My Horrifying Stalker Experience

A simple interest in modeling lands the storyteller in a world of dangerous stalking and harassment.
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[@iluvmcrmorethanu]

This screams human trafficking.

[@lxxy05]

honestly this is really scary

[@valeria5435]

I gave u 2k

[@hehheh1204]

Happens a lot

[@danielamerino2470]

I thought the same thing 😤

[@thestralvestral2724]

Exactly what I was thinking

[@21stcenturymouse]

Moral of the story: Girls, trust your bad-vibe alarms. Those go off in your head for a reason.

[@vannahthebo2422]

Moral of the story is not to be an idiot and give random people your address.

[@justparanova2160]

its not really only girls

[@otpreet]

@@vannahthebo2422 yea its not always off the vibes

[@lookinglikeabelugawhale338]

Or your gut feelings

[@shietana]

I call them RBR meters: run buddy run

[@reegangrills5186]

This actually sounds like a human trafficking scam 😬

[@jamieboyd8199]

I thought this too.

[@briellewidman25]

Agreed

[@sophiar.2317]

Sammmme

[@ruthannek1855]

Yep. It sounds like he wanted to sell her.

[@Jonathan-nb9lc]

Glad she didn’t go to that “modeling shoot” with him. That would’ve been even worse

[@maddychakraborty8770]

she got a bad vibe but still gave this stranger her ADDRESS?? GIRL?????

[@otpreet]

bad vibes aren't always right but she should of used her brain

[@womaninthewave]

Maddy Chakraborty people pleasing

[@winrylust6947]

@@sevlacht it's common sense not to give your address out to strangers

[@sussybaka3403]

I agree but pure pressure u never no how it feels or what ur gonna do if u don’t go through it or are in that situation.

[@ascotter]

Ya'll gotta understand that in the heat of the moment, she might not have thought it so fishy, and that's normal to give your address to be sent stuff.

[@LizzyLizzyLizzy]

When she said she gave him her address, I think we all collectively screamed “NOOO”

[@brinleyelizabeth3261]

Jojo Beckford I know I did 😂😂

[@emilygarnett3115]

YEP

[@k4133]

Jojo Beckford I screamed inside myself cuz my ppl are sleeping here.

[@victoriacalimag4601]

yep exactly

[@doomsdaysdrummer8846]

I know I did!

[@sierra5807]

"I did it, I gave him my address" *massive facepalm*

[@alexjoslin6055]

*Body slams against the wall* same

[@gizzard2025]

Right i’m like wtf.

[@geester]

and she kept replying to these random stranger emails and messages

[@ssarahh9529]

Sierra Butterfield I WAS LIKE " siss "

[@slippyy6742]

Sierra Butterfield John: NO, You’ve address Me: *DON’T GIVE HIM THE ADDRESS, DON’T GIVE HIM THE ADDRESS* Her: *Gives address* Me: *NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!*

[@thecavemanwithwifi8800]

"MY ADDRESS FOR EVERYONE!" Top 10 ways to get murdered

[@syadienanardyne7318]

Lol

[@SalveRegina8]

Honestly, all anyone has to do these days is google, and boom. It’s terrifying.

[@nazmipolitanka949]

Number 15 how to get murdered

[@wendygold8527]

@@SalveRegina8 can't give your name, address, and they can locate you via cellphone number too.

[@llloraremos1240]

hope this doesn't happen to anyone 🙏

[@cobux69]

I bet everyone who disliked this video was "John" and his fake accounts.

[@plushi5834]

Goosey Flip Flops or maybe they don’t support this stuff

[@jbrownnn]

cby BAHAHAHAHA

[@CC-si3cr]

I disliked it bc she was an idiot. Had nothing to do with "John". She already had legit contacts into the modeling world, so there was NEVER any reason for her to go down this road.

[@user_8983]

Yesss

[@PinkZombie-]

You do know there’s a reason why the girl is anonymous right...

[@faithtaitague4587]

If anyone ever asks “have you thought about modeling” you should always be cautious. That’s how they usually take young girls.

[@celinepnn]

Faith Taitague lol I’ll tell them “ no and I don’t want to thanks anyways bye 👋 “

[@christianbyers8332]

I have no interest in modeling, I would probably laugh in their face.

[@winterwemoon3645]

Literally

[@namy2588]

Just tell they you’re already a model

[@milkystrooberry]

Faith Taitague lol i remember someone asked me that and turns out they were just trying to scam me

[@adrijamukherjee8147]

This is how human trafficking starts

[@100leagues]

Can you explain how it would lead to that?

[@DeadMermaidStudios]

@@100leagues I watched a documentary where a woman was working in a retail store, was approached by another woman who told her she was a talent agent and would like to bring her into their company as a professional model. They agreed to meet later at a coffee shop, where the woman got some bad vibes and decided to leave. When she walked out there were two guys who dragged her into their car (in broad daylight) and took her to their house. They told her if she didn't sleep with their clients, they would hurt her and her family (she was still living her parents and she had given the woman her home address). So she told her family she up and moved for a new job. She was forced to prostitute herself for months, until one day the guys running the human trafficking ring told her they had sold her to a Japanese businessman and if she didn't go along with it they would kill her family. Luckily for her, one of the other girls in the human trafficking ring had told a client that they were being forced to have sex with clients and weren't paid to do it. The client didn't realize they were slaves and agreed to call the police for them (they were given cell phones to keep in touch with clients). The girls knew the address of where they were being kept because they were allowed to go out and exercise (but they were always followed and couldn't talk to anyone) and the police raided the place and arrested the human traffickers. They got lucky, actually, that there was a halfway decent person on the outside who helped them out.

[@Luka-rx6lp]

@@DeadMermaidStudios thats so scary oh my god

[@racheljackson6253]

Merrily We Go Do you remember the name of the documentary by chance?

[@yin1964]

Leaving a comment jic she says which documentary it was..

[@cochranellaeuknemosslayevryday]

That one roomate that scared them off lowkey is a badass

[@jasond6890]

I wouldn't feel safe to do that in that situation.

[@kayess3202]

No kidding

[@melissavazquez4203]

I woulda been so pissed off at you if I were your roommate.

[@lizmowrey9866]

Same

[@presleypaige5144]

I know. It's common sense. You don't just give a suspicious stranger your address even if you give reliable people from jobs your address

[@Changsta74u]

I would have been upset too if i was the roomie, i would be like "I know people make mistakes, but THIS ONE mistake is one i can NOT forgive you for."

[@arcticreindeerroleplays3488]

I feel like u are-

[@saskiatruter2214]

To any young, impressionable kids watching this, especially young girls, NEVER EVER give out your address like this. If you feel pressured, saying “I don’t give out my address” is a perfectly acceptable and reasonable answer and if you still feel pressured, get out of that situation and tell an adult

[@sunleo6161]

Saskia Truter Or say Im actually moving like tomorrow and forgot the house number. :( Lol

[@celiaramos498]

Or just write down a fake address

[@Em22-wtf]

And, if anyone is pressuring you for that kind of info, something is absolutely wrong. Anyone asking for that info, that is legit, would completely understand No.

[@yonatanpetliar30]

Saskia Truter i see, you know, I was about to give out all my information to strangers despite repeated warnings not to but I guess since I saw a KZbin comment from yet another stranger I will change my ways.

[@baka6899]

Saskia Truter !!!

[@nataliamartinez1383]

imagine if “john” watched this

[@ohno-cz6jb]

natalia martinez that’s why they didn’t show her face, duh

[@shilohthecreator1283]

@@ohno-cz6jb but he could recognize her voice BRUH

[@MaddiTrader]

Random Stuff I feel like they did voice acting over this, they have to be smarter than this.

[@zahramohammed891]

Even if they did voice acting, I'm sure he'd recognize the story

[@mikibird2199]

Bet

[@tanyareyes]

She should’ve given “John” a fake address🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ruthabera1159]

Tanya Reyesyh

[@crunchytoe4745]

Yeah like 456 GoAway Sreet

[@yana-ti5me]

agreed

[@pgurung2433]

yh the police station

[@nokiabrick3442]

She should've sent him to an active meth factory 😂😂😂

[@amandarogers7046]

If you already had bad vibes about this dude, why tf would you give him your address?! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@edisakuroki5414]

Like get the heck out of that cafe instead of giving out ur address , common sense

[@ejspyguy]

Yeah like common

[@melissasinclair4803]

Edisa Kuroki common sense isn’t so common these days 😂

[@lizmowrey9866]

Agreed

[@edisakuroki5414]

@@melissasinclair4803 lol

[@_bellersss]

"my bad vibes meter is off the charts" *still gives her address anyways*

[@mia578]

Bella J. 👏

[@vrexoh9734]

I am your 300

[@vrexoh9734]

Like

[@saarahanumabdulmaajid]

RIGHTTTY

[@jenni-up3nj]

Bella J. sksksk 💀🤦🏽‍♀️.

[@aris6240]

"We need your adress" Ok, i live next to my neigbour Where does your neighbour live? You won't believe it, next to me

[@vinciblemirror3336]

The big laker fan lol

[@euniric4818]

lmao tik tok

[@sc-fx7cy]

I actually saw the original on a meme page, but okay

[@finalhourhd8822]

@- Anyella - no it's not i knew it back in 2012 tiktok just copied it

[@bokcho1]

tiktok is gross

[@sweetirishrose7]

As soon as you mentioned that you had roommates, I was even more upset that you gave out your address. You should never do that anyway, but especially when you have other people living with you.

[@gabrielanielsen1217]

i was honestly relieved because she wouldn’t be alone in the apartment

[@dyl-an]

@@gabrielanielsen1217 same

[@hotradjun1]

John: Where do you live? Her: With my parents... John: Where do your parents live? Her: With me. John: Where do you all live? Her: Together John: Where’s your house? Her: Next to my neighbours house. John: where does your neighbour live? Her: if i tell you you wont believe me... John: Where? Her: Next to my house... John: OH MY GOSH

[@emmmilyyy0182]

This is from tiktok 😂😂😂

[@seallush3844]

TIKTOK

[@Hhbrach]

Maddys Life it’s not from tiktok. That joke is older than tiktok lmao

[@aimiskhan]

This is so funny but so clever as well 😂😂😂

[@serena-yu9gr]

tik tok

[@Lambie_gaming]

*I gave him my address* NO HONEY NO

[@yeehaw5614]

Miya Timm HUNNY..HEY WATCHA DOIN

[@msca788]

Reminds me of himym honey

[@jecer1234]

Neemah Ruambo same

[@theweirdoag2277]

My mom taught me about these type of things like this happens all the time and this is how human trafficking gets started

[@ft.jackjimmy7282]

PikaSurprise Ag it's one of those things where your parents should've told you at age 3 that the world is not full of rainbows and butterflies when you can leave your address and phone number laying around everywhere

[@hellooldfriend3223]

FTjack AoE7AoT yeah...... thats what they just said, there parents warned them about this stuff..... what was the point of your comment?

[@MimixLight]

PikaSurprise Ag could you explain how this could lead to that?

[@lauc6673]

@@MimixLight they could easily kidnap her while she's getting her pictures, or at a "gig" which would lead to the human trafficking.

[@lauc6673]

@RosePetalz when you illegally take someone from one place to another (usually from country to country) and using them as forced labor or prostitution.

[@mariaterrones5873]

"I have never gotten fired from a job I've never worked at" 😂

[@Momspirationirl]

Also, get a PO Box if you find yourself frequently needing to give people an address to send money to.

[@TheresaTV1]

Serious life lesson: if you are sending out invoices and receiving checks, get yourself a damn PO Box. They're not that expensive and much safer than receiving checks at your unsecured home mailbox where they can be stolen. Also, not giving out your home address to everyone is well worth the small cost of the PO Box.

[@herlastvoyage]

Seriously. I lived in an apartment complex where someone kept taking off the front panel of the mailboxes and stealing the mail. She needs a P.O. box.

[@lhale7065]

Preach

[@May04bwu]

Everyone gets invoices and everyone has them sent to their home address. Nothing uncommon.

[@TheresaTV1]

@@May04bwu No, "everyone" does not send invoices with their home address on them. "Everyone" does not receive business checks in their home mailbox. It's really unwise. Also, if your home address is your business address, it will show up in Google and disgruntled people can track you down. Getting an invoice mailed to you at home is NOT the same thing as listing your home address as your business address on an invoice that you send out. I don't think you understand the topic under discussion.

[@TheresaTV1]

@Natasha Johnson Yes, some invoicing can be done online. Doing that through PayPal, etc. would also be more secure than using your home mailing address.

[@krylesangerbeaver]

Seems shady, contract is completely wrong, has a bad feeling, still gives address. Brilliant.

[@gizzard2025]

I hope they moved. ( she also risked the lives of her roommates. What a idiot)

[@kiaora224]

Thats what i thought o_O

[@x33u55]

I'm the 1k like!

[@x33u55]

@Robert MacCaull lol ur welcome!

[@sunleo6161]

right wtf

[@emilyseger1421]

How did “real” Regina get a hold of her and know it was happening to her too? That’s super weird.

[@kpop6969]

“John” with blurred face looks a lot like Kevin Jonas

[@macias9]

I thought he looked like The Situation

[@raexjl3008]

He looks like someone with bad hair

[@mariamalmuhairi9687]

Oh I thought he looked like nick lol

[@bubbliibiotch931]

Your profile picture scares me

[@maplepockythepiggiespetlif4001]

Or James Charles

[@entirelyourownworld]

People need to understand that it’s okay to say “NO” without explanation. If someone is “pressuring” you into something that you absolutely don’t want to do you have the right to walk away even if it seems “rude.” She shouldn’t have given him her address.

[@haneenhawash1739]

Ayeitsme you’re absolutely right, she felt something was wrong yet she still gave the address, because we are conditioned to not seem rude so we do things that don’t feel right and can even get us in the way of real danger!

[@bean6453]

@Ima SkinnyLegend exactly, thank you

[@entirelyourownworld]

Ima SkinnyLegend I agree but if it was done in a public place like she planned she could have done something about it, maybe tell the workers or people around her or gone to the restroom and called the police because the man was harassing her

[@Mikey-fi8bb]

+ + + +

[@notamemeindisguise3130]

Ayeitsme 1,000 like :)

[@vybl08]

I would honestly move out if I was your roommate.

[@kianakaslanalvr]

Me too lol

[@kendoll4616]

right, like if you want to be frivolous then I won’t be at risk too

[@deltaloraine]

Easier said than done.

[@kiros5854]

why didnt they just have more animation instead of recording her anonymously?

[@chloelock9442]

Too much effort

[@audreyandremington5265]

It adds to the creepy vibe.

[@SalveRegina8]

Is this even a real story, or just entertainment value for the channel?

[@mappingoutmurray]

More time and money

[@jasond6890]

hard to make.And if incorrectly done, which is super easy, it destroys the story.

[@iloveclairo]

*speled rong*

[@aniyahdear7313]

U speked taht Rong

[@kyliecowan3666]

Unique Aniyah Noe thay did nawt

[@notlemon9184]

kylie cowan Tahts carzy

[@anniecarolan7996]

@@notlemon9184 vewry craasie

[@0ex3ex2]

dats sumfunik I wudn beliv but vewy crassyy

[@evelove709]

Jonny Jonny Yes papa Stalking people No papa Telling lies No papa Show me your texts Na na na

[@alliehunt6544]

Eve Love oml

[@anachvez_1216]

😂oml

[@ofunne892]

No.

[@sunshinerlollipop7328]

Lmfao 😂😂😂😂

[@sofiaalsaraygi6985]

Eve Love lol hahhahahha

[@unleashingpotential-psycho9433]

Sadly there are a lot of creepers out there.

[@bugstarwarriorcats8933]

UNLEASHING POTENTIAL - PSYCHOLOGY VIDEOS again you?

[@corestro]

Yeah they blow up my house all the time

[@yeehawdude2405]

it's why I don't trust guys, and I'm only 16

[@corestro]

@@yeehawdude2405 You can trust me baby. Whats your minecraft server address? Ima hop on

[@adamrusso5352]

See u everywhere wtf

[@izzyb5644]

"I was afraid to tell her because I knew she wouldnt take it lightly." Damn right she won't! Smh

[@jasminer4580]

She was selfish to give out her address like that and put her roommates in danger as well...

[@archerfn8665]

Jasmine Johnston She’s a freelancer and she gives people her address all the time. This wasn’t any different

[@theelolicious9302]

ArcherFN it was different because she was doing serious business with the other people. she got bad vibes from this guy but still gave him her address. i would’ve never spoken to her again if i was her roommate.

[@luisaschnell]

@@theelolicious9302 wtf what if she was your friend? you'd stop talking to her ?

[@theelolicious9302]

l. schnell uh yes? because she clearly doesn’t care about her safety or mine so why would i want to even associate with someone so careless?

[@luisaschnell]

TheElolicious because people make mistakes. She didn’t know he was gonna stalk her, and as she said it herself, so many people had her address already since she was working as a free lancer. I would be definitely pretty mad, but as long as she’s sorry I’d just try to support my friend nonetheless... this is some pretty heavy sh!t, blaming her wouldn’t change a thing, she must feel bad enough already

[@CC0423]

she didn't just put herself in danger but she also put her roommates in danger too

[@rubiedoll511]

Claudia Carter ya, she said that in the vid

[@paigeelizabeth7924]

Claudia Carter yea, I think we got that

[@the_emmasculator]

I would ask my roommate to get a p.o box for all that mess. Just not worth it!

[@melz4766]

Yea that was horribly inconsiderate of her

[@kimhusband9632]

Agree totally

[@elizabethgonzales7208]

Why did she give him her number? *WHY* did she give him her address?? *WHY DOES SHE KEEP RESPONDING TO THEM???*

[@kevinsam3078]

Elizabeth Gonzales she was a freelancer or smth , so its usual for her to give her address to people , and she probably kept responding because ignoring something wont make it go away

[@user-im4my8hg3d]

@@kevinsam3078 At that point, she'd be better off asking the police or a lawyer for help.

[@alexandramcginnis8872]

+Kevin Salim Shouldn’t she of just gotten a PO Box then?

[@Chocolettino]

Elizabeth Gonzales yeah, just block the phone number.

[@hopegold883]

My first reaction too. From the first “modeling” line in the cafe. But I have some life experience. So I have to say it was brave of her to make the video. Other people - especially young ones - could easily make the same mistake.

[@Keya3596]

I had a stalker in University. He was more like the stalker that is categorized as the "guy who takes a crush way too far." After a few creepy things happened with this guy that made me very uncomfortable; examples being him insinuating that we were a couple within hours of meeting him, him sending me upwards of 50 messages in just the span of two hours all along the lines of asking for dates or to stay the night, him waiting outside my classroom for the full eight hour duration of the class on a day when he wasn't even suppose to be at the school that day (or in that building at all), and him randomly showing up at my apartment when I'd never told him where I lived; I finally told my roommate. My roommate took me to the police to report this guy but they wouldn't do anything. My Roommate then decided to try his best to protect me on his own by being a sort of body guard and escorting me to and from school (he worked online so it wasn't a problem for him to spare a few minutes to walk with me when I had class). Thankfully after a while of the escort and the school being a little helpful by issuing a "no contact" order (which is basically just a watered down restraining order, but it was the most they could do without the police helping too) the creepy guy got the message and left me alone and my roommate didn't have to fight anyone. If you're wondering; the reason I gave my number to the creepy guy in the first place was because at this school they always tell us that "networking is everything" and so I, and many other students, quickly formed a habit of exchanging numbers with my class mates and to people that seemed friendly around campus. Also, our campus is under controlled access so you have to have either a Student pass or Staff pass to scan in order to enter the buildings so I knew he was a student from the pass and because random people on the street can't get in. The Creepy guy when I first met him just seemed like an overly friendly person, and I'm like that too so it didn't concern me, and so I did the networking thing and we exchanged numbers, then later that day when we were both on break from our classes and went to the McDonalds on campus for lunch is when his started to get creepy and insinuated that we were a couple, and it got progressively worse from there.

[@jacobae]

that's so scary! thank god for your roommate

[@alysssadorado9179]

Plot twist: that is John

[@vegadaizee]

I don't know why but it's creeping me out how she's just a black figure on screen and the music makes it sketchy

[@anyrarahman5481]

Yes, that actually made it very scary.

[@camillehalais8607]

I love why don't we

[@cairi3433]

Daisy Vega do you know why dont we

[@sarakaradzoska4210]

Daisy Vega LIMELIGHT ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@haleymaymon1622]

Holy crap another limelight

[@hannahw90hw]

I had a stalker - it was a man I had worked with... You'd never expect to be suspicious of a colleague! In casual conversation at work over a period of months I had mentioned what university I went to, what I was studying and that I was living in student accommodation nearby. He started "bumping into me" on a regular basis. Always him coming up to me, and making it seem casual "oh we've got to stop meeting like this" etc. After a while it was happening too much to be coincidence. At work he would take his lunch breaks when I had mine - all innocent enough. I happened to read an article in a magazine that said 1 in 5 women will have a stalker at some point in their lives. All of the signs were there for how he would behave, how he was "bumping into me" and making it seem like a coincidence. The article explained stalkers will usually learn/memorise their victim's routine. A light went off in my head. I started to try to give him the cold shoulder at work, and if I saw him out in public I would pretend I hadn't seem him. At work he would still go on my lunch breaks. One day it was super busy, he asked me when I was having lunch. I said about 2pm I think but I don't know, you should go without me. He didn't take the hint, instead waited beside my till while I served customers. He got annoyed when I wasn't ready at 2pm, and was nagging at me, eventually ended up shouting at me about how he had better things to do with his time, I wasn't that special, I was lucky he even offered to go with me - making a huge scene. Another male friend in work even asked me if I was ok after and offered to say something to him. The following continued, but now he would not come say hi, instead he would try not to be seen. One night I went out drinking, got a taxi home with my friends about 3am. The waited and watched to make sure I got in my front door and waved me off before driving off. I got in my room (ground floor flat at the front of the house) turned on the lights and closed my curtains. Rang my boyfriend to let him know I was home, and heard a tap on my window. Then again, louder - definitely a knock. I asked if my boyfriend could hear it through the phone and told him what was happening. The knocking carried on, getting louder and more frantic over the next 20 - 30 minutes, during which time my boyfriend and his friend had left their house and starting running around to mine. Terrified isn't a strong enough word to describe how I felt. By the time they got to me the knocking had stopped, but there was a note left on my window. It said " you're so gorgeous". even creepier it was written in green felt-tip pen. My boyfriend and his friend were so freaked out as was I. After this my boyfriend started to stay over with me much more, and that was the last I heard of it. I never told any of my housemates, anyone at work, or any police. I wish I had and I regret not dealing with it. I'm lucky it stopped when it did, because that was the scariest thing that has ever happened to me. If anyone is still reading this, thank you. If you get bad vibes, deal with it earlier on. Don't make the mistake I did. The scariest part about that night for me is that my friends waited to make sure I was home safe. It was the middle of the night and I didn't see anyone around on the street. It's very unlikely he could have been at the bar and followed me home, because no cars came into the street after I got out of my taxi. This means he was already hiding somewhere waiting for me. He couldn't come out because my friends were watching. Lucky I locked my door and shut my curtains. I think he must have been planning to watch me through the window. I never ever told him where I lived - I have no idea how he knew, and worse I have no idea how many times he might have been watching me through my window - my laptop and desk were right in front of the window and I would usually come home from uni and do my work with my curtains open in the day time.

[@tilly7367]

This genuinly makes me feel really sick. I feel really sad for you, that must've been absolutly BLOODY terrifying. He should be compleatly ashamed and embarresed of himself, it's so creepy!!. Really glad it's over and you never have to relive that. I know I'm just a stranger, but I just want you to know if you ever want someone to talk to I'm always here. You can message via this thread or you can private message. Please don't worry if you don't want to, obviously! I just wanted to offer because I know when something horrid happens to me, I don't like to tell someone in person, and I find it easier to talk to my friends that don't live near me via email :) Anyway, hope you're okay! x x x

[@moondust8324]

Omg this sounds like the start of a criminal minds episode. Glad you're okay! Does he still work with you? I hope you never see or hear of him ever again

[@brintel]

GURL! Wow! I’m so sorry! I’m glad you’re okay though! PHEW

[@hannahw90hw]

@@moondust8324 Thank you! me too - no he still works there but I dont. I hope I never do either

[@hannahw90hw]

@Panic! At The Stress Free Club I am now - but I will always wonder how often he was out there that I didnt know, how many times he followed me home etc. I still feel nervous if I have to walk somewhere on my own I get paranoid.

[@moodyb9907]

I would have told this to my mother since the first red flag

[@jakelloren3255]

Hi billie

[@sweetsciencereport9264]

Why would an adult call mommy

[@nicolebriant98]

SweetScienceReport cuz mom's always know what to do

[@jasond6890]

I can imagine in movie scenes when police are investigating a case and they question the victim's family: "Have you noticed anything has been going on with her?" The family number says "No, as far as I know nothing has been wrong. " Then the police are clueless and have to spend longer to investigate. It might as well be too late before they can figure things out. So, if you feel like something, anything is wrong in scenarios like this, make sure someone around you knows it...

[@samtorre226]

This was definitely some sort of human trafficking situation

[@user-wy6fe2jv9r]

unless it’s kris jenner nobody other than creeps wear sunglasses inside-

[@mistermoonlight1719]

blind people get a pass too lol

[@starcampos8428]

Is that James Charles 😂😂😂

[@squib9367]

What about stoners and tired people

[@mip33]

Definitely stoners

[@ElpSmith]

And people with medical problems

[@cheddarcheese774]

Honey, this ain't stalking. This is harassment.

[@Topdawggy]

Cheddar Cheese also Identity fraud

[@melz4766]

Buzzfeed at its finest

[@tigersonic779]

Sure, it's harrassment, but it's also stalking, my man. Repeated harrassment is legally defined as stalking in California (assuming that this is the state where it takes place). Stalking is way more than just some creeper looking through your window at night. Considering what the person said in the video, the whole scenario would definitely file under stalking, if not cyberstalking. Sure, it may have stopped now, but it's still very much a stalker story.

[@willoswills8078]

Its both, not a good thing but still both

[@fromsomanyfandoms9803]

True

[@daliafakhouri7317]

2.46 SPELED RONG I died

[@abizerValirRyan69]

2:46

[@smolsheriff]

So this girl who clearly knows this is a shady deal, and even does research on it knowing it was a scam STILL gave her address cause she gives it away like nothing?! BRUH

[@HristinaNicole]

She could literally made up some address

[@aishymoo5]

Sounds like human trafficking

[@lmnop6947]

*sees incorrect contract*. *gives address*

[@averie3424]

I mean yea it is funnt but your joking around about her when you spelled address wrong.... theres autocorrect ya know.

[@eddie9988]

@@averie3424 "funnt" "your" *theres autocorrect ya know.*

[@averie3424]

@@eddie9988 wOOOOW I didn't put a 're?! Or spell funny right? WOW! Sorry I wasn't wasting my time making sure my grammars right for people like you! :D

[@xariabrown8584]

@@averie3424 Did your mom drop you on the head as a child or something???

[@mika-chantrancy5424]

@@averie3424 personally i would've given a fake address and number smh

[@saracummings9133]

Her: "One day, I'm home alone..." Me: * is currently home alone * *becomes more paranoid*

[@arrow3079]

When you asked "Was it my fault?" I thought that it was a very hard question to answer. On one hand, I'm still so baffled that you gave a complete stranger all of your contact info, especially your address, when there were many red flags that this whole thing was a scam. On the other hand, 'John' shouldn't have harassed you, and no person should do that either. Giving out your address willy nilly as you said seems extremely naive, especially when you live with other people who would definitely be affected by that decision.

[@oliviajoy4928]

i’d be pissed if i was your roommate 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄

[@thanmaiadapa729]

Me too

[@amynguyen5528]

Roommates with an idiot.

[@thedragonofdojima4157]

I wouldn’t I always got .45 with me just in case things go wrong.

[@kagome2420]

I would be pissed at first, but then I would still help her.

[@thepersonabovemeisaweeb1736]

@@thedragonofdojima4157 I have a really old nazi gun hiding in my boiler room in the kitchen. I AM NOT AFRAID TO USE IT IF MY PARENT'S AREN'T THERE.

[@categongaware2983]

Wait wait wait.....it’s enough that she gave out her own address to a complete STRANGER who was giving off such creepy vibes, but she has someone else who lives there whose life she also could have jeopardized? Yikes.

[@DeadMermaidStudios]

Yeah, I would have a hard time trusting a roommate who just handed out my address to any psycho on the street because they were a "talent agent". Aspiring models and actors should do the research themselves and seek out their own agents, not just rely on being surreptitiously discovered.

[@Mikey-fi8bb]

​@@DeadMermaidStudios Honestly it may have only been the fact that there was someone immediately in her life who could recognize him or even just that she was living with someone that nothing happened to her. This feels waayyy too close.

[@lexibennett8604]

John: Whats your address Me: 1800 never gonna get it

[@kamri7189]

“i was scared to walk alone” SO DONT GIVE HIM YO ADDRESS

[@supashyarc]

Why i quit buzzfeed & became a stalker.

[@ebonyberry4900]

lol

[@uzi3397]

Wth

[@teresabartolome3941]

😋

John? .......................*locks front door*

[@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb]

Supashya Roy Chowdhury became*

[@krazzysu]

Why didn't she freaking call 911 or the police at the moment someone started to try to open her door SMH

[@Rebberfoon]

Easier sad than done.. no one knows how they will really react when in fear

[@cafelatt333]

krazzysu some people are paralyzed in fear, don’t judge

[@sanchisan6997]

It wouldn't have made a difference if she did. They wouldn't have been able to do anything about it, just would tell her to call back if he came back to her door.

[@scottscroggins4875]

Should have got a gun to protect herself.

[@rensins08]

Apparently you didn't even watch the video because she did go to the police but if you knew how the law works the police won't help until a crime as been committed. They aren't in the business of preventing crimes.

[@o0Avalon0o]

My friends ex had to invoice people too & didn't understand why his girlfriend used a different name and address online; I was there for her as support when she explained her own stalker story. Stalkers are uncomfortably common.

[@alexrainbow7372]

I like how she said "Believe it or not, I was scared to walk alone at night" Why aren't you scared to do that without a stalker???? 😅

[@tacocat5451]

*You get an address! And you get an address! Everyone gets an address!!!!!* Sorry wut

[@willoswills8078]

The question is it, is it the same address

[@fromsomanyfandoms9803]

💀

[@periodt_5290]

Gwynn Johnson x

[@dreamer9375]

Ikr, she's the Oprah of giving addresses.

[@-rosieburgess-4161]

😂

[@lynsey1002]

I deadass thought I was going blind cause she’s just a black cutout

[@platinum7753]

Same, like fr.

[@lori8885]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@aaliyahetc.6687]

Not a cutout.

[@lordenevermind1636]

YOU JUST MADE MY DAY THANK YOU 😂😂

[@michael9712]

That's not how it works, Lynsey.

[@celestiastra13]

She did her research. She knew this feels like a scam. He contradicted himself. Her name was spelled wrong. The company name was different. He wanted her address. The website was sketchy. Her friend told her to not talk to him again. He contacted her through a handwritten note on a piece of notebook paper slipped through her door. *RED. FLAGS.*

[@honeyrose8611]

Her: I gave my address Me: NOOOOOOOO HONEY!!!

[@mmarie2131]

This is how human trafficking could happen :/

[@gachapie4170]

What’s human trafficking?

[@mmarie2131]

GachaPie 41 when people illegally transport people to a different country or area typically the people taken are used for forced labor or commercial sexual exploitation and most the time people who are trafficked are lured like this girl was almost

[@mmarie2131]

Liverpool 32 yeah but also a lot of other things people who are trafficked are forced into doing

[@caydencecaprisun]

honey you don’t need to know

[@mmarie2131]

Caydence Collins um ?

[@ltowns3271]

"I did it, I gave him my number." OH GOD PLEASE NO...NO

[@teague.m3857]

The Office reference?

[@itsjustphoenix2220]

Does anyone else think her voice sounds familiar? Not trying to find out who it is because I could care less but her voice just sounds so familiar to me and idk why

[@nome978]

Itsjustphoenix yeah they probably re used her from the chested on a test

[@piamishelle]

To me she kinda sounds and looks like Lindsay from the silhouette

[@bigdaddy1873]

John is that u mate?

[@chindynatalia7606]

Yeah, that's very familiar for me, it sounds like Natalia Taylor

[@advikaaramesh252]

To me it kinda sounds like the girl who skipped her college exam😂

[@pritinarkhede5459]

This is literally like the song "the producer man!!" But instead a modeling agency man!!!

[@gracep8262]

it’s the same girl everytime that does these stories, i swear. it’s the weird money girl and cheating on a college test girl. no one has a life this wild

[@a-3866]

Grace P she probably just voices them so that no one would recognise the actual person it’s about

[@AxxLAfriku]

I have two hot KZbinr girlfriends and I am the best KZbinr ever and YOUR savior. Good bye dear grace p

[@michellebailey6216]

@@a-3866 exactly

[@lori8885]

Jack yupp

[@ky-kj6zr]

She reads someones story broooo

[@psychosoty8798]

This girl was kinda acting like a fool, giving all those personal info...

[@bethanybeal797]

You can't blame her. It's not that easy because you can't think straight in those situations

[@lilypatrick706]

She was pressured. And being pressured can lead to some basic things

[@sunleo6161]

Rachel Han bruh ive been in worse situations like when a guy almost pulled a gun on me and i still was thinking straight. gimme a break, she wasnt even in life/death danger to not think straight.

[@sunleo6161]

Rachel Han Literally unless she was that desperate to model there is no excuse

[@goththique]

@@sunleo6161 People react differently to things 👌

[@Adventures_with_GEOFFERY]

*“Isn’t this how people get “discovered?”” NOOO NOT AT ALL!!! 😂💀😭☠️*

[@h3y_itz_j4y32]

glad to know that our police services are always ready to protect :)

[@shirleyluong5687]

I would have been pissed to have to have an idiot roommate who just gives out their address lie that even tho she saw the signs that something was off

[@cheryll5383]

shirley luong omg yes

[@jalisep8940]

I feel like I’ve heard her voice before

[@daphneo9524]

I think it's Nina from Buzzfeed..?

[@jno805]

@@daphneo9524 sounded like Megan she started wearing wigs in a recent vid too

[@plutotheplanet2193]

Daphne O It can’t be Nina. These types of videos are made in the buzzfeed New York office and Nina is a part of the Los Angeles office.

[@tessapassmore5101]

She’s on the cheating on the test video and the I was apart of a scam video

[@tiffanyrea3495]

It's not selorm is it. I see that she might have dreads

[@hippiechickie18]

Imagine you opened that door with an AR 15 in your hands, he would have shat himself and ran away crying.

[@kyananotermans9370]

The way you wrote shat made me think about that woman screaming DISGUSTENGG 😂😂😂😂😂

[@luiblui3073]

Ha

[@uhhhhhh6919]

If you know how to use a gun, of course.

[@bente1695]

God lol just the looks of a gun are enough. You don’t need to shoot a gun to scare people my dude

[@izzyy87]

I know everyone is saying it, but this does sound like he was trying to sell you to someone. *HuMaN tRaFficKinG*

[@adrianmaxwell5857]

Tried to sell you a comp card... doesn't have a business card of his own... Don't trust any photographers who don't have a business card. I don't even do Photography professionally and I have a business card. They're not that expensive on Vistaprint. If a business person doesn't have a business card, don't trust them.

[@adrianmaxwell5857]

@6 ! well yeah, I'm not saying if they have a business card to automatically trust them. But if someone is claiming to be a professional and don't have a business card, then that should be a major red flag, and an automatic no. Especially when they're basically trying to sell you on getting your own made.

[@allieschwarz8023]

@@adrianmaxwell5857 You're right. Cards are pretty much free. If someone doesn't have one, he can text you his info immediately.

[@dudebro2282]

For the people saying how all of these types of life story videos are the same girl, I think that people send in their stories and she reads them. The blacking out of her face might just be for dramatic effect.

[@kateparmley9492]

Girl, block his number! and/or CHANGE YOUR NUMBER AND MOVE!

[@user_8983]

As soon as she says “looks legit” I was internally screaming.

[@TributesAndUnique]

Why do people protect the identities of people who commit crimes? 🤔

[@user-io5ey9bw9l]

They can press charges since the person who is making the video never asked for permission to share their identity

[@user-be1kg7ry3w]

Because it's natural..... of being hide after committing crimes

[@frankkremer29]

Maybe she uses the real names but says there fake... reverse psychology

[@Naradis_]

Maybe because it’s a really personal topic she’s sharing. She wants to remain anonymous, so if she shares the name, people might be able to lead it back to her, and a lot of stuff could happen. Charges, lawsuits, etc.

[@adrianmaxwell5857]

Pretty sure if he wasn't charged with it, she/BF could be sued for defamation.

[@virginiasweiger9616]

The victim blaming in the comments here is really depressing. It’s easy to say what you would have done differently when you aren’t in the situation.

[@rosec.6113]

I was stalked by a former S.O. and I went to the police immediately. I was granted a temporary ex parte order of protection the NEXT DAY and have since gone to court and also had a full year-long no-contact order put in place. It's not that difficult.

[@aplicqu8761]

@@rosec.6113 This woman's situation was not concrete. She knew nothing about this guy (he could've texted her from a burner to cover his tracks). She had no relationship with him. Nothing he said was threatening. And worst of all, she gave him all her information: phone, email, address. It sounds like she was inviting this guy to contact her. She felt threatened when he was at her door but NEVER CALLED POLICE! Her actions don't seem to make sense.

[@rn2787]

Nothing negates what he did. What he did was 100% his fault I just hope he gets caught.

[@odd-duck]

It's the fact that she put others in danger and also gave him her address even after being worried. It doesn't make what he did ok in anyway but people need to use more common sense.

[@caligal1090]

Virginia Sweiger come on...giving a complete stranger your address tho? Especially when your sketchy meter is supposedly off the charts...?

[@arwenyvonne3901]

This is mr. turtle 🎩 🐢 Don’t let him sink in the comments

[@audreyandremington5265]

Sink away Mr. Turtle. Sink. Away.

[@arwenyvonne3901]

SAVE THE TURTLES sksksk

[@internationalworlds7131]

🎩 🐢 He is now my best friend thank you 😁 (I'm lonley😭)

[@enz5330]

👒 🐢

[@thatkayleegirl50]

Unfortunately the same freedoms that protect us all as human beings also make it hard for the police to do things about people like them, especially when we don’t know who the person really is. My dad is a retired police officer, but we’ve also had to deal with a similar situation. It is so frustrating and hard to deal with!!

[@laylaraine4667]

Hello person scrolling down in the comments have a nice day Edit: thanks for all of the likes and nice things to say!

[@bubblesanimations5179]

thank you! you too!!

[@caitlintodd3523]

Thanks lol

[@aa-tt5yy]

Thank you, likewise! :)

[@lucysmith7529]

Layla Stephenson thanks

[@jenniferkramer2316]

You to bud

[@nals6657]

maybe i shouldn’t of watched this rn when i’m home alone

[@Anna-gy6on]

- el same

[@wyukhei3980]

HAHAHAHA

[@erikaalise3046]

SAME lol

[@justinsomething7652]

Yeah, you really shouldn't have.

[@justinsomething7652]

Not saying I didn't do the same thing😞

[@maakasmr4179]

Ok...ima canadian and ive never encountered more red flags in my Life lol

[@totalmusicbeats1929]

If he green texting you that means he using android ... signs were right in front of you

[@1biutza]

What's wrong with android?

[@mymoneycries]

Cringe

[@anmolvir7292]

Bruh Android is better

[@paige7923]

iphone uses android parts

[@asmamushtaq2073]

@@mymoneycries android is so much better.I phones are overrated

[@vijayalakshmigandhi8648]

Hello Person scrolling down the comments. Hope u have a nice day

[@TheAnswerIs30]

Vijayalakshmi Gandhi thanks

[@vijayalakshmigandhi8648]

@@TheAnswerIs30 Your Welcome

[@sydlozano7802]

Thank you, you too!

[@tatianaencinas7412]

You too☺

[@reggieraccoon6447]

It's a BuzzFeed video, I probably won't 😂

[@jamie6533]

When they said ‘Regina’ I thought of Regina George 😂

[@fiveszeroes]

me too _and ive never even watched or listened to mean girls_

[@goofball7206]

haha shut up

[@wyxxsteria]

@@fiveszeroes sAmEEE

[@kaleasworld4861]

Lmao I read this exactly when the video said regina😂

[@shilpam4806]

Me too!

[@subsnovids-vv5yo]

I have a stalker Called my mom

[@veganwaterman.-8605]

Same

[@aminahanwar1691]

100 subs no vids !? Same 😂😂😂😂

[@wendygold8527]

Me too. Sad isn't it.

[@persontheperson0]

are y’all okay-

[@aminahanwar1691]

rachel!! No not really 😂😂😂😂

[@MrBraddles3128]

Says she’s getting a majorly bad vibe; still gives him her address. Such intellajent.

[@fayeharling7684]

I think this is the same girl that cheated on that college test w the plane ticket and everything

[@bpdragojlovic1894]

It is the same voice but its probably another persons story

[@melozanob]

the original person probably scripted it and they had someone else tell it. Otherwise, to make it anonymous, they would’ve had to put some sort of filter to her voice.

[@luvyagoda]

Her: "So I gave him my address... " Me: WHY!!!??? You have a brain, right? Use it!

[@miyaoyster1862]

When she gave him he address: serious huge face palm! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@caitlinbaltazar1966]

This sounds like human trafficking be safe out there ladies!

[@shenicealexander5119]

Now this is a story. like, the tenseness is legit, unlike the gummy bear video from before.

[@rays4566]

True

[@TheMoggiemum]

Do NOT be embarrassed about being rude. Do not give out any personal info to anyone you don't know or get any warning signs about. Always tell someone if something bad is happening. Keep yourself safe.

[@leahpeitsch1461]

After seeing this, I am re-thinking my choices of who I give my information to. Even just DMing someone that I never met in person now seems like a bad idea 👎

[@haneychoi9583]

Oh my gosh, it’s so simple to not text him