My First Day As a Woman-Bettie AKA Jamie

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Bettie AKA Jamie, a newly transitioned woman in Kalamazoo, Michigan.
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[@birdierose]

It's tragic that so many people think switching their gender is going to solve all of their internal problems.

[@ryppyreikaaa]

true but it's important to remember that for many people transitioining can be life saving and improve menatl health a lot

[@FORANWFS]

@@ryppyreikaaa it would be more important to learn to love yourself the way u are ,,rather than paying some corporations for drugs and surgery

[@ryppyreikaaa]

@@FORANWFS Accepting being trans is learning to love yourself the way you are too btw ;)

[@Hermit.Crabbe]

​@justarandompersonddd7010 Is it really, tho? Loving yourself means being OK with your little imperfections, not getting drugs to force your body into a different chemical composition so that you lose hair, your voice changes, your hormones go out of whack and then going to get surgeries to remove parts of your flesh just to "be ok with yourself ;)"

[@crystylev4571]

❤ this!! ^^^^ ❤❤❤

[@Mscugu]

The world lying to men that they can be women is the tragedy.

[@ANGLES__]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that

[@christophercox9704]

@@ANGLES__literally everything about it is wrong.

[@MazingerZ379]

Amen

[@coolmoon4382]

We can do whatever we want with this life on Earth. It doesn't hurt anyone. At the end of the day NO ONE ACTUALLY CARES ABOUT ANYTHING... Live YOUR Life YOUR way... No one has the right to tell you not to.

[@Lonegraywolf75]

That’s the problem no one cares about themselves or anyone around them without an agenda, the dismissiveness (humankind is erroneously subjective) of one’s self pretending to be something they are not or wish they could be.

[@mightylotan]

So many people who don't know this individual think they have all the answers for them. Live and let live. Focus on your own journey.

[@ascrummy]

It's hard for him to say he's a woman, because he knows he is not. A wig doesn't a woman make, and I'm done being quiet on the matter.

[@LutherMilkshake]

real

[@21stcenturyshowgirl]

me too!

[@lolafairchild88]

Same! I stand with you! This is NOT womanhood, and biologically born women should be able to come back out of the shadows and celebrate our womanhood without having to feel guilty.

[@veehope2702]

Not just the wig, he's shaved his legs too.

[@vidamariaixchel4962]

We all are. People with sane minds that is.. 😉

[@MissP7197]

Woman is not a costume!

[@ArkOmen1]

Right? How is this not appropriating someone's gender? This is make believe dress up time, not reality

[@towerofresonance4877]

Exactly

[@towerofresonance4877]

How does that make you feel personally? I know I would be insulted.

[@21stcenturyshowgirl]

Amen

[@l.a.gothro3999]

No, it's in a person's heart and soul.

[@AB-by8xu]

The world is not kinder to women or men , life is tough no matter what

[@ymaifiyv6589]

Women seem to have it easier than men in today’s societies. Men’s issues aren’t taken serious to the same extent imo

[@Emorydawn830]

​@ymaifiyv6589 also men have a different kind of responsibilities than women. Protector, provider, they do the hardest jobs to keep the world going. That's probably gonna ruffle feathers but it's truth!

[@ymaifiyv6589]

@@Emorydawn830 Right

[@jaredg60]

Wishing you nothing but the best in life Bettie. ❤

[@tinajernigan4194]

As do I. Best wishes from me too, Dear.

[@alpine8186]

I can't see this comment section lasting very long

[@englishmenintown8622]

Hahahahahaha

[@2501me]

Out of mere curiosity, what do you mean by that?

[@DSPsWifesBf]

@@2501meMark is known to turn off comment sections that don’t white knight for the guest. Example, there was this hacker guy on here and a ton of people commented that he was lying and completely disingenuous. Mark turned off the comments.

[@2501me]

@@DSPsWifesBf oh thank you for explaining that. I’ve never seen that happen before but whatever. I love Mark:)! Have a happy day

[@shaaniiiiiiiiiii]

​@@2501me This was also a fact on a interview on a female sex offender who raped her own son (can't remember her name, but its still up on his channel). People were absolutely obliterating her in the comments, they got turned off.

[@birdierose]

You don't have to be mean and strong and toxic to be a man. You can be none of those things and still be a wonderful man.

[@solvingpolitics3172]

The fact that you think of a guy as mean is very sexist.

[@jzea100]

Sadly now most women think they have to be strong, mean and toxic and hardened

[@jennygInspired]

​@solvingpolitics3172 he literally said this in the interview. He felt in order to be manly, he had to be mean and strong.

[@solvingpolitics3172]

@@jennygInspired Well, then he does not know what a real man is.

[@tonyhoffman3309]

Women can be mean and violent as well. People who claim to be the opposite sex, have bought into sex stereotypes which do not allow them to perceive and respect the reality of the sex they are.

[@Shelilah41]

This person needs some serious help.

[@joesmith9216]

they all do and will never get it, haha, SATAN. SAT-ON.

[@EH_1995]

All he’ll get is encouragement in today’s world

[@diannh2894]

Kudos Mark for leaving comments up.

[@BCS1105]

I think it’s horrid for him to leave them up. Imagine if you were Bettie and you came to read these comments. I can’t imagine how heartbreaking that must be. People are assholes.

[@0ut1and3r]

These people make such a mockery of women like we are just some particular hairstyle or outfit. It's actually very sexist.

[@0ut1and3r]

@@sockYT wth does drag have to do with being a woman?

[@davidhughes8795]

@@sockYT Please explain what you mean by 'assigned gender' cartoon avatar person.

[@VintageBassArchive]

Are we insulting everyone today? You have zero personality.

[@sockYT]

@@0ut1and3r because some trans women dress up as a drag king, and some trans men do the same as a drag queen. if a trans person does drag, surely they are rejecting gender stereotypes?

[@samab2982]

@@VintageBassArchive you have zero sense of realness

[@PatchworkUSA]

All the relationships you talk about are online and through the media - you need real people as friends.

[@StatikOlfactive]

The mental health epidemic in the country is getting out of hand. This person doesn’t need to be a “woman”… this person simply just needs to be medicated and needs therapy, and to acquire life coping skills.

[@RadRedhead222]

Amen

[@FerngullyPNW]

I respect your opinion but unless you're a mental health professional and have actually sat down with this individual maybe you should refrain on saying what their treatment plan should include. 🙏

[@Suspiria27]

@@FerngullyPNWI’ve met a few mental health pros. Wouldn’t let them diagnose my cat tbh. Money for old rope these degrees✌️🤣

[@angeldustpneumonicmaru]

youre making the decision for her?, she 99.99% made that decision on her own. medication can be a strong tool and therapy too but that doesnt untrans someone because thats who they intrinsically are. radfem principalists will tell you that people are just wearing the clothes and walking the talk, theyre just using the same fear mongering and exclusionist arguments as anti-immigration!! its quite the opposite way around, we forced that walk and forced the talk over millennia and now we are so conditioned to it that we consider it natural. what was really natural were roles, your archetypal hunter/gatherer/tinkerers/shamans, which gender was forcibly tied to! and now we have to realize that the real natural move forward is that female is simply a role in this world and is not tied to physical features, which even then nowadays can be changed. these walls shoulda been broken down ages ago!!!

[@almabelhumeur6672]

@@Suspiria27 I agree with you!!!

[@estebanperez3931]

One thing you have to appreciate about people is their ability to renew themselves and renew their confidence. Whether you agree with her or not, she’s confronting the world in a way that SHE wants, there’s some admiration in that. It takes some balls (no pun intended) to be able to do that, most people are afraid of doing what they want.

[@Irish_Goodbye_Guy]

I’m several minutes into his story and hearing all his symptoms of depression but not a single word of him feeling like a woman. He is simply looking for an escape and doesn’t have the right people around him to guide him. His reasons for thinking he’s a trans women are the least clear reasons I’ve ever heard. I’m very left and not a hater at all but he’s lying to himself.

[@pukupuku]

AGPs “feel” like women to.

[@verycooltricks8176]

he might just be cross dressing

[@ludenob]

She’s creating herself one day at a time she’s sharing her experiences to help others experiencing the same thing then here you are …….. being a big black cloud when we’re a rainbow

[@9395gb]

​@@pukupukuagp is a sexual fetish. It is sexual harassment towards biological women and biological girls and straight up insulting.

[@ymaifiyv6589]

@@ludenobSometimes we need someone to show us the big black clouds

[@56Spookdog]

This guy really seems to need to get some long term help.

[@AnaFernandez-jp5uh]

Absolutely!

[@crystylev4571]

Most do.

[@HollyKost]

He is a self centered boring person

[@Stroud_Diggs]

That thing will find another freak to impregnate

[@hiim4212]

Because he’s trans…okay pop off dumbass

[@alvinavance5040]

This comment section is so lame. You called Rebecca a woman but won’t call Jamie a woman . Women are making a mockery of themselves picking and choosing which transgender they like. Treat all transgender the same.

[@MsTweakk]

Though I’m slightly conservative leaning at this point in my life, and I do tend to believe that there’s a large number of trans that are transitioning specifically because they are mentally unwell, endured trauma or are following a fad, Bettie comes across very genuine and authentic to me. Good for you Bettie. You really are a brave young woman! I wish you luck with this new stage in your life. Very calming voice as well. Great speaker.

[@GothicGali]

Then you’ve missed the very obvious reason he’s transitioning. It’s because he’s had an incredibly traumatic life.

[@aquavita1]

Bettie, remember when you said during your last interview: "Just because you get off drugs, it doesn't solve all your problems. Within, I still had the trauma, the hate, the anger..." Please, make sure that you are not getting on a non-reversible journey that will lead to the same outcome.

[@ryppyreikaaa]

as much as i support her transition i think it's super important that she gets sober for a while to think this trough

[@lolafairchild88]

Transitioning while on drugs is irresponsible and disingenuous.

[@mlbarnhardt]

Well said 👏🏽🫶🏽🙌🏽

[@HollyKost]

Self centered behaviors of a shallow soul

[@Lioness_of_Gaia]

Well put.

[@UnrequiteDreamx6]

More mental health awareness commercial material

[@danielleterese402]

Wow...you are sooooo funny!!!! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@anon6706]

​@@danielleterese402Don't be upset, you can vent about it later to your lesbian book club. I bet y'all look like a pack of skittles sitting around that table 😂

[@skips1376]

​@@danielleterese402 nobody's laughing...

[@CarterHayes77]

You need to be on this channel i think then also

[@HorrorQueen67]

@@anon6706🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@m1sfit_l0v3]

we can split hairs all day about what's right and wrong but just because you don't understand someone's motivation doesn't make it invalid.

[@borano2031]

Correct. Too many religious bigots here. Rgr

[@ddz1375]

Serial killers and psychopaths have a brain defect, should we just accept them because they can't help themselves? This guy just stated that he is man enough to stand up for the 'haters' for the trans girls out there.

[@pukupuku]

It doesn’t matter how you think you feel on the inside. Shit changes, but reality does not.

[@borano2031]

@@pukupuku You´re obviously one of the ignorant religious bigots. Rgr

[@TokenWhiteGuyAGR]

@@borano2031 They are right, though. It's sexual degeneracy.

[@jeanetteparrish8167]

I wish the bery best for Little Bettie It takes guts to change your clothes amd makeup and to be interviewef by Mark, and the world for the fist time in public. One can come on this platform and recieve something good or comment something rude. I choose to see you, as Brave . We are different and should be able to be who we want to be. Jeannie, from Seattle 😊 Thank you, Mark, for this Interview.

[@wildpurplechild]

Finally, someone who is not being nasty! Thank you for your kindness!

[@vampy_anne]

This is the new age misogyny.

[@charlie_says3841]

💯. And also the new gay conversion therapy.

[@humanperson8418]

@@charlie_says3841 Technically they're converting to gay. "trans lesbian"

[@eelplant]

Big time agree, it’s very insulting to what it means/ is to be a woman . Just like it’s rude to try and pretend to be a different race….

[@doodleartlover]

Bottom surgery will never be real and normal...God doesn't make mistakes.

[@kimthompson3846]

There is no sky daddy. If there were, hateful people like you would be cast from the earth. There's no more vile a hate than christian hate.

[@getmeouttatennessee4473]

If there is a god, yessssss he or she does but god isn't real sooooo...

[@robertlopez5294]

I’m sorry but my wife has been going through menopause for about three years now and there times she is crying uncontrollably to balled up on the bed in pain from the cramps and hot flashes and the mood swings. No one born a man will ever know what’s that like so I’m sorry but a woman and a trans woman are two different things. If you’re gay lesbian bisexual or or trans then cool. Do what makes you happy and I could care less but if you were born a man don’t call yourself a woman because you’re NOT! You’re a TRANS woman.

[@redfreak7643]

I could understand you not wanting transgender women to call themselves FEMALE as that is biological. However, the term “woman” is not. I see no issue with this individual calling themself a woman.

[@redfreak7643]

I am a transgender man. Is my sex male? No, it is female. However, I am still going to call myself a man as that is how I present myself to the world as and am perceived as.

[@Stroud_Diggs]

@@redfreak7643🤮🤡

[@Suspiria27]

@@redfreak7643Do u pass? Or do ppl look at u like… come on my man, let’s not do this🤣🤣🤣

[@redfreak7643]

@@Suspiria27 I do pass, testosterone and surgeries will do that to someone but even if I did not it won’t kill anyone to refer to me as a man

[@MonKeY19803]

Not a woman

[@melindathomas21]

Wig ✔️ Make-up ✔️ Shaved legs ✔️ Womens clothes ✔️ = A MAN STILL HELLO SMH

[@lauralei6963]

Very Muscular shaved legs lol 🦵

[@angeldustpneumonicmaru]

@@lauralei6963 crazy how women come in different shapes and sizes!!

[@CaalamusTube]

...no, not a man. You can't do all that & still call yourself a man. I'm not saying "transwomen are women". But they aren't men either.

[@terryroe7713]

DNA and sit like a man.

[@zoebotte9725]

@@CaalamusTubegive it a rest 🙄

[@NonChatLant]

As long as people make choices that cause no harm, then let them be, at least. Tolerance is becoming an exception, not a norm 😕 I hope Betty finds peace within and stays sober and safe.

[@diannh2894]

Best comment I've read so far.

[@GothicGali]

People have tolerated too much and thus backlashes on contentious issues is inevitable

[@NonChatLant]

@@GothicGali some people don't even know the meaning of tolerance, as depicted by your comment.

[@9395gb]

It causes harm to biological women and biological girls. It's sexist and misogynistic for men to believe they can become women. Also these people try to invade women's privacy and spaces like bathrooms, sports, women's prisons, and womens groups etc. This is a dangerous and incompetent ideology

[@jaythemachine3845]

@@NonChatLantit harms society

[@kelseixw]

sir pls cut the bs.

[@ballerman22345]

OMG ONE HONEST PERSON WHO CAN SEE WITH THEIR EYES.... thank you!

[@Brian-xu9di]

Hahahahahahahha

[@heybigbender]

Say it louder.

[@katttpiffnsam]

Exactly!!!!

[@comrademax660]

right

[@user-zn9zj4pl4b]

It sounds like you were talked into it. You hardly spoke of any struggle with your assigned sex and gender. It seems like you want to heal yourself by connecting to your feminine/maternal/nurturing energy.

[@platano8667]

"pinkpilled"

[@michelejordan4115]

He’s a cross dresser not trans…big difference.

[@PeanutButter-19]

​@@michelejordan4115 Either way, it ain't normal.

[@gotsnaps]

@@michelejordan4115no there’s not retard… you sound so fucking stupid

[@PeanutButter-19]

@@user-zn9zj4pl4b I don't care about the irreversible damage people like that do to themselves, I just wish they would keep it to themselves.

[@Paul-tp9yh]

I remember my first day as a squirrel- people thought I was nuts!

[@celinemccutcheon1988]

😂😅🐿🥜

[@MonaYY_Rig]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Leiveyy]

why are you mocking trans people?

[@Kels1701e]

It's comments like that that only combine to the mockery of Transpeople. We are not mentally ill, all we want is the respect everyone else receives.

[@Paul-tp9yh]

@@Leiveyy That’s over-sensitive in my opinion.

[@JacksonDunnoKnows]

Whatever path they choose to continue down, I hope the best. I dont want to judge, but I really hope you dont have another hard fall into an even darker place. I know in todays age, even commenting on things like this is deemed a fault, but free speech is still a thing at this time, so yeah. Please dont do anything major yet. Continue to think, and meditate on everything you are doing. Think about the moment, think about possible futures (not to say you haven't already, but just stop to breath and smell the roses for a bit. Then something harsh,smelling salts, a factory ect). Take in the good, the bad, and the ugly. And please consider or consult a psychiatrist/psychotherapist. You dont need to follow there advice. Just talk, cause there are some that dont push an "agenda", from either side. One can be in touch, and embrace the yin(female energy) and still be yang(the male energy). Stay an artist, stay growing, and again, I wish you the best in your metamorphosis, and catharsis.

[@zoecoote3746]

Such cruel and dismissive comments. Regardless of the definition of what a woman is. This is a person that has experienced trauma and it is their way of being reborn into the world as a new person. Their own chosen person. Taking control of their lives. Lil Betty I’m sorry that trauma took you down the difficult paths that lead you to this point. Be kind, and good luck with your future:

[@pukupuku]

No. They need to deal with their trauma the right way and this isn’t it.

[@Lioness_of_Gaia]

Delusions never lead to a healed, happy and fulfilling life.

[@billschlafly4107]

Telling someone the truth isn't cruel.

[@Boxscot49]

Oh boy im sure these comments will be overflowing with positivity

[@alex.under999]

I love you Bettie, you're beautiful. You took the words out of my mouth.

[@n0rsca392]

lmao ok

[@brodymcminn614]

Poor guy didn’t get enough attention from the first interview, had to unlock a new character 😂

[@Paranormal_chick83]

She’s always been this way and has had to hide it from the world due to people like you and now SHE is doing what SHE needs to do for HER! HER name is Betty. SHE IS AN AMAZING ADVOCATE!

[@TruthHurtsSoGetAHelmet]

@@Paranormal_chick83 oh what a bunch of bs. All you demons have completely lost it. This is a dude and what an egregious insult to women to have men shove themselves into women’s spaces. To take away what makes women unique and set apart to be reduced back to a costume. That nothing more than wardrobe, hair, makeup and parts defines them because that’s all it takes to become a woman. How infuriating for women. It does not matter how much unscientific and inaccurate “she’s” you use to further push yourself and others into believing or forcing your delusions or injections they take BIO FACTS WILL ALWAYS PROVE A MAN AND A WOMAN. Are not and never will be interchangeable. It is a dis0rder of the 🧠 that needs treatment instead of mutilating the body and forcing society into ignorance and a destructive delusion. Btw, those demons you mess will are laughing at how ignorant they have made you will achieving the goal of dragging your soul to hell with them. Go to Jesus and be delivered.

[@TruthHurtsSoGetAHelmet]

@@Paranormal_chick83 oh what a bunch of bs. All you demons have completely lost it. It’s HE and what an egregious insult to women to have men shove themselves into women’s spaces. To take away what makes women unique and set apart to be reduced back to a costume. That nothing more than wardrobe, hair, makeup and parts defines them because that’s all it takes to become a woman. How infuriating for women. It does not matter how much unscientific and inaccurate “she’s” you use to further push yourself and others into believing or forcing your delusions. Biological facts are unchanging facts. They are not and never will be interchangeable. It is a problem with the mind that needs treatment instead of distorting the body and forcing society into ignorance and a destructive delusion. Btw, those demons you mess will are laughing at how ignorant they have made you will achieving the goal of dragging your soul to hell with them. Go to Jesus and be delivered!!

[@zeelupine5170]

😂😂

[@ymaifiyv6589]

@@Paranormal_chick83She’s a terrible advocate. She just comes across as someone making a mockery of women by pretending to be one

[@Fleezil2860]

This is HIS first day of going out as a transvestite. Live your best life dude. Don’t lie to us, or yourself.

[@humanperson8418]

You: Be Yourself. Them: I'm a women You: You're a man. Be yourself.

[@Fleezil2860]

@@humanperson8418 that’s right dude!! Can’t change dna impossible. You can do anything you can including the removal of your …….. you will always be a man…. I say live your best life. Don’t lie to yourself or us. Be you… Meaning… You are a transvestite, or transgender… that is your new identity… But you will NEVER be a woman….. I can’t help it if you don’t understand my statement… that is the truth. If anyone doesn’t want to hear that.. that’s your delusion. After he dies, dig him up 100 years later his DNA will show HE is a man. Still. Case closed.

[@Fleezil2860]

@@humanperson8418 I see my first reply has been removed…. Interesting .. I shall try again. Obviously you don’t understand my comment. I was simply stating. HE is NOT a woman. Will never be a biological female… A woman. The DNA will be the same 100 years from now…. Yes, live your best life. But don’t delude yourself thinking you are a woman. A transgender or a transvestite is exactly that. If you could become a woman, those other words would not be there… … if anyone can’t understand that. Well, that’s on them…. I hate the lies.. (I toned this response down a lot!!)

[@Fleezil2860]

@@humanperson8418 you forgot I said Don’t lie to us…

[@maryjanemj9187]

I wish the us government would get these people the help they need instead of supporting this shit

[@Nightshade1881]

Religious folks literally believe that an invisible god impregnated a teenage virgin Pretty sure that’s as insane as this dude thinking he’s a woman.

[@MickWolfActual]

Radicalized by TikTok!!🤦🏻‍♂️

[@camif0]

I’m a woman and don’t know what it feels like to “be a woman” because I only know what it feels like to be me, I can’t speak for every woman on earth. But magically this person knows exactly what “being a woman” feels like. Fascinating super power.

[@dzurko1639]

got PUSHED into it...... Never wanted to be........ I can't imagine being this confused in life, very sad!

[@tonyhoffman3309]

what many boys and men are pushed into and go on to mistakenly believe, is that sexist stereotypes accurately represent reality. (They clearly do not) This belief leads to the sense of "wrongness" when one is inevitably not able to fit into those stereotypes. Hence the belief they must not truly be the sex they are.

[@celery8059]

Some of these comments are so nasty. As a woman, I’m glad she’s found herself and is on a path to happiness

[@DeeznuttzOuttaMilwaukee]

He

[@vidamariaixchel4962]

👓 She? 😅 It’s a really lovely guy we’re looking at, one wearing women’s clothes. 👓

[@jerrenortonjr.7405]

Celery stick your and idiot

[@gabrielledavis7491]

Are they nasty or are they speaking in terms of reality? This person has not found themselves. This person needs serious help, and saying things as you just did not only harms society but harms the person in the video as well for feeding into a self hating delusion.

[@vidamariaixchel4962]

@@gabrielledavis7491 thank you for speaking the truth, admire it! 🔥 People on this forum are SO deluded/brainwashed. 😨

[@dw56644]

Huge love for this character. Sadly another victim of the trans revolution. Please dont cut your junk off Betty xxx

[@Silenceeify]

It's very sad seeing little girls getting their breasts chopped off because of all this insanity

[@serendipity1237]

Jamie needs to go watch LaRel’s videos before he takes unreversible steps.

[@luvyatubers]

I figured this out years ago. Many men who are unhappy and who treat women bad are jealous of women. Because they want to be a woman. Had an ex and had a boss that way. Wear a damn dress. IDC! Just be kind. Jealousy is the unprettiest look you'll ever wear!

[@yourfavoritenetcitizen6525]

Exactly this.

[@humanperson8418]

Ok Freud.

[@Nawja93]

If a person feels better by living as the other gender, even if their not, I don’t think that should be called a condition, saying this, I don’t know the background of this person but hey if is something to make her/his life better that’s a win for that person

[@mamaberg623]

Oh Jamie, i remember your 1st interview. You can be who you are .. just remember, what you've said, being off drugs doesn't solve your problems... don't buy into the narrative that you have to be something you aren't. Transitioning doesn't heal your trauma. You have to heal that 1st.

[@sandbagger529]

Who tf picks Betty as a name 😂 bro living in the wrong 20s. Why not just keep Jamie 😂

[@Treefiddy35054]

😂good point!

[@DSPsWifesBf]

I remember this guy’s first interview. He was high there and he’s high now. His initial story contained a ton of lies too. Total attention seeker.

[@awkwardlyalive5371]

The comments made on this video are very telling about Mark’s audience… perhaps this channel is really not serving it’s intended purpose. I thought this channel served to promote open mindedness, acceptance, understanding, and compassion. I see anything but in the comments. Seems you all just watch out of morbid curiosity for your own entertainment. Pretty disgusting.

[@Emzzz78]

It is. I’m sorry, but this is a clear case of autogynephillia NOT transsexualism. Do you know the difference? Huge difference. Sexual deviance is what this man suffers.

[@Frank-Y]

Because they been pushing this shit to is and our children.

[@kiwe3546]

You have a misconception about this channel. Its primary purpose is to make money. Its secondary purpose is to expose its audience to people and their stories. How the audience reacts is irrelevant.

[@ryppyreikaaa]

yeah same.... im so disgusted with all these comments....

[@user-qn1kz7dk3t]

Honestly this the first time i see the comments being reasonable and not bleeding heart saccharine positive

[@TaterTots380]

There's one thing he never learned: There's no such thing as the 'perfect female body'. I don't care how he wants to mutilate his body or how he lives his life. More power to him on his quest for happiness.

[@user-qi5ey8lh4u]

I seriously wish Jamie/Bettie the absolute best .... ... But J/B comes across seriously mentally unstable

[@borano2031]

So you´re qualified to state that?? Your exams, please. Rgr

[@borano2031]

@@EGV-ng6ug Your exams, please. Rgr

[@borano2031]

@@EGV-ng6ug You mean " High school dropout ". Rgr

[@borano2031]

@@EGV-ng6ug Sure, I went through, you dropped out! Remember?? Rgr

[@borano2031]

@@EGV-ng6ug Hahaha, your writings disqualify you from any education in this. Unless you have your degrees from the Central University of Lagos, Nigeria. Rgr

[@SpeckszDaBoss]

This guy is the definition of oxymoron

[@filsolano5465]

He can feel any which way he wants, and change anything he pleases, but if he were to go into a women’s restroom while my daughter is in there or any other innocent little girl he better believe that he will regret making them feel uncomfortable.

[@lisapizza6494]

I'd love to see an interview with someone who has detransitioned.

[@oceanaxim]

I believe there already is a SWU interview on this subject.

[@southphillylilly]

There's one in the library just go to soft white underbelly page and search you'll find it

[@SoftWhiteUnderbelly]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/rqTFpZSOpsuaZ9Esi=NcHHqLN97ZtD_WhM kzbin.info/www/bejne/o3rHXp2po896gq8si=loysEYC46ntoaLEJ

[@lisapizza6494]

@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly thank you ❣️

[@DS-mh5hb]

I think Mr. Laita has at least one interview with a person who's de-transitioned already.

[@manifestdestiny12]

I identify as a black woman half of the time. The other half I'm a white male but also a pro golfer.

[@joesmith9216]

nice!

[@christineisabel7827]

Very interesting. Quiet complex life to live. Wising you the best.

[@keishawhiting9030]

😂😂 sounds about right to me

[@lewispiritual.]

“Tiger woulds you decide”

[@bamchikawahwah86]

Stunning and brave 👏🏼

[@werethewilsons]

Hi... Person in recovery here and part of the advised process is no major changes within the first year. This is a cover up for something bigger. Best of luck.

[@rachelt761]

This comment section does not pass the vibe check.

[@tangie06_33]

Yes it does.

[@comrademax660]

yes it does...its hilarious

[@Mscugu]

You would rather than women just shut up and get along right?

[@CaalamusTube]

Maybe you should leave then?

[@kidstuff44555]

It passes the reality check though

[@asthecrowflies737]

Clothes do not make the woman.

[@ktcooki276]

These comments are mostly nasty now. Wish it could go back to before with some humility and human kindness.

[@MixAndMash]

people fall for the "us vs them" grift and all of these echo chambers online so often it sucks. i wish people at least tried to coexist. i promise you that the number one thing our establishment wants in this country, for maximum profit and for maximum safety of the establishment, is sheer hatred and division. and a social media led age where most human information is tangibly manageable makes it so much easier for people to be engulfed in blind hatred.

[@Irish_Goodbye_Guy]

Back to before? That would be before social media. People were never nice.

[@DonnellOkafor-pd7yn]

Ppl are tired of this woke nonsense. Did you think it was going to last forever?

[@borano2031]

@@DonnellOkafor-pd7yn You dont know the true meaning of "woke". Rgr

[@Saintsrockitall]

He also has a misunderstanding of what a man is too IMO.

[@lanniele2214]

It’s funny because it’s not “these looking people” that will follow your kids into the bathroom. It’s the normal everyday looking person, it’s a family member, it’s a caretaker.

[@user-li7lt4xq2t]

Don't care, if someone has a penis they need to use the men's room! We deserve to feel safe!

[@voxschair]

These degenerates are degenerates as well

[@billschlafly4107]

False. There are people who will dress up to satisfy their evil desires.

[@heckicusdoomicuswizardus1382]

​@@billschlafly4107dude i hate to break it to you but the "woman's" sign on the bathroom isn't gonna stop a racist. just let people be people, for Christ's sake, trans people just want to exist like we all do; them wanting to express themselves isn't the problem.

[@morbidhime]

Can we talk about the issue of those GIANT 10 inch gaps under bathroom stall doors??? Why is that even a thing?????

[@sandylee9564]

I might be well behind current thinking about the term, "Trans" and If I had to put a label on it I'd like to think of these people as being GENDER CORRECTED...and for me it feels right. Bettie is one tough lady...not a whimper or a whine. I admire that about her. Once she knew in her soul and heart what she needed to do she has stepped out of her comfort zone and is pursuing her goal, ragardless of what 'others' say and/or do.

[@still_becoming]

The comment section is so mean today WTH

[@humanperson8418]

IKR. This channel is about exploring how different people think. You don't need to agree, but at least make an effort to understand why they might feel that way.

[@tangie06_33]

It's not mean. It's the truth. As a woman, I find it "mean" for a man to put on a costume and claim to be a woman. He's mocking women. And he's looking for schtick.

[@still_becoming]

@@tangie06_33 how could you be hurt by someone's wig ?

[@MrPnew1]

Get off the pipe Betty

[@borano2031]

Fix your brain, dude. Rgr

[@user-qn1kz7dk3t]

The meth pookie probably got him wanting to look like a tranny street walker

[@Splinter.00]

Just because you can doesn’t mean you should…

[@rayacarr2354]

I have so much empathy for her. This is SUCH. A difficult journey. So many of us are homeless. I’m proud of her. I hope she has peace now

[@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470]

*him

[@fionanicholson1995]

He

[@savvagecabbage23]

He’s a guy. So.

[@Lioness_of_Gaia]

Did you forget to use your ears, dear?

[@RadRedhead222]

Her? I have no problem with the trans community, but this is a man dressing as a woman because he doesn't like himself. It has nothing to do with gender.

[@jessyjohnson7031]

These comments did not pass the vibe check! Yall so judgmental! Let him/her/whatever just be happy and whatever makes them happy then great! How does that affect any of you people? It doesn’t! Try supporting someone’s happiness instead of being part of the problem.

[@Toonces666]

Preach! I feel the same way.

[@Jay41]

Well when it starts to effect our laws and innocent people losing their jobs for accidentally misgendering someone and males taking away sports titles from female athletes it does effect us. Most of us don’t care about what other people want to do with their lives. But that doesn’t mean the world must revolve around them. They can be happy that’s great but I don’t support people that are completely entitled and selfish

[@Jay41]

Being completely oblivious to how this in fact effects society and choosing not to see that…you’re part of the problem.

[@tangie06_33]

This isnt going to make him happy.

[@anitaheart]

This man has a HUGE spiritual void that he doesn’t know how to fill. He’s not trans, he’s just rolling with the narrative he sees in social media and hoping it’s the answer he needs. IT’S NOT. He’s going to touch rock bottom pretty soon I feel. God bless him. ❤

[@chichi1982]

Don't confuse depression with transitioning.

[@ludenob]

Facts

[@Scarlettvoid]

Facts 🏳️‍⚧️

[@EuleneWages4644]

I usually understand most people, but im just on this one.🤔🤔

[@eelplant]

I agree, a woman is not a costume. No matter what you change on the outside, you are not a woman. You can enjoy all of those feminine things but that isn’t what makes you a woman. He is admitting that he wasn’t really captivated by the idea and fought himself on it?? Maybe that was a sign to listen to yourself

[@AnaFernandez-jp5uh]

Social media is not the place for seeking an identity or anything else for that matter. Jaime needs a psychologist to start with. People, social media is not where you go for fact finding information. It has destroyed so many people with misinformation.

[@tonyhoffman3309]

Perhaps, before reccomending psychologists, learn what schools of psychology are and have been teaching regarding the "affirmative only" approach to clients presenting cross sex ideation.

[@AnaFernandez-jp5uh]

@@tonyhoffman3309 I am a psychologist and very familiar with the services psychologist provide. You shouldn't assume you are commenting to someone with less skills than you possess.

[@sqwk2559]

Who wants to tell him?

[@RandallFromFlorida4]

I just did

[@Lioness_of_Gaia]

Bwah ha ha ha! 😂

[@Nightshade1881]

Religious folks literally believe that an invisible god impregnated a teenage virgin Pretty sure that’s as insane as this dude thinking he’s a woman.

[@scraptheplanet4446]

With all due respect - those in the mental health and medical professions who allow, enable, and embolden people to be this delusional is a crime against humanity. A lifestyle choice which ends in you having a 100% chance of being sterile, or a nearly 50% chance of you committing suicide seems an awful lot like eugenics with extra steps to my mind.

[@51marshmellow]

I thank you Mark for having Bettie back and hope that as well as the physical support she is getting that she have as much emotional support as she needs as well. May all good things come her way. I must say I am not surprised, but I am horrified by all of these people who feel the need to comment at all if they cannot be supportive. Truly what Bettie decides to do with her life isn't harming anyone and it is her business alone and no one else's. Be happy Bettie.

[@user-mz8qd5rd9q]

My son is coming out of 20 years of active addiction. He died twice. He is getting professional help to deal with his traumas. He spent 10 years in prison.

[@lmm.5619]

and?

[@Fdeubcfhbbjhfd]

Way to throw him u see the bud for likes.

[@Fdeubcfhbbjhfd]

Bus*

[@Fdeubcfhbbjhfd]

Under*. Damn autoco-wrong

[@lmm.5619]

@@Fdeubcfhbbjhfd spell much dude?

[@NN-ht1lp]

Thanks Mark.

[@user-ne1xd5qv6l]

By the way, sweetie, women are not hairless. I have to shave my body every single day just FYI remember that changing our bodies doesn’t define us. It might make us feel better for a moment, but we’re all dying. We’re all evolving and we’re all changing. Breast implants and other modifications it does not bring you happiness. I’m happy for you being able to come out and be your authentic self. Just don’t kill off the old you completely.

[@Matias-eh2pn]

I'm surprised how much hate is in here, that this is commercial material, or whatever. Who you guys are to judge this person? I hear her and she sounds so intelligent and self-aware.

[@Jay41]

I believe people can do whatever they want with their lives and bodies, but I just wished society took womanhood more seriously. It’s like our experience of being a woman has become a joke and people no longer take it seriously. Being a woman is difficult but also very unique. I feel like that uniqueness is being taken away from us and it’s sad to watch. It feels insulting to be honest…but of course I can’t say that without being labeled a terf.

[@ebkikibo]

Truth.

[@Mandz6494]

Agreed….🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Joan-COYI]

I totally agree. Fact is, Bettie will always be a biological man. Here in the UK I could be accused of hate crime for speaking the truth. I don’t hate anyone, live how you want but there are massive differences between biological men and women. Fact.

[@songs4polarbear]

As someone once said "You don't fix a software issue by trying to fix the hardware"

[@kristieread7558]

Everyone making hateful comments needs to go and watch his first interview, Jamie/Bettie has gone through hell and back. So much trauma. Spread love peeps.

[@jonnybloggs6790]

Video should state facts and be names …first day of never being a woman .

[@kenosabi]

Well. You came here to watch it. Perhaps your planning on making a change too. Lmao.

[@PeanutButter-19]

​@@kenosabi jonnyblogs comment didn't give me that impression at all.

[@jonnybloggs6790]

@@kenosabi making a “ change “??? Can’t change male to female or vice versa that’s physical facts you can’t deny buddy …I get that people have delusions and fantasies but it ain’t one of mine as I see reality plain and simple as it is ..

[@PeanutButter-19]

Me to God: "Am I a black woman with white skin?". God to me: "You is what you is."

[@borano2031]

Exactly, it´s up to YOU, yourself, to decide, not some religious bigots from a bible belt from hell. Rgr

[@PeanutButter-19]

@@borano2031 I imagine people like that choose to make their life more difficult for the attention. Let's face it, he is not a real woman and he never will be.

[@pukupuku]

@@borano2031 Lol, wtf

[@mr.stasis]

​@@borano2031whooosh

[@humanperson8418]

If Michael Jackson can do it, so can you. Be kind to yourself bother.

[@enyawhite1944]

This was super inspiring and such an interesting story to listen to. All the best with all the adventures ahead of you! ❤

[@gideonkreis6626]

He needs professional help not to be fed lies and stripped of his identity.

[@Kels1701e]

If she truly believes & feels she is a woman than she should be supported and helped. She is right there are millions of Translesbians out there. People need to stop pretending that Transgender is a new thing. We have been around since Ancient Egypt times & probably before. I hope Bettie knows that being Trans is not easy. She will not get proper medical help until she is totally clean.

[@gideonkreis6626]

The problem is forcing your interpretation of yourself onto society and expecting everyone to follow suit. Not everyone is going to see you as you want/feel. And that's okay.

[@Kels1701e]

​@gideonkreis6626 depends how you react to that person. Why can't people just let Teanspeople be themselves and respect their choice. As long as their not hurting anyone. We never see the same kind of hate towards Lesbians, only to Gays & transpeople.

[@moirapartridge9735]

People expressing so much fear, feeling threatened by difference. This is how war starts. I would like just to express my respect and empathy to Bettie - unconditionally. 💞

[@luvyatubers]

Fights yes. War no. War is controlled for resources

[@tonyhoffman3309]

Is lying to someone about what you perceive considered "being understanding and compassionate"? Or is it more compassionate and understanding to accept that men are not defined by being "mean and violent". Perhaps recognizing that sexist stereotypes about men and women are often just self fulfilling ideas which do not reflect the reality of who we actually are, as individual men and women,, is the more respectful and compassionate thing to do?

[@Lioness_of_Gaia]

That's only your perception, and a blanket statement.

[@Mscugu]

"why won't this women just shut up and say yes. We will say no to this BS. Women are allowed to say NO

[@mikesmith-nt6ee]

😂😂😂😂

[@dubaiedge]

Yeah no. Not even. At all. Just stop.

[@Nightshade1881]

Religious folks literally believe that an invisible god impregnated a teenage virgin Pretty sure that’s as insane as this dude thinking he’s a woman.

[@alliebengochea503]

This video was beyond moving & absolutely helped transform the way I understand & see the trans condition. I very much thank & have loads of love for all involved in the creation of this work of art. I know this will 100% transform & improve lives all over our beautiful shared globe! I can't celebrate you all enough! 🎉🎉🎉

[@miamilch7052]

Betty, If you see this comment please go watch the other couple of videos Mark did on this channel about trans people who went back de-transitioning. They have some msgs that the world and especially trans people needed to hear and think deeply about.

[@rogierdikkes]

Title of this video reminds me of a Type O negative song: My first day as a woman, and its already that time of the month. 😂

[@bobross8786]

🤘

[@meghanpacheco]

Angry inch!

[@cocoono11]

I’m glad Type O covered that song because it brought more of the metalheads and queens together 😹

[@AnnaA-bw5gb]

Bahahaha fuck yes oh my God. Fellow type o fan here!!!!!!

[@wendymarie7151]

Love Type O Negative. The singer was incredibly amazing.

[@Splinter.00]

His spirit is twisted…. Satan is alive and convincing these people into a false perception…

[@kiwe3546]

Where is this Satan character? Have you seen him?

[@Raj-cl1xi]

What’s the original video called?

[@clairelumiere2901]

A Life On Drugs-Jamie

[@jeanpaullavieille5806]

Who cares 😅

[@devansantori557]

I've been off the streets and away from the life for a couple years now... The streets call to me too... They are my people too.

[@Psychefire]

No one should be giving death threats that include others and individuals themselves. Men and women chromosomes can not be changed. Men are XY or can be XXY. Women XX This cannot be. changed .Men can not change to women. They can take hormones, get surgery, change clothes, and wear wigs etc. a woman is more complex, with emotions, thought process, etc... Gender dsymorphia is real and needs therapy. Can the medical profession please help people. It's time for people to understand biology. Biology lessons for everyone please .

[@borano2031]

You´re talking about biology. This isn´t the case here. TRY your veeeeery best to TRY to understand this. Rgr

[@9395gb]

​@borano2031 they can't become women. Gender is NOT a social construct and never has been. Also these self ID laws will end up being reversed within a year or do when the medical, rape and sexual harassment lawsuits start piling up.

[@she_greene]

Betty 💚

[@djojo6857]

most of the time transgenderism is escapism and trauma response while yea be kind but don't lie to them part of healing is realizing reality

[@Tenacious1952]

Bettie makes me think of a female version of the actor Jeff Daniels.

[@Dizzydollie7]

I could’ve swore that was my old bus driver

[@BravoTassia]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@GeorgeBrinkmanJr]

Did you used to give your old bus driver blowjobs?

[@denalynnn2thelegendary170]

Lmao 🤣😂

[@lefroy1]

Otto?

[@smay1281]

Lol. So funny

[@marlismueller4496]

Why do people not understand that you cannot change your chromosomes???

[@kimthompson3846]

This is one reason. "Transgender people generally have a normal set of chromosomes, but some literature documents exceptions. For example, some transsexual men have a 47,XYY karyotype. Other genetic syndromes can also cause a dissociation between sex chromosomes and gender phenotype, such as when the SRY gene is translocated to an autosomal chromosome. In this case, someone with two X chromosomes may exhibit a male phenotype. Other studies have linked genes to gender dysphoria, which is when someone's gender identity differs from their biological sex. For example, a polymorphism of the CYP17 gene, which is related to sex steroid metabolism, has been associated with female-to-male transsexualism. However, babies with a Y chromosome and a mutant SRY gene are not disproportionately transgender. " Did you read this far?

[@marlismueller4496]

@@kimthompson3846 interesting, I did not know this

[@Fleezil2860]

@@kimthompson3846 zzzzzzzzzz