My best friend destroyed my marriage. | The Jessica Kayanja Show

My best friend destroyed my marriage. | The Jessica Kayanja Show #Episode 8

[@oyesigyeowen8453]

Our dear Pastor should listen more and let guests tell the story without forgetting!

[@CM-gh3jy]

True

[@carolynenakiberu2620]

I think people forget because of being nervous

[@jackiepad5522]

That's right. Let her allow the guests more time to express themselves. Maybe she could speak more at wrap-up.

[@keagofaith7748]

Very true,she intrupts too much

[@irynbusuulwa7558]

True that

[@kiyembabeswerimark2307]

Be careful who you tell your feelings to, because some people are waiting for the opportunity to use them against you.” Better to have an enemy who slaps you in the face than a friend who stabs you in the back.”

[@mugishapatience4929]

Point

[@kiyembabeswerimark2307]

@@mugishapatience4929 mugisha where you went

[@ntsakosambo4912]

Very true

[@mugishapatience4929]

@@kiyembabeswerimark2307 for vacation but am bck

[@constanceconnie1586]

You said it well my dear

[@asiimireclaire7153]

No offense but Pastor Jessica please do more of the listening with no interruptions. It will make the show more interesting. We need to hear the guests story as it flows. Thank you.

[@dujahmwalami4771]

I think she doesn't read the comments ,we have been complaining but she still does the same thing daily

[@sweettoothmarie7304]

Team do the needful and pass on the message!

[@sisikwesi540]

I totally agree. I never complete the interviews because she interrupts the guests so much and repeats every word they say. It’s annoying. I hope she gets better at this otherwise, I find the stories interesting but the host very unskilled

[@BABS889]

She is knowledgeable and has tasted marriage triumphs and in being an expert she feels she knows a lot but yes she should keep her words to the closing comments part.

[@dumi_liferecipes]

I thank God I no longer have someone called "best friend" a human being at least, I was betrayed once by my then best friend, I forgave her but I will never forget that's why I vowed not to have a best friend other than God. Be vigilant about who you pull closer and share secrets with.

[@weaganmusonda7899]

Hello dear

[@specy2838]

I rather share my secrets with the Holy Spirit

[@truthmatters6728]

U r now walking in wisdom when u choose to not have a best friend,rather make the holy spirit be your best friend.man will let u down but God will never let u down.😑🙏❤

[@sontomahlaba299]

I’m with you girl 👧

[@nakatostella8795]

No,u can still hv bt with limits my dear.never loose hope

[@Towctheone]

The HolySpirit is your only best friend people!!!

[@conniecissy7367]

My dear Patricia Kizito your story is very educational friends have a tendency of pretence I personally have learnt even family can turn out to be envious about your progress....

[@nakatostella8795]

To God be da glory

[@glorialisa4434]

Our pastor let the victims tell their own stories thanks 😊.

[@sarahbugingo6086]

May God help me be a good friend to my friends in Jesus'name.

[@netsaigiro3805]

This is an amazing testimony. Thank you mama for this program. I loved the fact that she turned to God and God answered her prayer and every sorrow was turned into joy.

[@jacquelinebugunya9238]

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[@procuremenofficer]

Please let the guest give the story smoothly without interrupting so that it can be easy like tuko

[@shesblack8917]

Mkenya mwenzangu

[@nyamburark]

She’s interjecting to much! It’s irritating!.. let the interviewee speak woman!

[@nancynyaswentanyaboke6217]

That's the only problem l have with this show,too much interrupts

[@darrennuwasasira3550]

I think it is okay, she does it to save time.

[@procuremenofficer]

@@darrennuwasasira3550 no it actually consumes more time and hinders the guest to give the story full actually where she should interject is when she sees that the guest is beating around the bush

[@Starsparkle69YT]

The spirit of anti Marriage is rendered powerless in Jesus Christ name 🙏🏿❣️

[@lkofie6670]

This particular situation of what this video is about is why I will NEVER talk to peers or friends about EVERYTHING whether it be in reference to marriage, career endeavors, name it. I even recently realized that a very good friend of mine whom I've been friends with since age 7-8 years old was getting entertained by the negative occurrences I had been telling her about that were happening to me some time ago and/or uncomfortable family situations with in-laws. I couldn't help but think wow...all this time(?). She also began to question my successes skeptically including out of no where, inquiring about the state of my marriage (?) which I don't talk about in details with her or any other peer for that matter. From that moment forward, I began to keep our discussions to a minimum. Since having even more accomplishments recently which after my husband and parents, she has been the next person I would share with, I still haven't said anything to her about my recent success. Now, it doesn't bother me if she ever knows anything or not.

[@ruvhenekho]

Every young woman should gather here🤭. This is so educative... Thank you for the show👏👏👏

[@mirembensubuga5415]

Dear Pastor Jessica you are the authentic daughter of God our heavenly Father

[@sharonk7719]

Dear interviewer, please let the guests speak. You are clearly a very wise and blessed woman yourself, and I understand that you have so much to add. Please save it for the interludes or use it as comments, not to complete guests' sentences. Instead of distinguishing your contributions as bits of wisdom we the audience can take away, or leading the guests to epiphanies, you're literally hijacking their stories.

[@shalommiracles4218]

Serious

[@Kiriza22]

She is not just an interviewer, but she is a Pastor!!

[@namukhurarowney8967]

It is very bad to echo what the guests say and giving them what to say.

[@maureenwambui2992]

Wow! I couldn't have said it any better. I hope this will get to her!

[@hanifawere6419]

I am tired! She is leading or talking for the guest! Can she just let her speak!! Or tell her story in peace

[@natasha-juliet8525]

If this conversation had less disruptions from the host,it would be more nice,.. We actually want to hear more from the guest to learn..if you let her speak ,you will eventually get the answers to those questions... None the less this was a good video😍

[@apaireacheal1199]

Am apai reacheal hearing ashow of mum, ihave got caurage from that God bless all of u for ur time.

[@nayomi776]

Beautiful show, I can see people giving feedback about Pastor letting the guests talk however the style of her show is that she preaches through the show. I got the story in its fullness. Does anyone feel they missed out on the story?

[@sl2576]

Nope; our mummy did a tremendous job 👏👏

[@jerrykirui2707]

Please can you restrain yourself from interrupting your guest's narration. It's her story not yours!

[@naturestherapy9943]

I agree

[@richwife8878]

Ohhh my God 🙌🙌🙌 I can relate. My own best FREIND seemingly did something of the sort to me but GOD NEVER FAILS. Wawoohh thanks so much Mrs Kizito Patricia for sharing your story. Iam more confident Now that My secrets now dwell in the secret place of the most high. All to Jesus. Pastor Jessica ❤️ My mother🙏 thanks so much for availing this opportunity to Us All at such a time as this🙏👏 God bless you and God bless this show in Jesus mighty name 🙏

[@dorenaholinga8051]

I can relate

[@mercywambui3400]

Kudos to this wonderful man of God who still went ahead with the wedding despite the mouthy friend. Imagine what he and his dear wife would have missed. Watch out! The devil is out there looking for a marriage to wreck and a mouthy friend to use .May God bless your marriage.

[@BABS889]

Some women reveal too much with their friends

[@michellenamala2685]

Pastor Jessica I will say this over and over again thank you so much for prayer clinic ...I can attest to that ..🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@jonasnyambe9779]

I have learnt something. These friends are not worthy it....... Only God is a true friend 🙏

[@namwimaflorencejustine4246]

I liked that part when he said, Do I still have room in yr heart ?

[@allentesi667]

Me too

[@sherrywilliams3691]

Pliz lord send me the right people in my life.....hv also been betrayed by friends..... All my friends eeeeeh were not ryt at all........

[@sisikwesi540]

Pastor Jessica, can you please let the guests tell their story. Watch Oprah and other show hosts and pick the skill. By repeating the guest’s words over and over again you make the interview so hard to watch to completion. Your guests have beautiful stories, let them tell their stories with minimal interruptions. Best wishes

[@philipmugisa6386]

Pr Jesica. God bless you for such wonderfull testimonies you have brought to us. I also humbly suggest you bring some giests who are not from Miracle Center. a story which will also be new to you.

[@nkwengerusoke8990]

What a testimony. Thank you Pastor Jessica Kayanja for this show. This will help so many women to strengthen their relationships and close gaps that would reek havoc. Thank you so much God bless

[@jemmimahkusa1772]

Pastor I wish u cud reduce interrupting for the guest's story to flow

[@damariszuckschwert9489]

Why people questions me why I don't have friends? I'm very okay been alone I trust no one, only my mother. Story like this keeps me even more scared of so called girls friends.

[@harrietkavetsa2914]

True

[@specy2838]

I can relate to that.

[@nakamijunic5844]

God is faithful and unchangeable trust him alone

[@nakanwaginoor570]

👏👏👏👏👏👏 Me too

[@jacquelinetusiime6028]

I have been betrayed more than enough by girls i called my friends but i thank God they betrayed me because i am in a better place now, and if they had not betrayed me i would have made wrong decisions or wrong choices. To God be the Glory

[@sherrywilliams3691]

God thanks for this marriage .....I also pray God blesses me with my marriage....

[@judithapio7211]

Am verrrrrrrry careful now days especially about friends who want to know everything about u but u know nothing about them..me I learnt hmmmm

[@namazziaisha2987]

so true nowadays people are jeolosy

[@namwimaflorencejustine4246]

Ooh God, I pray that you put a hedge around the grace you have given me not to destroy my friends.

[@jenifermbowa9037]

Through these testmonies I will overcome and restore all that I lost in Jesus Mighty name

[@asejones7206]

Amen, long time sister

[@gracenamale2719]

Banage Patricia you went through alot... Message to all of us here who trust easily . know who you pour your heart out to. even if the pain is too much sieve what you tell people.

[@graceamanyo7740]

I wish you are my friend,2015 I almost cried blood because of such devil friend

[@ckks0nyoutube]

Wow, the devil really fights against holy matrimony! He goes to great lengths

[@violetnamono8244]

My husband doesn’t want to hear crap 💩 of things like best friends not for me not for him. From day one he made it clear and l thought he is crazy 😜 but in the long run l appreciate because the bond we have in our marriage no external person can break it🙏.

[@vivianbosibori5438]

Dear pastor listen more and let the guest give the story

[@angellakomukyeya8727]

Am learning .......Be careful who you trust. Salt and Sugar look the same. Thank you Pastor Jessica

[@saraha618]

Common,salt is whiter ,it looks more attractive than sugar but guess what?

[@amazinggrace2088]

What a beautiful story with a happy ending. May God bless your marriage.

[@violetsameta2662]

Haha I remember my situation I told My friend that the man is short but I have never regretted my marriage I thank God may God bless you my sister

[@florencebirungi8289]

This has happened to me but the good thing was that my husband was mature enough to over come it

[@immaculatemuthoni616]

Only few will understand and that's how many marriage break.

[@meklife1296]

An amazing program full of testimonies and praises to God! Thanks for the iniative!

[@prudenceray]

This is agood show,very educative but our dear Ps the moderator ,i would suggest you listen more,its like you already know the story more than the one telling it.it makes it uninteresting

[@theamazinggraceofgod.7613]

Thank you for sharing my best friend who was going to b my maid of honour did the same to me almost a month to my wedding.

[@marykwari902]

Tell us how did it go,did go ahead or she was successful

[@theamazinggraceofgod.7613]

@@marykwari902 My now husband told me coz I wanted her to be my maid of honour and he was worried that she would do something bad t on the day of my wedding because of what she was telling him behind my back, he sent me the whole conversation link and I confronted her and she was so rude and showed no remorse. That's how our relationship with her ended. The wedding went well after that, may God be glorified forever for keeping us safe from our "evil friends".

[@teddybusima]

I have watched this story with alot of tears in my eyes, we don't know who to trust,my own sister made me turn into a single mother.

[@graceamanyo7740]

It happened with but I stand strong so forgive ur sister and move on and aboundon ur children

[@nakkazziaminah2274]

Wat!!!

[@teddybusima]

@@graceamanyo7740 thanks dia, that's what i did,all my hope is on my children i try my best to take care of them.

[@teddybusima]

@@nakkazziaminah2274 Yes my dear, that's what happened and she never Fate sorry on what she did, but i thank God who has taken care of me and my children.

[@emmamombo7149]

Really you own sister one mother one father oh my God. From now I have look this show I not like friends in my house we meet market or in steet

[@maseraykanu2413]

Some friends are evil 😈

[@carolynenakiberu2620]

Can people saying pastor is interrupting the guests conduct their own shows. It’s called the Jessica kayanja show not anyone else’s show. It’s an interactive show and that’s how God has guided her to run it 🤐

[@justhoodug]

Feedback is always good. Don't take it personal dear

[@carolynenakiberu2620]

@@justhoodug I don’t but if someone makes it look like others don’t know what they are doing it’s not good and by the the way that’s my feedback as well because she might not even read all these comments here unless it’s u taking it personal

[@justhoodug]

The reason people are giving feedback is because they love the show. However is managing this account should be able to project this valuable feedback to her. If you read comments from all other videos, you will still find the same issue raised by different people. Feedback is always good

[@carolynenakiberu2620]

@@justhoodug if some says they see no point of watching something do they love it and besides if someone feels they have an issue to raise let them use the number that is provided at the end of every advert. Some people’s feedback is just to put people down not to help them grow. And another thing I have realized about what u call feedback is people want the hosts to go in details yet the story has to fit in the time frame the show has.

[@sarahnjeri105]

Healthy criticism helps one grow .

[@aolikolgrace]

So powerful testimony. Thank you for sharing

[@joshuasaunyama6015]

I thank God for Pastor Jessica Kayanja. God richly bless you for your Ministry.

[@tomarabernard3778]

Love the interview! Pastor Jessica Kayanja Firstly I want to wish the Guest & husband all the best once they have Faith & Believe in Jehovah Elohim & when they have any problems they discuss it with God Jehovah Elohim. Psalms 55:12 -14 SAYS " 12 For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him: 13 But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance. 14 We took sweet counsel together, and walked unto the house of God in company. Psalms 55: 21-22 21 The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords. 22 Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved. I have been through what this guest experience. Most Humans have a Wicked Heart Conditions, they are Evil and full of Jealousy and Hate. I talk and discuss everything with God Jehovah Elohim and let him guide me now in my life he would NEVER BETRAY me or anyone.UK

[@specy2838]

Wow thanks Tomara. This is so motivating for real we need to cast our burdens to God alone.

[@tomarabernard3778]

@@specy2838 Thank you for your reply. SPECIOZA KIFUNGA NAWAL, Life is challenging and their are times that we put out trust is humans who we call our friends & think the love & care we have for them they would return it. God Jehovah Elohim love us unconditionally and he is a forgiving Lord. I have learnt the hard way trusting the wrong people only to later realizes that they are what I call " AM INNOCENT FLOWER BUT A SERPENT BENEATH ". When you have FAITH & BELIEVE in God Jehovah Elohim, you can depend & talk to him. When you NEED HELP & you talk to him & ASKED him a QUESTION he ANSWERS in so many different ways, if you don't understand the ANSWER he is giving you, you can return to him over & over again. The Lord has guided, & SAVED MY LIFE so Many times. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH HE IS MY LIFE. When you BELIEVE & have FAITH in the LORD JEHOVAH ELOHIM your life changes because you know any problems or challenges in your life he is there to sort all things because he knows and sees everything. I love Psalm: 136, read it daily with Faith & Abundant blessing await you from the Lord. Stay bless & safe

[@natalwinnie7030]

WOW , This is glorious . Thanks for ministering am blessed

[@loycekobusingye348]

Lessons I should have learnt in my 20s....anyway it is never too late

[@julietethel3635]

Same here loyce

[@mariamoesi6053]

Painful story, i can relate...painful to be slandered by someone you cherish.. even more painful when they pretend to have amde peace

[@mulumbakasim6204]

Story is amazing, True!! Katonda abikola! Thanks Mother.

[@user-fz7oy7rh6s]

Praise the LORD OUR PASTORS Thank you Mummy JESCA for the show

[@mirembeleahaisha]

The devil is a liar. Delay isn't denial... God did it for you.. Amen. I pray for a man coz am also a mother of two lovely children

[@truequeen28]

These are lessons you learn after you have gone thru the betrayal. Its hard to look at a friend you think you have built trust with in the eyes betrayal. You think so highly of them until they throw you under the bus then you take the lessons with you. Blessed are those that get it before hand.

[@nursemaggie2321]

Awesome program. He camera angles are very poor though. The seats I think should be placed rightly for shooting the entire set & both guests from the front. My suggestion anyway....

[@ankndamacklyne5264]

Thank you so much for those beautiful and teachable stories, God bless you

[@nafunaviolet9050]

Wow this is so Wonderful God is so loving🙏

[@hildanyaga4743]

It's good when the host is telling her ow story, let us hear from the testifier herself.

[@phyllismagunde5844]

Very true. The interruptions and repetitions are way too many.

[@namumbyasarah7205]

I just love the show mummy and its from here that our eyes are always opened.

[@lindelamatsenjwa]

I lost my best friend and Maid after they started making moves on my fiancee. I was so open about everything to both about our relationship and they used that to make moves on him. I fired my maid, separated myself from my friend. Been happier eversince. I don't believe in having Best friend now. They use all you tell them to their advancement. Trust only God😊

[@rebeccanakato852]

She is rite I did the same mistake telling every thing to my twin sister bad or good, she fell in love with boy friend who I love so dearly she went and told him every thing and she told him to live for another gal not only that she told him that she was happy that u left Nakato. I was devastated 😢😭💔😫😩my twin sister did this to me I made choice i forgave her but don't want to see her for the rest of my life am done with her

[@Tina.Okullu]

Oh God

[@ninawaryaro9415]

She's ur sister u need to forgive

[@kabebitube]

@@ninawaryaro9415 her message says she forgave her however, the Bible does not say we need to hang around people with evil spirits. She should also pray for her twin sister.

[@namukhurarowney8967]

That makes two of you same when you don't forgive and reconcile.

[@Starsparkle69YT]

I hear you sister same here it was my cousin and aunt I confided in and it blew away everything, my engagement was cancelled just like that. I have forgiven them but don't trust them at all🙏🏿

[@kugs4749]

Thank you for the programme. But it would be better if your guests sat in a single sit like you. The large sofa makes them look tense.

[@ezerbia]

They are tense because the interviewer is intense and repetitive.

[@agnesndukwu7455]

I agree

[@betheljunior4109]

Tears of joy all over. I love the true life experience. Thank you mummy Jessica

[@iradelkhan2186]

Thank you so much Mum. God bless you abundantly. This was an eye opener.

[@bwirebrian193]

The show is a blessing. The question is did the guest tell the man about her children in the last relationship?! YES or NO ...........,

[@maureennakku7857]

Yes she did, he knew about them

[@phyllismagunde5844]

Thank God it ended before you got married. You are such a lovely lady. He didn't deserve you at all. You deserved better. Thank God it ended before he wasted your time.

[@phyllismagunde5844]

Wow, I should have waited until the end before I commented. You people were meant for each other. God fought your battle. I hope your friend repented to God.

[@phyllismagunde5844]

Oh, sorry my sister. I commented before reaching the end of the interview. We thank God for His divine intervention. God really answers prayer. You deserve to be happy. I am really happy for you.

[@miriammapinga9535]

Pastor you are too fast we would like to hear more from the invited guest

[@2levitate]

It is an inspiring story but can the interviewer please stop interrupting the story and putting words into the interviewee's mouth🙄🙄🙄

[@carolynenakiberu2620]

What do u mean putting words in guest’s mouth? The lady personal and her husband are my personal friends. I know their story well!!

[@mutabaazipatricia6502]

@@carolynenakiberu2620 there's something called constructive/positive feedback and criticism. If 2/3 people tell you something to improve your content, know that it is right. And it is up to you to take in the feedback or not.

[@tinaabuneri7213]

It's true pastor Jessica does interrupt too much

[@tinaabuneri7213]

Pastor pls let the lady tell us her story. Stop interrupting for our sake

[@darnellchapman1464]

@@tinaabuneri7213 Too long a story.Got other things to do.Love the show but p,ease tell your stories in 30 minutes.

[@justinebetty661]

That was great blessed be God who didn't put you to shame

[@lilliangabriel7560]

Am always blessed with this show. Thank you so much Mummy J

[@jenifermbowa9037]

Mummy Jessica I appreciate you for everything . God bless you much and your family.

[@catherineaharikundira9874]

I have learnt something thanks for the testimony

[@beingberyl4727]

Can you plz let the guest make her story flow

[@sherrywilliams3691]

God is able. This is really powerful

[@lydianassolo2788]

I'm blessed by the show somethings happen so that u know who is truthful . I really hate hypocrites

[@joycemsiska-chihana9010]

I can't deal.....Nice story ....but listener is not allowing talker to talk

[@mjmjn4609]

Jessica at times does not ask questions and clarity as expected. She tells the story on behalf of the interviewee which is not quite correct. At times she repeats exactly the same info that the interviewee said instead of asking or probing further more so because we want to hear the story from the horse's mouth.

[@manifestcentrechurch]

What a story! Always waiting for the next episode

[@omuzirangoabwooli2771]

God bless you sister this message was mine i thank God for this wonderful word.

[@oxcellianamukolo4433]

Your best friend is the best enemy

[@iseren8510]

Wow, powerful story here Good lessons in here

[@nalubwamajustine2241]

Thanks for the show mummy Jesca

[@nyotamutobo1700]

The heart ❤️ of a man is desperately wicked💔.....

[@nyotamutobo1700]

@@pastorjessicakayanaja2883 419

[@violakabigabwa9240]

Ohhhh some people mistake a good heart for naivety.

[@josephinebirungi8153]

Hahaha. Pastor Jesca! You're wonderful. You made sure you married the Man for her

[@samuelt.kisaame7787]

If women discussed good things about people, probably half of their problems would disappear. I am yet to come across a group of women who discuss constructive things apart from gossip.

[@JulzJewel]

I am a woman and i agree with you 100%

[@user-fz7oy7rh6s]

WE LOVE YOU TOO MUMMY JESCA THANK YOU FOR TEACHING US HOW TO FIGHT IN SPIRIT WITHOUT YOU MAY BE THEY WOULD WIN US. AMEN

[@lisacole9913]

This is why I don't have close friends

[@niniramosena2346]

Love them all,but trust no one.

[@daralynejamessarah7372]

Looking lovely my mummy

[@marydonkordegener9688]

Hmmmmm! some friends are dangerous but it is a lesson 👍🙏

[@nakatostella8795]

I experienced it ....

[@blessedfavored6502]

Wow! Just came close this channel few days ago, I'm blessed. God bless you all

[@carolmalingu6899]

In this world of today there is nothing like a best friend people are very wicked.

[@dianak3185]

I dont trust any human beings, such and more has happened to me. But God is faithful

[@shamlimah5682]

madam pastor should stop asking too much let people talk full story eeeee

[@patriciaboxter8295]

pastor you need to be a good listener

[@sylviaanderson704]

Thank God for prayer clinic!!! Lesson learned! !!!

[@karagwadora4398]

Let the guest tell their stories thx

[@kylemchynn9376]

Everrything is great except for the pastor...she interrupts too much...let the guest talk.