My GOLDENDOODLE PUPPY - NOT what I expected! (why I’m glad she’s now an adult) | 5 Unexpected Things

[@_sofie]

“I got to know her better and accept her limitations.” That is such a beautiful sentiment and what true love means. No one’s perfect but everyone can reach their full potential. You’re an amazing dog owner.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you Sofie 💛. I'm grateful for all the lessons I learned along the way as I raised Sophie. The sentiment is applicable far and wide in our world. 💞

[@TheGeonam]

We lost are Golden Doodle at 15 years old from a fast-moving cancer a year ago this coming March. I have had dogs my entire life and when we lost Frieda are doodle it was one of the biggest hurts I ever experienced, and I was a former infantry combat Vietnam vet. After two weeks I told my wife of 48 years that I had to have another Golden Doodle. I'm 79 my wife 70 and we knew it would be an old folk's challenge. I spent two months talking with breeder all over the mid-west and southern states and Cannada. I found our pup that was already four months old had been bought and returned to breeder because she had some long hair just on the top of her head and looked a little funny. She was perfect for us, and we bought her. She is a year old and caught on to being house broken with no problems. She sleeps all night long and has never made a peep. We bought a Zap collar that we have only used a half dozen times. She comes when you call her and her entire coat is beautiful wavy hair. We think she may have been abused before we got her because there are things that scare her to where she runs away, like her hairbrush.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for sharing your story George. Sorry for your loss last year, but I am glad your heart is still open to love the young 'un. The joy they bring is life-changing. Your girl may have had a bad experience, but also, the poodle side makes them highly alert and sensitised to certain things, like the brush in your instance. If you haven't already, take a look at my video about teaching a goldendoodle to like being brushed - it may be of help. kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y4ukh2p7edCGsLc

[@missyyy-]

My goldendoodle puppy Cooper will be 12 weeks in a couple days and despite having extensive experience with difficult & stubborn dogs, he is by far the most difficult I have had to try to train! His energy level goes from snoozy to manic in record time, my hands and ankles are his favorite chew toys, and he literally seems to grow every day! Anyone who is reading this and thinks they’re prepared or know what they’re getting themselves into, I promise you’re not and you don’t! 😂 Praying every day he mellows out to a great companion one day. 🙏🏻 🐶 ❤️

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Oh yes, they can be incredibly intense. Some of them (like mine when she was a puppy) are not for the feint-hearted! Keep at it with Cooper and cherish the progress you make. There are many phases to them growing up, that's for sure. Thanks for sharing 💛🌞

[@justinhayes2925]

😅😅😅 @missyyy that sounds like my dog

[@kailambert95]

I’m in the same situation. This is my first ever pet. I got a F1 Goldendoodle. His name is Phoenix and he is so hyper and barks at everyone and everything because he gets excited and wants to say hi. But he does not have a puppy bark and I don’t want people to think he’s mean. He just turned 4 months old and is beginning service dog training and basic manner training. He is extremely smart and picks things up quickly which is great! But he definitely is a handful and for someone who is 4’9” and 90 lbs. I’ve been told by everyone including my trainer that my Goldendoodle is going to be huge. She couldn’t believe he was only 4 months old. He already weighs 30 pounds. He weighed 23 pounds at 3 months. She thinks he’ll be 65lbs. You can follow our service dog journey on Instagram @service_goldendoodle_phoenix!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for sharing Kai. They can be intense, but also intensely loving. All the best with big boy Phoenix.

[@VerifalSyntex]

I just got a 10 week old goldendoodle. everything you described is my life lol. my feet and hands are tortured everyday. He goes from like you said manic energy to 5 minutes later dead asleep. I love my dog Apollo but its definitively a bit harder to raise than i expected but i wouldnt give him up for anything!

[@martinverhey7095]

My golden doodle is a therapy dog is the most fantastic animal that I have ever had these loving, compassionate, obedient loves to go on walks. I will admit he got me out of the house after I retired we walk 45 miles a week. He loves it also loves company and as many people around him as he can stand loves when they come over, one fantastic animal

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

He sounds like an amazing dog with a particularly good nature. They are all beautiful and special but not all suitable as therapy dogs (many are a tad too anxious, and others, a tad too rambunctious). It's great he has you out and about each week - exercise is key (for them as well as us). I call my dog my 'personal trainer' as she gets me out walking way more than I ever walked before. All the best x

[@amberroseclayton8844]

To anyone reading this thinking of getting a golden doodle, not all of them are difficult. Mine was perfect from the get go, literally the perfect dog. Happy to be left on her own, very obedient; quick learner, stays sat down in the car, doesn’t bark at night and very gentle with baby. She stays near me when out of the house too. She really is perfect. I would recommend looking into WHO and WHERE you buy your dog from. Look at their house, and where they put their puppies, how they care for them.. it does matter

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Amber, absolutely. Like I say, this is just my story based on my particular dog. I don't want to put anyone off, but at the same time, I hear there are many people who are surprised and overwhelmed after getting a spirited, tricky pup like I did. Temperaments vary. Even in a single litter there will likely be a variety of different characters. They are all lovable though - some are easy, some are a challenge at the start, but all are dogs = love.

[@Goldendoodlewinnie]

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[@ruthiebee6139]

My daughter lived in our home when she got her golden doodle. She was very difficult for at least 4 years. She is a very sweet dog and has taken a lot of training. Also my daughter has to always be aware of her sweet girl's limitations too. These dogs are often listed as wonderful for first time dog owners. It is my opinion that a person needs to be experienced with dogs or be very dedicated to raising a golden doodle if they decide to get one. We now "baby sit" our "granddog". We love having her.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Ruthie, I agree they aren't necessarily 'first time dog owner' dogs, not least due to their energetic nature (especially in puppyhood) and coat maintenance (i.e. high maintenance). But everyone works it out for themselves in the end and goldendoodles are very loving.

[@robertclark5930]

our golden doodle is 10 months old and a real joy to have around. o messes in the house, stay within the electric fence oustide and was easy to train.. Walking on the leash is not too bad but a little work has to be done yet. Loves to go for car rides. Yes he needs lot of exercise and so do I. He is an absolute joy to be with and he is turning out to be cuddler! He is patient, easy to train but he can get really excited! Meelo has brought a lot of fun and happiness to our house!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Meelo sounds like a complete joy. Actually, all Goldendoodles are utter joys, just that some are a little more challenging than others! Thanks for watching Robert.

[@ellenwitko3734]

I've found that having the puppy crate right next to my bed eliminates barking and crying. I can just put my hand through the crate and that calms the puppy. They should sleep in your room, anyway.

[@plushypuppy2024]

I love my 5 month old...she's just so beautiful, when she has her 'moments' I just have to remember she'll return to her loveable self in no time at all...we are SO in love with her. I got her for support after the death of our son ( 9 years after to be precise) as lots of things have overwhelmed us during this time. Yes, this breed are so smart you have to be one step ahead and they can drive us to distraction!...but, as you have said, it's about being calm, get to know her better by the day and accept her limitations. I will never regret the day she entered our lives...I saw her, I said 'that's my dog' and that was that.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you for sharing. And for reminding me of my own 'that's my dog' moment. Enjoy your lovely youngster.

[@plushypuppy2024]

@@MyGoldendoodleDiary Thank you, and we will!😘

[@genegleason4987]

We have had Sonny for almost 2 months . He is going on 5 months old. This dog is amazing ing . Potty trained 2 weeks after we brought him home . Now when he wants to go, he comes up to you and barks . My wife wanted a large dog, we live in semi wilderness and if I’m away she feels safe with him . He is so energetic, we have a large yard and a fenced in large pen. He gets plenty of exercise and runs himself to exhaustion . He is very attached to my wife and is a real 30 pound lap dog . We expect him to be around 60 pounds . We are so happy to have such a friendly loving dog .

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Sonny sounds fabulous... enjoy him xx

[@Hitech82]

On oct 28th 2021 I lost my Service Dog Damian to a short battle with bone cancer.. My mother and Wife knew I was not to be left without a dog. They got me a Golden Doodle Phantom puppy. Dunkin is an F1 Golden Doodle. He is 7months now. A good dog. Not very affectionate. Pretty calm for being a puppy. Trains easy. Very smart. Won't always come when I call him. Pulls sometimes on the leash. Gets car sick. Over all a good dog. Your video gives me hope he will grow into as good of a dog as my sweet Damian.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Sorry you lost your beloved Damian. Dunkin sounds like his own unique self. It's exciting you get to watch him grow and mature and strengthen his bond to you over time. At 7 months old, he has a long way to go still. Enjoy the whole journey. Perhaps check out my video about car anxiety as I also cover car sickness. Thanks for watching and sharing x

[@FourthDimensionalHillBilly]

My Gdoodle is 1.5 years. He was dumped on me by my son who didn’t know what he was getting into. Of course I didn’t know I was adopting T Rex either. Well he doesn’t have separation anxiety but he goes from 0-60 in 2 seconds and he could chew through a brick and has tried. But I love him and he’s here to stay. Hopefully with age he’ll calm down some.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you for sharing. They are off-the-charts lovable, but the truth is they are sometimes off-the-charts frustrating as well as pups. He's lucky to have you. Hang in there, and like us, you will recount the stories of how it all began so dramatically. All the best and keep us posted in another half year or so. By 3yo you are likely to see a marked difference. All the best xx

[@memewalkerb5305]

Sophie sounds like my departed standard poodle, Margot. Margot live her entire eleven years as a puppy and eventually succumbed to gastric torsion. Anyway, Margot went to doggie daycare while I worked and we took very long walks and hikes when I wasn't working. this helped her get out her pent up energy and make some good and loving friends who got her. She was awesome if I needed to leave her outside at stores where dog weren't allow and would stay rod still staring at the door I had disappeared through. Have a great life with Sophie! RIP Margot, I know you are at the Rainbow bridge stalk still and waiting for me.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you for sharing that about Margot. Sounds like you gave her the best possible life with your love and understanding. It's a forever and ever bond x

[@stevenclark1973]

Lost ours at age 10 unexpectedly. These dogs are just unbelievable and I now get why people say dogs are a mans best friend. Miss him everyday. Always will. I miss the daily walk watching them just being them. Their character is second to none for me. Such a void when he's not about. They give you so much... but then it hurts so much to have to let them go. They get you through the hard times, they excel you through the best times. An amazing breed.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Steven, thanks for sharing. So sorry you lost your bestest boy in the world. Their character and capacity for love is off the charts and unforgettable. When your heart mends just a little, I hope you will find the space in your life for another one. Not to replace, but another one whose unique self you will to get to know and love as well. They certainly do teach us about love and joy - the loss and sorrow goes hand in hand with the depth of connection. All the best x

[@stevenclark1973]

@@MyGoldendoodleDiaryThankyou so much. Lovely reply.

[@kaygoski]

Thank goodness the crazy phase doesn’t last! My dog is almost 11 months old and so hyper energetic I had to take 3 days off to get my house cleaned while dog go is in the kennel. Half eaten boat shoes , Ugg boots , sandals etc … pillows chewed up and stuffing everywhere, numerous bones buried in strange places. He loves to swim in the nearby river but the water makes him completely hyper afterwards. Not good on the lead, jumps up on people etc etc. Unbelievably I’ve grown to love him because of the other sides of his personality. He really means no harm, is not in the least aggressive, his only fault is loving life so much he can’t help being excited every day . He is so good at night, not a peep out of him so it is great news to hear that in another year or so he will have calmed don😊

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Kate, 11 months... that's a really challenging time, - doggie 'adolescence'! He sounds like he needs a ton of exercise, and has an amazing zest for life too. Keep at it and yes, it gets better x

[@jfqzx]

Thank you for this video. I have a mini-golden doodle and I keep telling my mum he is gradually learning and will eventually calm down a bit but it may take longer than a year. He's only about 7-8 months so he's still young. I will show this video to her to have better understanding. He's not our first dog by far but first of this breed.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

I'm very happy to hear this helped you. The following video may also help you get perspective on what this breed can be like... one of which is having a loooong puppyhood. All the best and thanks for watching x kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYSsq5-rf5uci7s

[@plushypuppy2024]

I'm in that boat..first of her breed, and first puppy as i have taken on rescue dogs in the past!...I thought, this will be our last ever dog, so lets choose, I know I chose right...mine's even younger than yours but hey, she's crate trained, house trained and leash trained and I have to be proud of that, I'm 61 and I wonder what on earth I'm doing?, but, I know that the more I do now the better my adult dog will be....I'll be so shot to bits by then she will need to look after ME!!🤣

[@stevejuststuff2779]

Just lost my Doodle in March. He was a big ole marsh mellow from the day he came home. Never pulled on a leash, barked or paid attention to any other dog. Everyone absolutely loved him. I'm getting a new puppy and I'm nervous he will be a pain. Praying for the same good traits that my buddy had. Good video

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Steve, sorry for your loss. It must be rough. Your next dog will likely have a whole new (& different) character. But I've not yet heard of a goldendoodle which is not totally lovable, whether cheeky/naughty or totally good-doggy. Thanks for watching! :)

[@karellarsen939]

She is adorable!! My son has one and we all love him so much. He just turned a year old this past January. Sooo, now we will be getting a Labradoodles in a little over a week. We can’t wait. Love your videos

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Karel, that's awesome you will be getting a sweet little dood of your own. My husband says that it's like living life with Alf... they're such characters, and so joyful and loving. Thanks for watching xx

[@TheDiplococcus]

My goldendoodle, Darwin, was very different. I selected him from the litter because he was the one that was happy to meet me, but didn't bark or seem overexcited and 'chewy' with my hand like some of his siblings. He's always been excited to meet people and other dogs but only ever really barks through the window at people/dogs/cats outside. He had some separation anxiety at first, but I dealt with that by gradually increasing the time we were apart over a few days/nights. I started with a few seconds out of sight, then went back to see him and have some physical contact. This went up to a minute, then 2 minutes, 5 minutes etc so he learned that I was always coming back and he just needed to wait. (I followed Zac George's videos for the technique). I also ensured he had a good exercise regime. He's 6 1/2 years old now and the best thing in my life. I can't recommend gooldendoodles highly enough. :)

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you for sharing about Darwin. Yes, that's similar to what I did with Sophie to deal with her separation anxiety too. Doodle dogs are a joy but sometimes require some hard work too... all up, so worth it. x

[@velvetheart7683]

I have had a great experience with my Goldendoodle as well, I selected her for the same reasons you did, I wanted a boy but she was so relaxed and rested her head under my chin...so chill that I decided she chose me. She is almost 2 years old and the best dog ever. Yes, puppies are not easy at first, the potty training and the initial separation period from mom and siblings is difficult with any breed. She only barks at strangers she sees through the window but when the dog next door barks, she doesn't bother barking back, which is more than I can say for my grand dog....The biggest issue was jumping up on visitors...she loves everyone and that was and still is something I have to try to be aware of when someone walks in. I ask people not to touch her until she sits and waits and that usually works. The hardest part is training the visitor! That excitement was hard to settle as a puppy but now that she is almost two, the excitement is just when someone first walks in, then she settles rather quickly after that. The best dog ever! Now...grooming on the other hand is another issue....lol.

[@sjs1555]

Enjoy everyday you have with your golden doodle. I had to put mine down 2 days ago. She was 13 and a half years old and had health problems in the end. (Excessive fluid in stomach and lungs. Breathing issues, heart disease). Was devastated to have her go, but it was necessary. She was a part of every aspect of my life. I miss her dearly.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

I'm so sorry you had to let your girl go... I understand how devastating it would be to lose such an integral family member. All the very best to you 🌟💞😇

[@sjs1555]

@@MyGoldendoodleDiary Thank you.

[@free_at_last8141]

Oh my goodness, what a lovable teddy bear! So cute, thanks for sharing.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you! 😊

[@turtlelilysgarden5258]

Oh my goodness. This could be me talking about my goldendoodle. Ziggy is now over 2 years old and works as my service animal. He is a joy and a beloved member of our family. But puppyhood.... I had never had a puppy. I had always adopted grown dogs. When Ziggy came into my life there were many moments when I thought "This is a mistake. What was I thinking... " Thank goodness my husband kept encouraging me. Ziggy was very smart and independant in the house but he did not like being alone at all. He wanted to eat everything especially shoes. He required alot of exercise and mental stimulation and he loved to dig. He was easily overstimulated and when we had guests it was very difficult. When he turned 2 it was like a light went off and so many things changed. Like you he suddenly wanted to cuddle. He has gradually calmed down and now he is the dog of my dreams.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you for sharing your story. It's a whole journey, isn't it? And such a growing experience. x

[@Grapevine_DJ]

We can relate! Our GD is 8 months old now. He is VERY energetic at certain times of the day but he is a good napper too. He loves tug of war and fetch and never seems to tire. He is doing well at obedience school (smart). When we moved his crate from downstairs to our bedroom that helped A LOT. We failed crate training so he likes to sleep in the bathroom or downstairs in the kitchen..he gets hot we think. He is a big time chewer so we go through a lot of bully sticks. Our next step is dealing with seperation anxiety. I work from home so he hasn't had to deal with that yet. We would like to go back to eating at a restaurant again some day.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for your comments. Puppyhood is loooong for GDs. A delight and a challenge at times as well as you have already experienced. If you've not already seen it, perhaps this video will help you with ideas about dealing with separation anxiety kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5e3eIGhjtKffaM All the best

[@Danner-a-gogo]

We acquired two male Goldendoodle littermates who wrestle, sleep, and race around with each other. They are 14 weeks and growing fast! Sweet boys.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

It sounds like you have a very lively household Janet. Enjoy :)

[@zbyszekgmyrek5220]

Golden doodles are not barking ; that’s conversation . They are “ talking “ 😂🤣

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

If only the neighbours saw it that way! ha ha

[@xhaltsalute]

My Corgis are quite talkative.

[@paulabecker7483]

They sure do!

[@carolynbelamide5881]

I've been watching a bunch of puppy training videos in preparation of getting my puppy in a few days. It's been giving me anxiety! Your video is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you so much! ❤

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for stopping by Carolyn. The way I see it, if I can do it, anyone can. Enjoy your puppy - it's a special time you'll treasure no matter what 💛🌟🌞

[@B3boski]

11 months later, whats the update 👀

[@polarisedelectrons]

I have a 5 month old cockapoo boy, and he sounds almost exactly like Sophie as a puppy. This gives me hope that he'll grow up to be a good, calm boy! I do my best with him, although for medical reasons I have low energy levels and so can't always give him as much one-on-one playtime as I wish I could. Still, I try to socialise him with other people and dogs as often as I can, I give him lots of love (although like puppy Sophie, he's not very snuggly; he just wants to play all the time), and I take him to play-and-train classes. So I hope he will be as sweet and wonderful as Sophie within a couple of years, but in the meantime, I still love him to bits.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for sharing. Seeking out other people and dogs so your cockapoo pup can expend his energy is just perfect if your energy levels are limited. You are doing all the right things... doing the best you can for your pup and that in itself is incredibly bonding. Thanks so much for watching x

[@TanitaW]

My doodle will be 6 months in two days. He is incredibly smart but incredibly determined which makes for a hard dog to get the attention of. About a 2 weeks ago it was like things slowly started to click. I definitely think he knows his owner and alpha however at this age don’t think he gets it. Love the playfulness. He never barks when someone enters the house. He just wants to love you. It’s amazing what they give you. So many pros to this breed. Mine eventually will be my therapy dog and he thrives off of praise which you want since they cannot always have treats. He’s my clone and love that I get to go on a long life journey with him!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Tanita, what joy! It's quite a BIG experience to have a doodle dog. Nothing can prepare you for the BIGness of the personality and the BIGness of the love. Thanks for watching and enjoy your young 'un. x

[@donniep777]

Thank you for the video. We just got a Goldendoodle pup and he is everything x4 that you described in your video. I was thinking my goodness what have we done. We've only had him now for about two weeks and honestly the thought of selling him crosses my mind all the time. But I keep telling myself if we can just make it trough the puppy stage we will be fine. I believe it will be worth it but man they are something else! Thanks again for the video it was encouraging even though we will have to wait almost two years for it. He's name is Samson and he is 9 weeks old now.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for your comment. Many people don't have such experiences but some (like us) do, so it's important to share and realise it is what it is. Patience, training, consistency is the name of the game and the next weeks and months will be a bit of a challenge. You're all still adjusting to one another, so take that into account. You won't need to wait 2 years. 2 years is when Sophie started requiring less exercise/stimulation, but we got into the groove of things sooner than that. It's good to know what to expect and you are yet to go through the puppy teenager phase which is something too. That too shall pass ;-) Think of it as having a toddler at home, though the phase is not nearly as long as humans. Take a look through all my puppy videos on this channel - I share all I can. It took my husband some time to bond with Sophie (such a rascal was she), but when he did, it became complete love.

[@donniep777]

@@MyGoldendoodleDiary Thank you for taking the time to reply and thank you for the advice. My wife and I will definitely check out more of your videos.

[@ethanreynolds4181]

6 months later, how is Samson?

[@christobin4289]

I love my golden doodle he is the best yes he get separation anxiety ok we deal with it. He is so loving g and affectionate I could never let him down

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Chris, I agree, they are the most lovable, adorable thing. Separation anxiety can be overcome with training, patience and love. Thanks for stopping by, have a beautiful day! x

[@gabrieleshaw4700]

My golden doodle is now 6 month old. She’s full of energy and super friendly with other pets and people. I take her daily to dogie daycare for an hour or 2! She doesn’t have any separation anxiety. I love her 2 pieces

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Gabriele, that's great your pup doesn't have separation anxiety. Many don't... none of the dogs I grew up with did. But then Sophie (in particular) did (yikes). Enjoy your girl's joy for life... you've got somebody very special in your life. xx

[@kimsharabba5386]

We lost a 13 year old Goldendoodle a couple years ago. Still have a 13 year old Labradoodle. Missed Shadow so much we got a 10 week old Sheepadoodle (Old English Sheepdog/Poodle) and a Pyredoodle (Great Pyrenees/Poodle) at the same time who are both 2 now. If you think the Goldendoodle is crazy, you should see a Sheepadoodle. I adore them. They are my heart. Sophie is a beautiful girl.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Kim, Yes, they certainly do weave their way into our hearts as treasured beings. I love that you have such a variety of doodle dogs around you. Sounds like the young ones in particular are keeping things lively in your household! Thank you for sharing and for watching :) x

[@melaniebrownell8016]

Thank you so much for this video. We have a almost 6 month old Mini Goldendoodle and have some of these struggles.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Melanie, I'm glad it was helpful 💛

[@actngrezy]

Our doodle is 10 months. We have paid for training, vet bills, she has chicken allergy. Recently got a hold of the heating pad cord (thankfully not plugged in and she ended up shredding and eating it thankfully passing it all out. It cost a pretty penny though. 2 regular vet visits for x-rays and one e.r vet visit 48 hours after she shredded the cord she threw most of it up and passed the rest) She is extremely vocal and anxious. When we picked her out she was the only puppy who was shaking and afraid and of course my wife wanted to save her lol. I knew we would be getting an anxious dog and she most certainly is extremely anxious. She has gotten a lot better now that she's 10 months old but being vocal and still eating everything she sees on the ground was a major problem. She gets 3-4 walks a day that are 15-25 mins a piece and I run with her in the backyard a couple times a day throwing the ball so she gets a lot of exercise. She is extremely active and needy. She could be sound asleep in the living room and if I step out of that living room she immediately jumps up and will follow me up and down the steps until I sit down. Even if the rest of the family is in the living room. I knew a puppy would be work but this puppy has been a lot more than I anticipated. She gets on her bed before going to sleep lays down gives us one or two barks lays there for about 2 minutes and then goes down onto her bed it's literally an every night ritual. The last few weeks she's laying there longer though. That has been my experience 10 months in with two different trainers and many sessions the only thing we need to work on now is her barking and he "leave it" has been much better! We still wouldn't trade her for the world!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Greg, thanks for sharing your story. It's true some people get more than they bargained for with their pups, but it sounds like you're slowly getting through the issues. What's amazing is that you (just as it was with me) wouldn't trade your dood for the world, despite some bigger than normal challenges. Others who get an 'easy' pup don't understand what the fuss is about. It's good to share realistic stories because there is a huge range of experiences - some very challenging, others easy and some, costly. Your pup sure lucked out with owners who care enough to give her the best start in life. x

[@sergeboivin566]

The greatest thing about dogs is that even though there are definite "breed traits", each dog has its own distinct personality and yet they are still perfect :-) It also took my doodle almost 2 years to "calm down", and he was always my best friend. He died just before reaching his 14th birthday 3 years ago and I still miss him.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

It sounds like you gave your doodle dog the best possible life. How precious the connection you had with one another. Thanks for sharing x

[@iishyxvietxboyii1]

I believe all mammals are like that.

[@kalaukia434]

Our labradoodle has made us better people as well, although she is super naughty and a land shark. We love her so much, her energy is through the roof, and I can’t wait until we get through this puppy stage. She is smart and loves everyone. I love the thought of her as a therapy dog…. Ahhhhh

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Keep at it with your Labradoodle and enjoy the whole journey with your pup x

[@carrieryappy586]

Thanks for your honest observations about your Goldendoodle. We have an elderly Black Lab who is just a dream dog except for shedding. I think a Doodle may be in our distant future and like getting a true account about them.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

No problem Carrie. I also made a recent video about the 'typical' goldendoodle personality kzbin.info/www/bejne/pGLEkoV7gqeNmbc, and also one about pros and cons kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYSsq5-rf5uci7s. I think you may find these useful. Thanks for watching and leaving your comment 💛🌟

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

@@Plisken65 Sorry for your loss. It's tough to know their lives are so much shorter than ours and that we need to deal with losing them. Sending you 💛

[@patriciaharris9361]

My daughter got me one and she didn't research golden doodles, she is definitely a challenge, she is going to be 5 months old, but I can see she is getting better, she likes to be held and a lapful . I am getting very fond of her

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Patricia, Once you're in, you're in, and they all come good in the end. That may mean our own perceptions need to be tweaked, but the dogs themselves are utter charmers even if they sometimes start out a bit rascally. Sounds like she's incorporating herself very well already into the family. Enjoy her goodness x

[@jameshughes5027]

We have had three golden retrievers, the first two years are a challenge but well worth it. Our puppy now is 11 years old.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

I adore Goldens. Sophie can't walk past one without saying hello either. Your 11-year old puppy is clearly adored 🌞

[@ibbiehe4555]

Sophie sounds very much like my goldendoodle puppy Willy who we have had for 2 months now. So happy to have found this video. Will definitey check out your other videos :)

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

I'm so glad you liked it. Enjoy Willy's puppyhood - they sure grow up quickly. x

[@janicenordlund2714]

We have a 5 year old. He is a great dog but barky and still has an over abundance of energy. Listens very well and very loyal.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

It's like that... they're awesome, loving and can't live without them, BUT I wish he/she....

[@mchrisman14]

I relate to this video so much! I’m so thankful my doodle is getting a bit older and calming by the day.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

They can be a handful, but they're beautiful and bring us so much joy x

[@gloriamedina6440]

I'm glad you shared thank you !

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks Gloria. You're welcome :)

[@billyoung8118]

My F1B goldendoodle Chester was vastly different than your girl. Chester was next in line after we lost our previous boy, a lab mix Charlie. We already had another lab mix girl, Abbey. So this might have helped. Chester was never "alone". We also have doggie doors so they can go in and out to the back yard as they need. Honestly Chester was the easiest puppy we've ever had (and we've always had 1 boy and 1 girl for the 33 years we've been married. When the time comes that we need a new girl, we will get another goldendoodle. This is a fabulous, near perfect breed. We do let him sleep in our bed, so maybe that was a main difference. And having a second dog helped with separation anxiety.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Bill, regardless of generation, temperament still comes down to what the individual puppy/dog is like. Doods are wonderful and all so very different... part of the appeal. I love how they integrate into our lives and routines, and become firm family members - like your Chester. Our Sophie is now fine with being left on her own - just sleeps through it when we're gone, then gives us a happy welcome home. Thank you for watching xx

[@osovagabundo1]

Yeah, Fozzie didn’t calm down til he was 12😂 he was a great pup. I could tell him once or twice and he would follow. We got him a wheaten terrier at 2, best choice ever. They played constantly. Fozzie made it to 16.5 and Murphy made it one month shy of 19. Neither ever got sick. I miss them daily.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Fozzie and Murphy sound like amazing souls to have shared your life. I like hearing about long-lived dogs... am hoping for the same. Thanks for sharing Oso.

[@dianaortiz1150]

I have a 18 Mo golden doodle. I also have a laberdoodle. My golden doodle has so many quirks. He can be aggressive and I can’t take him to dog park as he tends to lunge at other dogs. He also barks incessantly. He has gone to doggie school which has helped a bit. A family member has a golden doodle which also has quirks and is very hyper.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Diana, They are incredibly charming, expressive and lovable, but the reality is they can sometimes be difficult too... despite our best efforts. Of course some are complete angels! I made this video about the variance in personality traits kzbin.info/www/bejne/pGLEkoV7gqeNmbc Thanks for watching xx

[@lucillelaico8146]

I adopted my boy Riley back in 2006 and just recently he crossed over to the Rainbow Bridge 😢 He was the best companion I ever had in my life and I miss him so much. I never had any issues with him. He was the best Goldendoodle and full of love.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Riley sounds like a real blessing. Actually they all are in their own way, and yes, full of love. Sorry he is no longer with you but that kinda love is forever.

[@nancyharrison7139]

We have three golden doodle dogs, two female and one male. Ellie, 12 lbs , nine years old. Tess, 35 lbs, three years old and Gus, 48 lbs, seven months. We kennel cage Gus at night and when we are away. All our pups bark - for a short while. They are very loving dogs with great temperaments.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Yes, they are beautiful, loving dogs. I adore them. I'm sure your three are three flavours of wonderful! x

[@franzfranz9144]

We had a silver goldendoodle, Burt, who was so very smart and independent. From age six until his passing we could not trust him with dogs he didn't know because Burt would sometimes be over stimulated and would often pick a fight. We had to only go to dog parks when no other dogs were on site and take him away if dogs showed up. That was sad because he love the park so much. Each dog is an individual and they do change over time. Still miss the big silver boy.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Franz, they sure are different and unique. And they all leave a big heart-shaped imprint on us. It's a shame, but ours isn't suited to dog parks either - I made this video about it kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYDbhZismbyAers Thanks for sharing about your beloved and much-missed Burt.

[@franzfranz9144]

@@MyGoldendoodleDiary Burt has been gone almost three years and his kennel mate Henry (Standard Poodle) has been gone two. That is the dog's biggest flaw, short life. PS: Henry as a Poodle was proud and above messing with lesser creatures (most other dogs) so he never started or sustained a fight. He just ended them calmly. Good Boy.

[@Mazalinda]

Rory is 8 now. For the first two years he was an absolute b*****d. I had never had a dog before and I couldn’t cope with him. He was forever attacking me wanting to play, biting and scratching me. I was in psychotherapy at the time and I had to say I was not self-harming! As he got older he wouldn’t let me into the garden and that was the first time I called in a trainer. Barking and anxiety came later and more trainers. I recognise all that you have been through, but it is so worth it. I’m so proud of him, people know him and say hello to him and if he is at the window they wave to him. He still barks at everything that goes past the window but responds to “Ssshhhhuuuush! He loves going to the vets, just not good in the car. Love him to bits.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

I think we don't necessarily get the dog we *want*, but the dog we need in our lives. If we look back, we realise all the things they taught us about ourselves... and love them all the more for it. Your Rory sounds like a challenge in the early years, and a complete cheeky gem too. Thanks for sharing xx

[@mandypdx]

Thank you for sharing. My Goldendoodle is 3 1/2 months, he’s a handful. 💕

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hang in there Mandy. Puppyhood is not easy, but you learn so much along the way. You'll have an amazing dog at the other end of it x

[@helenaandrews2567]

Mandy, do you have a medium or a standard size goldendoodle?

[@mandypdx]

@@helenaandrews2567 standard. When I got him they estimated full grown would be 45-55 pounds. He turned 5 months last week and at his vet visit, he was already 50 pounds. He’s a healthy boy 😳💙

[@helenaandrews2567]

@@mandypdx I read something about standard doodles it's better to get a male which you do. I would like a female standard size. They also said if you want a female make sure to get a medium size. Now, I don't know what to do.

[@mandypdx]

@@helenaandrews2567 I’m not sure why that would be? There were 6 pups when I got him… He was the biggest. And, I felt most connected to him, plus he was the cutest (I’m biased 😂)

[@cpg8000]

What a lovely and thoughtful presentation! Thank you very much. I can’t wait to check out your other videos :)

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you for watching CG. So glad you enjoyed it :) x

[@supes323]

total agree with all of this. Our puppy is 9 weeks old and the 1st week so far has been a major challenge. We had no idea how difficult it would be for her to settle. The separation anxiety is the worst. If we are out of sight for 1 second she would have a tantrum. I think the poodle mixes are difficult dogs to manage if its your first puppy. There will be a lot of adjustments. more for you than the puppy. I just hope she grows up fast and can manage being alone when older.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you for watching, and yes, it's important to acknowledge that sometimes it can be more challenging than we were prepared for. You will come right with the puppy for sure x

[@shannoneckelbarger5566]

I really appreciate your video. I too chose the golden doodle for the cute cuddles puppies I had seen. My puppy is just like yours. I thought about taking her back. She does not like to cuddle at all never comes to me and is extremely hyper. I’ve been watching these training videos and their dogs sit as soon as they tell them to 12 week old puppies sitting staying lying down. I can barely get mine to sit still. I was wondering if she was autistic or something. Thanks for sharing your story it gives me hope.

[@krystalshepherd4582]

We have a 14 week old goldendoodle. He is very hyper, barks at anything new and we are working at the constant nipping, which has gotten much better over the last couple weeks. We only got him 3 weeks ago from my sister who had him for a few weeks. He was not potty trained and what free reign of her home. We immediately put up barriers as I researched to do so he does not have free reign. After the first morning he woke here he's never had potty accident because we were vigilant about taking him out and paying attention to when he ate and drank. His energy way exceeds other puppy breeds and he needs lots of play and loves learning. We live in a busy neighborhood so there are always people going by and wanting to pat him. Some people act as though we are are mean because when they want to pet him we must go over the rules, we have to get him to calm down and sit and then they can calmly and Not with an excitable voice, pat him. He is so excited that he immediately wants to jump and lick and nip on people's hands and if we want him to not do that then people have to follow the rule or can't pat him. Our doodle also does not like being alone and it stresses him out. If people want a goldendoodle then they should definitely research it first because they really aren't for everyone. They require a lot of time and energy and patience, plus there are the grooming needs. If they have all of that to give then a goldendoodle is for sure worth it.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Krystal, thanks for sharing your story. This is a true and honest account of what it is sometimes like, and I applaud you for keeping the discipline (when meeting others) even if others don't think it's necessary (it is!). It's true they can be very hyper (some others are not, depending on the individual) and it can be more than some people are prepared for. But it's good to know everyone's story so you don't feel like you're the only one struggling. It's true too that others have super easy doodle pups. Take care and let us know your progress. I'm certain that things will get easier over time and your love and patience and discipline will be rewarded xx

[@Top3play]

for a small channel you are very natural and a good speaker, keep it up I'm currently raising a GD puppy of 11 weeks, it is... challenging! :)

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you! And best of luck with your new pup. It's doubtless an intense time. Enjoy your furchild xx

[@btrent9244]

Very good video summary of raising Sophie. We’ve always had golden retriever and yellow lab breeds. Both wonderful dogs for us. When they passed at 13 years we got one golden doodle male and then another golden doodle male a year later. Both are from different parents. They’re 3 years and 2 years of age now and are a wonderful addition to our family. They get along wonderfully. The 2 year old weighs 80 lbs which is twice what the 3 year old weighs as he was the smallest of the litter and the last one the breeder had. Anyway, I enjoyed your video and could see similar characteristics in our pups as you experienced with Sophie. Certainly a great breed 👍🇺🇸🙂.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you 💛

[@ZachJ-0]

Every single point you made in this video has matched my experience! Golden Doodles are difficult puppies, they require a lot of structure and training. Very energetic, and in my case anyway, strong willed. But with consistent training and expectations they learn very quickly but at times it was extremely stressful. My dog turns two in two weeks and it's like a button has been switched! He constantly just wants to cuddle up with me. Still wants to play a couple times a day, and I happily indulge him, but most of our day is cuddling now. To new potential owners, understand the puppy phase will likely be a challenging time and be ready for the commitment required to be a good owner to your dog. I do promise you, the rewards are well worth the effort though!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks so much for your comments Zach. I totally agree about the need for structure and training being vital. And patience. That's just the tricky point I wanted to bring across. There is the possibility of getting challenging pups like ours, but to hold out for the wild ride of puppyhood to see what emerges the other side... likely, an exceptionally loving dog and an owner who learned way more about themselves than they anticipated.

[@sherylcampbell7822]

I have a 7 month old golden doodle! Such a sweetheart!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Sheryl, They are all lovable - the sweethearts and the cheeky tricksters too. Thanks for watching :)

[@jenniferrathjensdlrt3661]

Goldendoodles are like little toddlers. Mine is 4 1/2 months old. Yes she is hyper at times and that is when I give her my full attention and play with her to fetch for her toys, she loves it. after a while she gets tired and gets calmer and quieter. I struggle living her alone at home in her crate but she's been doing great, I give her a treat before I go and she waits for me to take her out to go pee when I come back, she understands what good girl means, she runs inside her crate and waits for her treat. She knows what seat means as well. I have her bed next to my bed and she sleeps like an angel all night, she does not bark yet. (Hope she stays that way!) She is the most affectionate dog ever, she gives me hugs and so much love that I fall in love with her every day. She's having less and less accidents inside the house by trying to read her body language better, she is really good at letting me know that she needs to go outside. She's been a gift to me.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

That's beautiful Jennifer. Thanks for sharing 💛 It sounds like your bond is already very powerful. Enjoy the puppy phase and thanks for watching the video. x

[@auricgoldfinger8478]

We have 3, and usually are babysitting one or two of our neighbors doodles. They are All Different. Personalities, training and walking abilities, and dog aggression. But they are all wonderful

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

It's so true they're all very different from each other. And so true that being wonderful comes in so many different ways with these doggos.

[@bryanmorse4186]

I've owned vull dog breeds my whole life. But my golden doodle has such a personality I think he is a human being

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Bryan, that human-like quality is something beautiful. Thank you for watching my video. All the best to you and yours 🌟

[@AnaLong-hc3hr]

This gives me hope that my 6 month old MONSTER will one day calm down and let me actually enjoy having him around! 😰

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Oh, it's for people just like you that I have made this video. At 6 months, you are in the middle of the chaotic 'teenager phase'. Big breath in and out. All the best xxx

[@daniellepearls6714]

Sleeping its much bettter to have a blanket over their sleeping area at night. Keep the area smaller not to big it helps and a teddy with a heartbeat or a ticking clock close by. Keeping a blanket with the mother’s scent when taking a new puppy home helps heaps as well and dont ever sleep with the dog first night. Sleep close by but dont let them know your there from first night its easier long term. Sophie is lovely. A beautiful dog and you have done an amazing job🐶💖

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you Danielle. All very good tips and part of a future episode I am already planning ;-)

[@mariatoft2000]

My labradoodle Ella, now 16 months, were just as energetic as Sofie when she was younger, she is still a bit to exited and jumps people coming to our house, but out she is a dream….and is growing better and better

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Maria, glad you have your dream girl Ella to keep you on the move. It's lovely to experience the improvements over time too x

[@shannoneckelbarger5566]

It really bothers me when I hear other people tell their stories about how amazing their golden doodle is. How cuddly and sweet they are and how they’re so quick at learning all of their commands. I really get annoyed and I’m sick of hearing the bragging. I appreciate that you told the truth

[@sirianaegipto]

And if you learn to listen from the point of view of: Them sharing their joy with you, that’s when you will no longer asume that their bragging is to make you jealous of them, hence it will no longer make you sick! 🤷🏿‍♀️ The world can become different right away the instant we change our stream of thought 💋

[@AzazelsWings]

How dare these people love their dogs! ... and the audacity they have to not consider certain WELL KNOWN traits as a flaw. You know what I'm sick of? People that can't be bothered with looking up what a breed is bred for and then hating on a dog for being nothing more than being exactly what it's supposed to be.

[@VIPS1]

​@@sirianaegiptoexactly 🙏🏻🥰

[@sirianaegipto]

@@VIPS1 💋🙌🏿🤗

[@Youtubepoiuytre]

I'm sorry your life is that miserable. Glad I'm not you lol.

[@lindabeeston7408]

I always wanted my puppy’s with me at night. I made sure they were safe, and we had a stair gate. The thing is with dogs is that they are pack animals and I don’t think it’s right to leave your new puppy caged and alone downstairs. I’ve always noted when they are older they choose their own space to sleep, this is when they have gained confidence in their own time. I don’t think crates are for many dogs either. I’ve always just made the house safe for them. I’m certainly not into tough love that’s for sure.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

They are all different. During her first days with us, I spent about 3 or 4 nights sleeping with my pup downstairs. After that, I went back to my own room. She got used to it after about 2 or 3 nights and has preferred sleeping on her own downstairs ever since. I am blessed with a lovely good morning each day. Thank you for watching x

[@jalysvettecrocker2405]

Well I now own a golden-doodle. It was too much for the family to handle and they re-homed him. I’ve had him for a little over a year. Definitely a lot of energy. He’s really sweet tho and we love him. We’ll give him a great rest of his life.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Jalysvette, yes, they can be very energetic, even for a few years. I made this video about it kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYSsq5-rf5uci7s But they are never not lovable, and lucky boy that he landed with you who will love him forever x

[@jalysvettecrocker2405]

Thank you. I’m a new subscriber and look forward to watching more of your videos.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Welcome 💛

[@funsized924]

It sounds exactly like you're talking about my parents' goldendoodle! He was the most hyper puppy I've ever met - I even had to get an attachment for my bike to safely take him on bike rides with me to wear him out! Now he is 6 and just the most mellow, loving dog you'll ever meet. My husband and I recently got our first dog, a goldendoodle puppy of course lol and I laugh when I see how similar she is to how my parents dog was when he was a puppy. I can't wait for her to mellow out and become our love bug 💕

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Ha ha, that's the thing. That amazing exuberance and zest for life can be a challenge to be around, but it's so compelling, you got yourself a goldendoodle of your own regardless! Enjoy her growth journey and all the love she brings to your life. x

[@TheRachface92]

My groodle was sooooo crazy as a puppy haha but now he’s 3 is way more chill, he still has a cheeky playful energy! They’re great companions and the best friend you’ll ever have! Definitely a breed that requires attention but the love you get back is more than worth it! He gets separation anxiety but so do I hahah….

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Groodle camraderie there... you totally get that chaotic love x

[@TropicalThunder21]

I love this video, and this is super random but you have an amazing jaw line…like seriously I’m jealous lol

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Oh wow thank you. Glad you enjoyed the video - I loved making it xx

[@AzazelsWings]

I'm really surprised about all the people complaining about the hyperness, the nipping and the separation anxiety. These are traits that are mentioned in literally every description of goldendoodles out there. High energy. Prone to mouthiness. ( they are retrievers ) and " if you're away from home for hours, the goldendoodle is not for you".. sounds pretty straightforward... you'd all know this, if you didn't buy a dog based on " he's cute"

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

My video isn't a complaint, just a reality check about love's journey. Sure, I initially had expectations (who doesn't?). I hope you watched to the very end of the video when I made THE most important point of all. All the best xx

[@michaelwatkins5404]

I agree each dog is unique, but I have a 7 year old 110lb Goldendoodle that I have experienced none of these issues. I am shocked to hear of these issues. The only issue we had was the crate. Once we quit using it and the dog could sleep in the floor by us there were no issues. I am sorry to hear you have had to deal with all of this.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Michael, it's the journey I had, and what some other goldendoodle owners have. It's a balancing story for all those who have not had a smooth ride at the beginning. I'm glad you had a great experience right the way through. I wouldn't swap my Sophie for the world. Thanks for watching x

[@tulsisevadasi]

I love my poodle. He is calm a lot of the time. He is nearly 8 months old. A miniature poodle.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

That human-doggo bond is precious regardless. Lucky you to have a calm poodle puppy. Thanks for watching x

[@Jasa082]

@@MyGoldendoodleDiary I have a dwarf poodle and thank god I found you :D...he is so stuborn and also now he is in puberty and more afraid(aware) of noises and other bigger dogs (he got biten by a dog few weeks ago). at home he is also walking around a lot and I have to put him to sleep, which is not easy sometimes. I hope it's getting better. Love form Vienna

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

@@Jasa082 Yes, that adolescence phase can be really challenging. Sometimes lots of good training gets undone (for a while) and needs to be retrained. I've heard of a 'fear' period when they suddenly get scared of things. Sorry to hear your little poodle got bitten. Many times they bounce right back from it all. Thank you for watching and sending you love from Australia x

[@iishyxvietxboyii1]

I wish my doodles were that calm.

[@lindahilliker6020]

Thank you! I’m picking up my doodle girl tomorrow! Excited and nervous indeed! She’s a cutie though. ❤️

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

It'll be fun and you'll work it all out as you go Linda. Enjoy your furbaby x

[@darlenelawson1255]

I have a cockapoo, Cocker spaniel and poodle. Lucy also had problems with separation anxiety but we had 2 or more dogs and she was happy. Now she does get a little anxious by herself. I think it might be the poodle part but she is a great dog. I just wish she wouldn't talk so much in code. She is 13 and not too active but never was a noisy dog. "Right Lucy"😁❤️

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Darlene, Thanks for sharing about Lucy. Agreed... no matter what, two or more dogs are great to keep each other company. Many dood owners agree (I mention it here kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYSsq5-rf5uci7s ). And Cocker Spaniels - my other favourite! I met a puppy yesterday and couldn't tear myself away!

[@Mt-ue9qz]

Maturity in the golden and other medium large breeds is common for two years in the making. It's good to know breeds. Also, Cesar says: you (we) get the dog you need. I agree with this very much unless there are the few incidences and special circumstances. Barking is definitely the poodle in her. Again , know the breed. There are also tests one can perform when choosing a puppy. Sound tolerance, position tolerance. Group feeding puppies is a big no-no so ask the breeder what method was used to feed the litter. Just like family, they have their own personality. Dealing is what we all have to do.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you for your comments... it's so true. I sure do get the dog we need (and not necessarily the one we expect)... and all up, what a transformative experience (and blessing) that is 😀💛👍

[@deezynutz4742]

My 20 week old golden doodle is the size of sophy and is a cuddl, loving puppy that is surprisingly submissive. He also doesn’t bark. I think I got LUCKY.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

If he's 20 weeks old, he still has some growing to do (though not as fast a rate as up to now). It's fascinating to new owners about what their puppies will turn out like when grown (you'll find out soon enough as they grow QUICKLY). Yes, lucky he doesn't bark... actually, many doods don't bark. The video is about my story of Sophie, who represents a subset of the breed. Thanks for watching, and keep sharing your progress with your pup x

[@geminiots2121]

I currently habe a 13 week old labradoodle puppy. There are many behaviors I habe noticed in her that you have described. The constant vocalization, super hyper active, overly stimulation, and biting/mouthing. Sometimes, it has gotten so bad that I would habe to give her a time out for about an hour or so in her crate to calm down. I have a long road ahead of me. I just hope the training classes can help on the meantime til she reaches adulthood.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for sharing. Yes, it can be tough at times, and it's important to acknowledge the difficult parts as well as the heart-bursting moments of puppy love which are equally true. All the best with your puppy - those training clases are sure to help. x

[@rbrewmitch9351]

I agree with your experience. My Bordoodle is almost three now and is maturing and getting easier to handle. He is so sensitive. A correction for anything makes him slink and pout. I have to be very calm and careful how I react to him. He is also a scaredy cat. He gets spooked easily. I don't think I'd choose a poodle cross again. I had a full Border Collie from age 5 months until he was 14 years,10 mos. and he was a delight and very easy to train. My Bordoodle won't stay by my side, he's a runner and doesn't come when called. Plus he still jumps up on people or pulls/drags me to say hello to people. At my age now it is almost too much for me. Thank you for validating my feelings about these poodle crosses.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

They are amazing dogs really. But I made the video to show it's not necessarily all rainbows and unicorns... they do test us. Oh, but the love from these dogs once you zero in on truly understanding them on an individual basis... it's like finding the 'aha' in you and in them. I truly wouldn't trade Sophie for the world. All the lessons were meant to be. She causes me zero stress nowadays, and she is chilled and relaxed.

[@Taureantiger888]

And you think it's the Poodle in them? Every Standard Poodle I have met is the most well behaved dog and has an off switch. Not to mention how obedient and bidable they are.Yet..every single doodle that I have met has bad behaviour like jumping on people and hyperactivity to the extreme. What did you think when you got a mut? There is no such thing as a bordoodle breed lol so of course you are signing yourself up for the problems that you are experiencing and its definitely not because its " poodle cross"...its because it's a byb mutt dog that has random temperament. And I'm not even a doodle hater as they are super cute dogs and I considered one but Iv met lots of cute fluffy poodles that are kept in the doodle cut that are actually of sound temperament which makes it a stupid idea to ruin a poodle with undesirable traits when they are pretty much a perfect dog for a family on their own. Here is a an account of a standard poodle...kzbin.info/www/bejne/bn67qaClg7RgqtU....why even add the golden retriver lol..look how cute she is. And another KZbin account that showcases the Standard poodle in a fluffy cut...kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqHdZYaweL-FaZY

[@marionmohr8856]

I have 2 doodles. Very stressful puppies. A lot of times monsters and soo stubborn! As adults now wonderful dog's!!!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Marion, It can be like that sometimes. Thanks for watching 🌟

[@pbro8139]

I have a bernedoodle, Jupiter, and he just turned 3 - he stll doesn't snuggle - but yet he's always at my side except when he goes night, night and he decides to sleep in the spare bedroom and most often will venture into my room and up on the bed - but only lays at the bottom, LOL

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Isn't it funny how they have their own perculiar ways? Sounds like your Jupiter adores you. x

[@36savannah69]

I love the breed. I have a male and female and the bond with me is awesome. Mine snuggle mainly at bedtime. They need exercise and love company and they do bark !

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Me too. Such big characters! Thanks for sharing Boo.

[@davinacipriano5642]

I'm 7 months in with a goldendoodle puppy! I have to say you are pretty dead on with what I'm dealing with right now. LOL

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

I'm really glad to hear it helped, Davina. Just focus on what I said at the end of the video ;-) x

[@i1_110]

We are getting a golden doodle pup and I think this will help so thanks

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for stopping by 💛 Bringing up a Goldendoodle pup is a beautiful experience, but it's important to also acknowledge that it isn't always easy. Besides, each dog is different. Enjoy the bundle of fluff joining your family. Dogs are blessings. 🌞

[@i1_110]

@@MyGoldendoodleDiary thankyou

[@sandragruhle6288]

I have had two adult rescue Shelties, and that is the key! They are already adults! No chewing, slower pace, housebroken, etc.. A doggy door and a fenced yard, and we were in doggy heaven.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Shelties are gorgeous :) Lucky you to have two!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

@Robert A. Lofgren Jr. ha ha I think you misunderstood Robert. It's my HUSBAND who went to sleep in the garage in his car one time when puppy got too loud - he needed the sleep so he could go to work in the morning ;-)!

[@quentinfourie2173]

Welcome to Oz. Thanks for providing an incredibly insightful video on Goldendoodles. It appears you have achieved an incredible outcome. We are experiencing similar issues with separation anxiety. Could you please advise what model vibration collar you used for your puppy (not really keen on this method but desperate). Do you feel the hemp oil, 'sedated' your dog? Are you aware of any adverse behaviors that may be contributed to the vibration collar? Really appreciate any info you can provide. Where abouts in Australia did you settle? I am from Rhodesia.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

I'm glad you found the video useful. Sorry to hear you're going through separaration anxiety with your dog. If you haven't already seen it, check out my video about separation anxiety here kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5e3eIGhjtKffaM Any brand vibration collar will do - just adjust the level of vibration to a level that's effective for your particular dog (too weak and the vibration is ignored by the dog - too strong and the vibration freaks the dog out and makes it more anxious - the idea is for the vibration to be just strong enough to snap the dog out of a round of barking). Also adjust level of sensitivity (this is how receptive the collar is to going off in response to different levels of noise coming from the dog) appropriate for your dog (so the vibration doesn't go off each time the dog makes the tiniest little noise). You can blow on the vibration collar to test the sensitivity and level of vibration for yourself, then watch how your dog reacts and adjust. Don't use a collar that also delivers electric jolts as well (in cased this inadvertently switches on) - look for a vibration-only collar without any prongs towards the throat. All the best x

[@Mickey-jn8hz]

I wanted to get one real bad but after a lot of research decided against it. We got an abused little Border Terrier, a little lady who came from a hoarder house…had had already 2 litters before 2 yrs old with her brother no less…it took a while for her to get used to us, she was afraid of men in general as her abuse came from men. We have had her now for 3 yrs. She is almost the perfect dog and we love her so much. Her barking and protection of myself is the only thing that causes some trouble. She barks when someone is at the door and if we let them in….she will continue barking until we put her in her “house” then she relaxes. Do not come near or touch her Mama though….

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

It's great that you ended up with your Border Terrier. My channel is about Goldendoodles, but more so it is about dogs in general. Mine has a tendency to bark too. I guess some were born that way, others weren't. Thank you for stopping by... xx

[@vanessa461]

Got a black golden doodle for the first time! And let me tell you, she’s going to be 4 months this month and she has already learned so many tricks! These types of dogs are so smart!! Does anyones golden doodle puppy like to lay down and sleep in the bathroom? Lol If you’re looking to adopt, I would recommend! She hasn’t really given me a hard time, and leaving her alone at the house for the first time was shockingly easy ( she also has two other dogs at the house). She likes to chew on clothes but hands down the best dog!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Vanessa, it sounds like you're totally charmed by your GD. Enjoy the journey and it's wonderful you have a clever and easygoing pup x

[@lovelylady9801]

I have a black one too he is the exact same way you describe!

[@susanchaney5059]

I'm so glad this appeared in my KZbin feed! I had to laugh a few times as my golden doodle (Romy) has just turned 8 and still acts like a puppy! She barks too much, steals whatever she can, demands my attention but I love her to death. My biggest mistake is having a Bernese Mtn Dog for 10 years (my perfect companion) and comparing Romy to her. Doodles are so joyful and smart but difficult at the same time. She is still leary of strangers and will bark and sometimes lunge even tho she goes to daycare occasionally and has been very socialised. Anyway, love her and will enjoy your channel. Oh and she's been a cuddle from day one.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for sharing that about Romy, Susan. You totally understand where I'm getting at with my video. It's a BIG big kinda love, but sometimes a bit complicated too. So right about not comparing doods to other breeds. In fact, best not to necessarily compare doods to other doods either. They are unique, funny and utterly JOYFUL. x

[@caseely]

I’m very glad that I saw this video. It makes me realize that I’m not alone. Like you, I thought that Labradoodles were the perfect dog. I had heard that they can be a chore, but how difficult could it be? I have the scars on my arms to show anyone who questions this. Gracie was born just after the start of Covid, so now, at 17 months she will be attending her first class. We tried to train her on our own, but there are just too many variables, and then she’s a Labradoodle. She is starting to become the dog we wanted, but it’s a long road with lots of miles left in our trip. Thanks again for your posting…

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for watching Chris. It's important to acknowledge that it can be challenging, adorable as the doodle dogs look, adorable as their personalities may be.

[@conniehowarth2139]

We lost Luke, our 11 year old Labradoodle, earlier this year. He was 4 months old when we got him, while he was full of puppy energy, he was housebroken, sweet and eager to,please. A real sweetheart from the get-go. So in June we brought home a 3 month old golden doodle, Charlie. Such a cutie but WOW what a difference from Luke! She’s 7 months now, very stubborn, barks at everything, including me, not good on a leash and doesn’t come when I call her (usually). So this video was good to see. Thank you for letting me know there’s light at the end of the tunnel. Charlie does like to cuddle at the end of the day and is very good early in the morning snd st night

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

@@conniehowarth2139 Thanks for sharing Connie. Some puppies are more challenging than others, but all are worth our love and perseverence as you already know. Sounds like Charlie is going through the rebellious adolescence phase which is the most challenging time of all. She'll come good x

[@micheledickey4066]

Same thing we had!! Our golden doodle sheds sooo incredibly bad and he’s 3/4 poodle!! Lol. He’s also 85 pounds and was supposed to be around 65!! Our doodle looks a lot like yours. Little pink nose and all.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Michelle, thanks for watching. Yes, there can be huge variance in the way the breed turns out, but we love them regardless. I think you'll relate a lot to this video...💛kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGWmgZtjod2Hb80

[@jadecovehealing]

I'm a dog walker and the most hyper big dog I've ever walked was a Berniedoodle. He wanted treats-for-all lol. Okay jokes aside, he really was the most hyper and also the sweetest and smartest dog! When I arrived, he'd bark like mad and then go ferociously after his older dog sibling. The best I could do was try not to get knocked over while letting the madness ensue. He wasn't actually hurting the other dog just to be clear, just irking him. And the other dog was as calm as a flower in personality outside of this. I think a Goldendoodle actually. After a long time, I could finally start to get him over to put his leash on. He loved kids and most people, but if a man was being weird or shady he sensed it right away, which was nice because we always walked through a crowded neighborhood park. So I could use the excuse that my dog was the problem and we had to keep moving. I wasn't into designer dogs before this and despite all the rowdiness I definitely began to understand why these dogs were so popular. There's just so much personality.

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Jade, thanks for sharing. I think you nailed it about them being full of personality - so much so, that even rowdiness is charming! Doodles are incredibly expressive, curious about everything around them and above all, loving and good natured. 💛😆🌞

[@ziggy33399]

Good video. I have a golden retriever. We have 2 golden doodles on our cul de sac, however. Difference for me? Those golden doodles need to have strict training…once my friend was walking them, saw something & darted got it knocking my girlfriend out in the middle of the street. That said, they DO overpower her & would probably have been fine walking one at a time. The Goldendoodles (especially one) are genius’s! Good guard dogs! They are alert to every thing. My golden retriever barks to let me know her treats have arrived ( with the mail, UPS, FEDEX ) or if someone parks on her street. Would she bite anyone? Never. She thinks everyone is God & worships all. Thank you for this video as yours is incredibly adorable 🥰 truly. Good job!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks for watching Ziggy. Golden Retrievers are beautiful. x

[@jcs3330]

My 'Super-Duper' Chocolate Labradoo Max (Who was suddenly diagnosed with Leukemia and was gone within 5 weeks at 8.5 years old) was super intelligent and super well trained. Neighbours would tell me that when Max was alone he never barked or cried, was a joy to interact with, and grew into a very independent and well trained dog. My sisters dog done the 'whole puppy school thing' is now 8 years old and is not independant and barks and whines all the time to the extreme annoyance of her neighbours. My personal belief is not puppy school, just common sense and if you need to add 'advised' training buy a proven written book on it. (because dog training is life long - for the dogs stimulation purposes) and not just a 'few weeks' of puppy school. Also surprisingly , in my personal experience (if your dog interacts and is with you a lot) I have found that your dog will eventually adopt his owners characteristics and social attitude etc, in all scenarios ie in play, rest and obedience from the result of training and its 'environment'.... but more importantly, allowing to let them grow naturally (in their first few months) and letting them form their own personality that you can 'tweak' prior to adulthood. My personal opinion (and I am not knocking this individual post) with puppies is you have to allow them to be puppies (as we do babies) and appreciate the experience their natural super hyper selves. (you have many months ahead to train them). If you are looking for a "pre-trained" dog then you should be looking at fostering, which is a very well served cause. We focus to much and too early on training dogs (due to social media) All of the dogs and different breeds I have owned have been well balanced and behaved dogs. I think we have to have this balance of training, acceptance and limitations with our dogs and not be 'immediately focused on "this 4 month old puppy needs to act and behave like a 5 year old mature dog".

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thank you for sharing. I agree that training is a life-long process and it's important to recognise and love the dog you have, not what you expect to have... that's the point of my story. x

[@AimeeFleck]

Yes yes yes!!

[@niesie011]

Thank you for this!!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

I'm happy to see it was helpful x

[@francesmunro9560]

I think you are describing my Tibetan terrier! Your experience is exactly like mine. He’s now 2 years old and beginning to calm down somewhat. Separation anxiety-tick; not cuddly -tick; confident but slightly reactive :- tick; barking excitedly, out the window at every Tom, Dick or Harry passing by, at black dogs, when going out the front door ( nothing there), in the car passing a dog, arriving home in the car ( nothing there)!!!! TICK. Ulike your experience, his barking is getting worse, not better! Praying it will improve eventually!🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Frances, some of them may be challenging, but can't help but love them. Yes, barking can be annoying. Have you tried the vibration-only barking collar? It helps in conjunction with other approaches to help break the habit... here's the video in which I talk about it. All the best with your Tibetan terrier x kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5e3eIGhjtKffaM

[@francesmunro9560]

Thanks for the reply. I will give it a go. And yes, he is totally adorable and worth it. ❤️

[@bryanmorse4186]

My wife and I have a large standard golden doodle. We love the breed.

[@bryanmorse4186]

I've had bulldog breeds my whole life and this breed has so much more personality than any of the bull dog breeds I have ever had

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Hi Bryan, they sure are amazing dogs, each quite different from one another!

[@serenaw7051]

Aww Sophie is so precious 💕💕 thanks of sharing!

[@MyGoldendoodleDiary]

Thanks Serena... You are so kind x