My Family is Not Religious - Nouman Ali Khan

[@StyleLooks]

Mashallah! I can totally relate to this situation. I am a teen convert to Islam and my family is catholic. My mother mocks me because of my beliefs. I still respect and love her dearly, for she is only worried and confused for the time being. She too one day will be Muslim, Inshallah! Thank you for the lecture brother! :)

[@samjib8284]

InshaAllah!

[@luqmanshah7942]

In Shaa Allah

[@practicingmuslim2793]

I Make Dua That Allah SWT Make It Easy For You

[@ramla918]

How is your life now?

[@dariushghanbarnejad1272]

InshaAllah

[@selim996]

Glad tiding to the Strangers ! , who remain religious in this time of temptations and evil.

[@Amatullah0924]

So true, subhan Allah! Sometimes, however, in the case of a convert, things are actually much harder at home. Your family members suddenly become your enemies. I've heard/known of cases where they kick you out of the house, or they just completely disown you, or feel extremely ashamed to be seen with you, or they constantly taint you with disgusting haraam things they KNOW you have to avoid, etc, etc. Plus, the non-stop name calling and insults. Converts go through a lot, subhan Allah, alhamdullah. There is no other option but to grow thicker skin! Alhamdullah for everything and alhamdullah for the guidance to Islam.

[@D1D2_]

I'm sorry to hear that sister, All I can say is that I will make dua for you and reverts that are in those situation to make it easy on you and strenghern your faith and conviction. Ameen

[@nuha6035]

Subhanallah, this are the people allah mentions in the quran. Those who are patient with Islam, for them is paradise without account. May allah SWT make us amongst them. Ameen ya rabbil alamin

[@rianicole1989]

As a revert this really helps especially when I felt I needed to give up because I was depressed and lonely

[@anwarulhaq.7935]

You know what??? . . . . . . . . . . . . . ALLAH Loves you 💓💓 Now smile 😊

[@24OakRaiders]

لا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنتَ سُبْحَانَكَ إِنِّي كُنتُ مِنَ الظَّالِمِينَ ...none has the right to be worshipped but You (O Allâh)], Glorified (and Exalted) are You. Truly, I have been of the wrong-doers." (Al-Anbiya 21:87) Please copy and paste.

[@arhumilyas1]

I hope Allah provides brother nouman a place among the best in jannah, Ameen

[@fatimaislam31399]

Relate to it all.. I pray for sabr thats all I can do.

[@azizulasif2176]

Just Happened. Snapped at father. May Allah guide my father and brother.

[@banished4eva]

This is so true, so so true. when i first heard this it made me tear up. "You wont find husband if you wear that thing!" and how everyone is just waiting for you to get a C to be able to pounce on you. SubhanAllah

[@banished4eva]

OMG 100% accurate. Cousins, family, mom, dad, siblings... they even said the same things u just mentioned

[@bintmohammed2873]

Viewing this again and SubhanAllah jogged my memory and im just grateful for everything Al Hamdu Lilah we have it easy compared to converts and people in the past

[@bintmohammed2873]

Ma Sha Allah didn't know you were a convert :) And Al Hamdu Lilah for everything

[@samjib8284]

Andrei Roxana Elena SubhanaAllah, may Allah make make it easy for you, my dear sister. I love, love converts.

[@practicingmuslim2793]

Thank you for The Lecture I am 11 and i was born muslim but now i became a good muslim and my parents are mocking me and saying that im missing out on life

[@hassaneid4711]

Practicing Muslim279 Am proud of u. Keep up the good work. U will be rewarded in the end

[@TheMercifulServant]

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[@auntb4573]

Its very hard you know when I got my prayer rug my father said I think this is for muslims they use it to pray I told him no they dont and ill just use it for when I do yoga lol I said that because when I tell my family im doing yoga im actually praying

[@zeezeebo]

May Allah give u the courage to tell them the truth, and May Allah give them the understanding. Ameen!

[@auntb4573]

Its a nice thought but old Americans are pretty set on their beliefs and culture and ways and besides its something special for me and Allah

[@saraaxx9100]

may Allah make it easy for you. ameen

[@auntb4573]

thanks

[@ahmadpathan5524]

Damn that faith! I'll keep you as my aspiration😋

[@hessahayat3943]

Wallahi its happening with me ammi always yells at me Whn she see i am praying long may Allah guide us to do best with our parents ameen

[@dsiyy]

Subhanallah, this is so true and I can 100% relate to this.

[@TheTstar786]

May allah bless and reward Nouman Ali Khan for the work he has done for the deen. The way he relates the different problems of today through the quran is amazing and beautiful. May allah preserve him. Ameen

[@sueydoz]

Allahu Akbar....thanks to our brother in Islam for this reminder which in this day and age is happening...ppl get shy to be religious and they give up, NEVER GIVE UP may Allah sw guide us all.

[@maukk441]

Going through this. Despite living in a Muslim country there's ridiculous oppression towards Muslims here. May Allah give us all the courage to carry on and may Allah also guide our families towards what is right.

[@syedjaffer2125]

Ma Ukk which country do u live in???

[@cookie24006]

I have exact same story , JazakAllah for this video

[@Megahansum]

Can relate so much thank you ya akhi

[@AyyDeeTube]

Soo true..subhan'Allah. May Allah guide us all

[@iqraiqbal2783]

Omg this is so true, I can really relate to this.

[@syazana5453]

This is so relatable

[@saraaxx9100]

Wallahi ! This is so relatable! JazzakAllah Ustadh, you always come up with so much wisdom.

[@farali7054]

Going through the exact situation at my place..May Allah guide dem to the right path too.

[@Hadeel0722]

mashallah , jazak Allah khair , amazing lesson as usual

[@komalagha9763]

Jazakallah khair.

[@RawaidahMuzaki]

Subhan'Allah, timely reminder. JazakAllah khayr. May Allah grant us all patience.

[@nadinebee860]

Too relatable may Allah reward you bro Nouman Ali khan

[@mrs1uk]

Jazak Allah Khair for subtitles

[@roshniofficial4771]

Thank you so much

[@farahaqilah6338]

I shd have watch this lecture months ago 😂 thats the unfortunate truth about ppl today. 'we're all Muslims you don't hv to be THAT muslim' Lmao I admit I've thought of giving up multiple times, I felt rebellious. But at the end of the day I know this is the truth and I know what I'm doing is right. Allah had proved his word to me a lot of time, 'verily w every hardship comes ease, w every hardship comes ease', and it did. I don't want to EVER give up on my dream upon standing in front of my lord w no regret at the day of judgement. As long as Allah is w me, I'm gonna be okey. May Allah bless us all.

[@hafinada979]

Ameen

[@sujanaislam6361]

❤️

[@putrimarulia5578]

mashaa Allah. I do really love this speech. Sometimes I become ungrateful person when I realize that my parents really don't like my changing,,, thanks for your sharing

[@zahraahmed7999]

Soo tru subhanallah, your mistakes start being Islam's fault astaghfirullah

[@MsReader111]

Masha Allah great advice.

[@bingi99g]

Very inspiring

[@TheKnightrider06]

May Allah bless you akhi! This really helped me a lot!

[@allynatasya1148]

Well,so true..this really happening,and it's really tough.

[@shammiakhtar2957]

It's a warzone indeed.....

[@quranicascent1554]

very wise words mashallah and a lot of the youth can relate

[@nowrennazir9014]

MashaAllah... I haven't seen the reach lyk him before

[@nadia.f_0019]

I relate 100% my family are secular and very liberal but when it comes to culture they love that

[@yahyaa321]

Subhanallah that was me four years ago

[@ogilviegrantsart6130]

Thank you

[@maryamuddin8017]

Jazakallah for this video. I can relate

[@SummerMystAIDA]

JazakAllahu khairan ♥

[@MrBigmoe88]

so true! jazaka allahu khayran

[@abdulamin4007]

wooow so true.......

[@cutie8393]

I can relate to this because I'm in the same situation now. I'm a born Muslim but my family is not very religious and this year I started learning more about Islam and I feel so good. I want to start wearing the hijab as well but my parents don't want me to wear it. May Allah guide them. :

[@_j_7709]

8 years and this video pops now at right moment. Although , I have realized earlier that , rebelling is not the key . The key is to reflect upon Islam by Behaviour , Character and every way possible . The problem is the hot blood . Am cooling that down for a time being

[@united07ish]

WOW!!!! 100% Amazing and correct, been through it all.

[@ashahid93]

Great message!

[@Amrknegypt]

My story

[@linazemer8907]

Oooh Allah please help the world for believe in the Holy Kuran 💖💖💖

[@MiRaje8086]

So I'm not the only one? WALLAHI, all this happened to me

[@MuhammadjawadParveen]

Bless you

[@asianboyyy117]

What's the original lecture?? Some of this happens to me.

[@Mw2ManDeMz]

Learn how to truly love nothing but only for the sake of Allah and trust me, nothing will ever upset you or anger you when you know you've made Allah happy. Every time they say something you don't like, reply with a smile and show no other emotion even when your hurt.. It may be tough at the beginning but inshallah you will soften their hearts over time. Be a trooper bro! We all go through it but all it does is make us even better Muslims :).

[@ummsulayman907]

Seriously some tyms its too difficult to manage wen ua family has to accept u changing fr the betta ...ofcourse its not lyk dey dont luv us but its jst dey get annoyed fr somedays dat u r not listening to what dey say but den wen dey understand dey begin to praise ....SUBHANALLAH!

[@neematm8266]

I am trying to be the best to my family...but I really wish they would accept some of what I have to say so that we can reach somewhere good. No dice. I'm exhausted tbh

[@knowledgeseeker93]

Assalamu 'alaikum brothers and sisters i think this lecture is taken from a part of the lecture called "islam and ego". I would advice all my brothers and sisters to watch that lecture as it teaches covers alot of points. Also it helps those new practising muslims to avoid making the mistakes that I and many other muslims faced when we started practising. Ma' salama

[@raju53]

good advice, thank you

[@kendjinone830]

Don't wake up your kids in the morning to go to school instead wake them to go to the real sucess (prayer) "Verily in the remembrance of Allah do heart find peace"

[@rehanagali]

Good lesson

[@noorofjannah9541]

what if your families influence starts slightly affecting your imaan? what should we do in this situation.

[@Az1525774]

Subhanallah so true :')

[@speakthetruth3768]

My condition spoken here They always try to provoke me and always say mullah moving Haifa Oh this is the way of molvi

[@asmaame447]

Shokran

[@tikauknow]

😢😢😢

[@ummsulayman907]

Can relate dis :)

[@adampeace6523]

EXACTLY!!!!

[@islamtube8427]

2:58 3:00 am 13 and i go through the whole world not just my parents now am suffering depression do you have and reminders?

[@NarutoUzumakiofficial]

my most of my family isn't religious. i'm christian but i don't think myself as super religious. i just believe in having a relationship with Christ and loving others.

[@neematm8266]

Only at the masjid I feel at home

[@unmeaninglessly143]

the other way around was taught by shaytans. and it has become the norm of the world. it is indeed very hard to resist it.

[@pavanguru2469]

Is this incidents really happens in muslim family..?? Does family members say this??..is it true..??

[@MunirDalle]

my dad constantly obligate me to shave my beard . I wonder if I should stop accepting this

[@JonMacSAS]

Can someone explain to me why speakers always give examples of Non muslim parents vs Muslim person i.e. Ibrahim & his father. Its very different when both parties claim to be muslim, it causes far more problems. I don't feel this example can relate to anyone who is not a convert.

[@JonMacSAS]

Mohsin Raza The families still hold to core beliefs though. This one is Pagan (Polytheist) vs Monotheist. The problem with families is Monotheist vs Monotheist. It's the difference between conflict with 2 countries and conflict within a country; civil war. The liability is different so the course of action will be different. Likewise with this situation. There is no lesson by anyone on Muslim parent vs Muslim child. As the rights that parents have over the child are clear, that they cannot disobey the parent unless what they say is against islam. But as long as the parent believes what they have said is not against islam, they will assume they have the right to absolute power over the child. Since there are no speakers on this, many people leave your faith since there is no reconciliation, not even when the children spend more time at home to do chores. It's good advice because it offers a solution, but only one, and it will only work for some if at all.

[@JonMacSAS]

***** That's exactly my point, this is a Muslim parent Vs Muslim child. It's a different situation, and what I am saying, is that I've never seen a speaker talk about this issue with a good example. I've seen them make examples that are kind of similar like the one on Ibrahim (Abraham) but not Muslim vs Muslim. My issue is simply that if this is such a great problem, why is no one able to provide a good solution. The solution offered here I've known to be ineffective.

[@JonMacSAS]

***** Relax mate, I don't have a problem with the video except that the example I feel is poor. If you like this Nouman guy like so many, it doesn't bother me. What I'm saying is that I've known the politeness approach to not work. I have a few friends who are muslims, others are 'muslim'. Apparently what Nouman is talking about is a big problem, but I don't see any speakers giving relative examples with their ideas. I'm not interested in getting into a religious debate, that's why I had only brought up 1 point. The fact that the examples on this topic by speakers is poor - hence why it matters (as you asked) because the solution doesn't work.

[@JonMacSAS]

Lol, I don't know what Sahabas is, I'm not a muslim, I don't know if I made that clear.

[@JonMacSAS]

Lol, poor attitude mate, I was talking about an important issue, something which should concern you whether I ask the question or not. Stop being offended so easily. A lot of muslims have this rubbish idea that non-muslims simply want to argue. If I ask a question about your religion, isn't it a good thing that I took some interest in it? Just because the answer isn't simple doesn't mean I'm trying to 'pinpoint a negative'. If your religion is true then the videos audience is anyone. I here that Allah apparently calls to a muslims heart and his understanding. But too often I see emotionally charged muslims who do not use their common sense. Don't tell me the video was not pointed at me, your speakers would beg to differ.

[@firstnamelastname8994]

Convert to Christianity! The REAL religion of peace!

[@Maryam7862010]

No.

[@user-ob2kq4nq9s]

No

[@hooman467]

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