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MY COMING OUT STORY 🏳️‍🌈 | MY FAMILY DISOWNED ME FOR BEING GAY!

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Life With Nessa

Life With Nessa

Күн бұрын

Welcome back to my channel loves I hope it you weren’t already apart of the family, you decided to join💙 This story is very personal to me, one of my most personal things to talk about, and I decided to vent to y’all about it.. I just wanna say, love is love and it doesn’t matter who you love or what you love. Be you, where the true beauty is!
#comingoutstory #storytime
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@Lj_Cali
@Lj_Cali 4 жыл бұрын
I will never understand how someone's sexual preference can make their own family turn on them sad asf
@SoInTreble
@SoInTreble 4 жыл бұрын
mannnn we dont understand either.....its crazy.
@alanaban1840
@alanaban1840 9 ай бұрын
I do not agree with you lifestyle but would not discremate
@niysarchive
@niysarchive 4 жыл бұрын
they lost a good person girl do you if being with a female makes yu happy then don’t let others tell you otherwise your beautiful keep doing you mama ❤️.
@4KJAYY
@4KJAYY 4 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up everything will come together and hopefully your family’s comes around to understand
@SoInTreble
@SoInTreble 4 жыл бұрын
thats real!
@NatalieJade
@NatalieJade 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like it's so important to be yourself and that people need to accept who you are!
@valeries2cent793
@valeries2cent793 4 жыл бұрын
Awww since 2014 thats messed up. I hope they come around cuz its tuff out here and having family is important. Keep ya head up boo!
@RatoyaBanks
@RatoyaBanks 4 жыл бұрын
This is sad I almost can’t watch I don’t like my friend being sad 😭
@thepaytonfamilyvlogs
@thepaytonfamilyvlogs 4 жыл бұрын
Never worry about what people think even if it is family! I went through some terrible times when I came out but my health from stress is more important! Stay strong💜
@lakeitasnyder8594
@lakeitasnyder8594 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry that you have to go through this💔 your a great person, if they aren’t willing to do that then they don’t deserve you!!
@FROMUSTOYOU
@FROMUSTOYOU 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry love, I can't imagine how that feels, I can see how the real real emotion in this. It really hurts me seeing you hurt, I've gotten to know you from your videos and I love to see you smiling! This is different for me. I'm so sorry Nes. You're so strong, so so strong.
@xGamingZo
@xGamingZo 4 жыл бұрын
This got real personal, took guts to share this but it’s good you did someone else may be going thru this
@parissierra5120
@parissierra5120 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this, I can only imagine how hard it is for you. I could never do that to my family. They are the ones missing out!!! Stay strong girl ❤️🤍
@SmartPsych
@SmartPsych 4 жыл бұрын
🏳️‍🌈 awwww girl you had me in tears!!! bless you!!! im so happy for you, love is love!!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@woodfallw9299
@woodfallw9299 Жыл бұрын
Disowned by my family for being transgender. Thank you for sharing your story, it makes me feel less alone.
@jobbajobba
@jobbajobba 4 жыл бұрын
Danggg you finna make me cry with this one, Love is love and I hope your family can come together and apologies and accept you
@HaLeSo9
@HaLeSo9 4 жыл бұрын
So sorry you had to go through this, but thank you for staying true to yourself!
@PIECESOFCEE
@PIECESOFCEE 4 жыл бұрын
Now you have me all teary eyed 🥺 thank you for sharing your story , I know this will help a lot of people. 💕
@ChloeMartin
@ChloeMartin 4 жыл бұрын
Girl you keep doing you, you only need people who support you for who you are in your life 💖
@keyzoneskits6085
@keyzoneskits6085 4 жыл бұрын
I’m proud of u for being brave enough to come out Nd being yourself not many ppl do tht 💯
@CoyaHarris
@CoyaHarris 4 жыл бұрын
That’s sad you can’t be yourself without being judge from people you love the most 🥺
@DarlingDemitta
@DarlingDemitta 4 жыл бұрын
Sending you love sis, so sorry to hear this😭❤️❤️❤️
@vlogsbyess937
@vlogsbyess937 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you went through this but you’re so strong❤️
@thatstea479
@thatstea479 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you shared your story ❤️ hope things with your family gets better 💗 your dads girl was wrong for telling 💯 glad your happy ✨
@SmartPsych
@SmartPsych 4 жыл бұрын
"you boys will not get a chance with me" lmaoooooo!!!
@SincerelyDanielle974
@SincerelyDanielle974 3 жыл бұрын
Omg I’m so sorry beautiful you’re gonna glow better something good is coming for you 😩🥰💪🏽💜💜💜💜💜💜got support from me
@lakeitasnyder4006
@lakeitasnyder4006 4 жыл бұрын
Your such an amazing person❤️ you don’t deserve any of this!
@Mightysew
@Mightysew 4 жыл бұрын
That’s so sad. I use to be against I realize you can’t help who your heart loves. I’m happy your happy.
@Mightysew
@Mightysew 4 жыл бұрын
I had to come back and finish the story. I hope they see this! This is why so many people commit suicide. But maybe it’s was Gods way of bringing you closer to your mom.
@sprayupmari
@sprayupmari 4 жыл бұрын
You always gotta be yourself regardless what any one say fr‼️💯
@VLOGSbySTRENGTH
@VLOGSbySTRENGTH 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t like seeing my homey sad!! You have the right to express yourself however you want! Stay true to you 💯💯
@adiaslife
@adiaslife 4 жыл бұрын
I found ur channel through KZbin i love your hair thank you for telling ur story that’s there loss your a beautiful soul I’m not gay but I am bisexual and I’m embracing who I am I watched fully and left a like . Thank
@pinklemonade8128
@pinklemonade8128 4 жыл бұрын
Glad that your being your self 💖💯and do what you love !!
@tish3991
@tish3991 3 жыл бұрын
Really love your videos
@saltontheshelf
@saltontheshelf 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. One day the ones who were supposed to protect you and build you up but chose to do the opposite will regret what they have done to you and beg to be in your life again. We humans can do some heinous shit to our kids sometimes in the name of our god. I'm wishing all the best for you.
@tish3991
@tish3991 3 жыл бұрын
Girl family isn't only blood family is who supports you in everything
@curlsbysid
@curlsbysid 4 жыл бұрын
this takes courage!! wow 🙌🏿🦋
@milabae1114
@milabae1114 Жыл бұрын
I’m terribly sorry that this happened to you. I can relate to this. I’m a lesbian. When I was a lot younger, I had neighbors that lived down my block that told me “If you become lesbian one day, god will murder you.” Since when does love only have to be between a man and a woman? God and Jesus love everyone no matter what. Gay, bisexual, or straight. God bless you.❤
@ravenbrown2293
@ravenbrown2293 4 жыл бұрын
I swear I was so teary eyed with u, my grandma passed away and I didn’t have the best relationship with her when I was younger and it seemed like as I got older, we grew closer. I feel so bad for you in this situation and I wish it was different 4u... I am happy that u were strong enough and bold enough to stand in ur truth and be unapologetic about who u are, there are so many others like u that are afraid .. this video will help so many.. cherish who u love and who loves u like u said 💯
@SoInTreble
@SoInTreble 4 жыл бұрын
she got me crying too
@JossyJos
@JossyJos 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣”boys don’t have a chance”
@izzythebrawl5415
@izzythebrawl5415 4 жыл бұрын
Parents will disown a child for being gay but will keep the family molester as a secret🤦🏽‍♀️🤔
@vlogsbyess937
@vlogsbyess937 4 жыл бұрын
“Unless it’s incest” lmao😂
@chatwithtee
@chatwithtee 4 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry this happened to you.Your a very strong and beautiful
@JayyyRandyyy
@JayyyRandyyy 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo she said boom and i left that other girl 😂 MIR FOR THE WIN
@diamondstazzi5073
@diamondstazzi5073 4 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up ! Don’t let anyone tell you who you are . Nobody knows you like you know!
@breactions2335
@breactions2335 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry this happened to you, I hope you and your gf are doing way better now
@amari_onsight
@amari_onsight 2 жыл бұрын
My So called friends is trying to expose me to the whole school, mississippi sucks, too homophobic 😔
@miraclemone7162
@miraclemone7162 4 жыл бұрын
*saved for watch later* cause I wanna hear the entire story!!!
@tish3991
@tish3991 3 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up queen
@ahmedosman5691
@ahmedosman5691 2 жыл бұрын
Your really brave. I feel like I could never come out to my Muslim family. They will 100% disown me. My only choice is to slowly distance myself from everyone and disappear
@tish3991
@tish3991 3 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day it's your life to live
@oshiapatrice5676
@oshiapatrice5676 4 жыл бұрын
always be yourself 💕💕
@tish3991
@tish3991 3 жыл бұрын
Really inspirational video
@itsyogirlfranfran
@itsyogirlfranfran 2 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same situation my family know that I'm gay but they don't accept it so it's like they want me not to be gay and just be straight and be strictly with guys but I'm not having it so
@raee5628
@raee5628 4 жыл бұрын
GIRL you are brave! People like you who are able to share they story, I love y’all ode cause y’all braver than me lol. I’m lowkey really gay lmao but labels suck so we just happy 😂 but I loveeeee the justification you being gay was justified “she not getting pregnant” like weeeerd 🤔🤔
@Patricialeeann_
@Patricialeeann_ 4 жыл бұрын
i love this!!!🤍
@Moana_moo
@Moana_moo 3 жыл бұрын
I’m bisexual living in a super homofobic country(Romania where ppl actually hold normality pride March but it’s so cringe that most lgbtq ppl i know watch it for Entertainment like it’S basically a bunch of grown ass men and priests stepping on Lgbtq flag and they say prayers and say curse words towards gay ppl chilling at parade while holding picture with God). My family is also super homophobic more like my dad is even more homophobic like he won’t let me go to study in Netherlands bcuz “too many gay ppl there” and i actually did come out but he thought it’s a joke first time at 14 i told him”dad i am into girls” and he thought i say it just to get attention and then he told me”no boyfriend until 18”(i was 16 Back then now i am 18) and i told him”then i will get a gf” again he thought it’s a joke bcuz i often say witty remarks just to piss him off. Like he knows i am a big LGBTQ+ supporter(his skin crawls just when thinkin of the thought tho and he called me an evil human for supporting that). But honestly i don’t think disagreeing with being gay is homophobic bcuz in the Bible it’s indeed a sin(so is being lazy overeating wearing makeup but no religious fanatic is Gonna talk about that) what’s homophobic is ppl disowning their kids avoiding to go places bcuz “there are gay ppl” denying gay ppl to marry and adopt kids bcuz “it’s against your religion” or assaulting murdering and openly disrespecting gay ppl in the name of God like “normality”parade priests goin on tv to curse gay ppl in the name of God. Bcuz if anyone would start hating and oppressing ppl over what their religion tells em it’s a sin then well we have examples in history and even now what’s happening when ppl can’t accept others are different
@queenmariee8053
@queenmariee8053 4 жыл бұрын
keep living your life 💪🏽
@timiade6647
@timiade6647 4 жыл бұрын
Coming out is a good thing than hiding the truth about you..you'll be fine
@juanbanks1464
@juanbanks1464 3 жыл бұрын
It gets better trust me I went through the same thing
@JayyyRandyyy
@JayyyRandyyy 4 жыл бұрын
Wait no sis i just cried with u in the beginning and it didnt even start yet 😭
@miraclemone7162
@miraclemone7162 4 жыл бұрын
I SUPPORT YOU BABES 💙💛💜💚❤
@QueenBreBre
@QueenBreBre 4 жыл бұрын
This video is making me sad, can't believe u have goes through that
@lifewithtt4783
@lifewithtt4783 4 жыл бұрын
sorry you been through this much love sus ❤❤❤
@k.cortneya5894
@k.cortneya5894 4 жыл бұрын
Always be yourself love 💛 love you for you
@mrollins2586
@mrollins2586 4 жыл бұрын
I loved this 💯
@xGamingZo
@xGamingZo 4 жыл бұрын
How you leave that other girl heart broken like that😂
@RatoyaBanks
@RatoyaBanks 4 жыл бұрын
“I’m not talking about eating cooch or whatever 🙄” I just hollered 🤣
@donnareeLove
@donnareeLove 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you are today’s all the best to you and your girlfriend
@classicchamp1
@classicchamp1 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I’m new here just subscribed ♥️♥️♥️
@goddessdes
@goddessdes 4 жыл бұрын
Respect 💯💕
@babyworldify
@babyworldify 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that you went through this that is terrible that your family your whole entire family does on you because you like the same sex I could never comprehend why people care so much who you wanna be with or what your sexual orientation is I will never understand that but I’m just letting you know that I am I’m glad that you stay true to yourself I recently came out to a friend of my worship and knowing that I’ve been bisexual and she was acting like she excepted it but she completely disown me and honestly if people are just gonna look at me differently because I’llAttracted to girls till then you know white then I’d rather not let them be in my life I’m learning how to love and except myself God loves you and never forget that and I really hope things do get better for you and again I’m sorry that your family disowned you have a good day
@JayyyRandyyy
@JayyyRandyyy 4 жыл бұрын
You got me sis 💗 we need to link soon
@JayyyRandyyy
@JayyyRandyyy 4 жыл бұрын
We gotta set something yup like frfr
@thebackpocketpod
@thebackpocketpod 4 жыл бұрын
Damn that’s crazy that’s really powerful
@LL-qv3gy
@LL-qv3gy 4 жыл бұрын
so strong!!
@Sheamber
@Sheamber 3 жыл бұрын
Be happy! ❤️
@iamkiylaaa3558
@iamkiylaaa3558 4 жыл бұрын
I love ur housekeeping video
@KylerB
@KylerB 4 жыл бұрын
Sad that you had to go through that ⭐
@queenmariee8053
@queenmariee8053 4 жыл бұрын
thats sad that your fam doesnt talk to you cause you decide to date your gender! babygirl keep doing what your doing keep grinding love they will soon come around
@ohfourbaby
@ohfourbaby 4 жыл бұрын
tss shit got me crying too sheesh ik how you feel/felt bru
@latajamykell
@latajamykell 3 жыл бұрын
i read your comment and it had confused me at first lol. my fault 😂
@adriansmall9828
@adriansmall9828 3 жыл бұрын
Go to see a support group or therapy. They are people with your similar story.
@Patricialeeann_
@Patricialeeann_ 4 жыл бұрын
they lost out on having you in their life!!😩
@Sosadawwg__0
@Sosadawwg__0 4 жыл бұрын
Love is love ❤️✌️
@kngbiz7683
@kngbiz7683 4 жыл бұрын
Aye nessa you good remember god made you to be how you are because he knew that was your your best you frfr thats there burden they have to deal with god remove certain ppl for a reason it just happen to be the ones closest to you but thats not your fualt
@krownkwis3914
@krownkwis3914 4 жыл бұрын
Seeing you crying makes me feel sad 😔
@loridiblasi2008
@loridiblasi2008 9 ай бұрын
i hope you are ok
@RatoyaBanks
@RatoyaBanks 4 жыл бұрын
Wowwwwww you trusted her and she told 😭
@kimberlychesser9895
@kimberlychesser9895 3 жыл бұрын
I support u
@layadagoof1957
@layadagoof1957 4 жыл бұрын
Love from Zooted ❤️❤️
@Chynaaaaaa
@Chynaaaaaa 4 жыл бұрын
🤦🏻‍♀️ this is crazy! smh it was the same way for me my dad looked at me different becus i was bi-sexual .... smh but now that im straight they still look at me sideways .
@Boricuagoddess0831
@Boricuagoddess0831 4 жыл бұрын
Hell no im not telling my parents i came out to my baby sister at 14 and she was 8 and im so thankful she hasn't told i think she knows they will outcast me i might tell them when there really old like in there 70's or 80's but not now the lgbt is your family you don't need your blood family sis i love you sis
@Boricuagoddess0831
@Boricuagoddess0831 4 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithnessa590 yes very religious my mom is a pastor daughter and my grandpa is the pastor so they will outcast me for sure my baby sister is the only family that knows and she's more open-minded then the rest
@deathberry3852
@deathberry3852 4 жыл бұрын
Early!
@Cebwll
@Cebwll 2 жыл бұрын
I would disown her
@goldennaay9828
@goldennaay9828 4 жыл бұрын
Wow love yourself you are beautiful weather what you like ❤️
@illegal-tints-onyourcar
@illegal-tints-onyourcar Жыл бұрын
I would disown too
@JoeParrish-un4gn
@JoeParrish-un4gn 4 ай бұрын
Obviously that’s a girl. What are you talking about? Get your division checkbook
@Yexwxrld
@Yexwxrld 4 жыл бұрын
Yo I just subscribed, show some love back zooted let's get this bag
@iamkendal494
@iamkendal494 4 жыл бұрын
🥺dis y I'm scared 2 ND shii
@gunjivenkatesh2543
@gunjivenkatesh2543 2 жыл бұрын
😐
@RatoyaBanks
@RatoyaBanks 4 жыл бұрын
If you move this camera one more time 😂
@RatoyaBanks
@RatoyaBanks 4 жыл бұрын
Noooo I hate to see you cry 😢
@vlogsbyess937
@vlogsbyess937 4 жыл бұрын
Omgggg it makes me so sad that people would do this to you🥺
@vlogsbyess937
@vlogsbyess937 4 жыл бұрын
Damn your gf was not playing no games, she wanted you no if ands buts😭
@bjwmg4td584
@bjwmg4td584 4 жыл бұрын
Your sisters don’t speak to you?
@bjwmg4td584
@bjwmg4td584 4 жыл бұрын
Life with Nessa I hope they see this video so they know what really happened
@bjwmg4td584
@bjwmg4td584 4 жыл бұрын
Life with Nessa I’m glad your moms side of the family knows that love is ❤️
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