for modesty. I'm mean that is the explanation Muslims give. So why are these women wearing makeup. Now where your modesty has gone. Hijab is just another way of oppression nothing else. Where kids are brainwashed from an early age that hijab is everything to you. Your identity is nothing without it. After years of brainwashing when women decide to wear hijab they say that its my choice. Seriously who are you fooling here not me but yourself

[@prateekkumar9872]

Allahuakbar means bomb the infedels.

[@AllaahuAkbarr]

@@prateekkumar9872 ALLAHU Akbar means Allah is the greatest.... If you are really peacefull please get out of Kashmir because Kashmir belongs to Pakistan only.. hahahahha

[@mayealquzah1314]

Love this video! People always think that Muslim marriages are arranged and forced when in reality it’s really not.

[@zahrarose6333]

Are you kidding ? Look, some arranged marriages are forced. Don’t discredit people’s real life experiences to suit your mind.

[@Trilliman707]

@Andalus101 right

[@hebakhan4728]

Andalus101 Some arranged marriages are forced, key word here is SOME not all. No this isn't a religious thing it is sadly a cultural thing that has nothing to do with Islam as Muslims in the subcontinent mixed their values and traditions with that of Hindus. Also I am a girl living in Pakistan and though unfortunately, of course there is some sexism here, it's not to the height which western media portrays it. Child marriages and marriages without consent of both parties are not allowed in Islam.

[@Versatileabhi]

@@hebakhan4728 Really!! How old was Ayesha when she got married !!! And its not Hindu or Muslim culture its regional culture which is similar to both the countries due to cultural similarities .Forced arranged marriages happen in some rural areas of both the countries . But love marriage is not permitted in Islam because its haram for a man or woman to look at the opposite gender and have interaction

[@PSXuploads]

Is that you on the pic? Masallah

[@StephanieTips]

Just for those who were wondering, keeping your surname and not taking your husband's name is a European thing as well. In Italy at least, women keep their surname and the last name of the father is given to children, not that of the mother (unless someone specifically requests to have both or unless the father is not known, in that case the mother can give her surname only but it's much more difficult).

[@Marieq]

My best friend is Muslim, I remember so many men would approach her dad to ask to marry her, I was happy she could say yes or no. I'm also happy to say her husband is an amazing guy and isn't controlling whatsoever which I have to admit I was worried about. I remember her telling me on their honeymoon how excited she was because it was the first time she could ever wear a bikini, yet alone a bathing suit. She also got to be in my wedding!

[@tiffanifarrington4039]

I wouldn't have minded being in an arranged marriage. I think I'd be living pretty damn lavish with a really handsome man... I've got superficial parents

[@rachelmcclain5367]

Same. I prefer this over wondering if I will ever end up married to a good person.

[@mikenash6124]

Be careful what you wish for, woman😆. Not always is it like we expect it to see

[@monsieurpatate1573]

@@mikenash6124 its not always as you think alot of arranged marriages the women still can refuse and has options she can discuss with her family and agree all together

[@mikenash6124]

@@monsieurpatate1573 as I've seen and heard, mostly the parents are the ones calling the shots on who the children should marry

[@monsieurpatate1573]

@@mikenash6124 arranged marriage doesnt mean forced marriage

[@cruisinginmalindi3999]

That neck piece is LITT 3:36

[@TCt83067695]

her look is everything

[@sassytela]

RidingDunes her makeup aswell

[@injujuan8993]

TCt83067695 totally

[@user-tf6hu5up7k]

RidingDunes her husband eyes mA Wonder where he’s from

[@savannac6170]

I will never understand why people have such a hatred towards this community/ religion. In all cultures as long as things are consensual and a personal preference/ choice no one should intervene. Love is love, and any one who has a problem with that I hope your day at least goes well because what a sad and miserable life you must be living

[@natshamo]

What a refreshing video! Much needed in today's world

[@afnan2271]

The comments are really refreshing and beautiful. Love to see people portray positivity!!

[@shani8267]

They are represented so beautifully I’m crying 😍

[@Tonnidas]

the woman dressed in red is my dream wife and i dont know why. thanks for treating her right, her husband

[@at5286]

Tonnidas 😂

[@leylanasari6448]

@Dave 1977 Id rather that age gap compared to 90 year old Joseph and 9 year old Mary

[@leylanasari6448]

@Dave 1977 lmao yes it is,

[@yaaamarani6237]

@@leylanasari6448look at him tryna deny it 😂😂 what about isaac and rebecca 3 yrs tapped tings

[@leylanasari6448]

@@yaaamarani6237 fr

[@ntm3970]

4:16 In a society/culture where it’s perfectly acceptable for a man to control his wife it’s really nice seeing an Arab man not exploiting his power and even finding the prospect ridiculous

[@aishamaalin2226]

Noor TM You’re right, but I don’t think the word “ controlling” is a great word of choice. I think it’s more like Advising or give advices.

[@linaa.4481]

Noor TM YESSS

[@fennecinspace]

our culture doesn't advice men to be controlling, i come from an arab country, and all the women here are encouraged to be independent and strong, my younger sister for example is studying to be a surgeon, my mother is the strongest woman i know, and by strong, i don't mean FAKE STRONG, like most westren women.

[@hinasofy229]

@@fennecinspace if western women are so bad then why do insecure black and brown muslims become thier puppets

[@MohamedMohamed-wi5vu]

Shahin Nagori why do you have to bring race into this ugh 😑

[@sleepygirl96]

As long as they treat each other with respect (and it seems like they do) it doesnt matter how they met or how they decided to marry. They seem so happy its warming my heart :)

[@HelloZara]

theres so so many 'normal' muslim couples like these. the media never shows it how it is

[@aamnahere6250]

princess xo Frankly what's even worse is the notion that you have to dress like another people to be considered human or normal. A woman's choice and autonomy is no more respected in these so called liberal societies than it is among extremists.

[@Strawberry-ii4le]

As if wearing short dresses is a good thing 🙄

[@supermedia7978]

Saudi Arabia exported in all the countries the "bad" islam. This hijab, abaya and gloves come from Saudi Arabia. But Saudis are not very religious. If you see them here in Europe, they all drink alcohol, men and women . I think they make the same in SA, but private. In the night they become more liberal than european. But now your prince is changing all these habits but in the other countries, it still seeing like islamic to wear hijab....

[@Strawberry-ii4le]

Supermedia hijab is part of Islam nothing to do with Saudi Arabia. Don’t speak on that which you do not know.

[@sinhalalion1806]

princess xo You mean most muslim countries are "normal" exept saudi, saudi is the cancer of islam and has influenced badly most other muslims communities in other countries. Take as an example my country (sri lanka), the muslims community was normal and peacefull a few years ago, no one complained about them, now they started following the saudis and women wear full burkas on the street and most muslims became radicalised and want to impose sharia law over the rest of the country.

[@Elle_Gowing]

They are all so happy and relaxed. A million times better than dating through Tinder or POF. The men respect the women.

[@rcme0000]

I really loved this video it really showed me some of the misconceptions and stereotypes that I had thought in my mind about this topic. Beautifully put together

[@miradehoca9930]

3:20 his jacket is lit 😍

[@samia6528]

Mira DeHoça It's called Moroccan Jabador

[@miradehoca9930]

Sam Mia i love it! It s so manish , and stylish too , unique!

[@af-pqueen4287]

Moroccan design😍 that's how I knew he was Moroccan haha

[@anfalbmnjl3537]

It is north african ( algeria . morocco and tunisia )

[@HHajar1]

It's a Moroccan Jabador

[@anewloveofficial9137]

I'm so happy knowing that these lovely couples have a successful arrange marriage. They both accept each others beliefs and they live as a happy couple.

[@rylee_l]

“I _only_ wanted 300 people at my wedding” HOW BIG ARE THESE WEDDINGS

[@ranmori915]

big.

[@amirabarcelonistavip9062]

Huge lol i think the only people who can come close to our weddings are indians their weddings are big and crazy fun

[@MiaCreese]

that's really little. in my country before covid it's always atleast a 500-1000. celebrities have much more than that

[@tannietae2093]

@@amirabarcelonistavip9062 also Pakistan.

[@vloggermum]

300 are still less😂😂

[@ninfa2399]

The couples relationships are so beautiful

[@gigimonrose157]

"We had 700 people at our wedding.." "I wanted 300 max!" Me: I want 12.... Literally close friends and family. Can't be bothered with all the faff and people!!!

[@LivingLifeSaba]

25-50 for me... tops!

[@JenaSoderholm]

Me watching this video and getting totaly depressive about my relationship with my * boyfriend* I' am Catholic-Christian and He is a Muslim man.. We meeting each other for almost 2 years and never met his parents or got any ring 💫 🥺 And when I see this women with their Muslim men I see the respect and commitment with one anotther.. God Bless every and each one of you and your marriages.. beautiful couples. 😇🙏❤

[@Happy_Potato0]

Every person is not perfect.. But if it has already been 2 years maybe you should ask him to talk to his parents most Muslim men if serious in a relationship will always involve their girl in some way to interact with there family and to get her know them better.. Allah knows best I hope YOU all the best may Allah bless you..❤

[@JenaSoderholm]

@@Happy_Potato0 thanks for your support 😇🙏

[@hajarlechkar6115]

Don't let anybody get you without à title ! keep ur standards high that's what muslim girls do !

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

These women look so beautiful and gorgeous. I guess this video gives people a different perspective about Muslim relationship or marriage.

[@sharifahalhinduan]

I'm a Singaporean Arab who got married to a Singaporean Indian. In both of our community, ladies are to submit without question. Thank God my husband allows me to decide for my own well being.

[@Mazzie2022]

How sad when all people can discuss are the couples’ looks. Really pathetic.

[@kxtbonifacio]

My thoughts exactly! Especially when all of them are clearly so happy together, TALK ABOUT THAT!!

[@mary-ks4pz]

Yeh but its weird why there js no handsome men

[@cleorose7768]

This is what I like 💗

[@ibrahimadan205]

Asha iman may be we can make it happen 😂

[@Kiewi95]

Hold your horses young man she's mine

[@DrAdnan]

This is a nice inside look at people that sometimes do things a bit differently than most modern Western-style relationships.

[@brittnipeters8175]

"Pron-toe" 😂😂😂😂i love the way she said that

[@nathand.schwarzchild1513]

2:53 I swear I’d give up so much just to have them as my friends! They seem sooooooo chill like me I LOVE it😂💙

[@jsjsjsjsjs230]

The girl in the red dress looks exactly like Naomi Scott!

[@bowandarroz]

This is SO important. Thank you.

[@r.r9002]

Being blessed with a decent spouse is one of the greatest blessing from Allah in this world. Looking forward for the same. 😍

[@elenakendrick6279]

They're all so precious! You can see the way that they look at each other ❤️

[@alexaalfaro2949]

Aaaaawwww this was so cute!!!!!

[@bass13mary]

I did this with my husband. We are Christian and we focused on values, not a bunch of stupid, meaningless dates. It was easy to weed everyone else out. I only chose him and considered him.

[@theresahenderson3534]

These couples are breathtakingly stunning. Wow!

[@sheisheycoco]

The woman at the beginning 🤣 “I need to talk to him on the phone TONIGHT” 😂

[@AishahMuigu]

Soo beautiful . May Allah grant us who’re single divorced or widowed good spouses. Ameen.. May Allah keep them happy and reunited in jannatul firdaus ameen ❤️

[@beautyh.9898]

The women with the red headscarf is so beautiful 😍

[@Rissa98000000]

The girls r soooo much prettier than the guys!!

[@antwto8784]

That's why the guys are happy haha

[@wiss1994]

Arab women are usualy very pretty . But arab men think beauty is being white and blond and blue eyes . And that is the reason why they prefer western woman and often say about arab women that they aren't pretty . They don't like women in dark skins

[@timadasilva581]

samfix234 most arabs are white, whats ur point 😂😂

[@wiss1994]

tima Da silva no they aren't ,unless they are mixed . Arabs have darker skin not too dark . With dark Brown eyes and dark Brown hair . They are pretty , they remind me of beautiful mexican women , but arab men are just facinated by colored eyes and blond hair ,and most of them think that beauty is defined by whiteness which I find stupid .

[@timadasilva581]

samfix234 i know exactly what u mean, my parents are arab from northafrica ( tunisia) most people there are white,the have pale skin and dark hair,they have green eyes n blonde hair or they have a beautiful caramel skin but still the are considerd white,its intresting that u think of mexican women when u see an arab lady, ive never heard that before

[@lhland6107]

I can’t get over what great teeth they all have.....

[@moodmeditation4458]

Cleanliness is half of our believe , we can't prey or recite our Quran without being clean and wadu.

[@neuriel]

These women are all so freaking gorgeous! And each couple looks so sweet together, you can really see the connection between them.

[@telorceplok8812]

Real story: My aunt married my uncle without even seeing his face nor knowing anything about him. She married him because her ustadz (religious leader) recommend him. First time she saw his face was in the wedding.

[@sharamafiz3441]

Mashallah, what a refreshing video!

[@nisazuberi5725]

Wow it’s so amazing to see Muslims represented so nicely and the comments under it being so nice definitely loved this vid

[@IElooDelPieroI]

These people are open minded and treat their women equally because they were raised in a westernized culture, it's not the same case in the real muslim countries unfortunately, I was proposed to but then I got rejected because I work at a hospital and want to complete my studied, he wanted a " stay home wife " while he pursue his work and dreams as engineer. That's just one example of many.

[@MohamedHassan-dm9df]

Eloo DelPiero it’s mostly people who are educated. In Muslim countries however they’re mostly war torn so they don’t really have great education. Most uneducated countries in the world whether they’re Christian Muslim or whatever do really bad things to women

[@Princess_Lilly13]

What do you know about people that live in muslim countries?

[@MohamedHassan-dm9df]

Bess Boussa I’ve lived there a little but maybe you know more. Tell me what you know about people that live in Muslim countries

[@Princess_Lilly13]

@@MohamedHassan-dm9df Okay, so, you lived there enough to see these countries as conservative, which is obviously true, but you didn't linger in a profound way onto the society's deep daily life. The first thing i will tell you, is that in muslim countries, most people have an extremely organized life, and most families are so tight, the family bounds are so well structured, and everyone helps each other, even neighbours are part of the family sometimes, abd are treated with as much solidarity as family. All of this is due to this concervatism where everyone knows its place, everyone is being themselves, if we speak about family, a man can't approch a girl only if he had to ask for her famili's blessing, he has to do a lot and prove himself capable to found a family. He has to give her his word to be a person that she can count on, the man is the one to provide even if the woman works, even if she is super rich, he doesn't even have the right to ask for her money. Women are respected, they are not approached by just anyone, that could be here just to have fun, just to use her, girls grow in an envirement where they are encouraged to have knowledge and develop themselves inside the family protection, bothe girls and boys are encouraged to truly grow in a very sane familial enviroment where they are given the live and care they need, most muslim families are not monoparental, both parents are here, which is the natural situation where kids need to grow up. And if botg parents are here, its because muslim people's life is very organised, because the husband and the wife have a certain attitude towards each other, that makes them persue living together, respecting each other, and raising their kids together. Women are opressed in muslim countries? Okay, in my country, there are more women than men in schools, universities, there are more woman doctors, lawyers, judges, teachers, pharmacists... (more than 60% of the doctors are women), you can actually check that out on wikipedia , i live in Algeria, its an arab/berber noth african country. I'm expecting your answer, peace.

[@MohamedHassan-dm9df]

Bess Boussa wow I never truly realized that it was like that. I grew up in America and our family structure sounds exactly the way you highlighted. I’m pretty sure that’s the familial structure Islam expects from our ummah. I went to Saudi so I guess it might be different from Algeria. But anyways thanks for the answer it was really eye opening.

[@calledqualifiedjustified9054]

This video was delightful 😍 In the western world, they only show What they want you to learn and believe about other cultures. It's up to the parents to help the children to see and learn about and RESPECT other people and cultures. I've learned so much from these couples. Signed Someone who sees who you are verses what you are.😊

[@khanthevideogamehunter2946]

This is a very nice video it took me 6 years to get marry because I work as a shoe shiner so everyone thougth I couldn't take care of there daugthers alhamdulilah I found the rigth one. And my in laws are simple people. They just said you have deen and you are a good guy. So I got married alhamdulilah. Preformed hajj with the wife and now we are blessed with a baby girl. Patients and salat indeed in a virtue.

[@888alp]

They look so happy, if u click u click. Just beautiful. ❤️

[@charlizelam7429]

So simple. And it seems so natural! Amazing

[@lovvlovv4028]

May Allah make their marriages last forever and be happy 🤲🏽♥️

[@missnobody7215]

This is so cool, you learn something new everyday

[@wtpaige]

this was so cool! thanks for making this.

[@paulelliott4590]

Wow! All of these couples have opened my eyes. Yes, I have had preconceived ideas about Muslim women. Thank you for posting this. Absolutely fantastic.

[@anees528]

2:55 that dude is low key high

[@aneebaba06]

Melanie and Ahmed, love those two and their chemistry from Melanie's the Snapchat haha. Thanks for doing this Brides YT. From a Muslim dude

[@Asma-dg7xt]

I love how they are open to talk about it confidentiality ❤️

[@jadarequel6853]

Hello dear friend do you need your ex back,or are you having relationship issues?🧡💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️🦋💔💔❤️❤️

[@iammrkhan7822]

Marriage Goals... 1 day Insh Allah ♥

[@faikyesilyaprak8761]

I really don't understand the reason why people are trying to learn a religion by looking at people. It's no good don't do it please. Because the time you see the person doing something wrong, you judge the religion itself and that does not make any sense at all. It's like judging Math because of your professor. It's HIS faulth if he does something wrong not Maths. So please do consider learning from RESOURCE itself specially for ISLAM. As far as I could see, there are certain misdirections about Islam on media. About marriage, about being "NOT MODERN" which is just a myth or about social life in Islam. I am a muslim and I love everything Allah created including all of you guys. Allah is the most merciful and he loves those are merciful as well. Be safe, Allay may protect you ALL my friend.

[@shasantv]

There is hope for the rest of us (Singles). Thank you for sharing this. Appreciate it.

[@MegaWillPowers]

They're sooooo cool ! I'm muslim and this is just how it happens. Great experiences, great mindsets from these couples, I love this video ! ^^

[@delayniethompson2820]

Beautiful people. Thank you!