My husband broke me down and an online scammer finished it (victim story)

[@sharonachrak3686]

When he calls you his “queen” run for the hills! It’s a favourite term of endearment for scammers!!!!

[@georgiagirl2329]

We women are damn empress 's not queens lol 😆

[@leoniesmith9406]

True

[@applejellypucci]

or "dear" lol

[@elizabethbest6992]

They call you honey or My Queen because they can't remember which person they are speaking to.

[@anabeldiazsegun6687]

Yes, they do that to be able to copy & paste 😂

[@georgiagirl2329]

If he says he's in the military or on an oil rig it's usually a scammer

[@carlennabrattin7731]

Yes I agree

[@jayajaya788]

yes...I have talked to four of these scammers...they all have the same m.o...nothing but lies...they don't care if you are pennyless they want what they want!!!

[@nothingworksworks3511]

scammer know this- so they pose as someone in mark's zip code- THEN unexpected overseas emergency.

[@georgesontag2192]

I was married for 9 years and gave my wife everything. She would not even buy me a Christmas present with my own money because she never worked. Most people cannot comprehend that evil resides in more people than you think.

[@perryp2261]

OMG some people.

[@bladerubber]

I wouldn't call that " evil". I mean bit fucked up yes IF YOU WERE Blameless and faultless and perfect but evil? a relationship needs the other party for a 3rd party to understand it. E.g. (JUST an example )you could be leaving out your cheating which makes her not want to do nice things for you.... such as buy you presents. I'm using you as an example&a message to commenter please STOP BELIEVING WHOLEHEARTEDLY EVERYTHING YOU READ ONLINE!...it could be AS it appears or it could be Nothing like....stop echoing to posters...I beg you 🙏

[@marciathehooligan9967]

Why did she never work outside the home? Did you threaten to kill her if she tried to leave the house?

[@diamondsparkle9967]

​@bladerubber y is it OK for you to say that he was cheating?? Cause he's a man?? If a woman would've said that,you would've felt sorry for her and be like,in glad you got away from him,you deserve gifts... You're ridiculous.

[@diamondsparkle9967]

​@@marciathehooligan9967she probably threatened him.... You ever thought of that?? You're as useless as the lady in this story.

[@ARR1058]

This is so so heartbreaking. The pain that the scammer put this lady through is beyond comprehension. Praying for her to get her life back

[@bamu8328]

These scammers are inhuman monsters. There is a special place in hell for them.

[@heidiheaux7007]

This woman’s husband is right there next to them. What a damn monster. I wish she could expose his name.

[@dyamondcrawford6439]

Yep! Exactly!!!

[@marydz2673]

I was a victim of a scammer for 8 month during this pandemic period. This woman experience is very similar to mine, but I only lost $3,000.00 I did not share my photos with the scammer and when he insisted on asking for favors and money I blocked him. I feel very sorry for this lady because she lost everything and end up without anything.

[@annaamalia7189]

Yup. I don't know who is the biggest AH her husband or the group of scammers she is involved with. Please , please check everybody out first. The so slick one has to have Willies and Anna s knowledge. But if the talking about money - block. I am not judgemental but don't play with them . The computer experts and put viruses ECT in your devise. Thank u lady for allowing us to listen to your experience. I hope things will work out for u.

[@nothingworksworks3511]

serious question, do Nigerians believe overweight ppl are wealthy?

[@PaperMario64]

I feel so bad for this woman. She just wanted to feel loved. I truly do hope she gets therapy and the rest of her life is nothing but happiness.

[@dianebullock3401]

Woman that ends up in divorce are very lonely and pick up scammers no money

[@pofuno]

I dunno that was pretty dam funny play stupid games win stupid prizes

[@nothingworksworks3511]

w this Global Epidemic of loneliness- attention addiction is powerful, no one is immune

[@Malibustacy1982]

@@nothingworksworks3511 I disagree. There's a difference in being lonely and being gullible. He had a "funny" accent? No, ma'am that's a Nigerian accent. I don't get how people can't seem to place a Nigerian accent. Why in the hell would you transfer your money to some random dudes account for "safe keeping???" That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. No matter how depressed and lonely I could possibly be that would be a glaring red flag and I would be GONE. I can't feel sorry for someone who just gives their money away like that.

[@happyhermit3141]

I'm constantly amazed at how little Americans know about their own military (ex. that service men and women are completely covered when it comes to food and medical care). This sort of thing should be taught in school.

[@smokiana226]

Honestly all the education in the world won't help a person if a person refuses to use basic critical thinking.

[@lorrainecurran3386]

If you’re in a bad place and always have been married and never knew about evil scammers on dating sites, and someone contacts you and is nice, yes you might be naive. However some of us are intelligent women, who still believe in goodness, however, that can be a hard cross to bear. We live we learn. Hopefully these scumbags will get theirs!

[@Iris-zq5mq]

My best friend who was married, lived military lifestyle and lost her husband to cancer was almost scammed. She was in her mid 40s and tried an online dating after a year of her husband passing. She never had been on those sites before. She was messaged by an army soldier who was overseas. He was handsome. They talked for about 3 weeks and he had asked for a $10 gift card to buy online music. He was currently deployed. A couple weeks later he asked for another. She did it. The third time he asked her she could send his sister money for his children’s school clothes. He had trouble transferring money to his sister. That was the request where she felt like she was being scammed. She went off of him online and that was the end of that. She caught it early enough where she was only out $20. Scammers prey on those who are vulnerable.

[@pondera2450]

It doesn't need to be taught in school. It's common sense. Scammers excel at locating people whose common sense has deserted them. If they ever had any.

[@PungiFungi]

One scammed lady claimed she had family members who were in the military and still fell form the usual military scam.

[@sweetlittleemogirl44]

My heart is broken for this lady, and I hope she doesn't beat herself up too much for this. The decades-long abuse of her husband set her up for this. He deserves to lose all of his money. And her black-hearted scammer deserves to be in jail.

[@JRibeiro-yv2sn]

Unbelievable how vulnerable we are when we are alone and sad 🥺, very easy to fall for the scammers.

[@PungiFungi]

Have been binge listening to the Betty and Adrianna calls to these scumbags. I do not know why anybody would send these people money the moment they heard their thick accented voices. Such a turn off....

[@MarciaHooley-fr7qj]

People set themselves up by isolating from everybody! When I wanted to leave my house, I did. NOBODY tells me I have to stay indoors & can't talk to people -- not since I was married!

[@Malibustacy1982]

@@MarciaHooley-fr7qj I agree!! No "man" is going to tell me what I can or cannot do. Especially if I had never met him in person. That's ridiculous. I get being sad and lonely, I don't get being stupid and irresponsible. This woman is American and doesn't know how health care works here???? Not a single Hospital is legally not allowed to withhold care because you can't pay. Not even a military hospital.

[@lindapringpuangkeo4661]

All woman are born beautiful in their own ways, beauty comes in various shapes and sizes and it doesnt mean that you are a bigger size that you are not beautiful or attractive, there are men who like bigger women , those who treat women better and no woman should ever feel unappreciated, mistreated or abused as real men treat women with respect , loyatly and good actions.

[@Lulu-xl5cm]

Agreed, however I would like to add that this applies to the other gender too.

[@LittleKitty22]

Very well said! I've lost count how many times I've suffered abuse from so-called "men" over the way I look, or over other unimportant matters. Throughout my adult life - and I'm in my forties - I've heard no end that I'm "not good enough" as a wife or girlfriend - because I'm the "wrong nationality", "wrong religion", "wrong skin color", or my "car is too big", my "job isn't good enough", or they don't like my accent, my teeth are too long - you name it I've heard it. As for weight - I'm either too skinny or too fat, and I forgot I'm also always too young or too old. I've been insulted by "men" who didn't like the way I dress (it was "too elegant" for them), and several "men" told me "you are too intelligent, I can't cope with that". I've heard the worst insults over all this, really degrading and abusive insults. I wouldn't consider any of them as real men. I would say they are bitter incels that have failed in life and take it out on women because they know they can't get a woman.

[@rbspider]

I knew a guy that liked really big women but for bad reasons. He felt he could use them and they would accept it because nobody else wanted them. . I once was attracted to a big women who was not pretty, it was her personality that I saw attractive. The more time I spent with her the more I liked her but nothing happen. She was uncomfortable with her looks and the ten year age difference. We stayed friends until she passed.

[@patriciayauger9535]

I really feel sorry for this lady, she was scammed by her husband and a scammer. I hope her live gets back on track.

[@maryanndolan6508]

Loneliness can lead to some desperate actions…. Just to find someone to talk. The scammers story is always full of pathos, sad , sad circumstances. Don’t believe any of them. They all have a script to follow. The pictures are all stolen.. delete ASAP. Do not fall for any of it, please.

[@fatuusdottore]

It sucks cuz then if you’re a real person who does have a sad story and you’re not ugly you automatically get labelled a scammer lmao. Listening to these stories tho, I can see why there’s been so much hostility directed at me at times. >_o I don’t blame those people for being on their guard. I can recover from a few mean words if it means they won’t be in situations like these.

[@tiffclarke1157]

All that scamming wasnt enough, he still allowed her to travel a distance to find out in real time about his non existence. Transferring to the friends account was so horrid. I can imagine how happy he was literally over the moon while this poor lady would be absolutely crushed.

[@LittleKitty22]

Yes they love doing that! They don't just want the money, they want the victim to suffer too. They then laugh at the victim, many mock the victim directly. I've heard things from scammers along the lines of "what did you expect you old woman, that a handsome young man like me actually fancies you, just look at yourself you are disgusting". I'm neither old nor unattractive by the way.

[@Ahoooooooo]

And pick up another $500 iTunes card on her way to a fake address. Like that is not enough destroy her with the nude pictures. Damn. I mean those scammers already squeezed the last drop out of a lemon. Can't they just let it go ?

[@PungiFungi]

@@LittleKitty22 most of these scammers are repulsive themselves, hence why they need pictures of good looking men to bait the hook.

[@dafnecastillo1294]

They only love and worship money, greedy bastards 🤬🤬😡😤

[@russmbps8443]

When I chat with scammers i ask them for gift cards. Most of the time they block me

[@ivanaandric5703]

You are my queen ♥️!

[@diamondsparkle9967]

😂😂😂😂

[@Trustic555]

Reverse Uno Card.

[@topo7130]

😂😂😂😂😂 brilliant!

[@sonicmario64]

I think the real sad part of this story is how abusive this woman's husband was towards her the entire time and the fact that she was left with nothing after their divorce. I feel really sorry for the woman after hearing what her life was like, and I also hope that something bad and humiliating would happen to such a monster of a man as well.

[@fatuusdottore]

Bruh all of it was sad.

[@olgatrevino5728]

Don’t judge!!! Only the ones that went thru scammer really know how they play your mind, is not that you fall in love with the pictures, is how they talk sweet and play with your mind and convince you of a lot stuff, So DO NOT JUDGE !!!!!

[@olgatrevino5728]

The best way is to do a image search! That way you know for sure if is a scam

[@evelynstrickland5755]

Yes, you are so right about that it is not the picture; it is how they make you feel . They are so convincing until they start making mistakes. Once they start asking you for money and other things by then it's already too late. I have already experienced it myself and yes it does damage to you and it changes you. My heart goes out to this lady. She is not alone.

[@olgatrevino5728]

@@evelynstrickland5755 I got scammed to, no one knows how they make fall, they sound so sincerely, they are professionals doing what they do, is unbelievable how they play with your emotions, the scammer used to cry with me along when I was on my emotions due for the lost of my son, made me believe he was real, he treated me as a princess, and I fell for till he start asking for money, and I believe on him, I don’t appreciate people to judge victims, they don’t know nothing!

[@LittleKitty22]

@@olgatrevino5728 I have never known an image search to actually bring up anything. Not even when I image search my own pictures, and they are being used by scammers to scam people. I would never rely on that.

[@EuleneWages4644]

Exactly dont judge that's why I like this page is most people on here dont.I understand some people will never understand how it could happen.But its void in your life and they fill it.They are trained to do that ofc.I always try to understand how it could happen and I dont judge no one.❤❤

[@drlutskovsky]

Horrible sad story! How thirsty are these women for simple affection, to be so blinded! This is a tragedy of our society

[@lhmccracken]

Sorry-At our age sending “propagative” pics to ANYONE online is RIDICULOUS! Plus, not even questioning that the Military wouldn’t provide medical care for wounded overseas is also STUPID! Now she has given her abusive husband ammo in divorce court!

[@gillmiller3702]

It’s easy to say that. She was vulnerable

[@marciathehooligan9967]

She should've known that she was giving her soon-to-be-ex the ammo he needed to anniliate her in court. And if my husband was bing that abusive and some strange man started contacting me, I personally would think it was the husband. Especially when she said "Matthew" called while her husband was out. YOU NEVER EVER, EVER MAKE DIRTY VIDEOS WITH SOMEBODY CAUSE YA NEVER KNOW WHERE THEY WILL END UP! Even if its your spouse...marriages fall apart. Feelings get hurt down the road. Just use common sense when it comes to that!

[@rebeccaabel4589]

You don't understand trauma bonding or psychological damage of abusive relationships.

[@barbaramcnerney9166]

This story is unbelievably heart breaking! 💔 I feel awful for her! Love is NEVER this cruel or expensive!

[@nadiathearmyandcoastguardw6423]

Oh wow poor lady. if she reads this comment I will tell her to keep her head up. that she is not ugly that her husband is the one that stinks and is ugly. remember you are beautiful. thank you Mr W for helping her

[@cherylrain7909]

How long did it take her to count the red flags and realize things don't add up. I get it that people get lonely but it's certainly not worth sending someone you never met or saw lots of money, you SS number. THAT'S JUST TOO CRAZY!

[@dianagladman1309]

They don't care who they hurt and rob, and her husband I don't want to say how I feel about him. No one should put anyone down

[@critical_thinker73]

Full sympathy to this lady. But if you haven't met someone in person and verified their identity don't give them money. It really is that simple.

[@Qasde423]

I Usually have no sympathy for these victims because I feel that it's completely their fault for being so gullible but this is the first time I truly feel sad for a scammed victim. Poor girl 🧡 🧡 🧡. I pray she heals from all that she's experienced.

[@Marie-bi3yx]

She is a victime. She had a lot of sadness before and was happy with a Nice word. Can happen with everyone.!!!!

[@jayajaya788]

What? This can happen to anyone...even the strongest person...the key thing is to never give up any money to these fools

[@GaffGiraffe]

The predators out there bank on this type of logic. "Only dumb people get scammed" "My kid would never touch drygs" " I am a good person, so only good things will happen to me" These are necessary lies we tell ourselves so we can live ourselves. Like saying "my door is locked! No one could ever get in here!" Like a small car can be launched through a wall or doorframe with ease, give the proper vector. Scammers and con artist HOPE you help sell their lies to yourself by feeding yourself your own bs. "Only people not getting got, are the ones doing the getting" -my dad. 😅

[@cliotise]

You would have to experience this to understand. Scammers are professionals at what they do.

[@jeanblattner3070]

Wow, this is really sad and my heart goes out to this lady. Sad but scammers disappear when they get everything you have if they can. Thank goodness for SSA, I quickly learned about scammers from them and did not lose much, my hope is for Shirley to not blame herself as they took full advantage of a woman who was struggling. May her life improve and she know she is never alone and is a good person who deserves to move on from this terrible scam and find inter peace. Many prayers for her and hope for a better future.

[@carolsmith8250]

They also use the word honey. Want to know if multiple peeps are talking to you? Object to being called honey, ask him not to. You’ll find he repeatedly “forgets” and calls you honey. This poor poor woman.

[@gloriayouchisonbrown7734]

Remember you are a work of art, I am sorry you had to endure all of this You are not the first nor the last, hopefully we have become more educated thanks To sites and stories like this. Years ago I was scammed and had never heard the word scammer, just thought someone Liked me, I was really naive. Hopefully this story will save some victims.❤️

[@francenehartley8807]

This story was particularly tough to hear. My heart & prayers go out to this woman. This scammer is a soulless ghoul. It was so unsettling, I had to wait & listen to it again. I pray the day comes, we get to DO something. Right now education & support are all we have. Grrr...

[@thelmajackson6739]

SCAMMERS doesn't have a conscience at all😎

[@glendavis4941]

Being a veteran this is making me very angry that this happens.

[@vg7985]

Lol. Military veteran is a staple in the dating scam scheme. Next are engineers working on oil rig, then Doctors Without Borders.

[@loralieisa]

@@vg7985 I only received friend requests from military men on FB. I didn't respond because I have a healthy distrust of strangers. Some would show up and quickly withdraw their request.

[@debsikat1]

Wow!! I was so shocked all through this story. So cruel on the part of the scammer and the husband. And her son is just like his father? Double whammy. What this woman must be going through mentally, emotionally, and financially. :-( I hope she's in good therapy and God is getting her through. Those Yahoo Boys, there are millions of them. Watch out.

[@GlobalistJuice]

Loneliness wreaks havoc on the brain and saps it of the ability to reason and act logically, or the ability even apply the most basic common sense. These women should print out a photo of a Nigerian and leave it by their phone/computer, and look at it if they ever again decide to participate in online dating.

[@LittleKitty22]

I have listened to this video before but am listening to it again. It's so similar to my own story. I didn't have an abusive husband but abusive "parents" and since then abuse from a lot of other people. I've been scammed when I was at my most vulnerable - not by a romance scammer but someone who did a far more twisted and complicated scam. Police have mocked me, called me "stupid" and are siding with the scammer - who has filed false police reports against me. The scammer got my entire life savings and a British passport as a reward for his actions. I've been left with a criminal record, a destroyed career, unemployable, and in bitter poverty (scammer stole all my life savings).

[@Laura-tp8wz]

I’m so sorry. 🥲

[@DopamineDecor]

:(

[@magnoliabranca5149]

I hope your doing better now❤ please don’t let anyone else abuse you.

[@hayn3996]

This is my 2nd favorite of William's videos. The first is the one about the lady who works at the cardealer place and has all her clients information stolen by a scammer going by the name of john.

[@maciekmrakowski]

Link to the best one?

[@Dodgeowner]

I feel the same. THe top two!

[@andreafong9952]

Thank you to this courageous woman for sharing her story! She will undoubtedly save others from a similar fate. I know things will go better for her in the future because she has a friendly and loving spirit.

[@lindapringpuangkeo4661]

Same playbook same script best friend cheating with his wife, wife being a drug addict, sweet words in first few chats and a committment without taking time, really knowing each other and actually meeting in real life and going through various situation together as a couple, deployed and coming home soon, widowed and you become the love of their life ( same script, same playbook)

[@deloresannwells]

Linda Pringuangkeo Yup same ole BS these Scammers give damn shame

[@mermaidtails4391]

They use the words queen and babe because they’re scamming several people at once and can’t get the names straight, so queen and babe covers everyone

[@PungiFungi]

And honey. Another cloying term of endearment they toss at u.

[@jenfnp]

This is incredibly sad. This poor person has been abused to the point that her self worth is non existent. I hope she gets emotional help.

[@rsavitri]

It’s not about knowing how the military works, it’s more about fragile mental state. Mortgage payment is a very common where there is no way a mortgage is paid by bitcoin. I feel sorry for her. The divorce and repeated abuse caused her to make heist decisions just because she wanted to be love. I hope she recovers and can move pass this. It would be so hard. I hope you are okay, somewhere.

[@shirleyharrison2580]

Oh wow..I just feel terrible for this lady, to be abused at home then scammed & hurt again. I hope she recovers from this experience & can find a real gentleman to love & respect her like she deserves. How horrible to know her photos are out there.

[@noelmorin8250]

My heart goes out to this lady, I think the lockdowns caused a lot of divorces, being around their spouses 24 7 really shows who the abuser is, I hope you find someone that will love and deserve you, scammers are rat finks, they have a special place in hell.

[@marciathehooligan9967]

Yes the self imposed lockdown served its purpose; "Divide & conquer". I can honestly say that, other than the annoyance of everything being closed down, my life never changed one bit.

[@carieyounginsurance]

All that money could have been used to get away from her husband…! Why stay in something so toxic when you have the means to leave and get an apartment? This woman sounds really sad and needs to get a literal life. Poor thing.

[@bobcat8654]

She blames her husband but she is an adult she could have left instead of being such ch a thief

[@patriciasmith2420]

Yes it was for 8 years that I was scammed for and sent thousands of pounds when I became widow and the Lockdowns started and I couldn't send money he also stopped talking to me and I had a breakdown and I I'm now frightened to go out, he sent a friend request when my daughter in Australia tried to kill herself and left herself extremely disabled, my mind wasn't in a good place, I wish I dare tell the Police but I will when I pick up the courage, I'm trying to heal my mind because he devastated me.

[@laceylocket1]

Patricia .So Sorry to hear that about your Daughter .. Hoping that Soon you will find the Courage to go out. Please dont let that Scammer Win ..Love and Hugs to you .

[@patriciasmith2420]

@@laceylocket1 thank you x

[@dianalovescolors]

@@laceylocket1 Lacey why am I not surprised to see you here and as always, you are so kind. Much love to you 💙

[@lhmccracken]

Telling the police WILL help you heal- think of how you are helping others by posting your story! Even in your pain you are warning others! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

[@darkknight1340]

I truly hope that you find peace and happiness,God bless you.

[@aprilreign7840]

Her ex husband is such a jerk! The low life scammer preyed on the weak. This poor lady had low self esteem.😥

[@marybarrett4336]

Wow! This story is gut wrenching! These scammers are so slick ! I pray that you can move on from this nightmare

[@donnabonn1892]

I don't understand how women and men keep getting scammed over and over again.

[@ophrim]

this lady sounds so kind and sweet shame on her abusive husband and this horrible scammer.

[@loralieisa]

The state of mind her nasty abusive husband put her in left her open to being scammed.

[@diamondsparkle9967]

​@@loralieisashe put herself in that state of mind by staying.

[@DezHickson]

The “odd accent” IS THEE best red flag 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Eph.6_10-20]

I feel so badly for Shirley. I’ve been there regarding the body shaming, It’s a horrible place to be.

[@MarciaHooley-fr7qj]

Maybe being screwed over so badly throughout my life has left me jaded & untrusting. But if the scammer called when my husband left the house, I would think that it was my husband, trying to sett me up

[@willboywonder]

The one good thing about this scammer experience is it got this nice lady away from her evil husband.

[@islandgal500]

This just gets worse with every minute! Women (or men) need to stop trying to help and fix things for everyone else and certainly do not send someone money -ever. Stop relying on someone else to make you happy. You need to do that for yourself! Good deeds never go unpunished.

[@djsuzy3098]

Everyone should hear your videos. The internet can be a great place OR a dangerous one if you believe everyone here. Be aware of scammers! If you think something doesn't sound right you are probably correct.

[@carlennabrattin7731]

Never give money to strangers on internet

[@perryp2261]

Never,Never.

[@annaamalia7189]

So many red flags . But she didn't know such evil existed. She never heard so many loving words . Lonely and vulnerable she fell for all this man's manipulation . I hope she heals and find a good man. Kudos for speaking up. About her husband I find no way to describe him other than an narcasists./ Sociopath. Its probably a group of scammers she been involved with. Education is the answer. .... If in daubt block. No response is the best response.

[@donnahanna2942]

Sorry for this lady. Interesting story.Thanks you all!

[@gingerclevenger5574]

I'm sorry but how can you fall for someone you have never met, and it's just a photo? Yes I have them trying to scam me but I also have a mirror and know how old I am. They try that don't you want to be happy, want to be loved, want to get married, age is just a number. They usually end up calling me a bad name and hanging up. Please meet your scammer in person DON'T SEND MONEY

[@brendaross3961]

God bless and thank you for everything you two do to help all of us!!

[@charmainewalker8627]

I have listened scam stories before but this was heart wrenching and so sad. I did a KZbin video and scamming after seeing so many ppl have gotten scammed but this was hard for me to listen. There are some evil people in this world. From her husband to this scammer. How do they live with themselves. My heart went out to this poor woman. I wish I could give her hug

[@tinabelair5693]

Don’t ever send money you don’t know

[@AdidasLove34]

Please please please! NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER send naked pics of urself to anyone online. You don't know who is on the other end and what their true intentions are. People lie all day every day. Check Facebook and Instagram if u don't believe me. Don't assume bcuz u have good intentions the other person does. Anyone who truly loves and respects you would never ask u to share ur body like that. If they love you, they can wait until they see u. Once it's online it never goes away and u have no idea what sites ur pics can end up on.

[@willboywonder]

That’s true. Even if you do know the person, content posted online remains forever. It never really gets deleted. With all the data leaks, your photos can end up anywhere.

[@tabby73]

Wow that's a horrible story. I'm very sorry Shirley for what this person put you through. I hope you are recovering from this blow. 🙏

[@misslucybear]

Just when I think things couldn' t have gotten worse for that lady, boom comes the next punch. How can people be so diabolical? It's going to suck to be "Matthew" when he faces his karma.

[@lexiemaep7930]

Be Alone!! I was married to an abuser for 17 yrs. Finally got free just to land another narcissist. That one lasted 4 yrs. I am finally free of all men and loving life. No more men ever!!! Be happy alone. Redo your kitchen, remodel your bathroom, do something to stay busy. Get a dog.

[@floss3367]

All this brave woman wanted was to be wanted. I pray this woman finds happiness in herself and has her happy ending. She's been through a lot god bless her. I wish her nothing but happiness in the future

[@bobcat8654]

How is she brave she was a liar and a thief with alot of self pity

[@brendaross3961]

My heart breaks for this poor woman!!!

[@vickirichards5186]

This sounds like a scammer that tried to scam me. I took him for a ride. I never gave him what he wanted. He told the same stories to the tee. Finally he admitted he was a scammer. And facetime me and showed me who he really was.

[@สุนุตตราตะบูนพงศ์]

How did you do to make him tell you the truth?

[@dianagladman1309]

If they know if you going through something, they will tell you love things, and get you that way. Because you want someone to tell you beautiful things

[@AlexiaTD00]

It got worse each minute. I could barely finish it.. I truly hope she heals from this. This is really heart-breaking.

[@alph1057]

There seems to be a recurring pattern in these cases: a sociopathic/narcissistic perpetrator vs a codependent, people-pleasing victim

[@judgejudy3035]

Self esteem people self esteem

[@diannelanouette8011]

These cockroaches make me sick . I was fooled by one of these people ( in my eyes they are not human beings ) I was hurt by my experience. So now my walls stay up and trust no one ... ever . This person ruined my heart.

[@PungiFungi]

That is an insult to cockroaches. Cockroaches are important to the planet's ecosystem. These scammers contribute NOTHING. They are a waste of air, water, food and space. They may be good for maggot food.

[@beverlycoates1739]

Sorry to hear this. But seeking help from friends or church better than online scammers

[@patriciagemmell4953]

What a low life her husband was xx

[@MsIndigo74]

This is the cruelest yet!😭

[@soniar9792]

OMG, this is absolutely horrible. This too shall passed

[@davidcawrowl3865]

Scammers yes at fault, but also the woman, 90% emotional; 10% intellect/logic/reason.

[@paristhequeenvlogs8785]

My heart goes out to this lady, My dear hang in there you are not alone, and also please pray to God he can help you so sorry this happens to you.

[@ZetaCancri]

Ugh, I hate these scammers.

[@thankthelord4536]

Why would a person who's not divorced yet send dirty pics to a strange man or anybody?

[@ScammingScammers]

Sadly this happens often

[@rebeccaabel4589]

I just hope and pray you are in a better situation now.

[@dizziechef9502]

If he said she was beautiful and she has mirrors and knows she’s not a beauty. This should be a red flag. Words only. When did he face time with you ? So you could talk to him? When did he start asking for money. Total red flag. Now is the time to block him.

[@brendaross3961]

Holy cow!!! Sounds just like what happened to me!!!

[@debsikat1]

:-(

[@Shrekperson]

Omg 😱 what a nightmare!!! God Bless her soul!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@andyt8216]

As someone else has commented, naïve Americans (and others) are single-handedly supporting the local Lagos economy and giving some out there a very nice and easy lifestyle.

[@bobcat8654]

She had some nerve after stealing from her husband she expected alimony?

[@FreeSpirit47]

This can only happen if the one being scammed volunteers.

[@laurajames9855]

So sorry this happened prayers for you

[@peerdous5708]

Queen, angel, honey are words used by scammers

[@hayn3996]

"Good morning beautiful" is another red flag.

[@LoLYouSayWhat]

Uncles and Aunties of USA and Canada are Literally funding the Nigerian Economy 😁😁😁

[@andreafong9952]

Yes and can’t we find some real men and women who are able to have fun relationships here that are more mutual financially?

[@ARR1058]

@@LoLYouSayWhat so true 😂😂

[@suzmariesquires5065]

Poor lady 😢 I pray for her

[@annamariehewitt3173]

Shirley was a broken woman who had nothing to offer any kind of a new relationship other than her body parts and her money... What a sad sad situation....

[@nancyparker2199]

Loneliness can make people very vulnerable. You just have to be more careful about what you do and say online to strangers.

[@vvg376]

What a story from the scammer.... Some of the things said r a little red flaggish but when a victim is going thru a dark time in their life like this lady did it is very easy to not fall for the person but for the fantasy of what u wish u had when in reality u didn't

[@missjohnson644]

Sad how scammers work feel sorry for her but thankful no small children were involved. Praying for her 🙏🙏

[@marciathehooligan9967]

Haven't these people ever had surgery or known anybody whose had surgery? Or haven't they ever heard of a VA Hospital? "A food account"? Do these people honestly believe that a hospital will come into your hospital room & demand $6.95 for a lunch? Or they'll tell a patient that, " sorry. Your mashed potatoes cost $4 and if you don't have cash everyday, we're gonna make you starve"? C'mon! NOBODY, short of having a severe mental disability, could possibly believe that! I know, we're suppose to pity these people and its not their fault and loneliness makes people do whacky things. But there has to come a point when we're like, "OH COME ON, PEOPLE!"

[@lynnparrish1335]

“Queen” is the giveaway-along with calling themselves “widows”, working as marine engineers, oil rig workers, orthopedic “surgeon doctors,” contractors…..and of course poor grammar!

[@deloresannwells]

Yup that’s what they do send them KZbin videos and they tell u they love you in 5 mins

[@AABLAY]

Great video. I am a Spanish person and here usually frauds are different. Nevertheless there are financially abusive partners who act similarly towards their exes and offspring. They could be called "home scammers" because they use family ties to behave just like that. My best wishes to all these victims in one way or another. Love yourself and life in order to help others who really deserve that help, not to those heartless jerks.

[@PungiFungi]

Yes, there are many types of fraud. The point is...NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYBODY. Especially to people you have not met in person.

[@nontsasamxenge8464]

God her husband!!! He could have ignored her. Just not talk to her. I don't even know him and I hate him.

[@andreafong9952]

He sounds so self centered. He could have helped her lose weight by walking with her!