My husband is a gold digger and stole my money, Should I divorce him? | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem

[@Lasagna-z8w]

A lot of women think if they put up with oppression by the husband that's obeying Allah that's not

[@Idroppedthesoap1]

Putting up with very small things is fine and there obviously will be a reward for your patience and forgiveness, but if your husband is stealing money and being a bum then leave him. You aren't his caregiver.

[@Wonderview256]

@Lasagna-z8w True

[@humairahumaira1067]

Many women obey their husband and bear their oppression because they do not want to go to hell....men have made themselves as Allah has created them for jaanah

[@Lasagna-z8w]

Muslim women do not settle and and don't put yourself down for no man who has no deen and TAQWA

[@alpha-boss]

True but the problem is these men don't show their true colors only after marriage..

[@miss_nobody9876]

Assalamu Alaikum. My ex was just like that. My ex was also a pathological liar with character issues. I gave him khulla shortly after I found out. He tried to fight in court ask for my house/alimony, but it was easier to prove in court. Men like that never changes and do not deserve a chance. The sooner you run, the better sister! Jazakallah

[@nadzirahfarhah3423]

Girl , stop. He is taking advantage of your kindness

[@alpha-boss]

I felt so bad for her that i couldn't listen to her. I skip to his reply

[@soldierboy2352]

If the love is real she will never file for divorce and improve him and he will become better

[@avanarichierich8281]

I m in that situation and finally taking action to divorce n live a peaceful life !🤲🤲🤲

[@theofficial-msgamer6269]

I feel for the sister but at the same time I agree with the sheikh at the fact that this wasn’t dealt with sooner. Whatever the reason may be for delaying this who knows. But I think it’s a lesson that if there is any sisters who have these types of men as husbands, they should just leave for someone who is more qualified for the role

[@suveeraamin5100]

SUBHAN ALLAH ALHUMDULILLAH ALLAH AKBAR I SURVIVED SIMILAR CIRCUMSTANCES AS A MARRIED WOMAN.

[@halimoarab4884]

Honestly tired of hearing these stories… if your husband/wife was on their DEEN they would be doing everything possible to do the right thing in the marriage because ALLAH is watching. This people don’t even understand the basic contact they signed swearing to Allah 😦😬

[@elizab..h]

Okay but why are you yelling at her she is giving you background information so you can understand what is going on.

[@saliminadampha5309]

You're new to Sheikh Assim.

[@elizab..h]

@ I don't disagree with him, and I understand he's older and less patient. However, she's trying to explain herself, and he speaks to her in a disrespectful tone. I've seen his videos before, and it's good that he is straightforward, but sometimes his tone is inappropriate.

[@Nargesneo]

He's ferm but respectful. He's giving private conselling session if someone needs it, but this is for TV and he has a short time to give to each caller. It's very organized. It wouldn't be fair if he gave more time to her, knowing that the next caller is probably waiting for his turn. Also, the people who call are probably aware that they shouldn't take too long to ask their question

[@SoufBouchahati]

Nature of most women during an emotional state is to talk a lot, looking for someone who listens to them, feel pity for them, who they can vent on their frustrations, and eventually not really looking for a solution. With his age, he didnt become impatient, he became wise and understood that a woman who is emotionally charged needs a man to intervene with a rational mind, cut straight to the point, wake her up and encourage the lady to take action. This has to be a little harsh sometimes. Women need or crave that from a leading man in such a state and believe me, she is not offended by his words.

[@saliminadampha5309]

@@elizab..h To my knowledge not really. He always deals with these question bunch of times and thousands of people are waiting to ask him. So go straight to the point not the whole story. I don't even like to listen to stories which aren't that beneficial. And he knows what he's doing!!! and it's definitely fine people are different in approaching things and I'm definitely his type.