MY GERMANY 🇩🇪 AU PAIR STORY/ GETTING KICKED OUT MY EXPERIENCE & ADVICE.

[@honeydate]

This is the most extreme bad au pair experience to date - you are very resilient my dear! God blesses us in many ways because we forgive our enemies.

[@shallonshallon9772]

Oh 😧…My Au-pair year was the best Well at first I was hearing never choose a Single mother they are problematic..But I did challenge myself She was nice,Spoke Englisch,Covered almost all of my expenses, travelling always Punktlich with making my appointments .She was vegetarian 🌱,She would suggest I write my own grocery list and give her,She would also pay me extra money if I had to babysit her baby after past hours I had so much fun 🤩….

[@kathy_cate]

Wow! I hope I find mine soon

[@karenkanyi1080]

You can be an au pair for Single parents??

[@wambokimani682]

I think i will apply for a single Mum too....your story is super encouraging!

[@queenbeelifestyle8278]

Wow nice do you mind if I contact her I. Am also interested in Au-Pair but am scared

[@moments1182]

Hi sis just want to assure if we have same host family..were you here in Halberstadt oder?

[@muchemwasinkala9476]

I thought about au pairing straight after highschool but I was scared because of all the horror stories I heard. This was interesting, thanks! New here😊

[@marykinya7418]

This lady has a good narration skills...I've always loved her stories

[@MarthaFynest]

Thanks for confirming that aupair world is still working , that’s great! This was a very well detailed video , well done “Schatz” lol Gastmutti had issues , & abendbrot made you skinny in the end (2€)😅 on the contrary I came here skinny coz of German course stress and added weight coz of chocolates 🍫 & KFC

[@ruthqym5906]

It’s still happening only that sometimes the Embassy in Nairobi delays or deny the visas. The host mother used to cook once per week. The son used to eat kwa kita Mimi nijipange and I had no idea so I used to eat bread all through. Things like Joghurt zilikuwa za mtoto

[@bohboh7692]

@@ruthqym5906 Oooiye! Really how mean was your gastmutti?

[@pearlynina7597]

Nyinyi aki mnasema nini. I came here 45kg sasa niko kilo kumi plus. Aki si joke!

[@Adegborioye]

Anybody in the UK ready to be an au pair ?

[@Faith_..]

Honestly I've been writing for so many families and I was already giving up already!!! But after watching this I'm going to continue!!!!!

[@cirukarago7251]

Keep trying i understand it's not easy.. Persistence is key.

[@hildakimmy7421]

Same still searchinh

[@ruthqym5906]

Hilda Kimmy try in Austria as well

[@hildakimmy7421]

@@ruthqym5906 l have been doing that... With no succes

[@jemmojay3341]

​@@hildakimmy7421Same

[@lissahay6583]

Girl keep it up for keeping us all locked to your channel....there was so much relatable in your story

[@ruthqym5906]

I wish you can share yours as well 😉

[@bedtimestoryhut]

I feel like in Germany is very challenging! I just got out from the first family after 1 month and didn't get paid yet.. I also did work more than 6 hours for a day..of course, a part of the family don't count the time but honestly, i was so exhausted and started hating this job... -.- I hope everything gets better with the new family ..but how can i remove this bad memory from my mind... that's tough!

[@angelaspasovska3246]

I had the same experience....

[@everlynekithome5899]

Hey....I'm so sorry but I think I'm experiencing the same and don't know how to leave😢

[@SharonC]

She’s not a good person Ruth period! God used her the right time and that’s why you’re there, I always enjoy your stories.

[@Solivagant13]

😭😭you went through alot,girl... Keep glowing and succeeding!❤️

[@FaithsHappyKitchen]

Am enjoying these story times! God works in mysterious ways aki, your host family was just horrible,thanks for sharing your experience, keep them coming.

[@wambui4590]

I think Germans are stingy, correct me if am wrong. Ati even Joghurt

[@AyleensFoodVlogs]

What a story but see where you are and how far you have come you really are strong. Your host family was terrible, gosh it's good you have forgiven her ,it is good you have shared your story so people have an open mind too . I know a lady who got a Visa in March as an affair and she got her family through aupair world did everything by herself she got the Visa. No one should lose hope if it doesn't work try fsj

[@ruthqym5906]

Thank you so much for watching Ayleen and I think people should also try to come as volunteers

[@queenbeelifestyle8278]

@@ruthqym5906 most of the volunteer sites keep saying I don't have a partner agency in my country so I can't come or i can't come because they don't have accommodation for foreigners some said I need to have permit and already be in Germany.please I would appreciate it if you could help refer or link me to places and people who need a volunteer I would be so thankful.i am Nigerian and I have started learning German.can I contact you on Instagram or Facebook? Whats your user name kindly reply thanks

[@BeautyIn4C]

You are such a good storyteller Ruth,am glad that all well well despite being kicked out,the lady at the immigration office was God sent for sure,the Schatz part lol..😂😂

[@africanqueenmo]

Wok pole Sana one of the most challenging issues to deal with when an African lives with a European or American family is food. They tend to eat less portions during meals but snack all day on unhealthy junk. Again bread is not our staple diet and it certainly does not provide the finer you need to make you full. The second issue is expectation of companionship because their lives are very lonely and they have weak ties with relatives and friends well you were right to keep your independent mind but the cat deserved some TLC

[@MonicaNjaga]

I can relate I came in winter too and those no dinner or a bowl of soup woiyi we come from far

[@ruthqym5906]

And thanks God we are who we are today

[@janekariuki3718]

Am studying German language!ave been wanting this for so long.

[@Monicahkui00]

Hey Jane kariuki,where did you study your German language

[@samiamthesuperhero]

Wow when the woman kicked you out of her house, I know that must have been scary sis! And to this day you still do not say that she is a a bed person which is pretty amazing!! P.S. Loving he color of your braids!! Watched in full, cheers to being a survivor!! 💖💖💖

[@mummysoul3014]

I love the way you says it how it is.... wow i didnt know that aupair are still coming.... thankyou for the Information...

[@cheriee3840]

The cyber cafe thing happened to me in France. It was horrible. I was teaching English to college students. The person send emails full of profanity to my students. The students replied asking me if I was okay. Some people really have no upbringing. Sorry that happened to you as well.

[@wambokimani682]

New subbie here.....What a story an encouraging story. I have started applying for au pair since am not able to pay agencies, i know i sure will have something good by the Grace of God. And you are cute too

[@ruthqym5906]

Hi Wambo, thank you so much for watching and I wish you all the best and hope to see you soon

[@Adegborioye]

Are you in the UK

[@Thessfam]

Getting family can be hard.everytin is online now.Thanks for sharing dear.2 many ups n down.this will definitely help some1 out.nice one

[@lisanangwe573]

People are so evil. I can't believe someone had the courage to do that to you. (The Facebook thing). Thanks for sharing this. Your host family (woman) was mad.

[@ruthqym5906]

Some are so evil indeed. But that’s how the devil works

[@oppongkwasi4912]

Good Afternoon Ruth Am waiting ooo

[@ruthqym5906]

Oppong Kwasi hey you can watch it now

[@Rosectv]

Omg this is amazing if Au-pair program is still working. Woiii you were kicked out with waste bags, but it’s good you forgave her. Yes we all have Different Storys and experiences, please Ni Update as Sion as you hear from her ok.

[@ruthqym5906]

Yes I was kicked with Müll Tüten 😂 but thanks God Christoph picked me up. It’s still working the issue is that sometimes the German Embassy in Kenya delays or deny the visas

[@erenestawanjiru1935]

What A Mighty God We Serve.....A Beautiful Ending.

[@zippibrown]

Sorry for what you want through .

[@ruthqym5906]

Thanks Zippi it made me who I am today

[@sandiezoey3274]

Thank you for the experience,im an aupair in Berlin right now but im having the same problem you were having,please can you advise me how to do it?

[@ruthqym5906]

What exactly are you going through please Dm me on Instagram so that we can talk more

[@SWCP9]

watching while drinking coffee....story inabamba keep the coming😂

[@bhawk2311]

Interesting!!! Great vid friend!!!

[@ruthqym5906]

Thanks 🥰

[@Phinah1993]

I really need the job as an aupair in Germany

[@badejosegun7750]

Guten tag, ich heisse Badejo segun. i want you to tell me the kind of visa that can be extended.

[@JustLivie]

awwww. Such a nice story although somehow sad but I did enjoy it

[@ourworld9014]

The immigration lady was an Angel sent from Heaven to help you on that faithful day, by the way i'm going to try this AU PAIR and see whether i can meet my NYAMA CHOMA over there

[@SophiasSpace]

Wow very interesting story and informative video thanks for sharing 💕

[@ruthqym5906]

Hey Sophia, thank you so much for watching, really appreciate your love and support

[@evajoyschorer8669]

Thanks dia l didn't know that .l hv my sis who wants to come as an aupair but we did know where to start. But we gona start now. Am here too but it was through marriege. It was somehow easier. But getting a German visa it's not a jok.Thanks dia for sharing

[@ruthqym5906]

I know it’s crazy how the Germany Embassy works. I know 2 people who come last year, trying to get them for an interview for more details but it’s like they have KZbin issues, you know not everyone is comfortable with it, but may be I can ask them through Audio.

[@evajoyschorer8669]

@@ruthqym5906 thanks dia .be blesd

[@marymule-winz1994]

Hi Ruth, apologies that I digress. I am looking for Kenyan locticians (those specialised in dreadlocks/locs). They can be based anywhere in Germany, though getting one in the eastern cities would be great. I hope someone sees this post. 🙏

[@rhodahj7121]

Honestly thanks be blessd for inspiring many

[@meseretaboneh2048]

Omg i feel you girl! Some are really bad.

[@ruthqym5906]

That year made me stronger and I just hope she never treated any other Aupair the way she treated me

[@meseretaboneh2048]

@@ruthqym5906 I pass through "nearly "the same path.i am now in the 2nd year of Ausbildung and i hope this time will pass and i can be proud of myself like you and be stable .actually i'm from Ethiopia.

[@maureenkeilah9178]

Not me researching this three years later,I was also kicked out like immediately 😅😅my current situation

[@CarineFavour]

She called foreign office🙄🙄🙄🙄. The immigration lady was really nice. I like how you say it my dear. Just as it was. No coding.

[@ruthqym5906]

Ja aber die Frau von Ausländer Behörden war sehr nett zu mir. Or may be it’s because I had another contract 😂?

[@evajoyschorer8669]

So sorry for what u passed through dia some pipo are not easy .and thank God the German laws are working .they were to help.

[@ruthqym5906]

Can you imagine the lady was like wir sind zuständig für Ausländer nicht für deutsche usw.

[@tinahnanjala9899]

Hallo Ruth...am Tina from Mombasa done my A1 exam in March I have no idea where to get any agent...I had one but she is saying I must have a degree and have just finished my form 4 last year .please help me. 🙏thank you in advance

[@samanthashumba7842]

😂😂I thought it was an appetizer but that was it, that was the main course

[@oppongkwasi4912]

Wow life Up and down God ways and Our ways are Differ. I like when you said she's not a bad person. We all make mistake. Thanks for sharing with us.

[@ruthqym5906]

Thank you so much for always being here

[@janetkamau9365]

Hi @Ruth Qyms,what about those people that are past the age limit for aupair,what other options can one use to go to Germany?

[@ruthqym5906]

I did a video on how to migrate to Germany legally check it out please

[@janetkamau9365]

Thanks i will check it out

[@IamBrendaMarie]

Thank you for sharing your story 🤗

[@lilyk1671]

A good friend indeed.

[@pascalagu7928]

Can a guy (male) get the aupair visa?

[@atienobephine3186]

Wow thanks dear.. This was awesome.. God indeed is faithful... Now I would just want to ask how someone can find a job in Germany apart from being an au pair cozam passed that age bracket.. Current in Qatar as a company driver

[@ruthqym5906]

Hey I did a video on how to move to Germany legally so check it out please

[@kabeshhelen1683]

Au-pair story the unending story😂😂Schatz Ruth umenimaliza......some family think wameget slaves n they think wanaweza mistreat watu....its a life experince..✌u can always state u wr Aupair coz ther is no Doc u get or somethin unless niko nyuma...

[@ruthqym5906]

Can you imagine, she even carried me one day for a brunch and took her friend and their kids along. I had to watch all the kids it was crazy.

[@kabeshhelen1683]

@@ruthqym5906 waa...crazy woman n its always women...my 2nd family used to think they can use me working from 7uhr to 18:30uhr😏then nikakua mjanja l used to sleep until 11uhr the woman was like whats wrong l said l should work 6hours😎😎nikawa kichwa ngumu but doing my job perfect kids used to call me mama"

[@elizamwihaki7858]

Wow I wont give up u have encouraged me.tell your frnd akwambie abt the agent alitumia pliz

[@NITAMANENE]

Following please

[@erenestawanjiru1935]

Guten Tag Madam Boss.... Danke Schon For Your Content 👍🏻😊👍🏻

[@joanthaandrew6928]

Did U pay any money before filling in any form

[@MonicaNjaga]

Ohh I also waited almost two yrs to get a host family

[@ruthqym5906]

And during this period someone even forgets the language yenye mtu alisema shule

[@hildakimmy7421]

Registered on aupairworld in 2018 until today sijapata family....ata nlisahau german....guys help your girl out

[@hertyakosua9175]

U did it yourself

[@Shii2540]

Did you say the course took 3 months? School name please?

[@AzubiLife7282]

I am enjoying the Story but too many ADs 🤦‍♂️

[@betrue33]

Ooh this makes me cry...(.Auslendar part)

[@ruthqym5906]

Yes she was so nice to me

[@empiretv3663]

Please how do I get these Aupair job am worried I have tried online but it not easy please help me get Aupair work at Berlin

[@cirukarago7251]

Am thinking about this though Sweden... Oh i didn't know 18-26yrs am disqualified then 😐.

[@ruthqym5906]

You can try to come as a student or through volunteering

[@elizabethmuthoni]

I came as an aupair in 2015 ,my story is a like a movie because I changed family 4 times!

[@ruthqym5906]

Yako imeweza 4 times it’s a lot but this one you will share with me on Thursday

[@Honeymati]

@Elizabeth Muthoni hi i've really tried to get a family in Germany buT I haven't maybe can you give me the link you used or maybe help me, thank you

[@marylynoloo4102]

Hi...would I please get your contact for help?

[@shallonshallon9772]

Wow sorry you had to go through that I had a single mother she was super nice and spoke English too and treated me like her second daughter..Best year of my life

[@AceHardy]

Good deeds 🙌💯

[@michybree5606]

Thanks for the information

[@n4eva256]

Gosh so sorry about such a horrid experience.

[@emilykai6891]

Ulilipia visa na ticket mwenyewe au au boss aligaramika

[@yaadapaah887]

first of all they r very mean . bread is not a meal after a long journey . why did she even ask u if u have warm clothes when she knew u were coming from africa.

[@charmainendlovu7172]

The office wants you to seat and drink wine 😂 ... I like you lol

[@charmainendlovu7172]

Im also an Aupair lol ... about to finish

[@ruthqym5906]

Where are you ?

[@charmainendlovu7172]

@@ruthqym5906 Im in Braunschweig but moving to Munich in September... where are you sis

[@AzubiLife7282]

Cant wait🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@ruthqym5906]

Hope you managed to watch

[@AzubiLife7282]

@@ruthqym5906 I very much dd. Would neva miss it

[@maggaritaoyaro]

Yo host mum.was mean n not understanding but when God plans something nothing can beat it ...kwanza putting yo things in a waste bag that was soo mean but am glad you forgave her

[@ruthqym5906]

I always say it’s because of her I ended up here kwanza after waiting for 6 months to get a family

[@marieshikoh]

What's the name of your agency

[@dionsafe8380]

What is a social year

[@betrue33]

Ruth...which laguage school in Nairobi please?

[@ruthqym5906]

Goethe Institute

[@ruthqym5906]

Germany Institute of Professional studies is Good too na there is an agent there 0722266714 Jina Ni Ekrah

[@betrue33]

Thankyou sana.Be blessed gal.

[@ruthqym5906]

Keep in touch I would like to know kama ulisaidika

[@betrue33]

@@ruthqym5906 ❤okey

[@auntiemylee3157]

Learning German online waaah

[@josphine291]

lol the politicians part took me out. Lmao! did you just say they were wearing skirts? Girl you did not even laugh. LMAO

[@marymule-winz1994]

Wow! Thanks for sharing.

[@ruthqym5906]

Thank you, for watching 💕

[@nishmuraya6596]

This is the first time am seeing your videos darling, please can you connect me with the agent from Kenya, it will mean alot

[@marywangui9305]

Is there age limit 2 be aupair

[@lucymugo4424]

I'm new here thank you for this video......

[@ruthqym5906]

Lucy Mugoiri hey lucy karibu sana heo gachai

[@fatumasulait6810]

My long life dream is to become an au pair am from Uganda but I can't afford the premium pay 😔 so can anyone enlighten me please. I badly need it

[@a.muchemi4360]

Whats a social year?

[@ruthqym5906]

I did a video on it here are the Info kzbin.info/www/bejne/iZ69q5eupMiBnrs

[@pascalinerschwarzenbeck4760]

can young men also get the aupair chance?

[@shank3380]

Yes

[@mwariwakinoro570]

What is the name of that school please?

[@ruthqym5906]

DM Me on IG I give you the teachers number link the description box

[@lucymakungu7348]

Your story is gud ruth l love it pls nisaidie na angecy counted pls Lucy from Kenya

[@ruthqym5906]

Hey Lucy thanks a lot will send it to you ASAP

[@lucymakungu7348]

Thank too sent it to me on instagram

[@hildakimmy7421]

Interested too....my instagram @Lidahtilda

[@lucymakungu7348]

@@hildakimmy7421 ok

[@Honeymati]

Interested too my Instagram @honey_mutindi

[@susanneg.3291]

❤❤

[@dantekymra]

4 Hours...wacha tungojee

[@ruthqym5906]

Did you manage to watch, you wanted me to share this months ago so here you go

[@Rosectv]

Waiting lol😃

[@ruthqym5906]

RoseC Ringa Tv check it out now

[@christapurvis2158]

I love the part about the bread 😂 I would have said “where’s the main course?”

[@ruthqym5906]

😂 I just said goodnight and slept hungry 😝

[@Rosectv]

Leo nimejaribu among the 1st ten 😂 haha

[@ruthqym5906]

Lol thanks

[@itsyourgaljuju8612]

So u mean if someone is above 26 years you can't be lucky in any way?

[@ruthqym5906]

As an Au pair no but you can try language, Ausbildung or even to come as a student

[@pishonmonicah9794]

Wow, I have gained alot in this vedio.

[@ruthqym5906]

Thank you so much for watching

[@tashagold6809]

They are actually supposed to pay 50 Euros for your German language course not the whole amount. Except if they are willing to do that lol

[@ruthqym5906]

Natasha Tshuma for me they paid the whole amount thank you so much for the updates though

[@ahmypeace]

They don't accept Nigerians, why though? Meanwhile, I'm going to study in Germany next year.

[@ruthqym5906]

I didn’t know they don’t accept Au pairs from Nigeria 😔. Coming as a student is a great option too go for it

[@ahmypeace]

@@ruthqym5906 thank you

[@a.muchemi4360]

Sorry may be coz some Nigerians altitude isn't easy the way they shout, i see them in Spain ...where i work as Social worker. Most of them are very disrespective dont want to learn language, i can't imagine them taking care of kids .....sorry i say our of experience ..... Can be so rude

[@saralinakui]

Nowadays Nigerians are even disqualified from green card lottery to US. I think it's due to bad reputation from illegal deals, hackers, con games e.t.c

[@mim-sha]

I understand that suitation, women changes quickly like the behavior..nice Then very rude to you..

[@ruthqym5906]

Thank you so much for watching 🤗

[@reconbyfirea-3136]

Wurtenburg.

[@Faith_..]

OMG this sound scary 😭😭😭😭😭

[@badejosegun7750]

I need info on Aupair in Germany.

[@ruthqym5906]

Hey what exactly do you want to know ? You can DM me on Instagram link is on the Description box

[@Hoosierontherun]

Its NOT my job to watch yr cat!

[@marykaranja3960]

Please connect me with an aupair agent

[@CarineFavour]

Can imagine when they read all your chats on the computer 💻💻😩😩😩🙈🙈

[@ruthqym5906]

Yes and you know people told me ich sollte jemand finden damit ich hier bleiben kann 😂

[@yeaglesdiamond8047]

Watching this in 2024😂😂