MY COMING OUT STORY

I've been putting this off for a while, but with this being the first video 2017, I wanted to start it off by sharing my coming out story so... This is the story of coming out as gay to my mom and my dad.
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[@wills5945]

I came out to my best friend as gay first, then he came out as gay to me. We're dating now.

[@babyboo3067]

Wizardporn2008 wtf😂 Lucky u

[@MillennialJesus]

lol.. ikr. He's so damn lucky

[@ritwik0905]

That’s so sweet😍😍😍👍👍

[@abbykastern5149]

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

[@giovannirivera3277]

SOOOO LUCKKKYYYYY 😩😩😩

[@TheYouPoop]

EVERYONE, let's all give Travis a group hug, show him we love him!

[@dennisneed6349]

You are a strong guy. I. Went thr0w the same thing. I survived. People don't understand. We are born gay.

[@mick3ymous332]

🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗

[@keerthana5188]

"I rather be hated for the person that I am than be loved for someone I am not"

[@lovejanet4626]

Facts

[@jesswise1863]

Absolutely

[@scottsmith-gm4lr]

Well ain't you three just assholes

[@ChrisRedfieldFan503]

he looks like a disney prince! omg!!

[@lindatwala2977]

Scary Bunny I know right lol! He is really brave I hope he reads this though

[@phillipmorgan5121]

Scary Bunny really that’s the only thing you got out of this video? WTF

[@thethreemuskateens4674]

I mean, you're not wrong

[@anastasia10017]

LOL it's true !!!! and he is so nice.

[@StephenMatrese]

OMG, now that you mention it, he really does.

[@williamperri1202]

My parents wanted to send me away to be "fixed" when at 25 they realized I was gay. So I moved away to live my authentic life. That hurt you felt telling your story never goes away. I'm 64 now and still shed tears when I think out it. I'd be PROUD to have you as my son. Enjoy your life Travis.

[@BenBluee]

Omg! This would have been super hard to make. No wonder it took you a few tries. Good on you man 💙

[@mrmakeshft]

Ben Blue I so agree! Travis is definitely the real fucking man! Whether his parents see who they brought into this world or not.

[@overthinking_art5657]

same

[@cosmix02]

omfg can i just say that i just love ur profile pic

[@aaronappiah6466]

Ben Blue WOW!!!! HE'S 37 WTF.

[@stevenocampo805]

Ben Blue Steven

[@tallactordude]

It's how we get through the difficult parts of our lives that make the persons we turn out to be. As rough as things were, they made you the caring, loving person you are today. Thanks for sharing your story with us.

[@jimntom1]

This is the absolute truth!!!

[@Hlloona]

@jim - It's a truthful lie, don't be duped by Satan and his minions.

[@squishy5477]

Gm Casey You're right, your statement is a truthful lie. So we shouldn't be duped by it.

[@Dara-hi8uw]

I

[@ksksks7392]

cityofjustin a

[@thatboiq4799]

"I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not". My parents don't understand this. They won't let me come out to any of my family or her friends because she thinks it shouldn't be "advertised". They don't realize that I almost feel gross lying to my grandparents whenever they ask if I have a girlfriend yet, and having to pretend I'm straight. Honestly this is such a powerful story and thank you for sharing. I'm glad things have gotten better and just know that you are who you are because of this experience. Honestly I could fall in love with you u r bae af

[@stevenocampo3746]

That Boi Q you. Steven

[@dairevincent5367]

Have you came out yet?

[@themonsterwithin4000]

If I were you, I would just wait till I was an adult and get a good job then pack my bags and never come back ever again.

[@hondaguy5226]

I know it's been two years and if you haven't come out yet, show your mom and grandparents In a heartbeat and see what there reactions are and then you'll know if it's going to start problems. Im out to friends. I haven't come out to my family. My dad is old fashion my mom know but didn't say anything and my grandparents are gone now. It's touchy when it comes to your elders.

[@nathanosei-atenka71]

Desmond Oko I plan to do that I’m planning to leave and not come back. I’ll leave a letter and move on with my life.I will under no circumstances not be forced to live an unhappy life if that means that I can’t be true to who I am. There’s nothing wrong with being gay, we can’t control what we feel, we just have to embrace it.

[@jorgen_t9935]

The way i came out as bi was in my Chinese class my friend said “raise your hand if you’re straight “ and I didn’t 😂 the silence in that room after wards was epic

[@abyss_mage8822]

XD

[@MEVMontana]

That is a pretty short CO story. Yet as brave as many others to just sit there and do nothing. Smile and respect for that. Good wishes. Martin

[@kevingrant7098]

@@MEVMontana why did he ask you all to do that

[@lucasgiles7613]

I wanted to really hug u dude, it's alright to cry.. awww.. u had me in tears, buddy I hope your happier now 🙂😘

[@kevinoneill2551]

Lucas, I couldn't have said it better. I am feeling the same way

[@navaneethvijay1315]

Me too Lucas.Im too have the same feeling to hug him to slow down his tears and to make him happy.

[@user-rc2lh9pv9x]

I'm literally terrified to come out.

[@Crow3ater]

Ik im a year late, but if you've come out, I hope you were accepted. If you haven't, I just want you to know that I support you no matter what and you can talk to me whenever you want. I promise I'll respond.

[@JoelWalker56]

No biggie

[@rediouslights2837]

CC Squaf Where can I text ya

[@ulisesescorza3323]

Me too

[@brandonmendoza5431]

1987 2018 its ok if you come out your eventually going to find someone who will be there to support and love you no matter what and love you for who you are

[@princeerick11]

Why Cant Parents Not Just Accept Sons/Daughters Like This like wtf

[@TheVaughan5]

Because they are ignorant. Gay conversion camp! wtf! If they don`t accept them as they are they clearly don`t love them.

[@Gonzalezreview]

Princee Erick cuz it’s a sin.....

[@nddragoon]

@@Gonzalezreview so? why should these kinds of things happen just because they were born in a way that your imaginary friend doesn't like?

[@rainbowkidbreylon2208]

@@nddragoon Yea. We are all born different. We are all different from each other. We are all different in sexuality. While most people like the opposite gender, some like 2, all, or the same. And that's coming from 13-year-old gay teen

[@enchamade8]

Eric H, religious people believe in all kinds of sins. They just choose to ignore some while harping on others. They cherry-pick the Bible.

[@jamescole6800]

You are a phenomenal man with good energy! The hurt from parental reaction to a son being gay never goes away totally. At 73, I can still cry if I think too much about it.

[@tobyalleyne-gee8966]

I was very moved by this story, which has a huge number of parallels with my own - unfortunately. I get on well with my parents, but their reaction more than 30 years ago will stay with me always. In fact, I even left the UK because of it and have lived in Switzerland for almost 32 years now... Travis, you are obviously a very sweet, gentle and kind person - well done for being so brave. I agree with you about the "takeaway" - or lack thereof: It's just the way it is. Our parents reacted badly. Not just their reactions, but also the years leading up to those reactions, were hurtful. So we have had to carve out our own existence - and I can tell you now, at the age of 54, that it will all work out just as it should! Take care of yourself xxx

[@curiouscumbria6473]

I know what you mean about reactions - 35 years ago or so, my Mum found some gay porn (it was the 80s, it was the UK, it really wasn't that explicit and I was seeing whether it would help me understand who I was) - her reaction, that of my closest ally, was so severe I was pushed back in the closet were I have remained every since - see comment to Travis. Now at 57 I am wondering whether I should let that part of me out to play after years of being hidden away. Perhaps it is the route of my depression and anxiety? My Mum has subsequently passed and my Dad I have not spoken to for many years. You chose your friends but not your family.

[@kevingrant7098]

Toby I think you are in a better place. Nigel Farage, Boris Johnson, Liz Truss Rishi Sunak Conservative party have fuc d up this country. I am ashamed to be British

[@kevingrant7098]

@@curiouscumbria6473 come on you deserve to be happy you are a long time dead

[@tobyalleyne-gee8966]

@@kevingrant7098 Don't be. Those people have nothing to do with you, your attitudes or your values, and I like to think that the UK is more tolerant now than it was when I was young...

[@poormanproductions8877]

The second is eyes reddened, I just wanted to jump in there and hug him. The pitiful look on his face and then transitioned into chuckle just makes me want to cry. Deep scars never leave.

[@isaiahroxx]

Did this make anyone else tear up, I feel your pain 😪but if it helps you are soooooo loved, love you Travis😘😘❤️🙌

[@brianiquearmstrong]

Isaiah W. it made me tear up. 😢

[@Bella-mi8in]

haven't even watched it and I'm already crying. you deserve every ounce of love in the world.

[@squishy5477]

Oh my gosh. This is so touching and you have helped me, because I'm a lesbian and I have a boyfriend to hide it. I can't help but feel that people will hate me. You have helped me more than I could ever say. I'm glad you made this video. And I'm glad you finally got to except your self. Also I'm very sorry about your dad. I Love you 😘

[@squishy5477]

권사랑 Thank you, I finally broke up with him and feel so much better. It was like a 500lb weight fell off my chest.

[@mace9909]

Janiel Squad Congrats!

[@squishy5477]

Military Brother Thank you😁

[@mace9909]

Janiel Squad I am gay also and TRYING TO find someone to talk to know a days!

[@squishy5477]

Military Brother What do you need to talk about? I can try my best to help you.

[@heyrod59]

It's the hardest thing to accept that you're gay it's another to come out to someone, and not get shutdown by being rejected, it's the worst thing. But once you accept what you are, you have "that moment" that nothing else matters, only your happiness, and even euphoria once you meet someone which you have, congrats ! !

[@EK-hj5de]

your coming-out reminds mine : I'm 28 now, and i made my coming out to my parents one month ago. I grew up in a conservative family (and religious from my mum), so when i told them, there was a big shock. My mum said me very hurtul things and rejects me. My dad is very disappointed but dosen't rejects me. Now they want me to be bisexual but i don't want. Even today i get emotional when i think about it, and it's really really hard to feel rejected. So why i did my coming out ? I'm 28, i work, i've a boyfriend for 5.5 years and we live together. So for me it was the moment. I've got and i still get a lot of support from my friends and my boyfriend. So travis, thanks a lot for sharing it and i give you all my support :). Jack is here for you, yours friends, and we (your followers on youtube or other social media) are here for support you (even outside the USA I'm from France ;) ).

[@edgardosworld2153]

I'm here early and I'm here to say that I love you a lot and I love how genuine you are , you have a big heart and I love that . Yea I know I'm just a "subscriber" but I truly mean it Ive been through something semi similar with my mom but we got through it I'm sure you will as well with your dad if not now then in the future you will , have hope stay positive always I love you Travis 💖

[@edgardosworld2153]

Okay but when Travis cried I felt tears coming ah!

[@taylor8397]

my mum knew i was gay before i did xD

[@AwesomegummyDK]

Taylor BRUH I WANTED THAT TO HAPPEN WITH MY PARENTS SO BAD

[@jacobadams921]

Taylor me too

[@rambam69]

SAME XD The moment I came out to my mom, her words, "I always knew you were." Then proceeds to give me a hug.

[@icy_demons_]

My mom tells me “you should’ve been a girl” so i guess she will know when i will come out

[@tobycook9039]

Lol saaaaame

[@philliprumans753]

Even watching this almost 2 years after it was posted is heart-wrenching to think about . You deserve a standing ovation for what you had to go through. It's hard enough to come out but to get negativity back and still come out as nice as you seem to be. You deserve the best that you can have.

[@luismanuel2612]

the lack of support from family is painful. You are very brave Travis...

[@tonymatthewaustin9597]

Dear Travis, here in London I entered Lockdown in my 40's and a couple of weeks ago I entered my 50's. There's a reason for me telling you that. I have watched many of your videos over the last few days and so many of the absolutely funny ones with crazy Mario too. I never usually watch vlogs on someone's life journey but I really couldn't stop watching your YT videos. And, I never ever thought I'd subscribe to FansOnly channel but I have to yours. I watched your video with your father before watching this one and I'm am so happy that you both have made peace with your relationship. Let me tell you, at 33 when my father died at 66, we had a few years of a wonderful gay son and father relationship and that has made an enormous difference to my well being 17 years on from his passing. Keep the progress with him. You're creative, genuine, so bloody beautiful inside and out and the stand out quality for me is the effort you go to in creating a quality life for yourself when you could have been a victim and gone down destructive pathways. BUT, you haven't. A big BRAVO to you my friend. That's taken courage and focus. My God are your parents lucky. Finally, challenges I faced in my 20's stemming from being gay and self acceptance were different to the ones in my 30's and then even changed again in my 40's. So, my message to you gorgeous man is, our work is never done. New challenges always arise. Unexpected emotions and new feelings on family, relationships and self acceptance keep showing up. You are smart and seem to be addressing your challenges so so well and I'm not saying that you're doing it with ease. But, you are helping so many people with your videos because you are not sweeping things under the rug as they say. You should be extremely proud of yourself. YOU ARE A SHINNING STAR! Thank you, Tony x

[@elie3340]

Such a resilient soul. I love you. ❤

[@SimsBgc1o1]

Gosh, Everytime you cry Travis it just triggers tears from me as well. You are so strong I love ya Trav!

[@nickthomas8485]

Thanks for sharing this! People like you who are open on these platforms are really important for people from smaller conservative towns to learn from. For young gay people who don't have a safe place to go and be accepted, this is a great way to learn from others. Thanks for being willing to share a part of your story that isn't pretty or easy!

[@rjpopio735]

Travis, thank you for sharing your story! You’re a strong, courageous man! I hope you’re in a good place now. Hugs.

[@jasonmontgomery3852]

This made me wanna be there with u and hug u for hours. 🥺So emotional... I m gay too and i ve accepted myself but still pretty afraid to show it.

[@pomskm]

Travis baby you are perfect, shame on the people who did not treat you right. You deserve all the best things in life.

[@williamcfreeman]

Travis, oh my gosh. I just want to take you in my arms and love on you! I'm so sorry that your experience of coming out to your parents was so sad. We can see how much it has affected you. I really appreciate you honesty and openness is telling your story here. I love your blog. I'm from Oklahoma (near Tulsa) and have known I was gay since Junior High. I just came out at the age of 60 after having been married to a woman for 36 years. I finally realized that my life still would not be complete until I owned up to who I really am. I am so much happier but also have those times when I feel I have hurt others in the process. I pray that hurt will heal, for them and for me. Keep up the great videos. You do a great job. I still want to wipe your tears and give you a big hug. God bless you!

[@joseguillermo484]

As someone who is nearly coming out to his family really soon and is really terrified to tell them, I appreciate that you tell your story. XO from Dominican Republic Travis

[@joseguillermo484]

BTW. "I rather be hated for the person I am, than be loved for the person Im not" It's going to become my personal mantra🙆🙆🙆🙆

[@gregorythompson8441]

José Guillermo you can join our support group growing up gay on G+ we have councillors to help you and listen

[@BenShimon5731]

You are such a brave man. I really admire your strength.

[@amymarienaglowsky2219]

Good

[@comatose3788]

lmao

[@johnp.mccartney2556]

It is amazing that you have grown into the tremendous man you are today. Absolutely amazing. I don't know you, but I know enough about human nature to know that boys who come from your background and circumstances seldom, if ever, become the insightful, empathetic, compassionate, loving man you obviously have become today. Congratulations on persevering during the dark times and coming out into the light. Be proud of all you are. Be excited at all that you will become.

[@IsomerMashups]

Wow... While I'm reading these comments and watching this video, I feel such survivor's guilt. My (Catholic) parents and (mostly atheist) friends barely batted an eye when I told them I was gay (well, that's not entirely true, one of my friends thought I was joking for about ten minutes), and I only came out publicly because I figure that I kind of have to in order to start dating someday. You all have my sympathy.

[@josephsherby]

Isomer Mashups You don't need to feel guilty about it. Yes, you were lucky, but that isn't something you should blame yourself for. The point of the video is to try and make more families like yours.

[@jayg4135]

I don't think the Catholics are the really hateful, fucked up "Christians". Those fundalmentalists are from other sects. But yeah, it makes you cry how mean people can be in the name of religion

[@mx_moi1964]

Yeah in the catholic religion it is in the catechism that they should respect people who experience same sex attraction like me

[@Toku92]

OMG, your dad had no humanity... How could someone think about something like that... I'm so sorry. I wanna hug you :( You have all my support!! Greetings from Spain! 💜

[@williamhwl]

So proud of you Travis. Thanks for sharing. I'll always be here to support you no matter what. I wish i could give you a big hug and take all your pain away xoxo

[@stevenocampo3746]

Will William call me. Stevenm

[@lincolnfrancis8526]

Hey Travis good morning, I have recently watching your video COMING OUT ,I feel your pain it brought tears to my eyes I couldn't understand but you are a good person , one advice I will give you always love yourself first there will always be good looking me out there but not every apple is sweet. It very hard when your parents don't give there blessings on to you and most of all there sencer love. Travis we don't know each other but I love you as friend a brother and thank you for sharing that inner emotionally feeling the love from my parents . Keep smiling ☺️💚💙💛

[@ruditube77]

Travis - for honesty and authenticity you have my absolute and greatest respect. What you did here takes a man to do - to stare it down for what it is and come out with your feelings intact. I just about cried with you. Why shouldn't it affect you still? You make life happen - great for you!

[@dhruboahmed7602]

You know what, you won; like you've already won in your life. You walked all alone in your life and you found the light and you grabbed it, without any support from your family. Not financially, not even mentally. And not everyone has the courage to do that. And that's what makes you the winner. I'm honored that you shared this video to us. I'm honored to know more about you and your life. May God bless you and your partner. My full love and support to both of you. Sorry if my text is too big.

[@nigellipscomb5207]

Low-key bawling while typing this comment

[@Alpha_Donk]

I think a takeaway from this is love yourself and be proud of who you are. The people that need to be in your life will continue to be there, if people don't accept you for who you are that's a problem with them not you. It won't always be easy but nothing in life worth living for will be.

[@ariannepaquin]

Awe I love you so much Travis. You're a very wonderful, strong person 💞

[@remidoucooks50]

I just bumped on both your coming out story and your « Why did I quit » modelling. I must say that more than deeply touching what is the most amazing in you is your capacity of resilience. I don’t know if you read coments of your old videos but I just wanted to tell you how an amazing being you became thanks to all that. Not only you didn’t give up on your ideas of what is true, honest and saine but also get to become a great source of inspiration for others who like you suffer on there own side. You shouldn’t never close up in your feelings because that’s what make you human and what connect you with each one of us. Congratulation for your humanity and integrity.

[@maecr2848]

That story hit very close home... It’s good to see that you don’t seem bitter or resentful towards your parents. Stay positive ;)

[@LJGrindewald]

Bless ya. you're such a lovely, beautiful guy Travis. the loss is theirs. Hopefully one day they'll realize that. xx

[@sarawehbe9901]

You're truly amazing Thank you for sharing such a personal story ❤❤

[@lindacasal6619]

This video was just so hard to watch and listen to that I can't even imagine the struggles of being you during those years. It is totally okay that you are still affected today by all you had been through, it really seemed like an awful time so don't ever worry about that. I was totally heartbroken while listening to every minute of your story and I still can't believe that parents choose beliefs or any other things over their own children, I will probably never understand that... but that's just the way it is (sadly). Even without knowing you personally, there are many people who are proud of you and I can say that about myself: I am so proud of you!!! Knowing everything you've been through while you were just a kid and a teen makes that proudness feeling grow day by day. It probably means nothing to you because we are total strangers but I really feel that most of your followers are really proud of you. Being that hurt when you were a young boy will probably stay with you forever because you just can't erase those feelings and pretend that nothing of that happened, but you are such a special human being that I am pretty sure you will be fine whatever happens to you. Be strong!

[@z1e761]

I'm so glad these videos exist 😢❤️

[@aaronstanley1952]

The take away is your inspiration.. I relate so much to your story but different at the same time, you're so brave and fearless and even though you were hurt deeply you still showed your vulnerability so that maybe others who've been hurt won't feel so alone❤ we love you Travis

[@setly6400]

I'm gay too, but I still haven't come out to my parents yet, just to my siblings.

[@pikachu3060]

I am the same

[@pabloskibuiadventures4384]

they know, don't you worry

[@ghaialdemita7424]

You are the sweetest and nicest guy I came across with here in youtube. Please dont feel sad because you are gay, you deserve to be happy, you deserve the best in life, you deserve love... Just dont let sadness touch your heart, but let happiness grow. Be around with positive people. You are amazing, Bry... 😍😍😍

[@davidlayman2618]

Travis, I was glued to the monitor watching this video. I'm really sorry about you and your Dad. My parents are both gone so I never told them. I think they knew. Just Always remember that You have family Here! We may not be there to hold you or comfort You, but You are Family!! I Love watching You as I'm sure so many others do. I wish I had an answer but I'm dealing with the same now and I'm so messed up about it. That's where you come along; You help me to understand. Love Ya!!

[@jgnmtz]

I feel ya with religion family..you are so brave and know yourself well. I came out to my straight friend (well except for that time we were stone) but my family wanted me out .. Be good to yourself Trav. People will always try to take your power. Leave them behind.

[@huntermullins3170]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I cried the whole time. I am the same way, and I'm afraid of my parents reactions

[@stargazerverse]

for me this is really inspiring! as i'm living with homophobic parents and i'm gay and it's really tough so thank you for this interesting story travis! :)

[@genesisledezmine5694]

Hey there Travis, This video was very difficult to watch but just as strong as you were to share your story I, in return was strong enough to listen. You've touched my heart in so many ways tonight. You have also inspired me in so many ways. I didn't have a dad to come out to, I never met him. I often think about what it could possibly have been like growing up with a dad or even having one to this day and having to hope for a relationship with him after having come out about my sexuality. It seems accross the board that dad's can be a little bit more challenging when it comes to acceptance in this matter. I was raised by my grandmother and mom. I was raised in a deeply rooted southern religious family. It's was very difficult coming out to them both. I was very happy and blessed to win their love, support, and respect. Travis, I wish I could hug you right now and thank you face to face for your beautiful coming out story. The right people are in your life for all of the right reasons, this I do now! God makes no mistakes He loves you and so do I.

[@SaintKiddJess]

It may have been so long ago but I think this will always affect you because it's a massive part of you truly becoming the person you are today. I'm so disappointed your dad had that mentality when you came out to him. I'm so glad you stood up to him. you did the right thing. and in regards to your mum, I guess her initial reaction was just shock and being in prison gave her alot of time to think. I couldn't imagine how you felt when you received those letters but I'm so happy she sent the apology after. Stay true to yourself travis, you're an incredible man.

[@holajessie1049]

To this day, I can't even think of coming out to my parents. I'm 26 and I don't have the balls. But your story literally touched me. That's why I'm planning to move to another country, where i could live my life to the fullest. And maybe I could find my love there...

[@desmondstovall1403]

Your story touched me. I'm 35 years old and didn't get a chance to tell my mom I an gay and I still haven't told my step dad. The courage you have is a inspiration in itself.

[@RR-mi1qu]

I've know I'm gay for a long time... (2-5 years) I am religious as well, and hate myself 'cause of who I am. I know it ain't right, but that's how I feel, it's tough.. But I hope to accept myself one day. ♥

[@Yukalitlee]

Just keep trying, don't give up on yourself ever. You're not alone.

[@jadamay3396]

I'm not very religious, but I used to be but God loves you for who you are and he doesn't make mistakes. It's nothing wrong with you, I promise.

[@animationbomb6609]

I am here for you, I can't believe this happened to you. ..I came out as bisexual and as a guy I was sooo scared and I wanted to cry as i hated myself. We are all here for you and it is tough but you are so strong ..

[@alexandragray5054]

aw this is already making me cry. You're so brave x

[@DRthistle]

Hope you've found a great relationship and new family. Boggles the mind that parents like yours could not see the beautiful person they raised as being more than they could hope for just as you are.

[@sandb1867]

This brought tears to my eyes twice but I'm glad you have accepted yourself. I'm sorry for your parents' reactions. As a father of two grown sons, I want young people to know that not all parents will react so horribly. There might be some disappointment (no grandchildren?) and worry (STIs, lifestyle) but you'll still be loved and accepted.

[@alexandersaiditall7391]

I was holding off to see this cause I wasn't ready to cry but it's 1:30am and I'm currently talking to my ex boyfriend and eating chicken wings hahahaha I'm ready to cry 😭

[@lenny5923]

Alexandersaiditall omg no dont if you need someone to talk to we can exchange instagrams 🙄

[@silentfades]

you brought back very sad tear provoking moments --- though teary there has been healing

[@thwooorp6305]

your video has been featured in Alex Strangelove!! my heart is so full ❤️

[@diazjaimeg]

Thanks for sharing something so private and opening your heart. Coming out is not easy for any of us, I am a few days away from celebrating my 10th year coming out anniversary and your story melt my heart.

[@coryballad7125]

You have helped so many people by being brave and being yourself.

[@Moyoshiki]

when i told my mom i was gay she laughed and every time i ask her why she laughed she still laughs

[@Moyoshiki]

when i told my dad he was so happy and set up a grindr account for me on his phone

[@jxmar_]

@@Moyoshiki lol! I'm so scared to tell my dad I'm gay!

[@OliviaJela005]

@@Moyoshiki you have the best father

[@briansmith9439]

Watch your old home movies - I did and that's when I knew that my coming out was so much not a surprise.

[@haz1788]

Jxmar that’s normal dw but if you don’t feel comfortable doing it yet then just wait till you are one day you will could he soon or later. Also Ik I’m one year late but I recommend watching other gay people on yt to build confidence like Larray, Twaimz etc....

[@c.h.7016]

Your story made me cry so hard. I found out i'm gay like 3 years ago. Since this moment i am so afraid of come out to my family. My family is very conservative and i don't know how they might react.

[@carlanthem]

God I wanna cry... Thanks so much for telling us. We love you, Travis❤

[@ayishamakela7963]

You’re love , you’re light , you’re amazing , you’re strong , you’re human ❤️ Peace , love and light your way. You’re a strong individual , you deserve the world !

[@nicoocin9099]

You are so brave and strong, Travis! Your life had so many bad moments but you are still here. You inspired me so much with this story to be much more aware of who I am❤️

[@Lukasz_Strzelczyk]

Hey, I'm new at your channel. Thank you a lot for sharing with your coming out story. I've just came out and it wasn't easy for me also because I've grown up in homophobic society in Poland. But I'm so happy now that I overcome my fears and accepted that I'm gay. And even tough your experience is difficult, it made me happy to listen your process how you accepted your homosexuality. It inspires me to share with my coming out story on KZbin and I think I'll do it soon. Take care, much love and see you in your next videos!

[@duh_vonne]

Travis, thank you for sharing such an intensely personal story with us. I just love you so much. I'm glad that you're free to be who you really are. It takes so much courage to do that. I admire the hell out of you and you help so many people (including myself) by being open and honest. Thank you thank you thank you.

[@SeanShimamoto]

Travis, you are such a BEAUTIFUL SOUL!!! I think you and Jack Merridew are the very best representations of gay men on KZbin...and I’m so glad that you’re on here! Thank you so much for always sharing your life with us...the good AND the bad!!! 😍🏳️‍🌈🤙🏽

[@pain-bg5kg]

Watching this video was like „I beg you Travis, dont cry, I dont want to cry”. Your story is so sad and you are such a great and kind guy. I want to give you a biiiiig hug right now. :( lov u

[@wernersauter6708]

DearTravis, I have just watched your coming out Video even though it has been published a few years ago. However, I just wanted to let you know how deeply impressed I was about the way you talked, your wordings, the way you looked and even more the way you had been so authentic. You are such a delight to watch for you are so perfectly settled as a wonderful human being. There is absolutely nothing between heaven and earth that ought you not to be proud of yourself, for you have experienced so much trouble in life and you are still having this adorable approach of maturity and sincerity. Thanks a lot. Werner from Stuttgart in Germany

[@alexakejandroski5993]

I've decided I'm never coming out. I have strict, homophobic, christian, parents and they'll react in a negative way. My older brother came out and my parents told him that "he was an embarrassment to our family" after that he was kicked out of the house. Every time I mention him around the house my parents get mad and start saying how he's going to hell and that him being gay is a wrong thing to do.

[@kenny.aviation7645]

Alex Akejandroski I wouldn't either just wait till your ready to leave and independent

[@alexakejandroski5993]

Kenny.49 The thing is, I don't want my relationship with them to be forever ruined, the same thing that happened to my brother 😕. So I'm not planning to tell them either way

[@IsomerMashups]

+drosh413 It's estimated than non-straight people make up more than 3% of all people (since 3% of the American population self-identifies as gay, lesbian, or bisexual). It's not _common_ for two siblings to both be gay, but it is definitely possible (especially if the siblings are brothers, as epigenetics have been found to play a role in male homosexuality).

[@kenny.aviation7645]

Alex Akejandroski that's what I'm saying when you get older and independent move to a different state and do what you want but then when you visit your parents don't say anything about it

[@iiplaya]

That's fucking disgusting. Who kicks someone out for that

[@SweetHusbandsTV]

My mom did the same thing! She was worried about me getting HIV... but then she eventually came around. Thank you for sharing, Travis! You're in such a better place now and are loved by many. -Matt

[@danielt93]

This is so sad to listen to but its so important. Thank you for sharing this Travis. You're so brave and so beautiful. I love you and I love how genuine of a human being that you are

[@donaldjohnson491]

TRAVIS - I'm from Amarillo but now live in Great Britain. I salute and admire you for making this honest video -- truth and emotions and YOUR stories. I think there IS a takeaway -- a big one. Express your emotions and love yourself. Every thing else will fall into place. I'm a wise listener, if you ever want to share something. But you're pretty good at doing that in your videos. Keep it up. Keep writing too. -- Donald in Cardiff

[@thomaslucia3059]

I'm seeing this video today for the first time. Admittedly, hearing that your mother is (was) in prison AND that your dad pushed you out of the house when you were 15 nearly knocked me off my seat. Not knowing you, I cannot assume just how self-confident and self-loving you are...but you must be commended for the person you have become (and always have been) in spite of these extremely challenging situations/relationships. You certainly have done better than I with regards to your fortitude and pro-active choices. I was 25 when I had my first (sexual) experience, but at 69 (!!!) I still struggle with some issues...and am still alone. I have had an amazing life...but the lack of that special attention and affection continues to cause some heart ache...Thanks for sharing your stories and yourself.

[@loomkid8281]

Owwww i just wanna hug you ❤️

[@Jhendoe]

Did everyone's heart give out at the promo? 😭😭😭😱😱 I LOVE YOU, UR SUBSCRIBERS LOVE YOU. NO ONE SHOULD CHANGE YOU. I am glad that you finally get to be yourself. You faced all these obstacles and you HAVE NO REASON to be ashamed anymore. Homophobia is just an excuse for people to be unaccepting of thoses who know that their heart desires and uniqueness. 😘😘😘😘LABELS BE DAMN, EXPRESSION IS THE ONLY MEANS OF HAPPINESS. 😇😇And I hope you find someone who makes you feel like your own cloud 9.👬👬👭👭👫👫👫💏💏💏💑💑💑💑💪💪 Shit I both ways, #Winning👑👑👑👑

[@wonhonamchan]

WE’RE SO PROUD OF YOU ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@jeremyacevedo6579]

Thanks for sharing, Travis. I can only imagine how hard it was to share your story and relive those moments. You're so courageous, and I appreciate you.

[@robinwalters3729]

Incredibly heartbreaking. And absolutely not something that one gets over even after many years. You are so beautiful and so brave for sharing. Many others have and are going through the same thing and hearing your words offers so much support. Thank you and thank God you are living your best life.

[@kurtmill9080]

Thank you for sharing this Travis. I'd give you a solidarity hug if I could, as a fellow gay.

[@EmmaRasmusson]

One minute in and I'm already crying

[@chaddrickthomas8055]

This video motivated me more than you'll ever know. Thank you so much!

[@alansleeman8783]

Travis, What you felt from your father's conversation, will be with you for the rest of your life. It is a valid feeling. My father's reaction to my coming out was pretty much the same. He however, just cut me out of his life for 20 years. To this day I get emotional when I remember his words, I'm 65. I came out to him in my late twenties. Just continue to hold your head up and know that YOU ARE LOVED.

[@lelandhurtjr6308]

Travis, that was intense yet powerful! Your story is unique yet not unlike countless thousands of young, gay men. Coming to the realization of who you are and being willing to risk so much speaks volumes about your character. I am so incredibly proud of you. You are one intelligent and amazing person that I would count it a privilege to associate myself with. I hope you find true love that will warm you on cold nights, comfort you when life slaps you in your face and encourages you when all seems hopeless. ❤❤

[@tee_savy100]

write an autobiography bc I'd buy every goddamn copy!

[@brandonturner7458]

You're the strongest person I have ever seen at least on KZbin!

[@averagejohn47]

I'm surprised Jack hasn't commented "GAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY" yet

[@vishalangelo5943]

You spoke your heart out Travis. It made me really emotional. I am glad that you made a wise decision to tell your Dad at that point of time and did not get manipulated easily. The reason is that, there are many in this society who are still struggling between religious values and peer pressure from family & friends. It's just that they don't understand that "Life is what we make it for ourselves and others should be there to support us rather than force us to be something which we are not comfortable doing" , but many don't realise this. I must say that your moulded in such a way that you will be able to overcome things that come on your way. Have a greateat life and my best wishes to you.

[@danidan6092]

You are so brave to share this, we all appreciate your bravery! One day hopefully everyone everywhere and anywhere would be accepted for the person they are. I love you Travis!