My Alcoholism, My Father and I - Caroline Kagia

Caroline Kagia grew up in a warm and sheltered home. Then she was exposed to a world she'd never seen, where smoked and drank and she was lured into it. Little did she know what she was genetically predisposed to alcoholism. She shares her story of sinking into it, the effect on her and her family and a father who refused to give up on her and changed her destiny.
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[@nellymakena9082]

@Engage Talk. As a 25 year old ...who just got sober ..hitting 53 days today🎉..This is a very inspiring story and @Carol Kagia Is an impressive orator. She sums up my whole life. HER DAD IS MY GRANDPA IN MY LIFE. THANKS TO Ann GIKUNDA❤FOR RECOMMENDING ME TO WATCG THIS ONE

[@nimuyreemu3723]

When I got pregnant,My father who was a no nonsense guy really supported me.he told me that it was no big deal,he took me to college,he loved me and my daughter,he never gave up and told even my mother not to stress me...today he rests in peace but I still remember him that at the worst of my mistakes and in all my confusion and mess he loved me...today my daughter is 14.if it was not for my dad, I would probably have given up on life

[@NellyMacharia]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@mamageorge8289]

May he rest in peace. I love my father and mother to bits.

[@kezamercy9926]

Wow that's inspiring

[@DaisyKiprop25]

wow ...an amazing dad ..may he rest in peace

[@nezahakiza51]

What a hero!!!My heart felt warm and fuzzy when I was reading this. To irreplaceable dadsss!! ! May he rest in peace.

[@joyslykinyaa]

A father can speak life into your life. Having people you call family is the biggest blessing one has. I love your family

[@njerikagia4270]

joyslykinyaa thank you so much for your kind words. I give God ALL the glory.

[@Kamum3]

This is so inspiring Carol, I have struggled with alcoholism for a long time... I went to rehab just got out a month ago... Best decision I ever made... Thank u for ur story

[@shananne81]

Well done you ❤ Which rehabilitation did you go to?

[@jacksonmutiso9532]

My behaviour and anxiety have predisposed me to habitual drinking. It has affected my Education, work and family relations. I have a story whose ending is yet to be determined. Thank you for your story about alcoholism. It really resonates to my status quo issue and inspires the inevitability that is change. Engage is a good initiative. BLESS y'all

[@EngageTalk]

Bless you too. You have the power to write the ending you desire.

[@marylandjowaka7069]

So touching good show Africa rising. ..I never had a dad I don't know how it feels but I got my father in heaven 😍😍😍

[@marigu5804]

You are not alone. Our father is in heaven

[@kelvingitonga2537]

That is all you need..

[@reri3086]

Maryland Jowaka I know this feeling I also wonder how it feels like

[@tabithaonsongo4591]

Maryland Jowaka 0

[@estherkaranja5797]

😢

[@catherinewanjaanthony6970]

just remembered my dad. who is now in heaven he also supported me when i got my son out of wed lock. so encouraging story that is so cool carol

[@njerikagia4270]

Catherine Wanja thank you 😊.

[@iron_lilo4844]

Will one day tell my story here.. This is amazing

[@hannahnjuguna1770]

Wow! Your dad is great man. May fathers' take their place in their children's lives.

[@annemuthonimuturi2578]

I love this gal, she say's her support system was very strong , her father spoke into her life... A father's love is powerful.

[@gepit]

I am so moved and touched by her story, she an amazing orator and has come from a dark place. I know of people similarly affected where I've witnessed beauty and potential erased over the years through the scourge of excess alcohol. Non judgemental support and friendship goes a long way to helping those affected.

[@mwaikadu7474]

"it's the prayers of my parents " I'm 23 now and I'll start praying for my unborn children from now

[@EdmundMwanjelle]

I have been watching ENGAGE TALK videos for some time now, but this has touched my heart and blessed my soul. Thank you Caroline for sharing your story.

[@waitheramuriithi6959]

Edmund Mwanjelle has

[@246Violin]

I salute your dad for being an example here on Earth of God's love for you...its unconditional

[@lindaoloo9160]

The best Engage ever.

[@annegakuo805]

Indeed our parents speak life into our lives,for me its my Mother.Good job Njeri on overcoming it all,you became bigger than thè problem.

[@janegichingiri9741]

Njeri, my namesake, what a powerful story. I am so glad you have recovered and you have your full life now. Addiction is such a powerful thief.

[@memorymalunga670]

Thank you Carol for sharing your story. Love is a powerful force. Thank God for your dad. He refused to give up on you.

[@Kalizzy21]

What a story. The Kagias should write a book on parenting, if they haven't already. They are wonderful, wonderful parents. May the Lord sustain you in sobriety. He is a faithful God.

[@njerikagia4270]

Kalizzy21 Amen.

[@janewambui4090]

Is Tina kagia her sister?

[@vagatsiva]

@@janewambui4090 yes

[@ItsWachera]

Why am I crying? Fathers love is unconditional . God bless your dad for not giving up on you Caroline.

[@jbk5081]

I've taken so many lessons from this single story. MY HEART IS FULL💝

[@joshuamanampiu6489]

As a father, I am challenged by this story. Than you for sharing.

[@ireneamisi9988]

Experience is the best teacher. Thanks to your dad for not giving up on you becoz God never gives up on us. Glory be to God.

[@cleanq3]

Great presentation. Beautiful story. To probably the most unsung heroes in this world, "Fathers". YOure the best.

[@kithylouise575]

I attended this engage talk and listening to her made me drop a tear.

[@njerikagia4270]

KithyLouise Awww. I give God ALL the glory 😊.

[@whitneyodera8716]

My father is also an alcoholic,to a point he's been in rehab but has relapsed a number of times since 2010 to even drinking chang'aa in the village ever since I lost my mum last year and he almost died...right now he is doing well but still drinking sometimes but your story has given me hope for his recovery...💖💖

[@tuforu4]

aa.

[@_joan_jay]

Honestly whitney with all your flaws ,i have never known you had difficulties♥♥ Stay strong ,yote yatapita✋ Instainlaw😋

[@ajunababra]

Just landed on this. Thank you carol for the inspiration and truth. God bless dads your your own.

[@janetkangai938]

Carol you’re a strong woman and God loves you more than you could ever imagine. I cried watching your story, thank you for sharing with us. God bless and keep you.💕👏🏽

[@njerikagia4270]

Jan God’s beloved thank you so much and God bless you 😊

[@moniquekagayigayi5149]

What a testimony, what a brave lady. The God of all grace. Merciful Father thank you for this Father that examplified the power of real fatherhood. Now a daughter who was saved is able to put her shame to rest and inspired generations of women around the world. Thank you Sister for your courageous and eloquent speech. We salute you. God bless you 🤗🙏🙏🙏

[@bonnyngabirano6547]

And Carol you are such a beautiful soul in and out! Thanks for sharing your story..they do help those going through the same...it gives hope. Thank you

[@MsDiane87]

Kenya Institute of Mass Communication my former college, proud of what you have become Carol and how you beat the odds.God bless

[@Pieman12748]

I'm in Tears. Happy for how far you've come. May the Lord continue to sustain you.

[@onesmusmbugua1868]

victoria Waiguru Aki sure

[@judemazho9612]

She is Gifted in speaking.

[@njerikagia4270]

Judy Macharia thank you😊

[@lennyrosemigiro455]

you have made me cry Caro....I really miss my daddy...you have made me cry ...say hi to your daddy

[@gracew2194]

God bless for being so open, honest and bold you will heal many with your testimony

[@incrediblejourney4723]

Beautiful woman. Inspirational story.

[@SuperMatiku]

Ooh Carol you have inspired many more so you have taught us to appreciate the people that struggle with us. May blessings be upon your Father

[@njerikagia4270]

Ruth Ngiendo thank you so much. I give God ALL the glory 😊.

[@phoenixnoah8384]

Amazing come back & your support system is what got you to believe in your self to embark on a journey of rehabilitation .Am proud of you and your sobriety.

[@njerikagia4270]

ab noah thank you. I give God ALL the glory 😊.

[@samkimani5426]

Powerful. Family support is key when one is battling addiction. Well done Carol for sharing

[@JeremiahGakuru]

This sharing opened my eyes in a big way. I did not know that self-esteem issues can cause addiction. Glad that Caroline is now a role model despite all the upheavals. God bless her for sharing.

[@swamaitha]

God bless you for sharing this story. I've been moved to tears. Nothing like a father's love

[@njerikagia4270]

Sylvia Gachoka thank you 😊

[@chilandevuchiri]

Thought I knew her from somewhere... She was a couple years ahead of me in high school. So glad to see this... And so glad you're alive. When you have someone close as a substance addict it's very painful and scary!

[@clyomu]

What school?

[@headofprotocol]

What shall we say then, these are the testimonies that we need to hear! Godspeed to Carol in her journey, she is destined for greatness!

[@njerikagia4270]

Chris Amen and thank you!😊

[@nyambuwasai7049]

This is deep!! I salute you Carol....your testimony teared me up....ohhhhh!!

[@Busia254]

Wow,Caroline you’re strong .May God bless you.Am all in tears

[@miriamkhambo4570]

the best engage i have listened congrats kagia

[@njerikagia4270]

Miriam Khambo thank you. I give God ALL the glory 😊.

[@miriamkhambo4570]

+Njeri Kagia amen

[@t.wkangethe4814]

Everyday is a journey,a step at a time ,Carol you’ll make it to full recovery all the best.

[@WamaithaWamzKaranja]

Powerful, positive and uplifting. Meeting her parents was the highlight of my evening!

[@MadarakaFestival]

Thank you Caroline, what a story. Powerful is the word.

[@pacharosekeni8934]

thank you sister carol for your message you have uplifted me because my brother is also an alcoholic and everything is possible.

[@carpediem1569]

I can relate.

[@jossienjeri6188]

woooow.You have a great dad carol..How I wish i had such support!!

[@charlsemusina9698]

This brought tears in my eyes, so powerful and educative..Parents will never give up on us and love conquers all

[@payietaz]

Wow, what a blessing to have a father like that. In tears

[@selenajoseph2737]

What a story and a wonderful Testimony. I really thank God for your recovery and pray that He will continue to sustain you.Am just tearing up knowing the effects of alcoholism to both the alcoholic and the family.Takes both Grace and Courage to Stand up,admit and Face this Monster head on!May the Lord bless and Direct your steps moving forward IJMN 🙏

[@janethiongo]

A touching story of unrelenting parental love and a life turned back from destruction. Thanks for sharing.

[@wanjiramungailiz2524]

Ooh my what a story am moved by this .l recently lost my brother a month ago due to addiction how l wish we did something before it was too late thank you soo much for the story❤️

[@estahadassah9470]

Njeri, thank you so much for sharing🌼. God bless you so much🙏!

[@ssempalawakahora4134]

I was seeing you in Tangaza University College ... I remember you were smocking lots ... There is something that made me like you lots. .. You are a likable person ...

[@missrosa4857]

So glad you overcame the hurdles that came your way Carol. Your family is great for supporting you in all you went through.

[@GakahuKinyua]

I purpose to be a good father

[@bellahyuzzomylife4428]

bt not all fathers are like urs ur just blessed with an amaizing dad

[@gacherimuthaura5105]

God bless you. Our parents will never give up on us.

[@christineadam9063]

Wat a wonderful Dad and Mommy.....you are so much blessed Carol thank you for sharing ur story God bless ur entire family

[@selinaodongo]

a fathers love is real and powerful...

[@qunnkristy]

Oh lord this is so touching. Yr father is amazing unconditional love May God bless him with many more years.

[@njerikagia4270]

Lisa Njoroge Amen😊

[@nanagithinji3586]

Wow!! Very touching.. Dear self.. Learn from this. Love, self.

[@pioneerpio]

Addiction is terrible waaah!! What a loving Dad...It's not easy for a parent but thank God your parents helped you. So glad you asked for help. Be Blessed

[@evlynnmollenhauer349]

God is good Njeri. Thanks for sharing.

[@jackiewahinya4356]

So touching, I'm in tears

[@malaika-lv2tq]

What a dad! What a man! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@njerikagia4270]

malaika1972 I give God ALL the glory 😊

[@KAYLAONLINETV]

*OMG Im in tears*

[@Avijokaspa6]

Me too

[@hiramgat5504]

JUST KAYLA

[@her_ama_ni]

You're such a real and likable personality. Thanks for sharing and God speed to you and your family.

[@Maximillion50]

wow, this is such an amazing story. Thank you for sharing. Fathers you are powerful and your love breaks the toughest barriers in your children's lives. take your place and change your kid's destiny to something amazing.

[@msohshaffer7466]

Who cutting onions!!!!!!??!

[@consolatamakau]

Thankyou for Njeri for the inspiration.your destined for greater things.

[@njerikagia4270]

C Kanini AMEN.

[@marthaochieng1340]

Caro is a brilliant lady! God changed her story to help others. You are blessed girl, you are going places.

[@sharonannkabuba9948]

Oh my! This is one strong woman. Thanks for sharing your story. It is so sad how far we can go into addiction without even knowing it. Yaaass fathers are the best😍

[@catenyambura6053]

So inspiring CK. My former schoolmate.

[@janekimani8379]

Raise up a child in the way of the lord and surely they shall not depart,your dad is a hero for not giving up on you and not giving up on the word.

[@ms.t1918]

Indeed everything happens for a reason....the hatred makes me strong and focused....may God bless your paros.

[@cindyvirgo9281]

Just lovely. A total inspiration and humorous as well.

[@wanjikumugaciku6172]

😘😘😘 Dad we love you

[@njerikamau4624]

Thank you for your lovely story.

[@sarahnduku1456]

Thank you alot for sharing your story soo uplifting... God bless you

[@GeorgeKosibon]

I'm a retired teacher aging and alcoholic recovery.Watching from kericho Litein 😂 and do hope everyone feels the touch of your story. God is great,thanks for letting us moved out of the devil den.

[@lynnengahu1205]

Wow...this had me in tears...such a beautiful story...how can one be part of the audience in these engage talks?

[@EngageTalk]

Hi Lynne Engage is held bi-monthly at the Braeburn Theatre, Gitanga Road. The next one is on October 27th. Tickets are available on www.engage.or.ke and www.ticketsasa.com

[@mimisikujui5514]

Thank you.

[@aecygracious2156]

crying my eyes out. inspiring

[@eunicewagoki2613]

My dad is my hero, my best friend and mentor.

[@storyofmylife1550]

Am in tears cos everyday I have to see 2 of mi brothers in this condition and we have failed to find a way of making them stop

[@njerikagia4270]

lana Ibin any type of Addiction stems from unresolved issues that most likely occurred during childhood. That's the reason many people are unable to overcome addiction.

[@nurugizani3075]

Not sure My brother was loved especially by mum But it happened to him Alcohol addiction

[@jeanneluhabanya1252]

Wow what a beautiful story👌👌👌 this gives hope that one day I'll tell a story about my journey😍😍 thanks for the video

[@wabaratutor2402]

This is inspiring. Addiction is a sad affair. Fathers are blessings to our lives.

[@josephinewanjiku7406]

I celebrqte you on your recovery journey👏👏! You are an ambassador now; go ye forth Caroline and change lives of our countless number of our brothers and sisters stuck in addiction to alcoholism and substance use

[@GeorgeKosibon]

I did the same thing Altogether and I don't regret, let bygones be bygones and focus ahead. Thank God and help others, addiction is real and not something to be taken for granted. The tools of trade, the knowledge gain in rehab should be implemented physically, emotionally and mentally. Live a day at a time, wonderful to be with your family members in the midst of many audience.

[@Anyango31]

Such a great orator. Such an inspiring story.

[@barbaramkok3009]

Wow your dad I salute him, we thank God you got our of it winning. Hugs

[@oliviak5506]

Chips!!!

[@mercymwakajo4002]

God Bless you for this The power of the tongue! Glory be to God

[@samuelmwangala7665]

👏

[@rachelwanjie1704]

Powerful testimony hilariously told. The prayers of parents are powerful. A father's love......, thanks dad for speaking life. I am encouraged.

[@mfalmemayanja8566]

very encouraging and touching

[@paulineomoongeh709]

Wow what a testimony God bless ur dad n ur entire family.

[@njerikagia4270]

Pauline Omoongeh thank you 😊