MY CHILDBIRTH STORY...

MY CHILDBIRTH STORY...
It's hard for us.
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[@markf378]

A dad was harmed in the making of this video.

[@kassandraguardian-grant9453]

wow! what an incredible story! We need more dads like you! how did you get through that struggle? it must be the shorts!

[@methosofgondor]

So brave! Thank you for sharing your story.

[@AmyMichaelsmusic]

BAAAAHAHAHHAAA YOU’RE HILARIOUS!!

[@markf378]

If she gets a midwife you should be allowed to get a midhusband.

[@caseyfranks6026]

Some heroes don't wear capes. You're so brave for sharing your story.

[@Kerorofan1990]

Tune in for the next video: How To Dad sleeps on the couch.

[@Animbating]

'My wife was doing her thing...' LOL

[@waltissussybakka]

My mom keeps complaining about how she pushed me out of her thing...but my dad never complained..now I understand what a heroic warrior he is

[@kmcooper8632]

This video should be part of all birthing classes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@brilurz]

Gosh that sounds horrid. This is a true New Zealand hero.

[@ManzaWoman]

emer warrior princess Legend you meant to say 😂

[@yvstar]

This just came up in my recommended videos so I didn't know he's from New Zealand (I thought he was Australian tbh), that kinda explains why his manner of storytelling reminded me so much of 'What We Do in the Shadows' :)

[@kevinpollak8373]

This story brought tears to my eyes. You’re quite the trooper!

[@HowDeeDo]

My hubby had it pretty tough with each of our 4 kids.. I hate being touched when in labor so he was there solely to be the ice chip boy. I would just turn my face to him, grunt, and open my mouth. He had pretty good aim but heaven help him if he missed that flick of ice. He's been traumatized ever since. There really needs to be a voice for the birthing partners in the world and I'm thrilled you're bringing awareness to the subject. #PartnersLaborToo God bless you, Sir.

[@lillost]

Can you imagine kneeling in an awkward position and having your hand being crushed for hours. Society needs to give dad's a break.

[@Meganhovick]

Man how did you ever get through that! You’re so strong.

[@kl2894]

I had a c-section for a grade 4 placenta previa. The hospital used my operation as a teaching exercise. I lost 1.5 litres of blood and the surgeon got applauded at the end. My story pales in comparison to the trauma you suffered 😂

[@Tawadeb]

Whoa that’s a lot of blood! Hope you are all doing well now!!

[@rockyman2685]

Bits aside, that's crazy. I can't believe they did that.

[@tahurahossain6012]

You should sue the hospital! Glad you survived that.

[@GrandmaMommy]

We've heard of a doula, I suppose it's time for a dude-la. Could have been such a help and comfort to you.

[@gabygaby7863]

🤣

[@Tawadeb]

😂😂

[@stephifeoma]

Good one 😆

[@piningaway]

I kept expecting how to mum to come in and bonk you.

[@job3rg]

@@HowtoDad Another site maybe? On second thought, no

[@StoneE4]

Anna McCaughey - I don't think that would have happened, seeing as that was the precursor of the tragic events that _How to Dad_ recounted in this video.

[@mareecaswell520]

Ha! I don’t think he’ll get a bonk in the near future. 😂😂😂

[@classicalmom6045]

Apparently bonking means something different in NZ then what it does elsewhere!! Gotta love British English!!

[@BuddyL]

Your body's recovered nicely after the birth.🤣

[@patriciaorellana6469]

I like how at the end, the music got louder, like at an awards show telling ppl to wrap it up

[@MrsGisawesome]

LOLOL... yes

[@alabasterkros]

Aww man! My Dad still has trouble with his hand, and a bald patch where his chest hair should be.... 👀

[@rhijulbec1]

😂 😂 😂

[@ladybanks9766]

🤣🤣🤣

[@manuelame8711]

brought me to tears for like five times during video.. I had to take some breaks because I wasn't emotionally strong enough to watch it in one sitting! you're very very strong.

[@cosmic_cola3713]

You are so brave. Thank you for sharing your story💜

[@wordzmyth]

Doesnt the "difficult time" start when your wife see this video?

[@Rainbowgrrl]

Annora no doubt...

[@katieshrum2424]

jakki dodds YES

[@danielleking262]

LOL !!!

[@codeypendent1899]

My wife gave birth to twins. It was so hard on me. You are so brave for speaking out for all of us oppressed fathers. #metoo

[@meenumonushivaarjun]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@valek7700]

But you got gifted twice for your effort. Maybe that makes it equal.

[@d2dag5]

I’m dead lol 😂

[@darrellsimon4462]

Have you been able to return to sense of normalcy after such an experience

[@purselmer5931]

You sir....are the bravest man I know! And telling your story, and making it public, will really help others who are too ashamed (very wrongly) about the trauma they went through. I was WEEPING at the end of this. Kudos to you sir, kudos!

[@MaerchenFreunde]

After 5 hours of pushing my husband (now ex-) muttered, “Boy, do my feet hurt..” A hush fell over the room. I’m sure it was a sympathetic moment of commiseration from new dads everywhere.

[@StoneE4]

I can't blame him... My feet would hurt too if a pregnant woman pushed me for five hours.

[@Rainbowgrrl]

I’m sure that’s exactly what it was! Lol

[@MaceyRosalie]

I wonder if this is the reason that he's an ex.

[@lilykep]

I was with my sister when she had my niece and I *HIGHLY* relate to this story. The struggle is real.

[@susieenglish302]

You do know hes being sarcastic??

[@lilykep]

@@susieenglish302 Nope. I don't understand sarcasm... -_-

[@vmm5163]

@@susieenglish302 he's not being sarcastic it's real

[@stillvisibletoallusers]

This content is golden. My hubs definitely felt this one lmao. I mean it was only 2 dislocated fingers but anyone would of thought he was pushing a human out of his body 😂😂😂 love this.

[@MrsDeFile]

153 likes and NO dislikes ❤ Yeah, my husband was certainly acting like he needed an epidural, too 😂

[@rynominnie83]

I'm like #306 and still no dislikes... Heartwarming really

[@MrsDeFile]

Yaaasss!!! Hopefully it keeps going ❤

[@dylanmcdonald3822]

396 likes and 1 dislike *looks around to see who did it*

[@monkeygraborange]

@@dylanmcdonald3822 Some people just want to watch the world burn.

[@MrsDeFile]

THIS IS WHY WE CANT HAVE NICE THINGS!!

[@incognito591]

Wow thank you for sharing this. As a woman who gave birth twice I feel so bad and I am so sorry to my husband for not supporting him twice. He should divorce me

[@aimeiday]

You sound like you are a great husband and wife and support each other endlessly❤️❤️❤️ You guys deserve to be together

[@the_real_littlepinkhousefly]

So THAT's what I've been hearing this evening ... the sound of millions, nay, even billions, of women the world over laughing ...

[@JaneDoe-ci3gj]

This so so funny,😂👍 and the sad music!😂 I feel for you man🙏

[@jodiwilson1]

How to Dad........How to get comfortable sleeping on a couch.

[@maryannovel9781]

Never Ever Ever listen to these Dad's stories as I'm drinking my morning coffee! Let's talk about equal rights for my computer screen, now! You made my day, mate! Thank you ^^ (Hi to all your family from France)

[@Teh509]

Stunning and brave... Too often the story of man suffering during childbirth is ignored. So refreshing to hear such a personal release...

[@carolyn4647]

Nice! I can feel your pain -- the struggle is real.

[@CB-pf7go]

You might want to consider therapy to overcome the trauma you experienced.🙄

[@simond.455]

Wow, 4 minutes with a straight face and no thumbs-up or high-fives. That's some great acting! 🏆 😁

[@Rainbowgrrl]

Simon Dellenbach right!

[@TeamWibble]

You have hope! Equality is creeping in! When I was doing my thing and there weren’t any staff in the room I offered my husband some of the gas to share. Helped him a lot. Actually helped him a little too much, he felt all giddy. Weird, because it was barely taking the edge off for me. But it’s a start.

[@alenasedivcova5264]

Thank you for your video . I have due date of our first baby in just one month and I haven’t think so far about how hard It is for dad 😊. I promise I will not push his hand so hard when the D day comes and prepare some snack and panadol in advance for him 😉

[@katpiotrowski8078]

OMG who started laughing at "I had sore feet sore ankles" LOL well done! Such an appropriate video for 2019. #DadStruggles #NeedyPeopleof2019 #DadDiffies

[@BrynnKelly2014]

Hmmmm...Americans might not get the NZ sarcasm here 😁

[@Aellantia]

thank you for sharing your experience omg so inspiring!!!! hope when I give birth I can be just as strong as you.... oh hmm wait 🤔🤔

[@kipperthedog789]

This is every woman’s worse nightmare 😂

[@charlieturnbull6958]

Life as bein hard

[@Oscar_Charlie_Delta]

I feel your pain brother! Thanks for sharing......very courageous!

[@irisn.garcia5883]

Oh dear How To DAD!!! How ever did you survive???And, 3X?????

[@maryj7423]

Let's raise awareness on dad labour lol 😂😂😂😂 poor things!!!!

[@nicnaknoc]

You are one of thous brave unsung heroes - so glad you are able to sing your own song 🤣

[@uwiaufa]

Dad, dude, you are strong! I never knew how the dad has gone through to every childbirth until you did this. You are brave!

[@jennifer_moss]

As someone who's epidural wore off while I was pushing and I started screaming "I'M PRETTY SURE I'M DYING!!" my story pales in comparison to your heroic journey. Respect 👊🏼

[@DavidCruickshank]

You’re so brave to tell your story!

[@lizbug27]

Oh my gosh YES. This was so much more hilarious than I anticipated.

[@Venus0Kets]

Taking about this is such a big step in your recovery. I hope you can work through this.

[@serenity777mylonas5]

Oh that’s sad you felt ignored. Without the men the woman wouldn’t be in that sort of comfort you described . I really hope they do sort something out. I recall my brother sleeping on the floor when my sister in law had her baby. It’s a distressing time for both parties. Plus no one enjoys seeing their loved ones in pain . It make you suffer too. Great video, God bless you

[@april-tui3524]

This is brilliant comedy but are you aware a Dad did actual complain for real in the UK in a very similar way but completely serious? He was annoyed the midwife didn’t bring him food or offer to assist him in any way. Through his experience.

[@monkeythe1st]

We really need more brave men like you to come forward and talk about their child birth pain more often. It’s all to easy to forget how hard it is for us, while she just lays there on that comfy bed.

[@chhayagarhewal6649]

I agree with your equal right concept. This video was an eye opener 😊

[@melissaedmonds1808]

Yet again... an example to ALL Dads everywhere. Inspirational.

[@CraigH999]

Brilliant! You are a man among men to have survived this, not once, but three times! 😁🤣😂

[@CarrienotScary]

#1 on trending!! Congrats. We know it was hard to share your experience, but we hear you!🤣

[@MrsGisawesome]

#2020yearoftheDad and lets not forget the horrors they have to witness down at the 'business end' of the proceedings... #scarredforlife

[@lur9017]

I cried all through this, but happy tears that you were brave enough to make it through. Thanks go out to all the brave dads!

[@marinaholmes4549]

At the birth of my daughter in Lower Hutt hospital, we have the new dad sucking on the gas getting high and me "doing my thing", i don't know how he managed. 😁

[@Rara77117]

A dad was hurt in the making of this video 😂😂😂

[@Uatemydoodle]

Wow. Thank you for sharing your touching story with us. :'( Your wife is so lucky, I hope she realises that and treats you well. Poor you, had to struggle through so much ;_;

[@MarijaCZadar]

I'm so happy you shared this with us

[@AnxGreen]

U were doing great sweetie! So brave, wear your clown high! 😂

[@Happy-bn9mt]

You know....that actually made sense in a way.

[@AnxGreen]

@@Happy-bn9mt did it? 😅 I think he made this video to prove a point 😅

[@Happy-bn9mt]

Yes, indeed.

[@Happy-bn9mt]

I mean...what you said about "wearing clown high" made sense in a way. And also yes , HTD does make a point as well.

[@titok0018]

what?

[@Cardboardboxy]

"It was painful" 😂😂😂😂 Your poor feet and legs 😂😂😂😂

[@oldaccount6152]

Sounds painful man, truly a superhero. Brought tears in my eyes 😢

[@INikija]

Thank you for sharing. I feel like it is still a taboo topic, but we need to have courage to start talking!

[@ruthunger8858]

At first when I saw the title, I thought that you’d talk about *your* childbirth experience. Like what it was like to be pushed out ^^’ You’ve got my deepest compassion on the actual content. Now I know of the hardships my partner went through.

[@SereniaSaissa]

Looks to me like he was speaking to his wife off camera so I'm pretty sure she already knows all about this video. But yes those midwives sure do need to some more Sensitivity training!!!

[@MegaMindyLou]

In honor of your suffering you should have your own day dedicated to you. How to Dad Day. 😉

[@GenYBoomer]

just brilliantly told! and so true!

[@baharozturk6865]

Brilliant humor as always 😂😂

[@annharold5822]

Bless you, you poor dad..i hope you rested your sore feet and ankle.

[@Happy-bn9mt]

So refreshing to see no dislikes. Yet. Also, the untold story.

[@sheilapalfrey5122]

Good job! You sure worked hard.

[@WHOHATESTOWORK]

Cuzzy i hit that gas big time lmao

[@spencerkay7076]

#savethedadhands

[@andreamagnademelofernandes2689]

My iron levels get low- what?!🤣

[@INikija]

Mother Nature is amazing!!!

[@RGVLove]

This should be a thing! The dad side of the story, 😂

[@georginawalker2021]

First

[@joieparma]

You’re so brave for sharing your story!!

[@lisaclark1181]

As we say in the south of the US..."Bless your heart"

[@susieenglish302]

So brave. Your partner is so lucky

[@jantra79]

Oh, poor you 😩 Stay strong, How To Dad, stay strong! With the next baby everything will be different. I promise. IT GET'S BETTER

[@red-winged_blackbird]

An alternative way to show support to the mom having birth via touch needs to be found by SOMEONE!!!! Even a strong handshake can cause significant pain. And no chairs anyplace?!?😣 Very very well done, sir. 💪 Nerve damage ain't no joke!

[@NailahRoberts]

My now ex-husband exclaimed that he was exhausted during a very difficult labour and said that he needed a rest, sat in a chair and went to sleep. Hearing your story makes me feel bad for divorcing him.... Almost 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mathangelaz5799]

Can’t tell if you’re either incredibly brave, ... or full of mud.... Just sayin’. : )

[@tadashiyamaguchi5446]

He is a true war veteran

[@snehamodyy]

I was laughing hysterically 🤣 and the sad music in the end made it even more funnier 🤣😭🤣😭😘

[@shantanumishra9106]

You legend 🙌 👏 ❤

[@attiylanen]

I hear you man. Men's childbirth experience is not understood properly and is generally swept under the carpet. But what's this I hear, they didn't give you any that gas thing? Luckily the nurse during my childbirth was so thoughtful that I got to sniff some gas. It was a blessing. I don't know how else I would have made it through.

[@ilovebigtrees4016]

The emotional music was making me cry

[@hawaiisage]

Your wife's birthing experience pales before yours. You're a brave man!