My dog HATES everything! How to teach a shy, nervous and fearful dog!

In this video My dog HATES everything! How to teach a shy, nervous and fearful dog! Thomas works with a small dog who is VERY fearful of everything. This is the first session on the start of building BAD DOG the relationship she needs to be a happier dog!
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[@tessawebb9469]

I really appreciate that she was concerned about the prong collar and asked to try it herself. She obviously wasn't comfortable with the idea but the owner herself is a great type of student.

[@roolenoir3183]

Right nothing better than an inquisitive dog owner.

[@raslasagne]

@@samwdavis um excuse me but what the fuck lol, im looking to make my pet happy, did they ask to be domesticated??? Hmmm nope! You dont have to dominate your dog in order to get them to listen, i feel for your pets

[@thelastminmom5251]

@@raslasagnethat’s your own opinion on how you want your dog to be. Like a buddy or friend. (They love you, but they won’t respect you). If they don’t respect you, they you can’t control your dog. & Thats fine if that’s what you want I guess, and don’t give the dog away because it has too many issues that you never even tried to help with. But Most ppl like to train their dogs, so that they are more happy and content. Not to be dominate over them? It’s Just like having a kid. When you give boundaries and have rules to follow with consequences, your kids thrive. When left to do whatever, and they have nobody telling them what to do, they feel out of control. Kids and dogs need guidance and a leader to teach and show them the way. When that happens, the dog (or kid) is much more content and can relax. They know they are safe and their leader or (parent) is in control and they know what they’re doing. It’s life changing. It’s not being Dominant over the dog? You have it wrong. It’s giving him clear and easy to understand directions, so he can feel confident, happy and relaxed. When they know their Pack leader has everything under control, then they can see that they don’t need to be scared or anxious or defensive …..which all cause aggression.

[@Halvtand]

I just love how in almost every single training video, be it with aggressive, insecure or untrained dogs, there are a few dogs just chilling in the background. That is the real final grade of and trainer, those dogs trust Matt so much even with insecure and reactive dogs nearby that they look like they're going to sleep.

[@brettstock3284]

Halvtand I think his name is Tom

[@taneabree]

I love that there’s a whole ass German Shepherd watching this session just hanging out lol 😂 I love this channel so much as someone who works at a daycare , what you do is really one of a kind 😍

[@Elquds]

My veterinarian's office encourage clients to bring in dogs to become more social and familiar with the office and environment. They told me I could bring in the puppies and bring treats while they're on an empty stomach so they're hungry enough to accept treats. I like that Tom made that suggestion because not many people do that.

[@IMHGfk]

I love how proud she looks, after that little breakthrough. Head held high - every part of her is oozing: "Look what I am doing! Am I doing it right? Is that what you want me to do? Look what I am doing!!!" What a sweet dog.

[@jesusbetancourt8529]

Hanna Seithe I don’t think you noticed that the tail indicated otherwise. The dog is being forced to comply with that collar. The dog is smart enough to not fight but to submit to what this dog handler wants her to do in order to avoid the collar strain hence why the the she hold her head high. Don’t get me wrong, this dog trainer does know how to read dogs and and communicate with them very well but this is not an example of a happy dog, at least not during the time of filming this video.

[@KathgoKat]

@@jesusbetancourt8529 I disaggree,Bear was much more relaxed and way happier then when she first came inQQ! There was NO collar strain while she was walking around other then a couple slight tugs at the very beginning.........In NO way was she forced to do anything!! ..She held her head high because she was proud,NOT avoiding any collar pressure,??.Properly fitted Herm Sprenger prongs are in NO way cruel and do NOT cause harm OR constant pressure,...like constant pulling on a flat collar does.She sure looked like a much happier dog to me!!!

[@Myanimalplanetss]

how anyone can say a dog hates the prong after seeing how happy she was that she finally understood -- she literally cuddled the crap out of you!!!! thats so damn cute.

[@melissamerkl4818]

Speaking from experience, I have to say he was spot on with regards to the veterinary offices. It's unfortunate that most usually don't have the time to spend making your pets comfortable. That being said, i'm lucky to have found an amazing vet office that encouraged us bring our new puppy in whenever we were in the area and would just feed her treats and take her on a tour of the exam rooms and the back rooms and just let us hang out for a bit while they got to know her. This really paid off when she recently got hurt and we had to attend the vets office for an examination and our doggo was happy to see everyone and made the whole experience pleasant and relatively stress free for everyone (under the circumstances).

[@laurafedora5385]

My vet is always feeding treats through the exam. It’s so helpful to make it a more positive experience

[@morganpierce6163]

This is exactly why I am wanting to start a training business of my own. I worked as a trainer several years ago at a company that provided training, daycare, and full veterinary services (I also worked as a technician there). I recently started working at another veterinary hospital after being out of the field for a while and it is true, they simply don’t have the time to work with training or behavioral issues. I plan to go through a formal training program and focus on helping owners enjoy their relationship with their dogs and help vet staff better manage how they handle these patients.

[@howmuchdidthatcost]

I wish my vet had suggested this to me- I honestly had no clue I should have done something like this. Looking back, it would’ve helped my dog.

[@JoeSaavedra]

I love that he's using more physical / emotional reward system and not just treat after treat after high-value value treat as the driver. Much better, great post.

[@TheePotatoGoblin]

Same my dog doesn't care for treats but I always hear it from so many trainers and even random people suggesting how I should train my dog but I've been listening to his videos and they've been working and all I need to do is be positive and reward her with happiness:3

[@leslietimmerman7420]

Your “She’s so cute” at the end was adorable!

[@iyamwhatiyam547]

Leslie Timmerman 👍❤️❤️

[@aven311]

The pup sitting on top of the kennel is killing me 😂😂😂😂 king of the castle lol! ( id love some merch! I’m also a dog trainer and your channel has helped extend my knowledge so much more!)

[@sandyg.3896]

As a trainer myself, I really like how you explain the what, why & how to you're clients. So many trainers just point & command. Nice to see your method of training. As to the puppy trivia, I believe the answer is scent. Thanks.

[@amberfuentes6480]

This year I rescued two German shepherds and found that all your videos so informative. I watch them over and over to help instill your practice in our training. It has not only changed my dogs but also has changed who I am as a owner and pet lover. Thank you so much.

[@KathgoKat]

Thank YOU for rescuing your 2 GSDs!! Theyll never let you forget it.

[@sundaysmercury]

Vet Tech here! Ive been in practice for about 10 years and working now towards vet school. I can say hes pretty correct in that the office (unless its a behavior specialist) is not trained in all of these techniques. We still do our best to handle dogs with the most absolute care and be patient with them, but there isn't always time to really make them feel completely comfortable. (Drs included....especially bc theyre the most busy!) Training at home obviously helps. But his recommendation of calling them and having your dog come in just to get used to the office is brilliant (assuming the office has the capacity to allow that--obviously for curbside that isn't possible right now). The other recommendation I would give (and not every team will take this to heart unfortunately) is to let the team know when you schedule the appt and again when the staff member either takes your pet inside or comes into the room, let them know that your pet is fearful (more than is normal for a dog in a doctors office) and if you know their triggers (men/women, approaching too fast, too strong of a restraint..touching the paws/head...etc). This will really help them approach your pet in a completely different way! I personally have always tried my best to let the pet make their own decisions if I can an take a softer approach or if the way I am holding the pet for a procedure does not bode well with them, I try something different until they are comfortable. The veterinary field is not always perfect, but is getting better about requiring specific training before handling pets which includes reading behavior signals and how to appropriately care and treat each pet. If any one has any questions about restraint procedures or how things are done behind the scenes, Im more than happy to answer!

[@AllisonVennardDVM]

My gosh. Every video comes with so many gems. I am a veterinarian, I appreciate you highlighting that it is not my job to train other people's dogs to like me, or my office. It just doesn't and can't happen. I ask and encourage ALL new people to the practice and new puppy owners to come hang out in our office and train. I have had exactly two clients in 10 years take me up on that offer. I refer clients to your you tube videos all the time, hopefully the follow through is better there. 😅 Thank you for this content. I absolutely put it to work with my own dogs! ❤

[@miranouaihed3860]

This video hit a sensitive spot because my family has the same dog with almost the same reactivity and attachment issues. Working with her is challenging because she is truly a terrified doggo. Bear’s face is too precious 😭❤️

[@christinez.1454]

I live about 2-ish hours away from this place and when I do finally get a dog, and if I fail at being a good dog owner by myself, I know exactly where I'm going to get my dog (and myself!) trained!

[@Lithane97]

Just watch his videos, makes it hard to fail lol.

[@PiperF96]

i love the Shepard in the back lounging on the cage

[@Hewiethemaltese]

I've been quickly working my way through these videos and obviously the core lesson is one that's been repeated over and over in the videos, but this is the video where it clicked for me and I had a eureka moment. Especially when Tom said, "I can't approach this as a dog lover, but as a leader." I swapped from a flexi lead to the normal lead and basically took our walk with intention. We went for a walk in the morning and again in the evening and the difference ALREADY. This boy walked with me. He didn't put the brakes on, he didn't beg to be picked up. I genuinely believe it's because I took control of the walk and I gave feedback. through his lead. All he had to do was follow me. THANK YOU. We're at the start of building his confidence, but I think by summer, I will have a dog who loves going for a jaunt. And I hope it will fix other little niggles by proxy. :)

[@lollipoplawliet6762]

You are helping me so much with my dog at home. Nala is a GSD mix and she’s a fearful dog for sure with obvious signs of abuse. With your videos, I found out The prong collar I have isn’t really effective all the time (prongs go only one way) and I found out I was not helping her insecurities. I am now not looking at her much on walks, learning to keep her attention on me, and learning that she’s not an aggressive dog at all, she’s just scared and doesn’t know what she’s supposed to do. So far, she is not barking at people anymore :) next is dogs! Lol I love how detailed you are in these videos, you can tell you aren’t just in it to make money, you really wanna help dog owners everywhere. I greatly appreciate it and while I can’t do the 1 hour sessions you offer I will DEFINITELY be donating.

[@Helen-ch1gb]

As a vet tech, yes that is the case a lot of times. Clinic had 3 drs, one would sedate after 5mins, another rarely touched rooms, and the best of them would spend whatever time the animal needed. We would talk in the room while the dog relaxed, we would sit on the floor to make the pet comfortable, move slowly and lightly restrain with the owners help. Still the best Dr to work with

[@brightshiningstar624]

this was excellent for me. I have a little dog with some anxiety. Not this severe but I appreciate seeing how to defuse the behavior. Patience for sure. 🐾❣️

[@techassyst]

Olfaction (Nose) it develops quicker than the other two and becomes the way the pupply finds their siblings and mother

[@holdingmyown]

my dog seriously just fell in love with you LOL i'm playing this out loud and every time you say "good girl!" she looks at my phone and wags her tail like "who? 😳little ol me? 🥰"

[@Feemailgamer]

I love the dogs just watching like it's a show

[@cwag9442]

Great job, Tom! Your time spent working with mustangs and learning pressure vs release shows tremendously in this video. I'm a horse trainer, and didnt realize how much of it translates to certain dogs. Thank you for this micro master class. How about that merch giveaway?!! I'd rep the heck outta it at the stable!!! ❤

[@beckydavid8411]

I love seeing dogs have breakthroughs 😭 Makes me so happy for the pups, and the owners!

[@maryfannin1633]

I love your expertise and confidence. Your level of understanding and communication skills are outstanding. You’re some kind of a dog genius. You really know what you’re doing! Impressive!

[@quentinzimmerer]

Thank you for doing what you're doing - it's an inspiration for all of us aspiring dog leaders

[@indygsd]

Another great video, thanks Tom! After that first big shake she decided to trust you and her whole attitude and body language changed. Puppies get their sense of smell first, eyes and ears don't open for a couple of weeks.

[@afs0073]

Thank you for teaching me the truth about different training tools! I didn't understand how those collars really worked & seeing you use remote collars was great too ❤

[@iStrikeZ1]

I have to say, the german shepherd on top of the cage is such a boss hahah. Good job man, found your channel recently but i do enjoy your videos.

[@jacquelinejohnson2286]

Are the shepherds behind you 'stepbrothers' ? They have bunk beds so more room for activities! Lol

[@tomdavisofficial]

haha! Pretty much!

[@missouriplantmom1769]

"do you like guacamole?"

[@lagottessa]

Wow - there is so much to learn from this video. All the little minute details - I'm in total awe.

[@anna_caro]

Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom! I always enjoy learning the why behind training methods and you do a wonderful job of explaining things from a dog's point of view.

[@tess36]

You helped little pup gain confidence. A true gift. Thanks for sharing. Love your channel.

[@justchris4973]

Oh man, I wish you were near me. I have a 50lb pound, 10 month old that is fearful of EVERYTHING and everyone. Great video.

[@loveskating4eva]

I’m really glad you showed a small dog with these issues

[@silviamonz2062]

Explaining instead of blaming dog or owner, that's the right approach,make them understand ❤️

[@jizzypuff]

It's really interesting seeing you work with a small dog.

[@bunnyofdoom87]

Happy to see you show that it's dogs of every size that need training/can be challenging. Your videos have been very helpful with working with my GSD mix. ♥️

[@jakefromstatefarm125]

I’ve been watching a lot of your videos lately, even though I don’t own a dog yet. You’ve been very informative own a bunch of things I never even really thought about and giving me a better understanding on the things I do know and I as well as a bunch of other people really appreciate that. Absolutely love the content!

[@nyademattos7808]

this is sooo cute he treats all his dogs so extremely well but this is the first time ive watched him with a little dog 🥺 well done as always !!

[@stevena260]

No Bad dogs merch giveaways rock! I love that the dogs name is bear, when it's the size of a bear poop. Lol. Upstate canine Academy is the best free dog info out there

[@petergarcia8225]

Very right about the vet. It is always good to look for vets with dog training facilities. Less problems with professional dog handlers on sight. Dog handlers make it easier for the client and the veteranarian.

[@JaySinghIsImmature]

You showed us that Bear is keen to learn !! Thank you. BTW, I had one of those collars for a prior German Shepherd and was using it the wrong way for a long time. Once I learned the right way, it was awesome. Thanks again.

[@daniellecurrie9877]

Love the new video style, it's cool to hear you talk about what were seeing. Love it

[@Loogiemistress]

You got her going good! Can’t wait to see more with the little Bear

[@caileykennedy9401]

Yay an other vid from my favorite dog trainer on KZbin!! Keep up the good work Tom! And merry Christmas

[@michellesarmiento1750]

Thank you so much for a video with a smaller dog! I would say smell comes first!

[@brianbaty5686]

I love how the GSD is just chillin on top of the kennel in the corner.

[@jesse6327]

That is a good acknowledgment - a dog whose happiness and calm is based on whether the owner is around is not a good thing.

[@judyweikumbenson199]

Thank you thank you thank you. Right now I am fostering a dog that has some of those problems. Listening to your advice really helps! I choose B...the nose.

[@tricolorpaso9882]

Love how you explain everything. Trivia answer is nose.

[@juanmorales-perez4629]

I LOVE your videos! And thank you for helping me & my dog. Keep up the good work!

[@Tribunal1023]

This sweet little girl! You are a dog whisperer for sure.

[@Gabriella.delcastilloldies]

I love the pups hanging out in the background 😍😍

[@tessakaymarthaler6313]

Merry Christmas to all of you and your family

[@Ee4yh8rg]

❤❤merry Christmas❤❤

[@blitz4Jesus]

I have really learned a lot since I've started watching your channel!! Thank you!

[@Kavya0704]

Those there dogs in the back be providing her some moral support ❤️

[@lindaandrews4183]

OMG My heart melted when she went up on his lap by herself

[@schmidt28117]

Love the videos. Been working with our insecure shepherd and it is helping. Thanks!

[@zieteniere7500]

Vets sometimes offer happy visits where they give the dog treats and things like that.

[@dawnwillis6593]

This is so interesting how so fast the dogs, whether it be aggression or fear or whatever, they start trusting you so quick.

[@wanderthelinear2128]

Me and my GSD Lyra sending love from England. She loves your voice - her big ears get even bigger! Merry Christmas ACE’rs!!!!

[@jamesc.boydjr.7859]

Nose: sense of smell. Eyes are second, ears last because ears are closed when they are born.

[@TheePotatoGoblin]

Oops I read this before it was finished I was wondering why you said this 💀😂

[@ashleythaxton9667]

& doesn’t smelling mama’s colostrum help them nurse? 🤗

[@jackmcnamara8722]

Eyes are also closed and don’t open for awhile.

[@Pyro4Lyfe]

Love watching you work

[@AdventureHorseRidinginNYS]

I just mentioned you and showed your videos to another new dog owner and he really respects you and was very impressed

[@ellerobinsArtAndBonsai]

DEFINITELY THE NOSE.. AND THIS IS A GREAT VIDEO CONSIDERING THE TIME THAT HAS LAPSED WITH THESE ADVANCED BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS.. YOU HAVE DONE INCREDIBLE PROGRESS WITH HER. AWESOME WORK AND SHOW TOM ...WE LOVE YOU A #TEAM4THEBEEZ

[@jacquelinejohnson2286]

Hi from UK, loving your videos. Merry Christmas Tom.

[@tomdavisofficial]

awe, thank you som much!

[@nadineillingworth2974]

NOSE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT. WHAT A CUTE DOG,

[@shelbieringle6683]

love the dog laying in the back ontop of the crate. what a good dog

[@drfrank001]

Nose comes first. No Bad Dog Give Away !!

[@elaborat6421]

I have big dogs but I want to see more of you with small dogs.You handled this great!

[@katesk9s424]

Another great video! I share these videos CONSTANTLY on my fb page and with my fellow dog people and this one was needed!

[@patricialester3609]

I love watching you work with the dogs

[@GarySaini8]

This is the best! Thanks for all the knowledge!!

[@ServingVibes]

Finally a shih Tzu video. Mine has separation anxiety as well but we'll trained in everything else.

[@Purrciful]

Been watching your videos for a while, has helped me understand my dog a lot better. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays everyone! I want to say nose! Also here for merch :)

[@kristinegraham2754]

B nose... I couldn't believe how calm all the big dogs are,just sitting watching so calmly.💕 Mine would be losing his crap.

[@AdventureHorseRidinginNYS]

What an absolutely lovely job you did with that little scared doggy

[@jessicaev8831]

Thank You for explaining the prong collar correctly🐾 Nose

[@thelastminmom5251]

Yes. Going to the waiting room of a Vet to get socialized there is so good. And what you said about Vets is true. They get zero handling training. Just like doctors don’t learn anything about food or nutrition.

[@WhiltiernaAria]

Nose, I think This video has helped me greatly and I look forward to helping my boy GSD! Thanks!

[@pip5461]

You made a great break through with the little pouch Tom, and I hope you find time to show a follow up at a later date.

[@CDMANNING11]

we are still here good job how ever i suck think that i am letting my dog down but i will never give up

[@Peter-vn8ue]

The small dog will get there eventually, I was captivated by the GSD sitting on top of the cages watching everything. Now that is a well-trained dog. I try to buy some merch, ( I can send it to my friend's house in Az)but you are always sold out Tom and being in Australia, with the time difference, I sometimes miss your new video posts by a few hours. I would say puppies have the sense of smell first Tom, I think that's how they know how to find their mom, they know her scent to find her when they want a feed, I sure they are born with their eyes closed.

[@dorozina]

We have an amazing vet here. They were more than happy when we visited them couple of times without any particular reason except that to say hi, and let them give my puppy with some food. Free of charge ;-) Now - one year later - when our walk goes through the street where the vet is placed, my dog pulls on the leash (which almost doesn't happen. maybe to some dogs) to GO TO THE VET, and is highly disappointed when we pass by ;-)

[@kat1984]

I will be getting one of these prong collars for our next dog. My late Boston terrier hated little dogs and she used to choke herself trying to get cats, rabbits, and birds. We used a prong collar with our 120 pound malamute wolf hybrid and I always associated prong collars with medium to large dogs. It took a few years, a lot of practice working with her on a harness to get her to stop reacting negatively to chihuahuas. I was also afraid her eyes would pop out with a traditional choke or flat collar. I wish I had known all of this 15 years ago.

[@wonderwhatsnext4820]

This is not even the problem that my dog has, but I end up watching the whole video just because of the other information that is pertinent to ALL situations (ie: the vet info). Thank you for sharing your helpful knowledge with the rest of the world!

[@melissalight693]

Love watching these sessions

[@ryoungerman7493]

She is adorable

[@Basialovesgsds]

It's always B. They don't open their eyes for the first min 10 days and they don't hear either, but they smell their mommy within minutes after being born.. Thank you Tom, you are awesome!!! love you, Merry Christmas! Hugs -

[@lollipoplawliet6762]

You are the best dog trainer. My dog Nala is super sweet and wonderful, but the second I get her on a walk she’s super stressed and extremely alert to everything. I even tried carrying her favorite human treats and she would work for food then conk out. Zig zagging in front of me to protect me from ‘danger’ (other dogs) I am now going to try the prong collar. Thank you so much! Nose 👃

[@martelindbergsli9779]

What a good girl. Great work

[@kierstonmckinley4535]

I have been binge watching your videos getting ready for our cane corso pup! You are amazing Tom! Merry Christmas 🎄🎄

[@audrawelsh8467]

Kierston McKinley that’s awesome! He’s a great person to watch. Socialization is key with puppies!

[@jodilynn9514]

1. The shepherd on top of the crate! 2. I feel like the owner is ABSOLUTELY why she’s so anxious. 3. This is exactly how my male Mini schnauzer behaves. He was neglected the first 5 months of his life. This is the first home where’s been loved consistently. But he’s still so anxious, and aggressive sometimes. I also have his sister, we actually got her first but you can see the difference between them, as one dog who’s been shown love since day one and one dog who has been totally neglected. Just kept in a crate. But even if i go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, he IMMEDIATELY wakes up and follows me. If I leave and come back, he AND my female go crazy but I’ve started to ignore them until they calm down but he’s now bites me when i walk in. Not in an aggressive way but the same as my female did when we FIRST got her. He’s aggressive towards people and other dogs. But once he smells people and realizes they aren’t a threat, he relaxes, but he comes in so aggressive, people get anxious and I feel like he senses it and it makes the situation worse. Both of my MS are sooooo co-dependent on me but my female is ok when I leave. He HAS to always be touching me. I understand why, because everytime he’s gotten comfortable in a home, he got put into another home. He’s insecure. I just need to know how to break this behavior. I’m hoping time will SHOW him that he’s STAYING here, always. It’s sad, I feel like he’s just WAITING to be deserted again. 😢 4. I make sure I LEAD both my MSs. I don’t spank either one of them, but I make sure to change the tone of my voice so they KNOW “moms upset”. And I make sure I reward or discipline within 2-3 seconds so they KNOW what they are being rewarded or disciplined for.

[@fern6545]

Love the content. Really useful. Thank you.

[@SuperBonnie01]

Merry Christmas Tom! Another great job!

[@BillCollins-om9bw]

Excellent job

[@onetry7406]

Such a cute little dog!

[@newlyenlightened8775]

Nobody knows like the nose. Thanks for listening to our requests for help. Merry Christmas to you and your staff...and Lakota of course!!