My First Boyfriend Cheated On Me With Several Girls | The Thirsty Sisters #9

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Although talented, witty and extravagantly beautiful, the Thirsty Sisters’ love lives are always a little rocky somehow. From getting cheated on to having their bank account wiped out, they have experienced it all. Tune in to hear them spill trauma they have yet to revisit since their teens.
2:40 Nina's First "Relationship"
10:18 Syl First "Relationship"
18:40 Nina's First First Love Story
26:40 Syl's First First Love Story
37:40 Advice On First Relationship/Love
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[@leesiyin]

This episode made me like I'm in a pillow talk with u girls sia...so engaging...LOL

[@branliu899]

When I was 15 I got dumped by a girl I was sitting next to. She didn’t dump me face to face but told everyone in class that I wasn’t cool or smart enough for her. It was traumatising because firstly, I really loved her as I found her really attractive as a person on the whole and the love was based on our chemistry and the conversations we had over time. I secretly cried for half a year as every day I had to sit next to her and see her and so my sec 3 results were so bad. I told no one about how heartbroken I was and pretended that it was just nothing. Sec 4 I told myself to do well, graduate and never see her again. After graduating, we never met again, but because of the heartbreak I became obsessed with my looks. It became part of me to make sure I’m stylish with good skin and hair when the past me was pretty nerdy looking. Btw I only truly got over her after 5 years. I’m the same age as Nina. So now I’ve a girlfriend whom I truly love and want to marry. She’s beautiful and I tell her that every day. The most important part of finding a man is finding someone who isn’t selfish. From a man’s pov, selfish men are manipulative and are usually cheaters because they always put their wants and needs before everyone else’s. This is something which I think cannot be changed, and is definitely not a flaw to be overlooked.

[@sylsylchan]

We are happy for you ❤️

[@jl_eng7959]

✨woah

[@user-fh4gx7cf4e]

aww i'm happy for you 🥺

[@srihana2705]

Im so sorry 😥😳

[@dotaboy888]

simp

[@kyyrocks]

Omg i laughed so bad at the Sikeen got caught only because he was standing there 😂😂😂

[@antabotwippy]

This episode of podcast was good. I remembered all the mistakes I done in my past relationships and I am staying away from any form of relationship to keep on working on myself and one day hoping that the wonderful person will appreciate everything about me in the future. =D

[@vanessahudgens3031]

Omg I just started watching these podcasts and I am so glad that there is finally a local "girly" podcast, heck I would love to join them and talk till the sun goes down

[@wilwong23]

i got to say, this podcast is getting me through this lockdown very well. Not only relevant, but informative and very much allows people an insight to things going on in their lives and the hardships they go through. I love it. Love yall so much

[@ghysrocks]

Really enjoy how candid and real your podcasts are, very entertaining to hear both of your stories! My last relationship was quite traumatising too because it was my first actual relationship, and it made me wonder if I really knew him.

[@yuyingrachelwong5245]

I am SO SO entertained! Thank you TTS!!! Let's shine bright like a diamond together ladies 💗

[@sylsylchan]

Thirsty sisters unite! ❤️

[@raymondhartono]

Her story is like the exact first episode of world of married couples, I can’t believe it happens in real life 😳

[@study_beagle6779]

I actually was having quite a bad day but as usual the THIRSTINESS made my day again love y'all

[@joycleenljx]

I srsly loved this podcast, i rlly felt like i'm physically there and present wif you guys. Thanks for sharing!!

[@shanmughavadivu4071]

The best podcast ever 💗💗💗💗love them sooo much eh

[@adrischong85]

I have enjoyed this episode! Very engaging & entertaining! Looking forward for more!

[@jonhenderson7317]

24:15 me reacting to myself making bad decisions in my love life🤣

[@jomatojerries2778]

loveee this series!! 💗

[@jesss1c4]

U guys make my day

[@gbrlchin]

Thank you for sharing... I think being friends with both of you would be incredible :) keep up the good works ;))

[@Petlover1433]

Yayyy!!! New podcast!!!!!!! 🥳🥳 Confirm will laugh a lot de😂 and also learn some lessons too!!!

[@sweephitrun]

LOL i died at the sikeen gangfight story

[@poppyykawaiii]

When you're so early that there're only "Hi" comments

[@leticiakhor5985]

This episode make me like I'm in a pillow talk with you girls sia....so engaging...haha. Copyrighted❤️

[@khairahkamail2870]

41:13 Nina here is a whole mood 😂

[@annclarissa5469]

omg... by the time i was in primary school i knew of classmates that kissed at p3 and the whole cohort was full of chaotic energy that year onwards.. HAHAAHAHA

[@nicholaskwek2582]

The story of past bad relationship is way to long and kinda too much to share on YT comments section... Hahahah.. but really thankful y’all “dare” to open up and share such intimate stories.. way to go! Ps: Nina, after my bad breakup, i really focused on self love such as solo traveling, part of the trips itinerary wasn’t planned just to push myself. Didn’t open up relationships until much much later. You got this girl!

[@BlueCutie6166]

At a young age, the concept of love and heartbreak isn't very apparent. They cheated because 1. They did not see a relationship as something to be exclusive to 2 people 2. They did not know how much it will break someone 3. They're basically just trying everything out 4. They love parts of a few people but isn't brave enough to commit to one when many people are attracted to them. I was cheated on in my first non serious relationship and it still cut me deep. It's not about having feelings broken but also about blaming ourselves for being so gullible and trusting because we want someone to see the good in us, to choose us.

[@heubert]

100% funniest podcast ever 0:16:asmr sound for the day 😂

[@shayminlee8452]

Thanks for being so open and honest about your past relationships. I agree that having a trusted friend to weather through these painful breakups would help alot but I guess when you're going through it, you just can't.. and you're often found curling in a ball on your own. I'm glad you both have came out of the painful past and now have each other to lean on. I was hoping to hear Slyvia talk about her happy ending (being married) after all that traumatising relationship, but I realised after a while, maybe your marriage life is not the final destination but an ongoing process. I wanted to speculate more but I realised it's really none of my business. I do hope you're happy with Ryan and he is too. If not, I hope it's something you're both working out cos any relationship truly takes effort. As for me, I was in an abusive relationship for five years and another one for four years. Somehow I think I've become masochist. But now that I've been single for a while, I'm learning to love myself first and trying not to depend on others to give me emotional validation and acceptance. It has to come from within first. How to believe in love again..? Well, at my lowest, I experienced God's love and if me..who is so undeserving of love can be loved so much by the God who created the world, I think I can believe I'm worthy for good things..and for love. Am still finding out what I really want, what makes me happy and not doing or becoming what makes others happy. I hope potential gentlemen who are listening to Nina's story would be able to see past her walls and really treat her like what she deserves and treasure her well.

[@valerieshorty82]

YALL im loving this too much

[@j.3015]

This content was actually lit. 👍🏻

[@dojc6526]

nina dont be afraid. the right one will come abt n give you the security you need. i wish u find true love n happiness soon.

[@toffeemlk8115]

had my first relationship with a guy i crushed on for 3 years,thought everything was gg well, he ended it on valentines day via text,wanted to get back together with his ex(my best friend) and now 4 years later hes with another girl. really so true that relationship affects you in the later part of life in the way u think and see things

[@yoonaddict98]

Thank you for opening up to us abt your private lives girls and for still being the strong people we know today. Just to add on, I feel when one wants to talk to someone about relationships, they can look for those who never dated before to get a more objective view bcuz I feel most (not all) people in relationships can understand but not give a v objective opinion. Maybe you can talk to both kinds for different perspectives and make one of your own :) jiayou finding love everyone ♥️

[@ichigosandra]

my first "relationship" was when i was 12, and i got cheated on T-T rly rly traumatizing because the subsequent one also the same

[@candygur83]

My advise is to know your self worth. Once you know your worth, no one can treat you like trash. I know its easier said than done and it may sound too simplistic, but self love is the key to any successful relationship. This applies to friendship as well, not just intimate relationships. I think you both have a beautiful friendship and maybe you can start there by evaluating what qualities you value in each other and seek in a relationship then branch out from there to find your future spouses. All the best you both!

[@gwendolynnllx]

HAHAHA this episode legit make me burst x10000 because it reminded my of my superficial puppy love LMAO I got together with a guy in P5 just because he is “rich” - I think in the earlier days, whoever can afford to use $2 gel ink pen and unlimited correction tape to lend me is great HAHAHA. @Nina I hope you don’t lose hope in finding love!!! Confirm will find de, good things are worth the wait 💖

[@deborahgian]

This is the most hilarious interaction episode. 😅🤣

[@clarkkennmorgana]

I had the same experience as Nina, "Ahmad". I am still phobic about getting in relationships until today.

[@SynG4t3s]

@Nina Tan who ask you date malay la sial

[@lizziehummingbird4201]

I feel the same as Nina. At 15, my ex-bf would always get very touchy with all our friends who are girls. I told him I didn't like it and I was called possessive. Not only that, but he would also run around like their slaves do their requests. Afraid he won't like me if I continue complaining, I would always keep silent and cry at night. In the end, I broke up with him cause I couldn't take it anymore, he won't talk to me, he said all kind of sweet words but never do anything to show it.

[@sher9728]

wahh omg the ahmad story i lowkey relate sis 😔✊ at 15 i got a bf but like we were never official (let's call him ice milo) so ice milo and i were classmates and at that time my mom said I cannot date but I stupid and chose to go out with him. I tried to find a loophole so because we're not official, if ppl ask technically not a bf mahh! But I was interning at my aunt's office 2 months ish into the rs and he passed by so we went for lunch but i got caught! So that weekend my family had family dinner, then my aunt told my WHOLE family about me going out for lunch with ice milo and then I was basically forced to confess that I was sorta going out with him lah. It was super scary cus my mom already told me don't date but they said that as long as I stay focused on my studies and don't come home crying if anything happened because they warned me already. So yeah I continued seeing him for abit and we'll like stay back in school to study tgt and I'd wait for him to finish playing basketball with his frens and we'll walk to the mrt tgt (basic secondary school kids in a rs stuff lurh) But then like 4months in, my sitting arrangement in class was actually behind him and his table partner was this girl I knew since primary school (let's call her teh c) . Then I kinda felt like it was abit off lah (women's sixth sense kinda thing) so I went to ask ice milo if it was just me being weird and asked if he will ever catch feelings for her. He promised he won't and I believed lah. Around one month later we were texting and he said "I love u, but I kinda find teh c attractive" at first I was like oh its ok like I'm cool with it as long as u love me uk but afterwards it started sinking in and idk why i got really upset cus u can't just say u love me and then say u find another girl attractive so I started crying (I rmb I was in a public bus somemore) The next day back in school I tried to pretend like I was okay with it and act normal but half way through the day I couldn't take it and went to the toilet to cry lah (call me dramatic but it was quite heartbreaking cus then i don't rlly know if he actually loved me or was it like to 敷衍 me) so afterwards I actually texted him and wanted to talk to him about how I truly felt and kinda wanted to talk it out like "mature" teenagers but then he started getting petty and saying like how I used to eye candy this other guy even though I told him that ever since I met him I only had eyes for him and he started saying like why I keep flirting with other guys even though they're just my bros and we're just being friendly. I got rlly upset by that and asked for a break just to rethink about the rs lah. After about less than one month later, ice milo texted me and asked if I wanted to break up or continue and it's completely up to me (he said he'll not do it again but like honestly the whole thing sounded damn insincere) so in the end I actually like told him like face to face that it would be better to end things. And that's the end of my 6 months ish rs with my first love. Took me like one year plus to get over him ngl! Me and teh c are still on good terms and she also clarified that she tried not to be too chummy with him either out of respect for me! :) my parents still don't know what happened and I still intend to keep it that way cus it's still awkward to bring it up lah heheh it's not as bad as what nina went through that's for sure but to anyone who is going through heartbreak or is trying to let go, time will definitely help in the healing and it's still a matter of choice whether u want to trust again. Because for me even though I'm like still kinda traumatised, I still choose to believe there are better guys out there and that the next guy I'm with, I could still choose to trust him and not let this one bad apple ruin my future rs! :)

[@arene7300]

its back. i like itt im early!! :)

[@epiphadipity]

huh then the parents never return the money then you should have reported him to the police liao lor.

[@elinne]

I have a story similar to Sylvia's. As a late bloomer and someone who had very low self esteem, a guy I "dated" - let's call him John Tucker - was 4 or 5 timing me and scammed myself and the few ladies of more than $50k in total. He even borrowed a family car from one of our families and got into an accident, whilst sending another girl home. One of the ladies, got pregnant by him and by sheer coincidence, a friend's ex bf realised that said lady and I were seeing the same person. After gathering information from her and other ladies, we decided to lodge a police report. His case was investigated and after all the incriminating evidence of different people depositing lumps of money into the same bank account, he got his payback. This was about 10 to 12 years ago and the last time I saw him was in 2016. Married or not, I'm not sure but he really messed us up big time. On a happier note, the ladies and I are still friends. Like they say, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - or in this case, 4 women scorned. 😊

[@Famhasyaf]

Omg i was eating during the part sylia said ruby sit on ahmad lips lmao

[@wickyang9030]

we hug during sport days and shared drinks HAHA that was during sec 1 like a first rs

[@eugenazre928]

dude all the guys i liked became my best friend. Man it hurt seeing them with the girl they like but man im glad thats over

[@thewhitewhiskers4515]

i was in a serious relationship with a guy (let’s just call him mozzie la hor) for about 3 years+. when i first caught mozzie red-handed for cheating, i remember asking him, “what are you planning to do with the girl?” he nonchalantly replied me, “watch movie only what”. (it was obviously more than JUST a movie because they talked on dating app and wanted to get kinky) wtheck?! so we broke up and he got angry JUST because i wanted to break up with him. fast forward, we patched (because he said that he’s a changed person and he still loved me) and he STILL cheated. again and again and again. he cheated so many times, even with SOMEONE I KNOW. i forgave because i loved him and i thought he would change. but no, he didn’t. throughout our relationship, right from the start, he has been talking and sexting many girls online. i can understand how nina felt and when y’all said that your walls are high and thick. that’s me now too. it’s really traumatising. whenever a guy gets close to me, even if he’s just a nice person or just want to be friends with me (purely friends, nothing else and nothing much), i’d get very cautious and scared. and i wanna thank y’all for discussing about this topic openly because y’all make me feel like i’m not alone and that there are people who understand what i went through and am facing

[@ahallhahhauu2482]

Haha wow really amazing tat u guys can this topic so entertaining also. Hope Nina can meet tat special someone soon.

[@ayanetsunako6281]

I'm 20 and never had my first crush and boyfriend yet lol I never found anyone I really like yet 😅

[@YunHee1997]

While listening to the podcast it remind me about my first love. Its so traumatising. I was like 15years old. So basically how it happen is like he is the alumni of the school, lets name him KL, he would go back to school to help in school event once in a while. And thats we click and got together. But is also when the nightmare started, KL also went after for my teammate. After school he will go find my teammate and lepak (i heard he kiss her ah) in classroom. When that girl went home, he would come and find me after my tuition class. This lasted for quite sometime and when I found out i went to talk to my teammate, realised that both of us like being used so we stopped seeing him. It was so hard to move on since he still appear for school event. Until my one of my friend who was also in the alumni club told me that KL accidentally says out that he was playing with me all along. This is when I felt that i do not have to shed tears for this kind of man anymore.

[@yuan3107]

Wow Yeah Wow What?! So meee 😂😂😂

[@angeange]

Where are your tops from!!? Love it 😍

[@sylsylchan]

We dyed it ourselves ❤️

[@nuratikahhumaira2236]

i remember when my first “relationship”, we kinda dated for like a month and we knew each other from debate, and we from like different school and met in a competition. then i remember out first date was in the movies then he asked me whether can he held my hand or not, but then i was so shy i rejected him cause like my hand start sweating and it was like nerve recking la. then my friend kinda support us and make a plan got us stuck in a game cart and he shoot his shot again. and blablabla we went to our friend holding hands. we were 12 i guess. hahaha

[@ginnitan4088]

love yall❤️❤️🤣🤣

[@cslim5353]

Stay strong and love ur channel ~~ lol

[@cookinginmypjs2302]

This video was so relatable that I really wanted to share something, so here goes my first comment ever on a long-term relationship with youtube. hahaha I feel like my first real relationship relates to both of your stories. Terribly traumatizing. This dude had other girls and lied to me, acted like he was in despair to borrow money (no returns). He probably never loved me because a guy like him would never be interested in someone like me, (back then i was really fat and yikes) so Im sure he was making use of me. But i was 17 and dumb, for a 17yo, taking 1k+ from me is ALOT. Im so glad i finally mustered up the courage to breakoff in the end. Unfortunately, this led me to get into more toxic relationships that caused me to feel worthless, never good enough, trust issues and etc. It came to a point where i became toxic in a rs as well because i was always overthinking, unable to trust (always afraid my partner is secretly texting another girl or meeting another girl behind my back, and even going to the club etc is always scary because idk whats going on there) and just became pure shit towards my partners as well.... But now I have met someone who truly loves me and has taken so much time to help me feel better and be better as a person. I have never been happier as a person in my life. Im still haunted by many things which sometimes still affect how i think in my current relationship but one thing i can say is, you're the only person that can change your own thoughts. I have been so selfish because I thought i was protecting myself all along but i did not realize i was hurting the person who really loves me and wants the best for me for the first time in my life. I think that, once we meet the right person, things will slowly but surely start changing. So what I think the both of you can say to the double As' is that, look at where yguys are now? im sure both of you are doing much much much better than they could imagine. Heck, they might be regretful hahaha. Be proud of yourselves!!! You are your own strength and the one who can love you the most! Dont be afraid to love. After all, love is still something really amazing. Protect yourselves, but dont forget to let yourselves be loved at the same time! (Nina, Aiken is always available :D )

[@SynG4t3s]

Aiken gives off gay (or bi) vibes

[@jiajun898]

Past bad experiences are a good way to learn so that we do not make the same mistakes in the future. But what one "learns" from their experience is their choice. If one learns how to be more selective and learns how to screen out the bad eggs from all the people they meet in their future, then that is good. But if one learns that "all guys are cheats" or "all girls are flirts" from that one bad past relationship, and becomes paranoid in every new people they meet in the future, then they are not giving the new person a fair chance to prove themselves by bringing up their past emotional baggage. They themselves too lose out on a lot of opportunities due to their skepticism. A point to note is that...no matter how much you screen or whatever techniques you use or how much hardwork put in, there is no way to 100% guarantee one will find a good and loyal person and he/she will not change in years to come. This uncertainty is something we call "fate". I would say do what you are suppose to do as a couple, but always be prepared for the worst.

[@woshtech4013]

I was in sec 2 where I sort of had a crush on a classmate (my first crush) I nearly confessed to her fortunately we argued before I confessed so I stopped talking to her. Fast forward a year later I got closer to another classmate which he told me that he was dating her back when I had a crush on her.

[@natashaazmi4390]

I don't think it's just the start of being in an actual relationship that shapes your perception of love. I believe it has also got to do with how you are introduced to love and how it "should" be. I remember growing up I believed love was supposed to be magical like fairy tales and will happen in school like teen romance series. And because of that, I thought finding love in school was a priority (which now I think that's messed up but so relevant to many girls out there at that age). When I was around 13, I got low-key rejected by two boys I had crushes on (not at the same time lol). One lied to our class that he liked me because he was pressured by our classmates to tell the whole class but later on admitted that he felt pressured when our mutual friend confronted him (they liked each other btw). The other told another mutual friend that he knows that I like him just because I always cheerfully say hi to him and that he found it annoying. Well, that obviously made me lose self-confidence and shaped a belief that I'm unworthy of love. That's why even now it's hard for me to believe if someone is actually interested in me because of experiences like these. But hey! Good news is I'm focusing on building up my self-worth now as an adult (I'm 24 now). I think like how Sylvia and Nina said that wow, we need to go therapy after this podcast, jokes aside, therapy can actually help you to understand why you act and believe in certain ways (in this case, how you are in and out of relationships). And to Sylvia and Nina, you ladies are amazing and I'm glad you bring forth issues like these and share your experiences 🥰 Not just thirsty sisters but inspiring ones too ❤

[@Tantantantan369]

“妈 我要四毛啊” cracks me up XD

[@cashmerehazel21]

Nina, I hope you read this. I have been wondering why you are still single when you have such calm, kind, interesting personality (was really intrigued by your caring nature especially in the NOC video on social experiment and your "naughty/ fun" side when flirting on screen with your bro - Dee Kosh). Now that I hear this side of your honest story as well as knowing a bit of your relationship with your family, it is no wonder why you'd built up that thick concrete wall. It is normal to have "PTSD" when it comes to recovering from bad relationships. I had my fair share of bad situations (including being cheated on) too. But if you spin what you said in the video "If you think it's over, it is not!" in a good way, Mohamad has taught you many life lessons and he has indeed contributed to who you are today -- a fiesty, energetic, upright soul that stands up for yourself and those close to you! What he had left behind in you is not "wasted", it was all for the betterment of who you are today. It is not PTSD as you thought it was, in fact it is the *PTSD = Prologue To Sophisticated Development*. You are developing into a more beautiful person through the ugly experiences and nobody can take away those precious lessons from you. On a side note, my first cheating boyfriend told me that my cooking sucks. 7 years later, I am now the best cook in the family and some say the best in my extended family too! ;)

[@limchengsan9271]

Try to find a person that has experienced the same as u did and yet has a personality of his / her own

[@Frooooooo]

My first crush was when I was 13. We were very close, like we always talk to each other during class and get scolded together for talking in class. He always borrowed my notebook to copy although I had horrible handwriting And there are other girls who were more willing to lend their notebook to him. Every time someone ask him whether he would choose me or other girl, he always chose me no matter which girl I was being compared with. In the school, I also had a girl who were like my arch enemy. So I asked him jokingly whether he liked that girl, he said no and started to mock that girl. But the next year, he and that girl become a couple and the entire school knew about them. I was so heartbroken

[@jax8668]

@@victoriadorgu3207 this is spam I saw this exact response to another comment above

[@sylviasoo708]

I also experienced my 1st cheating when I was 15.. 😱

[@aloysiusxu871]

never been lucky to find love, i suck at it...

[@qianrong]

I hold hand in primary sch :0 is it really that homerun?😂

[@nix294]

My future love life looks very gloomy , i got no previous experience at all .

[@zanegamingtv2252]

Zero sugar LOLOLOL comb hair

[@coolest.j7285]

Yay I'm earlier this timeeee

[@skyblue3346]

HAHAHAH so entertaining

[@tobiastan8853]

Lol advise....... I can't even find one myself. Being gay is just too stressful in Malaysia😭.

[@gawd_jihyo]

In p3 there was something between me and dis boy. He was cute and shy and i think we liked each other. But we cldnt confess to each other and without confession things wont go anywhere so i lost my feeling for him. But there was dis anotherboi. Anotherboi was my classmate n friend frome p1 to p6. he kept disturbing me and i had anger management problems so whenever he annoyed me i took it out on him. But he still continued disturbing me every single time after i did something to him. Then, my friend liked some boy and was trying to get his attention and i witnessed all the times when she would annoy him, disturb him, hit him and then smiled. She was in 'love'. And she disturbed the boy to express her love. Then i thought about anotherboi. He was exactly like that. Then i realised, if he kept coming back even after i hurt him so many times, he still came back again and again, he was determined and persistent and he really liked me. And determined guys were my type. So i gave him a chance. And it kinda worked out. We went to the bookshop together, bought each other things, sat together during recess and stuff. We even held hands. Several times. But the thing is we never confessed to each other and told each other i like you. Looking back, if i had said that, he would have said it back. And everything would be perfect. But love is never perfect and that first love was missing a big chunk from perfection because of that so small but yet so big step.

[@NupplesRampage]

When I was 13, there was this girl whom I had a crush on. We were classmates even in Primary school but I only started to have a little crush when we enter secondary 1. She was much taller than me or maybe... I'm just short la ah. I grew up being the weird kid and probably still a weird 30 y.o adult. Here's how my little wonderful brain worked back then. I like her. Quite a lot. She was tall, pretty, had nice hair, really nice voice. Seemed like a really really nice person. But my dumbass self couldn't go up to her and confess my feelings. Know what my dumbass 13y.o self did? You know... bomb bags? The type where you press the middle, some chemical reaction happens inside and goes pop! So my friends and I used to go to this shopping mall to play lan after school. Dota 1, TD and CS 1.3. Good ol' days. While otw there, I found out that she stays around the area. Now that I think about it, quite the stalker. I'm really sorry if you are reading this k? Like really really sorry. I never apologise to her for this before. So yeah... Found out where she stayed, we went to pop bomb bags outside her house. Pop and run. pop and run. Smart right? Dumbass little shit.

[@sylsylchan]

Ahahhahaha that poor girl probably thought u hated her

[@kienhoeng6787]

Like the topic today Make me wan to know how u girls know each other ?

[@rosesthvsoo]

hi syliva and nina

[@MrBoliao98]

Nina, find some supportive and secure, not drama. Like not say need married but it be good to have a lifelong partner that can stabilise things, like take your time to sieve and hunt. Sylvia I don't know you how, but Ryan seem dammm absent, but your married should be almost 10 years, there's probably some rhyme and reason we didn't catch or is explained. But in short your 2 have each other for company which is quite good already, and really enjoy this channel.

[@yexinxin5588]

My Lovely Princess Sylvia, honestly I really hate guys who cheated on their girlfriends of their hard earned savings, they are so lucky to have a girlfriend and they should cherish their girlfriend and give them lots of love instead of cheating their money. I agree with you please be more strict when choosing your future boyfriend or husband. Sylvia I don't want anybody to hurt you, that is something I don't want to see. I will pray for you and hope you can find someone who is good for you and to take good care of you. Wish you all the best...😊

[@beatricelim7860]

You guys r ok wth dating when u r kids? Cuz my parents will totally murder me😂

[@CynnerLim]

HAHAHHAHAHAHAHA NINAAAAAA I KNOW AHMAAAADDD!!! HAHAHHAA SPILL THE TEA SIS! HAHHAA anyway he nice guy now lah. 🙆🏻 Actually we also dono he had some many. Lemme jisiao him.

[@Celestly]

I would call the police on the guy who stole my 3k, Sylvia is too soft-hearted to let the issue go.

[@xh8139]

My story is similar to Sylvia’s! Hahah! And mine went on for 3years++. Worst relationship of my life. So this guy named JH “Borrowed” $13k++ over the span of 3 years!! Hahah! So stupid! He even dared to show me unhappiness and called me selfish on several occasion when i 1. refused to “lend” him money to buy a bicycle $1k++. 2. Refused to sign a 2 year M1 contract with a new iphone for him. But I stupidly signed up for a SIM card for him which he refused to pay up to this date. It amounted to $400++ 3. Refused to lend him money to cover up for his “ accidentally spent “ team mate jersey fund. He wanted me to delay my enrolment for school to lend him that money instead. Super toxic!!! Positive points: I felt like he was a loyal guy and really tall 194cm. Negative points: poor financial management, lazy to work, not reliable, bad in prioritising important things (eg. Hobbies over working for his own expenses )

[@xh8139]

Also, this guy knew my debit card details and used it for his online gaming and stole my card out on several occasions to withdraw money and eat out with his friends~ When I confronted his family about it, they said I was bullshitting about my money cause I was young. But brooo, I worked so many part time job and skipped school to earn more money. My parents gave up on me at that phase or my life and I had all the freedom I wanted to do what I want. Well I was so dumb to think that money was my priority back at 16 years old but I’ve return to school now. EDUCATION IS ALWAYS STILL THE MOST IMPORTANT ESPECIALLY TO ALL YOUNG TEENS!

[@sylsylchan]

Omg sounds like the same guy sis hahahahhha

[@jingsen511]

I hold hands with my crush before this video (I am P6)

[@irdinasabri6482]

I remember my first crush that i acted on. So i was 10 in a new school. Tbis boy from another class was kinda cute, now that i think about it maybe not my type. I think he was part of like the group and i talked to him a little. That age like boy talk to you is like 😍😍. So i wrote a love letter to him and put in his locker. His stupid friend saw the handwriting, which i thought i masked, and said that was his teacher daughter handwriting, so my dad was. A teacher in the same school. I was so embarrassed when he found out, i think the love letter was honestly very stupid. So some people teased me about it, so that day in the evening. I was waiting for my dad and the bus, they were talking to me in the cafeteria. So what i did was i ran and hid in the toilet. I gave some of my juniors in the same but as me some candy to go get my bag then we sneaked out to the bus. Wah since than, i see how srupid i am when it is infatuation and i dont think thats a good thing about a relationship. So normally i really get to know people before i get in a relationship or real develop a crush.

[@samantha-bh3dr]

One of the first!

[@celesteleong5755]

Do y'all reply?

[@booboo9209]

shit this is like my favourite episodee

[@nicholasHJS]

Nina's my SK senior! Totally know who she's talking about! >< Didn't know "Ahmad" was a jerk...

[@renjieyak8206]

Theese day wym by hold hands got ppl kiss leh lmao

[@aditiravikaushik6933]

my first love/ puppy love... his name is Rio... angmoh. hehe... very sweet. we never hold hands but got hug leh! even further... v sweet and he also bought me food and drinks and stuff lehhh!! but tbh I am horrible... but thinking about it.. he loved me and I didn't even like him let hahaha hahaha..... but I bought him stuff too. and plus we are still friends.... anyways we were in primary school :)

[@SynG4t3s]

yucks, spg gross af

[@aditiravikaushik6933]

@@SynG4t3s HAHA nobody cares about your opinion bishhh

[@georgelam5110]

Can u guys talk about noc boys

[@ngqianhui5587]

sylvia is married right ...?

[@ainzooalgown7589]

ya to watermelon king

[@thatonef2p690]

To xigueong

[@brenda3498]

HAHHAHAH!! - 'Comb his hair infront of you using ur spec as mirror' I give 11/10.. Sylvia situation is (soo) serious!! OMGG that guy a Real ASSHOLE ,policeman but do thiss!! WTF WTHH.. #nocommenttsk

[@limzhiyu326]

Its ai mei

[@miraooi]

Hi

[@celeste8178]

Pls talk about more rs stuff it’s sooo gd

[@kiven1228]

22:35

[@christineong1733]

lmao i have like 2 stories one that happened in kindergarten and another in primary school. Lets start with the kindergarten ( i can't really remember the details clearly but try arh ) so i'm best friends with 2 guys ( one marshmallow one chocolate ) and i always hang out with them all the time in kindergarten. so some time near graduation our class were told to perform Lion king ( i was Timon the meercat and Marshmellow was Simba, i and there was this time when i remembered vividly that time I like marshmellow, marshmellow like me back and chocolate liked me (love triangle at 6 years old damn). So when the younger classes was having nap time chocolate was feeling sleepy so like me being kind like kinda pat his back gently so that he could fall asleep better. Then the teacher called us so marshmellow went to the teacher there and i followed cos i like him ma. The teacher was showing us the scene on lion king and our rehearsal. Fast forward, when we were at the location that we will be rehearsing, then on the bus trip marshmellow fell asleep and rested his head on my shoulder and like it was so romantic and like i rested mine on top of his head and i forgotten when both me and marshmellow started "dating" but after graduation i lost contact :(. so now the story in primary school, there is this guy that i had a crush on ( call him mario cos he's a player ) mario and like p1-2 i same class as him, p3-4 different class, p5-p6 we same class. so this happened at p5-p6, both of us were damn close, and remembered that he ask if i can go to punggol park ( at hougang ) to catch pokemon, and that time my parents were quite strict so i had to ask my dad if he could bring me there, and i had to bring along my youngest sister. fast forward to tea, somewhere near graduation, i think i confessed to him then he was like "I think we are too young to be in a relationship." so i kinda like bobian but i manage to dance with him during graduation night ( ew now that i think about it ). So there was this one time during the nov holidays, my friend who was close to Mario, told me that Mario liked me, BUT liked another girl more ( call her princess peach cos she's kinda like a player also ). BUT, Princess Peach like Mario BUT like another guy more too ( call him luigi ). Princess Peach and Luigi was in a clique together. So i dont really know what really happened but Mario and Princess Peach dated for like 1 month then Princess Peach broke up so in conclusion i was blinded and this primary school love square so messed up i like to tell this to my friends cos its so stupid and funny and Mario is a Big-time mummy's boy.

[@sylsylchan]

Hahahahaha Mario and Princess Peach are very good names

[@jewelyap6312]

Please invite Saffron Sharpe on this show!!!!!!!!

[@thiamwengyeo7887]

38:41 Sylvia what do you mean by you are still trying I thought you love Ryan?

[@uhhjoan_]

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[@sansoo4976]

nina... how di u get yr hair so shiny,,, do share ur products unlerss u hv it natural

[@ashleychin9290]

Hahaha when i was 12 i already kissed my then boyfriend 😂