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[@joskyshams4758]

It's very normal for a 24 yrs old not to be in a relationship. I'm past 24 and not in a relationship.

[@Simply_lilyfred]

For God has not given us the spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love ❤️ and self discipline. God Has delivered you.

[@hellenkasyoka6745]

Amen

[@lilianupdates]

Am I the ony one who understands this girl 😭😭😭

[@findinglela]

Yes

[@bellahamani4387]

I feel her too. I wish I knew how to help. But her inside child is wounded. I can only pray that Jacinta will be healed.

[@catherinematoke2559]

@@findinglela 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@findinglela]

@@catherinematoke2559 Sincerely i don't. A psychiatrist will easily fix this condition.

[@nakamijunic5844]

We are many who understand her she needs prayers and physicalogist Benjamin zulu help her

[@wanguikamau5428]

jacinta you have managed almost one hour on the camera , you are healing continue to believe in your self, this is your turning point

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Jacinta thank you for the courage to come out and finally face your fears. This is the beginning of your healing and many around the world suffering in silence

[@wambuijacinta9723]

True to that Justus, many people will learn about this condition # social anxiety disorder through me sharing my story on your platform. Thankyou Justus for hosting me in your platform.🙏

[@joskyshams4758]

Very true. Healing has started.

[@felixmboya3514]

@@wambuijacinta9723 your healing has just began my sister.

[@caro.caro.9578]

I'm glad I subscribed to your channel. Thank you. Thank you. You are changing lives.👍🏼🙏🏽

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

@@caro.caro.9578 much appreciated 🙏

[@jacksonkaruru2334]

This article is so helpful, am a man 30 years with same problem, but to my surprise ,I have never before understood it was the case. Now I know. Thanks girl

[@cynthianyongesa5799]

It will be well bro,,,just find a psychiatrist

[@jacksonkaruru2334]

Thanks Cynthia, The problem was like she said, I knew I had a problem but I didn't know which, at least now I know so I'll look for a solution. Thanks a bunch

[@bettybetty3901]

Now contact her. You deserve each other. Call us at the wedding as in-laws from Justus channel

[@mwitaemmy]

@@bettybetty3901 😃🥂

[@samuelokumu4610]

I suffered the same for a long time. But my self-therapy has always been to feed my 'self-esteem/ self-worth' and being optimistic - forget the 'negatives'. Just imagine how many people 'lack' your strengths e.g. eloquence, knowledge, beauty to mention but a few. I can support you with this.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

It is true Jacinta already has a lot of things that many people wish they had. I must say she's very brave, smart, eloquent and beautiful. Focus on these strengths more

[@aliceo9529]

My twin

[@debbiethekenyan3274]

Wish u get in touch with her

[@tirokgracewanyoike3924]

May God see you through it all Jacinta . U are soo pretty and eloquent. Focus on the positives and you’ll be good to go! You are already on the path to ur healing

[@christmasmoi1213]

This is the bravest person I've listened to, ever. All I heard was, everyday I was afraid, but I did it anyway! She had so many reasons to give up as that would have been much easier, but she woke up and faced it.

[@nancynjoroge7730]

Listen from USA, I'm proud of you speaking about mental health issues that has been neglected or never spoken about it in public. With counseling and medications you will do well. It's journey of recovery but stick with it. You're beautiful and courageous. You have saved a lot of people to know they're not alone.

[@rosemarymacharia7225]

Thanks for sharing you are not alone many suffer in silence . medication is okey and social support which you have God is non judgemental thanks Dear

[@rosemarymacharia7225]

Learn. To trust

[@jlmchannel5579]

Jacinta I applaud you for coming out to talk about anxiety ..keep up girl . ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@wambuijacinta9723]

Thankyou

[@felixmboya3514]

As a teacher to be, this sharing has really changed how I will see and handle silent students in class. I have had anxiety attacks before but not so serious. Take courage Jacinta. By sharing you are on the right path to healing.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Good to hear

[@wambuijacinta9723]

Thankyou

[@mwauranyambura393]

Even when you don't see it, you are such a brave, fluent, beautiful and confident lady. Don't give up on yourself or your dreams. Keep working on yourself

[@delia9271]

I am a mother, I have a child your age, I want to support you to get help and I believe you will be healed and then you will be able to help others

[@abusaif6856]

Where are u I have a sister too has the same problem

[@frashiahwangari2177]

Jacinta, just take a look at your picture on the thumbnail of this video... You're one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen, honestly. Take great pride in your beauty & your intelligence & let that give you full confidence to face the world every day & look people in the eyes. You are fearfully & wonderfully made baby girl.

[@nitombugua6638]

Sweet ❤️.. U ain't alone... embrace your flaws one day they'll become u're strengths.. "THE POWER OF SILENCE"....

[@cathelinemahuto]

Well done Jacinta you just started your journey to recovery you will recover keep talking keep loving yourself.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Correct 👏

[@joycewairimu3850]

Hug, hug my gal....be assured that I will stand with you

[@Flipper_CountryBoy254]

Many of us can relate to your situation Jacinta 💯%.

[@maxwellnchoroko]

The highest psychological need for any human being in the world is the need to be loved, accepted, celebrated and appreciated. We are here to encourage that you are not alone. Keep on opening up and eventually you will be able to find the real you.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Yes. Much love jacinta

[@wambuijacinta9723]

Thank you.

[@benz4369]

You have presented a very clear and genuine explanatiin of your problems. What I think from my experience if you understand yours is not just one case there are millions of socially unstable people with phobias but the point is yours is a bit on the extreme side. So best option is to urgently stop to struggle or fight with your demons. Just acknowledge there is a bit of issue it same as any other sickness. Then surrender yourself as you are fully to God to the extent of forgetting yourself and allow God to fully take you over fully and then walk slowly baby steps with God while he will repair your damages and make something good out if you. Also start watching lots of videos about people attaining healing from their sickness and other life issues just by trusting on God. You will surely be transformed give yourself just 6 to 8 months👍👍

[@dennismuchira5299]

Such a beautiful soul may God heal you from this condition, this is more than slavery.

[@gladysnzasu1912]

Hugs girl for opening up.its the beginning of your healing.I have suffered since childhood because of trauma and abuse.i never knew it was a serious until my university days.i broke down in my first year to a point i wished death was better.no one understood me,even my family.i fought silent battles all along,but one day i told God its enough.i had fought enough,it affected my grades in campus for 4 years,dating,socialising and much.Low self esteem was eating me up.BUT ONE DAY I TOLD GOD ITS ENOUGH.I FASTED,PRAYED IN MY CLOSET,QUIT HOSTEL TO LIVE ALONE.AND SURELY GOD IS faithful.If there is any hope left for your recovery,TRUST GOD.HE WILL DELIVER YOU.I always wished for atleast one person to understand me,atleast to gather courage to speak up,but i have not yet gathered it.But trust God.He has done it for me and He will do it for you.Its not an easy journey,but there is light at the end for sure.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Thanks Gladys for sharing your experience

[@fousiaibrahim8335]

You are such a beautiful young lady...its said anything that doesn't kill you makes you strong...you are on the right path of healing as long as you know what your are suffering from .

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

This will definitely make her stronger coz she already has emense potential

[@nassimahmed8346]

The first step you made is facing the camera and tell your story

[@gracewangui4577]

I've been with Jacinta in high school, stephjoy girls.... Am glad you got the courage to speak out , coz I was always asking you why are you always silent and you were rude... But now I understand you.... Sorry mama...all shall be well🙏🏻

[@nancyhunja915]

I wish the many people who are writing to say they have the same problems would meet and have time to discuss those issues. It would change them altogether by God's help.

[@cecilianjuguna9930]

You are a beautiful woman. Jesus loves you.

[@ken4722]

I have social anxiety for the longest time too. At times its extreme. At some point I used to take medication and it used to work so well for me. You can seek counselling and medication too. You'll get way better you'll be surprised how effective they work

[@pwanja]

Jacinta you are so beautiful & this is the first step towards your healing. I think everyone has a certain level of anxiety i know I dont like going shopping on a weekend coz I dont want to bump into people I know & if I can avoid running into acquaintances I'll do it coz I hate that small talk that you have to do mkisalimiana. I think you should go back to school & pursue counselling you can really help thousands of kids who are experiencing what you went through in school coz you would understand them perfectly. As you say teachers & even psychiatrists didn't really help because they dont really understand the condition. You will be ok gal & you are so beautiful imagine dont think people are judging your looks coz you are perfect sometimes it's our thoughts that get in the way of our perception. Also remember other pple also have lots of thoughts in their heads so sometimes they may look at you but are not even thinking about you. I applaud your bravery may God continue giving you courage to step into a new counselling ministry for those who have even worse anxiety that they cannot even dare be on a youtube platform that's going out to the whole world. I hope you've heard of the saying DO IT AFRAID BUT DO IT ANYWAY. You will have a great life it can only be onward & upward from here 💞

[@bettyobiero8408]

Thanks for sharing. I suspect my son has the same problem. He is now 23 year in his final year. He fears being around people especially the people he is seeing for the first time. I have shared this vidio with him so that he can understand what he is going through and for him to know that he is not alone and that something can be done about it. A support group should be formed am ready to support.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

He certainly is not alone and thanks for being there for him. I wish him well. Let's create awareness and safe spaces for people to feel accepted and not judged unnecessary

[@wambuijacinta9723]

As jacinta I agree with you we need to form support groups and also create awareness about the condition. I will personally create one where I will meet other people who are like me.

[@georgew9339]

Hope your son is doing better, its great as a parent that u have noticed the issue. U might want to get his testonterone hormon checked.too low for a man causes alot of problems. Google about it.

[@precious3844]

I suffer from the same condition, am happy for you girl at least you can talk Infront of camera I wish I can do that, I can't even talk Infront of my phone camera alone, I always believed that may be I was cursed 😥 I pray that one day God will deliver me

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Hi @G nash I can assure you it was not as easy as it looks here. The struggle was real before we could do the recording. But you know what, this only proves all is not lost. One step at a time and before you know it, you'll have made 5 steps and counting... wishing you well

[@precious3844]

@@SharedMomentswithJustus thank you

[@doreennyakundi8826]

Thanks for sharing Jacinta I have the same fear but not much as yours trying to stay positive, God already has given you the confidence and be prayerful

[@paulineandala2863]

The first point of healing is recognizing that there is a problem. I moved to a new country 4yrs ago. I am an introvert and change process made me experience intense anxiety. Palpitations, fear of the unknown, expecting the worst. Wah! It got to a point that I could jump whenever someone walked in a room unexpectedly. My room mate pointed out that I would be crying in my sleep. One day I decided enough was enough. I started taking long walks to clear my head, sharing my worries with God and listening to messages of validation and those that reminded me of God's love. If I felt anxious, I'd switch my thoughts to happy thoughts. Counseling also helped a lot, I opened up to a good friend. It's not like nimepona. I still get anxious in a new environment hence I often appear unfriendly to people who don't know me. However, I have taught myself to walk up to a new person in church or start a conversation with people.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Very good counsel @Pauline Andala 👏wishing you well

[@janem1238]

You are beautiful, worthy and strong.Do not blame your parents because back in the days we were not aware of these things.currently out of the country will talk when I get back.

[@BeyondHighLife]

Am here think mmmh so my overconfidence is a blessing? I love attention and when I hear this 😥 Hugs mami its my prayer that you overcome this

[@estherkathuri4672]

This is already a big breakthrough. You need to address the root issue through counseling and prayers. I know you will overcome. I am happy to be your friend, I hope our paths cross.

[@akeyoakumu4714]

I have been suffering a lot ,we share the same story

[@beatricemulama9046]

As am listening to your story,at the same time what am passing through,I actually don't know what to do,but I believe God will heal my heart,I have panick attack,icant sleep at all,am suffering with sleep.ooh God help us in this world.

[@abdirizakhtuke2882]

You are hero. Your message is so bold and we as parents we feel guilty for judging our children. God forgive us .

[@gatherudiary]

She needs someone who can just be there for her she needs constant talk therapy and antidepressants to help increase confidence and improve ability to interact with others...Above all this is very spiritual... she needs deliverance ... This conditions mostly phycological there is a higher power controlling this feelings ... one day she will come out of this and it will be a testimony... How God 🙏 came through for her..... The culprit responsible for this spiritually are spiritual husband's and wives...

[@margaretndungu9015]

I love you so much Wambui and will be there to support you. Thank you for opening up to us and sharing what you have going through.

[@wambuijacinta9723]

Thankyou aunty

[@xoxomacx2539]

Most mental conditions get worse with age. It’s important to seek support group early.

[@wambuijacinta9723]

True 💯#

[@sarahwanjiru4002]

Can you refer someone to any...

[@xoxomacx2539]

@@sarahwanjiru4002 not really. I am in a different but similar group. Dynamics are different. But they are out there. You just have to do the work. Research. Google has saved us all.

[@kelvinkimani801]

Hello Jacinta Wambui, I just watched a video about you on social anxiety at 'Shared moments with Justus' KZbin channel and I thank you mostly for sharing this with us, thank you Jacinta. All that you shared in that video perfectly resonates with me, all that you said in that video is exactly how I would describe my life. I can say that listening to your testimony has made a positive impact in this life that I live and I also believe that it has also made a good impact in your life and in other people's lives who have listened to this testimony and pray that more people who have had this issue of social anxiety from a very long time to come across your testimony so that they can know that they are not alone in this and not live in depression. I can truly expound on how social anxiety has really terrorised my life, robbed me of the essence of life and made me to live like a walking dead but everything you shared is just my life, I will not run away from it but embrace it, I will choose to learn from it, I will let it become a fertile soil where something good will spring forth, it will no longer pain me when I think about it, it will just be ashes, like just a memory to learn from. Thank you very much Jacinta and I wish you all the best in your life, and really pray that you heal completely from the trauma in your past life, that you really be able to finally stand up without any fears and be established and never ever be dragged into the pits of darkness that you came from, go forth shine, those are my wishes for you. Thank you so much Jacinta once again and God bless.

[@martinthumbi7335]

I had this condition till after campus. I would forget everything I was to say and loose conscienceness. I still struggle a bit but I am able to manage it.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Wow. Kindly link up with jacinta she might learn one or two things. Let's create a network that people can tap into

[@nellynellyy3167]

Same🤧

[@lesngugi]

Jacinta, your deep belief in God tells me that the lord has a purpose in your and you well into fulfilling it , your suffering is what gives you strength to do it by enlightening the rest of us not take for granted the gifts we have when it comes to self confidence and esteem , your story is amazing and had touched me deeply and coming out is a huge step towards overcoming the challenges you face, I see confidence when you have come out now and when you say you want to write a book about"social anxiety disorder" , a condition that I have learnt from you today and I thank you. I'm happy you want to reach out to everyone not just fellow sufferers to assist, this tells me that you are already fulfilling your purpose that God has given you, we love you, God bless and all the best in fulfilling the desires of your heart , please continue to share, you'll touch millions

[@wambuijacinta9723]

Thankyou so much for sharing those encouraging words to me as jacinta, they mean a lot to me 👍

[@gracekariuki6688]

Gal, you are soo beautiful, may God heal you, you are in the right path. It's time we thank God for the small things we take for granted. Start loving yourself more. Very sorry for the suffering you went through as a child.

[@chainchains8711]

very strong lady , you will find someone who care you make you feel what you are feeling will ago away totally don't worry

[@joskyshams4758]

I think I have this disorder but not to the extreme. I can't even go to a restaurant and sit facing someone to me it's a no!

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

There's hope 🙏

[@njerirahab5806]

Hi Jacinta, your story is so similar to mine. Am 24 y.o, have never dated, struggles with anxiety, a loner. Just the same. I think am better today than i was some 2 years ago. Please know that it's not a problem with you. You were not protected when you were young, you were bullied and you never had a person to validate your feelings. So you are normal, nothing is wrong with you. Were it not for your circumstances in your upbringing you would have turned out okay. So don't blame yourself and don't say you are abnormal. With this understanding, you can begin to appreciate yourself more and you will realize you have gifts that are superior. Don't blame yourself. Blaming yourself makes you helpless because you write yourself off. This is what i have been doing and it's working. Affirm yourself instead. Also try to go to the gym and exercise, it will lower your anxiety. Just rem that the people in the gym don't know you and so they will not judge you.

[@ckb7878]

Sorry for what you are going through

[@jacksonkaruru2334]

That's nice , same case with me

[@kevinwatsiaya2248]

Can you share your story before a camera?

[@njerirahab5806]

@@kevinwatsiaya2248 No, but thanks

[@kevinmaruti4885]

I also suffered from the same situation.i start3d going to the gym , did boxing lessons which boosted my self esteem massively..

[@gracenjeri5593]

You're so beautiful, You're knowledgeable, you're wise,and brave. I can relate to this.💯💯

[@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534]

You are very beautiful Jacinta, always remember that

[@jullietmutegiochieng1116]

Jecinta you are so 😍 pretty. Jesus loves you. Am sending you 🫂 🤗 hugs. You are enough..

[@samkimani5426]

Thanks Jacinta for being courageous and opening up about your personal experience. You are on the right road and may God fulfill the desire of your heart

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Amen

[@wambuijacinta9723]

Thankyou

[@janetgichuru5388]

Yes the psychiatrist wasnt able to explain the condition but you have broken it down so well. I've lived with the condition for over 30 years and it has understandably attracted judgement...and you talking of the masks. I consider them a blessing🙂. Recently discovered that although others may dismiss it due to a lack of knowledgeable, anyone suffering from this should intenrionally choose to acknowledge their pain. Have empathy for yourself. Understand that it is okay to exhibit those symptoms for now cause you are a patient. Plus you owe no one acting otherwise but owe it to yourself to acknowledge your pain even when others can't. This is the first step to healing since we cant change what we dont acknowledge. Congratulations and thank you for the initiative you have taken. It shall be well

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

In deed this is the beginning of everything beautiful. It shall be well. Thanks @Janet Gachuru

[@wambuijacinta9723]

Thankyou

[@mercyondimu9094]

Hugs dear God is in control

[@munaelmimohamed9912]

Take baby steps before you know it you'll be a social 🦋💐 I had paralyzing fear of heights and now I enjoy great deal paragliding rope glinding sky diving the higher the better where before I could not even cross a simple bridge of go to a building more than 2storey without shaking and sweating even crying at times sometimes what you fear is what you need the most one must face their fears head on there's no other option

[@environmentistkaumoni.]

good thing you have gained the courage to talk about it, things will change

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Amen

[@newlymade.8774]

I have been through alot too and that changed me alot. Thanks to this wonderful girl, she has made me come out of my cocoon. Let me try and share a bit, something I have never done. I had a hard childhood and I matured fast in terms of responsibilities coz of the conditions during that moment. As a child, I was confident despite my traumas but with time fear started crawling in as I grew up. I used to draw, sing, dance and do poetry in churches and functions, etc. Am multi_talented but I fear coming out coz I fear people, I fear men too. I even held back from producing my songs that was my dream since childhood coz of fear and anxiety. Am always worried and overthinking. But childhood traumas and adult hard experiences has creeped fear in me. I have been abused, bullied, harassed, falsely accused, violated and betrayed so many times. Am empathetic and am the kindest and caring person and people take advantage of my kindness. I have been betrayed by people am good to and taken for granted. And that too makes me feel anxiety. I always find myself in love in staying alone behind closed doors and shut most of the world out, to avoid being hurt and coz you can't share for you always feel no one cares and understands you. Depression crawls in, suicidal thoughts starts to creep in and even attempts. I am always a jovial person, I love people and especially kids, am social and friendly when I get a chance to meet people. But after that, I run, go and close myself up and feel worn out with anxiety coz I never feel understood. I love when it's quiet without having to talk or see anyone. I always have fear of how people see me, if they will judge me, if they will understand me and so on. Yet for me I try my best to be there for those who need me, listen to them and encourage them without judgement but for me I keep it closed and it keeps drilling holes inside and am left bleeding from the inside. I have phobia even mentioning my name, meeting and knowing people and being known to people. I even fear producing my own songs. I always fear what people will say. I have tried to harden my heart coz even people tell me am too kind, polite and should stop being too good but it's to no avail.I like hurting no one so long you don't disrespect me coz I know how it feels to be unfairly treated. Am also to patient with people, timid too but wild if overly provoked.I overthink and I still find me engulfed in fear. This anxiety, it's a jail. I still can't share all coz I have been to hell and back and it has taken me too much courage to come out coz I never thought I could. If it wasn't fear and anxiety, I would be very far. I can stay for days without seeing the light and I will be okey but it eats you up slowly and you wish you were normal. I like to encourage people but for me, I find myself alone. I hope I will sooner gather enough courage and narrate my many unspoken pains in detail. I have also been post phoning having a you tube channel coz of fear, but I eventually did. kzbin.info/www/bejne/nXvEgn-tYtmsmtk Kindly subscribe, thank you.

[@elizabethnganga]

Counseling, medications, and strong will. You've got this. Did anything happen to you when you were little?

[@njorogejane1038]

Jacy I understand you..I went through emotional trauma as a child and it made me avoid people so much, even my own parents but thank God with time I'm trying to socialise with people nothing is impossible with God

[@tammialevisnus4259]

@Jacinta...you are so pretty and you are "NO LONGER A SLAVE TO FEAR" YOU ARE GOD'S CHILD...keep going, it is well

[@munaahmedyuusuf8063]

I got married age of 14 and I give birth age of 15 and got divorce age of 16 😥

[@abdikadirhussein1957]

How?

[@abdikadirhussein1957]

Then?

[@ckb7878]

Wah pole so far are you married again?

[@prettysue4318]

Oooh no 😭

[@beatricemulama9046]

My God bless u.worry the less.

[@hamdi.mohamed]

You are but a HERO Jacinta, beleive me. I'm sure this day that you have DECIDED to expose your condition to the world is the beginning of your fruitful journey. you're saving lives through awareness. I witness right away that; " YOUR GREATEST WEAKNESS IS TURNING INTO YOUR GREATEST STRENGTH.

[@wambuijacinta9723]

True, I totally agree with you. Thankyou👍

[@judynjerisilvanus6573]

Jecinta wambui is my mom nd njoronge is my bro,dear all will be well

[@lizziecn2729]

Trust you me, i am ever indoors . As it is, I'm in the house, in my bed. I leave the house at least once a month and for me to leave the house, I've to prepare myself psychologically & emotionally....probably some days before going out. And when leaving, i usually wear a cap, thank God, that masks are helping me big time because with the cap on and the mask, i don't get noticed. The social anxiety is super strong on my side... at age 27 i have zero self confidence nor self-esteem... In as much as i am dating, i am more comfortable in not meeting my bf in person... And if we have to meet, i always bow my head, ndio asini angalie. Same thing, i can't eat in public, i can't mingle or hang out with people... Though am now working on it... Personal therapy

[@kevinwatsiaya2248]

Can you share your story before a camera?

[@eunicekimani2552]

@@kevinwatsiaya2248 g

[@beatricejohn4248]

Same too me ..am 26 But always I try to be confidence and interact with people somehow I know God can rescue us You are not alone

[@terjofficial4864]

This has been me....locked up in the house ....anyway I just wanna know how to recover

[@delia9271]

Jacinta, please trust and believe and travel to Uganda if you are still feeling overwhelmed, counsellor can listen and advise, doctors can treat but only God can heal. There’s no money to pay. If you want transport money, I can help you.

[@effieke9053]

Jacinta you're a hero💯 it's even harder when your true personality is a source of tension to your superiors.... chaos within your mind unfortunately becomes your safe space

[@furries.v]

Thank you for sharing. Only people who go through this understand. I suffer from social anxiety too.

[@findinglela]

But why

[@furries.v]

@@findinglela i don't know. Born like that.

[@findinglela]

@@furries.v maybe your socialization. I spent much time in groups of kids to have any anxiety

[@carolynadams491]

Oh my God. I suffered the same thing. I remember sing 🎤 a solo in Church and my voice started shaking and I burst into tears 😭 when I was little. Even in high school I couldn’t ask questions in class because, I felt my friends would laugh at me or what I will say might be correct. At least I’m much better now. You will surely overcome it. Try to always talk no matter if you are scare. God will redeem you 🙏. I feel your pain because, I have been there. Even at my age I still face fear but it has reduced at least.

[@ruthmaks8718]

Be strong God will come through for you, I feel your pain😭

[@nancyhunja915]

You are a great Lady and you are now healed in Jesus name.

[@millicentmwambaji2632]

Your beautiful little sister just accept yourself forgive and forget everything just take that one step by starting from at hom at church at work try to make friends from your family and church and you will overcome this young sister

[@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534]

This mark the beginning of your new life Jacinta, you don't have to be this way all your life 2 ND, just be very patient with yourself, and with professional s helping you, I understand it is very expensive treatment, therapy might take time but, I'm sure you can be helped

[@gracenjeri9383]

This is great Jacinta,,,have interacted with you but never noticed you were going through this. Thankyou for coming out boldly and helping many. Your healing journey has just begun. May God walk you through this

[@Simply-mariah2]

May God give you courage,,,am praying for you

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Amen

[@poincareconjecture5651]

Incredibly eloquent...hope your doing good sister

[@annenjenga9080]

Jecinta you are soo courageous...May our God help you to go through everything you are facing You are beautiful, start loving yourself and you will make it in live Your braveness to come out and share has helped many people.God bless you very much

[@kevinwatsiaya2248]

This girl is beautiful. Very beautiful. I hope she gets over this.

[@terriskimani8794]

Is she talking about me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@wambuijacinta9723]

You are not alone just no that there are many people like us but awareness about the condition isn't there 😢

[@calebmokaya1960]

Jacinta after this video I know you have improved

[@Lovelymaria0]

God will help you mama❤️ just believe in him and he will deliver u in Jesus name, Amen 🙏

[@isdorahokello8512]

You are beautiful and wonderfully made commit all your weakness es to God and He will see you through.

[@isdorahokello8512]

You are beautiful and wonderfully made commit all your weakness es to God and He will see you through.

[@lornanyakoa1617]

Being told to be confident and be bold is not bad, it's an encouragement 🤭.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

It mounts unnecessary pressure to the patient and makes them feel as though they're not doing enough! In short, it's simplistic thinking.

[@njerirahab5806]

@@SharedMomentswithJustus 💯

[@hellenn.m.1427]

Its horrible, it makes you feel very inadequate there is a better way to encourage someone, especially a person like in this case.

[@justineakyusa6511]

Oh lord deliver ur daughter she needs serious deliverance I used to be shy and fear but preaching the gospel took it away along with prayers I pray u recieve help fr above 🙏

[@maxwellking9399]

Hello Justine, I'm so glad that you made your point very crystal clearly for "deliverance". I see many comments goes around the bush. I'm seeing this with spiritual eyes and its very obvious that this girl need a deliverance. Period!

[@michelinamuthoni5845]

Very true, genuine contact with God as well as genuine salvation

[@wanguikamau5428]

jacinta you have kept me listening to you, just know you are not boring, its good to speak out

[@reeharuah6953]

You need a big hug a long one every morning and evening it will help you

[@Myencounters]

Mummy nothing under this earth is new, l passed through and still passing through the same thing till date for 24years as well. Don't feel that you're the only one passing through that, l know it's really hard for us but we can battle it girl, l see the boldness in you even better than me that confidence of facing the camera, you are strong girl. Just imagine l used to urinate in class because I fear passing infront of people going out.

[@Nonek214]

Hugs hugs

[@rachaelrichard5493]

You are so beautiful inside and out gal.you gonna get over it now that you have been able to speak out.thanks for sharing you will overcome. Much love gal.

[@gw7768]

...though not as bad, now I understand what has been my issue and am over 40 😂

[@mercychambon4450]

Speaking before the camera Jecinta,is already one step foward for your healing,coz you are speaking before millions of peoples.everthing will be ok in Jésus name,

[@waliaulalinet3994]

Amen🙏

[@wambuikiania8852]

Love and light Jacinta. All will be well sweetheart.

[@wambuijacinta9723]

Thankyou cousin❤️

[@callensausi2076]

I see how many people coming out in the comment's section and see how great Jacinta is. A true warrior, not even the most confident person can do what she done. God is giving her beauty for ashes. Though it started terrible but you're destined to help people. Can't wait to see what becomes of her ✨❤️

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

A true warrior in deed @Callen Sausi

[@wambuijacinta9723]

True to that callen. As Jacinta I have been feeling that's my purpose. Hearing you say that has encouraged me to be strong and follow my dreams thankyou.

[@TwineBananuka]

First befriend a man called Jesus Christ, He will then open up doors for the love of one perfect man in your life.

[@kutesamanka5525]

Isn't she the most beautiful woman i have ever seen....

[@wardanyawira794]

Pole sana I love you I was like you Long time to hata Sasa iko I still have

[@Njerikabiru]

You are brave girl .

[@mariadaniels5653]

My daughter is 30 but never dated

[@munaahmedyuusuf8063]

My mother got married age of 9 years,age of 13 she give birth me and age of 18 years she wos having 6 children and age of 26 she wos having 12 children,, our culture and religion alow this us somalian 🇸🇴 old cultures I'm 34 years old and I ever time Remember how I got pregnant and delivered 😥

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

What! Talk to me. [e-mail]

[@temwachi9992]

Sorry to hear about that.Who does that to a child really? what can a nine year old do? They are still babies and you even bath them. I feel for your mum. Give her the whole love you can. My mum was married at 14 and It hurts me knowing that she was just a minor. My child is 14 years old but still is a baby to me and to think about marrying her; never in millions years

[@munaahmedyuusuf8063]

@@temwachi9992 it's very painful 😢💔 and we do love her very much ❤♥ thank you so much God bless you 🙏❤♥

[@ntazshi4725]

This is ME for over 26yrs now and I can't get over it

[@lucindadicked622]

Talk it over and over it will help you feel relieved.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Yes

[@sallyedward533]

Jasinta. You are not alone, I always in my life feel this way. But in order to over come this , when ever I want to do something, I always get a friend or another person to be with so I can gather courage if I have to meet people that I don't know. Even the people I know if they are more than one, I go with some one, am in my 40s now , but having a friend or some one of a companying me gives me a lot of confidence. I don't know if this can work for you, just give it a trial.

[@annenjenga9080]

A very beautiful gal....May our dear Lord have mercy on you

[@fatumaabubakar5790]

Jacinta you are not alone, i suffer the same untill now this condition is not joke. It drains you so much. I too could not raise my hand in class i couldn't even say "present" when the teacher called out the roll call, standing on assembly was a nightmare, reading passages in class, all those thing even asking for my change in a matatu, my parents especially my Dad are still worried about me untill now, and I'm much older but i dont how to over come it yet. I never knew it's a condition i just thought I'm shy or timid. First time hearing from you there is someone exactly like me.

[@teresiamaina9573]

And one here too😥😥