House & Garden Fall Decorating Ideas For A 1939 Cottage Home!

New ideas for Thrift store FALL DECOR! I take you through my home and yard and we chat about my decorations for fall, my life and yours. Going through the Power Thoughts list I was amazed at how much it changed the way I now look at things. I realized a few major flaws in my thinking that I feel are holding me back. Not only do I need to assign " credit" but also take a closer look at my life...and see if there just might be a Mr. Gowan in it - ( It's a Wonderful Life)
I can't wait to hear what you might share about your own Power Thoughts that may have gotten you through some very tough times.
Please know how much you mean to me. I so look forward to seeing you every week and reading your words of wisdom and sharing your heart. You make my life so bright.
Love you to the moon and back and I always will,
xxoo Susan & The Dez
"I worried a lot. Will the garden grow, will the rivers flow in the right direction, will the earth turn as it was taught
Was I right, was I wrong, will I be forgiven, can I do better? Will I tire of the Beatles?
Will I ever be able to sing, even the sparrows can do it and I am, well, hopeless.
Is my eyesight fading or am I just imagining it, am I going to get rheumatism, lockjaw, or dementia?
Finally, I saw that worrying had come to nothing.
And gave it up. And took my old body and went out into the morning, and sang."
~Mary Oliver, "I Worried," (2010)
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My fireplace was built in 1939 . It is brick. I have it sealed off and I painted the old brick a light color. The original mahogany wood mantel is in good shape. I placed an electric plug-in heater in the fire box - it needs no venting and warms my room so much my boiler isn't even required.
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you bring me so much joy and
for those of you who find this Easter egg every week
how about a group hug with me and Desi :)
have a great week..we love you!

[@newday5]

If only people knew how many lonely women there are at our age maybe that would change how they interact with us.

[@LittlePoet]

I 100% agree...the loneliness can go so deep as we age and on a sad day one person with a big smile or a warm hug can sustain us for days....my love to you, Susan and Desi

[@dianabrown833]

And the older we get, the more invisible we become.

[@kasko8550]

I have been thinking about this, too. To Bad people do not live more in family circles in their age - as I think it should be. Nonetheless, I think this group of people has so much to give. Make it a point to go out and connect, to reach out, to visit and invite (relatives, grandkids, and others - people who you will feel safe with).

[@Marie-r4i2u]

Loneliness is horrible If people only knew. I'm almost homeless, no family not even grandchildren living on SS. I've considered the "S" word. I feel invisible forgotten. My solace is watching your videos every week. Thank you. Many blessings to you and your beloved family.

[@junecarole-via3436]

Hang in there Sweetie! Things are going to get better! I know where you're coming from. We have a lot in common. I'm alone but not lonely. I live month to month, not knowing what next month will bring. It seems like the whole world is upside down right now, but I have faith in God! He said He will never leave us nor forsake us! I wish I'd been a believer a long time ago! It would have saved me from a lot of pain, but today is the first day of the rest of my life and tomorrow is an opportunity to start over again. What a blessing! He loves you!

[@aidedeco]

I was miserable and cried out to God and asked Him to heal me inside. And I returned to church and He is healing my soul one day at a time.

[@barbc5947]

Amen! Walk with the Lord and you will never be alone. Blessings to you and know I am saying a prayer for you.. You are my sister in Christ.🙏❤

[@hummers7342]

@@barbc5947 you both are mine too.

[@JayP-kd5rc]

Praise God! He will never leave us, and will heal us if we will just go to Him and ask. Just sent up a prayer for you.

[@LittlePoet]

We can have great plans...but they should always include our faith...at least, that is how I see it. I never mean to preach...but God is always there...much love, Susan & Dez

[@deborahpellerito6117]

Amen❤️

[@lucyloo7457]

Susan I buried my Mother, Sister and Brother today. My Sis, 2008, Bro. 2012, Mom, 2023. Their cremation urns were all put to rest today. ❤ My children, nieces, nephews and friends came together to celebrate their lives and lay them to rest together finally. It’s bittersweet but we were all brave today. Thank you for this beautiful video. I needed it!! God Bless You!!! ❤. Thank you from my heart!!!

[@LittlePoet]

I am saying prayers for this sad day for you....much love t you always, Susan and Dez

[@lucyloo7457]

Thank you. I greatly appreciate it!!❤. Tomorrow is a new day. ❤.

[@judybw706]

I’m so pleased you found a permanent place for your loved ones that honors them. Be proud of yourself!

[@JuracyLopez]

🙏🏽🤍🕊️

[@sharondoan1447]

What a beautiful day of remembrance to celebrate the lives of your family.

[@user-vx5xo2to8m]

i am a 78 yr old widow lost my husband of 55 yr 1 yr and 8 mo ago I just sold my house relocating to Florida When my husband was here it was a home now it is just a house I have stage 4 breast cancer and refuse to feel sorry for myself This has been a diificult and challenging year but I have learned how strong I am My heart breaks for my daughters but they were so lucky to have a wonderful dad Life is a gift try to appreciate every day God gives you Geri from Boston

[@catmama54]

I had so much loss last year first my 18-year-old cat in January 4 months later my husband, and then a few months later leaving my home of 25 years and moving to a new state and an apartment. I am still grieving all that I lost. I sit in my lonely little apartment and I want my life back. I’ve made friends in the apartment building and I go out here and there, but mostly I am alone in this apartment and I miss my husband and my home and the life that I had. I will be 70 in November and there’s no way I’ll ever have another man in my life so I just have to be alone all the time. I’d love to rescue another cat but can’t here and moving isn’t an option just yet. Pets make great company. Desi is a doll

[@sabine3769]

Oh Dear I'm so sorry my husband passed two years ago. Please seek a support group most hospitals have grief support groups you might meet some friends. It's a start. You could share your grief. Please try

[@junefreeman7955]

That's a lot of change in a short time and grieving is normal. When you're ready try to sign up for something that will get you out. I'm going to try swimming at the Y next week.

[@conniegunn]

God bless you 🙏 I can relate!

[@catmama54]

@@junefreeman7955 thank you so very much. That was a tremendous amount of loss in one years time. I mean, I am doing OK I’ve moved. I’ve set myself up in an apartment. I’ve made friends, but my whole life is so different and I will miss my husband and our home forever that will never change. And I cannot wait until he and I are together again and I miss my cat. She was like my child. that’s great that you’re gonna take swimming lessons. I have a neighbor right next-door a married couple a little bit younger than me, but I’ve made friends with them and I go out to lunch with her every once in a while so I do socialize some. I will never stop missing my husband, my cat and our beautiful home.

[@catmama54]

@@conniegunn I’m sorry you can relate that you’ve had lost two. Thank you so very much. Everybody here is so kind and it’s really very helpful.

[@urbantart68]

I'm 56 and a single empty nester fom England, I was lost not knowing what to do with the rest of my life? I'd always looked after everyone else , but my 83 year old mum sent me to your channel, I went back to my art and I paint, also a spiritual practice...thank you, your a wonderful lady, and Desi is so cute especially when he sings, I laugh so much ,you are part of my Sunday ❤

[@patriciat7769]

9-11-24 Greetings from Florida! I had to laugh when I saw your moniker/ online title.🙂. It's amazing how the internet provides us with a way to connect with people around the world. I'm glad you found the Little Poet community, and that you have been able to resume the hobbies that you enjoy.

[@heleneslawson2630]

Every morning before I get out of bed I thank God for the gift of today. Each day is a gift not a guarantee. My husband passed at the age of 58 and my precious grandson passed at the age of 14. I have learnt to be grateful for all blessings and live moment by moment. In other words....BE HAPPY!

[@jkalb1744]

God bless you!

[@Erika-Coach]

Ohmygosh, even a young boy, one that didn’t get a chance to grow, become a man. How heartbreaking. So so sorry for your losses 🙏

[@heleneslawson2630]

@@jkalb1744 Thank you and God bless you.

[@heleneslawson2630]

@@Erika-Coach Thank you. I miss them very much, but I know I will see them again. That gives me peace.

[@Erika-Coach]

@@heleneslawson2630 I’m very happy for you. That’s a good thing 🙏❤️

[@californiaglo9666]

The isolation during the pandemic really messed me up. I dealt with anxiety for the first time in my life. I am getting over it, but it has been a long journey. Two months ago I fell in my hallway and fractured my back. My senior dog Italy had peed during the night and I did not see it. For two weeks I was pretty much in bed. Fortunately I have a few wonderful friends that helped with groceries, cleaning the house and take care of my three senior dogs. On the third week my Italy passed away. At 63 I am realizing life will get more difficult at times and it scares me. With your videos, I realize that I am not alone. That is what helps me feel a bit better. There are many of us dealing with the same fears. I send a big hug to all that need it.

[@Mphscat]

You would also enjoy Sandra Hart's channel and she talks every Sunday about these very things. You are not alone in your concerns. Blessings from Texas.

[@user-rf2pq3fm3n]

My faith and pets got me through it❤

[@debmarrett212]

Reaching out to those who need the group hug...because I need one too.

[@conniegunn]

Hugs from Deadwood, SD! 🥰

[@rinigirl777]

Hugs! From Palm Springs, CA

[@hummers7342]

Hugs from St Louis Mo

[@susanl.5226]

HUGS from Texas! ;-))

[@kimneely4034]

Sending you a big hug from Salisbury, Wiltshire UK ❤

[@debbiesmith297]

I just lost my husband of 42 years and am facing living alone. You are an inspiration to so many and I am determined to try do the best I can with what I’ve got! Thank you

[@sueprice4082]

Same here, sending love ❤

[@shewolf6854]

Sending you both my love and thoughts❤ he is with you every single dayxx

[@LittlePoet]

I am so honored you are here. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know the pain must be so oberwhelming at times...how wonderful to love like that and always have part of you as you carry on...much loveot you always, Susan & Dez

[@dedelovesbling2313]

I'm so sorry for your loss Debbie. I cannot imagine. I've been married 50 yrs and I cannot think about being alone. I'm so glad you have hope and you plan to move forward with determination. You are a strong lady and your husband is beside you cheering you on, because I'm sure he would want you to be happy the rest of your days on this earth. Many blessings for a brighter future. 😊

[@twanahess5838]

I think a lot of women that are alone don't trust themselves to find happiness within themselves. I found happiness just by greeting each day as an adventure. I discovered that I didn't need a man to make me happy. My happiness depended on me and me only. I stopped mourning for all that I had lost. It was gone and nothing I could do would bring it back. I started over with a different attitude. I love my life now. It wasn't easy but I even like me!

[@user-zo8zn4jw5m]

Hello Susan, as a 70 year young lady thriving on my own and loving it, I keep a joy journal and have lots of friends younger than I am. Being young at heart and passionate about living gives me inspiration to create the very best life.I missed the opportunity to save for retirement. Due to my health I was on disability. Now I choose "retirement. It's how we take care of what he have, rather than what we think of what we are missing.

[@teddic6214]

Dearest Susan ~ How proud your Mom would be to know what a profound effect you (& Desi) have on so many of us in this community. Thank you for welcoming us weekly into your home with love & inspiration. You are greatly loved & appreciated ❤

[@margieangel]

The thing that gets me through every day is my faith. Knowing that God really is in charge of the universe and that at the end, Jesus wins and evil doesn’t. Last week at church, the preacher shared a great visual. God doesn’t want us in a motorboat where we are driving the boat. We should be in a row boat with God at the helm. The challenge is that we don’t always know where he’s taking us and when we look backwards, we can’t see where we’re going either but we need to trust. That has really helped me this past week. For the past year, I have not understood why I was where I was at but it is now clearer. I’m gonna do everything I can to stay in the rowboat. I want God at the helm and not me! Blessings!

[@LittlePoet]

so beautiful Margie!!

[@Carol-zn2bs]

Amen!

[@cremetwirl1859]

Yes, backwards is not where we're going. Keep praying Trusting God.

[@lose999]

I wake up grateful that I woke up. I try to be mindful just doing simple things; making coffee, watering my plants, washing my dishes, and feeling healthy. I'm starting classes for the Fall semester next Monday and am so excited to have a feeling of purpose again. It's been a lonely, sad, summer but now I have learning something new to look forward to. I recommend that seniors seek out info about retirement learning opportunities in your community. Mine is through the local school district and is for people 50+. It's called Academy of Learning in Retirement (aka ALIR) At almost 72, I will try my best to do my best in class.💕

[@622barmacost]

The one thing I did in my past that was good was putting up bail for my niece. She was going through a lot of bad times - divorced, broke,single parent - and she got into trouble. Her boyfriend called us one night and said he could only put up half of her bail so I said we would put up the other half. I don’t think my husband was totally on board but I was determined. Now she is happily married, is a great Mother, and has a wonderful successful job. I am so glad I was able to help her get here and that gives me so much joy to see how she is thriving.

[@AnnSimpson-k1u]

I’ve been a widow for 2 years now. I feel I’ve come through the darkest time but am now feeling content with my life. Your videos always add to that contentment xx

[@user-yh2lj4rm5x]

Desi looks like a little teddy bear! Autumn has always been my favorite time of year. This November, I am turning 70! I became a widow In January of 22, & I am trying to dream a bright & content future. I am eternally grateful for all I have & have been blessed with in the past.

[@annamariemiller3877]

I also turn 70 at the end of November. 🎉

[@marilynmcintosh2674]

The way you design your home always gives me comfort.

[@AngelaMinor-k6k]

Realizing God is in control and every breath is a gift. Thankfulness and gratitude!

[@jenjem5810]

My parents rest in peace. Caregiving was a privilege, but took a toll on my body. Grateful that they married. That my Mom had a good marriage to a man who offered to adopt all four of us. Three accepted. I'm the youngest, Who did my best to return to them the care they bestowed on us. Resurrection is the greatest promise that I look forward to. We will have Family Reunion in Paradise ahead. We sang together. Those experiences will warm my heart, until we meet again. We dealt with their decline during Covid restrictions.

[@donnathompson4067]

yes , fall is my favorite season. I enjoy the crispness in the air and so many beautiful colors. I am alone and I yearn for our nation to be healed of all the corruptmess. I want to make friends again and enjoy life again. I'm praying for happiness to return in my life. Thank you so much for your videos. I enjoy watching them and seeing sweet Desi. Blessings to all.

[@nancy2401]

You had me laughing when you said Desi looked like Andy Williams in his new orange sweater !!

[@benj4693]

My husband and I have had a terrible health year. Some of the issues are extremely serious. Through it all, I get up every morning and I feel grateful and blessed to have the life that I have. Two doctors told my husband how truly lucky he is to be here with his full mind and body working. I am extremely thankful and I wake up every morning knowing that. 🥰

[@nanettebear295]

Desi is so dapper and very handsome. Fall is my favorite time of year. There is a scent that just belongs to fall.

[@debrastewart6714]

Hello Susan and Desi, I found your channel! I just love it ,I lost my beautiful husband in March 2024 . We were married for 43 beautiful year , we had so many dreams to do , unfortunately cancer to him in 5 mths . It's been a terrible lose , I am making the best of my life without him now .I live alone I'm 68 yrs old , we have to be happy,I am very grateful for what I had definitely it was so wonderful. I have happy days ,and sad days ,but I love life it's beautiful. I agree to let things goe ,I have in the past ,just let it goe. Thankyou you are amazing and Desi ,I will keep watching your channel,it makes me calm ,and happy . X O ❤🥰🤗💖

[@LittlePoet]

Hello! I am so happy you found me and Desi!!!

[@sueprice4082]

Sending love, I lost my husband of 47 years, just one year ago. Sue UK xx

[@patatkinson826]

You are my Saturday Night Treat! Thanks for all the love and care you put into our weekly get togethers!! ❤️ folks are stuck, this former teacher suggests learning something new...back to school was never so easy and FREE! There are hundreds of thousands of free courses from you local YWCA to Harvard and Stanford and any place in between! I do miss the excitement of Fall and leaves, turning to hope with new knowledge and the possibilities that brings! Exploring my world inside and out, even driving a different route to a familiar place can be fun at any age! It always has been for me. Cleaning out a drawer, making a loaf of pumpkin bread to have with tea....inviting a friend over to share. Wonderful stuff. 😊

[@MandyJudge]

Thats interesting I will take a look, I think joining groups is a good thing to do

[@rebeccaaguilar8127]

She’s mine too

[@lesliemartin670]

Same here!

[@susanl.5226]

Hi! Your post reminded me of my mother-in-law. She taught swimming at the Y to children and to Seniors until she was 80. She also taught yoga (her own style, lol, not strict yoga) and weight lifting to the mentally challenged. She also substituted and read to the elementary children once a week. She THRIVED doing all these things. A true lesson in life & role model. She did most of these into her 80s, and was called home at 94.

[@lindamyers953]

What a beautiful life fully lived🤗💜

[@heidibee501]

The big changes in our lives are not always up to us. Toward the end of WWII my parents were living in a little German town in Romania. Soldiers from the German army came and called the men into the Town Hall. They stood around the edge of the room and asked for volunteers. They had rifles. Everyone volunteered. That night my parents said good-bye and he left. The next day she and her two sisters (and their children) packed everything they could in a wagon and left because the Russians were coming. They left their homes and vineyards, and my mom left her store too. They went through Austria. People tried to be generous but food was scarce and my mom realized she was pregnant (with me). A couple of years after the war my mom and dad found each other and he realized he had a second daughter...me. My mom went from being a big woman to a very slim one in nine months.

[@sabinekoch3448]

❤

[@LittlePoet]

oh this made me cry....I am so glad your mama and Father reunited!!!

[@ivonnevermeer3600]

Goodbye Mr. Sun please come back tomorrow, tears are coming again. Could we only see things as a child again. I try every day and see a miracle in a lot of beautiful things nature gives us 🍁🍄🍁

[@sarafurr1]

I am a testament that you can move forward, loving life again. I was a widow for 5 years thinking this was my forever life. I put my faith in God that He would protect & guide me. I was blessed to meet a Christian man who was trusting God for the same thing. We’re now married and we thank God for every single day we have together. Susan, thank you for this beautiful and positive message tonight! And by the way, I LOVE the dress you’re wearing. So beautiful!❤

[@LittlePoet]

Oh congratulations!!!! LOVE!!!

[@maryzajac1136]

One thing that has helped me move along through grief after the sudden loss of my darling husband 6 years ago is walking in nature. I am lucky enough to live in a suburb that has a green belt with flowing creeks (in winter), a dam with assorted water fowl and ducks, an agistment property with horses and neighbours with chickens that give a farm like touch! Whenever I'm feeling life is stressed or I am overwhelmed I drag myself out for a "stroll". Over the years the people I meet on these walks have become friends of a sort - tho we don't know each other by name, we smile and call out good morning, hello, how're you going today... and I feel a connection. It has truly helped and I hope this will help others out there living on their own, feeling isolated and disconnected. Thanks for another inciteful and thought filled sharing with us this week Susan... love and hugs to you and Desi 💞💞

[@glorialush9598]

I was feeling down and had a long talk with a friend today. It was good just to tell her what is going on with me. She also shared about herself. The conversation was so good that we lost track of time. And I felt so much better afterward. 🐿️

[@grammycrackers]

My husband and I have been married for 43 years, have 3 grown sons and have 12 grandchildren. What I find comforting is the love we share with our family and with our beloved pets. We enjoy our walks at parks taking in nature and wildlife . Simply smiling at people is often reciprocated, a reminder that we matter and that kindness shared is kindness multiplied.

[@Lisaloo66]

I love how you told Desi “I’ll be right back” 🥰 my dogs get so sad when I have to leave the house without them so I started telling them “I’ll be back” and when I return I say “I’m back!”. I believe it helps soften the leave with those words. Of course they’re always so glad to see me return no matter what I say!

[@deborahpellerito6117]

I noticed that too I can relate

[@veronicwbrennan4002]

When I leave home without him I say to my Jesse 'Won't be long. '

[@KathyFaye]

Three things: 1. Your autumnal decorations are lovely. 2. I look forward to my KZbin visit with you every week. 3. You talked about very serious things and ended with the lard a- - squirrels. You’re the best sort of friend-you have a great sense of humor.

[@melindajohnson8586]

Thank you… this I believe was intended for me today. I lost my 92 year old father. I have taken care of him for the last 5 years.( or we have taken care of each other….😉) Two days later I lost a friend and neighbor in a house fire. It has been and still is very sad. I was thinking about what I really want with the rest of my life…. I have a very hard time telling my sweet husband the things I really want and need, so I think that your advice on waiting until you are in a better frame of mind is spot on! However, you are so correct in that if I don’t tell him and go after what makes me happy it certainly can’t ever happen. I’m dealing with some depression right now and I know I have to give myself some time. I really appreciate your positive outlook. I am striving to do better in that area , so thank you!

[@sandytribotti5058]

Thank you. You wrote it for me. I am exactly the same accept my “husband” is my wife. Wishing us both the strength to make it through.

[@judyyoung5946]

There’s a sign that says “I still remember the days I prayed for the things I have now” and I love that. Tyfs and reminding us how precious life is and another great video. Desi is adorable in his little sweater.🧡

[@Marilyn-np2xh]

Little Desi looks so smart and dapper in his orange sweater!! 🥰😘😊 I loved Andy Williams. Moon River anybody? 😁 Fall is my favorite season! Love ❤️ the crispness in the air and the beautiful colors.

[@yvonneb2327]

Yes Moon River was played for our Bridal Waltz 55 years ago , very nostalgic to hear of it again . Cheers !

[@lindamyers953]

I love anything Andy Williams sang, and still do! I will be playing his Christmas albums soon!🇺🇸🤗💜

[@Floppyearsmomma]

My power thought is "Someone needs my love today."

[@dianabrown833]

I dried my blue hydrangea blossoms and used them on my Christmas tree. They looked so beautiful.

[@barbaradykema3441]

A few years ago I bought a used flute and started playing in a small group at church. Then I took a big jump and joined a start up community band. It was a dream I've had for awhile and this opportunity will really stretch me. I'm so thankful!

[@carolseven3802]

Children get so excited over decorations. I still decorate for all of the holidays and I’m grateful for the little ones who visit.

[@janjones91]

My faith in God helps me make it through each day after loosing my beloved husband 7 years ago…Bless you and sweet Dez 🙏💐🙏

[@catherinekostecki5740]

Susan, thank you so much for coming into my home every Saturday night. You are my weekly free therapist. You are so lovely and you say all the right things.❤

[@marisac66]

This is such a beautiful video. I have had such a transforming 5 years of my life. The most valuable things that I have learned is to let go, know that I am strong in every way, be grateful for what I do have and the people that stand tall with me in life. To be able to forgive myself and practice self love. I am here for a reason and purpose. I am grateful. 🌺🙏🏼

[@lindah1515]

I am 82 and have been a widow for 27 years. I try to stay active and see friends once a month. I also have hobbies and a precious little dog. I am grateful for all the blessings in my life. I love seeing your videos and little Desi. ❤

[@eleanorbertuch135]

Every morning I am thankful for all my blessings❤️and all the blessings God has coming my way😇

[@user-iq9cm9nw1b]

Your house is so cozy. Would you show more strolling downtown and thrift stores and shopping. Then shown us where in your house you put your treasures. It would be nice to see how you have decorated your home. I watch you every Saturday.

[@claudiamendezporter3816]

Every morning I think of it if a new beginning to do the right thing, to love, to enjoy the little things and do a good job with my business. To me every day is a new opportunity to do it better than the one before and see it happen 😊

[@andyanderson9961]

Emotions have no brains, we need to use common sense & logic when we make decisions in the midst of heartache. The love & prayers of family & friends help support us in our difficulties. Your hydrangeas are beautiful, your hair looks great too!! Happier calmer life: good friends, great books, coffee in the garden, enjoyng the silence & solitude of living alone, sitting under the Mulberry tree & listening to the birds & rustling wind.❤

[@gailjones9461]

I love how cozy warm and comfortable you have decorated your home. Desi is the cherry on top of the cake such a cute sweet boy.

[@MsMarshall12]

Lost my husband in April and since then I've been doing things to push myself forward. I still work at 68, I have a home business. I'm learning new things, programs like canva. Yes I have my days of missing him, however, each day God give me, I know I still have a purpose for being alive, so I move forward. I try not to stress over things I can't change, what's the point, right? Dear friends around me, love from my family and my faith has made a huge difference too. I never had children my brother and 2 sisters are so close. Sorry so long, the advise I would give people who are going thru tough times, well we all do, it's just believe in yourself, trust in God and Jesus, keep faith that things will be better, and do something to help that along. The alternative of giving up should never be an option. Love you, and as always love seeing you and that sweet boy Desi

[@marymogckmishmashmary]

My motto is, if it is to be, it is up to me. It reminds me that I do have control and I can move forward.❣️

[@2cmrinhfx]

You are so sweet. Your decorating was lovely and the power thoughts were as well. I feel you are a gift to many others, your journey has led you here perhaps partly because it was what you needed, but more because others needed you. There is no other channel like yours. God works in mysterious ways. You are where you are supposed to be. And for that, we are all grateful.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much! Happy Fall! You are so pretty!

[@invictus1961]

Wonderful, encouraging words......love your home and garden! Have a wonderful week.

[@srobs1216]

I look forward to your videos every week, and I feel a little sad when they are over till the next time. I always feel like we are two friends having a good chat. I love you and Desi bunches. ❤❤

[@maureenhale4768]

Oh Susan what a lovely video, I moved back to England after living 14years in France my husband passed away 3 years ago so I had to pack and sell things out of the house and then sell it the only thing that I could afford is a bungalow that needs a lot of work doing to it the owner left it in a terrible mess at the moment I only have a recliner to sit on I have had plans drawn up for a kitchen extension which will take place in January it will replace a conservatory that is in a very poor state its hard to keep patience because I am having to save and I only have my pension coming in but like you say I will get there with my dreams 😊 take care and stay safe Susan

[@sabinekoch3448]

Such a project to handle alone - but your dream will happen, I’m sure! ❤Sending you the best wishes for daily successes - I have to move in a year’s time and MUST get all the paperwork in my house sorted ( teacher, you know…😊) … my husband died three years ago as well and there is some of his too.

[@lisab8818]

Ms Susan, your wisdom and creativity uplift and inspire me and others. Every time!

[@LittlePoet]

Oh you are so sweet!!! Happy Fall!

[@margaretohara7250]

Great video Susan filled with wisdom. Hello precious Desi. You look so adorable in your Fall colors. Blessings.

[@AutumMoon406]

fall is depression time for me, i am and watching you and listening to you uplifts me. thank you ❤. i can’t even think anymore from it. i not finding any joy at all. sorry to burden you with this, but i just have to explain why i haven’t been on much 🙏🏻🌹💐my dreams were crushed by my own family. it’s a hard thing to be alone knowing they don’t want me around and even said it to my face. i’m so hurt in the heart. 💔 i guess it’s because i am sick and no one wants to helps me at all. they walked away and said good luck with that. for no reason. i feel thrown away. like i wasted my life.

[@susanne4028]

Just watching you sitting and talking in your beautiful dress with all these autumnal decorations around you just makes me happy and content. Thank you.🧡🤎🧡🤎

[@heatherweingarten2276]

I have been wanting to tell you that I’ve seen pictures of when you were younger. I really think you are way more beautiful now. Your beautiful face, lovely sweet voice, great sense of dressing and decorating your home. Thanks for being here to make all of our lives better.

[@LittlePoet]

You are way too good to me! what a lovely heart you have to be so kind~! Happy Fall Heather!!!

[@salinak1497]

"The sun is alone too, but it still shines." I read that recently and it made me smile. 🌞

[@LittlePoet]

so sweet!!! I think Mr. Sun hangs out with Mrs. Moon!!!

[@PatriciaHeywood-o6c]

Patricia Heywood Another magical video. I look forward to hearing from you every Sunday here in the UK. Every Sunday I wake up with a little excitement that it’s Susan and Desi day. I’m grateful for every day I’m given now that I’m nearly 75. My family are all short lived and don’t reach 70 so every single new day with my amazing dogs is a blessing I’m so grateful for.

[@jeanieturner5183]

That is such a sweet story about your granddaughter. Kids say and can do the cutest things. I do live alone but I know I am not alone because God says he will never leave you or forsake you. What a wonderful thing to be thankful for when you are facing hard times.

[@glendacarpenter2767]

Fall is my favorite time of year, just breathe in the beauty and be thankful for being able to see it , and experience it, again for another year, it’s a precious gift for us 🍁🍂

[@veronicat.martinez4222]

I'm grateful for my faith. Starting my day in prayer, even if just for a few minutes, helps set my day. Things don’t always go perfectly, but I know that I have the perfect heavenly Father who is by my side just waiting for me to turn it over to him, whatever the worry, or problem, tomorrow is another day and yesterday's issue is not as big. ❤

[@Catocreek]

@littlePoet Susan, you are an angel!! I am so broken from loss and you have given me hope. I look at your videos almost everyday to remind me of the beauty that is still around me! I've started back at my thrift marketing, getting out for walks in nature and the slow business of redecorating to make my home a cozy place full of things that bring me joy. You have inspired me to get out and back into life again after losing my partner and family. I have no words but grateful a higher power let me find you! ( and Desi!) Much Love! Susan 🙏♥️✨

[@LittlePoet]

I truly love you right back... There is so much to learn and love, to understand, accept and conquer...so many laughs and smiles waiting for us. September brings the bluest skies even though the wind begin to blow so cold. I am honored you are here...:0 xxooSusan & Desi

[@Catocreek]

@@LittlePoet❤

[@BonnieBeier-vn9ku]

No more excuses. I am in the process of making things happen. Had enough of the abuse. Time for my dreams. Love listening to your wise words.

[@djss7122]

Thank you Susan - I needed to hear your message today. Many Blessings to you, Dezi and your family. With Love, Debbie

[@jillbruce3624]

My first time here and I honestly don't know how I even got here. Devine intervention? I am a recent widow. Married 48 years to my best friend. You were so right when you mentioned going to bed at night and waking up each morning with that empty feeling and overwhelming grief. Learning that I cannot even change a lightbulb or get something off a shelf I cannot reach was scary. I am grateful for the time we had together and that eases my pain. I am going to watch your past videos.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for being here and sharing your life a little with me. I am so sorry for your loss. I was so scared at first living alone. I was married most of my life...I have grown in confidence. I have a small home here so I do not have a lot of pressure in taking care of a huge estate...but still sometimes a leaky pipe can make me feel those pangs of fear. But oh my, over the years you grow to love the solitude and the peace...and that helps you find passion to go out too...much love to you, Susan & Desi

[@lorraineshea296]

Love you Susan and Desi, In my loneliness i went back to Art Groups and started painting again...And try to share some kindness.. Thanks Susan and Desi 💖🇦🇺

[@velmacoen4485]

Hey!!! Is that the new fence....?? I think one thought I try to appreciate.... especially if I'm feeling lonely or worthless... is that my time these days is "my own". I can spend it in any manner I wish. After years of marriage, raising kids as a single mom, and caretaking other family members.... I can now do whatever I want, or nothing at all. Life is good.

[@texasmimi5566]

My wording to myself if I feel I should or shouldn't be doing something and I'm not is "because I can". Gone are the days of having to "obey" a parent, a teacher, a boss. Being retired, I can now do or not do what I want, not what I "have" to do.

[@sylviae6259]

Hello Susan, in every book I’ve ever read this author always thanks and acknowledges certain people. It’s been four years of extreme hardship. We need a change.

[@lillianelliott1868]

I have really missed you. I don’t know how or what happened that you wasn’t on KZbin I just happened to see you on my TV on KZbin. That’s why I looked you up again on my phone. I was so happy. You bring me such joy I’m originally from Michigan I’m 77 years old, I’ve been through a divorce just like you. You’re a beautiful young lady Lord bless you.

[@valerieleigh4776]

Hello Susan. I just turned 65 and really struggling with age! I feel so old! And I’m alone also. Thank you for all your videos on loneliness. I watch them more than once. I have hope! ❤

[@LittlePoet]

There are those days when I do feel lonely...and it helps to know we gals are not alone! Sometimes I so wish we all lived by each other! We would never be lonely!!!

[@maureenleclair8773]

Sending Light and Love to Everyone. ❤🙏❤

[@kimneely4034]

I think of my parents most days, they both died in 2020 within 8 weeks of each other but I had them in my life for 61 years & count myself lucky for that. Poor people, who showered me with love always.

[@sueprice4082]

I lost my husband one year ago (47 years married) and I am mourning him but find that I am mourning both parents all over again after several years. Sending love ❤

[@susanblanche9684]

Im 70 years old came from a big family ; had been married 24 years; 2 grown sons that are detached and a 7 grandson i never met 1500 miles away. I had a job i loved for 45 years that was purposeful; i did volunteer work and tried to be a caring person. Now i tell my few friends " Im content and dont need to prove a thing to nobody because i put my time in!!" I do my thing and what is was how it was to be iny life!! I dont waste time going backwards!! Wnats the use?? Once we go to our grave we will soom be forgottom anyway!!! Soon those who knew us will be gone soon after us!!!

[@kasko8550]

Can you travel to visit your children and your grandios? If not, invite them to come visit. Reach out and make the connection! All the best!

[@giraffeview3923]

Susan = Love. Thank you for blessing us with the light that comes through your eyes and smile into our hearts and spirits. No doubt that love is from above, 'every perfect gift is from above'. "He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith....." One of the absolute joys in eternity will be the eyes and smile that we see now, only even somehow more perfected. Blessing you with the Love that we are blessed with in you.

[@MaryEllenAfter60]

Good morning Susie. I don't think you realize how much joy you give me. I'm thrilled every time I see your beautiful home, yard, flowers, and Desi running around. I've been missing his yoga poses, lol. Also, I love how many people watch your beautiful videos. So I guess you could say your channel is a happy place for me. Love to you, and The Dez...Mimi

[@LittlePoet]

Oh gosh, I sure would love to talk to you soon!!! I am doind a vidoe on sharing credit and you were the first person I thought of..without KZbin I would not be in my little house and with you, I would not have KZbin...You are my rock and I am oh so greatful Mimi!!!! Much love always!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sues & Da Dez

[@GailFeltman]

Desi is so handsome all ready for Fall! 🥰🥰 You’re amazing! I never knew to do this with those flowers! What a wonderful idea! ❤️❤️

[@Mphscat]

Such a great video today. Yes be grateful for everything every day. Thanks for being such a good friend to so many Susan.

[@CJay-q9f]

Susan, one thing I'm doing now that is widening my view and opening my mind is I'm asking God to let me see others as He sees them. It's an amazing adventure, Happy Fall!

[@shirleyannmcwhirt-ireton3216]

Just wanted to say after raising my daughter, son (now in their 50's) and then my four grandchildren now all in their twenties, all live far away now. And after being an early childhood educator for thirty plus years, the worst feeling isn't being lonely.....it's being forgotten! That seems to be where I am now. Some days, my heart just hurts.

[@cherylthepearl827]

My home is filled with faux candles and fairy lights. I enjoy Luminera candles from QVC in many sizes and even taper candles. Your summer crush hydrangeas are lovely. The ones I have are blue and some purple and a few pink depending on the acidity of the soil. Desi is adorable in his pumpkin sweater and bow tie. Mr. Sun, Sun, Mr Golden Sun, please shine down on me! My 5 yr old granddaughter luvs nature too and the moon especially and we call out for our Mr Batty to fly over us each evening, catching any bugs. Being thankful and talking to Jesus makes me calm. Thanks Susan and the Dez. ❤😊🐾🦇🍂🐸🐭

[@UpstateGrammy]

"One foot in front of the other" and sticking with my routines help me in difficult times.

[@sallyjaynes2433]

Precious pup Desi🐶, precious life & precious change of seasons 🍁🍂🌾🌻🎃. P.S. My seasonal bliss is driving through sloping roads of beautiful farmlands of quaint homes fielded with horses 🐎 & cattle 🐂. Nature's true life bounty .....

[@jacquelinecassidy8682]

Thank you for today’s video. It was a much needed pep talk. Well I’m finally taking the plunge. Purchasing the little home I’ve wanted for the last couple of decades at age 63. I’ve been terrified one moment and excited the next and often wake up in a cold sweat wondering am I too old for this?! You have helped me so much. Your calm voice and sparkling eyes and encouraging words. You don’t tear down; you lift up. That is a wonderful gift and I am so grateful. I see you decorating and though I’ll need to do a little remodeling to get into my home, I feel more confident after “talking with you” that it will all work out. ❤ thank you. I’m gonna need a hand to hold.

[@user-gh9ow5lg3z]

Hello Susan, I am 75 and everyday when I wake up, I have to make the choice to try to be happy and I count my blessings. Most days, it works, but, there are days in the week where I just feel depressed and have to talk to myself throughout the day and pull myself out of those feelings. I am fortunate to have children and grandchildren that I see every week. Referring to your video from last week, I fight those feelings of " there is nothing left, it is all over ". Another feeling to battle. Like another viewer stated there are a lot of us out there. Life is an on - going process for all of our days. I just didn't think that it would be so hard as I got older. I have made big strides, unwanted divorce, death of a spouse and having to move from the east coast to Nevada because the kids and grandchildren were moving here 4 years ago. I don't think that I will ever feel that this is " home ". My mom used to say that as one ages, don't tell anyone your age because people judge you by that number and think that you are too old to enjoy life and laugh and be adventurous. Thank you for all of your videos, they do help and I can't get enough of little dezi! Linda fr Las Vegas

[@LittlePoet]

Yes....I think hormones do affect us...I think some days are real challenge! I can be so happy and then a simple headache will make me despair! What helps me so much is I know those moods pass and I also know I am not alone! Life is so good...sometimes I just have to remind myself to relax and breathe....I am so very grateful for every moment...thank you so much for being here!

[@jackieo8693]

I love summer and I always feel a little sad in the fall. Thanks for sharing your ideas! I need to be more grateful!

[@rt3box6tx74]

Same. I can't wait for cooler fall weather, but the minute its here I begin dreading drab winter days and long winter nights. Wish I could hibernate like a bear.

[@anitaclemens2609]

Thank you, Susan. I always enjoy your talks. It is so nice to hear from someone my age and how they are doing. BTW, your house looks amazing. Nice job decorating. And Desi with his cute orange sweater...too cute. I went out in my backyard in the middle of your talk to cut some of my Hydrangeas and put them in boiling water. Mine are blue and shades of blue and lavender. They are in my 3-season porch looking so pretty. I am an optimistic person so every day, I am somewhat happy and grateful. I came from working class and went to state colleges and public schools. I didn't have big dreams, just a nice house and a comfortable life. I have that now and I am semi-retired (I work during tax season). This is the happiest I have ever been in my life. No school and no work, just doing what I want, even though at this age I have lost a lot of people and pets I love. Being 70 is a challenge, with husbands getting sick, you getting sick and friends getting sick. Yesterday, I had a colonoscopy where the doctor found 3 polyps and the doctor is sending them to the lab to screen for cancer. You bet I am scared. I won't know anything for two weeks. I couldn't eat for a day and a half, prior to the procedure, that was tough. I had a big cheeseburger and fries when I finally left the doctor's office. I couldn't believe I could eat that much. Where did I put it all. LOL My mother took singing lesson at the Boston Conservatory for opera. She could really sing. Before she was married, she was in the chorus at a local theater group. But once she got married and had kids, and she never pursued singing again. I thought she had the talent to do something, but she never did. She always had an excuse, like your mother.

[@tracy12.12]

Thank you for sharing your love, care & wisdom and for encouraging us to let go of past situations that no longer serves us. When I first started following you from my other channel, I was in a very depressed state. You have helped me by reminding me to make the best of myself and to start loving myself again. We share lots of things in commons such as having a child when we were young and I have just recently found out through ancestry that my father who raised me is not my biological father. Like you, I have discovered half siblings and now we are in the process of getting to know each other. Susan, I think you are a wonderful Woman and an inspiration to us all. I appreciate you and I send you all my love & respect. God bless ❤🙏❤️

[@egwthe1]

Jehovah is great. My parents will celebrate 70 of marriage next year. Out of 7 kids only 1 passed on. So lucky to have my family.

[@kalezi]

I so enjoy seeing your world in the north. I live in the south and we still have hot humid days. As a child I lived in the north and I still miss it after 60 years. Your fall is knocking at your door while our fall down here is just peeking around a corner. Desi looks so cute. Give him a hug and a kiss from a neighbor down south. And remember, when you pick your blooms and put them in a vase get all leaves out of the water. If you look it up your neighbors around the world will tell you why its recommended. And aren't grandchildren wonderful! I have two close by. One driving and looking toward college. The other almost 24 who has FOXg1 so is like a big 18-3 yr old. We have fun together. Family is wonderful and I know that not everyone has that. But we can make a family can't we!

[@falineginghofer9858]

Thank you, For all you have said. I am going through some of these things. I needed to have someone outside of me say you are strong. Love Faline in California Thanks for always being there. I tell myself you can do this.

[@LittlePoet]

You got this....it's turly is always darkest before the beatuiful dawn

[@juliefizpatrick513]

Hello Susan and all her followers:). I think we all go through some tough times but if we wake up another morning then I realize God’s given us another opportunity to keep on! Some days may be harder to deal with but we must be thankful and grateful for even the tiniest pluses we do have. There are just some things we can’t control so it’s best to leave that up to our Heavenly Father. Be patient and enjoy our blessings:). Listening to Susan each week brings me comfort and joy! Your home is just so warm and welcoming no matter the season but your fall touches of color and whimsical feeling makes me so happy! Desi was such a delight in his dapper sweater💕😊🩷🙏🩷🙏🩷🙏🍁💐

[@LittlePoet]

OH thank you so much for your sweet words!!! Happy Fall, much love, Susan & Desi

[@janeashton2027]

Hi Susan, l love this video, l know what you mean about Grief, l have been going through it know for 3 years, l am so grateful l am still here and for every day l wake up and enjoy my family and friends, and recently some old friends have found me, that l went to public school with, l feel so grateful for having them back in my life, you and Desi have a brand new week, hugsssss ❤❤❤

[@junejowsey7983]

Autumn Is my favourite season. Our weather here in the North East of England has been very unsettled & we're not having a good start to the season. 🤞 it settles. Love the autumnal colours. Really appreciate you showing us your home & your environment. Xx

[@jkalb1744]

Its still over 100where I live! Can't even fathom fall!

[@earthdogpj1]

You have exquisite taste and talent Susan! Your living space is so comfy and inviting and beautifully curated. You live in luxury…. That comes from such a rich inner world expressed outwardly. You’re a rich woman!

[@vernabryant2894]

My favorite time of the year is fall.

[@valeriemcgowan8415]

Oh he looks so handsome!!!😊😊😊

[@Sandra-fg9yo]

My loss consists of loosing my husband Jan 6 2022, mama Jan 1, this year, my dear cousin this July then a special sister in law this month. It's very hard but my help comes from the Lord, my sweet friends & you Susan. My life contains many changes now. My health is changing. Emotions all over the place. The seasons are changing in West Tennessee & in my life. I can't thank you enough for your encouraging thoughts gg