Jane Fonda tried to WARN JLo, but she blew her off! Now...she's getting a divorce

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[@ritab5620]

Making me think about how Dolly Parton handles her marriage to her husband. Respect for Dolly.

[@mvmochannel]

Right! Great point!

[@JJohns_4]

Jane was 100%a friend. Sad Jennifer blew her off.

[@bettyeboop2942]

When Jane (she was married 3 times) tells JLo to stop being so public about your relationship, you know she is talking from experience. JLo is just a selfish person, and you cannot be that if you want your marriage to last.

[@princessshenaniganspresent5538]

It seems like his love was not enough; she needs attention and accolades from everyone else as well.

[@josephineespiritu3930]

@@bettyeboop2942 it is her astrological Chart of what she is. So we cannot tell her this and tha

[@PRProPam]

When your elders care enough to tell you something, you would be wise to LISTEN. 🙏🏾

[@towritemichelle210]

This!!

[@avlivinggolden]

I am surprised no one is talking about J. Lo children. The damage is done.

[@traceycheking]

This!! 😞

[@cecilia8621]

@@avlivinggolden exactly 💯

[@stephaniewilson4164]

I knew JLo and Ben wouldn't last. She was just engaged to Arod before getting back with Ben. Anyone who gets engaged and married that many times doesn't truly marry for love. it's something else missing from their life. Hopefully she's learned her lesson. ...I doubt it.

[@lisajackson9431]

If I were Ben Affleck, I don't think I could EVER get over "Pen Affleck". That's like letting strangers read your journal. 😭

[@mvmochannel]

Ikr!!! The look on his face was so sad to me.

[@stephaniewilson4164]

Tommy Davidson from In Living Color was on Shannon Sharp's show and he spoke about how after Jennifer made it to Hollywood she snubbed him. He made an attempt to speak to her at an event or when he saw and she was a total b**h to him. And you could tell that it hurt him. I have no sympathy for her. She's been divorced multiple times for a reason. She's a good dancer but her Acting and Singing is mediocre at its best.

[@amissteree]

I’m willing to bet that Leah Remini told her the SAME thing Jane said and Jennifer told both to kick rocks and that’s what got her to this point. Really sad.

[@shadymccoy7]

I agree . I think that's what happened with Leah because they used always be together on trips and hanging out!

[@carolynswan1171]

I agree

[@The12Believe]

JLO is an Attention Sore!!

[@LMBynum]

The minute she sold his private love letters, I knew it was a problem.

[@marilynngraham7129]

Not surprised that Ben has had enough because I’m tired of seeing JLO too. She’s overexposed as a celebrity. Also, she seems as if she’s having a problem with aging and staying relevant.

[@sacoope1]

As I have said before, the biggest punishment to Jlo is to ignore her. Jlo probably had her staff tell the paparazzi when and where she is.

[@gl5478]

Jennifer hasn't been successful with no profile men either. Maybe a grandpa type man is next. Why would Benny Medina agree to an invitation on a honeymoon 😮 That's just as strange as Jennifer asking him.

[@Karla-mu6hn]

Yes JLO is a big part of the problem, however Jennifers Garners criticism of Ben being distant and cold doesnt bode well for him sustaining a long term relationship.

[@nana23ac]

@@Karla-mu6hn he also cheated on JG with the nanny

[@tinkthestrange]

I always felt like Ben settled for Jennifer garner because she was a safe choice. She would be a good mother and a good wife, but he never seemed terribly excited by her.

[@D1Snr]

Yeah, I get the impression Ben is cold.

[@muta_othernames]

That description she gave sent a shiver down my spine. Oh my God

[@angelamaildin7976]

Jlo has ro learn this lesson for herself

[@ShiningLight411]

If not Ben Affleck, the next man is going to take her for all she has. She apparently does not believe in prenuptial agreements.

[@breakthecycle1971]

Jennifer has some serious internal issues she needs to work through. She’s giving narcissist. No regards or empathy for others. It’s all about me me!

[@deborahreaves2358]

Jennifer Lopez really needs Jesus. That is the ONLY way she would feel fulfilled. I pity her and the many other celebrities who are searching for peace and fulfillment in all the wrong places.

[@Befaithful202]

@@deborahreaves2358 yes. Amen to that. 🙏

[@alexisgarcia1344]

It looks like Jen was warned several times. The executives said, 'No' to the project, Jane warned her, and the photographers took the pictures to prove Ben's dissatisfaction. Those are the obvious ones.

[@cdubb8827]

I wholeheartedly agree 👍🏽

[@Sherri_Speaks]

Viewer request: Judge Mathis's wife files for divorce after 39 years.

[@Apostylicpoet]

Wow. Is no one staying together anymore?!

[@delle3955]

Oh wow! 😢After 39 years!😮

[@carolynswan1171]

@@Apostylicpoetthere are some not that many though

[@songbird9444]

Nobody cares about Judge Mathis 🙄

[@hershalltolbert2379]

Some of us are trying......growing apart and not willing to change is a real thing​@Apostylicpoet

[@tsims1983able]

She valued fame more than her husband.

[@bravegal8325]

The lack of respect for sobriety was really a red flag. From what I’ve read and seen just being around alcohol is a trigger.

[@njc9776]

I can only imagine how crazy it was when she was with Diddy. Two over the top egos and arrogance.

[@melodyjackson2334]

Seems like Ben would’ve preferred to be more like Oprah’s man. Low key in a high profile relationship.

[@LoveTanyaxo]

Right. Like Dolly Parton has been married for 58 years. Her husband notoriously wants nothing to do with the public eye. They support and honor each other’s choice in the matter

[@Lizzybeth2012]

Ben Affleck's father was as an alcoholic and spent 12 years in a rehabilitation facility as he switched from patient to counsellor. The addiction runs deep in his family so the alcohol line showed me how much she did not truly care for Ben outside of the happy ending she had in her mind! In her film this me then... in the break up scenes... the men all said that they felt like an accessory or a piece of art she just hangs on her wall. Seeing as it's autobiographical your assessment is spot on!

[@mstate_]

I suspect the paparazzi & media attention is a trigger for him as well & that’s why he tries live be his life low key unless filming or HAS to be in the public eye.

[@kimariokiji]

There’s a hole in Jennifer’s psyche that cannot be filled. No marriage ceremony, no relationship, no nothing will satisfy her. Ben is going to present all the crap she did during their marriage to the Court, and he is going to dig in her pockets - that will hit her where it will truly hurt her. Jane Fonda was trying to help and I understand that she is somewhat aloof, so she was probably surprising herself that she cared enough to make those phone calls. Leah Remini also messed up and told JLo that she was making a mistake with getting back together with Ben, and JLo got pissed and ended their long time friendship. Oops.

[@LoveTeaSoul]

She threw away her long-time friendship with Leah Remini for this relationship? 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@vfree4579]

The truth hurts and the truth is always a risk.😢

[@JdEllis-ec6yy]

​@@LoveTeaSoulNarcissist ne ver never have friends!!!!

[@shereads6234]

I wonder if she is going to be on to the next again, or take time to sit down and be alone.

[@LoveTanyaxo]

I saw an article where it inferred that Matt Damon said Ben stopped going to couples therapy w JLO bc Ben said she completely humiliates him in their sessions.

[@kwallace3821]

Jlo is in love with fame She doesn’t see Ben as someone not quite suited to her, for her it was status / fame by any means necessary

[@DorothyNelson-lo2ul]

She’s just in love with him tremendously and she doesn’t mind showing and sharing it to the world and she thought he was in this with her sense he asked to marry her she loves Ben and so excited he chose her again she’s on cloud 9 in love and he knows it I don’t doubt he loves her but she’s head over heels in love with ben❤

[@carolynswan1171]

I’m so over it about Jennifer Lopez and her 15 husbands or ex husbands. Ben shouldn’t gotten back in a relationship with her the second time around so it is what it is

[@Mush2389]

Or they should’ve just dated again and not marry so they could’ve just walked away at this point without any divorce. They both made the mistake getting back together. They broke up the second time for the same reason.

[@msarrington27]

Oh my goodness you can hear the concern and Jane Fonda's voice when she's trying to talk to JLo it almost sounds like she's playing with her.

[@caiahinstyle]

So… I’m a brother and I love your perspectives, especially when you deep dive on spiritual things… in this case, the video came on while I was in the shower. When you said the manager came on the honeymoon I hollered out “SHE’S ILL!” 🤦🏽‍♂️ J Lo seems exhausting

[@adlinrobinson4988]

I think JLO sabotaged her own marriage. She think she knows best for both instead of looking at things from his side as well. She fail to see and acknowledge that marriage is about us not me. She is selfish and so is Ben, however she treated this man like little boy.

[@moniquetillery7336]

Jane has tons of experience with relationships, but Jennifer is set in her ways. Her own daughter discuss an an interview how she moved Alex in their home without explaining they were in a serious relationship.

[@Mush2389]

Ive never seen nor heard her daughter speak about her mother nor her relationship with Arod. Not saying it didn’t happen but I’ve never seen it. We know she was crying on her father’s instagram page about the breakup but she didn’t speak on it.

[@moniquetillery7336]

@@Mush2389 I saw it on entertainment tonight when her and Arod broke up

[@ParisFinley]

How Benny Medina went from producing a successful show based on his life, to being Jennifer's assistant is next level. I hope she's paying him more than "those people".

[@blackhannahofficial]

Can you talk about Judge Mathis wife filing for divorce Next❔

[@vfree4579]

WHAT!!!!!!!!!

[@mieldor76]

I’m sorry Ben Affleck is also to blame for this tragic public embarrassment. He knew Jennifer was the d@mn same, we don’t change at 50+, his mind clearly is still foggy from substance abuse, and emotionally he probably would date a headboard at this point. Let’s not forget he was dating young ladies in their 20s. To me both are a hot mess and they got exactly what they planned for 😊

[@energy70482]

It’s about respect. Apparently, just listen to her own voice. If a person doesn’t think they have a problem; nothing is going to change. Wisdom comes with age; some people never arrive to that point.

[@AM-xc1ze]

We should not put all the blame on JLo. Ben ain’t no angel either

[@AlexiaHDIntuition]

Omg Jane Fonda is the most qualified to give advice on marriage and relationships 😅 you are right when you talk about her assistant that Ben didn't like 😂

[@robertmartinjr.4537]

@AlexiaHDIntuition when you have walked a similar path as a person especially one that has lived longer I think she could have given JLo sage advice. Avoid the pitfalls that I stumbled into.

[@lovejune22]

11:31 so trueee Everything is all about her. She operates off of ego and treats ppl close to her like accessories.

[@kindahere4this]

Anyone that’s been married that many times is an egomaniac

[@chanellec5386]

Why would she sell his motorcycle collection? Neither one of them need the money. I tried research it but couldn't find anything.

[@LoveTanyaxo]

She said it was not safe to be on the bike. Domineering for sure.

[@lynnehorizon5532]

I read she donated the money.

[@msbeaz]

I suspect that her next relationship will be with a man in his 20’s similar to Madonna.

[@untilthen...373]

Thanks for covering this. It was definitely something I had been thinking about. I have always thought that once she got back with him that she should lay low and enjoy her kids and him. Then I read an article about Jane talking to her about this and the writing was beyond written on the wall. I just wish she would pause. There’s this obsession, I suppose, that she has with love. I remember her talking about that once. It’s like she’s in such a pursuit of it to a point that it’s toxic and she’s blinded by almost any and everything including warning signs and the people whom she love’s boundaries.

[@Peachesandsunshine]

We’ve seen this with J Lo before. So who got next? My guess is that she will be outside by Christmas with a 20 or 30-something up and coming actor or athlete on her arm. At this point let’s just make this a guessing game. Who would enjoy getting some clout and being in front of the paparazzi all day long with J Lo on his arm🧐🤔

[@LovelyRed841]

She’s past that “girl” stage , lol

[@islandgirl8067]

Not surprised at all. Ben was her ex for a reason.

[@judithortiz-velazquez4992]

Fame seems to have paid off for her until now. Unfortunately, I don’t think she has enough insight to see that fame is not a strong foundation to build on. It is too fleeting. J Lo; Ay be ditto.

[@sjg5994]

I never believed this relationship was real. Ever. I always thought it was a PR Hollywood thing that's been done for decades in that industry. They do that to boost profit of things they wanna push and I don't think deal worked out as planned. Ben looked paid and miserable the ENTIRE time. He didn't even "act" his part of loving on her like that did years ago. I think everything is crafted....even timely released call with Jane Fonda. The industry is very deceptive....and politics, too.

[@MzBatyah]

Not ran through! 😵‍💫 Yikes!

[@haroldtrim7200]

I’ve got the perfect man for J-Lo!!!! Al Reynolds🤔. He could be her boyfriend n girlfriend 😂😂😂

[@ursulatroxler7428]

😂😂😂😂😂😂two for the price of one

[@keyanup1795]

​@@ursulatroxler7428 Facts 💯

[@willeanewilliams2656]

J Low herself is the problem, so why was she warned?

[@melaningirlhustle1355]

Her getting back with Ben seems like before, for image reasons which is probably why Benny was there in such a "private" moment. Like you said Its a reality show for her. Jane tried to warn her but she played oblivious.

[@axim08]

I’d bet she didn’t feel like she should have to compromise with him, because she felt he owed her for how he embarrassed her the first time. Him giving her that ring saying he wasn’t going anywhere for her, was a green light to walk all over him, or so she thought, because she thought he’d be/feel too guilty to leave her again.

[@odalysruiz4]

Selfish and thinking she's privileged. She's definitely a big problem. Poor kids. They'll leave home soon. Gbless them. 🙏🏼👼🏼👼🏼♥️♥️

[@tinkthestrange]

The thing is he knew her. He’s dated her before and he’s grown. He wanted her. Maybe promises were made that people couldn’t keep. Ben affleck doesn’t have a long line of ex wives, he has 2 named Jennifer. Ms Lopez on the other hand clearly doesn’t know what she wants or how to pick a man. She seems to have always wanted this man but not enough to work to keep him. And at thier big ages, it shouldn’t be this hard, you know who you are and what you want. You know what went wrong last time and your role in it. Not saying Ben is perfect by any means, but Jennifer needs to get it together

[@yoliebee9176]

lol. We back again.

[@Grace4thislife]

Can you cover the Braxton returning to tv and Judge Greg Mathis getting divorce

[@danielrobinson9270]

Can't be mad at anything said here. The truth is the truth.

[@JdEllis-ec6yy]

❤❤❤❤❤LOVE MY CAT BAYLOU, JANE FONDA!!!!!

[@ShiningLight411]

Ben is about to take her to the cleaners!

[@Karla-mu6hn]

I don't think that's Ben's style

[@ShiningLight411]

@@Karla-mu6hn We’ll find out.

[@BrooklynLove55]

JLo was extremely public with her marriage to Ben than her previous marriages. Why take your manager on your honeymoon? 🤦🏽‍♀️ She is obsessed with fame, money and status and power. Marriage is serious but JLo doesn’t take it seriously. She’s been married 4 times, she shouldn’t get married again. Ben saw she was stubborn and bossy. Ben said he wanted a relationship off social media! JLo blew it! She didn’t want to compromise!

[@Mara_143]

✅️✅️✅️✅️

[@cbbabineaux9004]

IMO : He wants the other J back!

[@Mush2389]

He was like having another child with Jenn G. He’s miserable. She tried her best to keep him on track for her children but she’s unloaded that weight and dating a mature man and seems in a good place.

[@softgirllifedigitals]

I think she made a lot of compromises with Marc Anthony and it eventually made her miserable.

[@Mush2389]

Yep Mark is not easy to deal with and no pushover so she walked away from that marriage because he was the man in that relationship and couldn’t manipulate him for publicity. He’s very private and have lived a very private life to this day unless he’s working.