My Husband Is Acting Like A Child!

My Husband Is Acting Like A Child!
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[@ludens1526]

Who you marry literally makes and breaks you.

[@EaglesVols91]

Ludens That’s why staying single is the way to go

[@mikenelson8377]

Brian Waller sounds like you’ve done your research and you’re not wrong either. Marriage is really only beneficial to women.

[@Michael-ft9pm]

Being in a bad marriage is worse for your mental health than being single.

[@jenniferannfox2316]

@Brian Waller no always. I know plenty of women who pull most of the financial support in a couple. Can go both ways.

[@buddingnaturalist]

@Brian Waller Only if you choose to marry nothing but greedy losers.

[@bahwickee]

Ten years and no agreement on finances, religion, or children.... that is frightening.

[@nanawordie7967]

Samantha Etc. exactly

[@mphomolapo1562]

You're telling me. That stuff is usually 100% ironed out in Year 1 or 2 *--if not before* 😅

[@anastasiabeaverhaus9]

Well, they were basically just out if high school when they got married. No time to grow as individuals. Sounds like they are better off getting divorced and following their own paths.

[@granitemoss1451]

They married too young and neither has significantly matured yet. Although she might be starting to, as she's thinking about the money.

[@EmpireTextbooks]

Samantha Etc. what’s really frightening is how they decided to get married at 18

[@mattmartin2205]

She will be an absolute genius to NOT have kids with him so when they divorce which they will they really can go their own separate ways.

[@kidcivic2002]

Seem like they got married too young and drifted apart as they got older. Seems like the wife is level headed.

[@kidcivic2002]

@Ayawrxsti yep, i can attest to that. I wasnt truly emotionally mature and understood what is needed in a relationship until i was 31.

[@exophthalmos1]

Is that the way it seems without hearing anything from the other side? Do you always take one person's opinion and cast it as fact?

[@kidcivic2002]

@@exophthalmos1 when my original post has the word "seems" in it at the beginning of my statements, it is a statement of opinion, not fact 😁.

[@lizzylu4660]

After 14 years of trying to make it work, I’m letting go. Dave is speaking the truth to this lady.

[@M1MEDIA]

Don’t marry a ‘fixer upper’! You will be exhausted and they won’t get fixed or upgraded to a better husband or wife! Marry a person who is always evaluating ‘themselves’ and improving on ‘themselves’ as they grow older and more mature! And thinking that you can change someone after you marry them is a lie! Don’t fall for it or you will suffer and be miserable for the rest of your life, even if you divorce them!

[@carieyounginsurance]

My husband is 52! And he refuses to do the baby steps or anything with Dave Ramsey...it’s heartbreaking for me as this was not what I envisioned for our marriage. I’ve decided to do this on my own...it’s not what I wanted but me becoming better has def hurt our marriage. I can’t make him better so I have to let that dream go.

[@dexterm1285]

Sorry to hear that. I'm guessing you both were maybe on same page financially when younger...you grew up and he didn't. You cant change someone unless they really want that change.

[@knowbodiesfull5768]

Like the saying goes: "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink."

[@V.Hansen.]

@Johnny Five if you are a solitary person and are happy on your own then there's no reason you shouldn't stay single if you feel strongly about it. However if you just want all the benefits of a wife without any of the responsibility then that is just as much being a man child as other ways. A child wants pleasure with no responsibility. An adult knows all pleasure comes with consequence and responsibility.

[@MyNameIsCorey]

Sounds like they're simply just growing apart...

[@JoeLujano]

Which is a choice. Just like love is a choice...

[@robertcraft1030]

You mean she is growing up?

[@Jesussaveme85]

Filed for divorce from my husband and it was the best decision. He was childish and emotionally unavailable. Thank God I’m getting out after only 2 years.

[@tjbalistic]

She is 28. He is still 18.

[@mmmarvel]

Sounds more like he's about 14.

[@knowbodiesfull5768]

More like 12.

[@redcomic619]

More like 10

[@justintaylor-moneymindset4073]

Gotta be on the same page financially with your spouse. Sounds like she already knows it isn’t gonna work out

[@ShelleyG1014]

Dave is 100% right and I agree 100% I couldn’t stay married to a child and I left after 7 years. He hasn’t changed.

[@nelktwo]

Sounds like a high school couple lol

[@ChrisInvests]

How do you solve the problem of having a lack of motivation to improve your finances?? 🤔👎

[@teesellz7692]

They got married 18 and 19 woww you have to learn a lot more about a person before you get married because now she 28 and he still 19 🤣🤣

[@joelopez40oz23]

Why would anyone get married that young?.

[@mphomolapo1562]

@@joelopez40oz23 is it? I was already engaged & mostly self-reliant at that age 😅 *but to be fair, lacked a lot of hard learned life experience.* Is that what you meant? 🤷🏽‍♀

[@rachelgee7894]

I got married at 19 and we're happily married and on baby step 4! It depends on how mature you are when you get married and if your morals align. We agree on religion, kids, money, values, etc. And it works!

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@@thegalaxycosmos7703 ya but usually men are the providers in those cultures. Women dont have to baby their men and the finances.

[@Cookieboy70]

It’s crazy they’re not even on the same page now after 10 years, how in the world did they decide to get married? Must have been based 100% on physical attraction.

[@blackjackjoker2759]

The money disfunction thing is a symptom of a deeper problem. He needs more than just marriage counseling. He sounds a lot like me at 29. I didn’t care much for my financial health at 29 but I did eventually grow up. That could happen for him in time but it may not happen soon enough to save the marriage.

[@bigchills7194]

Oh this was me to a T in my 20's also. Grew up and my wife is all the happier for it 😁 (she was always the brains with the budget ... 🤣)

[@blackjackjoker2759]

Anne Day I can’t say for sure because it was never a big issue for my wife. I think I was in the mindset that I just needed to live in the moment and I would let tomorrow take care of itself. Well a lot of tomorrow’s came and went and my financial situation never seemed to improve. I think I finally stopped caring about status symbols (new cars) and what people thought of me. Again I’ll say that I simply grew up.

[@hymnodyhands]

Respect to you, sir, for being willing to share your honest perspective

[@NeeNee_B.]

Lol that nervous laughter gets me EVERY call... like, what about this is funny?? Besides your finances! 🙄

[@jvyeknom]

Dating just got a 1,000 times harder since I started getting serious about my finances. Now everyone is under the financial microscope. Money Religion Kids In laws

[@brianmcg321]

But you're not going to waste years dating the wrong person.

[@chada75]

Good.

[@jvyeknom]

@Brian Waller True. And it just got even more difficult. Haha

[@kenxclout]

On an unrelated note I feel like you have to be called stupid by Dave Ramsey in order to move forward with the Baby Steps. 😂

[@stalstonestacy4316]

😂😂 funny.

[@plantbasedunicorn7995]

I absolutely agree lol I take a lot of what he says, very personal. It's very helpful

[@freewifi7163]

🤣😂

[@Simply3ddy]

Hhheeeyyy Cccoooouuusssiiinnn!!! Paternity court and Dave Ramsey???

[@kenxclout]

erika lopez Yea I have to clown on PC and afterwards come to Dave Ramsey and get educated on managing money 😂

[@MegaTeeruk]

Married young and drifted apart. It's sad but it happens. 18 year old you and 28 year old you are not the same people, same for him. Also please do not have kids in this situation.

[@createyourvlog6078]

Shes 28 and shes been married for about 10 years. So she basically got married at 18. Im 18 and i feel thats way to early

[@cathyl7944]

GypsyGirl A2 No, the time to run was before marriage. She promised to partner with him for life. He’s not beating her; he’s being stupid about money. That’s the kind of challenge that if you work through as a couple you come out stronger together in the end. Running away because things got hard is a terrible way to do life.

[@KennyakaTI]

Regardless of age make sure you're on the same page about life and the future you both want to have

[@indiaxlovee]

djw4299 exactly

[@nicolcacola]

As high school sweethearts, 13 years married ourselves, we've had our bumps but so has marriages formed at older ages. Learning is a process and not everyone's partners learn at the same speed. He needs grace and she needs patience.

[@nicolcacola]

@GypsyGirl A2 "I'm more spiritual than most people". Divorce isnt permissible under Gods law just because your husband is an 'anchor'. Terrible advice.

[@iceviking8280]

I can understand someone who loves fishing, I’m one myself. However a boat and a separate vehicle to pull the boat? That’s a bit much. Now if he were to sit down with his wife and go over their budget, if they even have a budget, and see how long it would be before he can look into purchasing one then that would be different. It’s what my wife and I do. We sit down when one of us are interested in something and we say can we fit this in the budget. If not then we find out how long before we can. I wish her the best of luck.

[@emdee390]

Separate car for the boat? Sounds like he's unhappy within himself.

[@soni05131]

One sided marriage doesn't work. Your husband is immature. Move on darling!

[@AlanJWatkins]

it is hard to pull a boat without a truck

[@knowbodiesfull5768]

Rachel, leave that man (Oops, I mean boy)! He oughta be living with the woman who brought into the world (that is, his mother)!

[@jenniferannfox2316]

How and what people spend money on and for will tell you loads about the maturity of an individual. She seems like she is setting goals for herself and trying to achieve them like going to dental school. Mature people set goals. He sounds like he is stuck in his teenage years which is really too bad for her. She will move forward with school and I highly suspect she will indeed get tired of playing the mommy role and will break off their marriage eventually. The older a woman gets the less likely she is going to put up with a childish husband.

[@trolli1266]

Jennifer Ann Fox Well side

[@dhelmassociates]

Yep

[@knowbodiesfull5768]

Hear, hear!

[@NickPeitsch]

Dave is right. These two seem very different! But I hope they can at least get their financial goals on the same page 👍

[@brysoncherry9884]

Can't wait to hear his call ~3 years from now. Divorced drowning in loans.

[@thecatnextdoor12]

You cannot wait to hear that bad things happened to them?

[@gauravudiyavar9050]

I've watched A LOT of Dave Ramsey videos. If I played the drinking game and took a shot a whiskey for everytime the caller started their monologue with "Soooo.....", I'd have liver cirrhosis by now.

[@gigi8528]

Geez, 10 years without getting pregnant even after marriage? Impressive. You rarely hear that anymore!

[@MsPants1632]

Brian Waller that’s 32? She’ll be fine to wait!! 32 is NOT old to have kids!

[@mle011]

Lol women can’t have kids after age 32? You sound ridiculous. Women having kids in their mid and late 30s is not a difficult thing. Please speak with an OBGYN if you’re confused about women’s health.

[@sassysandie2865]

mle011 the prime age to conceive is in your 20’s. Eggs start to die off after that. Yes, you can conceive in the 30’s but may be more of a challenge.

[@Qpoueoor]

This call makes me sad. I’m 49. I’ve seen this a few times. Sad

[@steffanie6569]

My man and I are on the exact same page with finances thankfully. I still slip up sometimes, but he always looks into finances before making any big financial decisions. ‘Big’ for us is buying a new $500 SS fridge. We’re not married yet, but we’re on the way there. By the middle of next year, my only debt will be the home we own together. Yeah, I know we did a ‘married person thing’ without being married. But I have no regrets.

[@palalor7830]

Im at this stage right now. Husband is 30, im 29 with a 4yrs old son and married for almost 9yrs and still living with his parents house. I tell him all the time that I AM SCARED yet he doesnt care as long as hes comfortable. 😢😢

[@PandemicGameplay]

What a sweet young woman... she deserves much better unfortunately....

[@cjhoward409]

Sounds like me and my first husband. We made it 9 years.

[@thewewguy8t88]

wow i find that this guy is really really smart and is not afraid to tell it like it is. I feel like he is someone who gives a lot of useful advice and just is like wow.

[@Maxdouble07]

She sounds like she’s already done. Dave can hear it in her voice.

[@nicholehamilton5844]

They are unequally yoked. They probably had different values to start with or the husband drifted away from the Lord.

[@alexc5369]

Ok

[@Alexjuloxz]

😂

[@danieldoucet9121]

Religion is for weak minded people who are afraid of dying and never existing again (as if I can complain about not existing if I no longer exist). Desirability is not a requisite of the truth. God is simply your own ego. I agree with everything Dave says about money and marriage but the rest is pure nonsense. Might as well worship leprechauns for all the good it'll do you.

[@Xx0GsaburzxX]

Daniel Doucet God has sent His only son Jesus Christ who died on the cross and conquered death to pay for the penalty of our sins. Whether you believe or not is your choice, however it is also God who created everything. You think we were formed “by chance.” We’ll explain this, how can you also follow what scientists say how life began, but yet deny the truth of the Holy Bible? You believe God is made up of human ego and yet you believe a scientist(also human)theory of the beginning of creation? By your logic, both ideas of the beginning of creation were thought up by a mans “ego.” Therefore your argument is baseless. Aside from eternal life in heaven, accepting Christ brings joy and peace for yourself in day to day life as well, free from any kind of fear. There is no need for me to fear for my life, whether here on earth or the afterlife, because Christ has already conquered death and made intercession for me. I will pray for your salvation Daniel, for God’s grace knows no bounds, for He sent His Son for all. May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding surround you and keep you.

[@jseden]

Charles I can believe science over religion because the science is demonstrably correct.. religion, whichever one it is, is just a story that has yet to prove itself to be anything more. I also find the concept of original sin to be disgusting.. Christianity provides the illness and the cure in this case. How can a baby be guilty of anything? They haven't chosen to be here.

[@MichaelSims94]

You didn’t talk about financial goals before marriage? That’s scary

[@sunnyrob5176]

Dave is 100% correct from stem to stern on this one....

[@altratronic]

This is what happens when you get married at 18.

[@incolourxx2613]

This is why my boyfriend and I aren’t getting married until we are at least in our mid twenties, we both agreed we should take the time to grow as individuals before “I” becomes “we.” If we end up growing in a similar direction, clearly it was meant to be, and it’s okay too if we don’t. There’s no reason to rush that kind of life decision, you should really be with someone long enough to know what they’re like at their highest and their lowest before you legally bind your lives together.

[@sassysandie2865]

Incolourxx if you are very young I wouldn’t live with him. I would take the time to get to know myself and not shack up with someone. Grow by yourself first so you can present your best self.

[@karenjordan3011]

It took me 10 years to figure this out! I agree with Dave totally he is describing my marriage to a "T" just add a little addiction to the mix.

[@yankeemockingbird4985]

Never marry a man that's not with God and with you 100% Dave is right been there done that

[@jrizz43]

How can you and your husband be on such completely different pages? Did you not talk before you were married?

[@leahsundvall5894]

Oh, I hope she got wise and left him. I wish to God that someone would have given me this advice.

[@donaldrichey3318]

Time to move on. He isn’t going to change.

[@c103110a]

When I "need" a boat, which is not often, I simply rent one by the hour or day. Much cheaper than owning. If I "need" to go striper fishing, which is not often, I call Melton Hill Bill and book a half day, because he does it every day. It's much cheaper than: boat, trailer, truck, insurance, registration, gas, flotation devices, rods, tackle, dealing with the boat ramp, etc.That's just me. Then again, a lot of people I know sink money into boats, which depreciate faster than a rock. I'm okay with that and feel no envy whatsoever. Let them pay monthly for a depreciating asset.

[@MCgrease08]

You know what "boat" means right? Break out another thousand. The best two days of boat ownership: the day you buy a boat, and the day you sell it.

[@dashcamvideos6742]

Either get rid of him or put your savings in your name only. Never get a joint credit card ever. Never put your name on a loan with him. Trust me here. If you don’t have kids end it now.

[@raulgolfs]

Haha I can act like a child sometimes. But having a women that helps me become a better man. Helps sooo much.

[@PinkpiscesASMR]

Raul J. Gomez you have to want to be a better man for yourself. Women don’t want to raise you

[@raulgolfs]

S Glover hahaha very true. Having that other opinion helps in the relationship. Spurs growth.

[@PinkpiscesASMR]

Fundamentalist American. Considering you can’t change men, no. Only girls do that, not women. At least not any woman who’s secure in herself.

[@raulgolfs]

S Glover very true.

[@GamerNRetro]

Rachels chain of events Turns away a smart guy Bangs a Chad Marries a Chad Finds out he's not a fitting husband wHeRe HaVe tHe GoOd MeN gOnE

[@reaalitykinggs]

LightningBlueMeanie lol

[@brandonpritchett9159]

Literally lold

[@adilnasir8914]

😂💀🤡

[@SilvioManfredDante85]

Men have called who had the same problems with their wives and Dave told them that they probably knew that when they got married and married them in ''sickness and in health'' and he had no sympathy for them.

[@Jarrd260]

Sucks that he had to be that blunt with her, but it's a good thing that he is. This is the beginning of growing apart.

[@Lilly-xg5xw]

No no no… them advising against entering into a financial education program on your own if a spouse refuses is insane😮 They seem to put marriage above all else. No it is a good thing she now knows… if she gets the realization that his and her behavior and goals are misaligned to this extent at least she has the knowledge and can act on it. She can leave and avoid getting more dependent on him… like having children. That is a good thing… advice should be… learn about this regardless of your spouse’s participation

[@exophthalmos1]

Comment section is filled with good Christians advising this woman to divorce her husband. Goes to show the serpent is still at work.

[@kay22100]

Ma'am whatever you do don't listen to these strangers in the comments suggesting you leave your husband because he's not on board regarding debt. NEVER listen to anyone who jumps straight to divorce as advice. They do not value marriage. He may come around later. Pray for his heart and yours also. If he doesn't want to do Dave Ramsey's plan ask him to look up other debt payment plans. I believe Ramsey's way is the best way but it's not the only way. Meet in the middle. Also, if he isn't in agreement do your part to get the debt snowball going. It may convince him once he sees the progress. I was on fire when I found out about Dave Ramsey. My husband not so much. He's on board now. Not as excited as I am but I don't need excitement and enthusiasm as long as it gets paid and we stick to the budget lol.

[@prepordietryin9119]

Finally someone with a very sensible comment/ suggestion

[@Ethiodawg]

10 years? Wow she must be a really nice woman. If that was me, I would have been out.( explains why I’m still single) lol

[@DisabilityExams]

One side of the story.

[@Stantorr]

Very much so.

[@bigchills7194]

I second that. Seems that they lack communication too

[@cm5394]

Yeah but if they have student loans and he wants to buy a truck and boat then his side is wrong

[@valeriavagapova]

Same as every single other video on this channel.

[@jimh712]

File for devorse... Serve him with the papers.. That might wake him up.. If it doesn't Kick him to the curb

[@sassysandie2865]

jim h divorce.

[@dexterm1285]

No reason to get married at that age...way to young. Hope they can work it out.

[@JJoh4040]

This is why I'm NEVER getting married this stuff is just not worth going through for me personally

[@views-ve5kb]

Dave forgot another reason for divorce. Disagreement about ssx!

[@G_Money_]

There's always three sides of the story. Her side, his side, and the truth 😎

[@bigchills7194]

I was just thinking of commenting this 😋 Its the truth tho

[@waynekerr2472]

Thank you

[@greenAbbot]

Why are men always posting stuff like this for calls where a woman is making a man look bad, but when a man makes a woman look bad everyone just assumes he’s telling the truth?

[@bigchills7194]

@@greenAbbot Nope it goes both ways in my opinion. Its not really a gender specific statement really . You just took it that way.

[@G_Money_]

You're welcome boys! Us men always have to stick up to whats right ✊🔥 Oh hey @greenAbbot 🖐. I'm assuming you're a women 🐀

[@KMartha22]

Oh I feel really really bad for this women. She sounds lovely and down to earth, but oh men her husband is years behind her.

[@AlanJWatkins]

sounds like she already has a kid

[@Iquey]

"I'm 28 and he's 27." AHHHH I'M HER AGE. WHY TF HE WANT A BOAT!?!? maybe he can learn how to build a boat with scraps, depending on where you live (hurricane territory, flood prone Midwest, or any coastal area) that can be an asset.

[@knowbodiesfull5768]

He can still buy a boat. A ship in a bottle.

[@gsmith5140]

Yeah, I see this ending. So sad. 😓

[@Angel42836]

I left my husband because he was acting like a boy. Wanting me to do all the house work and pay all the bills and his money was only for him we never combined our finances because his mother told him that as the head of the household he was to give me an allowance so i could pay the bills and get what else we needed in the house and if what he gave me wasn't enough then obviously I was over spending. But I am sorry with him having his credit card credit line repair bill loan and then a vehicle loan not to mention the loan we took out to pay off his credit card and credit line which he then racked both up again. And I was working 2 jobs just to make ends meet. But both him and his mom said that a woman isn't supposed to work. Mind you i met him at work. Now since i left him all he does is text me that i have to pay his bills because he can't. I told him we couldn't afford to live on his income alone but he didn't believe me. Now I get to tell him told you so lol

[@sunshinelawfan7693]

Dave floats divorce worry before income and net worth are mentioned. That's an issue. It's possible - just possible - they could afford a boat and truck. Without info - Dave is just guessing.

[@KMartha22]

They have student loans. They can't afford a boat.

[@greenAbbot]

If they could afford it she wouldn’t be calling.

[@KMartha22]

Plus she said he was taking out loans for them

[@sunshinelawfan7693]

Most drs, dds, cpa etc have or had student loans. Some of them enjoy pricey perks like boat and truck/trailer before they are fully paid. My dds has a Porsche. And loans as well. That may or may not be wise. (His admin said it was a police auction item, car confiscated from dealer.) Just saying. With no specifics on $ - neither net worth nor income nor debt amount was mentioned - it was premature for Dave to float the big D.

[@Ethiodawg]

You need to learn to listen very carefully. She called because she is trying to do the baby steps but couldn’t get the hubby to get on board. she is doing baby steps, she is in debt. She said they both have student loans.

[@ccmnevada]

Get rid of him!

[@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy]

Why do good giiiirls love baaad guys...

[@thecatnextdoor12]

One, simple reason. They are fun. No well-established man can ever be so entertaining.

[@armandosanchez8901]

What makes a pastor an expert in marriage?

[@chartuck]

Why don't people just not get married? Date if you want to, but don't get married. Pay your bills separately, split everything down the middle.

[@prepordietryin9119]

You may have one of the best comments I've read yet. Simple yet effective. Why bring the state into a relationship and do marriage.

[@chartuck]

@@prepordietryin9119 Because people follow the trend, and do as they were raised. Same reason there's still so many people that are religious. Because there parents are. And their grandparents.

[@Skipper86]

They married young no wonder they're in a mess

[@Skipper86]

@Zap Brannigan was that very nice of you to say. Oh ya you're so mature you know everything and you got all the answers

[@Skipper86]

@Zap Brannigan From what I've seen for 20 years of my friends being married so young all of them ended up in a financial crisis and most of them got divorced.

[@F22C1]

Your brain isn't fully developed until the age of 25. You can't point to one supposed success story, and assume everyone should have the same outcome.

[@Skipper86]

@@F22C1 That is somewhat correct. Some get fully mature between 25 and 30.

[@granitemoss1451]

Wow, look at all the folks all riled up you pointed out the obvious. Lots of triggered folks here.

[@marcusarelius]

They should be way ahead of the game given they got married at 18. Sounds like they were never on the same page.

[@canman5060]

I am 58 years old and I often act like a child too ! But I don't have student loan !!!

[@paulaboynton8299]

To the curb. Boot in the behind, kick him to the curb. And good luck. I've been there. It's hard to get him out too. Legally, you can't force him out of the family home unless he is physically abusive. Find out what the laws are in your state. If he breaks the law, then you can have him arrested and removed. I waited a long time for my former husband to do something stupid and I then had him removed. It was a nightmare.

[@ledzepaulin6581]

I smell divorce....

[@HoratiosPhilosophy]

Money can't buy happiness, but it can buy me a boat....and a truck to pull it.

[@willieboy3011]

Yep, you are being mean and smart aleck

[@josephm8078]

Once she gets to dental school this marriage is over

[@Saucingalot]

I love being single

[@abadperson5628]

While I think most people should not marry, unless he has abandoned the marriage or is guilty of unrepentant infidelity she does not have a biblical basis for divorce. Her error is she married a ‘bad boy’ for his looks and social standing instead of marrying a godly man.

[@siddheshmirjankar910]

I would never marry before the age of 30. Until 30 I'll clear all my debts so that I do not burden my wife with those. I'd expect my future wife to do the same for me. I'd also like to live together for at least one year before marrying so that we can discuss our inconveniences with each other and decide whether we should go through with the marriage or not. No one should get emotional and decide to get married just because they're "high on love". Human mind matures after the age of 25. Before that no one ever considers aspects that actually matter before jumping into marriage. Of course, there's a rule of exception that applies everywhere.

[@geraldinepebdani4972]

Run

[@edgehodl4832]

Did they stop teaching biology in schools? Her delaying kids til mid 30s means she may never have kids and her husband may leave her for someone younger so he can have kids.

[@pw5146]

This is such an ignorant comment. Many women are having kids in their 30s and early 40s and having perfectly healthy children. Not every woman wants to be popping out kids right away.

[@edgehodl4832]

@@pw5146 as ob/gyn doctor, I dont say u cant have kids in 30s or 40s, but chances of having kids in 30s and 40s goes exponentially down. U can call me any names u want, but that doesnt change human biology.

[@pw5146]

@@edgehodl4832 ok. Suddenly you're a doctor. Got it

[@meymay11]

Edge HODL I can tell you’re a man. A stupid man at that. Stick to what you know, and it’s not biology.

[@meymay11]

Edge HODL you’re not a freaking doctor or anything else in healthcare. Shut up!

[@prepordietryin9119]

Been together 10 years but didn't know your husband's bad spending habits?! Some of these calls I just don't get.

[@finyellow5656]

Mine has been hiding his spending habits for when the time came to get a house. Boy did I waste my time building excellent credit for nothing....

[@lilyann168]

Girl, count your blessings that you don't have kids with this guy. GET OUT while the getting is good. I'm not saying he is a bad person, but he is not husband material for you.

[@deidrealkins2511]

I can tell him from experience that dept doesn't equal wealth.

[@CharlesCherian]

and shes about to go to dental school ... 400k of debt if shes not paying cash, for a 120k starting salary :O

[@prepordietryin9119]

Exactly but everyone on here just skims over that fact

[@kitsontuli2713]

I feel for her. I wish they had enjoyed their 20s before locking down.

[@luminous6969]

Ain't it funny how the one thing that a women's intuition doesn't work on is choosing the right man? What a crazy coincidence that it seems to happen all the time to so many women.

[@tashanapink7688]

Our intuition works. Majority of the time we just don't listen

[@marieabner]

That's not how intuition works. Intuition is not knowledge of the future. It is more so spontaneously realizing the truth about something that is currently happening.

[@tashanapink7688]

@@marieabner you just confirmed what he's saying though. What this lady is seeing now didn't happen overnight. The problem was always there it just took a level of maturity to recognize what was there the whole time.

[@TykoBrian7]

There's no such thing as women's intuition

[@marieabner]

@Sir We Are About to Die everybody lies.

[@Will-oj3un]

Wife: You're acting like a child! Husband: Not uhh!!

[@andrewf4623]

What do you expect when you get married at 18 years old... no idea why kids are in such a rush to grow up and play house these days.

[@indiaxlovee]

Andrew F you marry a guy who isn’t a child, some guys act like grown men at 18

[@TrickNPlay]

I usually side with the men and I know there’s another side of this story. But in the meantime get your eggs frozen and use a young surrogate. But the time you get out of dental school and get on your feet, the oven won’t work. Good luck.

[@shachede6828]

just walk!! walk away. they have nothing similar.

[@juliadotson9132]

Yes Dave you are spot on. This was my ex exactly. I got enough and said no more after 38 1/2 years. So I will do the Dave plan on my own.

[@briangc1972]

First off, she is NOT his mommy and if she was a good wife then she wouldn't giggle at Dave's joke about her being the mommy. Second, Dave does have any right to say that they will likely get a divorce. He should encourage her and encourage them to find common ground. This is why so many people that go to church and claim to be Christian get divorced, people like Dave saying your marriage is doomed. Shame on you Dave.

[@dhelmassociates]

He sounds like my ex. 😬

[@peter1062]

He sounds like her future ex.

[@buffymcmuffin5361]

She's fortunate they don't have kids now.