My Fiancé Called Off the Wedding, Claiming I Cheated on Her and Outed Me as a Cheater. Years Late...

[@ajzephyros7454]

We fooled around a couple times as kids that's just what siblings do, NO NO IT ISN'T

[@UNITED-STATES-OF-MURICA140]

Sweet home Alabama

[@systemverilog4727]

"Brother and sister are really close, they must be _doing it"_ is not something that teens joke about either, except the absolute most friendless pervs who everyone ignores anyway. Whatever this dude needs to tell himself, ig.

[@SenatiaA]

She was grooming him.😮

[@annabellegarcia4240]

I'm floored!!! Who does that?.????

[@HauntedGalMars]

OMG THANK YOU!! As someone with two older brothers... EWWWWWWWWWWW. I've never seen them naked on accident... like... ewwwwwwwwww

[@jvbutalid8316]

"Changing in front of each other when we're teens" Bro, that's not normal

[@ItalicMan420]

Yeah teens was a crazy statement

[@Spacemanct]

Your sister is in love with you in the wrong way op.

[@TaleToast]

That's an interesting take. It's definitely a complicated family dynamic that he needs to navigate carefully.

[@superiorrule34]

Older sister has a brother complex.

[@TaleToast]

That's a possibility to consider. The relationship dynamic can be tricky, especially with how things have unfolded.

[@redluca56]

WTF. That second story, I don't care how aggrieved she is, that is not the way to go about it. What a spiteful cow.

[@shadowcollins4589]

Spiteful cow😂 I'm stealing it

[@PhilipJFry58598]

Story 2: she is playing a very dangerous game I know a lot of people that would have killed her for that.

[@loganblackwood2922]

She wants to keep it all in the social domain where other women cheer her on, tell her it's all his fault and they can haves access to unfettered aggression towards him. This is until someone with unresolved trauma thanks to an abusive woman or women, decides now they'll make the world a little more just. This is a dangerous game women play because they're sold on the notion men can never do anything to them. Personally women like that get what they give out to the world and I wouldn't shed a tear.

[@Knives7777]

100% I am going to jail.

[@Vipershadow1]

Yea the beats 🥊🥊

[@thegreygoblin5165]

That's...not an appropriate response dude

[@chuuninlyndon]

17:42 wouldn't have happened if he told his mom what she did lmao

[@virtualatheist]

Story 2: Not sure how exgf could think she could be seen in any sort of favourable light.

[@overlord1ful]

Story 2: Reads like this girl has never been broken up with. She's always been the one to break up. Also I doubt it was some random dude, she was too ready so he's probably her side piece.

[@engiturtle65]

the irony of s2 where the girl attempt to paint op in a bad light, she can try what she want, she'll fail

[@raeishimura]

Did second story ex-GF actually think that her little demand was going to make her look BETTER? All i see is not just that she's awful for what she did, but she's extra screwed up on top of that. She's a spiteful wretch

[@FrostLordOni]

It brings me great joy to know that this woman is seething and malding over the fact that Reddit knows she’s a trashy person. I hope she never gets over it, she’s a genuine piece of shit of a person

[@KarmaTube5]

If op was smart, he could’ve sued her for defamation. You can’t put a person real name on blast like that

[@shadowcollins4589]

​@@KarmaTube5oooh I didn't even think about that I wish we knew the end of the story I would LOVE to read that he took her ass to court😂

[@SenatiaA]

OMG, Grace knew better, but she would say that it was normal or that she was just joking. He was freaking groomed by his sister.

[@TBomb15]

let's be clear, feeling an attraction to a family member is a bit weird, but can happen. What IS ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTINGLY WEIRD and wrong is "fooling around when we were younger." The two of you were clearly old enough to know what you were doing if you knew it was "fooling around"

[@Unseen_Fiend]

That is very much NOT what siblings do 🤢🤢🤢🤢

[@Levithos]

S1: The dad not choosing a side IS in fact choosing a side. OP should have told the ball less wonder that he left his balls on the fence he's sitting on

[@franny11786]

Story 1: tf you mean you and your sister "fooled around as kids"? 🤮

[@jvbutalid8316]

Second story. If OP decides to call her out on her BS, she'll cry wolf instead, how she's mistreated by him, how he's manipulative, all that jazz. Only mistake here is dude having no background check on her. He should've never gotten with her. If she can suck some random guy as part of some petty lesson, she had no high ground to stand on. Edit: With that attitude, OP's mother never wanted a son to begin with. She wanted a daughter.

[@L4zyBumone]

Story 1: Sister was aiming for that wincest ending💀💀💀 Story 2: This is why you don't stick it inside the crazy, fellas. Also, OP needs to grow some balls and go LC with the mom since she clearly thinks that it is okay to invite someone as mental as the ex inside her house Edit: Grammar

[@johnnyhall9154]

Story 2: she's so mad this dude who she thought she was superior to wanted to break up with her

[@GoodknightSong]

WTF?! NO.. NO, SIBLINGS DO NOT "JUST FOOL AROUND". Rachel dodged a frigging nuke!

[@TaleToast]

Wow, what a rollercoaster of betrayal! It's wild how your sister could orchestrate something so destructive out of jealousy. I can't believe how your family reacted-cutting ties seems like the only way to protect yourself from their toxicity. Stay strong!

[@Innerpandora]

I was thinking, maybe it might be emotional incest but then he said it wasn’t so I was like, guess not. UNTIL HE SAID THIS 5:20

[@SenatiaA]

Right! He is in denial about his sister's feelings for him.

[@vincentcleaver1925]

3rd one is actually heartbreaking, for OP. Now that she's seen what that looks like, hopefully she can find it for herself?

[@Alphamon27]

"We fooled around when we were younger". I was just waiting for a j/k but the fact that there was no j/k kinda oogs me out. That and the fact his sister thinks no woman is good for her brother gives me GOT vibes

[@jvbutalid8316]

Second story. Dang, that woman belongs to the streets. To quote Nick Fury, "you kiss your mother with that mouth?"

[@ivithos2128]

Grace did do OP a favor, because in his own words Rachel was controlling and jealous. Those are traits of a cheater. OPs mom sounds no better and Grace is unhinged. OP needs to go no contact with the hole family, perhaps move and change numbers if he can't move to a new city. Finally, he needs to step away from the bottle and into a therapist office, or church. Needs to begin working on himself solely with no outside relationships for a while.

[@Polemistis0416]

Yeah. Everyone in OP's life are morally unhinged. The fact that Rachel is being petty by posting "I have a faithful husband" just shows that she isn't mature. Hope that other guy handles her well.

[@Hammyswatch]

S2: you stayed for dinner so don't whine about it.

[@PhilipJFry58598]

Exactly why the hell would he stay. Would have left the moment I saw her

[@tabicat.puccino7425]

Agreed if it was his house he could have called the police for trespassing or just leave

[@virtualatheist]

Relationships collapsing is one thing, but spaghetti is spaghetti.

[@Innerpandora]

@@virtualatheistI’m not Italian but I can’t resist a big ol’ plate of thick slippery girthy noodles in my mouth 😋

[@tabicat.puccino7425]

@@virtualatheist then take the plate and just leave

[@InTheDemonsWake]

s2: dare you to try that in the south with people that own guns

[@RepellentJeff]

“I do not have feelings for her that way, and I know she doesn’t either. We fooled around a couple times as kids-“ *_You are not helping your case, dude._* Edit: Story 2: Yeah, OP has no balls. If someone pulled that on me, they’d be giving gummers for the rest of their life.

[@badgerp-chanqueen7707]

Sibling rivalry become more toxic this day.

[@tabicat.puccino7425]

Op1) Tell your ex, it might not help but it will give her closure and stop any resentment also you could sue your sister somehow also go NC with everyone in your family, also move away your sister is sick in the head 2) Go NC also why the hell did you stay? It’s her fault, if it was your house you could have called the police for trespassing or just leave, you didn’t say they were restraining you 3) I see where you’re coming from

[@ArcticAngelYT]

Bro ngl I feel bad for op in the third story but "My ex looks at me like a potato" is fucking hilarious

[@20puskinas1992]

Another side of the coin: Sister did him a favor... Fiance is terrible if she trown away everything whitout 100% proof.

[@rmhartman]

not taking sides is taking sides

[@ItalicMan420]

Oh nah, that second story gave me second hand hatred. Justified crashout if he decided to do so.

[@endlesslabyrinth5968]

Story 2: Dudes gonna cut his mom out of his life and she's gonna wonder why she's alone or in a nursing home... This is why. She showed no respect to her sons wishes so once the pain compiles enough hes gonna take drastic measures either in a good way or a bad way for himself but it is definitely gonna suck for her. Now as for the ex that woman is destined to live a sad life if she gets off on tormenting you... Best thing you van do is move on and gind a real woman who will be with you through thick and thin cause she wont like the fact that your happy... THAT will be the greatest revenge cause shes so miserable that shes gotta make someone else the same to get by, when that fails they usually either self destruct or wallow through life till they grow up emotionally

[@iamhector24]

Fooled around with your sister… wut?

[@zachmedlin2608]

Sister sounds like she plays the banjo.

[@nessaFernandez-pv5qf]

2 story. She made herself look even worse.

[@jasonscales2522]

OP in story 1 dodged a bullet!

[@deadsouljaguar7041]

"We fooled around a couple time as kids, that what's what siblings do." Wtf does that supposed to mean? If it's that, then 🤮 but yet again, Rachel was controlling and jealous so 🤷, Grace did Op a favour, I guess.

[@KarmaTube5]

Nope that’s a sister complex. Fooling around as siblings is not normal

[@nollnollett]

Story 2 is the definition of 'not wife material'.

[@lamoskgr]

5:22 What do you mean "we fooled around a couple times as kids but that's what kids do?" Whaaaaat? Is that normal in the US? 😨

[@bennyfugazzi1054]

S2 What a sick 304 That’s some next level 🤮

[@silverwurm]

Why do I get the feeling that op2 got with his ex because she’s just like his mom (ie batshit crazy)

[@sierrastanley3109]

Sweet Home Alabama 🪕

[@Knives7777]

S2: This dude is a spineless loser. I don't even care if the girl is awful. I would be in jail if someone did that to me. Dude sat with his mom after she did that to him? Dude is a literal clown

[@lyraflow9154]

Ops last post on reddit has the title "TIFU choosing to do No Nut November and being unprepared for the boner"

[@JTtheMid]

With story 2, she couldve just broken up with him. Wtf is she on? Slutting it out for the sake of spite?

[@nicknitro86]

Uh what ---- "I was instructed" grow some balls, dude? This dude literally has zero nuts, god damn he just let's everyone walk all over him.

[@mlsslyon]

Siblings do NOT fool around!!!! I vomited 🤮 a little.

[@scarlett4024]

Okay all of this went from small trash fire to mountain of trash and ties type of fires op should ghost all of them and move to a different location all together

[@ARcinder]

Story 2. It was SA! OP is a weak man who allows women to step on top of him. It just pathetic.

[@sweeety969]

S2 OP:I don't want my mom to know that! *proceeds to tell the entire internet*

[@stirrednotshaken4823]

Anonymously

[@boneymeroney2674]

Story 2. Gag. 😮

[@InTheDemonsWake]

"but she kept doing it even when I got my first girlfriend in college." very curious, I wonder why he never dated as a teenager. Totally tinfoil hatting this but what are the chances the sister has been chasing girls away longer than he thinks? 🤔

[@rmhartman]

so... why didn't you break up with her instead of dragging it out?

[@Bloxfruitsistrashlmaocope]

Kinda feel bad for OP1

[@rmhartman]

you don't have anything for your sister, and your said she doesn't have anything for you ... but are you sure about that?

[@PGHFilter]

1st story is a Def mur Sui situation.

[@PGHFilter]

And story 2 is a double mur Sui

[@jamiepetersen6153]

S1 I get how he did it was bad she should have done it different but in the end the sister saved him from being like their dad a doormat to their wives

[@lyraflow9154]

Story 2: Ops last post was 1 year ago and has the title 'TIFU choosing to do No Nut November and being unprepared for the boner' I can't read it because it's 18+ and I don't have an reddit account. But for everyone who already thought he was weak, there you go

[@endermenon4836]

Do S1 and his sister live in Alabama perchance

[@carlmyers8864]

Both stories are dumb