My Girlfriend Gave Me An ULTIMATUM Cut My Sister Off Or We're DONE r/Relationships

[@Vipre-]

"GF wanted to impose restrictions on how often I could visit my family throughout the year." That's the first thing I've heard in a while that made me laugh uncontrollably. GTFOH with that nonsense.

[@RealengoPrimordialDemon]

The OP from the first story dodged a extinction level event.

[@maxsupernova]

Story 1: What a freaking narcissist that girlfriend is. A truly vile person.

[@VNCstudios]

My best friend/brother in law dated a girl just like this. She hated his whole family especially my wife and her younger sister despite them being nothing but nice to her (Ironically she liked BIL's older sister despite her being very nasty to her). Eventually it all broke down when she found out my family owned the home he lived in and not him or his family so she flipped out claiming that she had been scammed and how she only dated him for his money. Little did she know 3 months after she broke up with BIL my mother would sell him the house so it was his.

[@fandomfan2800]

no lol

[@espio329]

emotionally and financially abusive too.

[@kronos0316]

She's not a narcissist she just had her nice guy simp.

[@ynmonroe]

@@kronos0316 She was. She wanted to make him focus on her, have no friends, and leave his family behind, all while doing the exact opposite in her own relationships. Did you see the part where she was okay with her friends criticizing and not liking him, but didn't want him to maintain contact with his friends. If he were a simp, he would have fallen for all of her antics and dropped his friends and relatives; he didn't.

[@owl7072]

Lmaoooo she's making it blatantly obvious that she only wants Op to stop supporting his sister so that he can pay off her loans so she doesn't have to cut back on her own spending. "Oh your sister is struggling? Welllll I need a new bag so clearly that's more important 🥰" how selfish can you get?

[@poohbear4515]

S1: “she should save more and cut back on expenses like nice shoes, clothes, and purses” Yep. Def a GD. He’s making oogles of money and she’s watching her happy spending fly away towards his sister that really needs it. She also doesn’t do crap for the house, it’s all OP. So he chose right about breaking this relationship. And it wasn’t him that damaged it, it was all on her.

[@skyelindsey687]

Aww, the last one reminds me of my brother. He’s recently gotten into his first ever serious enough to meet the family relationship and it’s just the cutest sh!t ever. I never thought I would see a 22 year old man gush over getting a hand written love letter or plan a whole picnic date to the beach, but there he was doing it. It’s cute.

[@jgw5491]

Ah! To be young, carefree, and unjaded!

[@carolroberts4614]

🎶Those were the days, my friend!🎶

[@LilFeralGangrel]

title story: i remember this story, i'm glad OP ended his relationship with his self-absorbed gf. and no OP didn't break relationship as his ex gf is too self-absorbed to be in any relationship.

[@juliearmfield2634]

She is entitled manipulative I'm very selfish he deserves so much better

[@ynmonroe]

And not just ended it. He set her straight enough that she now sees, assuming she isn't socially and emotionally blind, that she isn't the center of the universe and that he woke up. This girl was despicable. Attempting to isolate him and come between him and his family for greed. And it's not like she isn't able to pay her own way; she just doesn't want to. Self-centered and spoiled, clearly. Her friends suck too since they are obviously holding her misplaced cape. If the universe is kind, OP will find someone for him that is as generous and family oriented as he is.

[@jbgra2566]

Last story was so cute but kiddo is getting ahead of himself. Hope he stops thinking about marriage and just enjoy the relationship

[@επιθετικόακτινιδιο]

1. Gold digger detection starts beeping She showed her true colors by asking from OP to pay for her loans. She didn't want to have competition regarding OP s money. I am waiting for the update on where SHE will beg OP to take her back

[@ynmonroe]

I just loved how she got pissed when he didn't come crawling back when she left. I am glad the brother suggested that he not check up. I knew that's what she wanted; it was clear with her attempted parting shot. Man this was satisfying. There was nothing good about this girl and he actually realized it. She dropped all pretenses when they met up, lol, and didn't even realize it.

[@jgw5491]

@@ynmonroe Yeah, she took *silence* as success in an argument. A golddigger AND as dumb as rocks. 🤑

[@Ecclectic_citcelccE]

"vacation south of pants" is an epic description! 😂😂😂 I'm glad she couldn't hold back and he woke up before it was too late.

[@pippo17173]

I legit thought the first story is gonna be another emotional/finances abuse story. Nope, just the gf or ex now wanting a personal piggy bank.

[@Lillireify]

Well it kinda was a story of abuse, she DID try to isolate him from his family and take all his money - thankfully she was too stupid to achieve any of her goals lol

[@Callimo]

In a way, that IS financial and emotional abuse. The emotional manipulation ("I'm so disappointed with the person you are...") and the rather quick slide to demand more money from OP definitely means she tried it. Luckily, OP had a much stronger consitution.

[@kurotsuki7427]

It was headed that way, just in the opposite direction that the title makes you think

[@Iflie]

Wow that girlfriend really did the thing, I bet she was pretty and she and all her friends had the task of making him feel thankful she deigned to notice him/his wallet. Then she set to the task of isolating him from anyone who could distract him or offer an opinion. Luckily his family values pulled through and she was dumb enough to show her cards too early.

[@faith-kj4pg]

Girlfriend and her friends were definitely grooming OP to be a cash cow. He can't be around his family or friends, only HER family and friends matter.🤨 Plus the whole " I'm disappointed in u" And " I'll allow you to do this" spiel, massive red flags

[@mindyschocolate]

Listening to the 17 year old talking about his GF 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. He’s so fresh and young and doesn’t yet know how the world works.

[@Lillireify]

C'mon, it's very cute. He's still so young and unspoiled by seven hells of dating :) it's fun to remember that first love and naivete that comes with it :') it's cringey to witness tho 😂😂😂

[@BallstotheWalnuts]

TRUE. 😂😂

[@lya9677]

But so cute I was two seconds away from going awwwww

[@Keyonne88]

In all fairness, it does happen. I'm still married to my husband who I first dated at 18. We've been married 13 years now, together for 16 years. Sometimes you just click. But yeah, young and dumb - he reached out for advice, which a lot of people his age don't do, so maybe it'll go well. He seems a bit more mature than your average 17 year old.

[@lya9677]

@@Keyonne88 Oh thank goodness I can actually go awwwwww now So AWWWWWWWWW 🥰🥰🥰

[@QuayHollywood]

Story 1: I live in NYC. Lived there for 29 years or my entire life. NYC is expensive and if she is living in a good area to go to school so most likely goes to NYU and lives in Midtown Manhattan where the cost of living is mind boggling. the face that she pays $2800 in rent only is crazy that only $200 short of mine. and as for all the other expenses it adds up to be the right amount for her to live barely comfortably. Now the gf is sounding like a gold digger. OP makes $200k a year, and she makes less than $20k a year. she only pays for groceries while OP subsidizes everything else for them. If she can only afford groceries and is supposed to be paying student loans and putting money aside for a house, that is literally dividing her checks in to 3; $500 in each place and she's broke. She needs to do better. OP is NTA.

[@MemristerBoogieDown]

Not disagreeing with you, just adding on. Said girlfriend makes 7000 a month, $84,000 a year… She has plenty yet still wants what OP has too.

[@QuayHollywood]

@toastghost9771 yeah I realized I heard the numbers wrong. Thanks

[@Vipre-]

She makes closer to $84k based on $7k/month income OP mentioned. That was one of the big questions. Assuming $2.5k to loans and say for argument's sake $800/mo in groceries and another $1k to savings where was the other $2700/mo of her income going. Guessing now that the BMW lease is a good chunk.

[@MemristerBoogieDown]

@@QuayHollywood … it makes it so much worse though doesn’t it? If you’re struggling and stressing about money, you can lash out in some dumb ways but this girl is paid and paid and paid and still wants more. Doesn’t want to work for more, just wants to be handed it. Lord.

[@QuayHollywood]

@toastghost9771 Oh I absolutely agree. She's completely vile. Like you have your own but you want to take from people and then act like you're the prize? Sis you got well had the prize. Someone that cared about their family and was willing to help them without hurting the relationship they were in and probably would help out her family if needed. Man's was a catch hook line and sinker and he will find someone so much better

[@Gildacapra]

"I'm sorry, but I'm no longer obligated to listen to you complain" is a winner. I'm putting that one in my back pocket

[@SwirlyPinwheel]

I feel like prenups can be an act of love. Life happens. If one day you need a divorce, a prenup greatly increases the chances of an amicable divorce and the possibility of friendship afterwards.

[@rmclearran1]

If it looks like, sounds like, smells like a gold digger then in fact it is a gold digger

[@kyriacarica5862]

Ex girlfriend was just buttmad that she wasn’t the one getting all of OP’s money 😂 he dodged a bullet big time

[@hiphopapotamus6913]

$2,800 is cheap in NYC like I wish my rent was $2,800 a month 🤣 NYC is EXPENSIVE!

[@nicknitro86]

No? Her point of view is moot. It's his money. THE moment she said "you have to start paying off my loan" should have been the moment he just stood up and left.

[@yamairad1]

Story 1. She is a proper gold digger. 😂😂😂

[@Taecoconut]

YAYYYY the update I wanted where he told her to take a hike.

[@someoneelse4710]

There are so many stories on here that to the same way: someone has a partner funding their lifestyle, they have it good, but inevitably they just keep pushing for more, more, more until the other person is pushed too far and wises up. If she had kept her mouth shut he probably would have funded her for years without complaint. Ig entitlement doesn't typically coexist with intelligence

[@rdrydnghdwolfe1396]

Why in the world does a student have a car in NYC? Parking is super-expensive, and many financially-okay residents do without one.

[@abhijeetbhatt4852]

So rare to see families like these nowadays prolly because of ppl like her.

[@andybosch7857]

I have to say, it takes some gall to say someone would be begging you to take them back after they called your bluff by not even giving you a phone call.

[@drifter139]

story 1: the first thing that jumped out at me in this story is why is OP saving up to buy a house with someone that he isn't married to. NTA. his gf doesn't have the right to make demands with his money

[@Mooskym]

I'm in my 30's and people still insist on calling me young, and yeah, considering the soaring median age and life expectancy, I am still young. But when a 17 yo, a kid who hasn't even lived half as long as myself, says "when I was young"... it's just so weird to me. Does he really think that he's old already? It took me well into my 20's to feel I wasn't young anymore.

[@TheTiggerpoo1]

The first thing that happens in an abusive relationship is the other person isolating you from all your support systems.

[@lauracottom7425]

Story 1: Gold Digger. She was trying to manipulate you. She wanted your money. Get your locks changed immediately. Get cameras immediately.

[@cj-scorpio7225]

AWESOME BROTHER: I can tell you being the only girl with 2 great brothers is incredible. Your sister (if anything like most of us in same situation) would do ANYTHING for our brothers for our lives (certainly me). I’m sorry your lady doesn’t get the opportunity she’s in now. She could have a future sister that sees her as helping with you & sis would protect her (as the sis she never had). A tad short sighted but if she doesn’t fit with your family dynamic, best to know ahead of time, or maybe that’s just how I see it. Good luck to an awesome brother.

[@jrod1591]

Oh I would love a follow up on this 1st story. I have a feeling she definitely reached out to him after this.

[@margaretsnewtoylynnparks5336]

Story one: girlfriend 1,000x 12= 12,000. You 5,000x 12=60,000! So OP pays LOTS more to get house! Sooo, bigger house that you own 70% of…. OP is her gravy train!!!!!

[@scourgedarkpaw9949]

Gf: we should cut back spending Translation: you should cut back not me. Im going to keep spending my money on what i want but you can't

[@lisakaz35]

That GF coulda been okay IF she ever negotiated anything in fairness but the isolating OP and money emphasis showed her hand.She may well have taken OP for all he has/had and left when there was no more. Signs of a narcissist too.

[@samiulhuda4001]

hes paying for everything and she contributes almost nothing. she has no right to say anything about money matters. he doesnt need to negotiate with her at all

[@lisakaz35]

@@samiulhuda4001 I said IF she had approached the issue or issues like that. But she didn't.

[@dmb25108]

Comments on last story: lmao if you feel old in your mid-late twenties, just wait to see how you feel in your mid thirties.

[@browniewin4121]

1) It is nice of OP to help out his family, girl friend is selfish and heartless and really has no say over how OP spends his money, it's not like he isn't saving towards a house or isn't paying his fair share of expenses. It's not like OP will be supporting his sister forever, she is in school and has expenses she can not meet on her own for now. NTA. After update: It's sad to find out girlfriend is selfish and overly controlling. OP should be glad to learn how she feels, before getting married to her. Sometimes the trash takes itself out, and it seems like OP dodged a bullet to learn now not to waste any more time with this heartless gold digger. So glad OP made her his X. 2) It's only a first date, OP should just bring himself. The thing to do on a date is to have fun, and to get the chance to talk and get to know each other better. After update: OP needs to slow down. This may be infatuation on his part, and she may just be comfortable with him but not be thinking of some long term commitment. It is probably too soon, because this his first ever relationship and he is so inexperienced. Maybe she is the right one, but more likely timing is not right for this to be forever.

[@cj-scorpio7225]

FIRST DATE: Keep one thing in mind, many gals some thought were “out of their league” stayed home a lot because many didn’t have your courage to ask. If you ask her about her family, her hobbies, etc….she’s likely to talk some & you can just listen, keeping eye contact so she knows you are listening. Then, when it’s your turn to talk, you can talk about or question what she told you. Does she like to travel? has she traveled & where, etc? Schooling & sports or fav types of movies? Just a few topics to help with conversation flow if you need. You seem like a good young man…. Just a little tip, on a date, being a gentleman is AWESOME! After opening the car door for me on a first date once, he leaned in & put my seatbelt on me, winked & said “precious cargo”, I swear before I knew what I was doing I kissed him (somehow managed not to jump him rt then), & I reached over to unlock his door. We dated for years & stayed friends til he died, but what he did that night stayed with me always.

[@crystaline1093]

My brother's would have helped me also like this. There are siblings out there that respect and like each other.

[@amemooress6291]

Damn. I remember the first time I looked at a group of teens and thought "when did ternagers start lookin' like kids." That's when I knew I was old.

[@MaryTheresa1986]

Yup. I'm 37 and whenever I see a teenager, I shake my head and think "damn, I'm old enough to be your mother!"

[@skyelindsey687]

… pointing out that you save money for a house or something just as important by not buying expensive sh!t is pointing out common sense not being an idiot.

[@GlucoseGuy]

In the first story, I was open the possibility of the sister abusing her family's help, until OP mentioned how much rent and transportation were. The amount the family gives her doesn't even cover the rent portion. So I think it's safe to say that the family money goes to rent and she covers the rest on her own. Otherwise, I would have asked OP to go over the sister's budget to ensure she's not taking advantage. GF was awfully presumptuous making claims on OP's money. I was so proud of OP when he doubled down on the "Yes" to the parents living with them. Glad that GF is gone and now OP can find someone who actually shares his values, instead of valuing his shares.

[@gregmiller4387]

Last story- Didn't the ancient Greeks think you weren't an adult until you were 33?

[@pauldavisjr.3284]

First op change the locks to your place.

[@dm9078]

One date. He ain’t in love he’s infatuated.

[@MONKEYDZETS]

Right sweet Jesus lol😂

[@MaryTheresa1986]

Someone other than him touched his 🍆 and he's beside himself, lol.

[@jqdsilva]

People at 28: "I feel so old" Me at 42: snickers (while cracking my knuckles... and neck... and spine... and hips... and ankles...)

[@alilouise5756]

Ooh, don't forget the knees!

[@TheTiggerpoo1]

OP, Read ALL the red flags and RUN, do not walk, and get away from this woman!!!!!!!!! Do not EVER consider going back. You deserve so much better!!!!!!!!!!

[@gailwarnock2764]

She is only your girlfriend she doesn’t get a say over your money not her business.She is gaslighting you and very controlling a narcissist 🚩you need to end this relationship before it’s to late .

[@michaelplunkett8059]

Look who is financially taking advantage of you. GF.

[@professorrosenstock5026]

S1: I wish I was op's sibling.

[@torchjenkins6158]

I hate when people literally summarize the entire story in one sentence and it’s the top comment. 😮

[@ryanranga8484]

Even if she "let me" hell no. Glad she's gone.

[@ailinfergan]

Story 2: starts playing "Does Everyone Stare" by The Police

[@adriennewaterhouse5174]

Yea some guilt free judgment

[@deballen7031]

Great stories, thanks.😊

[@roelthas]

Yeah, she obviously was a gold digger and didn't want other people spending "her" money.

[@jasonstewart8363]

Markee, once again enjoyed the stories, and your commentary was spot on, sometimes even lol. Love ya bro , enjoy your day, night or whatever 😆

[@lya9677]

That first story, sounds like one we heard a while ago Whereupon a college girl, went to the AITA subreddit to ask if she was the AH, for allowing her brother to send her money One brother was doing better than the other But his gf, called her and told her to stop asking her bf for things etc... So, next time her bro called she said, she needed nothing, and asked the other brother for whatever she wanted Then, her brother found out, that she really was in need, and had not been asking him, and that's when the whole truth came out The gf pretty much told him, what this one did...basically to cut off his family, and spend money on ''them'' her

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

The girlfriend seems to have an inflated sense of self worth and her friends seems to enable that. I love how it’s okay for OP to support her and pay off her loans and ignore his sister. Ridiculous.

[@Lee-AnnWilliams-w3l]

Story 1: As the saying goes, it doesn't matter how beautiful a girl is, there's.a man out there sick of her crap.

[@sugakookie7985]

Story 2 is precious

[@juanhaines7295]

I love these double uploads.

[@rowdysgirlalways]

People in their 20s saying they are so old...I'm laughing my butt off. I love all these kids, even the ones in their 50s, complaining about how old they are! I'm 70 and my inner child has finally reached 20. Forget about age, it's not really important. Just enjoy the people around you. Love yourself first, so you know how to love others. Respect yourself so you know how to respect others. Follow the Golden Rule and treat others as you wish to be treated. Be kind. Always be kind. But don't set yourself on fire to warm others.(*See respect yourself!) And remember, happiness is a choice and choices can become habits. Life really is better when you're happy. I wish I'd known all of this when I was 19.

[@hvymax]

Sounds like the trash taking itself out.

[@DragonflyandTheWolf]

Oof, GF is a piece of work. She really thinks she can control OP. I'm so glad and relieved he didn't let her choose what he does with his life. Telling him she was so disappointed in him at the end though, lol.

[@stellamccoy5259]

What is wrong with giving a single rose on the first date? I think it is great and I would love it.

[@MaryTheresa1986]

Me too! I think that's a lovely idea and that young lady would've treasured that memory forever.

[@mweathers79]

S3: First Date. Ah, to be young and dumb. I hope she doesn’t hurt him too bad.

[@LordMekenshi]

OP should have responded "Call *me* when you stop being a gold digger"

[@wmdkitty]

Oh, honey, DTMFA, she's using you.

[@joshguerrero8760]

1. Give it a few months when the GF is having to pay for everything for herself and can not fund the lifestyle she used to have with OP. She will be begging him to take her back. OP she's a Gold Digger and for the Streets. Let that 304 eat outside with the dogs while you enjoy life.

[@socialmoon]

Anyone that wants to be the central focus of your life is not someone to get involved with. Decent people accept that they won't always be your number one priority, just as you won't always be theirs.

[@amemooress6291]

Just saying -- you and your partner should both have to agree before anyone's parents move in.

[@MaryTheresa1986]

I agree. If my husband moved his parents into *our* home without consulting me I would immediately file for divorce. Mommy and Daddy can cook your meals, wash your clothes, and suck your 🍆 . 😒😒

[@troubleinthevalley5884]

Wow the girlfriend sounds greedy as hell. Literally all she pays for as far as the house is groceries and she makes $7,000 a month? He makes $15,000 month and she thinks that that money needs to go to her and none of it to his sister? What is she doing with all her money? She should at least be paying utilities or some rent. She can contribute plenty and still pay off her student loans which making that much shouldn't be hard to pay off. That's not his wife and she doesn't contribute to anything that she has absolutely no say in what do does with his money. Also where On Earth Is his sister living?! My mortgage is $800 a month less than her rent! Even with all my utilities in a duplex with other people living in it I still probably don't pay that much.

[@vinnie6604]

$2800 is not out of line for NYC. This is your little sister, who you are helping while she is in school. Your sister is none of her business and you can spend your money as however you wish. Girlfriend thinks your money is also her money. The money you send your sis should be used to pay her student loans. The relationship with her went too fast, she is isolating you from your family and friends. Do not buy a house with her or marry her. Greed shut down ATM. Now she's off to find another goose.

[@colleens1107]

Oh good,I’m so glad OP of story one dumped his gf. It’s always a red flag when someone whose only dating you thinks she’s entitled to your money

[@bonefetcherbrimley7740]

Story 1: in the words of that guy from Deuce biggalo in American giggalo ."That's a huuuge bitch!"

[@steveadams7592]

NTA. OP should have pressed where every cents was going in the relationship; clothes, shoes, and purses aren't shared property. OP is better off alone.

[@trillionbones89]

She earned 7k and he still paid the rent in his own...

[@brandonshelp4682]

My dude is the ATM

[@capucnechaussonpassion14]

Rich people's problems .... Selling your ethics to make big money by being a chemical engineer and somehow having issues as if all of this money wasn't enough

[@jenniferanderson7010]

That girl in NYC? $2800 is way cheap, unless she's with a roommate spending 3600 combined. NYC is ridiculously expensive.

[@maurer3d]

Story 1 (before update): NTA, She' is your GF, not your wife. You can help fund you sister's education (especially since she is in college) all you want. Story 1 (OP's comments): Wait OP is paying 100% of rent and utilities, and the GF has the ovaries to tell him not to help his sister. It is time to have a serious talk about finances with the Girlfriend, she should be paying at least a proportional share of the rent and utilities, if she makes 1/4 what you do she should be paying at least 20% or the rent and utilities. Story 1 (updates): How, if this were a nature documentary it would be called "When gold-diggers attack", Your girlfriend is abusing, controlling, manipulative, and thinks what is yours is hers, and what is hers is hers.

[@telinhajp]

Good morning, Markee! Enjoy your Sunday! おはよう！！ ❤🤗

[@theleftysjournal8781]

If a brother doesn't help his sis, who would? She is working too not that sis just mooch off her family.

[@vSpade]

she must have looked quite good to move that quick. don't plan a future with someone who has debt. their debt will become your debt.

[@cyberspinosaur1145]

What job pays 15000 a month?! And are they hiring?

[@cubetikiller]

Looking at the math the only 1 taking advantage is gf by beeing subsidized while paying her loans. Op saves almost half his check pays all utilities and bills and sends sis money while gf saves 1k and spends 2.5k on loans and wastes the other half of her income

[@wildblue0]

Story 1 update: I have to wonder if he sudden treats are a secret cc on his account.

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

First story; I still say the sister is crazy for those rent and transportation prices. A Metrocard is like under $200, $33 a wk. the sister doesn’t have to live in Manhattan. But OP is NTA. But sister does need to downgrade.

[@Dragonemperess]

I think the family wanted her to live in a safer part of town.

[@vikingreflections2824]

Kid in the last story is falling way to hard. Girl is gonna break his heart badly

[@vikingreflections2824]

@@Azulakayes I feel good for you then. I'm 40 now, lost my fience when I was 21. Never been in love ever again.

[@theakaneko]

1. I'm not saying that girlfriend was a gold digger but her store card is looking a little pyrite color to me 2. Honest-to-god nothing will make you feel older than having kids... I mean, there was also a generational shift about '96, and some of my cousins will do the darndest things 😂, but my kids will never understand things like Dialup and Payphones, and Flip Phones/ Nokia Bricks...

[@Nevertoleave]

To be honest that’s one hell of a down payment of he’s been saving for a year he alone has $48,000-$72,000. In like four years he can just outright buy a $300,000 house

[@smilingbandit6900]

but all the 300k houses need 300k put into them ;) depending where they reside.

[@katphish30]

DO NOT MARRY FANNY DASHWOOD.

[@cindykq8086]

Wonderful comment!

[@misskillercat8482]

Good thing they broke up. The GF is obviously showing signs of being financially abusive and was trying to isolate op from his family

[@ZeraSilvaFenritTheOokami]

i wouldnt date someone like her thats his family whats wrong with helping family

[@Kris-wo4pj]

Litrrally nothing if he can afford it and has enough to live comfortably still. Hes not being takeb advantage of hes just helping his family so she can make as much as him one day.

[@ivorynk752]

I can think of a few things that would be wrong, but that is a matter of circumstances that don't seem to apply here.

[@fallingawayfromthenorm]

But but but she deserves all his money! /s She’s so embarrassingly self absorbed and entitled, I wouldn’t want to date someone like her either.

[@immasnakeee6460]

I agree I’m out of college while my little sister is at the end of her high school career. I’m going to do my best to put her through school

[@cassieloser2907]

The sister of OP in story 1 is going to be up for a rude wake up call when she graduates and suddenly her family isnt paying for everything. Most students have a part time job, and these guys are seemingly covering all her base expenses so jer part time job just seems to be "fun money". Which isnt a bad thing! I wish more students could have that, but it isnt the norm GF sucks but i feel like the family has been babying that girl-- i have no stake in that family beyond a reddit story so i hopefully cant be branded a gold digger

[@sequoyasierra5671]

GOLD-DIGGER GF I agree with OP in his stance on things, with one exception. If OP is married, with or without children if his parents want to move in for their retirement this is a decision between his wife and him. Most of the extra work having two other people around will fall on the wife. Whether OP likes it or not, the wife has the right to veto having his parents move in just as he has the right to veto whether her parents move in with them.

[@sakerr0151]

First story OP's gf thought she was the prize, like most girls, if you earn $186,000 a year your the prize!

[@nicolelawrence7722]

I'm not saying she's a gold digger, but she ain't messing with a broke....you know the rest. 😏

[@darkangel_1978]

If people were feeling old in their 20s, should try being in their mid 40s.