Finding Myself | Foster Care and Adoption Journey | Emotional!

[@lindsayceara]

To anyone who adopts and genuinely treats the kids like they’re your own, on behalf of literally everyone, thank you.

[@jennyevans8160]

💯 I’m so blessed to say this was me, I was blessed with such beautiful ppl. Thank you to all those precious ppl that have done this, you have no idea how you change someone’s life so from the bottom of my heart thank you 💖💙💜💜

[@rashaalsaeed7687]

😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@Mylifeasmsmodel]

This is what I eventually want to do. I don’t want to give birth. I’d rather adopt and give a child a good life that they never had.🙂💗

[@lanaetaylor6317]

I adopted my daughter when she was a newborn. She is mine, not sure how I would ever treat her any differently. It breaks my heart seeing and hearing such heart breaking lives children go through. I tell anyone who says they don't want any, if it happens to give them to me. I'll love as many as possible.

[@michelleleebanninger2523]

I’m in tears. Learning about adoptees help me. I did adopt a 4 yr old and I want to make she never feels alone. Your stories guide us to do the right thing. Thank you

[@obx_stories05]

The fact that she would wait until she turned 18 and adopt Rylan and Liam shows how much she cares❤️

[@deewagner4999]

I hope she allows them to stay right where they are at and she continues her education and grows to her full potential in life. She gas such a testimony and so much love to give.

[@lindageorge6174]

You have so many cute touches around your bedroom! 💞

[@Queenbee845]

It’s so nice to see Bella being able to breath and be a child again. She loves her brothers so much but the stress of her worrying about them 24/7 is finally over.

[@rachaelhighfill7275]

Bella you have such a beautiful sweet soul! Keep being you ways! Rachael

[@Queenbee845]

@@rachaelhighfill7275 I’m sorry if you thought I was Bella… but she does she looks genuine happy 😊 wishing her nothing but the best!

[@luciamartins4979]

LOVE YOU BUNCHES TODAY SWEETHEART ANGEL

[@caseybentley5417]

“The day I became a mother” Bella you are so strong. You are so mature for your age. I am in tears.

[@dnagoddesshealings2212]

That 100% got me too! 🥺😭

[@startrekgrl]

Literally weeping. She was talking like a 40-year-old. Jesus was with her the whole time. Praise God. She is with a great family now. I am so happy for her and her brothers. Bella, Continue to take care of your mental health young lady. You are incredible.

[@hailey3324]

How old is she? Sorry, I’m so new

[@caseybentley5417]

@@hailey3324 she’s almost 16

[@hailey3324]

@@caseybentley5417 ok! Ty! I watched “get to know me video” she’s like 4 months younger then me, girl she’s so pretty

[@kmr666]

18 minutes in and I’m listening to this precious Angel talk about how she herself at twelve years old removed herself and her little brothers from an abusive and dangerous situation. What an absolute HERO who shouldn’t have had to be one. Bravo to you Bella. I’m so glad the universe put you and the Petits in each other’s paths.

[@ericaeames28]

Hi Bella. I’m a mental health therapist actually stationed in a local HS building. YOU did an incredible job sharing your story- So brave, honest and incredible 👏. If you don’t mind- I’d love to share your story w some of my kids I see…..I see many kids who are in the system through the course of my work and I think u will inspire them- You did an incredible job sharing your story! YOU took YOUR power back, YOUR story back! Great, great job! So very proud of u!! What an awesome role model u are!

[@angeemh7]

Yes!!! Thissss!!! I agree with all you say!!! I really believe Bella was put here to help all those children who feel they don't have a voice and the courage to get out of a bad situation!

[@bonnieb7608]

❤ I think some of the kids would really connect with Bella on her telling her story. She would be a good role model I think.

[@carmencitadavis9043]

I think you all need to get Bella's parent's permission because Bella is just a child before you start sharing her story with other people and yes she's sharing it on KZbin because I'm sure her mother gave her permission to because you all don't know if she would get in trouble allowing you all to share her story without her adopted parents permission because the courts may not want her sharing her story with everybody

[@jenifermckeehan7201]

@@carmencitadavis9043 Bella didn’t give the names of her parents or any of the other people who also didn’t help her and treat her in a way that she should have been treated. I would say that if names were used then yes get permission but in reality this is her story and she has rights to tell her story no matter what.

[@chelsealane9304]

Crystal and Arron always wait for the child to be ready to share there story. So as long as Bella wants to share , her parents would most likely love the idea as sharing with others in the same situation!

[@roxannefreeman3935]

“The day I became a mother” oh honey my heart hurts that at four you were put in a position where that was the new normal. You are beyond strong and I’m so happy you found your forever family where you can just be a kid

[@cj_2892]

She was 8 and Rylan was 4 when she had to step up as their mother she mean..🙂she and Rylan are 4 years apart..

[@roxannefreeman3935]

@@cj_2892 politely if you go back and listen, her biological parents were not present parents, so the day her first brother was born was the day in her world she became a mom, which is what she said. It’s not kind to argue on someone else’s life, regardless taking the responsibility of two children before the age of ten makes my heart hurt and she is beyond strong. Your comment to me felt irrelevant, in a kind way please think before posting.

[@robbatinkoff2586]

@@cj_2892 if you do some math you’d realise that bella and rylan are four years apart and rylan was born when bella was four.

[@brittanypurpur2933]

@@cj_2892 no Literally said 5 I mean when I was 4 is when I had to become a mother

[@cj_2892]

I didn't mean to argue..I just stated what I understand as what she said.. I understand she's been very protective about her brothers ever since but as what she said the time she STEPPED UP TO BE A MOTHER figure to them was the time they moved with their grandma's..🙂✌️

[@liviar5526]

It touched me when Bella mentioned she became a mother at age 4 to her brother, no child should have to go through that, on top of all the abuse she experienced. I can’t imagine how much courage it takes to go through that and still share your story. Wishing you a great future moving forward and that you may heal from this 🙏💕

[@cj_2892]

She was 8 Rylan was 4 she mean..🙂✌️

[@debbev4939]

Bella said when her little brother was born she was 4. And since he was born she has been looking out for him. Like she became a mother at 4. ❤

[@hollympunga4666]

Bella is super protective of her brothers

[@addisynriley966]

I feel bad for Bella I hope she never will go through this again I have a crush on Rylan and he is sooo cute thank you bella for what you did for them I am going to send him fan mail

[@Cassiesibbitt]

The second she started talking about having to Leave Rylan behind I started tearing up. I can’t imagine having to leave one of your siblings, especially one you’ve practically raised and feel so responsible for. Imagine going through all of this and then in the end, ending up with the best family ever. So so lucky to end up with the Pettit’s! A beautiful family, and im so glad all 3 of you got adopted!

[@morganteevan7602]

Wow. I’m sat here crying at how well spoken and mature Bella is. Well done Bella, you’re amazing!

[@verbrugghezelda3808]

I was too

[@tammyv9899]

I agree. I just finished watching and I'm crying. I have no words that can express how I'm feeling. Bella you are amazing and you are moving forward. You are blessed to be where you are.

[@dianewilson6960]

Bella…I am so impressed with the courage it took to put your story out there like this. You are one amazing young woman to have dealt with all that trauma and abuse and still stood strong for your little brothers. Your heart is BIG and you’re going to be able to use your story to help so many others in the same situation. God has got BIG plans for you. Keep on with the grateful heart. Love you girl! 💗

[@jennyevans8160]

💯

[@halliefaye2108]

Bella is such a good person. She is a warrior. She protected the boys her entire life & now she gets to be a kid & she knows theyre being taken care of properly. I’m so glad she ended up exactly where she’s supposed to be. Bella, you’re good enough & you ALWAYS have been. I’m so glad you have a family that tells you that now!

[@laceysullivan1360]

I love you crazy pieces and I feel bad for the stuff you have went through went through

[@islandtwist702]

That part! She can actually be a kid again and never have to worry if they will be ok. ❤

[@magdaprado9132]

Was thinking that too! She can now be a sister and enjoy her life as she should 🥹

[@UnBoxLifeWithLori]

The first thing I notice is that Bella is relaxed, and smiling, and happy, and being a teenager. Crystal and Aaron are angels on earth - the love they give to all of their children. Bella - big hug! You are beautiful and strong and amazing!!!

[@lindsayceara]

I’m 18 minutes in and can’t stop crying. This explains why Bella is so mature and humble. Children should NEVER have to grow up like this or that fast, she never had a normal childhood and it’s so infuriating to know that everyone failed her before she got adopted. If anyone’s reading this and you have kids at home (even if they’re not yours) please be a light for them and never allow them to grow up like that. Bella, if you ever read this, we’re all SO proud of you and we love y’all. You all deserve the world and I’m so sorry for everything you went through, but I’m so glad that it brought you to Aaron and Crystal.🤍🤍🤍

[@anitadean4092]

Bella, my heart aches for you and your brothers. You are a beautiful, smart, and caring person. God protected you and your brothers. Stay encouraged, Aaron and Crystal are the best parents for you. If it was possible, I’d love to just give you a hug. Y’all are very special. 💕

[@ambersvibincookingandmakeupbea]

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii @CrazyPieces Bella I Hate That You're All Going Through You And Your Brothers Didn't Deserve Any Abuse From Anyone I Love How You And Your Brothers Are Now In A Loving & Caring Family

[@kaminunn7056]

Bella I am so sorry you are an amazing person and so humble I am so sorry you went through that and I understand that nobody will understand the way you do unless they go through it 😭

[@sandi.huskisson]

Amen to this, Bella, you are SUCH an inspiration, heart wrenching 💔

[@sandijambrek2215]

Bella, I am a 54 year old Mom and I want to tell you that I am so beyond proud of you! This video must have been the hardest thing to do. You made me cry so unbelievably hard. Not only because of what you and your brothers have been through, but because of the most amazing young lady you are becoming! I am so happy and thankful that this family found you and your brothers. I have watched them for a long time. You 3 are HOME forever! ❤

[@anitadean4092]

Sandi, did you have to go there? Tears started flowing again. You said nothing wrong. I just couldn’t imagine hurting my kids, like that. Bella you are one strong young lady. Love you to the crazy pieces. 💕

[@chantelamber8062]

My freaking heart right now!!! I decided to look at older videos to learn more about the kids...this one steaks my entire heart. It hits home SO hard. She is nothing short of incredible and brave. ❤

[@mouse589c5]

"I stole the camera ...... my mom ....won't care" ; just your opening says volumes about how safe and stable your life is. I'm so glad for you. You are far more resilient than you give yourself credit. I'm so happy that you've found your tribe. Keep building on your strengths. You had a lot to start with, even if it doesn't seem like it.

[@tammicomeau3757]

So true about her mom :) I love these guys.

[@sazmyster]

This is one of the best videos I've seen on this channel. No-one owes the Internet there story, but to see Bella want to tell hers for her, was just so inspiring. Lord, she's been through so much, but she's so humble it's amazing! This family are just amazing, crystal and Aaron are quite remarkable people and inspirations as parents.

[@beatrizh4237]

I agree 100%! Bella is an amazing young lady. She’s a superhero in my eyes. ❤

[@ChildofGodslove73]

I have to say this is one of if not the best adoption stories in this channel. I love how courageous Bella is with doing this alone and in doing it alone she had no one jumping in on any parts to put in their perspective..so I loved how real,true,honest and open Bella was able to tell her story alone. And Bella anyone would be honored to have you as a daughter. You are amazing and I just love you just from watching you grow.. please keep working on your past trauma and keep moving forward. God has big plans for you. And I'm glad you can just be you and be a normal teen and not a mom now knowing you and your brothers are safe and loved. Thank you Bella for telling your story and opening up and letting us all know the strong, genuine beautiful and courageous young woman you are. Much love from Florida

[@BMarie774]

15:09 man, when she mentioned quarantine, it really signified to me just how recently they were adopted! Wild! It feels like they’ve always been apart of the flogs!

[@marymorris8690]

Crystal once talked on a video about the light inside of a child that has had trauma. She talked about the muck and yuck that dulls that light and basically how you have to work away at the layers to eventually let them shine bright. I have always remembered her talking about it as i too was a foster child that eventually aged out after 8 years in the system. I am 46 now and finally feel like I can shine. I love that this family is so kind and loving to their children and they get a chance to shine so much younger. Bella honey, you definitely shine bright beautiful girl. I am so glad that you and your brothers were blessed by being gifted this family ❤️❤️ I love that you get to be a sister, daughter, niece and granddaughter and you no longer have to be a childhood mom. I have loved seeing you bloom. You are like a bright sunflower that bloomed and shines and you stand tall. Thank you for your story.

[@angeemh7]

Mary Morris, your words are sooo powerful, sooo well said! I know they are from your heart ❤️! Just know you are very special too!! I know you said you aged out of the system. I still pray you've had someone who adopted you into their heart that you are able to call family❤!! Yes, I do remember watching that vlog. I have to say that Cyrstal and Arron, both, are such a wonderful blessing to ALL their children!!! Thank you, Crystal, for giving Bella the push she needed, to be able to open up and become the beautiful, wonderful young lady she is!!! You all are amazing!!! These children are learning how to be loved, cherished, and honored as part of a real forever family! God is oh, sooo good! I know many may say, if God is sooo good, then WHY did these children have to go through all of things they went through. In my opinion, I believe we all go through stuff, some worse than others. I believe God allows us to go through these "challenges" first and foremost, to turn to Him. Cry out to Him, and Depend on Him! Also, it is a teaching tool for everyone involved. So we can all help one another become better people! God bless you all Angee😇

[@rebeccacartwright9457]

43:50 you can see Bella realizing the hard work of raising her brothers paid off and how relieved she feels being in a beyond safe and loving space. She deserves you all, and watching her wall slowly come down after ensuring the love will stick has been beautiful

[@colaw77]

To Aaron and Crystal…thank you for the love you have shared with all your kids, and for the support to help them through the healing process. I wish there were more people like you! I’m so glad that Bella, Rylan, and Liam were able to stay together and finally find stability and caring parents. You guys are great role models for your kids and anyone who watches videos, showing how to have healthy relationships with others. 😊

[@emmieann2037]

I've watched all the kids foster care and adoption story.. and this is the most real and raw one yet. I know many people have mixed feelings on children sharing personal experiences on the internet but I believe this is so important. There are so many children that have felt and have gone through the same things. This is empowering and full of hope. Bella, you're so strong and the Lord has a special plans for you and your brothers. You're so loved and have touched the hearts of SO many of us. Although you didn't deserve any of the traumatic experiences you had, your are worthy of love, understanding and bliss. ❤

[@kiannanelson9372]

Bella, I don’t know if you and your siblings remember me, but I was a daycare teacher at Grace Neal Preschool, and I’m soooo happy you guys are in a loving home now ❤ this makes my heart full knowing you guys are taken care of 😊

[@tiffytazz]

Quite a few spots had me teary eyes but at the end when they showed adoption day and Aaron and Crystal were hugging them, you see a sigh of relief and a release in Bella. So happy for them all!!

[@kuroneko3896]

That moment was really moving!😭 Jamie saw it too, and gave her an extra warm hug! So special.

[@conm1366]

That part brought on the waterworks

[@lovingourfurryheartlife]

The look in Bellas eyes at the adoption and the way she looked at her brothers like she was saying, "I've done it. I have found a safe place for us" In the other videos, Bella always had the "what's going on?" Expression like being with the family was too good to be true and waiting for the other shoe to drop, and it would all disappear. At the adoption, she knew this IS real, this IS forever. ❤

[@dxminiquea]

Hearing Bella talk so openly and as much as she can with her trauma and mental health and all the negative things was so powerful. But her optimism and the way she talks about the Pettits is so beautiful and moving. Even as someone turning 21 this week, I look up to her emotional maturity

[@bethanysas]

After hearing Bellas story and then seeing the clip from the adoption you can clearly see in her face the relief of knowing her and her brothers are now safe actually made me tear up. Thank you Bella for sharing your story and I can’t wait to continue watching you and your brothers grow ❤❤❤❤❤

[@mariaryan8519]

I don't know you but ur a true survivor , i'm so beyond proud of you for speaking ur truth . I am a survivor too , it took me 49 year's to speak my truth to the people that truly love me . I am ten months in from breaking contact and i'll never go back . Keep shining bright you deserve the world nd more . I had to protect my younger brother till he died aged 41 , he was my world , we were twin's for a month every year , we didn't get out in time but you guy's did , ur mom nd dad , sibling's are the bomb xxxxxxxxxxxx

[@jennifergross9227]

Bella, as an adoptee from birth, I am overcome with emotion hearing your story. I wasn't wanted before I was born and felt angry almost my entire life about it. After hearing your story in depth it has given me a different perspective of my own feelings. I'm almost 50 years old now and thanks to your story and honesty I think I'm finally ready to let it go.

[@briethompson439]

Beautiful

[@nicoles2289]

Dear Bella, I would like to start with how proud I personally am as well as honoured to hear your story of survival. You are a true warrior! I can not stress enough to you how proud I am of you. As a mother myself of a daughter who is currently 15 and struggling with depression and an eating disorder, you give me strength and renewed hope and understanding to stay strong for her and a reminder that we are all going through our own story. You’re light shines bright Bella. Please know that you are the best you and NOBODY can ever take that power from you. You hold the keys and you are going places! We all love you Bella!

[@Trendycosmetics-os6gh]

After watching Bella explaining the hell life she experienced, this really touched me. Bella is strong as well for even facing camera and say what she went through publicly too. Thank God she ended up finding parents that really cares for her and adopted her too. How she was treated by her biological parents is bad . Crystal and her husband really cares about their kids biological and adopted too.

[@torisilver9488]

"Rylan and I are four years apart and that is the day I became a mother" - Bella I felt every bit of that sentence. Had to pause and write this. You are a beautiful human ❣️

[@Sunshinetards]

In the adoption vid at the end, seeing Bella's face as they hugged her, you can see she felt at peace and safe and happy....that is an amazing thing. The pettit's are an amazing group.

[@rebekahloots3274]

The fact that Bella is my age and has the courage to share her story really shows me how brave she is. I'd never be able to have the courage to do this, I love you Bella ❤️

[@lilywaller4711]

Every time Bella’s eyes watered I had to pause the video because I would start crying, I’m 19 and couldn’t imagine going through half of what her and her brothers have been through. My message to Bella is to be yourself and continue to be a bright light.

[@nadineduncan2678]

I was crying to and I’m 46 my heart was braking for u while been so brave

[@chellafrizzellHG4LIFE]

After hearing her story you can feel the emotions and relief Bella felt at the adoption. So greatful for you Crystal and Aaron! This was a tear jerker for sure! 😢 Bella you are AMAZING! 😊

[@jimunsworth4457]

Bella, you are such a remarkable young lady! I’ve written my comments several times, but I was unable to say in a fancy way, “thank you, for your dedications in looking after your brothers. Hope you find the safety in your current situation, and release your burdens of being a protectorate of your brothers, and for the three of you to regain the comfort of being inside a loving family. Hoping you are able to just be “ Bella”, enjoy the security of your family & friends…..

[@lizwilson-ri9fw]

This is one of the most heartbreaking yet inspiring things I have ever seen. Bella you are the very definition of a superhero, an absolute warrior and a proud representation of Maya Angelou's poem - 'AND STILL I RISE" I didn't think I could be so very proud of someone I had never met. We're rooting for you, keep rising! Rylan and Liam, the lord is looking out for you- he gave you Bella and then the Pettit's Crystal and Aaron, you are living angels here on earth- thank you for being an example for us all.

[@JaTon]

Yes!! Perfectly said! ❤

[@angeemh7]

Yes, Amen❤!!!

[@jenniferkeating4201]

Your brothers are so lucky to have you as a sister! Your truly a hero to them. Your saved them! Bella you are AMAZING!! Don't ever forget that!

[@hazelxiii]

As someone that has been adopted I love you all. I made it through this video until the montage and that got me in tears for the love and happiness xx

[@Jacquie0826]

I love seeing how Bella has blossomed over the past year. Like you can see the walls come down and how she's started being able to trust and accept all the love from her forever family. I'm glad she opened up and decided it would help heal her to tell her story.

[@kalinastorm9573]

I had assumed that Bella, Rylan and Liam had a pretty rough past based on things in older videos, but I didn't expect it to be as severe as it was. I know there are so many children out there who go through terrible trauma and it is so upsetting to know adults and school peers can be so cruel. I found myself tearing up multiple times and now I think back to older videos and how much they must have been going through in the beginning that didn't really connect until now. I am so proud of the three of you and all of the kids for the strength they have shown with their own issues. Sometimes you forget where these kids came from because of the positivity we see in the videos, but it is so nice to see how much their lives have changed for the better.

[@evaosborne7892]

the love Bella has for her little brothers is incredible, she's an inspiration. So shocking how the foster care system can separate siblings like that, so much more unnecessary trauma on top of what they've already gone through.

[@maryad397]

Bella, I'm 27 now and I went through an eating problem/"emo phase" and depression as a teenager. I'm telling you Bella, that you're growth has been insane! The fact you've put this out there and you're still struggling.. is proof that you've come so far sweetheart! On behalf of the entire world- thank you for being the best role model for not just your brothers but for everyone who needs to be grateful. Bella, its not always easy.. there will be many downs. But that's exactly why the good times will feel so great. And why you're such a wise, grateful and perfect girl! Throw the haters out and Keep pushing through Bella!! So much love from London, UK.

[@memeboyer5380]

This was beautifully said

[@kimberlypowell9625]

Bella ..... I hope you realize what you just did! What a story...... You are gonna help so many people. You are an inspiration! More than that... You are a hero! I am amazed as to how strong you are and how spiritual your soul is! Remember as strange as it sounds never be sad about your younger life or the trauma you have suffered. Although it was sad and painful at the time it has molded you into who you are today. You are very special and strong and like I said you are helping and saving lives as I speak. That is something to be proud of!. I am glad you are at peace right now and happy. You deserve it so much. Please continue to tell your story sweetheart. I am proud of you. You are amazing and you are going places baby girl. Watch and see.. also remember..... Life is what YOU make of it. You and only you control your destiny. Best wishes ! You are so brave and even more beautiful inside and out.🌹💐🌹

[@hannahyang1320]

Hands down the most powerful video I've seen on this channel. Bella, I cannot begin to imagine the impact you are going to continue to make on people throughout your life. You are so well spoken and brave to share your life like this and I look forward to seeing that light shine through more and more! What a beautiful family with such incredible parents!! ❤️

[@nicolelira714]

Each child on this channel is special and unique, but Bella, your story was the most impactful, in my opinion. I'm sorry you had to go through everything you did. Your brothers are lucky to have you. You're such a strong, mature, beautiful girl. Keep fighting the good fight 💙

[@alie_smith]

The maturity in Bella in just the last year or so is PHENOMENAL. So proud of her and so happy she has her forever family ❤️

[@LinCrimshaw]

Bella, you are a courageous and loving person, a wonderful role model for your brothers and an example for those who are dealing with lifelong trauma.

[@ciaraa]

Thank you Crystal and Aaron genuinely for changing these kids lives for the better ❤ you can really feel the love that radiates from this family!

[@TheBibliophilePuzzler]

Bella, I am incredibly proud of you for making this video and I am only one minute in. I am here for every second of it. Warm hugs sweetheart. This is from a mom of six and grandmother of 10 who is amazingly proud of you.

[@BigBabySis]

You're so brave Bella...I hope that you are so proud of your growth...healing takes time so be sure to give yourself grace when you make mistakes or find yourself being triggered by your past...the way that you express gratitude is astounding...I pray that you prosper in every venture that you choose to pursue...wishing you an overflow of greatness.

[@anonymous-bm5bp]

I like how Bella was strong enough to share what she went through as someone who currently is not the best situation and the same age it gives me hope that things could get better proud of her for sharing her story ❤

[@mindymerwitzer4626]

user-eq3ik6qy please like Bella talk about your situation with someone you feel comfortable communicating with.

[@imogenoliver]

I hope you get to a better place soon ☺️.

[@selenagomezacapella]

I didn’t expect to be bawling today but here I am, I’m so sorry you guys had to ever go through with that. You’re an incredible human being and sister Bella, your brothers are very lucky to have you. I’m glad you guys have found your forever family.

[@bubsy2u]

Crystal and Aaron, as a Mum who’s been through so much and love my kids so much, thank you for being amazing human beings! Bella, keep speaking your truth beautiful!! God bless you all!! 🙏🙏🙏♥️

[@chelsey3074]

As someone who went through something similar… my heart goes out to you, Bella! I’m 25 years old with a 15 year old sister and all I did was protect her and tried getting custody of her when I was 18! There is too much to my story, but I am so proud of you! I’m so happy you have found peace!

[@iylilyana]

I remembered being so excited the moment Crystal and Aaron told the kids they were gg to adopt again. And then we were excited for the new kids. And then we have to watch videos with their faces covered… as part of a longtime viewer, we love you Bella, rylan and Liam! we’re happy to see you 3 blending in so well with the family, as thought we’ve known you for so long! You’ve went through so much, and it will only get better from here on. You’re a great sister, Bella! Best wishes from Singapore ❤️

[@annt3802]

i cried, if i could i would adopt kids. i'm not financially, mentally stable, i also dont have my own home. thank you aaron and crystal for being the best people out there.

[@roseevelyns3331]

Bella bella bellaaaa, I am 17 turning 18 next week and seeing your familys channel and your story set a light on a topic that I feel like it needs to be more talked about. I know i have a long road ahead of me but I really do want to adopt a foster when I'm older and seeing you and other experiences through not only this channel but other channels really does help educate me. I dont know you and you dont know me but you are someone I look up to. Keep doing you girl

[@jillianx88]

So thankful for Crystal and Aaron. This just proves how much of a difference foster care and adoption make in this world. I am glad I took the time to watch this video. Bella you are such a beautiful soul. I’m thankful for the opportunity to learn more about your story.

[@whitneypickle]

I'm only 18 minutes in, but I hope you know that none of what happened to you and your brothers were your fault. You did nothing wrong. No amount of acting up or out, literally NOTHING warrants any of that happening to you guys. I am so proud of how far you have come and how strong you have been. It's been amazing watching you thrive with your family.

[@taylorfarrell3995]

This just drives me to want to foster and adopt even more than I already did. The strength this baby had to have at such a young age breaks my heart. 😭

[@DreamweavrHairDesign]

Bella this was vulnerable and you handled it so maturely. My kid told me to watch “my friend Bella’s adoption day video.” I’m glad he has good friends too. You are such a light in this world❤

[@Sarahchip]

I don’t think there could be a more perfect family out there for you! To have such a mix of kids who have all been through their own struggles, and then parents who actively support their children in whatever way they need…absolutely amazing. I’m so happy that you’re doing well now because you have proven to yourself that you can get really really depressed and then pull yourself out of it and get to the other side. That’s a life lesson that you can keep with you forever as you will always go through ups and downs. Also keep in mind that just because those downs in the future might not be the same “level” as you have seen in the past, it doesn’t make them any less important or any less difficult. I hope you continue this upward positivity! Thanks for sharing!!

[@moviemagus1921]

You're amazing, Bella. You had to be strong for so long just to literally keep others alive... But you're safe now. You can breathe a little, cry, scream, or whatever you need. I know it's scary to let yourself be vulnerable, make mistakes, and try normal teen stuff, but you're okay. You have a safety net now.

[@wright4388]

Bella, that took a lot of courage. You are an amazing young lady. I’m so proud of you and the great attitude you have. There is nothing in this world you can’t overcome. God bless you.

[@AKA-Nana]

Dear Bella….you are an amazing girl and while you may feel lucky to have been adopted by your Mom and Dad, they are the lucky ones. You are a gift, a beautiful storyteller and so brave. Don’t change, ever! You have lived more life than most, but are growing into a special young woman. Keep shining! ❤

[@tinar8200]

Oh my sweet bella as I sit here listening to your story I can't help but cry, because your story and mine are so similar. I can't express how proud i am of you. It took me 30 some years to tell my story and once I did it was like a huge weight lifted. Look at you girl you telling your story was a huge step in the right direction of healing. You are beautiful and smart and funny. I am so happy you have found your forever home. ❤️

[@ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname]

Bella im so proud of you for finding your strength to tell your story your way and on your own time and term even if it would not be to your KZbin family ❤

[@Musiccompletesmex3]

The incredibly strong individuals in this family never cease to amaze me every time I hear them speak about their stories and experiences in life. Bella, you and your brothers are such an amazing addition to the crazy pieces. I have been watching and admiring them for years and I just love how easily you all fit in with these amazing people. You are incredibly brave and courageous for 15 years old. One day you are going to make an amazing mother if you chose to do so and they will be incredibly blessed to have you. The way you spoke through your story and gave detail to some of the traumatic experiences speaks true to your mature character. You had to grow up so fast at such a young age. The blessings you have received in being adopted by your mom and dad make me feel like there’s still hope and good people in this world. I pray you continue to receive all the support you need and thrive in life. Thank you for being so vulnerable, your story may give many others some hope for a better future and better days to come.

[@chuckgranado3530]

😔 My God, what u said about being grateful and “how we take grateful for granted”… Powerful. MANY BLESSINGS 2 U and urs🙏🏼🤙🏼❤️

[@michaelmccarthy3191]

Bella, I have watched Crazy Pieces for years but have never commented. I just wanted to state that you are so incredibly articulate, your intelligence and brilliance was apparent as you told your story. Great things are ahead for you - my gut kept saying to me as I was watching you - “Bella would make an incredible educator - so many could learn and be enriched by her story”. Whatever path you choose, know that you have the power to change people and their ideologies - you changed mine. Keep moving forward and create success and happiness. Thanks so much for sharing with us all.

[@Deevamom28]

Bella to see you from when you first came to the crazy pieces, to now, is amazing. You’ve opened up so much and you are so beautiful. You are one of the most bravest young ladies I’ve got to see on KZbin and your brothers will always remember that you saved them from one horrible situation and started the process to get you guys to your forever family. The look of relief on your face when the adoption became final was the first thing anyone noticed, because we saw when you knew that your brothers were safe and you helped get them there. I know that you’re still having trouble with mental health, and just know that your internet older cousin Doris has your back.

[@rhondahead9197]

It’s so awesome to see Bella breathe and tell her story!! Never stop telling your story talk when you feel like it don’t keep it in!!!

[@amandalatshaw3676]

I have been watching Crazy Pieces and Crazy Middles for years. Your families have opened my eyes to foster care and adoption and made me really want to consider it as an option someday soon. Today, Bella single-handedly convinced me I HAVE to find a way to do. I have never been so moved by anything or anyone. ❤

[@haleyraine9923]

Bella, I know recovery can be so difficult with an eating disorder and I'm so glad you were brought into your new family. Having a family that supports you with recovery and mental health is so important! You're doing amazing, thank you for sharing your story with us.

[@connieriggs6177]

I have always had ultimate respect and honor for Aaron and Crystal! Now it’s to a while new level!! May God bless you for rescuing soooo many children! Dear Lord, you’ve saved sooo many precious angels!!!

[@kelseyjade4972]

Bella, as someone who has gone through the same sort of things and in care now, I really do feel for you. It’s a horrible thing to go through, and I am so very happy you were able to find a happy and healthy forever home. You truly deserve it. And the strength it takes to look after other siblings when your going through enough crap yourself, it takes so much. We all love you so much, and are very proud of you for making it through every single one of your bad days! Lots of love to you

[@amberc.2137]

Well said my friend!!👏👏

[@meliq13]

This made me ugly cry SO bad. Bella, sweet girl. As a girl (now in her 30s) who went through serious mental, emotional, and physical abuse while taking care of a younger sibling, I APPLAUD you for how brave and strong you are. May God keep providing love, happiness, peace, and light in your life with your beautiful forever family. ❤

[@fannyd.4874]

I am so happy for Bella, Rylan and Liam to have found this family ! Their story is heartbreaking. You are a strong and wonderful young woman Bella ❤

[@elizabethcim2571]

stop. when Bella said “that was the day I became a mother” instant tears. Bella is so strong and her brothers are lucky to have had her during those difficult times.

[@Interesting-Captures]

So proud of you Bella for telling your story! I don’t think you have a true idea of how many people mainly children you are helping by doing this. You’re living proof that tomorrow can be better than today. Stay strong as hard as the times were it didn’t break you and it led you to the path that you needed to be led to and that’s you’re a true family! I don’t think you have any more doubt about yourself anymore but if you do know that thousands and thousands of people are telling you different, we’re telling you you’re wanted and you’re needed and you are loved by an amazing family. I personally do not know any of you, but I have been watching the stories a few years now and yours broke my heart one moment I am in tears for what you endured, and then in tears of pure joy for you. I’m adopting myself nothing will ever replace that, this family choose you and your brothers and my family chose me. I can’t find a better love and want my family than that! Thank you for sharing your in my prayers. Your whole family are in my prayers.

[@Shawna1976-n1k]

I am 46 and still have mental health issues because of things from my childhood. I agree it doesn't define me. You guys have great parents. Don't ever stop believing. ❤️

[@shri6323]

Thank you Bella for opening up and trusting us to tell your story. God bless you always !! 🙂

[@ciaragriffin1488]

I live in kingman and I stg I used to know you… but I’m so happy you found everything you deserve!

[@katie.britcher]

Bella, you're frickin STRONG. And your brothers are, too. Thanks for making this video and for shining a light on what some kids in foster care have gone through/are going through. I think a lot of people will be signing up to be foster parents because of you. And your goal of being a good role model? You're there. God bless you!!

[@Danielle_-fw1dp]

I just wanna say Bella and your brothers are the strongest people ever you guys have went through so much but to see you guys now smiling and laughing and being with such a caring family that’s so amazing and I hope that you guys continue to live life the way that you guys deserve 🖤🦋🦋 seeing you cry was the worst feeling, because you and your brothers didn’t deserve all the bad things that happen But to see you happy and healthy and just being here for them is the best 🖤remember that you matter Bella ! You’re gorgeous, funny , sweet and so much more Your brothers are both caring , funny and just bring a huge smile on my face every time I see them in the videos 🦋always remember you bring light to so many people Thank you for sharing this because it’s not just helping me but so many 💓

[@VNXSXM]

The ending was so moving.From adoption day and seeing how at home they felt to them enjoying themselves to a complete family.Honestly I loved it.🥹♥️

[@al129]

I don't normally comment on videos, but I have to say well done Bella. You survived, you brought your brothers through an incredibly difficult journey to the Crazy Pieces family. You have shown that even within such a loving family there is still traumas and difficulties that have to be worked through. Take the time to enjoy life, be a teenager, to be a sister, to be Crystal and Aarons daughter, safe in the knowledge that you Rylan and Liam, are in such a loving and caring family. You have shown tremendous courage to get to where you are, and I can't help but feel that in speaking out about those events, you will become even stronger.

[@danaberi51]

Bella, I am so sorry for the trauma and abuse you had to go through. Thank you for having the strength and courage to share your story. You are beautiful inside and out. Let your light shine!

[@kovu_kash]

My parents was drug addicts but never neglect me so I don’t know the pain of that but they are 5 years drug free and when they was on drugs I feel how u feel I had to take care of my little sister always cook, do her hair, take her to the bus stop I was so exhausted some days I was tired to go to school! I never finished school because I became a mom to a child that I never birthed! Your lucky and very blessed to have people to take you in I see you can finally take care of yourself. Finish school because I really wish I could have!

[@lucindajoseph8585]

Hearing this story and seeing the adoption clip right after, really drives it home how much relief Bella must have felt in that moment, having gone through so so much to finally have a family and a safe place for her and her brothers. I can't even imagine that feeling but I'm here tearing up. Bella, you are such a strong person, and I think from the moment you were in that first vlog, we could all tell you are a good and pure human as well. You deserve all of the good things that happen from here on out.

[@katiemay9533]

I just wanna give this girl such a big hug.I’m beyond proud of you Bella of how far you’ve come and how you had to smash it all through such a young age I know you didn’t have it easy and life ain’t perfect but you are stronger than you think we love you Bella and thank you for sharing your story with us all ❤️

[@ariimonay1107]

i’ve been very apprehensive of watching this video because something about Bella, Rylan and Liam is so special to me! i knew i could relate to them even as a 22 year old woman! from the abusive homes, moving around, feeling unwanted and unheard to the mental health and ED i suffered through and am currently working on. i pray for them ALL the time!! they’re some tough little cookies and it’s so bittersweet to see where they’re at now. may god continue to bless them! 🧡

[@rosiedyer9419]

As a Grandma who loves her Grandchildren, Bella I applaud your bravery, courage and fortitude in keeping your siblings intact through some horrific times in your young life. You found a family and they found you. Your video will be far reaching to so many families who find themselves in your story, to families who may now reach out to children like you and your brothers, to care-givers who may gain renewed faith in the work they do…..I see you leading an important life sharing your messages and making your life shine.

[@bevjohnson7345]

Bella, this is one of my favorite vlogs. I am so glad that you took the initiative to tell your story. I am so happy for you at this stage of your life. You get to be a kid. You get to experience what teens should be experiencing. I am sorry that you had to experience the life before along with the physical and emotional abuse. You were a mom for a huge part of your life. You are a beautiful young lady inside and out. You know what is important in life. As far as the haters go, if you start to read something that is hating on you, stop reading it and don't give it any part of your joy. I always quote Dr. Seuss when people are jerks to others: "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." Happiness and love to you.

[@BMarie774]

So glad Bella recognizes her adjustment disorder this young. I have complex ptsd from a childhood and lifetime of trauma and before finding the right therapist, I didn’t recognize MANY triggers. People being slightly intoxicated around me, I’d always get in a really bad mood. Being called a dipshit, even jokingly, because it was a word one of my abusers used a lot, and so many other seemingly irrelevant things that I never even realized were triggers. One being adjustment and new surroundings.

[@jessicagarcia6373]

WOW, I can’t even imagine all of the things you went through that weren’t even mentioned. I pray for healing over you Bella and every other child with past trauma or even mental health issues. You have landed in the best home possible. You’ve got a great family now. Don’t ever forget that YOU MATTER❤️

[@day-vlogs22]

I’m so proud of you Bella for being able to share this story with the world. You are so loved by so many. You are so Strong you keep your head up. Your an amazing sister. I’m so sorry this happened to you. ❤️

[@paulaconquest5410]

Bella, you are a strong, well spoken, smart, emotionally intelligent , brave and caring young woman. Keep up all the good work you’ve clearly put in to working through all of this and healing. So thankful your forever family found you and the boys. ❤️

[@aamina2475]

The whole story was gut wrenching but the thought of a young Rylan being alone and scared, terrified, without his big sister, in a group home, made me cry my eyes out,