My Husband Invited His Family for Dinner, Then Slapped Me in Front of Them to Please His Mother

[@StormCat3PC]

Opie did exactly what she had to do. If her husband hair ones, he would wind up doing it again. How dare he tell her to respect his mother when his mother sure as hell didn’t respect his wife. Just very toxic people. She needed to get her self out and she did.

[@trudifruty6078]

If they hit you once he will do it again time to leave

[@RedRose0395]

True that.

[@paulpavlus6664]

Never give an abusive person a second chance

[@RedRose0395]

@@paulpavlus6664 Right! From what I’ve heard, the abuser will do more than just slap you if you stay any longer.

[@DragonGoddess18]

Martha is a monster and so is her son,Adam Sorry, "second husband". Tia made the right decision to divorce him.

[@gladysgines6981]

My ex husband's family was so toxic, that the in-laws became the out-laws.

[@trudifruty6078]

I would of told him go to hell I’m filing for a divorce

[@pammaccallum]

once he raised his hand to you... run! It is sure to happen again

[@lorannamoody7011]

That’s right. My mom told every man she knew. Hit me once, you’ll never see me again. She was never hit.

[@AliciaMelendez-hr6xp]

Martha can't stop critiquing what everyone else does. She needs to critique every mean thing that she says and does to everyone and everything around her. The fact that Adam slapped Tia in front of his mom, his dad, and his siblings shows that she did NOT care who got hurt just as long as she maintains control of everyone and everything around her.

[@hyundaisonata580]

Call the police,a lawyer,and then surprise him with divorce papers right in front of his parents.

[@paulrosa1074]

I totally agree

[@jamesalvisii8491]

She made a right choice to cut ties from her husband and his family and start a new life

[@Stephanie-q9o]

I would have called the police and a divorce lawyer and told him to get out.

[@KathrynJaneway-wm8kv]

I was thinking the something

[@lizcarroll8180]

Leave him.

[@kpc9602]

MOMMY'S BOY IMPRESSING HIS LITTLE MOMMY!! LIKE MOMMY, LIKE SON!!

[@jamesalvisii8491]

That bastard should have been arrested for assault

[@liezelbickle9430]

I would have called my older brother and tell him what my husband was doing.

[@nataliereeves3594]

I wonder if his precious mom had been hit, he would have tolerated it. People like him are just bulling hypocrits.

[@emilynelson5646]

If he's so close to his mom why did he get married in the first place?

[@amyyaku5022]

Reminds me of a reddit story of a nursing wife, bullying mil, and the husband (OP). OP's wife was being harassed by mil for years but OP mostly brushed it off. That all changed when mil hit OP's wife, and finally having enough, she defended herself. Then, OP kicked out his mil, his wife, and their baby out so he could "have some space". It was more of a figurative slap than a physical one, but just like Adam, OP made his choice (they got a divorce and OP finally cut off his mom, but it was too little too late to fix their relationship). Some things can't be mended. Once your spouse sides with their abusive parent and/or family member, the marriage is over.

[@JoniqueaSmith]

He should be ashamed of himself for slapping her in the face in front of everybody.

[@rhondamontgomery3797]

Interference from the (s)mother-in-law is the main cause of divorces everywhere. Serves the villains right. If the (s)mother in law stop butting in their child's life 😤 😑, then maybe they could have a happier marriage 💑 😊 ☺.

[@outbackfirefly1154]

He hit you to please his mother. You are designated scapegoat in this family, get out.

[@FluttershyFanboy]

I agree, if you EVER strike me we are compleatly DONE, YOU DON'T EVER PUT YOUR HANDS ON ME, the second that is done the relationship is over because I will NEVER give you to abuse me again, DV is a 100% deal breaker for me!!!🤬

[@meghanmcclamma1662]

What a terrible husband and mother-in-law! There's no excuse for abuse!

[@MarkWerderitsch-k9v]

If someone is not the child in law they wanted, the parents in law need yo keep their mouths shut. They do not have to like the child in law. They need to be polite. The person their child marries is none of their business. Period.

[@tracymedia74]

Why didn't OP call the police?

[@amyyaku5022]

I was thinking the same, but based on everyone's reaction, it would've been her word over Adam and mil at least. Or, the rest of the family could side with Adam, thinking OP went too far by calling the police.

[@DragonGoddess18]

Why would the police believe OP?

[@gambler942]

Easy, unless you have proof that the husband did it, the whole family will side the husband because of the mother

[@ellenosceola5707]

These scenarios mostly come from Japan . Family dynamics and cultural norms are very different. While it’s considered illegal if it causes bodily injury, spousal abuse is very common there. Most women don’t report it, just like in many other countries.

[@flitsertheo]

Here the police wouldn't show up just because a husband slapped his wife. Not immediately anyway, maybe they would send an officer a few hours later to hear what this was all about.

[@rubenvideo3188]

NEVER married to a mommas boy that whats it is

[@kalcibone]

Should have called the police

[@nancyadams9228]

I love that apple pie. 😂

[@jazzie-sanbelle99]

Girl walking away from toxicity is better than keeping up with such a life. Sorry but your relationship is bad go be happy without that toxicity

[@NightFoxProductions]

To those saying should have called the cops. When you're in a situation like that and no one has your back - the cops aren't going to do a thing. It's a he said/she said moment. Especially if the mom and the ex has everyone struck with fear.

[@commonsense2646]

Adam had no right to hit Tia. She didn't even say anything to provoke a slap. Nothing she said was disrespectful. Tia needs to get out of this relationship. If he hits once, he'll do it again.

[@leedavis-m2o]

Why would these women with no kids be going to a PTA meeting?

[@kgrkid]

Why is that any of your damn business, Karen?

[@michaelfisher1537]

instant divorce

[@bravobr9725]

I know what I would be telling mommy dearest if she kept giving snide remarks out !

[@darkwarriormaster9644]

Do tell!

[@oldwoman5942]

Giving them a second chance is very wrong. Like with children if you give in when they throw a fit then next time the fit will be worse and last longer because it worked before.

[@courtneypepper5798]

I have Literally been there!, Jobs Just wasn’t there

[@ednapuckett1042]

She’d become part of a toxic family & the only way to protect herself was to leave.

[@michaelredmond6861]

Good story with a nice ending, I wish it was real 😂: I also think I it was quite palpable how she didn't ring the cops after getting assaulted by her husband, for palpabltys sake what was she thinking? 🤔 Did you know that Sheeve Palpatine was a sith lord? Palpable palpable palpable😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 palpable

[@gcolson3388]

I agree . They use that word far too much. And I don't think Palpatine's name choice was a coincidence.

[@kgrkid]

Based on what proof, idiot? How about not judging things you wouldn't understand and stop making false accusations or ranting over a damn word, stupid?

[@CanePollFishermon]

I'm glad this is made to educate people who might end up in this type of situation. But frfr his hand would've been waving at people through his but hole if he would've ever raised it at me. 😂

[@margaretchaffee9005]

Of course- leave!I did!

[@brendaechols5929]

How awful, when your spouse puts his parents ahead of you.

[@eugenelau3927]

Your husband should have given you heads up, dear, this was Father-in-law, Mother-in-law, Brother-in-law and Sister-in-law all coming and you were cooking. His Mother, who made a Mama's boy of your husband hated you, it would be proven when slapped you and not defending your honor. Time to divorce the jerk, kick all relations out and get a restraining order!!!! It will be awkward yet necessary!!!

[@yvonneburns2786]

And why didn't you retaliate back.. don't be a doormat

[@ydcee3123]

Palpable...

[@candiceperry9803]

The husband shouldn’t slap the wife

[@kpc9602]

what the flippin' heck was he even thinking??- oh, wait, his body's not even thinking straight, especially his own empty teeny-tiny brain of his!!

[@KathyOgden-c8c]

You should’ve backhanded him then called the cops. Just say it self-defense and then say tell him you want a divorce. He’ll hit you once he’ll do it again and this time he might hit you where you won’t wake up.

[@Jebus_Davo_83]

Stop using the term "palpable." Get a thesaurus and use a different term. Isn't even used right sometimes. I love the videos just over the word "palpable." 7:21 she says "the relief was palpable." Not a language expert but that really doesn't sound like the correct usage of it. Like I said I love the videos they're short yet detailed and get straight to the point of the story. Keep it up, just please stop using THAT word😂

[@kgrkid]

Get a damn life, boy! It's their channel and their not gonna change because your weak spined ass is triggered over a damn word, bitch!

[@mariaconsuelothomen]

Tia wants to divorce, but she doesn't have a job. Should she document everything people have told her about Adam's behavior?

[@liztrainer895]

Yes

[@darlingreynolds838]

They didnt call because they dont want to make waves.

[@ClaytonMorgan-xi1so]

My question is, why didn't she get the police involved?

[@mariaconsuelothomen]

It's really hard to believe some stories. Like this one.

[@kgrkid]

Why, because it didn't happen to you? How about showing proof that these events didn't happen instead of making false accusations like this, Karen?

[@adenamichael5452]

Why she looks like Coraline the other mother 😂

[@favor359]

Who I Cover Today will Determine Who Will Cover me tomorrow

[@darkfan4706]

Please tell me. There is overt violence against women and children. But when I talk about similar retaliation against the against the antagonist,I get suspended. WILL SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN TO ME WHY THHIS IS SO,

[@nascar38lady]

What culture is this?

[@flitsertheo]

Probably Asian/Japanese values transposed to an American setting.

[@susanmullins7713]

Why bother???

[@susanmullins7713]

Stay single

[@carolthe13th60]

I am so tired of the words "toxic", "toxicity", ect. They use those words so many times in these things. These people are writers, making up scripts. You'd think they could think of something that was actually original rather than use the moronic fads of the 2020's when describing unacceptable behavior. Oh well, as soon as toxic becomes cliche' they will move to some other word that's fashionable, I guess. 😔

[@kgrkid]

The only thing moronic here is this pile of bullshit you just wrote, Karen! The only reason you hate these stories has to be because you've been the subject of several of these as the toxic one of the story, otherwise you wouldn't be making entitled ass comments like this! Do better, bitch!