My Doctor Thought It Was Food Allergies - Steve | Colorectal Cancer | The Patient Story

[@shibulaltin]

My mom was having bloody stools and changes in bowel habits, she went to a gastro and he examined her and found a piles kind of growth and confirmed that's it's piles. She had meds for this around 3 4 months, but no relief from the symptoms. Then we took her to another gastro and did colonoscopy, confirmed of colon cancer, CT confirmed it that it's a T3 stage. She was undergone surgery and biopsy confirmed that it's a T3N1 tumor. She had six cycles of chemo and now it's been 1 year, she is having regular checkups. Thank God that she is alright so far !!

[@Haven_OG]

Was it a CT scan with or without contrast? I have one coming up without contrast.

[@Steveslacker22]

I hope your mom continues to do well and has no recurrence

[@lorettahiggins3717]

My husband, Mike, was diagnosed with stage four colon cancer at the age of 58. He was never sick and never missed a day of work in 30+ years. His original symptom was heartburn, which they thought could be diverticulosis since it ran in the family. Four months later he was diagnosed with stage four colon cancer. He died 19 months later. I am sorry you were misdiagnosed - I understand that happens quite frequently. I love the positive attitude that you modeled for your kids and how you try to be a support for others. I wish you a long and healthy life. 💙

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you ❤. I am so sorry about Mike.

[@renb6133]

You’re an incredible human being, Steve, as is your beautiful friend her donated 2/3 of her liver. You’re right, life isn’t always fair, however, you fought tooth & nail to beat this. Not only that, you’ve used your experiences to support & bolster other CR cancer patients. I’m sure your family is incredibly proud of you. Keep going, my man, you’ve got so much more left to give! 💕

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you ❤

[@SomervilleBob]

I just drove a friend home from a colonoscopy this week. I'm a driver of friends! To date; one triple bypass, two knees, a few colonoscopies, heart procedure, fetched meds a bunch of times, grocery shopping... More people should do it.

[@ngallo588]

Fellow driver of friends, I take you where you gotta go ❤

[@LucyBlue0823]

I do the same! I’m taking a friend to another city on Tuesday to see a specialist! It is always appreciated!

[@deborahlanyi5535]

I have a best friend, I couldn't want for more than him. He has always been here for me. Wouldn't have been able to make some very important appointments without him being willing to help...no matter when or where. Friends like you are THE BEST!! So SPECIAL!!

[@L-pz9dv]

Thank you! I hate imposing on people and have put off many tests because of the lack of rides. I had cancer so had no choice but to seek rides at that time for the procedures that require sedation.

[@karenjohnson5271]

You are a good friend. Respect

[@seniorcitizenpam1872]

I don’t blame you for being angry. I had a different cancer, but a similar doctor story. I was spotting between periods for ten years. My gynecologist said it was probably hormonal changes. One day I gushed blood. I called my doctor and said I needed to be seen immediately. He tried to dismiss it. He did a biopsy and the bottom line was cervical cancer and I needed a radical hysterectomy. I was only 33, and couldn’t have children. Maybe it was meant to be. The surgeon called it a trade off. Like you, I was a member of a support group at Pennsylvania Hospital called Person to Person. They matched us with patients according to diagnosis. I am 73, and was able to beat the odds. That surgery was in 1986. You have a flipping fantastic attitude.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you so much 😊

[@patricktitters]

You should sue your doctor and anyone else that gave you that stupid misdiagnosis, You think the doctors are paying out of their own pocket If they ask for further diagnosis. , Not their life yours, fuck

[@missdaisy5736]

I think the doctors need to pay closer attention to their patients and what they’re saying and telling them. It seems like they wanna pass it off so they can get to the next patient and not really put the thinking into it. It deserves.. I say that because I have to deal with a lot of different doctors and it’s just the same baloney, more or less, with each specialist. It’s a moneymaker folks, and the doctors are being pushed to get patients in and out. That’s the new healthcare system we might as well get used to it because it’s here to stay or it could even get worse, it probably will in the future. Especially if we put a dictator back in the presidential office because we don’t really have any other clear or good choices? Just know I won’t vote for someone I do not respect or trust. Think about it as long as we’re on the subject of being responsible, as Doctor should be. So two should our healthcare be in a lot better position than it is at this point in our lives in America! anyway best of luck to you and I stay angry somewhat because I know this is the fix. We are all in together and we should be doing a lot better in this country with healthcare.❤.

[@sherrywoodard8562]

The prep almost killed me! I was so weak I canceled the colonoscopy-

[@shellyclancy1307]

So happy for your life !!!

[@j3d354]

Your friend from High School, the donor, is a very special person. I am happy you are beating this. Stay strong

[@Steveslacker22]

She sure is! Thank you 😊

[@Xadanar]

Diagnosed with colorectal cancer at 28 mid May this year. Starting chemo in 2 weeks. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@Xadanar]

It is so easy to explain away the symptoms. Even the doctors try and all because "you are too young" if i had a dollar every time I have heard that up to this point I would have many dollars

[@CopingwithGrattitude]

Good luck on your journey and I hope you can share your story someday. Unfathomable at just 28yrs old.😞

[@annipsy2185]

my goodness im so sorry. i recently had some issues and got tested they found nothing luckily but i went in fully assuming the worse. could you maybe share some of your symptoms if youre comfortable, so it can be a help and a reminder to others to get checked? for me i had constipation and baaaad pelvic and side pain. i for sure thought its a bowel thing. turns out i have herniated back discs, apparently the pain can radiate like ...everywhere/anywhere in that region 😑

[@Xadanar]

@@annipsy2185 Mainly Blood in the stool. It was minor at first thought it was hemmorhoids. Later developed pain in the lower left side (diverticulitis from the tumor) and constipation

[@Steveslacker22]

Sending you strength and well wishes as you start your treatment. You CAN beat this!

[@milenashubas6306]

Wow! What an incredible testimony! He took his pain and turned it into purpose! He will help many! He has a beautiful heart and his family is blessed to have him. May God protect you and continue to bless you so that you can be a blessing for others ❤️🙏

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you❤

[@debbiemurphy5553]

You are so honest, down to earth, and an inspiration. I wish you years of health and happiness.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you 😊

[@JillyBean1968]

I am so sorry you received that news. I am telling you, hospitals and doctors are very sloppy now more than ever….we have to advocate for ourselves now! Praying for you. ❤

[@Steveslacker22]

Self advocacy is everything.

[@sandysouthward3635]

It was so inspiring to hear your story. My mom successfully beat colon cancer. I wish you all the best! Thank you for sharing your story and helping so many people!

[@finster1968]

There is no way I’d ever go back to that family doctor! As a stage 3 colorectal cancer survivor myself, my primary also dismissed my symptoms. But I knew something was very wrong, so I kept going to specialists even though I was told I was fine. When I started bleeding, I didn’t wait for anyone to recommend it. I immediately found a gastroenterologist and booked a colonoscopy at age 45. He diagnosed me and found the tumor which was beginning to light up lymph nodes nearby the colon wall. Today I have a new primary doctor! But I can’t say enough good things about the wonderful staff who diagnosed me, as well as the John Theurer Cancer Center team who treated me like I really mattered and provided the best of care. I wish you all the best and will keep you in my prayers. 🙏

[@Steveslacker22]

So good that you listened to your body, knew something was wrong, and took action. It saved your life!

[@محمدالعراق-ق4ع]

I hope you recover. What were the symptoms?

[@thakid861]

Glad you caught your symptoms on time. Don't wait 5 months later book an appointment right away to get it early.

[@finster1968]

@@محمدالعراق-ق4ع - I did, thank you! Ten years cancer free now. I had symptoms of feeling tired and winded. Basically, lightheaded with no energy. It was similar to what people describe when they’re anemic. I couldn’t walk through a shopping center without having to sit down and take a break. At first, I thought it might be my heart.

[@JWiggy-d3c]

So proud of how you took a very difficult diagnosis and put it into action to save others. My liver donation was a gift that I am so happy to have given to you. Keep educating ❤

[@Steveslacker22]

Not sure what I love more, you or your handle JWiggy 😅

[@renb6133]

You’re a very special person, as is Steve. Thank you for your amazing gift of life. Steven is very blessed to have such a wonderful friend as you. I wish you both much happiness & health! 💕

[@alexmcbride7659]

God bless you. I am a survivor myself. It’s a proud honor to have. Wishing you health and no matter what happiness and peace!

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you very much!

[@Chompersize]

Hi Steve! Dave here from B.C. You are one Brave Dude you've gone through a lot of crap. Most of us are afraid of the unknown especially with Cancer, I've battled twice. I'm here for support.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thanks so much Dave!

[@LadyKestrel23]

My husband was diagnosed in 2022 with stage 3 at 44 and his only symptom was blood in his stool. It’s hard to get doctors to wake up and actually look into things. Fortunately my husbands doctor listened to him. So sorry for your suffering. My husband is cancer free about 9 months now. You’ve got this! It’s the ultimate battle and I wish you all the best ❤❤❤.

[@Ree-vn9dc]

@@LadyKestrel23 did he have to do chemo?

[@LadyKestrel23]

@@Ree-vn9dc yes he did two kinds. One was a pill and at the moment I can’t think of it’s name. He did 5 iv/infusion chemo with oxilaplatin

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you❤

[@maxine3587]

What an inspirational story. Its a shame so very many begin with being brushed aside by GPs. Best wishes.

[@Steveslacker22]

So so many cancer stories start out with a misdiagnosis by a primary care professional. It’s tragic and it needs to change

[@phlqueen8881]

Thank you for helping others through your own cancer journey. May God continue to bless you 🙏

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you so much 😊

[@suevick637]

I am glad to see that you survived cancer. So many do not. My husband did not, but I find strength and the grace of God, in stories like yours. Keep fighting the good fight ❣️

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you very much and I am so sorry for the loss of your husband.

[@michellebarnett3658]

I was a surgical nurse who specialized in colorectal robotic surgeries and general surgeries. It’s a tough surgery and I’m impressed at your voice for others and encouragement. It takes a strong person to fight as you have! Best of luck for your next scan. I hope you continue to scan cancer free and get the chance to watch you boys grow into adulthood!

[@Steveslacker22]

❤ thank you so much!

[@pompom11]

My wife was getting headaches and she had an MRI and a CT scan of her brain. All that was found was a tiny spot smaller than a green pea. Over time both she and my four adult children didn’t think about that pea but I brought it up 12 months later and asked her if she has headache she said no, and then I said what about that spot and she said Oh, the doctor never called me back for a follow up. New CT scan showed Glioblastoma Grade 4 the size of a large lemon. So the surgeon at Massachusetts General Hospital said the “tentacles” have already grown into her brain and if they do surgery, it still a terminal prognosis. She is a tough Yankee from New England and had three surgeries loads of chemo and radiation. Two weeks before she went downhill she was still driving herself to the hospital for the radiation treatments. Three days before she died at hospice she was still talking with everybody, then went downhill very quickly. So last week, she’s been gone one year. I spoke to the surgeon who was brilliant and she told me if the spot was removed way back when she would’ve survived. Myself as well as my 4 children and six grandchildren are still grieving. It is heartwarming to hear your successful journey. You have a beautiful family, son’s so handsome. Peace and stay well.

[@clairebeever3038]

I’m so very sorry to hear about your wife how awful 😢sending ❤ your poor wife

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you so much. Your story is absolutely heartbreaking. I am so sorry for you and your family

[@pompom11]

Thank you Claire, and Steve. 😘

[@kitten6363]

I'm sorry for your loss. Glioblastoma is a horrible, relentless disease, that killed my brother. I don't know if thisakes you feel any better, but I don't think it could have been stopped, even if caught early. My brother got diagnosed right after having a seizure, and it was already terminal, and I know someone who started with a different tumor, which was "cured". He was cancer free, but continually monitored with scans. It came back, and now is a glioblastoma. I don't think it's curable once it's a glioblastoma. If only we had the ability to find and remove all of the tentacles that go further into the brain. 😢

[@pompom11]

@@kitten6363 thank you. Since she died last year, I’m hearing and reading stories about young people having glioblastoma grade one through four, it never used to be found in young people decades ago. I thought of something, she held her cell phone on that side for 25 years. Wait and see they’re going to see a link between the cell phone, microwaves and brain tumors. Sorry for your loss, as I get older I’m starting to enjoy every day and be grateful I’m still alive, my four adult children and six grandchildren are so important to live for.

[@wesleyluvsoktoberfest]

Great video. You’re a role model for us all. I’m a 5 years colorectal cancer survivor. I tell everyone to get a yearly cologuard test as a minimum. My journey was one of the best of worse circumstances. I have a great support group and have always had a positive attitude and have always questioned anything that I didn’t understand. After a year of chemo, radiation and 4 surgeries I’m living proof that cancer can be beaten. I’m scaned every 6 months and have blood work done twice a year with my oncologist visit until next year when I get to see her once a year. Returning is always in the back of one’s mind but staying positive is paramount to survival. Stay strong cancer warrior and continue the fight. ☮️🙏🏻

[@johnarnold5891]

Hi Steve this is coming from Nottinghamshire England. I shed a tear when you told your story. You are a really positive man to say you don't really blame a bad diagnosis and a loss of 2 years not knowing what your condition is. Steve keep your pecker up buddy you will prevail. Like you said you are young lovely wife and 2 handsome son. All my blessings to you and your family ❤

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you❤! By the way the slang word pecker means something else in Canada so you gave me a huge laugh. Thank you for that too!!! 😂

[@donna2484]

So happy to know you are cancer free.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you😊

[@muscleNPmama]

You are incredibly strong to forgive your family doc.

[@kristiemowry3267]

Steve is such a good speaker. So happy to have listened to his story. At 73 I hear of more and more folks who develop cancer. It affects us all.

[@Steveslacker22]

It sure does affect us all! Thank you 😊

[@dustyjones9874]

You focused on the things that were in your control. This is the only true way to find peace. God be with you my friend.

[@Steveslacker22]

So true!! Thank you

[@jodiewilcox6772]

Thank you for sharing your story. You are proof of how sharing your experience can save lives! I'm so happy for you and your loved ones.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you so much!

[@clintonbowers7589]

This video makes me so appreciative of my doctor. He ordered a colonoscopy at 40 for me just based on family history that I had documentation for.

[@julie-bh1pj]

Such an incredible and beautiful side story about your best friend. Your cancer what a gift to him. As a former oncology nurse, please, please treat blood in the stool as urgent and needing a colonoscopy whatever the age. I am so surprised that is not settled medicine. .

[@terencetaylor4600]

Thankyou for sharing your story Steve.

[@catherinehastings2309]

My youngest brother aged 53, had seen a doctor and was told he had a hernia. A few months later he ran a very fast half marathon in Spain, but became unwell next day. His diagnosis of stage 4 colon cancer was made a week later and he died just a month later. The hernia was actually a huge metastases tumour. This beautiful, fit, strong man was just swept out of our lives. I wish you the very best in your journey. I hope all your ducks line up for you and you get the best results.

[@wizzardofpaws2420]

I'm so sorry. My neighbor has been fighting this for 10 years.

[@donapaulen8700]

Wow, I cannot believe that I am seeing this. I have been having issues, and I have been diagnosed with a hernia. Since symptoms continue, I asked the gastroenterologist if he was sure that the hernia is not something else because I feel like I have a brick in my stomach. He got a little snippy with me and told me that the radiologist basically knows what he’s talking about. Well, symptoms are getting a little worse and I am finally getting a colonoscopy next week so we shall see what becomes of that. I am concerned that this is not a hernia.

[@catherinehastings2309]

@donapaulen8700 I really hope it's an easily sorted out hernia. Having had imaging on it makes it likely that it is. My brother wasn't referred on for a scan or xray. Best of luck.

[@donapaulen8700]

@@catherinehastings2309 Thank you. I am very sorry for the loss of your brother. 😞

[@tarahtaylor6207]

@@donapaulen8700what did your colonoscopy say

[@ilovepickles495]

wow, what an incredible story. thank you for sharing. and i cannot believe the odds that your friend had cancer too... i got shivers! best wishes for continued clean scans and good health!

[@Steveslacker22]

When we got that news, it was like something out of a movie plot. We couldn’t believe it! Just goes to show that people under 50 need to remain vigilant and avoid complacency when it comes to cancer

[@BGCAMO-h3d]

I’m so sorry. It’s not your fault, your doctor failed you. Doctors saying “you’re too young for cancer” must be living under a rock. If you can’t be angry, I’ll be angry for you. 😢😡

[@Walsh25]

Is straight up stupid -- and they don’t deserve there license period they say that children’s hospitals are loaded with/cancer patients

[@unprocessed_life]

Thats when I would reply, "well you're too ignorant to be a doctor" and go find someone else

[@mikeb3268]

Yeah, but he’s Canadian….

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you 😊

[@joany11swatch14]

@@mikeb3268you can still request another doctor if you are Canadian.

[@LucyBlue0823]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I have a very good friend who is dealing with metastatic colon cancer right now. She is 78, and is having a very hard time. Your story is so helpful!❤❤

[@PrayPrayPrayPrayPrayPray]

Thank you Steve for sharing. Edit: “I love to prove them wrong” Wow Steve, what a beautiful experience!! You know what? You have encouraged and inspired cancer patients. I am healthy and you just gave a mission to my life: I want to get scanned and be able to help someone in need. If I am a match to help someone survive, I would feel like: “Mission Acomplished” You Rock! CONGRATULATIONS🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Steveslacker22]

That’s incredible! And so generous of you! Thank you so much!

[@bluevelvet3769]

U are a great advocate and a brave man steve.doctors do dismiss.we must always listen to what our body is telling us.take care steve.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@kathytonagel2332]

I had to advocate for myself a few years ago over vague symptoms that my GP wasn’t too impressed with. I found out I had a cancerous tumor in my small intestine. It was removed without chemo and now I’m getting CT scans yearly for 5 years. Self advocacy is so important.

[@jeanroth159]

Thank you for sharing your story Steve,you will be helping many just by doing this. I wish you all the best of health and many many years to come ...your so right,your story is not over ♡. Your family is beautiful♡,enjoy every moment .

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you very much!

[@Blessedbeyond.]

What a beautiful family God blessed you with!!!

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you I certainly am blessed

[@chris23tg]

My dad got that but was aggressive cancer and it was in the pandemic 😷 so he only got 10 weeks 👀 but he was 76. Wow what a great story for you !!

[@FrancesCollins-eg9io]

You are a warrior for you and family and others , thank you for you story and your strength.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you❤

[@henrikgustav2294]

Im in a facebook group for colon cancer patients. The amount of young patients are staggering. In their 20s,30s !

[@Seoshinawi]

Cancer in young people really shot up after an unecessary medical intervention that 70% of the worlds population had back in 2021.

[@Steveslacker22]

Yes it is a truly alarming trend

[@julief2247]

So happy you are NED. My cousin was diagnosed at 32 and passed away 3 days before he turned 40. Stay positive and strong and Prayers you live a long and healthy life. May God Bless your donor and glad to hear your best friends cancer was caught early.

[@battybethc8061]

So sorry for your loss! So young! My bro passed in 1974 of cancer and he was only 22! 😢😮

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you so much 😊

[@junedolson1642]

I'm glad you're not angry, but your doctor should have sent you for a colonoscopy. I believe he was very dismissive. My niece was diagnosed at 47 doctors needs to send their patients for a scope. Amazing story about your friend. Glad you are doing well. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Steveslacker22]

You are absolutely correct. Like I say in the video, he should have sent me for a colonoscopy. But he’s human and he made a mistake. And I do believe he’s learned from that mistake, and that will be benefit all patients in his practice going forward

[@nuplanner5345]

You’re remarkable, and a terrific example for your kids and everyone who knows you. Thank you. Have a long, healthy, happy life. 🌻

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you very much 😊

[@tarat26]

It's really not your fault. You have every right to be angry over the lack of medical care and negligence of your GP. My mother actually kept going back on a monthly basis with issues and this went on for 2 years. In the end she was diagnosed stage 4. I can't help but think it could have been prevented getting this far. Leaving 3 kids alone. Thank you for sharing.

[@Steveslacker22]

I’m so sorry this happened. I totally agree with you.

[@ananda_miaoyin]

Your health is too important to trust to doctors. Great message.

[@Steveslacker22]

Too important to blindly trust. Ask questions. Be curious. Insist on having your concerns fully investigated. A hard lesson to learn but it was not lost on me.

[@laurawilliams5363]

Incredible man. Great attitude. I have diffuse systemic scleroderma and multiple myeloma. Like you I am all about being open about discussing these diseases and support to others that may be going through their health challenge. I appreciate your openness and honesty about what has and is happening. Thank you.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you, and I wish you success in your fight. You got this!

[@laurafleming7408]

Great insight and very inspiring ..."That's how you handle adversity.". Thank you.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you so much!

[@barbarameehan113]

You are such an inspiration, Steve. Thank you for sharing your journey. You are helping me, for sure. God bless you and your family.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you Barbara. If you ever want to talk don’t hesitate to reach out

[@annduffy1356]

What a tragic but now hopeful story! My father had colon cancer so I have been screened for the past 25 years. I wonder, because so many young people are being diagnosed, if it should become a regular screening, much like mammograms and other screenings.

[@missiris1234]

Glad you are no longer angry. Why hurt yourself? No benefit there. You are a great role model for your family

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you ❤

[@paulalenneman2686]

You are one Amazing Man, Husband, Father, Person!!!!!!!!!!God Bless Your Soul😇😇😇😇😇😇😇

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you ❤

[@vickimarlene4905]

You sir are one brave guy. Your poor face. Side effects are worse than the disease. I’m glad it’s cleared up now. So glad your treatment is working.

[@Steveslacker22]

You’re absolutely right. The side effects of treatment can be worse than the disease. Thank you!

[@gl9139]

I’m completely blown away that after 27 rounds of chemo, you’re alive and well. I’m suffering with eczema and similar symptoms you had, and if I have painful skin rash that you had, I’d wonder why I’d keep going. Waiting for doctors’ appts and lab tests takes months.

[@Steveslacker22]

It’s not easy. And there were times when I didn’t want to keep going. But you get over those feelings and you keep effin’ going! Like I said in the video I simply wasn’t going to let cancer take me away from my family

[@monicamestas7566]

Hat's off to you for your attitude, coming to grips with your diagnosis and medical journey, and your commitment to give back to others. Thank you for sharing your story. And, yes, you are a source of hope. Continue on..................

[@monicamestas7566]

I have read that the medical community believes colon cancers are on the rise, and particularly in younger people, because of higher meat consumption and lower fruit and vegetable consumption, as well as more fast foods/processed foods.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@nicksprague4685]

Thanks for sharing your story, Steve. So many similarities in your story to many others out there regarding symptoms, including myself. The message you're spreading and the strength you're projecting gives hope to many. Stay well.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you❤

[@PyrPupMom]

Yes! I've often thought there should be a t-shirt that says, "Rectal bleeding, don't assume it's just hemorrhoids." You are one of the reasons that the American Cancer Society recommends starting routine colonoscopies at 45 instead of 50, and now insurance companies pay for colorectal cancer screening starting at age 45. Options start with a stool test for people who don't want to go straight to colonoscopy, but if it's positive (for blood) they should have a colonoscopy. My own father had a gastrointestinal cancer missed, and passed away my first year of medical school. Anyone with symptoms can be worked up at any age. I agree that finding a provider to order the test can be a challenge. If needed, just show up at the ER and tell them you have abdominal pain, and you are almost guaranteed a CT scan.

[@Katie-vy5rd]

Thank you!

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you very much!

[@Ree-vn9dc]

Thank you

[@JillMC]

Consider yourself incredibly fortunate and please feel happy about that. Having NED after liver invasion is incredibly rare. I lost my brother to stage 4 colon cancer because it had metastasized to the liver and liver donation never became a viable option for some reason. He was never on the antibody treatment that you mentioned just many rounds of chemo that stopped working eventually. He then went on an immunotherapy trial that was ineffective. Then his liver just gave out. Blood in the digestive tract should be upper and lower endo asap. I don't recall ever seeing anyone beat stage 4 with extreme liver matasticies and this is gives so many others hope!

[@marievepaquin-bergeron8975]

This is the best lesson you can teach to your kids. ❤️

[@Steveslacker22]

I wholeheartedly agree!

[@SweetSassyBull]

This guy is an absolute pleasure to listen to. I really wish him all the best. I do however, have a comment regarding people getting colonoscopies. They will detect which will give you a chance of recovery/extended life, they don't prevent. Money should be invested for cause and then prevention not just drugs with huge side effects and often not worth the effort. I truly hope things change in the future.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you for your comment. I totally agree. So much more could be done with colorectal cancer prevention, especially in the under 50 population because we don’t know why it’s on the rise there. More study is needed, along with better public education around risk factors such as family history, lifestyle factors, and environment. My point in the video was just that colonoscopies can prevent cancer from developing by detecting and removing polyps before they have a chance to turn cancerous. They can also catch a cancerous polyp in its early stages before the patient is symptomatic, which can be life saving. There’s no one magic bullet that is going to end colorectal cancer. Prevention and early detection strategies must work together

[@BillyDosh]

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[@Ceerads]

Thank you for this video. If I’d listened to the radiologist who said my palpable breast lump was “Nothing. Come back in a year,” I’d be long dead by now. Fortunately, her report went to my gynecologist, who told me to get another opinion. I did; it was breast cancer. Early-stage, most fortunately, and it’s 25 years since dx. I wish you good health. And I envy your being in Canada!

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you! And come to Canada! There’s lots of room and we’d love to have you. I will warn you though that housing is depressingly expensive

[@Ceerads]

@@Steveslacker22 Thank you! Wish I could move there. And I’m very familiar with ridiculously high rents! Anyway, I wish you all the best.

[@grammagail154]

you are one brave and courageous man…God Bless you

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@jamied9677]

Stay strong, my friend, and keep fighting.

[@carolannmckee]

You are so well spoken. Thanks for the work you are doing to help raise money and help others! (As a fellow Canadian, I enjoyed seeing your Terry Fox t-shirt and the Toronto Maple Leaf jerseys!) Best Wishes!

[@Steveslacker22]

Thanks! I love that Terry Fox T shirt! I wear it with such pride

[@SonyaJohns-bd2pj]

Thank you for sharing your story Steve. I'm glad you did what you had to do for you and your lovely family.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you very much!

[@mindykloster3540]

You really describe all the details, feelings, hopes, and fears very clearly! I hope you have continued good health and see your boys thrive!❤️

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you so much !

[@lolarose4]

Inspirational Motivates me to share my story again & help my community as well I’ve pushed it off for 2 years

[@DeniseNeal-t1z]

Thank you so much for sharing your story!! It breaks my heart what you and your family are going through. How amazing you are for having the attitude you have, for teaching your son's about resilience and positivity, and for doing all the work you do regarding awareness, etc!!❤. You know, I have a host of illnesses I deal with every day. I am 59. I never know when new symptoms happen which of my doctors to notify and when I should just ignore them thinking that it is just part of my norm and I just need to deal with it. I have kind of had a feeling something more is going on with me. Seeing your story has made me decide I need my doctors to investigate further. Thank you!! God bless you and your family❤️

[@Steveslacker22]

Just seeing this now. I hope you are well!

[@freyapotter6636]

Wishing you the absolute best, Steve!! I hope you're doing okay.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you ❤. So far so good! Still no recurrence

[@patriciastyles1761]

I had similar symptons (no blood - thought I had IBS) and my doctor here in France when I finally went to him asked me to drive myself to emergency. I had all of the right hand element of my colon removed the next day - not cancer but a rotting colon. My doctor is no longer a family one but moved on to be a specialist in a cancer hospital unit.

[@carolineszepessy5331]

So proud of you and your family ❤

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@ny_njtrailrunnert926]

Perspective will drive your outcome. You have taken control over the single most important thing- Having the right attitude. I've been a cancer nurse for 15 years and I will tell you that I repeatedly see much better quality of life and overall enjoyment of the days people have left, when they have a good attitude about the things that they can control. Not to say these people are upbeat and happy all the time, it just seems they consciously choose words and actions that are positive, proactive and peaceful

[@Steveslacker22]

So accurate! And I was so fortunate to figure this out for myself early on. I was angry and bitter because I felt like I had lost control of my life. I realized I had to let that go. Cancer is was going to take over much of my life, but there was one thing I was never going to let it control. My mindset. That was mine, and I would never let cancer take it from me.

[@ny_njtrailrunnert926]

@@Steveslacker22 if you can, please watch the last video video from someone named Dr. Dan. He is a young doctor living with end stage cancer. In the 15 years I have worked as an oncology nurse, I have not really seen anyone have the mindset and perspective that He has when you hear him speaking about his life at the moment. The healthcare system is very broken right now. It is worse than Ive ever seen it. If I could say one thing while you were on this journey, it would be that you MUST micromanage your healthcare. With every contact with a healthcare provider in person or by phone, Write down the names of who is in the room, what took place and what the next steps are. If you don't mean to overstep and I hope you don't mind, but There are a few things I would like to share with you -Always and without exception you must ask for the report for any imaging or exam. Read through it and use a highlighter on things you do not understand and look it up so that you have a full understanding of the report and go back with questions to get clarification. I very often see patients being told whatever the practitioner "thinks they can handle" And this denies a patient of a chance to truly understand what is happening with their body and the progression of their cancer. Things are not explained to patients thoroughly for a few reasons - they don't want the patient to lose hope but also because providing more information would take time. Answering questions and educating patients extensively is a luxury we no longer have as healthcare providers. MD Office practice staff need to see 20-30 patients daily in order to make even a little bit of money for the practice to survive because healthcare reimbursements are down to as low as $50 for a visit. Turn and Burn is the name of the game now and people, human beings, are suffering because of it. If you do not feel comfortable with a treatment plan make sure to ask about the necessity of it. There is a fine line because you don't want to annoy your providers or be "that difficult patient" a helpful approach could be "I'm so sorry to ask so many questions, I just need a lot of details so things can make sense to me" while this sounds unnecessary, and honestly just gets me upset that this should have to be the conversation, but It creates a soft approach needed because there are so many cranky people working in healthcare right now, themselves angry, stressed and overworked and the sad reality is that they can choose to be helpful or they can do the minimum for you, and at this time in your life you want them to be team Steve. Think about who you want your point person to be who can micromanage your healthcare plan if you do not have the strength or energy to do this while in treatment. I have seen a tremendous difference in the care a patient receives when they have an advocate who is questioning everything and fighting for them, a person whom healthcare practitioners have to answer to. The cancer battle can leave you with PTSD, there is a tremendous opportunity for counseling and/ or anti-anxiety medication so that you can be in a good headspace to enjoy the time with your family. You can request antianxiety medication before scans or tests if needed. If you ever have low white blood cell counts due to chemo, do not feel reluctant to ask health care providers to wash their hands before they touch you, "I'm so sorry to ask you this, please don't take it personally, my immune system is low right now and I am so afraid of getting an infection, and I really want to get better, would you mind if I asked you to wash your hands again" should get a good response from anyone with even ehalf of a heart. This is critically important if you have a central line like a mediport or PICC line. Yes, It's infuriating that we have to tiptoe around people like this, the priority is to get past it and try to navigate treatment in today's healthcare and environment. When it comes to pain there is ALWAYS a solution. if you are not in a tolerable level of pain at any point request a consultation with the pain service or pain management team, most hospitals have them and office practice MDs can refer you. Wait times are very long, so do it as early as possible and don't wait. I did hospice home care for a few years while I was a bedside oncology nurse and there is so much available to manage symptoms related to cancer. Also, Office practice nurses typically don't respond to the portal over the weekend, use the on-call service to save time for something urgent. cancer is managed like a chronic disease right now, people are living a very long time with it. I have seen so many miracles. All the best to you

[@Steveslacker22]

@@ny_njtrailrunnert926wow thank you! So much valuable insight here!

[@evelynsantiago295]

amazing story of hope and inspiration. thank you for sharing. you are an amazing person for turning something so depressing into a positive and for being such a powerful force for healing, change and advocacy.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you❤

[@myoreo307]

Praying for you! Keep the faith! 🙏❤️

[@catherinesimard5261]

What a great story. Your positive attitude is AMAZING. You are a miracle! ♥ From Kingston, Ontario

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you ❤.

[@Anturaju93]

I suffer from IBS since 2010. Sadly IBS symptoms are very similar with colon cancer (bloating, pain, diarrhea, constipation, increased bowel movements, weight loss). I have done two colonoscopies, all okay, but I'm afraid I will never know if I have colon cancer because I already have symptoms.

[@Katie-vy5rd]

Rectal bleeding and if you feel mass in abdomen while laying down flat.. or consistsant constipation ( pencil thin stools) .. you probably know all this though...

[@wendytravis6427]

Same

[@martinacaffrey4411]

​@@Katie-vy5rdwhat does this rectal bleeding look like? Is it a pool of blood in the bowl or stuck to the stool? They are always very vague about this.

[@Anturaju93]

@@Katie-vy5rd pencil thin stools I already have that for many years. The only think I don't got is bleeding.

[@matthewthomasjames]

Ulcerative Colitis causes the exact same symptoms of colon cancer; bleeding can be severe, and the pencil this stool is often caused by an inflamed colon.

[@doriasalmon4790]

Down to earth and inspirational person Thank you

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@janetdriver7435]

You are a rockstar of a Father💪

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you ❤

[@lesleagordon]

Thank you for sharing. Praying for you and your family. ❤

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@norcalraider5047]

Very well said about standing up for your family ❤

[@Steveslacker22]

❤ they are my everything. And all the inspiration I needed

[@kathrynbaker8215]

You really are an inspiration for your boys!

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you. I hope so!

[@deboraheaton2726]

Amazing story! 🙏

[@mariaperez-ce8qv]

I’m happy you are doing well health wise ❤

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@samdavis6445]

For anyone out there that has off and on bleeding, with pain during the bowel movement coming out. Best thing is to just head to a gastroenterologist and get an Anoscopy done real quick, easy quick test to check for hemorrhoids, they can check for active swelling and/or fissures. Don't put off the bleeding, they can always do other testing that's more invasive later if need be, based on symptoms, but it's good to figure out if the bleeding is happening with active hemorrhoids. Hope this helps.

[@Steveslacker22]

Great advice!

[@margycl8539]

Wow I love your story God keep continuing blessings you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@janetobrien8630]

Thank you for sharing your story. It has certainly informed me. I wish you and yours all the luck and love in the world. Jan 🇬🇧.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@cobbler40]

My doctor diagnosed IBS but after seeing your story I will get a colonoscopy.

[@Steveslacker22]

I’m glad!!

[@OisinMcCrory-s6v]

I hope you are doing alright Steve!!

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you! So far so good!

[@c.a.bonnema6382]

Thank you for sharing your story. So helpful.

[@acholap3190]

This is incredibly inspirational, thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏾

[@toddc7879]

I have similar story. I’m 56 was diagnosed with hemeroids February 2023 at a walk-in clinic. They referred me to a surgeon which I never heard back from. I continued to have symptoms till July 2023. I then went to emergency and within 5-10 minutes doctor told me I had adenocarcinoma of my rectum! It’s been a long year. I was prescribed zelox which is radiation and oral chemotherapy for 5 weeks. Then I had 5 oxaliplatin treatments with oral chemotherapy pills then had surgery to remove my rectum and have permanent ostomy.

[@jmuel3424]

I just read your story. I hope that you’re recovering well now. I also wish you many good experiences in your life.

[@Steveslacker22]

I hope you’re doing well now. I have a good friend who had an identical experience with rectal cancer. He’s going great now.

[@peterkoh5632]

Hindsight is always 20/20.

[@tinareberger3858]

Amazing story!! God bless you and your very large support team/family!!

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@jonrend]

Your story is amazing Steve.

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you!

[@MaribellaArabello]

God bless you and your family ❤

[@kimwinter-bothe9497]

Good day....greetings .. In my opinion one of the worst things is....those doctors cover for each others mistakes. Doctors make mistakes here in Europe as well, with 0 consequences. 2019 my doctor of 15 years decided no Colonoscopy. Changed doctors ..had my Colonoscopy is 2023 to my 60th birthday.. and had to return for an Operation 4 weeks later. Doctors MUST be more professional with their occupation. Too many are losing their lives because of THEIR mistakes... Wishing your family and yourself much strength for the future...

[@peggysue7898]

How AWESOME!!! Your story gives me Hope!

[@Steveslacker22]

You have no idea how happy I am to hear that. That is why I share openly. Like I said in the video, the seemingly impossible IS possible! There should always be room for hope

[@clairebeever3038]

Hi just want to say thank you for sharing …. It must have been so hard … with your doctor I’m glad you’re sharing this as so many of us are getting cancer whilst young I have cancer too … it’s not anyone’s fault not yours I hope your doctor learns something from this as your right it cannot be changed now … I really pray you carry on doing ok … I know how hard it is sending ❤to you and your family Claire uk 🇬🇧

[@Steveslacker22]

Thank you Claire. ❤ to you as well. My family and I were fortunate enough to visit your country last year for the first time ever and we LOVED it! We did 7 days in London and the Cotswolds. Then visited Wales, Belfast, and Cork Ireland as well. So much more to see so I hope we will be back one day

[@clairebeever3038]

@@Steveslacker22 aww 🥰 thank you for your reply … I hope your doing ok … did you enjoy your visit .. I hope 🤞 so … sending my love as always to you and your family

[@Steveslacker22]

@@clairebeever3038 we loved our visit! Hope to get back there soon. My family emigrated to Canada about 150 years ago from a town called Glossop, Derbyshire. I’d love to go see it

[@clairebeever3038]

@@Steveslacker22 glad you enjoyed it … that’s really interesting…. You should go it’s a lovely area … even though the uk weather is not so good , it has been the worst year for rain , we haven’t had a summer … my dad lives in Italy and it is red hot in Europe… think the weather is definitely changing every where … hope all is going ok for you and your family sending much 💕