My Husband is Cheated on Me With My Best Friend and Bullying Me to Terminate My Parental Rights T...

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@Lloyd_Jane
@Lloyd_Jane 7 ай бұрын
Dude speed-run how to ruin your life in 6 months. Cheats on his wife, shacks up with mistress, tries to blackmail stbx through texts, gets disowned, gets supervised visitation and child support, then tries to commit suicide…. Karla has the nerve to say that op tried to ruin her family.
@southernflight5078
@southernflight5078 7 ай бұрын
I know, right? Shame on OP for having so much self-respect and working to keep her children safe. /s
@lazallewillemse3617
@lazallewillemse3617 7 ай бұрын
Funny, the mistress acting like the she is the wife and OP is the home wrecker
@ragingdid
@ragingdid 7 ай бұрын
+ A lawyer’s wet dream cuz OP’d case could not be any easier
@DipeshAgarwal001
@DipeshAgarwal001 7 ай бұрын
And cheated on his wife because he wanted more children and was a pervert Maybe that's when he tried to delete himself after he found out his mistress cant produce babies😂😂
@nataliereeves3594
@nataliereeves3594 7 ай бұрын
I think the mistress is messed up. I'd she thinks op ruined her family when she's the jomewreker.
@brakis18
@brakis18 7 ай бұрын
So he wanted two more kids, cheated on his wife becaise of it, but got with a woman who cant have kids....thats just silly.
@tartlynerdy
@tartlynerdy 7 ай бұрын
Nobody ever said he was smart. Just bipolar, adhd and ptsd.
@notovny
@notovny Ай бұрын
It seems likely that BFF didn't tell Ex-Husband she knew she was infertile, hoping he wouldn't leave her when he found out. That outcome seems _very_ unlikely.
@Endonia-ym3sl
@Endonia-ym3sl 7 ай бұрын
Karla - "Are you happy you've torn our family apart?" OP - "You mean like how you tore MY family apart?" Someone with that mindset doesn't deserve to be a mother. If they did somehow manage to get custody, I don't doubt Karla would have eventually grown resentful towards the baby that she wasn't actually hers. Both are delusional to believe OP would just give up her daughter like that.
@LilyMist110704991831177394439
@LilyMist110704991831177394439 4 ай бұрын
Facts. But I probably would have said "you didn't even have a family to begin with and now you won't" 💀💀
@Blurgamer17
@Blurgamer17 7 ай бұрын
"Well, well... if it isn't the consequences of my own actions." - OP's Ex-husband, probably (not)
@Lionwoman
@Lionwoman 7 ай бұрын
Wife almost dies at childbirth and husband repays it by cheating.
@low-keydrama1260
@low-keydrama1260 7 ай бұрын
Cheating, gaslighting, disrespecting her, blackmail, threatening, continuously trying to hurt her, and trying to use OP’s mental health as a way to steal their child. What a catch that Karla has
@a_noelle8595
@a_noelle8595 7 ай бұрын
​@@low-keydrama1260love that for Karla. I wish her nothing but the worst.
@fangirl3086
@fangirl3086 6 ай бұрын
This is why I'm single and child free. You could literally give your life for someone you thought loved you and then they betray you in the worst ways.
@jessicathompson236
@jessicathompson236 6 ай бұрын
They were already cheating for a minimum of 6 months before baby was born.
@Wined34
@Wined34 7 ай бұрын
Sometimes, these stories are so messed up that I don't want to believe they are true, but knowing how horrible humans could be, it's not a stretch at all....😢
@zobiaccancercrab29scotty74
@zobiaccancercrab29scotty74 7 ай бұрын
The stepfather pulled no punch and called him out😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@reginafarley1325
@reginafarley1325 7 ай бұрын
Story 1. The only reason Karla stole your husband is cause she wanted your baby. I'm wondering if ex's self harm came from the 2 of them fighting over Karla failing to steal your baby. "If you don't get that baby for me there's no reason to stay with you." You need cameras, ring doorbell, & a couple of tracking devices in your baby's car seat & in a toy that's safe for babies & make sure the toy is always with baby & in pictures so anyone who looks at them will think it's baby's favorite so it won't be thrown away. Not accusing them of anything, but people get crazy over not being able to have babies. There's a movie about something like this called the "hand that rocks the cradle." Good luck
@philpko
@philpko 7 ай бұрын
"How to ruin to RUIN your life in 60 seconds!" - _5 Minute Crafts_
@Eldritch-1
@Eldritch-1 7 ай бұрын
Speedrunning your own failure as a husband, father and a man...loser.
@boredpersonstory553
@boredpersonstory553 7 ай бұрын
5 Minute Crafts than upgraded 😂🤣
@Too_lazybones
@Too_lazybones 7 ай бұрын
More like 5 minute relationship 🤣
@low-keydrama1260
@low-keydrama1260 7 ай бұрын
Story 1: Cheaters/toxic people are such an interesting breed. Their mindsets are so backwards and twisted. Like they can do everything they can to hurt others, especially their partners, and get butthurt when there’s real consequences to their actions and no one is on their side. Also it looks like OP wasn’t the danger to their daughter but the husband was considering the bad manic episode Story 2: Good thing Jessie showed his true colors before OP and him said “I do.” Glad OP didn’t take him back
@ragingdid
@ragingdid 7 ай бұрын
Damn, the husband’s still alive? Shame
@PARISGx1
@PARISGx1 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂
@develyntwocentshenderson5739
@develyntwocentshenderson5739 7 ай бұрын
I believe in the Almighty gene. both gonad donors are batshit in their own way. I believe in the almighty gene.
@Eldritch-1
@Eldritch-1 7 ай бұрын
Using up all the oxygen the rest of us need.
@OTDinosaurScrubs
@OTDinosaurScrubs 7 ай бұрын
@@Eldritch-1he should go to hell and take Carla with him
@VR00100
@VR00100 7 ай бұрын
Ironically, those who can't reproduce or produce anything of use to mankind are waste of oxygen and resources 😂
@religionisevil8850
@religionisevil8850 7 ай бұрын
Story 2: How much do you want to bet that the next update will have OP saying she's now engaged to Carter, pregnant with twins, and just inherited a fortune?
@MistressOP
@MistressOP 7 ай бұрын
these husband are nuts. Also, I wonder if karlas father understood the plan and that's why they were fighting.
@tartlynerdy
@tartlynerdy 7 ай бұрын
Story 1 - I heard this story. It ended on a cliffhanger though. I still can't get over that James and Karla thought they were being subtle. Idiots. Karla might have a mandatory psyche evaluation in her future. I still don't understand why James of all people. Did she just assume because he was married James was good husband material? Look at how he threw away the woman he's been with since he was 15. Karla is delulu to really think James has any sense of loyalty or commitment. He doesn't care about anyone but himself. He will abandon Karla once he realizes he's tied himself to a dead end. Karla can't give him more children. Story 2 - automatically NTA. All that talk about adopting op's daughter was a fat lie to get into op's pants. Jesse knew what he signed up for when he agreed to date a woman with a child and wore a mask to hide how he really felt. That's such a scummy move do that but expect the single parents to ignore their children or completely neglect them all together. Sadly, many parents do neglect their children to please the new s/o but I'm happy op wasn't one of those selfish parents. I'm glad Jesse is such a big mouth idiot to rat himself out on his infidelity.
@r0bot404
@r0bot404 7 ай бұрын
Like father like son
@icouldntthinkifenything2568
@icouldntthinkifenything2568 7 ай бұрын
Why does the guy have so mutch watermelon my man your in creative why do you need that mutch 😂😂😂 its over half your inventory
@rubymeaddle
@rubymeaddle 7 ай бұрын
Because he supports Palestine 🍉🍉🍉
@icouldntthinkifenything2568
@icouldntthinkifenything2568 7 ай бұрын
@@rubymeaddle what?
@TheLastHylianTitan
@TheLastHylianTitan 7 ай бұрын
@@icouldntthinkifenything2568historically, in a time when the Palestinian flag was banned, people got around it by using watermelons as a stand in because when they’re sliced open, they show the colors of the flag - red, black white and green. The symbolism has reemerged in current times for obvious reasons. I don’t think that’s why this person has watermelon in his inventory tho.
@icouldntthinkifenything2568
@icouldntthinkifenything2568 7 ай бұрын
@@TheLastHylianTitan cool history
@jackchop1576
@jackchop1576 7 ай бұрын
The husband is bipolar and that illness is way more well known than BPD and is more stigmatized because it is more well known. And a judge would totally not trust a woman who pretended to be someone's best friend then seduced her husband. I feel bad for the kid overall being stuck around any of these people.
@FARWILindarys
@FARWILindarys 7 ай бұрын
What the fuck is bro building?
@h.dungore839
@h.dungore839 6 ай бұрын
Wait, so in the 1st story, OP’s husband said one of the reason why he started sleeping with her bestfriend was cuz he wanted 3 kids in total but OP’s condition ruined those chances but he wouldnt he had known that Karla herself can’t have any of his kids🤷‍♀️ like the dude is stupid to throw away what he had!!
@MyBlackPumpkinSoup
@MyBlackPumpkinSoup 6 ай бұрын
How much of a narcissist must you be to say 'I Hope you are happy for destroying our family' when you are the mistress, you are the one who started the affair with your friend's husband, you are the one who tried to steal a baby from her, you are the one who ruined a family.
@pinkybobbyrom4676
@pinkybobbyrom4676 2 ай бұрын
You're truly my favorite KZbinr ❤❤❤ Love watching these videos. Thanks!
@SecretVoices25
@SecretVoices25 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
@trashotaku
@trashotaku 4 ай бұрын
Yeah, it sucks that OP’s ex fiancé turned out to be a massive jerk, but I’m glad he revealed his true colors before the wedding so that OP’s daughter doesn’t have to grow up with a neglectful and potentially abusive stepfather Edit after the update: dang OP dodged an even bigger bullet than I thought
@goodnightmyprince6734
@goodnightmyprince6734 7 ай бұрын
Toxic Sheldon Cooper
@icouldntthinkifenything2568
@icouldntthinkifenything2568 7 ай бұрын
Sheldon with PTSD would be crazy
@maarshiexcryxx
@maarshiexcryxx 7 ай бұрын
Sheldon cooper after year in russia
@dsdsd9955
@dsdsd9955 3 ай бұрын
Slept in the same bed is INSANE. Isnt she your bestie how does she have no one, gurl... how did you let her get away with that.
@ilovesports5468
@ilovesports5468 7 ай бұрын
Who want to have a baby with a person with all of those conditions? Between the both of them is about 8 conditions…
@LilyMist110704991831177394439
@LilyMist110704991831177394439 4 ай бұрын
Because some people work so hard to manage them and know how to actually handle themselves. Whether they were born with them or gained them through trauma is not a choice and they deserve to be loved as well. Those disorders will NEVER be a valid excuse for shitty behavior, at that point I'd argue it's just the person. BECAUSE, what gets me the most is this whole ass 180° the guy did and treated his wife as if he never even liked her! And they were together since they were 15. I'm sorry. The fuck??
@mangoma3943
@mangoma3943 7 ай бұрын
Story 1 this woman doesn't learn.
@develyntwocentshenderson5739
@develyntwocentshenderson5739 7 ай бұрын
childed people cheat more than those without kids. and how many people who were cheated on 'I forgaaaaaveee him/her' and then are shocked when they cheat again. usually after they have saddled the other with kids. usually the more dysfunctional the more children
@roabarton7962
@roabarton7962 6 ай бұрын
lol that's a heck of a way to get out of alimony.
@VetaRoberts-sj7sw
@VetaRoberts-sj7sw 3 ай бұрын
She isn't losing a father,he doesn't want to be with his children
@poohbear4515
@poohbear4515 7 ай бұрын
……..Really, OP? You’re honestly heartbroken that your daughter might lose her father. You honestly want him, the selfish, immature, ungrateful father who cheated, emotionally blackmailed, and wanted to steal her away so he and his equally shooty gf can play “happy family” around your child?? I feel more upset for the baby except anyone else.
@TheLastHylianTitan
@TheLastHylianTitan 7 ай бұрын
It’s not that simple. Children form attachments to their parental figures, regardless of how fit they are, and to have someone so close to you suddenly disappear from your life when you’re at too young an age to fully comprehend or process it can have lasting trauma and cause attachment issues. Supervised visits would have allowed OP’s kid to slowly adjust to the sudden change in her life at a pace that was healthy for her. But dad would rather leave permanent damage on his former daughter than even make an effort to care for her mental health. I don’t condone anything that fuck did and I don’t particularly like the whole “keep shitty parents in a kid’s life” route, but I know that during bullshit like this, kids suffer the most and thought and care has to be put into helping them adapt and adjust to their new lifestyle. But speaking as someone who did social work for a year, some people just shouldn’t be allowed to have, speak to or be near their kids.
@trashotaku
@trashotaku 4 ай бұрын
I have two ideas as to why OP’s ex attempted to take his own life Option A: He found out that Karla was infertile around the same time as Op. The entire reason why he cheated on Op was because she wouldn’t be able to give him the two other children he wished for so it wouldn’t exact make the most sense for him to leave Op for someone who can’t have children. He also most likely terminated his parental rights to his and OP’s daughter thinking that he’ll be able to start over and have three new kids with Karla. However, the realization that he irreparably damaged the relationship between his parents and lost the chance to be in the life of the one child he did have for the sake of a woman who couldn’t even give him the one thing he did want drove him to try and take his life Option B: OP’s ex was aware of Karla’s infertility but chose to stay with her because he fell in love with her. Karla, regardless of the ex’s reasons for trying to take his own life, absolutely was only using OP’s ex in order to take OP’s child since she wouldn’t be able to have a child naturally. However, when the plan to manipulate op into giving up her child failed in addition to OP’s ex giving up his parental rights, Karla lost any and all access to that baby. This also meant that Karla no longer had any use for OP’s ex and most likely attempted to end things with him since he failed to give her the one thing *she wanted.* The stress of losing the woman he had ruined his whole life for got the best of OP’s ex and then he tried to take his own life. I feel like of the two options, Option A makes the most sense since as I’ve said before, Op mentions that the reason why her ex cheated on her in the first place was because her ex wanted two more children and Op wasn’t able to have anymore children
@LilyMist110704991831177394439
@LilyMist110704991831177394439 4 ай бұрын
Don't forget the attention seeking one. (Those two options you laid out are probably the most likely) But some people in their desperate moments (not intelligent moments) try to get sympathy from people by doing the crazy
@trashotaku
@trashotaku 4 ай бұрын
@@LilyMist110704991831177394439 right I hadn’t even thought of that as a possibility since I completely forgot there are people that are literally willing to potentially risk their own lives just for the sake of getting attention
@johnpatricklim4509
@johnpatricklim4509 4 ай бұрын
Story 1: being autistic is not an excuse to be a disgusting cheater.....
@Exe_gaming030
@Exe_gaming030 6 ай бұрын
24:45 My guy use repeaters
@taetannim3581
@taetannim3581 6 ай бұрын
She can't afford a lawyer, but she CAN afford a therapist and psychiatrist lmao. Bullshit. Fake story.
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