MY COMING OUT STORY

[@vanessakelly9957]

Bisexuality is complicated and this video is a really accurate portrayal of the struggles of growing up as a bisexual teen girl. The feels are real.

[@khatdelvalle6653]

True!

[@freyataylor7783]

Extremely!

[@decayingmatter3346]

Vanessa Kelly I totally agree with this. 😩

[@Zanderren]

Vanessa Kelly I bisexual because people say you gay or not and people don’t get that

[@MelinEvie]

Sooo truuueee... it literally sums up my entire experience

[@Kalifornia-Screaming]

Personally, I think people don't choose their sexuality. That being said...even if sexuality was 100% a choice, it still should not matter and your sexuality should not be used as an excuse to judge and abuse you. What consenting adults do is between them is no one's business as long as others are not harmed. I am a straight man. I do not recall having consciously made that choice. And even if I did, it is not morally or legally relevant. Or at least it shouldn't be.

[@SuperLaurajo]

Love this comment!!!!

[@bellaromantica1761]

I want to marry this comment.

[@arsonlindley7000]

You are amazing

[@AlisVonS]

I wish more people would think that way. Love that comment!

[@DarkRavenFilms]

Thank you for that comment. That was awesome. I wish more people thought like you!

[@deactivated-78936]

I'm bisexual as well, and this is the first time I've ever heard someone say all the things I've been going through as far as discrimination goes. I'm so glad that this video exists, and hopefully it can educate some people.

[@smutycutie]

haha I'm a lesbian and still get all that shit.. just cuz I'm feminine everyone assumes I'm straight, and they say that I'm just sick of men so I'm experimenting.

[@hollymorton8648]

Linda Christiansen same here. I just think they cant understand it themselves so they try to make sense of it, and in turn end up being total ass hats haha.

[@sancharibiswas5007]

ultimatekai ri8

[@gargoylegirli]

I came out as bi today. I'm 13 years old, and my parents totally excepted it. I'm so happy. I did it.

[@MollieNorman]

Good for you!

[@gargoylegirli]

Take a warm shower, breathe, take some lavender essential oils- put it on your temples, your wrists and your heart. Then ask some questions about their day and just say it. Do it when you are ready. Don't pressure yourself :D

[@freyataylor7783]

Well done! :)

[@ReptilianTeaDrinker]

Kinsey Sage Congrats. :D

[@AnaGonzalez-du4zb]

I'm happy for you :) My parents took it as a joke ._. But whatever, at least I did it c:

[@cammie4923]

my ex boyfriend was the same with being okay with me kissing girls. not afraid at all that i'd run off with a girl. now im dating his ex

[@jbye214]

Whoooa

[@jackb655]

That’s a bit rude

[@ajpatch1596]

Power move

[@ELmayberry]

😂😂😂😂

[@MelinEvie]

Power move xD

[@moonveg]

I think bisexual women have such a hard time! I'm lesbian, but i'm so tired of the lesbian community (well not all of course) slagging off bisexuals! It needs to stop! I commend you for sharing your story. Society needs more people like you who actually talk about what you are feeling! You are brilliant! Take care, and keep on being you! One of my life goals is to change the way people view bisexual women (i'm in academia, so at this point I think I can change the world lol but prob won't happen lol) , so I hope I will be able to contribute to the bisexual community and make people realize that it is a natural thing and people in the gay community (that includes all gay/lesbian/bi/trans) will not have to suffer as much as the previous generation! You and Rose are brilliant and so bloody funny! Thank you for being so open about your feelings. Take care.

[@rubydoobydooo]

Really well put!! :)

[@thynguyen911]

+moonveg Thank you for your kind words. You're absolutely right. Homophobic people, i can understand their reasoning but I can't never understand the discrimination some gay people have for bisexuals. The B letter in LGBT literally stands for Bisexuals. Aren't we all supposed to support each other?! Why the hate?!

[@xXghostdog77Xx]

+George Harrison I do! So if you don't want to hear about it maybe you should get off a video about sexuality.

[@moonveg]

I always wonder why people who say things like "stop blabbing about details of personal life" are on a page commenting…they obviously care about peoples person lives…Mabye to get attention? In that case, this person got attention. I hope you try be considerate/nice/polite in your comments, it can hurt people.

[@Max-xl3ni]

moonveg I’m a lesbian and I completely accept bisexuals

[@heart9270]

I was actually straight and I am like 100% sure of that then suddenly I saw a girl and fell in love totally.. People always ask me why and how.. People are not satisfied when I answer them "I just fell in love with a girl."

[@Neisza]

But have you suddenly started having sexual feelings for women as well when you didn't have them before (sexual fantasies qualify as that too)? Because Lisa Diamond, leading sex researcher on "sexual fluidity" thinks that romantic feelings are intrinsically gender-blind, but sexual preferences are not, and only "proceptivity", generalized sexual attraction, reflects hardwired sexual orientation which is solid.

[@DeadAlcoholZombie]

Miss, I think you shouldnt care about what satisfies others when it's about your private life. :]

[@heart9270]

DeadAlcoholZombie yup but in our country you just cant help it.. I usually ignore and just smile.. in our country its like you can only like girls if you look like a man and i dont look and act like a man so the questions are non-stop most of the time even with people I just meet for the first time..

[@heart9270]

Neisza you dont need science to justify all things and research are based on "general result" getting a conclusion.. Wonderful things just happen then and there like magic..

[@Neisza]

Bonita Nacua I only said that Lisa Diamond, who stands behind that whole "sexual fluidity" theory, found in her study that sexual feelings of her participants didn't really change (unless they were, as it's called nowadays, demisexuals), but romantic feelings did - people had various ideas about who they can love, only to find "exceptions" all the time. That's why I asked you about your sexual fellings - because it's completely possible that you didn't think you could ever love a girl but then fell in love with one. On the other hand lots of "straight" women have sexual fantasies about women but don't consider it as having anything to do with their orientation simply because they can't imagine being in relationship with a woman.

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

I don't understand why a lot of adults think that when children/teenagers say they are bi, or gay, or anything apart form straight, that they are wrong. I haven't once herd an adult question whether a child/teen were sure they were actually straight; if anything I see straight relationships with young people encouraged, no questioning whether they are old enough, or know themselves enough. Stupid fucking double standards.

[@SarahBrewer0513]

While you may not fully understand your sexuality at 10 ys old (or ever!), most studies I've read (not comprehensive by any means) show that if someone DOES still experience same-sex attraction at adolescence, it almost always is a permanent part of their sexuality. Same goes for trans* people. Sexuality is not as "adult" as we like to think!

[@abiquigley1397]

Im 14 and im bi and i had my first attraction to a girl when i was fucking 8 and i am still bi to this day ! 😊😊

[@AnimeOtaku5063]

There was a quote from season 4 of Orange is the New Black, and it goes: "I'm attracted to people, not genders." And I think that just about sums it up.

[@froot6977]

+Leah buzz TV yes

[@mykensey9364]

think that would sum up pansexuality better imo

[@minitwig1]

It was Soso who said that and I love it

[@witchf4ce310]

mykensey that depends on the person, I'm attracted to people, not genders but I still feel that bisexual is the label for me

[@laneydemotte7972]

mykensey the i think point of is to state that it’s a person loving a person, no labels. that we shouldn’t be labeled and just be accepted and not be different from everyone else. sorry for the late comment

[@Sunnytimes14]

When I came out to my mom she's just like,"I don't care I still love you." And gave me a hug. Best mom ever!

[@LeahAmAnderson]

Couldn't agree more, Rosie. The LGBT community is even less accepting of bisexuals than the general community and it's endlessly frustrating. Lesbians don't want to have to compete with men and I can understand that fear, but it makes it really difficult for Bi girls to establish credibility. It certainly doesn't help our credibility when drunk girls at the bar make out with girls for male attention and says they're bisexual. True bisexuals are harder to come by, but no less capable of honest and loving relationships with women than lesbians are.

[@freyataylor7783]

Very true

[@frankiemagnarelli9598]

"Love is not a choice, so just give in, girls love girls and boys." ~Brendon Boyd Urie, Girls/Girls/Boys

[@aprilderosier3410]

Love your curls, Rosie! I have to say I absolutely love the type of coming out story you have. There wasn't much inner turmoil. You seem to have been so open and ok with yourself from the beginning. It shows a lot of your self love... I applaud you for sharing your story with us! Having an easier coming out story doesn't invalidate it. This is the future we are working towards! I'm so proud of you, your Mum and Anna! You are a beautiful soul... Your love is endless.

[@MissMiasma]

This is one of the only videos I have seen in which the comments are actually a discussion of the topic not just idiotic remarks or hate speech. I love it.

[@CodySDivineCreators]

I never thought of bisexuals from this perspective before. I'm so happy I saw this video, this was extremely eye opening. There is no choice. I love that you said that.

[@mandimoos]

love both yours and wife's coming out story's,, they are so real and not fake in anyway, honest and pure,,, thank thank you,, and love your videos xxx

[@REBECKSTERRR]

Watching this again and I'm amazed by how beautifully articulate you are. Such a brilliant video xxxx

[@MeliYT]

Oh my God, that was so right on point! Bisexuality is not a phase and we're sooo tired of getting shit for it. Thanks Rosie for putting some sense in people's mind. THANK YOU.

[@Popmetalj]

Very brave and clearly heartfelt. The world has come a long way since I was born (in the 1970s) in terms of acceptance of non-straight sexuality but clearly the understanding of what it means has further to go. Your vids are part of that process.

[@emmatayler4474]

I loved this video!!! I've known I'm bisexual since I was about 13-14... but since I married a man everyone just assumes I'm straight now and thinks I've "grown out of it" It's so annoying... I feel like because I've never had a relationship with a girl I haven't proven my bi-ness!?!? Do I need to prove it to anyone... NO! If (god forbid) my husband and I broke up, there would be just as much chance that I could fall for a woman as I could for man... Thanks for making this video, it's kind of help me re-confirm (to myself) that I am Bi-sexual! I just happen to be married to a man :)

[@morganboutwell8231]

Thank you so much for bravely sharing your opinions and story! You and Rose are such marvelous role models. Xoxo

[@GabyStopMotion]

I did it... I did my coming out to my mom right after watching your video. Thank you so much!

[@zornitsatodorova9850]

Plus that bisexual women (!) are often sexually objectified. As surprising as it is, my life's purpose is NOT to please or try to appeal to the men around me.

[@MsTessh]

I'm so sorry you had to go through all that shit from society. You are an inspiration and we love you!

[@CatherineJane17]

rosie, your bisexual rant just absolutely vocalised everything that i've been feeling and experiencing for my entire life. it's just so FRESH to actually learn that somebody else understands me, instead of getting written off as bisexuality usually is. there are so few role models for young bisexuals these days and i am so proud to spearhead you as one - i genuinely look up to you and admire your honesty whenever it comes to your sexuality. so often i think that bisexuals get overlooked in both communities, like you said. straight people don't take it seriously and gays often look down on bisexuality - you aren't "pure" gay; you're only "pretending" to be gay. i've had lesbians tell me before that it is much easier for me to be bisexual than it is to be gay because i can just "pretend to be straight". and i agree with them, i CAN "pretend to be straight". but so can they - they can pretend to be straight because that's all it is, PRETENDING. i'm not straight. i couldn't be straight if i wanted to. i'm bisexual and it's who i am. i could pretend to be straight, i could tell people i liked men exclusively, i could hide my attraction to women. lesbians could do the same but all of those things would be false - and they would be equally as false to me. that's something that just really grinds my gears. it is so unfair that the validity of my sexuality is not realised - that's just like saying the validity of me as a person is not realised. i do exist, bisexuality does exist, people need to just understand that more. and i am so very thankful that you are visible in the LGBT community to hopefully educate some people about it.

[@IbelongtoMUSE12]

I can't thank you enough your anger reflects mine so accurately. Honestly I can't stand it sometimes. I'm bisexual as well but I have a boyfriend, and I love him a lot, I have had sex with women and sexual experiences but have never had a female partner and I genuinely feel pressure, and people insinuate that I have to have had a female girlfriend in order to be bisexual like I have something to prove. Not to mention people just calling me straight. "But you have a boyfriend?" YES IM FUCKING BI AS IN TWO AT THE SAME TIME. LIKE BI-FUCKING-LINGUAL. If someone speaks both English and Japanese no one tells them that while they're speaking English that they don't speak Japanese. "But you're speaking English" "Yes I also speak Japanese" "No you just speak English"

[@SofeaAmizi]

Zoe Robinson SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!

[@xmidsummersky]

Rosie, I am going to say something here, and it's a compliment and a hint in one: you should be giving TEDxtalks about this. And I'm dead serious because I believe you explained it in the clearest way possible, and everyone just needs to hear how bisexuality really works.

[@vanillalatteicecream]

I love Rose and Rosie so much, and this video brings up a lot of the feelings I have felt in the past, but also that I still feel. However, this does somewhat emphasise the idea that bisexuality is absolutely 50/50, which isn't necessarily true, and is also fine if this isn't the case. You can have and preference and still be bisexual. I love Rosie, but I feel like she's over-emphasising the idea that she likes men and women equally, when not all bisexual people do. But this video really does highlight a lot of problems that are encountered by bisexual women', and she is sharing her experience, which I can relate to very much. And I love this video.

[@aven8205]

I think that is an individual matter whether men and women attract you equally or not. We are not the same. Rosie says what she feels and thinks

[@erinbrooksj]

I fucking love you and respect your story. You're so brave and more people need to see this

[@greyyy7994]

Rosie gives me all the life. I fucking love her

[@luctoulouse]

Who doesn't?

[@sassyrobotsam]

This video is amazing. Thank you so much for making it. Every single thing you've said about bisexuality is literally everything I believe in. I've known I was bisexual for a few years now and very open about it. But it's hard to just come out about it when many people and society especially don't take it seriously because of the stigma 'oh you must choose one or the other' but I am attracted to both men and women sexually and emotionally the same amount. I wish more people got that. But this video make me really happy to know others feel the same on the subject

[@danaseballos5305]

your right....

[@jessicat295]

This was so incredibly helpful! I am always at a loss for words when trying to explain how it really doesn't matter to me whether I am with a man or a woman. There are always people who ask, "Well, which one do you like better?", and it is always so difficult to explain to them that I don't like either more than the other! Thank you so much! In the future when someone questions my sexuality I will send them the link to this video! Thank you so much again for sharing your story, Rosie! Much love!

[@LariFu92]

I'm a lesbian and I dont understand how a gay person, who knows how's like to be judge for something you cant actually change, judge someone else. I couldnt have said it myself better, your sexuality doesnt change when you're single or when you're in a relationship. It's not about the gender, is about the person.

[@thane9]

As a straight guy, I struggle with the exact same question. It's sad really.

[@LariFu92]

It's nice to know some straight people understand it, tho.

[@hashtaganna]

As a lesbian(and just a decent human being) I can't stand bi erasure or misrepresentation/misinterpretation by people regarding those who identify as bisexual. Thanks for making this video, I appreciate it.

[@katiejean011]

Excellent video! I'm not afraid to say I was one of those narrowed minded lesbians that thought badly of bisexuals. Your videos and opinions on the subject have completely changed my way of thinking. It's ridiculous of me to think badly of bisexuals when I myself am fighting the same thing as a lesbian. Thank you for enlightening me on the subject. Keep discussing because you ARE making a difference.

[@honeyescullar1361]

It's not about choices, it's about finding the one. 💓💓💓 Bisexual and proud!! Hello to my family who doesn't take my coming out a joke. It's not a phase, it's the real me.

[@slat13]

I understand the struggle. This video was great because it outlines what I have seen as well. It is also so awful to see many hateful comments toward bisexual people from even the gay community.

[@myname-mv9nd]

this video is so important to me. thank you rosie, knowing someone has had the same experience that i am experiencing right now means the absolute world to me. i love you and rose so much, and you guys have helped so much, but this specific video hits me so hard. thank you again, you are invaluable to me and many others

[@juliaeve]

I say I'm gay because I'm barely bisexual. I love women 98% and guys 2% so I'm technically bisexual but I'm more gay than ever lol

[@tryfamily5100]

I FEEL THIS COMPLETELY HELP ME EXCEPT IT PLEASE. I've always felt 100% percent attracted to girls but I can see a guy and think "he's attractive" but I can't see myself dating him or loving him. In my heart I feel gay but my mind won't let me completely accept it.

[@CosmicBeings]

Same.....I been watching this video over and over again since 2014 and...I am pretty confident I am gay. But, I have been sexually active with men in the past. I just can't get my feelings to be more than a friend with a guy....I can deeply love a guy for who he is, think he is great, attractive...but the love is always just a friendship. Even sexually...when given the moment I am not thrilled or interested. But a part of me tries to prove I can be straight just to find out...nope can't get into a guy.

[@themindbenderr]

+Liz Eleanor omg same! that is hard. I find boys attractive but I can't see myself with a boy. I don't wanna date, flirt. I want to do these things with girls. I want to marry a girl, not a boy. But I still don't know if I'm bi or not. Because sometimes I wanna have sex with them and find myself thinking about dating a boy. And sometimes I just find it so disgusting. That is a weird shit!!

[@phone7x7]

A lot of people use the Kinsey Scale. You might be a 5.

[@efadfa3]

I used to think that too but I realized it's cause I'm bisexual and homoromantic so maybe that'll help someone.

[@MegaComentadora]

and now, you are married with a woman. proud

[@strawberry-kirby]

HALSEYY

[@aoryward]

I thoroughly enjoyed your coming out video. Well done and congratulations on coming out over the years!

[@MaggieJones1953]

Brilliant and very well explained. Thank god young people like you are the future.

[@LeilaMiriamBG]

I don't get taken seriously as bi because I'm engaged to a man. But before him I only ever was serious with women. It drives me mad that I'm no longer seen as part of the LGBT community. But I'm happy so people can think what they want.

[@LukeJacksonMusic]

you're so good at talking about stuff, this video confirmed everything I thought about bisexuals. I'm fairly sure I'm gay but this video felt important xx

[@PositivityGleek]

As a lesbian even I can tell it must be so much harder to come out as bisexual because coming out as gay you have the full support of the lgbt community to rely on but as a bisexual there are so many gays and lesbians that don't accept bisexuality. It's ridiculous really because so many of us struggle to accept who we are and crave the acceptance of others yet some people still have the nerve to make someone feel ashamed of who they are :( like I said before I'm a lesbian but if I see an attractive guy I feel like I need to keep quiet about it because my straight friends don't accept my opinion on men because I'm gay :/ everyone just needs to stop being so judgemental and let us love who we love!

[@page6278]

I agree, im a lesbian as well and i just don't get why other lesbians or gays (not all) don't accept bisexuals as part of the community its like in one of Rosie's other videos i think it was called "scissor shaming" when they said "Why have a war inside our own community?" we all need to stick together Gays, Lesbians and Bisexuals! And we all have the right to love who we want regardless of gender!!

[@MrDarkschneider1982]

page The issue is that all human beings, no matter the religion, the colour of he skin, the gender and the sexual orientation, have a tendency to divide in groups and that can easily lead to discrimination to the people that don't fix in any of the groups. In the same way in the past sons of mixed marriages were discriminated by both whites and blacks.

[@page6278]

I know we will never change :(

[@MrDarkschneider1982]

page No, don't say that. We are changing all the time.200 yard ago slavery was still common. 110 years ago women had no votes. 60 years ago racism was considered socially acceptable. 15 years ago most of the world public opinion strongly opposed gay marriage. We fight battles, we lose, then we fight again, than we win and we change. And the biggest reason i love people like Rose and Rosie is because i feel like they are the ones that fight in the front.

[@page6278]

Thanks your right it just takes time :) . i know what you mean i don't know what i would do if it wasn't for rose and rosie or lucy and kaelyn they give us all hope :))

[@Sociallama]

I respect you so much, you are a very intelligent and good individual. This is was a great watch.

[@writedrunkeditsober]

Loved rose's video and love this one too! You guys are so frank and strong. Sexuality is a complicated subject on it's own and I think you ladies have both navigated through it admirably well!

[@GilmoreGirl1607]

I'm bisexual and no one else has ever been able to put into words everything that you just did in regards to bisexuality. Thank you so much for sharing your story Rosie, and for helping me better understand and accept my own.

[@ChristieSaysRawwr]

I've had the "how can you know if you've never been with a girl?" question so many times from boys. How does that even make sense? Up until 2 years ago, I hadn't "been with" a guy either, but that never mattered to guys! At a young age no one has done anything but you still know within yourself what you like..

[@claram9120]

Thank you for sharing this! I had the same thing where a boyfriend told me he didn't mind if I kissed girls. I couldn't put my finger on why it bothered me but you've explained it perfectly. I also had people at an LGBT group say I didn't belong there because I was 'straight' (I had a boyfriend). Besides surely everyone should be welcome there regardless!! Doesn't feel good when people try to tell you what your sexuality is. I love you guys!

[@xXghostdog77Xx]

This is a great video! Thank you for telling your story. I'm a bisexual man and i completely understand the feeling of "It's. a phase" all all of that bullshit that narrowminded people say. Anyway I love you guys keep up the amazing work!!!

[@xXghostdog77Xx]

+George Harrison Oh really? So you know me? Nope I didn't think so. So go fuck yourself kid.

[@clancycollins7751]

Thank you so much for sharing this. It makes the world a better place when someone shares her story about coming out and showing acceptance to others. The fact that you explain how you discovered yourself helps people who don't understand that a sexual preference or orientation is not a choice. It just simply isn't. The need for explanations is shrinking I think in part because of people like you. Again thank you.

[@Elphenor333]

Your passion is gorgeous ! Just love you! You are so right ! Thank you for sharing. ❤️

[@mirandawonder3707]

Another grateful bisexual woman, here. Also, beginning my first relationship with another woman, and you both are sharing so much that is helpful! Thank you!

[@persuasive8dizzy]

Rosie, I'm bisexual, or gay - to be honest, still not a hundred per cent sure which - but that's irrelevant. SO many things you've said, I've thought before, but couldn't properly explain to people. You are SO eloquent and well-spoken on this topic. Watching this video again, every point you make makes me go, "Yes! Exactly! THIS is what I was trying to say!" I really respect and admire how articulate and clear-headed you are - it has helped me find some of my own clarity. Congratulations to you and Rose, too - your wedding looked divine :) xxxxxx

[@Karolina-sq6di]

I love this. Every single word of it. Thanks Rosie. I love you.

[@LivLawren]

this made me feel so much better about my sexuality. i'm so glad that you mentioned the whole "she's with a woman but she'll end up with a man" idea. so many people have said that to me as well and currently being with a girl, it started to get to my head and i began overthinking if i'm wasting time and other crazy ideas. this video helped me realize that i'm exactly where i want to be and i feel very secure to label myself as bisexual. it definitely fits how i've felt since i was in elementary school. thank you!💕

[@TheUncalled23]

I absolutely love how passionate you get towards the end, raw, true feelings caught camera! Thank you!

[@jade-louiseriley8798]

Emma listed your vid in her description for people struggling to come out! Emma Blackery and you and Rose are my fav youtube ladies!

[@bellatheduck5822]

Same!

[@samohdamn16]

Dear Rosie and Rose, I am a 21 year old girl just becoming familiar with your videos and I have to say that not only your coming out videos but your videos in general are so incredibly inspiring. I thank you both for being yourselves and shedding light on so many problems I have been having with my sexuality. I am Persian and in my culture being gay or bisexual is incredibly, absolutely and utterly frowned upon. However, because of you two, I am so much more embracing of the person I am and thank you from the depths of my heart for being the amazing people that you are. You are heroes in my world. Thank you. With love, Sam

[@Natalie-ok3ej]

One of my closest friends is a lesbian, and I overheard her having a conversation with another one of my friends in the room next to mine. Telling him how she doesn't believe in bisexuality, and she finds us liars and that we're 'greedy'. And honestly, it just shocked me. I know what an absolute horrible time she had at school, being bullied because of her sexuality. So surely she wouldn't want to make anyone else feel how she did? Obviously not. Safe to say, we no longer speak on the regular..

[@ObfuscateOkashi]

Well, just because someone is gay doesn't make them evolved. Sorry you had to go through that, though. I'm a lesbian myself, but I think the judgement, regardless of whether it's the B or T or any other thing, is total bullshit. Solidarity, yo. *brofist*

[@notnatwhothat]

This is the first coming out story I've seen for someone who is bisexual. Thank you so much for making this. It really made me think and accept myself more. I really needed this. Thank you.

[@bobcarver5443]

I have to say my opinion of you has changed. While I am aware that we only see what you allow us, which is totally fair and right, I always felt you were very funny and sweet. This video showed me the strength you have as a person. As much as I adore the two of you as a couple, the coming out stories you presented have allowed me to see you as individuals as well. Yes, my opinion has changed, you are so much more than adorable and funny, you are important! Much love.

[@Viootoku]

Such a truthful and honest woman. I think you and Rose are great, congrat's on engagement!

[@razzygirl91]

I love you both, I love your hair in this Rosie, I love the way that one of you films a video and the other one sits in the room listening in silence with respect :) xxx

[@mandymoe6493]

Haha, when you explained the problem with "just being bi when you are singel" I was so thankful (and it was really amusing somehow). I identify as bi right now, but I don't know what will come in the future. But your coming out story and Roses just give me the feeling of being completely "normal". I have time to figure out if I'm bi or a lesbian. I am 17 in about 3 month and still haven't been in a relationship. And you two tell me that it is fine to take my time and figure everything out, maybe to even try things out. And I am really, really thankful for you posting these videos. They helped me a lot. And I'm sure they helped a lot of other people too. So thank you again and keep being awesome. ♥

[@safiefitz8619]

Love this video. Now I know more about the feelings of bisexual despite the prespectives that other tend to put on them. Clear explaination. Thank you.

[@alexhowerton5411]

Your story and your life and videos just helps give me confidence :)) You are so awesome

[@panicatdx]

i love and respect her so much! and i can totally relate and agree with her. thank you so much for making this video.

[@TheLuLuLondon]

You literally speak my thoughts and words!! This is what I tell my parents, friends, it's hard to get people to understand. Everything you said about cheating is so unbelievably right on the spot!

[@QuietBiscuit]

I'm bi and I feel like you're right about us being less accepted in the lgbtq community I've had girls turn down a date with me bc I'm not gay I'm bi. I also get told that I'm not bi because I've never gone the full way with a woman, but I know my feelings so screw those guys

[@kjperry45]

I think that was probably the best video I have seen on KZbin. Everything you said is so true

[@emicperfume]

How can you know at 12?? People are silly. I had my first crush at 4!

[@garbenbarben7987]

+Emi Brown Same!!

[@rock5smnc]

+Emi Brown same. can someone turn this into a study?!?!

[@hazingblur7615]

+Emi Brown the funniest thing is that nobody questioned a straight person's sexuality like "you're too young to know you're straight!" nobody ever says that it only happens with queer people "uh you're to young to know you're gay/bi/lesbian/whatever"

[@lilsnackcakez3140]

right ? my friend lost her virginity to her current bf and future husband when she was 11 she is now 23

[@savannas2920]

well the thing is the you rather know or your just to young to even care about boy or girls

[@Whimsicalantlers]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. Bisexual experiences need to be heard and I'm so grateful to you for speaking out and being a positive role model to LGBTQIA youth.

[@rosalina9979]

1:54 :"The girls didn't want to play with me".....Come on Rosie....I would like to play with you NOW

[@qaz12008]

Thank you, Rosie. You have been an inspiration to me! I wish i could be as brave as you.

[@leelaerfan]

Rose: "I have sand in my vagina.." "I don't know it's always there.." "I don't wanna talk about it.." Seriously amazing

[@priy2967]

I'm so glad you made this video. I'm bisexual too and I know exactly what you mean. Both my girlfriend and I are bi and we get so much shit; its unbelievable. People always refer to us as "friends" even though they see us holding hands, kissing etc and can blatantly tell we're a couple. And because we're both bi, people always assume that its just a "phase" and we'll get over it. We've been together for nearly a year and I can safely say we both love each other a lot. Sexuality has nothing to do whether a person will cheat or not. Discrimination against bisexuals is so high.

[@alexy.4149]

It's pretty pathetic when people try to erase bisexual identities. The "if you're with a woman, that makes you a lesbian" comment particularly bewilders me. It's like saying, "you're eating a salad, that must mean you're a vegetarian".

[@cheesecakelasagna]

Nice analogy. I'll use it!

[@kendyrahhh]

I've only just found your channel and this video has finally made me feel as though I can relate to someone. Thank you so much for sharing this, I appreciate your openness and honesty immensely.

[@demianelark]

This video... It's like me talking... Seriously, I could've made this video, that could be me talking. I hate the questions "so which do you prefer, men of women?" ughhh!!! I love you Rosie and thank you for sharing this with us!! It is helpful. Even if you have an understanding family (which is a blessing) there are always people who won't believe you. Bisexuality seems to be some kind of a myth, or something... I hear things like "you can't play for both teams" and other as stupid things as that all the time. It's very hard when nobody takes you seriously.

[@nofearonlylove21]

Rosie, this is a perfect representation. i wish everyone could hear everything you had said in this entire video. thank you

[@94lydiarose]

"seems you're only bi if you're single" So much truth.

[@Tes73792]

I love how full of interesting stories Rosie is. It's great!

[@oonagh8552]

If you're reading this, you're amazing and have a great day! :D

[@jasminburnett7438]

You too! :)

[@RuneSigrid]

Oonagh Shayler you too

[@oonagh8552]

Rune Sigrid Thanks :)

[@alecellis]

seeing comments like this on other videos kind annoys me (idk why) but on this particular channel (and others) it made me feel a lot better

[@helenepedersen9852]

the best thing yet. i'm a bisexual woman and i recognize all of these dilemmas. when watching your video, it's like re-visiting the situations. definitely the last part hits me, because of how often i experience this. i'm just glad that I'm not the "weird one", theres actually one who's been through the same situations. oh my. that was a longer post than i wanted it to be.

[@SuperBeebeegirl18]

This is inspiring. Thank you Rosie!

[@highlandfam2232]

This video was so helpful thank you! I came out to my friends and family as bisexual today. I feel like a massive weight has been lifted of my shoulders, so thank you.

[@ramywiles]

"How can you know at 12?" ... I was eight when I had my first crush. The only reason nobody questioned it was because I was a girl and he was a boy.

[@ramywiles]

Not that anyone will see this, but I'd forgotten that I left this comment, and it's a little bit of a trip to come back to it now! I mean, I did know _something_ when I was 12, but it was that I was just gay. I'm only just now putting that language to it at 28. I'm still squaring this crush with the fact of being gay, but if I think about the fact that I only had two what-I-would-have-described-as-crushes on boys between ages 8 and 18, and about the fact that the second crush also ended up being gay, and about the fact that more and more and more childhood crushes on girls resurface by the day... it starts to make a little more sense, lol. I think coming back to this video was actually quite validating, too, because if I think about the prospect of pursuing/ending up with a man vs. pursuing/ending up with a woman, one undeniably makes me _exponentially_ happier. It's nice to be able to actually sit with and recognize that contrast now.

[@agneskun2055]

You are such an inspiration!!! Thank you!!!

[@zannetheman]

Thank you so much for this. You don't know just how much I appreciated it. I feel like I'm between bi and lesbian and people mock me for it. I feel your pain :) I really love you girls and am so happy for you!! 💜💜

[@audreynellis3740]

You and Rose have no idea how many people you help through life. You guys are just amazing.

[@appearings]

I'm bisexual and 20. Had secretly identified as "bi-curious" from maybe age 12 until... 18 or 19 😬 (it was a long time coming. I live in America in the SOUTH so it was difficult for me to come to terms with it). My mother very likely knows since I've spoken about it on a few social medias and I know she likes to snoop 😅 I just feel like a coward because I haven't told my mother directly and only my boyfriend and whoever has seen my talk about it online actually know. I'm starting to not even tell anyone at all unless it really comes up in conversation. I'm sure everyone just assumes I'm straight because I've never been in a relationship with a woman and I've been with my boyfriend for two years... Ah, anyway. I don't know what else to say. Just needed to vent a little.

[@appearings]

Like, it's so dumb too because I used to go to parties when I was in high school and I really remember making out with both girls and boys but I'm SURE people just blew it off as just what "girls do at parties." Like nooooo!!!! I'm not kissing people just to be cute or to have attention - I'm kissing them because I just wanted to kiss them! 🙄 Okay, now I'm done ranting.

[@IbelongtoMUSE12]

Giiiiirrrlllll I feel you. I hate that I feel like there's no point coming out because I've got a boyfriend.

[@ronjad8184]

Yes! This!!!

[@becki8000]

I relate so much! I'm 21, in a four year relationship with a man that's not likely to break up anytime soon, so many people have no idea I'm bi because I just feel there's no point speaking about it. My closest friends don't really understand that I'm bi because they just think, well I've never been with a woman beyond kissing and I have a boyfriend so how could I possibly be bi. It's silly. You know who you're attracted to, you just know. Like how you know before you're sexually active- as an adolescent. My closest friends also assume I'm going to have a threesome or something because I'm bi! And don't get me started on guy friends, they just think it's hot if it comes up. Pfft. Sorry for venting as well!

[@DinGrogu16]

I agree 100%, you can't help who you fall in love with.

[@Starniouses]

I am literally crying tears of joy after watching this. Thank you so much

[@brittanycoleman3158]

I just loved this video and as a bisexual women in a monogamist relationship with a man I have heard a lot of the same stuff from my family, friends, and strangers. I completely agree with your view point about being bi and knowing from a young age. I knew I was bi since I was 5 and a crush on a girl and a boy. My mom didn't take me serious either when I told her I was bi at 12. But when I have dated girls in the past my family has had no issue with it so I am blessed in that respect. I just wanted to thank you for sharing your story. This is my 1st time watching your videos. And thanks for your sharing your experiences.

[@sammylane21]

The British accent makes me laugh when Rose(I think it is) she complains about sand being in her vag but they don't live any where near sand,haha!!

[@steffyaus]

Thanks for making this vid! I don't come across on coming out vids on being bisexual. It's nice too know when growing and discovering my sexuality I'm not alone. Bisexuals need more of a voice and thanks for helping out even though you are only one voice. It has made a difference in my life and wanna say thank you for that :)

[@Emm_R_Guitar]

I think people have this assumption bisexuals end up with a man, because I think realistically the chances of meeting a guy over a lgbt girl is statistically higher unless you really make an effort to be 'out' to everyone or date on apps. And say 20 years ago, if you could stay in the closest, you probably would because of the social reaction. So maybe that idea has carried over. I'm about the same ages as you I recogn, and my coming out - although was mostly fine with my friends, really wasn't smooth with my parents and has taken over 2 years to smooth over and I'm still bitter about it. The thing is I feel like one of the lucky ones. And I feel like alot of people speak about their experiences if they are positive, to bring positivity. And that's cool. But I kinda feel like, at least from the people I've met, it's not really a true reflection of society, we put on this front that it's accepted by everyone when most of my friends are in the closet to at least 1 family member. Maybe it's just being in my early 20s, and so my parents are nearly 60. I know we are lucky to legally have marriage and most civil rights. But I think we are kidding ourselves if we think all the prejudice and hate and ignorance is dealt with. Sorry just thinking out loud... *rambles*

[@ginaangelea8436]

I stumbled onto your partner RoseExllenDix channel and have been enjoying listening to both your videos all day today. I wasn't expecting to find your coming out story ... but I'm forever grateful that I have. Thank you for sharing this. Being bisexual has been a struggle and sometimes I feel that I'm shunned because I'm making it look like it's a "choice", which is the #1 narrative that is fought against. There is so much pressure to pick a side, and while there may be preferences, there's no "final choice" to be made. There aren't enough bi stories out there, so thank you for sharing yours. I feel stronger for hearing this. ♥ And thank you for talking about "respect" too. Much love to you and Rose!!