MY DAUGHTER BROKE MY HEART FOR THE FIRST TIME! NABIGLA AKO!

[@HeyJules]

You actually handled it well with Arya. Sa ibang parents, maninigaw na agad, pero you talked to her in a calm way and pinaliwanag mo sa kanya ng maayos na mali yung ginawa nya. Good job, Momma!

[@EmiliaGarduque]

You’re the right thing to do with your daughter you explain her properly and she said sorry to you that’s good decision for her

[@kismet21000]

That is just a taste of your child having a mind of her own and a reminder that we as parents can sometimes provoke and annoy our kids. We have to affirm their feelings and assure them that we love them in spite of that. You did the right thing in calmly talking with her and addressing the issue.

[@khie3031]

Wala po akong anak pero lahat ng pamangkin ako po nag alaga. Valid po mommy Eunice ang naramdaman mo lalo't di naman talaga si Arya ganyan. Siguro dahil lumalaki sya mas nagiging pranka na sya sa feelings nya at di nya naisip na masasaktan ka.Okay lng nman sumagot cguro ang bata BUT in a good way not in a disrespectful way. Lumaki din akong bawal sumagot sa mga magulang ,maganda din naman sya pero ang disadvantage ay di nagiging open ang bata sa parents. But I can see that she's a good girl at napaka ganda ng pagpapalaki nyo. God bless😊

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

kaya nga po nabigla lang din sya cguro po😊nag sorry naman po sya❤

[@Mhartin2506]

Okay din yan na naexpress nya self nya... just teach her, on how to kind express herself next time​@AmerikanangHilaw

[@cherryraneses4726]

Use the “I MESSAGE” ; instead of saying YOU HURT MY FEELINGS say: I FEEL HURT. YOU ARE CLAIMING YOUR FEELINGS INSTEAD OF BLAMING HER. COUNSELOR PO HERE❤

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

thank you po🙏

[@rubyannrosario6956]

Correct😊

[@mamshiedhong280]

Lumalaki na sya and she adopts her behaviors in her classmates or friends. Just guide her in the right manners. God bless you and your family 🙏❤️

[@MOMMYchel50]

@@mamshiedhong280peer pressure at school and friends and she's growing up Eunice .

[@WilfredCombate]

salamat Po sa pag open up mo ma'am Eunice.

[@LolangLayas]

Generation gap. Iba tayo nuon iba silang kabataan ngayon, very straightforward. Arya is a good girl, all you have to do is explain things to her properly. You’re a good mom so everything will be alright. My grandkids are like that too. A good and clear explanation will clear things and she will develop a good character and personality. God bless.

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

kaya nga po, ibang iba po talaga tayo dati😞but ur ryt po, she is kind and respectful naman samin, d po cguro talaga maiwasan minsan may mga words sya na magagamit na masasaktan kami☺️lalo nako na napaka sensitive😅

[@josieching5294]

Iba talaga noon at ibang iba na ang mga kabataan ngayon. Minsan , para sa knila ok lng yong mga salitang ginagamit nila, wala naman masama sa sinabi nila, ganyan minsan ang tingin nila at pagkakaintindi nila.

[@jzad511]

Let’s also consider how Arya was feeling at that moment. She must have been tired from school and was already over-stimulated. Di ba tayong adults pag pagod, ayaw natin ng maingay, yung daldal ng daldal mga tao sa paligid natin. Kaya baka ganun din. She was being a good girl for rephrasing what she was about to say and chose to say it politely. Hindi lang tayo ang kelangang irespeto, sila din. Respect goes both ways. I understand why you cried, I am a mom too. With this generation though, we have to be more open-minded. Read on modern parenting Eunice para maintindihan mo itong mga bagong sibol na kabataan.

[@FinaJose-rs2bf]

Good job Eunice. Kinalma mo muna sarili mo at kinausap na lang ng maayos sa bahay si Arya. dapat namang talaga paalalahanan habang bata pa para di kalakhan ang pagsagot sa matanda. Pwede namang mangatwiran pero in a nice way. Andun parin ang respeto. Pero buti marespeto si Arya. Nagapologized sya ng malaman nyang nasaktan ka sa the way ng pagsagot nya sayo.Napapalaki mo ng tama ang anak mo. That's Christ like parenting.

[@jehanjao7055]

Marami pa po mga heartbreaking situations you would go through... Always take your stand, you are her Mom... Kaya be firm. Discipline is the key.

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

kaya nga po😢

[@manoosb5618]

At an early stage of changing harsh atittude, it must be corrected right away. Kids now adays are growing differently specifically because of technology, peers/environment. Parents has a tough role in monitoring the growth of children in order for them to let their rebellious side outgrow them. Many parents are having a tough times with their children. Do not allow children to see u crying. Show them u are tough and they should know how to follow your rules/discipline. Your father did a good job in disciplining and instilling good values in you. Pass it on to your children and let them grow a better person. God bless! 🙏

[@cynthiarogacion]

Sometimes adults need to adjust too.

[@lockefamilytv9059]

As a mom, i can relate as well... pag tinaasan din ako nang boses nang anak ko nasaktan din ako.. pero ok lang.. kasi it means na she can express herself rather that keep it to herself may ganyan talaga na mga mangyayri that's why ang 12 yrs old ko I told her if you need my attention or ask questions say something like excuse me mom!! But don't interrupt kasi rude..

[@mariacortez2115]

She was just rude at the moment...... but prepare your strength for more when she gets to Puberty ..... wala pa yan.....😊

[@mmc3731]

Be careful with the health of Aryan. It can be a health hazard if overweight. Very serious if it leads to irreversible diseases like for example diabetes. Just concerned and hope you don’t take it negatively.

[@ghie1749]

Masakit po talaga lalo na pag galing sa anak..dahil narasan ko narin po yung umiyak dahil din sa stress sa anak na di nakakaintindi sa sitwasyon ng isang ina lalo na aq usang ofw po

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

salamat po😊

[@kulupingerzi]

Sis you handled the situation the right way. It was good to let Arya know how you felt. I know how painful it must have been, glad all is well and good after you talked. God bless you all Lovely Fam💕🌷🌺

[@JonelSegoron]

You live your papa so much talaga sis😊

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

opo☺️grabe kasi pag alaga and mga sacrifices nya talaga para sa min🙏

[@charitotaburnal5685]

Maramikang ma encounter lalo n kungmaghighschool. Na basta tamang gabay at laging may communication at. Ilapit saDyos magiging okrin un.Dontu worry pcnxangmahabalng. Ang mgananay.❤❤❤

[@rosequiling9666]

Maybe she is starting to become bigger na. However , as her age increases and soon to be a teener, You must anticipate the gradual changes of her words. But, the big but is... nasa nanay pa rin ang nurturing at mga disiplina at good manners na dapat ituro natin sa mga kids natin.

[@JonelSegoron]

Mas maganda siguro Ang vlogging na lang sis Eunice and maybe magkaroon ka ng Collab kagaya ki fil am living simply in america.madsmi siyang collab

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

thank you po☺️

[@Melcar-m2c]

Hello day and family ka behave naman ng anak mong lalaki sa simbahan good boy talaga sya. in regards naman sa anak mong babae sometimes kita nga mga mother are overly sensitive but i can she is a very good girl. Your very bless beautiful family love watching you take care always ang god bless 🙏❤🥰

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

kaya nga po, first time po kasi🙏im sure marami pa kaming pagdadaanan mag inA😊

[@Rysha7601]

At least Ikaw Sis ang haba ng patience mo. Ako yesterday nag away din kami ng anak ko. Kasi the way she talked to me ay pasigaw which I don’t like. Kaya inis na inis ako sa kanya. Then later on narealize ko kay mali din ako. So I wrote a letter for her and she was very touched about it. And even told me that I fell like being kind after reading your letter Mama. I love you so much. Half Turkish din ang Twins ko. And my way of discipline as well is Pinoy style.

[@melbamendez8963]

Habang lumalaki si arya lalong gumaganda❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@adelfagaralda2995]

Man Eunice you are a good disciplinarian

[@maCholoveGOD]

you're just doin' a great job Ms. Eunice. Bring her more closer to GOD🙏 PROVERBS 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, And even when he is old he will not depart from it.

[@asuncionemperado3222]

HELLO 👋 GOOD EVENING AMERIKANANG HILAW AND FAMILY GOD BLESS US ALL 🙏🙏🙏

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

hello po☺️

[@blissfuljournal]

As a Mom, especially if sensitive ka masasaktan ka talaga. But maybe nagkamali lang ng choice of word si Arya. Pwede rin she's developing into a brutally honest kid. Maaring yun ang personality niya? But she's still young and growing. Need tatagan loob, never show you're crying. Be open minded and ask questions bakit ganun siya nagrespond sayo. Important open communication para mas lalo mo makilala si Arya. Bonding nyo na rin yun. She's gowing and developing at her age. Be patient and understaing. Kaya mo yan. ☺️🩷

[@52elnora]

That's kids can say that that's normal they need to express things they don't like

[@carlitasingco2159]

Hello mam eunice kuya alp arya and aryan happy sunday❤❤

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

hello po😊

[@mdc7081]

Maybe she just use the wrong word without knowing the effect. Good job for correcting and explaining to her. Many more challenges to come as they grow. You need to be strong and guide them on the right path.

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

kaya nga po good luck samin at may teenage years pa❤️

[@eleanorbacosa4063]

Bka nga maingay n tayo as mom..we must be considerable din tayo sa mga anak natin..modulate our voices or tone down.

[@titodongplaylist2076]

Baka naman nakakapanood s'ya ng mga video sa tiktok...Huh?

[@MarivicAlosos]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@pattygolez987]

sa tingin ko tlgang mabait na bata si arya she just didn’t mean it….it’s ok mamshi dartng tlga minsan ang ganyang pangyayari sa buhay ng isang ina sa anak…just be strong lang po.ako nga gusto ko maliliit ulit mga anak ko kse ngyn kania kania sa cla ng lkad😔

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

opo nag sorry naman cguro d its not from her heart din ung nasabi nya🙏❤️

[@LenaSmith1617]

Cute ni Aryan the skyflakes boy😊😊

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

as in, buhay nya po yan😅

[@LenaSmith1617]

@AmerikanangHilaw super cute tlga ni baby Aryan c Arya nmn hbng lumalaki lalong gmganda di m mlayan my dlaga at binata k ma mam Eunice stay safe and happy life God Bless you and your family 🙏❤️

[@majillbuslon2460]

❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@wendyaque5770]

Nagbibinata nya SE Aryan ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😘😘😘🌹🌹🌹🌹👍👍🌟🌟

[@tisoybisdak7675]

Wait till she turns 16 years old 😢,as a parent we have to be prepared to take criticism and disappointment from our children.

[@ILoveYou88x88]

Siguro po nairita si Arya kasi mainit sa sasakyan.

[@ArthurFernandez-c7m]

Eunice the best decision you made it the kids are introduced to the scripture knowing God in the Bible. Train up a child in the way they should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. Prov. 22:6

[@amleth9047]

Atleast next time alam mo na…ayaw niya ng maingay, maybe try to listen to her first yung walang cut habang nagsasalita siya. Tayo kasing mga nanay,dirediretso yung salita natin…ganyan din ako…di pa tapos yung question nila, feeling ko alam ko na kung saan papunta yung tanong. Frustrated lang sila.

[@blissfuljournal]

100 agree!!!

[@josefinahess4604]

👧🏻🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🎈💐

[@ADK1220]

to be honest,minsan nakakainis din naman kasi kapag hindi direct to the point yung sagot. i don't see anything offensive about it. hindi naman pala bastos pagkakasabi niya.

[@samandkenjivlog4999]

Mabuti si Aryan hindi nag tantrum ng todo kasi pamangkin kung autism grabi kung magtantrum magwala talaga

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

opo so far naka experience lang kami kay aryan na nagwala talaga sa barber shop po grabe talaga iyak at sigaw nya, kaya po d namin sya madala na sa barber shop din😞

[@samandkenjivlog4999]

@@AmerikanangHilaw mabait po talaga si Aryan makikita nmn sa kilos nya

[@marialabobuang.]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

🥰🥰🥰

[@JonelSegoron]

Sabi kasi sis truth hurts😂

[@AmerikanangHilaw]

sabi nga ni alp🤨its because its true ur talking too much😅

[@josieching5294]

Totoong marami kng sinasabi. Minsan naiingayan din ako sayo. Sana mo mag explain ng simple lng. Naiintindihan ka naman.

[@jzad511]

@@AmerikanangHilaw😂

[@cheche1574]

​@@josieching5294wag kana po nanood naingayan ka po pala

[@eleenilagan]

Common na yan sa mga millennials these days.

[@PadillaElsie-d5v]

Hilaw din ang English ni mdm.

[@giosfunadventures4775]

Okey lang. Naiintindihan naman ang ibig nyang sabihin. Even english speakers, they also make mistakes with the english language. Kaya okey lang yan..most viewers naman nya ay pinoy. Gets namin ibig nyang sabihin.

[@virginiakessler3294]

OMG, Lol I'm glad your son start talking even little bet mag improves din yan,my son also special aid child katulad ng anak mo lalaki, since he was kindergarten I put him on speech therapy ngayon madaldal pa sa ibang nyang kapatid. If you see him now akala nyu my son hindi sya special ed child. He is a good boy mayron na sya girl friend too.🫰🫰🫰🫰🫰🫰🫰🫰🫰🫰🫰❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍