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[@Meaningfullifecenter]

Hi there! What do you think? Can you spot an untrustworthy person?

[@nicolasnicolas3889]

Mostly,, high end psychopaths can be a bit tricky, you don't necessarily spend enough time with them to observe though you can probably see from the start, you have to give people the benefit of the doubt I suppose....unless they put you in immediate danger....;D

[@gratefulkm]

You are playing with fire here, Trust is all based on attachment, Which in itself is oxytocin release So what you are doing is persecuting people who do not release oxytocin as nature/God intended "forgive them for they know not what they do". this sentence is based around this biological fact Can Mum's biological command to baby to detach be overridden ? NO But the part of the brain that obeys that command can be tricked into relaxing and then an oxytocin release is possible

[@greenthunder1000]

You’re a wise man.

[@shadow-mask]

Penitus Oculatus, you could have been an FBI profiler. Or.. teacher if you'd prefer the office job XD I've always had problems with this, I experienced a lot of mild aggression in my home as a young kid, yelling, threats, some violence but not much.. my conversation skills were stunted from youth, eye contact, etc. I'll go from overly courteous to spiteful if I think someone's judging me poorly, as in not as good as the FBI method, at least put real work into it, be specific, thorough.. I appreciate this, it does help. If any good came from all that.. I take judgement of others VERY seriously now because of that. I can tolerate bad things?? I can tell if it's just spite or aggression, or actual hate/hostility. Workin' on it. Would this come across as shifty to you? hypothetically, just curious.

[@SophiaPonders]

Hi Rabbi, In my walk with God there are times when I am surrounded by untrustworthy people, and though I'm not bitter, I believe that it is because He wants me to trust in Him first and foremost no matter if the situation or person is trustworthy, untrustworthy, or not. Like King David wrote in the Psalms to put not your trust in princes or the sons of men, but God above all.

[@ApollonianShy18]

1. Accountability 2. Consistency 3. Humility

[@huveja9799]

The "Cognitive Life Raft" as a tool to build/rebuild trust, let the Mind to explore first, and pave the way to the Heart to slowly test and and slowly start to eliminate fear ..

[@Gunth0r]

Someone engaging in religious rituals (like a weekly going to church / synagogue / mosque) satisfies those three points to some extent. A person engaging in said rituals is more likely to be humbled before God, creation and his/her peers, is showing consistency by just being there every week and shows some level of accountability since being part of a community entails expectations and commitments that if left unchecked will result in being ostracized. If they weren't accountable and they've been there for a long time, they wouldn't sit right with the community or they wouldn't be there at all.

[@lovejumanji5]

@@Gunth0r This is fatal error . Many narcissist attend weekly religious gatherings . It is the perfect place to create the made up persona . The perfect place to obtain supply . Unfortunately I learned this from experience .

[@Gunth0r]

@@lovejumanji5 Narcissists usually have a harder time seeing the value in and keeping to rituals. Of course, any group is great for a narcissistic person to come look for supply. But TIME is the essential part here. Stay somewhere long enough and the wheat will separate from the chaff eventually. Chaff doesn't like scrutiny. Time is scrutiny. This is why you BUILD trust over time. Repeated good behavior. Accountability. Like the Rabbi said.

[@derekstaroba]

I like how you numbered it this makes more sense to me

[@tommirummukainen2840]

I'm a 41 year old concretor in Australia and I love listening every morning before work. I'm a born again Christian but I have never heard messages with such gold and beauty. God bless you Rabbi and God bless you all!

[@giulias.5104]

Wisdom is wisdom, no matter the religion, that's the beauty! 🙂

[@Willowtree82]

Televangelists/evangelicals are not Jewish

[@tommirummukainen2840]

@@Willowtree82 what are you on about? I'm talking about Rabbi Simon....is he a televangelist in your opinion? TheBody got no mind!

[@margareth1504]

Mmm.. Im thinking the way you start your days sounds beautiful, with the foundations of strength to be building more of your good self. 😊

[@davidparker9676]

His messages are universal to humanity. I love how he teaches these simple principles and makes the message very clear.

[@zeynepkibar]

Do not trust liars. Only trust accountable people who acknowledge their mistakes.

[@ReRe_642]

Spot on.

[@leafdesi5967]

Hard to know if I can even trust myself because I've made a lot of mistakes but I've been very honest with myself when I make those mistakes.

[@Truthseaaker]

Yeah, don't trust someone who claims to be something they are not....

[@thenannywoodforest98]

Not only acknowledge, but make amends and be consistent over time. Many know they have to acknowledge their mistakes, but that is the end. Time + consistency = trust.

[@NoNORADon911]

So none of this tribe ✔

[@habeascorpus1]

"Trust is to be earned". Absolutely spot on my friend!

[@The_Captainn]

As someone who was recently betrayed by a close friend, this video was exactly what I needed

[@danielasanchez4674]

I'm sorry to hear that, my friend. Were there any signs mentioned in the video that you now recognize in that person in retrospect? I'm just curious Edit:spelling

[@Soulful_Pizza]

@@danielasanchez4674 I like the reason for editing. Very interesting, considerate and clear. I may adopt that concept in my daily practice, as I do make grammatical errors. You're awesome. Let's have a marvelous day.

[@bracaarboristi]

You did not get betrayed, you got saved by the grace of god who removed evil from your life... You're better off now , all the best

[@truthseeker9945]

What did your friend do?

[@mariaflelli3497]

Me too😢

[@josephinegeorge2585]

As a parent who has betrayed my children's trust and vulnerability, the heavy weight of guilt is enormous. I understand the value of this information. I pray for grace to heal my children and myself. Thank you Rabbi

[@MikinessAnalog]

My own mother was the one that introduced me to lying. She would be expected a call she did not want to take (think debt collectors) & order me to tell them "I'm not here". But you are Mum, I'm looking right at you.

[@tamararutland-mills9530]

It might be a good idea to tell your children that if it helps them to understand. No parent is perfect.

[@nicolasnicolas3889]

'Trust in God, not in man' - Psalm 118:8

[@NicGoldenEddie]

Amen 🙏

[@jonlee580]

God allows this..ur god must not be a good god. Isn't Lucifer a god or was a god?

[@Shalomalechm]

Amen

[@EricsWorlds]

Where do you think God dwells? In humanity, where god was born.

[@nicolasnicolas3889]

@PsyMan Magus X Your true self has a direct connection to The Most High so in some respects, it's the same thing, though it's impossible to perceive the true essence of God with the mind...

[@GNTHEGUNS]

I've been going through rough times. Not financially or health wise but with clarity. You are very clear Mr. Jacobson. Thank you for putting up these videos.

[@XQRobertz]

"One day in retrospect, you will come to realise the years of struggle as the most beautiful" --- Sigmund Freud.

[@Liam.caliber]

Cannot thank you enough for your council, Rabbi. Thank You. 🙏🏼

[@standunited1431]

Hi Rabbi, I'm from Saint Louis too, in more ways than one. I do trust you, and you can trust me, but only to be the imperfect being that I am. I am not a victim, I am a student, thank you for being part of my journey! ❤❤

[@SanguineUltima]

I have always struggled with trusting others, polarizing from being overly trusting growing up to being distrustful as an adult. Conversely, I make a point to be as trustworthy as I can in a desperate bid to win approval. It's equally important to be able to give trust as well as earn it. Thank you for your wisdom, Rabbi Jacobson.

[@trolly4]

You just expressed Me...Thank You

[@katadam2186]

Discernment is what you’re looking for

[@edzaslow]

One of my favorite expressions: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." Ignore a person's track record at your peril. Who would do business with Bernie Madoff, Jeffery Epstein, or Sam Bankman Fried knowing what we know now? That's business. But what if you are in a personal (romantic) relationship with the person? Now it really gets complicated. Your head says one thing, and your heart (emotions) say another? The heart usually wins out because we want to trust the object of our love.

[@femz6438]

Add Kenneth Griffin of Citadel Securities to the list. DO NOT TRUST HIM.

[@FreedomSpirit7]

Also Lezensky.

[@Rokybizy]

If you don't learn to forgive, you will never see God in someone who is changed by god. You block yourself from witnessing god actually work in someone.

[@ThrashLawPatentsAndTMs]

Betrayal forces us to come to terms with the question "can I even trust my own judgment?" or stated another way "Can I trust myself?" Too many people see that as a condemnation, rather than an opportunity for personal growth.

[@WmTyndale]

Why do business with china? Murdered its own people and yet american business just rushed in.

[@lisabrunton5781]

To err is human, to forgive is divine 🙏🏻

[@menw7470]

But if you really want to mess things up use a computer!

[@FromtheLightofTheDarkness]

Yes!!!

[@naniraj5087]

To err is human....to forgive is plain stupidity.

[@akai.christo]

Thank you Rabbi Jacobson✡️🙏♥️🔥 Wish you and all here a beautiful day!!

[@Bread_Butter]

I trust your teachings and have been following them since when your beard was black. You are a daily source of inspiration.

[@conniedean3787]

My x-husband who verbally and physically abused me had a drinking problem, after 23 years met another woman and abandoned the family. 1993, they got married and we were not even divorced yet, , we had 3 children, my son was born with kidney failure but was not diagnosed until after he left and my daughter had an accident, could not talk, walk, blind, feeding tube, wheelchair, at the age of 18, I took care of 2 severely disabled children for almost 30 years by myself, my other son has a medical problem too ulcerative colitis, I moved to B'nai B'rith senior citizen housing, and have never been in a relationship since 1993, but I just travel now, and am grateful for my life now, I have peace and harmony, my son died at the age of 28 and my daughter died at the age of 38.

[@ileanahope466]

You have had a hard life but are at peace and grateful that is admirable. Your blessings will come if not in this life in the next one. Take care.

[@thomasleach9417]

Sorry to hear that. I have also had hardships but not as bad as you had it. Glad to hear that you are doing well.

[@ekids.bassment]

@@ileanahope466 She is not at peace, if she really was at peace she wouldn't talk about it. That's how peace works. We lie to ourselves. Often I think I'm passed something, but how can you be passed something when it still in your head for time to time. I hope she will find peace

[@MartyrHandle]

You did all you could and loved more than yourself, thank you for being there 💙

[@zinozee8929]

Can’t imagine what it was like to bury two children. God gives His toughest missions to His strongest soldiers so the weak ones become motivated and inspired to carry on. Thank you for striving on and you will meet your beautiful children again in the next life

[@nadiaburghgraeve]

Shalom Rabbi Jacobson,pasah is a special time i learned a lot of you.I know i'm unic and gifted by lots of wonderfull talents not the talents most people want but special ones making people who feel sad ,longly,and lost feel good and leave them with the love of our creator . That is my task here.I'm greatfull for my live giving me by God,even i had hard lessons too learn what i do.Even i embrace all the difficulty i get because i have to solve thos thing to become better i my task that i have too do here.I learned to work from the hart and the love that Jesuah wants me to do. I will do my passah like i should by the rules ,i learn and will do tiil my time here is done.so i am happy too find your wise lessons to see .i'm thankfull for your wis. Shalom grts nadia from Belgium

[@mariaguiza8745]

Gracias Rabbi, from Mexico. How I appreciate your words, sweet food for the soul.

[@mamabearlife7670]

Pray for discernment and stay trustworthy yourselves. That’s about all we can do.

[@pinkguadalupe]

Blessings for all the knowledge you share with the World ♥️♥️♥️

[@frankkluszka2653]

I’m 66y old I don’t believe that no one is born evil and trust worthy. I think back in life experiences and realized the many times and ways I’ve been intentionally hurt; all the way back to 4 years old. Not afraid of a bully and offering a token of sharing my favourite food in case I angered him. He threw it in the dirt. I can’t believe he learned all his evil. He was born that way. I’m sure some infants take advantage of their caretakers by intentionally being demanding on them. The opposite of what I was. I believe this because of all the narcissistic behaviours I’ve witnessed and experienced myself at all levels. I also believe that narcissists are at a higher percentage in the population than I’ve read. There’s too much intentional hurting in the world. Now when I turn the other cheek it isn’t my face. My highest respect and trust is with a Rabbi. Thank you. I get comfort from your words. I hope to learn more.

[@claremurphy777]

Rabbi Simon ..I trust in your ❤ & generous wisdom & sharing...a balm to my soul & a divine intervention that I have found your content. TU from my ❤ to yours . X Clare, west of Ireland ☘️ 🍃💕🍃

[@suzijane1110]

Thank you, Rabbi Simon for blessing me Daily with your words of wisdom that are so Beautiful. I am a Born again Believer in Yeshua, I have always felt there has been a tremendous lack in the Church today because the Jews and the Christians don’t fellowship together. We serve a Jewish Messiah and read a Jewish book, but we don't have the knowledge and understanding of the History and Culture of our Jewish Messiah Yeshua. I love listening to Hebrew worship and Rabbi Simon, as it gives me a better understanding and connection to my Father God. No wonder God said to the Jew first, then to the gentile, your teachings bless me more than anything I have listened to in my entire life. Words of Gold God Bless you. Abundantly, Rabbi Simon

[@punkrockcompound]

Consistency, Reliability (even when inconvenient), Accountability, Kindness, Empathic, Sensitive, Humility. One's actions are at the beginning of the list, then gets deeper from there; eventually into the context of that Being's soul. Are we more led by the animal/mind or intentionally connecting to our higher self? Are we Being honest with our selves or merely justifying for our selves? The Truth shall set us free. Thank You Rabbi.

[@jamesault7832]

Shabbat Shalom Rabbi Jacobson. Baruch HaShem and thank you for this meaningful message!

[@mikeofheavens]

I have been betrayed countless of times by friends, family and lovers. The key to protecting yourself is withhold information about yourself, dont lie to yourself when your insticts tell you something last and most importantly have no expectations but rather focus on others. It goes with out saying you are a priority because through you others benefit and observe others also learn about their family history or behaviors. People who hurt other are hurt too. So be yourself vulnerable and also remebers Murphys law

[@Suelynngrr]

There is so much wisdom in this offering, Rabbi Jacobson. I really need to connect with a group that is trustworthy, I am alone. Thank you for restoring sanity in a difficult world. You are a lifeline.

[@sharonaumani8827]

Big hugs to you.

[@jacquelinejackson1474]

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[@helentalia9923]

This speaks to me, Rabbi. I have become very weary of trusting people over the years from past life experiences. Everything you are saying is on key for me. God bless you.

[@codylecates8873]

Thank you Rabbi, you’re a great communicator and you have lots to teach.

[@jacintamcpadden7258]

I'm going to make sure my Children know what trustworthy people is and will always be accountable to them for where I know I fall short . Trust me TRUST IS EARNED AND CONSISTENT I am so greatly for this even for my own journey now . Thank you

[@coreycox2345]

Excellent. Without you word, you are nothing, Jacinta Md Padden.

[@ang20028]

Thank you Rabbi, with gratitude, for this lesson on TRUST. I feel like a veil has been lifted and I am understanding the importance of TRUST for the first time. This has helped me acknowledge my own behaviors and those in my life. So much disharmony can be extinguished through the traits of CONSISTENCY, HUMILITY, and ACCOUNTABILITY. I hope this wisdom you have given on TRUST will soundly resonate and bring the divine forth into our everyday lives. It is never too late for realizations!

[@mjac8373]

I wish it was you at the podium thirty-five years ago when I went from blue collar carpenter to Doctoral program in psycogy because I wanted to help people who were troubled and in distress. Instead I found eogic arrogance to such a degree I walked out of the program. And here you have the wisdom of Tradition and direct knowledge of Truth. Thank you very much for your Work.

[@TomeRodrigo]

So have you got back to blue collar carpentry?

[@mjac8373]

@@TomeRodrigo Retired now live on a small lake, have a hand tool shop in the basement where I putz and restore furniture, tools, and what have you. My father was a cabinetmaker woodworker all his life. I alway felt if it was okay for Christ, well, it's pretty okay for me, too!

[@silverkitty2503]

Here is my humble opinion. Look for the good in people. Realize every one has light and shadow. Realize that trust is fluid. It's more about who you can trust with what. Realize everyone has weaknesses and weak moments.

[@carolina_is_free]

Thank you, Rabbi Jacobson. 🙏 I agree, trust is really important for mental & physical health. And indeed, it's impressive to see animals or humans work together in harmony and synchronicity - like a swarm of birds or a team in combat/rescue service. I hope everyone finds his place in this world and good people to trust. ✨🕊️

[@LukeA1223]

The moment when a person says (vocalizes) "Trust Me" is the moment I look for their motives... with intensity. If they don't pay attention to my close scrutiny, chances are good they are honest. If, however, they notice the attention, invariably, will attempt to direct that attention to one thing or another. I point my head where they're directing, my focus is intently on them, their actions, studying them. With that observation, such a person has yet proven to be without ulterior motive. Sometimes the result is a simple card trick, most times that deception retains varying shades of something "dark". One individual I can trust to be honest even if it's painful. Another I can trust to to be deceitful and hurtful, even trying to take my life. Both can be trusted. One deserves my attention, the other demands it. I'm not a believer. neither an atheist, I observe. To "know" I consider the most important, yet, the (what I presume) highest knowledge doesn't get one on a city bus without the required fare, though most precious. Elusive. Yes, the grand designer is in the heart of everything. I've seen this truth all my life (I don't recall not seeing this). Yet simply because everything has this is no reason to presume an individual's direction, one way or another. I joined the Masonic Lodge many years ago to spend time with my father (get him off the couch in his old age). We met on the level, parted on the square, were bound by oaths of brotherly love and guided in that rhetoric and allegory, teachings intended to maintain that "level and square in our dealings". I can think of three masons with whom those precepts were kept. Thousands failed the test, though, I haven't met them all. People are people, all equal and quite predictable. Good intentions... now there's a different topic. Rabbi, if you please, talk to me (us) about humility, the definition, meaning and act of being humble. Thank you

[@generalsub7]

Be careful using this theory against someone who's trying to save your life from imminent danger. As a personal trainer I used this 'trust me' phrase a lot with my clients who ate themselves to death... They thought I was making shit up to take their money. Some are dead today because they thought they knew better. Not everyone are evil. Sometimes when a person asks for your trust, maybe he or she are trying to help you

[@Gunth0r]

You observe, yet observation alone does not distinguish pyramid from pit. On top of that, observation is judgment. In that judgment, people act different. Nervousness isn't always about guilt. Interesting point you made, though: "one deserves my attention, the other demands it" ... but I feel this is something we naturally do if we detect dishonesty.

[@deborahdean8867]

"Trust me" is mostly a figure of speech we say when sincerely convinced of what we say.

[@LOVEISTRUTH300]

I said trust me often in the past and I was 100% honest. Some people have nervousness in social situations that makes their body language out of wack.

[@LukeA1223]

@@deborahdean8867 Trust issues quite often stem from the shock of discovering raisins in ones chocolate chip cookies.

[@adelhausboutique]

Just discovered you recently and I really appreciate your channel! Tikkun Olam!

[@v.britton4445]

I first lost trust as the oldest child, my parents meant well, but life got spread too thin...too many children

[@marciasloan534]

No such thing

[@vaultwisdom147]

It hits hard

[@ithacacomments4811]

The same here. Oldest daughter. Mother autistic. Father alcohol abuser. 4 younger siblings. Mother always ill. Father always at work. I was lucky to be able to spend time with my grandparents and aunts. Otherwise, I felt invisable and only valued for the amount of work I could do....housekeeping, childcare, yardwork, etc. Little affection. My parents were always in survival mode.

[@suekal3000]

Thank you for this cus I have major trust issues from all the damage from the past. If I even talk to you to be my friend and I have no friends it’s a major compliment to you and testament to what I see in that person. And I let no one in and only two in 7 years have I let in to the inner sanctums of my heart. But you are right Rabbi we self sabotage from the past damage.

[@margaretbeaton1568]

Thank you Rabbi Simon Jacobson for the enlightenment.

[@lisanidog8178]

You have to be trustworthy on your own and not depend others to be that. You be trustworthy no matter who you meet. It’s learned not a given. Then you have people yelling at you no matter what you do. Yelled at when you tell the truth, yelled at when you don’t.

[@fionawhite1418]

I really appreciate all that you speak on. Your wisdom needto be shared. Thank you.

[@joerivandeweyer3056]

“Put no trust in a neighbor; have no confidence in a friend; guard the doors of your mouth from her who lies in your arms.”

[@diggie9598]

If you think it's smart to have no confidence in a friend, then you likely need to pick your friends more carefully.

[@joerivandeweyer3056]

@@diggie9598 edgy, just wait till you grow up

[@Lizzy00088]

Yes, that's in Micah and it's Wisdom.

[@cynthia-jo1zz]

You have taken the red pill???

[@joerivandeweyer3056]

@@cynthia-jo1zz Nietzsche & Scriptures, red pilled before red pill was a thing

[@horsehorse4595]

Rabbi , please consider a video on lack of empathy as well as the tools of the emotionally intelligent. Thank you for these honest videos

[@valeriafedele8930]

Thank you Rabbi for your teachings. You are helping people, like me

[@allybally0021]

Superb advice. This type of wisdom is a wonderful gift. Thank you Rabbi.

[@saragiard]

Thank you so much for this wisdom Rabbi Simon. This message help me a lot.

[@jimsmith1549]

Rabbi, you are such an eloquent man. During your talk I would start to think of some facet of this enormously important topic, and what do you know 5 minutes later you would be very clearly talk about it. I’m a 72 year old gay man [raised R.C.] in the 50’S and mid 60’S. I was always acutely aware I was different and found I eventually had to do a lot of self-editing. I would say I was moderately untrusting. Thank God I had some familial support or I wouldn’t even be here now. My dad’s mother is the #1 person in my young self that loved me absolutely 100%. God bless her. It’s been a slow SPIRITUAL process but I’m much less guarded now and have a wonderful partner. And a few accepting friends. Two more ideas: I think of trust as that warm blanket where I feel totally safe. It DOES require nurturing. Second, to review EVERYONE in my past and current life experience and see the DIVINE in them. Errors can be forgiven-and each person has to discover and amend/heal their own MISTAKES. These mistakes [sometimes of the most grievous quality] result from US FORGETTING WHO WE REALLY ARE. Ultimately we are all accountable for ourselves. And there is hope for everyone. Respectfully, Jim

[@MrChristianbowman82]

I appreciate you taking the time to make these. Thank you

[@missyklipp8287]

Thank you Rabbi. How well you understand and explain my most fragile emotions. How nurtured I felt by your words and Spirit. Baruch Hashem ❤

[@ApollonianShy18]

One of the best things to be told by your loved one "i see you & i trust you" Edit: & the best thing is to be trustworthy 2

[@EamonnS]

My trust, my self-image were shot. Years later my mother asked forgiveness. That made a huge difference.

[@alicebgreen1183]

A really wise and practical teaching Rabbai, thank you for this mitzvah. ❤️

[@charlottematshikanawezi7423]

Merci Rabbi Simon Jacobson.

[@tonjaallen4369]

I've learned trust no one with everything. A few trust with some things. Trust God in all things.

[@NickNightingaleYT]

That was affirming. Awesome and so useful. Thanks Rabbi.

[@miriaml.150]

I really appreciate what you have to say about trust and never really thought about how identifying humility vs. arrogance is a very important piece of the puzzle. I think those characteristics are fairly easy to discern compared to other more subtle characteristics. Looking back using humility as a guide, it makes it much clearer for me to understand why I couldn't trust certain people. And I will keep that in mind when I meet new people. Thank you for another informative talk. God bless you. 🙏💙🙏

[@enjolique367]

Yes, I love that

[@davidappleton2905]

Thank you, Rabbi Simon, for great teaching.

[@ark-mark1]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom Rabbi!

[@michaeloverstreet986]

Rabbi excellent perspective, and the turtle shell analogy is spot on. Simeon Sinek speaks to the “why”, which may help “tune” this lesson. -Lachaim

[@MountainGirlwIPA]

I really liked this video. I am notoriously late. I have been this way my entire life . I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately. I am hopeful that by being accountable, I can become more trustworthy. Sure maybe this may seem trivial but it’s the one thing I want to change about myself.

[@guarionex4672]

Min 26:30! 🔥👏 Beautiful comprehension and explanation of one of His natural orders! Beautiful Rabbi!

[@geraldineohagan5553]

Bless you, thank you Rabbi for your great teaching, mind yourself and we appreciate your hard work and dedication to help others

[@acyntavedatattva3908]

Dear Rabbi Shimon Jacobson. I feel so greatful to meet you, your words are full of néctar an unparalell wisdom. Accountability 👍 Consistencia 🌟👍 Humility👍💜 In Good I trust 🥰 🙏🙏🙏🤗 Good bless you, your familly and all the Lucky ones Who are listening to this message . Shabat Shalom

[@ruthdanielson919]

Thank you, Rabbi. The soul is a part of G~d, within us all, the part that is trustworthy. No matter how down on yourself, this point should give your day a boost.

[@rachael-777]

Created in HIS image....the soul and that part of us is indeed trustworthy & pure. Baruch Hashem.

[@Life_42]

I trust Rabbi Simon Jacobson with my life!

[@saftabracha1140]

Brilliant Topic Rabbi. I do love listening to your lectures . I trust no one only Hashem. I’ve been duped by many since I was a little child. I was always from a very young age to see through people. That’s the truth. It sounds aweful but that’s what it is. Only in Ein Od Milvado!!!!!!!! I’ve never had a friend. Very sad.But I’m still there for anyone who needs help if it’s possible even at my age.I’ve never expected anything in return. I have always been lied 🤥 to. It’s one thing I hate. But I will be there for them. If possible. Bizrat Hashem. I truly believe I’ve been guided to you. Im Ayin Ha Tova B “H 🙏you are an 😇🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱May Hashem give you abundant Blessings for you and all that is yours .with all things in all things . 🙏 thank you praised be the most High for eternity. Amen Ve Amen. !!!!!! I’m a survivor of Survivors.

[@andylynch473]

Trust the self, be trustworthy, believe in self and the need to trust others begins to diminish. The reason why is that we no longer place trust so highly in our day to day thoughts, we do not question trust as we ourselves are trusted by the self. To do this we must face our demons, light our shadows and be brutally honest about our past and how we wish to be in future. 🙏🏻

[@Adeleef]

I am so thankful that I found you 💕💕💕

[@marca7434]

Rabbi Simon Jacobson ... Thank you for making another excellent video. 🎵

[@OxFromPhilly]

What a beautiful video! This is very valuable information coming from the rabbi, thank you so much Rabbi Jacobson. BH 💙✡🕎

[@DoreenBellDotan]

In the last few days I had the experience of having the person I trusted the most in the whole wide world tell me that the road was clear and to cross immediately. I trusted the person so much, I didn't look and when I stepped into the gutter there was a bus going by at full throttle just inches from my nose. The person I trusted blindly for decades of my life almost killed me. - and didn't express any regret, remorse, shock or try to comfort me in any way. As if that weren't enough, that person said: "Cross now!" exactly as that person did when I almost got hit by a bus two subsequent times. Of course, those times I looked. But that person still made the same "mistake" two subsequent times. That's how much it took for me to learn that I wasn't in the relationship I thought I was and that person was not the person I put blind trust in. Now, thank God, I know that no one ever does anything to us unless we have brought the experience into being ourselves. We generate our experiences. So, now I have to deal with the reality of being someone who trusts foolishly and has something in me that will kill me, whom I project in the form of someone very close to me who I can't get out of my life. I have absolutely no idea how to deal with this. HaShem has brought me to ground zero concerning trust and being trustworthy. Everything you think you know about trust is ephemeral. What you think you know about trust is only so good as the next time you'll be brought to ground zero. Fortunately and unfortunately, the experiences and tests that HaShem gives me at this level are far beyond anything in the Rabbinic literature. Maybe you can still find the level of wisdom you need in books; I no longer can. The tests get much harder, Shimon.

[@mariannorton4161]

I think there is a difference between trust and hope. That difference is critical when it comes to people. Hope comes from the belief another person can be the Yin to our Yang, trust puts that burden on ourselves. It's a hard road, but I think a good one if you can hang in there. Best.

[@need2know739]

I hope that person wasn't your husband Mrs.D?

[@Zod32]

This Rabbi is a really solid dude

[@jonathanallen9596]

Impressive …I’m grateful that you posted this and will share

[@MysticDragon369]

It will be nice to be able to trust the people of this world again... There's so much lack of trust... And so many things which weakens the strength of the world... Thank you for your teaching... Stay blessed

[@carol-us4xn]

Trust is not automatically generated, 💯 it comes from consistency and truthfulness.

[@WayneLambrightIII]

Shalom Rebbe I really enjoyed your presentation. You covered all the bases and you gave many examples and I shared it with my friends on Twitter. Thank you for your investment in leader ship and helping others live a more balanced and understanding life.

[@Willowtree82]

Dang it Wayne you're supposed to be on 4chan. I'm not supposed to see you in the rabbis comments unless it's to tell televangelist evangelicals they are not Jewish.

[@alisonvandermerwr6349]

Thank you Rabbi...for sharing your wisdom...i will send this video to my previous children...you have beautifully articulated the dynamics of TRUST...much love to all

[@avalerie4467]

Hi. Your comment made me chuckle in a good way and i need a tip, please. How do you get previous children ? I have some people in my family, i would like to claim as my previous family, but do not know how. Hopefully, all is well between you and your former children and this will bring you back together.

[@alisonvandermerwr6349]

Oops Valerie...hahaha...predictive text! Well spotted...PRECIOUS*🤙

[@samus598]

I don't know why KZbin recommended your channel to me, but I have been absolutely loving it. I've never been moved so thoroughly, or even resonated with any religious teachings before. I've gained a lot from this channel. From one human to another, thanks for putting this out into the universe for me to stumble upon. I burned down my forest of trust when I was younger, and through accountability I have regained the trust of my friends, family, and spouse. This really helped me appreciate how far I've come to be trustworthy, reliable, and honest.

[@carolina_is_free]

Hi Samus, I agree. Rabbi Jacobson (and Rabbi Manis Friedman!) are very wise men and both have been suggested by the Algorithm to me. It came at the right time and I am thankful for it. After reading a lot about Christianity, Buddhism, Hinduism, Animism, NewAge, etc. the teachings of both Rabbis feel very warm and resonate on a special level. It is nice to meet other people who feel the same - I can not talk about it in real life because people in my surrounding are mostly atheist, agnostic or into New Age. They deny G-D in so many ways. It is okay for me. We all go our own way. I am happy that you were able to build back your trust and be stronger. All the best to you! 🕊️

[@rubenk5677]

@@carolina_is_free Friedman is not a wise man. He is a clown. A man who dares saying "we, human beings,do not need God but He needs us" is neither a rabbi nor a wise man. He is a dangerous man disguised in wise man. Open your ears. No offense. May Adonai guide you

[@carolina_is_free]

@@rubenk5677 Hi Ruben, this was just my impression about him - he seems so nice and experienced. Why is he not wise (but dangerous) in your opinion - I would like to understand your point of view? Edit: What about Rabbi Jacobson - is he trustworthy in your opinion?

[@ipsitaghosh8531]

Trust and vulnerability come together ❤

[@j.d.thompson3505]

I like the idea of Humility as the path to personal trust.

[@JustPeaceLoveAndKindness]

Rabbi, you speak so wisely about trustworthiness. Thank you.

[@BryantKimbrough]

I'm new to stock market /Crypto and would like to invest but I've go no idea on how to make good profits. Pls what's the best approach you'd recommend?

[@garyjesus1387]

The only safe reliable,genuine and highly experienced expert I can refer you to is Mrs Claudia Walter's.

[@francisfrags9922]

My first investment with Mrs Claudia Walter's, gave me a profit of 87k dollars and ever since then she has never failed to deliver and I still stand by saying she is the most sincere broker I have know

[@nelsonkatherine2123]

Wow I'm just shocked some one mentioned expert Mrs Claudia Walter's name i thought I'm the only one trading with her

[@judysamaniego1606]

Mrs Claudia Walter's service is really good, I invested $22,000 and made a profit of $81,000 after a week. I still wonder how she gets her analysis

[@sophiakimberly8244]

Wow!! Impressive you trade with Mrs Claudia Walter's too! I thought people don't know her that well.... She's really awesome!

[@procrusteus]

I was asked by my sister if I would look after her cat while she was away on vacation for 2 months. It involved driving up to her place twice a day. I told her that I would agree to look after it for a month and no longer, but she still tried to convince me that I should look after it for the whole time. Then before she left for the two month trip she decided to go for another two week trip and again asked me to look after her pet. At that point I realized that she did not respect me as a person and was simply trying to use me without taking into account the inconvenience and the enormous amount of time I would spend at this task for no compensation. The realization made me angry and I decided to break my word to her to teach her a lesson. She later tried to pull a guilt trip on me, which I simply saw as more evidence of her manipulation and it had no effect on me. My lesson from this experience is to have more respect for my own time and not be so quick to agree to help someone that does not deserve it. In other circumstances I always try to honour my commitments using the guiding principle of consideration for the feelings of others.

[@brighidbrennan3168]

why did you not care for the cat at your home and also give it some company? think- a cat all alone , a animal who cannot speak for itself. Here you go and post about losing trust with your sister all underthe flag of your personal agenda🤔 to never have wanted the responsibility as you stated in your first paragraph. 😟😬

[@serahcw2723]

Really a cat 😂 I hate to break it to you but you the with the problem. First and foremost if you had reservations from the beginning you should have said no. Simple as that. Especially if you don't love pets unconditionally. Otherwise you'll end up being miserable and unkind for no good reason to the cat and your sister. Learn to say no to things you don't like or agree with.

[@procrusteus]

@@serahcw2723 As you don't live my life and don't know all the details of my situation your comments are unwelcome. If you honestly think about all the situations in your life when you regretted your decisions afterwards you are in absolutely no position to think yourself superior to me and to give unwanted advice. I am laughing to myself at the thought that you are the world's first perfect human and have always kept your word no matter what.

[@procrusteus]

@@brighidbrennan3168 Read my reply to Serah.....the same but double applies to you.

[@makeithappen6212]

@Kallengar I love your example, thank you for sharing it. The thing is also that when we do a favour to a family member or friend and we feel the person is taking advantage of our time or energy with no compensation, and maybe at a cost for us, we may have resentment or regret to have accepted the burden/task (from someone who took care of a close family member's business for 6 months while the person went abroad/literally saved their business) 🙂

[@markseagraves5486]

Rabbi, Thank you so much.

[@JLizard]

A great dose of humility and the layman's way to put the Golden Rule. I am not worthy. Thank you Rabbi.

[@iefkevanschaick1548]

I really love listening to your wisdom.

[@cremls]

Thank you Rabbi Jacobson, another great teaching. 🙂

[@annakortukov2845]

What a great talk! Thank you rabbi!

[@vickietaylor3535]

Thank you Rabbi Simon. I needed this message. You have helped me.

[@MrSlm1982]

I know belief wise we differ a bit (I'm a Christian) but I subscribed to your channel because your message is on point. G-d bless, and thank you!

[@Soulful_Pizza]

This was a very insightful lecture that landed well within my heart and soul's space. Thank you.

[@xXKyon12Xx]

This is like my life journey and wisdom and understanding I came to from thinking going inside of myself and finally let the emotions flow again upon a more solid model that reflects upon myself, in a nutshell but still, am still learning.

[@everydel2941]

Dear Rabbi, Thank you for another beautiful religious/psychological lecture. I must admit that you had my trust from listening to the first one on reincarnation as you speak with heart. I feel much better after listening to your religious lectures as they reinforce certain things I know along with building on that. 🌷🌷🌷

[@annhobson1975]

This was excellent. Thank you for your words of wisdom.

[@jacovawernett3077]

Rabbi Jacobson is wise and zen like Yoda. Eternal and infinite wisdom.

[@whatdoyoulivefor735]

How is he so wise! Truly a man of God.

[@DiannMelodyDunkley-sx2jr]

This is helpful. Thank you much,Rabbi Jacobson

[@maryjohnson1890]

Amen, Rabbi. In God I trust, all others pay cash. Years ago this saying was printed on a plaque in someone's store that they had hung on their wall. I thought it was very true. I would always read it every time I was in that store. Enjoying your talks, Rabbi.

[@avalerie4467]

LOL. Yep. Every bar and grill here in the South has that sign at their cash register ! Always makes me giggle.