My Boyfriend Is Leaving

[@marioc63]

You cannot change Colin. Let him take a break, grow up, and hopefully mature. He does not know himself and socially backward. He is inconsiderate. Move on. Don'y try to rescue him. Nick is your guy.

[@isthatjackson]

Chris, what you're going through sucks, and I'm sending lots of love your way but-Colin doesn't seem to be healthy for you. I think you need to met him go and find someone who truly cares for you. Best of luck ❤️

[@isthatjackson]

Also, Nick seems like such a cute choice for you! Wink wink 😏

[@DragonLightz]

Here's some sage advice: If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back, he's yours; if not, he never was.

[@fauzirahimpohan3130]

You can't just let him get into your life whenever he feels like to after he dumped you. Fuck no. Cut him out of youe life completely. Letting him in your life is like re-reading and old book, you know how it ends. Find someone else. You deserve someone better.

[@nexttsar]

Chris, man, I think you have seen the writing on the wall with Colin. I mean it seemed pretty obvious. You like him more than he likes you. If it didn't matter enough to him to tell you he was leaving for (1/3 year) and that he was upset about it, he really doesn't care that much, and your wheedling him is not going to change that. He is completely non-committal and you should move on--he has already indicated he intends to do that.

[@Zanaso12]

I don't agree with this at all. Mainly because I'm similar Colin in the ways he interacts with people.Its not that we don't care about people, it's that empathy is one of our weaknesses. It is really, really, hard to be conscious of how other people will feel about things, and we rarely consider that others may think differently. I often drop "big news" on people, and they get mad that I never mentioned it sooner, but i didn't simply because its not a massive deal to me. In this scenario, Colin isn't leaving just because he feels like it--he doesn't have a choice. Instead of "whining" to people about it, he simply sucked it up and accepted the situation for what it was before even mentioning it to Chris. I do the same thing with people I'm close to. There isn't much point in talking about things that you can't do anything about.

[@stephonb12]

Zanaso12 Well maybe you should take this moment to re-evaluate how you handle situations as such. When someone other than you has so much stock in something you're doing they should know as soon as you know. It's a relationship not an alienationship.

[@Zanaso12]

Wish I were witty well, it has nothing to do with leaving someone in the dark for the sake of doing it. Some people need to process information on their own before running their mouth to someone else without an understand or a single solution to the situation. It's stupid to give news like this without having a plan of any sort. It's careless...

[@stephonb12]

it's not careless I was a lot like you and occasionally still am but I always have to remind myself that life is easier when you're not trying to work through everything by yourself. People want to help you just have to give them the opportunity.

[@nexttsar]

The real issue is also that Chris is way more into Colin than Colin is into him. I honestly believe that Colin just makes excuses and he is not really that into Chris.

[@agreenpar]

I literally just had the same exact conversation with my now ex-gf on Monday. Only it was about a different subject. But watching this gave me deja vu. I'm really sorry that happened to you. I know how you feel.

[@luciendante]

Not tryna push my opinions on you Chris, but I think you deserve a much more mature person like yourself. Colin doesn't seem like he's in a compatible developmental stage in his life. I really resonate with what I've seen from your interactions with him (not many, but some), and I just feel like you're too wise and self aware to be with someone who is so not self aware. If you love him and he loves you, please stay together obviously, but just thought I'd share some words of advice. I've gone through interactions with boys similar to what I see in your videos. Again, not trying to be mean to Colin or you or anyone. Just looking out

[@adamharvey1474]

Keep him as a close friend, then move on ... I wish you all the very best !

[@kjarbkjarbkjarb8789]

So cute coming back to this video and now you're with taryn.. Thank god

[@HyperionSun_]

lol you and Nick together so cute

[@EmilyMuxic]

wow Nick was really brave confessing all that

[@Ken-bj9uy]

Nick is really cute. Don't know why you brokeup but he looks like a keeper to me. I hope he is happy as you are.

[@MilanToma]

i'm the robot in my relationship

[@StefanDimitrovBG]

Chris, you are the cutest thing ever and you deserve to be happy and to be loved. Sorry but i think you deserve something better than Colin.

[@luizedsilva6835]

Stefaa

[@kamaiabullah8392]

luized Silva wow🌷👍

[@JesseTaylorxoxo]

Chris wth are u thinking! Colin is selfish, he is immature. You can do better because hes just gnna break your heart you can tell to him u mean barley anything to him! There are so many red flags why cant u see em i cant stress it enough. Please use ur brain! Colin isnt even that great. Ur better off with the other guy he seems like a genuine guy not a stoic self centered robot like Colin! Just protect ur heart bro!

[@MrGeeknerd]

Chris, there is a guy that is right in front of you, and yes things may have been kinda weird between you guys in the past, but look at Nicky P.. That is a guy who genuinely likes you! I am sorry to say, but Colin is not worth your time.

[@jademathis684]

I'm not to keen on Colin but I really like Nick. He seems really sweet!

[@orbital151]

Hm that was inappropriate of to to be allowing him to lay on your lap and have your arm around him while you had a boyfriend.

[@intheric0930]

it was very inappropriate of you to not proof read your message before you hit return. friends are allowed to hang out like that. there's no problem. apparently you don't have the trust in you to allow others to do such, coming off with your poor grammar.

[@orbital151]

That wasn't poor grammar, that was a typo. I still stand by what I said. This is why the gay community has a bad reputation.

[@intheric0930]

through out the context of the videos, you can tell there was nothing going on. THATS why the gay community has a bad rep, always looking for drama. There is _nothing_ wrong with how they were talking and how the scene was set up. Its a video on youtube. "to to be allowing" is more then a typo. Proof read. Or edit.

[@orbital151]

Typing the word "to" in place of the word "you" is a typo. A typo is something one accidentally types. I may not have proof read but at least I know the difference between "then" and "than".

[@marcusflippen85flippen74]

Homosexuality is out of control It's being taught in preschool

[@nia4561]

You and nick are really cute together tbh.. ❤️

[@aishaq8932]

Plz plz plz be with nicky p he's the cutest 😍

[@nia4561]

Yes

[@TabbyAngel2]

Merwin is the cutest IMO. The dude was Inlove with Chris, and they were so good together before.

[@tomjbanner]

Yesss omg he is so much hotter ugh and seems like such a nicer guy.

[@cassie5800]

I'm loving me some Chris Conrad.

[@motherhoodsbeauty9279]

Nick is really cute. I love is when he lay on your lab and play with your hand. I hope to see more drama between you two later :D

[@foazalshmry4204]

Delena Paw

[@williamm8240]

I find your video's always interesting. The way you delve into relationship questions is very good. It is the search that we all go through. You do a good job in bringing the raw feeling to the surface. Good job and I hope you find the joy and love that you are looking for in that person.

[@thomasemileflorianmatheys4292]

humm... youre cute and seems nice i like your videos but who would like a boyfriend who is filming everything ??? sorry but thats what i think....

[@cassie5800]

Chris what camera do you like for your vlogs. I am hoping to find a good one and try some vlogs.

[@Chancel388]

Did you make most of your friends in college? I have no friends rn and i hope thats the case for me 🤣

[@terryraepatterson5745]

So, did you not hear him tell you that he is inconsiderate. He is shallow and not understanding your feelings. This relationship you so want bad is only going mess with you. Move on.

[@dennisdman11]

Be patient Chris . It looks like your matureing in how you look at relationships and I want you to see if this is a small impasse in hopefully a long term connection between you two . Obviously you have deep feelings for colin . The way our lives go by so fast these days those four months will pass quick . Take care .

[@swifty00025]

Is he moving to Calgary?

[@bellabb13]

For me it was nick for the win 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@emilydonne9882]

I like Collin but I think you should date Nick BC he seems like a better choice as a bf

[@rschuerer]

It's sad that Colin is leaving but it's only for four month that sounds like a long time but I think it can make your relationship even stronger.

[@RaySantos31081956]

💋❤🌍🌟💫👬💕

[@trinidreamer85]

My bf doesn't communicate his feelings very well either. It can be very frustrating.

[@チャーリーブラウン-w8l]

I'm just here trying to get the song at 7:08, but hey man goodluck on your quest.

[@chloejadoo9077]

this should be a reality show ohmygod

[@bgillie100]

He is manipulative

[@cassie5800]

Wow, I am sorta of disappointed with Colin. He seems to have no reaction or emotions. But that is my take from how he is on camera. Maybe off camera, he is a total lovey dubby and very sweet and nice. I guess if you (Chris) really like him, then he has to be very different off camera.

[@RahmatkhanNoori-sf8rw]

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[@aisyhudson3676]

Not playing favs or anything but i think i know how your boyfriend, chris? feels not wanting to share or tell too much cause were kinda afraid that people would consider us whining and they would hate it. Thats why i prefer having professional relay with everyone and keeping every probs and private life all to myself. Kinda like having a trust issue i guess. Lol

[@aisyhudson3676]

Sorry, i confused up you and your boyfriends name. Lol

[@وسيمرجل]

alrirg

[@leofritz4556]

omg he´s gonna brake your heart!

[@calebyoder-wp5hy]

hi

[@oliviaelizabeth9526]

i think i know why ur boyfriend left u

[@go60061]

Painful watching this, Colin has aways to go to have a responsible emotional relationship. Chris, I know you live in a small town. Don't overreach for a relationship, it appears you are needy. You should be dating ALOT! at your age, don't waste your youth.

[@imanuelwibisono72]

Damn! nick p is hot! i need his ig account hahaha

[@fitihab]

He's not gay.

[@Altp2]

i don't understand if your videos are scripted or not lol

[@herpsenderpsen]

+ambar l i wish they were... sadly, it's all real.

[@tigerguy4]

wait so it this like a show? I'm so confused!

[@juanitawilliams2134]

What whdndnx Christmas x a great weekend as

[@miguelamaya6246]

I watched for 1 minute. incase you haven't noticed, the boyfriend has moved on... all you are is another notch on his belt. you were used and dumped before you noticed. IT WAS OVER THE SAME NIGHT YOU MET...

[@justinalexander4589]

smh.....

[@TigerMonthlyHits]

im confused is this a reality show or fake or what

[@butchlane2607]

Why is this on KZbin? Lame!

[@richardkane3527]

Hi there chris

[@adibagus884]

I like to gau

[@artiegrey768]

Im brazilian

[@SanjayKumar-kh3vx]

psychologist

[@MyOwnConfessions]

This is the first video I've watched of you and I already don't like this Collin guy :|

[@zhaikey]

Tbh recording this and making ur bf look like a bad person, thats a bad move!!! Tsk. Ur not a good bf too. Dont wash ur hands. Tsk

[@zhaikey]

***** im not saying u think of him as a bad person, but u r making him d bad person. Comeon look at those comments.. Ur "fans" r attacking ur bf, and thats unfair. Its ur relationship, u can judge him but not these people, but bcoz u upload such thing, u r allowing such behavior. Pathetic move.