My BFF Marriying My SA'er and Invited My Daughter (Who Is The Result Of SA) To Be Flower Girl. a...

[@sinpourmoi2765]

“To those saying this is fake, please manifest that harder, so I wake up from this nightmare”

[@Lustfullynova]

Genuinely the hardest and most saddest line here

[@arynkoeings668]

Yeah ive had to say that to my own posts real life can be crazier than fiction it needs heavily mentally unstable people involved

[@TiffWaffles]

Okay, if I was in OP's shoes, I'd be cutting off my father entirely. He knew that his daughter was a victim of rape, forced her to give birth to a rape baby, and then told the child years later that while her mother was forgiven for giving birth out of wedlock to a 'bastard' child, that she has to be extra good in order to be loved by God and to be allowed into Heaven on the event of her death. That is not okay and if I was OP, I'd call him out for what he said to my child. She's a good mother and I love how she chose to love her daughter unconditionally as opposed to hating her child for being a reminder of the worst trauma you can suffer through. She's the definition of strength.

[@toriladybird511]

Honestly Daddy dear would end up with a very nasty taste in his mouth.. Dirt poured onto his food and told to eat it. His opinion IS NOT GOD'S

[@trashotaku]

Father of the year 🙃🙃🙃

[@LunarRaven]

Abrahamics care more for appearances and satisfying their imaginary friend instead of family.

[@lelo8744]

Who need enemies when you have a friend like that?

[@zerotodona1495]

Once a child enjoyer, always one. Keep your child safe!

[@SecretVoices25]

Always!

[@trashotaku]

I'm fully convinced that he would 100% diddle any other possible daughters he might have

[@l-l-l-l-l-l-l]

Story 1: How hard is it for OP to just tell it to her ex-BFF straight that if her daughter went to her wedding, she will go there armed with the information that her bio father is a child rapist and everyone will be warned to hide their kids from that horrible man. Being called a child molester albeit truth or not, is like a death sentence to a man reputation in a society. That man will not leave his own wedding without a bruise for sure because OP did have prove of her claim.

[@SheenaGaskew]

It’s crazy how the law often hinders victims of SA. Speaking from experience

[@marqkc]

You'd think being a child molester SHOULD destroy people's reputation... But if the Epstein list is anything to go by, they rarely ever get enough repercussions. OP's SA'er only got 3.5 years of prison, which goes to show the system is completely messed up

[@l-l-l-l-l-l-l]

@@SheenaGaskew yes! Its crazy that man only spends 3 years in prison and his name were taken off the sex predator list. That man must have bribed the right people to pull this feat.

[@GuyShōtō]

@@l-l-l-l-l-l-l This seems an issue shared by the US and UK, soft or light sentences for predatory people, in the hopes that prison time will change them.

[@JustinAdamson270]

​@@l-l-l-l-l-l-lfalse that would never happen no matter who he bribed

[@TaliPolk]

It just breaks my heart how this beautiful wonderful child has to be burdened by a scumbag's instant decision. Her daughter deserves the world.

[@toriladybird511]

Looks like she has it with loving family and the sperm donor HAS NO RIGHTS by law and morally well its a decision the child can make when she's an adult. Her mother seems to be feeling guilt for protecting her daughter. She absolutely has done an outstanding job being a wonderful mother protecting her daughter.

[@lindsay1989]

Why would BFF do this

[@goodnightmyprince6734]

A fake friend

[@goodnightmyprince6734]

Best fake friends

[@mill2712]

If you give benefit of the doubt, I say manipulation and stupidity. At worse, she never cared about her friend.

[@artemisia457]

Envy... Bitter, furious envy

[@aubrianonymous9570]

She wants OPs life

[@Only1199]

BFF: You're ruining my wedding Me: Womp womp

[@Maninawig]

Dunno how old you are, but there was a scene in FRIENDS where Joey was set to replace a female actress on Days of Our Lives as "a brain transplant" I picture OP as Joey in that scene, bursting into the room screaming "With My R@pist!" as a reply

[@trashotaku]

BFF "I can't believe you're not letting your daughter who was conceived as a result of my p3d0 hubby r'ing you the he was an adult and you were a minor come to my wedding!" 🤡🤡🤡

[@icalotdonthide2646]

BFF has always been jealous of OP. She feels this is the only way to one up her. It's sick, but mist narcissistic people have no idea how relationships work. No one would be jealous of a relationship with someone who did that to them.

[@Blurgamer17]

This sounds like the (Should be Ex) BFF deluded herself into thinking OP was a surrogate mother for her little family. 😬

[@macylouwho1187]

I’ve probably told this story before but here goes. I had a best friend do something similar but lesser to me when I was in high school. (She didn’t believe me over my attacker and stayed friends with him after being my absolute best friend for years). One night our class Vice President dropped by my house without an invitation or a call beforehand. I hadn’t talked to him much in school so this was extremely out of the ordinary. My mom was out. I let him in and he seemed nervous. I didn’t want to be rude and I figured that he’d tell me why he was there once inside. He didn’t. I didn’t really know what to do so I awkwardly asked him if he’d like a drink or wanted to watch the movie I had been watching. He agreed. I sat on the seat cushion at the opposite end of the sofa from him. He scooted down one next to me. After a few minutes he tried to kiss me-just instantly without warning or invitation or encouragement. I pushed him back and he tried again. The second rejection angered him and he flipped out on me. He grabbed me and the fight was on. We rolled off the sofa and onto the floor which was hard tile. He began banging my head on the hard floor trying to subdue me and I really panicked then. I knew I was in even more trouble than I thought. I fought like a cornered animal then and managed to get a knee up between our bodies and shoved him off with it. I ran to the door and flung it open and told him to get out or I would scream down the block and neighbors would come running. He left. I called my friend crying, completely shocked and overwhelmed by what had just happened to me. She came right over. She pretended to be my friend and help me but I could tell by the look on her face that she doubted my story. Even with scratches on my elbow/arm and lumps on my head. She didn’t believe it of HIM. He was popular, a football player, smart/good grades/fine upstanding family and all that. Attractive. I was the girl from the wrong side of the tracks with a hot but stupid single mother with a bad reputation. I wasn’t like my mother and I’ve tried very hard not to be all of my life. Didn’t matter, I was guilty by association. I had upper class friends (just all around friends with everyone from any background) so I was friends with this girl from a better part of town but that certainly wasn’t why I hung out with her. We just got along really well and I thought we were the best of friends. This girl and that guy were from the same socioeconomic background and class, both had good homes and stable families. That was when I realized that she never considered me her equal-the same way she didn’t consider “him” to be on MY level. He was too good for me, in her mind, I guess. He couldn’t possibly be guilty of what I claimed. After that she distanced herself from me and the feeling was entirely mutual when I realized . After school was out she sent me a chain letter questionnaire by email (all the friend group saved each other’s email addresses) like they did back in the day and one question asked “if you were stuck in an elevator with the friend who sent this message, what would you do?” I only answered that one question and I said “if I was stuck in an elevator with this ex friend, I would climb the dam-walls and get out and risk falling to my death climbing an elevator shaft rather than spend one more minute of my time with YOU. Because death would be preferable to me.” I never got another email from her again 😂

[@toriladybird511]

Sends love So glad you fought him off AND let the trash take herself out. I wonder how the pair of them are doing.

[@macylouwho1187]

@@toriladybird511 thank you, you are very kind. I’m not sure as I haven’t talked to either of them since that time, but I hope they are both better people who treat others with basic human respect and dignity. They were never God’s greatest gift like they both must have thought themselves to be, acting like that. It honestly confused me as to why she wanted to be my friend at all if she secretly felt that way about me. I can’t account for her behavior at all other than what I worked out for myself-if that is why. Nothing else makes sense, that’s the best I could figure from it all. The worst part for me was, in the end, that it made me think of my bio father’s mother. She had this happen to her in her forties but was murdered afterwards. I can’t imagine what she went through, the pain and fear must have been terrible. That small taste of much less that happened to me gave me trust issues and anxiety for years. She didn’t even get to escape with her life. Poor lady.

[@Thaddius0]

Story 2 Dad/Grandpa is kinda a gangster. He decided he wasnt going to give up on his daughter even if it meant lying to his other family until he died. Theres probably some missing details why she reconciled with him but not her mom/sister but I'm glad he wanted to try to correct his wrongdoings no matter what

[@moinmahmud6265]

You have to be evil as fuck to do this to your friend

[@EstelariaAsharaAurora7246]

I hope that BFF doesn't have kids and is infertile

[@Maninawig]

Too bad they don't live in the Ukraine... then there will be some certainty.

[@hiimmistergay4247]

​@Maninawig what does Ukraine have to do with this?

[@mr.dickbutttheog2064]

100% NTA. I’m sorry but I almost puked when she called herself the “stepmother” to OP’s daughter and not only that but she acted as if OP was gonna be pissed at her for “falling in love” with the SA-er because OP herself “loved him too”. The sheer audacity to even believe OP was gonna let her daughter be her flower girl. Good on OP for dropping her and telling her off, ashamed the friend is too stupid to realize she destroyed a friendship over a disgusting man

[@ktfitz4604]

Friend is not right in the head. Nothing attractive about a man who assaults children or anyone, for that matter. She's delusional.

[@trashotaku]

Fr, if I was a parent, I would absolutely NOT allow my children to be around someone like her for willingly entering a romantic relationship with a child r@pest

[@allyj137]

1. Everyone that tried to shame her for not wanting her daughter around trash ass person can go to hell. Glad she found someone that’s loving her and her child to the fullest regardless of what happened, and also see her as his child and nothing else. 2. Kinda bittersweet ending, and I hope one day they tell their parents the truth, I’m sure they will still love them regardless just based off the fact they took both of them in

[@morganleanderblake678]

Story 2: I feel for that girl. I can't blame anyone for what went down there because she did her best.

[@raynellemccathern3018]

I shouldn't be listening to this, making my blood boil. OMG

[@SheenaGaskew]

Same

[@lindah3803]

Complete rage.

[@faree8532]

Me too!!!

[@AgapeForgotten]

11:06 Sorry to get biblical but I'm angry. Ezekiel 18-20 Children are not guilty of their parent's sin, there's a lot more like that but the Deacon clearly didn't read the bible. I'm so glad the mother had the strength to give her baby the life and love and the child is helping to heal the scars on her mom's heart. Living past trauma like that is heroic, even if you need to end a pregnancy to protect yourself.

[@zerotodona1495]

She is a product of wedlock and is considered a sin. I do think God would forgive both mother and daughter cause it was a case of r-pe.

[@Tpd2015IK]

Rev Chris would not approve this deacon. 😊

[@toriladybird511]

The VICTIM was NOT a sinner The grand father has failed to do his job protecting HIS daughter.

[@trashotaku]

Unfortunately, Op's sperm donor is one of those Christians who cherry-picks from the Bible to suit his narrative

[@jhamps4806]

The BFF, she lost her Mum during lockdown and then he reached out. I can see people hating the BFF but maybe I’ve got a vivid imagination but it’s almost as if he purposely waited until she was most vulnerable to pounce. The guy is a creep and a predator who is trying to make his victim suffer again by taking her friend.

[@catsncrows]

Yes, exactly. Finally someone got it. This is the miserable excuse of a man's revenge at having been held accountable.

[@SquishedFaeries]

With friends and parents like that, who needs enemies?

[@jamesplayzreviews]

Story 1: "For those saying this is 'fake', please manifest that hard, so I can wake up from this nightmare" that got me rolling. Like who is stupid enough to make up a horror story like this up, OP wishes it was fake

[@lilnetty1177]

Feels like the friend may have set her up to get sa,d because why would else would she be comfortable dating that man it’s literally weird plus if he served jail time how would the friend be able to keep in contact with him this is just screaming best friend set her up and it’s sad that this seems like the case

[@ktfitz4604]

I'm going to say this is doubtful. Ex friend sounds like she's not right in the head. Not just that, but lonely and desperately wants to be married. This (disgusting) guy reaches out to her, says all of the right things and she has convinced herself he is a changed man or, even worse, that what happened to OP was not as bad as they all thought. She is disregarding what happened in the past for the sake of what she thinks will be her future happiness. Perhaps her mother was who kept her grounded and now that she is gone, friend can indulge in her delusions.

[@lilnetty1177]

@@ktfitz4604 my comment was more or less one of many things that could’ve happened because honestly the friend knows what happened to op yet blatantly ignored all of it to be with the man who has once hurt op and even called herself the child’s step mom like she’s aware and she even said that op can’t stop the father from being apart of the child’s life which to me either sounds like she could’ve gotten taken advantage of or brainwashed or she set op up to get sa,d or she just thinks the man could change and he fed her some sap story about how he’s changed or your theory where she just doesn’t seem right in the head

[@billcutting2681]

I hate how people just need validation you know damn well there is nothing wrong here except their behavior

[@Darkspark06]

First, why isnt he in fucking prison?!

[@zamp_gaming]

They literally said he did his time already.

[@bmoon9007]

Not enough time though.​@xZampx

[@LODintheshadows]

When friends call to say that I made her break down and ruin her wedding, I'd be like good, bare minimum I'd hope for

[@jitgamer-ki1fl]

I'm assuming she couldn't abort because of her religious family. I feel so bad for her.

[@Maninawig]

That is what OP1 said, but that she loves her daughter, so not to leave that as a mark against her parents.

[@jitgamer-ki1fl]

but didnt OP said she was going to abort but she had a religious family@@Maninawig

[@Maninawig]

@@jitgamer-ki1fl no, she said that abortion wasn't an option for her to consider due to having a religious family, leaving her the options of keeping the child or adoption. Then she clarified that she holds no ill-will towards her parents as she loves her child. At least to me, the way she said it sounded a bit more defensive, predicting the comments saying "babies raising babies" and "forced to be a mother so young" due to being 15.

[@jitgamer-ki1fl]

Oh I get your point. The thing is she was actually forced to be a mother so young@@Maninawig

[@Maninawig]

@@jitgamer-ki1fl but she had the option to adopt and didn't take it. Her whole message about not blaming her parents was specifically to say that she doesn't regret or want to be looked at in sympathy for being a mom so young. She was assaulted, but claiming she is forced is, to her, equating her child to a r@pe baby, which she actively fights against.

[@madisondean1074]

Dang! OP's kid is smart as heck! I'm impressed!

[@Black-Rose12]

I feel like the adoptive parents deserve to know the truth but OP and his mom/sister not telling them is horrible so OP and his mom/sis are TA

[@damonika09]

Oh hell no.

[@juanhaines7295]

Well this sounds like a $hit show.

[@SecretVoices25]

yes it is

[@boneymeroney2674]

Holy 💩

[@trevormc0125]

Just from the title: with friends like that who needs enemies

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

Sadly this is very common. A family member abused me and when it came out all the women took his side. He didn’t deny it but they still made him the victim. I was told he needed family in his time of need, it was my fault he was suicidal.. all this BS. Made me hate most women rather than my male abuser since the only one who was on my side and stood by me 100% was my dad

[@JustinAdamson270]

​@@Catherine.Dorian.you're lying your ass off just like the story

[@jamesplayzreviews]

Story 2: Wholesome yet strange

[@Tpd2015IK]

Rev Chris would not Approved about ops father

[@ShavonaHooper]

Just because you’ve known someone from a young ages doesn’t make them your friend or even really know them. For her to know that her friend was raped and it resulted in a child when she was a teen. Then to say I know he’s your ex means she believed whatever story he sold her and had to never to call the child that resulted in his sexual assault. She’s no better than the predator she’s marrying

[@annabordelon6663]

Not a friend and get a tro

[@analyticgeometry9014]

S1: What OP's dad said at around 11:05 is just pure creepy and insane nonsense.

[@MN-hv5xv]

It would be tough/impossible for me to parent a kid created out of violence, and that person would be addressed as former bff….

[@lisacartwright2402]

First story: he is legally no longer the father of ops daughter as he gave up rights and ops husband has adopted her.

[@alise45647]

Did I read that right? Did OP say that her ex-bff is dating her FATHER!?! OR! Did i miss something???

[@lilykhandker6716]

Story 2 Am a bit confused So the adopted parents don't know that Rose is OP's child If that is the case, Rose is still lying to his parents!!

[@Eevee-sz7xe]

What the hell did I just read/hear

[@kaylawilcher9245]

That's not a best friend

[@taylorhoge4378]

Also I'm not affiliated with the grandfather of story one for obvious reasons.

[@jadesorono6694]

Your EX BFF IS CREAZY 🤪 toxic

[@codyjones8153]

*7!*

[@SecretVoices25]

9

[@josieegold6758]

Disgusting

[@blaqueathena]

Not your bff

[@theneonlights1788]

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[@theneonlights1788]

17

[@ChaseVickers-l8i]

I have a question for OP, did the guy rape you or was it consenting? If you consented then I think what happened to the guy was BS. You were 15 not 10. At 15 you knew what you were doing and the guy got railroad. I'm sick of seeing a guy that was only 21 get sent up the road even though liberals say at 15 a person has maturity to get gender changes and can drive and make decision to have abortions but for some reason can't be mature mentally for sex, it shows hypocrisy. If it was rape then OK I get you but if not then you and your family is ruined man's life

[@codyjones8153]

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[@SecretVoices25]

99

[@katie85705]

The story sounds intriguing but I can't get past the AI voice

[@codyjones8153]

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[@SecretVoices25]

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[@codyjones8153]

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[@SecretVoices25]

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[@codyjones8153]

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[@SecretVoices25]

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[@codyjones8153]

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[@SecretVoices25]

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[@codyjones8153]

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[@SecretVoices25]

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[@codyjones8153]

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[@SecretVoices25]

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[@JustinAdamson270]

Nobody was assaulted she's just upset BFF is with the man she never got over

[@fa1ruz]

4:51

[@TaliPolk]

seeing your other comments makes me believe youre kind of a freak....

[@ShadowGladiatorX]

Okay child creeper keep defending your own

[@AuroraMoon2000]

uh, she was underage and he wasn't.... on top of that he SA her when she wasn't in the mood for sex. -_-

[@gxhdnsks]

are u insane?

[@hauldencottenfield869]

Ask not why the BFF fell in love with the SA’er. Ask why OP wasn’t strong enough to stop the SA

[@verz0009]

What the fuck is wrong with you

[@phoenixmarie3425]

The creator of this video even hearted this. Y'all are fucked up

[@ehtishamkhan2004]

You mean why a 15 year old girl couldn't stop a man from forcing himself on her?

[@questions3983]

There are so many pedos on here defending the perpetrator. Quite sad. Really asking why a 15 year old girl cannot overpower a 21 year old male? Right.

[@HumanB312]

She was a child vs an adult. Are you stupid?