My first time going to CHURCH as OPENLY GAY man in 4 years- My Coming Out Story EP3

#comingoutstory #growth #selflove #acceptance #movingon
Hey Loves,
Welcome to my channel. In today's video, I will be telling a story about how I went back to the church, but as an open gay man now.
Please watch, like, and share to anyone who needs this.
Thank you ❤️
CONTACT
IG - buchi_em
twitter - derekbuchi4

[@isaiahben-yahweh3245]

Well truth be told you being gay is still wrong, don't like it? that's a you problem, but it's not like God doesn't want you in church, it's your choice

[@_derekbuchi]

To be clear, no gay person is thinking about you and what you think about them being gay. You can think what you think, no one is stopping you. But you need to understand that you and your opinions are way beyond irrelevant if it comes to that. And this video has nothing to do with you accepting gay people. It’s about gay people accepting themselves. And you accepting you.

[@isaiahben-yahweh3245]

@@_derekbuchi You seem not to grasp what I'm saying. I'm saying that regardless how you feel about being gay, whether you think it's a sin or not, God himself thinks it's a sin, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want you or other gays to reach out to him and uild a relationship

[@_derekbuchi]

@@isaiahben-yahweh3245 Yes that is what I am saying. God does not think me falling in love with a man is a sin, you think that. Jesus never said anything about gays, you are, and so are the leaders of the church. There’s a difference. About building a relationship with God, I have a very strong relationship with him. I don’t need to go to church to do that.

[@isaiahben-yahweh3245]

@@_derekbuchi Clearly you only read parts of the Bible that have nothing to do with sin. Jesus says as clear as day in Matthew that marriage is between man and woman, not woman and woman or man and man. So again you're ignoring willingly what the Bible says, for your own sin, Jesus said so himself that ONLY man and woman are righteous before God, not homosexuals. If you have a relationship with God, cool, but it's not a strong one because you clearly choose you're own sin and pleasure, over what God commands for all believers. That's your choice and you'll have to answer for it in the end. Yes I can judge you because I've never been homo and therefore not a hypocrite, that doesn't mean that I'm better than you, I'm just pointing out the facts son, you're the one making the choice to live in sin against God, he still loves you and wants you to change for him, but if you don't want to, he can't force you

[@_derekbuchi]

@@isaiahben-yahweh3245 First I must commend how peaceful you are approaching this, you could have come with hateful words but you didn’t, thank you. Secondly, I am well aware of everything said in the Bible, about men and women both in the old and New Testament. But there’s something we’ve all been adamant to when it comes to the Bible. God did not approve the Bible as a guide to him. God never said we must follow the Bible. God only said we must follow his words and his ways. It was we humans that made the Bible. Not only did we make the Bible, we translated the Bible. And 80 percent of the Bible is full of stories about people, and their testimonies and understanding of God. The only time God ever really made a statement about sin was in the commandant. And also through Jesus. The rest, is just us humans and our opinions. Don’t forget, the Bible was only translated to English a couple hundred years ago, during that time at which the Church were in control of human race, they killed and tortured and tormented the entire universe, all in the name of Jesus. Don’t forget, they gave us this Bible today. So why should I trust everything that I see in the Bible? Lastly, God knew people were going tamper with his words, that is why he warned us of it, you don’t think that has already happened? He did leave us with something, our conscience, which I believe is a part of God. No matter how evil we get or how pure we get, we can always tell right from wrong. And I can tell you that me falling in love with a man, and having children and raising them with love, and teaching them how to treat everything with respect and love, does not feel wrong.

[@allthingsrufy]

So Beautiful that you went to church today...theres a time i took a 2 year break i felt spiritually drained .needed to change the environment and did so ...I'm back to church,its not supposed to be about religion but God,faith,belief....Beautiful video ♥️ 🇰🇪

[@_derekbuchi]

Awwwww ❤❤❤❤

[@_derekbuchi]

I’m glad you did. It’s supposed to be love ultimately ❤

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you so much ❤

[@precioustheedon]

This was a beautiful video Thanks for always finding the strength to share Derek 🤍

[@_derekbuchi]

❤️❤️

[@_derekbuchi]

Thanks babe ❤️

[@XAntzArt]

Oh my god!!!! This was so beautiful 😢. Maybe one day i will go to church with you. ❤

[@_derekbuchi]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@_derekbuchi]

You should ❤

[@cheongsam-lady]

All i can say....one day we will all know the actual truth... and that will be in death. God is kind to let us choose who and what to believe but the amusing part is what we believe will either have a good or bad consequences in our lives

[@_derekbuchi]

Well said ❤️

[@UdegbunamChuks]

Na who Church epp?? 🤷🏾‍♂️ Mschew. The peace of mind that comes from not attending is ❤️❤️❤️. Who has time to be cherry picking the bible looking for which "sin" to be loud about and which to act like "na normal things na"

[@UdegbunamChuks]

I hope this church stays inclusive and meaningful to you ❤️❤️

[@_derekbuchi]

The peace of mind is priceless ❤️

[@_derekbuchi]

😂

[@_derekbuchi]

@@UdegbunamChuks I hope so too 😂

[@godslovejohn5214]

wow this is so nice

[@_derekbuchi]

❤️❤️❤️

[@godslovejohn5214]

I just followed u on Twitter

[@_derekbuchi]

@@godslovejohn5214 Thank you ❤️ but I am not always on twitter 😂 but you can follow me on IG @buchi_em