My Foster Care and Adoption Story

[@introvertednotsoyoutuber6126]

I just can’t get over how much Savannah and Crystal look alike.

[@squishycaroline]

Ikr!

[@trisharobinson2070]

Right!! Twinning!!!

[@caglrz2183]

Totally agree. She's beautiful

[@jessikr8379]

Meee too 😍🥺😱

[@jennamazaheri4966]

Right

[@Inspiredbyjames]

I really appreciate how Crystal helps guide the stories without taking over and speaks respectfully about their kids’ bio parents. They seem very levelheaded and respectful of their adoptive kids’ pasts, while also addressing and validating their traumas. I love that!

[@tjmunroe2615]

Right. Well said.

[@emilygracesirett4259]

I think savannah should do her story again once she gets a little older, I feel like since she’s young she looks at things a lot differently then she will when she’s older so it may be something you’ll want to retouch on so feelings don’t resurface

[@meganstriplin8233]

Im 30 and still have a random memory and realize the actual context and abuse around it a lot then I gotta process so I wonder what her perspective will be later in life hope she and all of these children know they deserve to be loved and safe :)

[@HughMadBro]

I agree, I didn’t realize how much of a messed up home I was in til I was 20ish.

[@samsimkin6814]

I’am almost 45 and still processing my past!

[@emilygracesirett4259]

@@HughMadBro yes! When your young your mind usually defends people’s actions aswell as you want to tell yourself that you do live in a good home even if it’s not the case , I’m 20 now and definitely starting to realize my childhood affected me more then I thought

[@simonesimone1101]

Yes I agree

[@lanii744]

Savannah is literally so mature for being 12, I love seeing her personality come out and her confidence she’s so beautiful ❤️

[@emmab.1328]

She’s 12?!?!?!?

[@madisonrae5875]

@@emmab.1328 yep!

[@lanii744]

@@emmab.1328 yes

[@annbednarczyk1006]

Ikr, my son is 12 and he is not nearly this mature.

[@saras-ut6eq]

@@emmab.1328 yea

[@annabialko2599]

I cant believe how much of savannahs personality has come out since her arrival.

[@rosebud0391]

Crazy how much unconditional love and stability changes you 🙌🏽

[@andreaqueen9056]

She’s awesome!

[@kaelyn1]

i agree !!! she was so closed and shy back then

[@alexlg9521]

Or how much kids are willing to change when offered a home and a lot of money...dem nails thoooooooo........

[@BrendaD72]

I appreciate how respectful Crystal is of not badmouthing any of the birth families.

[@wall_to_wall]

It’s a very critical part of foster care and adoption, particularly for children whose plan is to reunify. Because bad mouthing birth families can often lead the children to feel as though something is wrong with them. (We talked about it quite a bit in our foster parent licensing class.)

[@rrrrmcg408]

as if she would on youtube

[@yingyue9477]

It’s crazy how much Savannah and crystal look alike. Literally mother and daughter

[@juliagreenberg11]

Didn’t Savannah say that her bio mom looked similar to Crystal?

[@yingyue9477]

@@juliagreenberg11 yeah but it’s crazy how much they truly look like mother and daughter

[@suede2575]

Savannahs bio Mom was also named Crystal

[@pollyandme1759]

Agree!

[@tanyatanya8325]

I love Savannah's personality she seems fun to be around🙂

[@skypie5374]

She looks chill and swag 😎

[@lucasoscarc7759]

@@skypie5374 Yeah swaggy!

[@emilyh8156]

I cant believe she is only 12! She told this story with such maturity and pose. Thank you for sharing your story Savannah!!

[@user31third]

A lot of kids, when they talk about hard things, will look at their parents (like, in a doctor's office). I absolutely love that Savannah glances at Crystal several times, to bring her comfort ♡

[@jazzymartzz0825]

Savannah actually talks eloquently. She's smart just from the way she talks.

[@dare2horsecrazy]

I agree, she sounds very mature!

[@bunzzz4242]

Love how confident Savannah is in front of the camera!

[@rxseqvartz5679]

She always amaze me!

[@ninamarsuello2567]

I love how Lucas is in the background guiding Savannah with the story. Thank you for sharing your journey girly and let me just say that you're glowing beautifully, keep shining 💖✨💖✨

[@sancharimukherjee3940]

I love how real Savannah is , she looks like she never does anything just for camera which is very rare and beautiful to see.. hope u stay like this

[@katharinameneses315]

It's so nice to see Savannah's development since she got to the Pettit's home. She's glowing! I feel that she found her place on earth! Thank you for sharing your story, Savannah! You're so brave and have an amazing heart!

[@robynvaccaro9287]

I never realized Savannah was only 12!!! She's so mature and g is she gorgeous

[@lizdorney8755]

I agree!! She can pass for 14!!! I know it’s only 2 years of difference, but when you are a teenager 13-20 2 years of older age is a big difference!

[@paulnegro8383]

That’s because she has those long nails, highlights and makeup on. It makes her look way older than she is.

[@hardboiledeggo1451]

Savannah is so composed and mature! I cant even think about my past traumas let alone talk about them to the whole world and I’m 25. Crystal, she seems like your new lil shadow, she clearly adores the family :)

[@letsprayandfasttogether9618]

Strong girl but you are strong too 💪🏻

[@sophiemansell9813]

Such a special young lady. Her kindness, intelligence and maturity shines through. Crystal and Aaron you must be such proud parents.

[@jazzymartzz0825]

she looks like crystal so much!!! this is destiny

[@gweisa899]

She dye her hair blonder

[@sarahsimone640]

@@madisonrae5875 The comment is implying that Crystal and Savannah look so alike, so they were meant to be together as mother and daughter. Meant to be can mean destiny.

[@jazzymartzz0825]

@@sarahsimone640 exactly what I wanted to say, I don't watch the crazy middles so I don't know. Maybe I should check it out.

[@lizagervais8621]

I can totally understand Lilo & Stitch for Savannah. O’hana means family and family means no one is left behind. That’s exactly what she got when she joined your family. ❤️❤️❤️

[@beckyklepper315]

I'm so grateful that you have allowed each kid to own their own feelings about their take on the story that brought them to you.

[@robbiemarcum8878]

You look like Mother and daughter. I just love how they came for the weekend and never left. They both seamlessly slipped into the family. I am so happy how your family is just full of love and acceptance.

[@lunalunaluna6681]

Savannah's glow up (every aspect) is so heart warming. It just makes me feel so nice you know? ♡ Savannah and Crystal look like biological mother and daughter tbvh. ♡

[@hjfox1]

Savannah has blossomed so much since arriving at your home and fits perfectly in your family. She is so beautiful and has the soul to match!

[@stacimolinar3468]

“What kind of doctor” “prolly just a nurse assistant” hahahaha love it! Savannah is so mature for her age though for real!!

[@debrabuser9900]

Savannah just seems to be so much fun, and responsible. She is so beautiful

[@lianawoods8571]

I like the fact that Lucas was allowed to be in the back ground. Savannah has really opened up and I love her relationships with each child (teen) in the house.

[@jenswenson5525]

Allowed?

[@heaven4991]

She is literally getting paid to do this. This isn’t brave they are using her story to make money. Will this poor girl be able to live with herself as an adult when anyone can google her name and know her whole story, including her patients and employers. Does that matter to crystal and Aaron? No money matters to them, that’s why they bought a mansion. They will never stop exploiting these poor already traumatized kids. They should be shunned not celebrated.

[@heaven4991]

@@Joseph-zd7kg you are putting words in my mouth. I stand by my statements 1000% regardless if anyone agrees with me. If you don’t see it thats on you, and I’ll hope to the high powers that one day you will understand were I am coming from. Have a great day/night.

[@tjmunroe2615]

Complete nonsense, they are t forced to be on camera or tell their stories.

[@cupcakecandyshop918]

@@heaven4991 they aren’t forced to do anything if they were uncomfortable with sharing stories I’m sure they would say something

[@seanhaugen2437]

Savannah's confidence is truly amazing. She is going to be successful in life. I truly wish you all the best Savannah!

[@1jazzyphae]

Aww I hope she's doing good. We barely see here these days I feel lol she looks so much like Crystal it's amazing!!!!

[@aalyiahsills8110]

Your not the only one who thinks Savannah looks like crystal

[@1jazzyphae]

@@aalyiahsills8110 omg i know 😂

[@littleleah5182]

@@aalyiahsills8110 obviously

[@LizzyMarieTina]

It'd be funny to find out they are actually cousins a few generations back.

[@vikkigillin3411]

Now we know why they look so similar if crystal looks like their bio mum, crazy tho eh.

[@holliegirl7806]

I love seeing Savanna and Lucas blossom. It’s amazing seeing them grow in such a healthy and loving family. It definitely was meant to be. Thank you for sharing your story.. God bless you all!

[@swimfreak2625]

Savanah is so mature for her age. She’s growing up to be a beautiful young lady and a mini crystal!

[@cindywaldrop4287]

Savannah has got the most beautiful eyes! Prayers for her and Lucas as they continue to adjust. Love you all!

[@y878h]

I didnt even recognized Savannah at first until you said luke was her brother! wow what an amazing change. She has definitely come out of her shell; beautiful inside and out!

[@meliq13]

Savanah would be AWESOME in the medical field. ❤

[@bluesgirl1980]

AGREED!

[@ceciiturria7869]

I think that Savannah could look like shy but she is always aware of the situation like taking care of everyone around there. Shes is stronger than she seems. And its fantastic seeing how she is gaining more confidence and how is able to choose what to wear. I think she feels relief and safety with no one judging her. I apreciate that she told her story. Shes such a nice girl. And these are just assumptions that i made. Sorry if i misspell something. Im learning a lot from you about Foster care and how to help kids dealing with hard past and btw improving my english. Lots of love for your family and greetings.

[@antoniaortega9727]

Savannah is so beautiful... It is so nice to FINALY get to see her smile and here her talk. She's always in the background or not even present in most of the pictures and videos. She doesn't come across as a spoiled or selfish kid. I hope to see and hear from her more.

[@tjmunroe2615]

They aren’t a spoiled or selfish family

[@deniselancaster6888]

It's lovely to see Savannah blossom in a stable, safe and secure loving forever home.

[@genamartin229]

Savannah, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, happy and blessed! I feel you ended up in the best possible place to come into your own! Love you Crystal!❤️

[@oliviacoulon5892]

when she said she was born in 2008 my mind was shocked because of how responsible she is at 13

[@alishaselles6061]

Savannah is a beautiful young lady! She seems like she has her head on straight and so mature! Love seeing her relationship with her siblings! 🥰❤️

[@toriehaynes4283]

A lot of times when children go thru trauma they forget a lot of stuff. I can’t remember most of my childhood.

[@famray2646]

Same here

[@maryhopcroft4263]

Savannah has grown so much since moving in with The Petitts, I'm so glad her and Luke found their forever homes ❤️

[@CaitlynAtkinson]

Savannah is such an amazing young lady She is going to change the world each and everyday. It's so werid but amazing how much she looks like Crystal and Hallie 💜💜 and does she ever look like Mindy. It's definitely ment to be ❤

[@ravendawnhead97]

Could be related in some way that they don’t know about yet. I wouldn’t be shocked. Like 4th or 5th cousins or something. Could be possible.

[@CaitlynAtkinson]

@@ravendawnhead97 very true but I highly doubt it. But when she does the 23 and me test it will show them more

[@ravendawnhead97]

@@CaitlynAtkinson True. I just wouldn’t be shocked. Would be interesting though.

[@suzytinsley1474]

Savannah is so mature for her age. I just want to say thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm sorry you have not always had the best experiences. I am sure that Crystal and Aaron will be the mother and father that you and Lucas both deserve. Praying that your future is way better than your past, and that you get to experience the best that life has to offer.

[@sohamchaudhari2199]

Hi ❤️ from India 🇮🇳 Here in India situation isn't good due to Covid-19, so when I watch you guys it really feels very nice. it's 11:00pm in India right now. Everyday I got notification at this time so since few days before going to sleep I watch crazy pieces, that really helps me to forget all kind of negativity. So thanks for that 🙏🏻☺️

[@1jazzyphae]

Prayers to you and your family💜

[@unapologeticallyamy9031]

We are praying for the people suffering in India 💕😢

[@paruldubey9557]

Same for me as well, we Indians are going through alot.. and crazy pieces vedios are basically everyday positively pills for us... 🌸

[@sohamchaudhari2199]

@@1jazzyphae Thanks ❤️

[@sohamchaudhari2199]

@@unapologeticallyamy9031 Thanks🙏🏻❤️

[@kimluarks2418]

I love how much savanna has grown into herself since coming to you! It's obvious you provide the love and nurturing necessary for this type of growth! I wish I could be friends with both you guys and crazy middles!

[@katybagels]

So proud of Sav for telling her story! Can totally see her being an elementary school nurse someday.

[@michaelatkins1723]

I love that Savannah is really coming in to her own since the adoption! She has a very sweet spirit! Would love to hear more about Lucas too!

[@Haleyonthe_daily]

Crystal, she doesn’t look like your sister, she looks exactly like you! Down to the eyes, nose, lips, so crazy😄 you two were meant for each other for sure 💕

[@robynvaccaro9287]

I love how open and willing to share their past they are

[@lindsaydavis9218]

I absolutely love watching Savannah and Luke and how much they’ve grown into themselves since coming to your house! I have a daughter who’s also 12 & she’s the only girl out of 7! So she has 6 brothers! She reminds me a lot of Savannah!! Love watching your family, Crystal & Aaron you are amazing for what you guys do!

[@shanawesthoff9622]

These are such crazy stories meanwhile everyone seams happy. Savannah looks just like Crystal. Savannah your personality is calm and sweet. I wish you the best!

[@kittm02]

Savannah’s facial features is beautiful. She’s beautiful. You and Lucas are in a better place now. So happy for the both of you.

[@oliviaburleson5888]

I have a friend that is adopted and it's amazing how much she too looks like her mom. God is fun like that though. Always in the details showing us how much he loves us!

[@meowcarm]

it’s so nice to see how much savannah has opened up! you can see she’s comfortable with you guys now 🥺

[@RachelARBlack]

What a gorgeous girl. Savannah is in the right place to flourish now. Good job Crystal for supportively clarifying and questioning. Under your guidance another child will succeed in life. (& Aaron’s!!)

[@savannahsnaps6]

I love that crystal is so open to keeping those biological family relationships even if its a bit tough

[@sportclips9658]

She’s only 1 year older than me! She’s so mature!! It’s so nice of you to want to share this with us! Your in such a good family now! I’m happy for how far you have come in life!!! Your a special girl savannah!! You’ll grow up and be happy, and live a great life!!

[@frs-01-35]

Savannah is a very kind and pretty girl. And to my mind she looks more like you, Crystal, than your sister.

[@Donna-qt1ot]

Savannah has just blossomed into a confident, beautiful young lady. Just goes to show that love and stability really do make a huge difference in people's lives. You rock, Savannah!😎

[@katyann8553]

Love how much your confidence has grown Savannah! Beautiful and your hair looks fab!!

[@sheilacaine3962]

Savannah you are a beautiful young lady and I think you are kind hearted and I see it when you are with others. I enjoyed your story.

[@ednanelson1897]

It's amazing how much Savanah looks like Crystal. What a blessing to have parents that give you a platform to share your story. No one knows what we go through in life. You were able to articulate your experiences with such poise. Kudos to you, Savanah.🥰

[@eztivade7126]

she always seems so calm in front of the camera

[@ca819]

Savannah turns out even more beautiful by the day - inside and outside. 💝

[@veronicahartnett4933]

Savannah is just amazing.. What a beautiful young lady. You both are lucky to have found one another. Crystal you are such a loving and kind Mom to all of your children. It takes special people to love beyond having a child grow in your belly but better yet grow from your heart...

[@sunshinelucy105]

She's beautiful and very composed.

[@mindyedwards3574]

Crystal, thank you for always navigating these conversations for your children with grace and understanding. I love that this creates an outlet for your kids to share their stories before they came into your family. I love your family, and I would totally slide into the pew next to y'all and just enjoy the beautiful sound of kids. Eternal families are the bomb!

[@lukethomas772]

1:53 lol that look said "oh for god sake really?!" call me crazy but i love the little gap in the teeth one of my friends has it an its just so cute! it sounds like they've been bounced from place to place, im glad they have a steady life now

[@jenniwright51]

Savannah is a year older then my youngest and yet so much more grown up then she is. Savannah you are so beautiful inside and out, I’m so glad you now have a lovely family to support you and your brother. Xoxox

[@sirrahderv9165]

I feel like while it’s nice to acknowledge that controlling what your female family members wear comes from a place that is ‘protective’. It contributes to victim blaming and the idea that what you wear brings danger to you. It’s always the person that brings the danger you can be ‘perfectly’ dressed and still be treated poorly or assaulted. Also, I think male family members need this message that they do not have any control over the way others dress or behave any more than your female family member would have.

[@SurvivorOfChildAbuse886]

As a former foster child myself. It is great to see good people like you take someone in that has been through hard times. When a lot of foster parents do it for the wrong reasons.

[@simonesimone1101]

Aw I can't believe Savannah is only 12 and has been through so much, such a strong and beautiful girl. I do think she is still very young and should tell her story when she is a little older and understands a little more. The old pictures are so cute 🥰

[@jagslayerboy9647]

Savanah is such a beautiful girl I wish so much happiness in her life God bless her and Luke

[@marthacalderon197]

As a current nursing student. DO IT!!!🌻 it’s a full time commitment but it is so worth it. And I’m writhing this with the stress of preparing for a final. 🩺🌸

[@cynthiaa.1262]

and as an RN who just passed her boards, I am wishing you all the luck on your finals! 💖

[@eadaoinmcgugan5070]

So special to have seen savannahs and lukas come into themselves and find their places in the family, I have always loved the freedom Crystal and Aaron give their children, they talk openly to all the kids about past and potential trauma, the way that savannahs has her nails done and is wearing makeup, the fact that she can express herself however she needs to and crystal and Aaron are just there to support her, and all the kids. As a mother I adore the way Crystal and Aaron parents, the children are an absolute testament to that Big love crazy pieces 💙💜🕉️

[@maddyythedreamer7309]

I love how Crystal let's the kids share their own perspectives on their adoption stories❤ its really interesting to hear about!

[@nancyschumacher8940]

I am glad that the kids have shared their stories because it demonstrates how confusing and life altering being in an environment that ultimately leads to foster care or DHS being involved. The kids are so little that they generally rely on others to try to make sense out of later on.

[@thatcrazychicken]

FORGET looking like Crystal's sister.. Shes a spitting image of Crystal! Both her and Lucas belong here, and there is no denying them as their own. ❤🤣

[@peacenserenity19]

It's amazing how much they look alike. They have the same nose and lips. It truly amazing.

[@juliagreenberg11]

Didn’t Savannah say that her bio mom looked similar to Crystal?

[@trishm.9294]

This was so beautiful ! Crystal and Savannah were both finishing each other’s sentences. I live less than a mile from Disneyland and 20 minutes from the beach. I worked at Disneyland from 1980 to 1985.

[@debbiecochrane6269]

Savannah still seems shy and scared to be herself, but she is beautiful and so delicate. I hope she comes into her own personality. Savannah you are awesome, know you are safe and in a lovely forever home now xox

[@meliossabatini3540]

I agree how siblings can see things so differently. My older brother idolised my mom and held my dad accountable for our childhood while for me its the reverse my dad is my hero.

[@sandrajewell5288]

Those two were very meant to be with you and Aaron!! God bless you and the family! :-)

[@lisav834]

Savannah, you have something special, you have a beautiful soul 💕 God bless you and your precious family

[@smisplacedalaskan1762]

Thank you for sharing your story Savannah (and Luke a bit from the side-lines). Sometimes it's cathartic to just let it out and let it go. Wishing you all the best for your future.

[@christamieday4142]

Savannah you would be a great nurse! Thank you for sharing your story with us. I am looking forward to all the wonderful things your future holds!

[@dustienelson2179]

I remember when I was younger and I was in foster care it’s so hard as a kid wanting to know if this will be your forever home but then you end up getting placed into another home it gets really hard.

[@natalienickals3676]

She looks like she’s become healthier since she’s become part of your family. She’s blossoming into a healthy happy teen and that’s so awesome to see!

[@stephanieneighbors4291]

Savannah is so beautiful inside and out!!

[@eb3043]

Thank you Crystal & Aaron for all the love that you for your children. You are truly a blessing!

[@abigailbailey6849]

Thanks for sharing what you feel comfortable sharing Savannah. You were super confident and love your personality. Can’t wait to hear Luke’s perspective though.

[@Amiehebekeuser]

Savanna you’re such a sweet soul! I’m so very sorry that you ever had to deal with that ever! You’ve blossomed into a gorgeous young woman & I believe that you are going to go to high places ♥️

[@guadalupecernaguzman8887]

I can’t wait to watch her and Luke and all the kiddos in this family grow and succeed. I can’t believe how amazing and happy she is even with her past. Shes a beautiful soul that fits in perfectly in this FOREVER home. Total side note but i love her nails!!

[@CaptainJeffMarchant]

Thank you for sharing your story Savannah. You and Lucas both fit in so perfectly with the Petits. I am so happy they adopted you both. You seem so cheery and happy now.

[@day-vlogs22]

I been waiting for this story . Thank you for sharing your story Savannah !!

[@maddienicole4660]

Savannah has truly grown and blossomed into herself so much. She has such an amazing personality and it’s been so amazing to watch her grow and learn to trust the Pettits. She has such a bright future!! ❤️

[@Meganaparker]

One question I have is does it trigger anything for savannah with crystal having the same name and looks like her birth mom?

[@dreamylifeoflacey]

I was wondering this too! & how did she feel when she first saw Crystal?

[@sherrenehiggins6181]

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us Savannah. I love watching this channel, but don't comment much. I find your family a great way to relax, unwind and appreciate what I have and that there are people who can adopt so many kids. I'm glad that you found your forever home where you know that you will always be loved and supported. I think you would be great as a doctor or nurse or anything you decide on. I can see you in a 'care giver' job. As I say to my boys, I just want you to be in a job that you can be passionate about. Fun fact: My youngest son's name is Stitch and he has just started studying to become a paramedic. Thanks again, and I wish you a whole world of happiness. xo

[@kt493]

I love how savanna and crystal have the same eyes.

[@jessicawright8759]

I remember my first time at the beach. I was 18 years old. Such a different experience and beautiful.