My Husband's Best Friend Kissed Me In His Car r/Relationships

[@panicwithcompulsion]

Story 1 is exactly why it's so important to teach kids that being assaulted is not their fault. It's the exact same lies pedophiles use, but even adults can have trouble seeing through them. Some of the lies include ones used in the story like: you asked for it, you'll get in trouble too, it was harmless, it's a special secret, threatening the victim's safety in some capacity (deportation in this case). Every child needs to be taught what these tactics look like, not only to protect the child but to protect adult victims like OP. :/

[@Demonic_Culture_Nut]

Story 2 update 2 -- If she's so worried about being deported, she shouldn't have assaulted OP. He should press charges. I was convinced she was trying to get an out to þe relationship in update 1, but she's just an abuser.

[@Frazzled_Chameleon]

Right? Press charges. Send HER ass packing.

[@Jamlf]

Sadly, it’s a he said, she said situation. It either wouldn’t go anywhere with proof or he would be the one who got into trouble based on her and her roommate said.

[@recycledapathy7411]

To be completely honest, if I was OP, I'd start questioning her stories about her exes too. He was led to believe that her exes treated her terribly, but it didn't take his ex long to spin the story of her trying to beat the hell out of him into "I was so scared because this guy took two minutes to pack his shit."

[@devchekhov7512]

Story 1: there's a special place where predators go, and it ain't fun

[@catsncrows]

Yes. Also while scary it's good that he came unglued because it landed his happy butt behind bars where he belonged. I'm wondering if he established a close friendship with the husband out of opportunism

[@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagement]

Prison. Predators go to prison. And then early, unmarked graves shortly after going to prison.

[@bonefetcherbrimley7740]

The shadow realm showers.

[@OneUponADime]

Epstein Island?

[@Davtwan]

And the other residents of that place tend to not look favorably at predators too.

[@starbird3939]

Story 1 Update: Thank god Adam is thrown in jail. I hope he stays there for good because he was escalating and would have definitely murdered Op (and maybe her husband). Also the husband is awesome

[@Sclasspsycho]

Story 2: At first I was sympathetic towards the GF (as I'm a sex-repulsed ace) but after what she said to OP and her assaulting him, I have no sympathy at all.

[@justadummy8076]

She is definitely not asexual, she’s someone with a storied past who clearly enjoys having sex, just not with OP. Most likely he’s her golden parachute, the good guy with a decent wage to sustain her to retirement (or divorce), but after a history of sleeping with people she’s physically attracted to, she can’t bring herself to come to terms with the idea that she’s “settling” for him, she doesn’t want to have sex with OP, she’s repulsed by him because he just doesn’t do it for her, not because she’s ace.

[@starbird3939]

Story 1: Yes, kissing someone without their consent is considered sexual assault. This dude is doing everything predators do: target someone vulnerable (a recent immigrant), get their victim alone, assault them, and then gaslight the victim to keep silent by saying the VICTIM will ruin everything. Saying OP caused it by saying something nice to him (“he’s a good FRIEND”) and “led him on” is gaslighting. And to all the ladies, gentlemen, and themperors here? If someone ever makes you uncomfortable or touches you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, it is not your fault.

[@pippo17173]

Op is lucky that the horrible ex friend didn't start with assult in the car.

[@jakemarie828]

Thank you so much for themperors, never heard that before

[@ilidan584]

themperors?

[@ilidan584]

@@pippo17173 he did thats what starbird is saying

[@ilidan584]

@@pippo17173 k finished listening u mean R her kissing without consent is assault though

[@shadowkissed2370]

It is actually scary how many people think if you are being kind you are flirting with them.

[@Ars-Nova258]

Story 1 OP: You’re a kind and generous person. Adam: SO YOU DOWN TO FU- Story2: So. Many. Red Flags even before the abuse.

[@starbird3939]

Story 2: The ex escalated to domestic violence. It is ok to want sex in the relationship, and it is ok to leave a relationship where the partner completely witholds all affection. And yes, no relationship is better than domestic violence.

[@pezchef7577]

fr. op should have pressed charges. always. press. charges. ppl need to learn they can't use physical violence to get their way. her dreams may be shattered? tough shit. you crap in your meal you have to eat your own crap. coming from somebody that had to call the cops on my older brother for violence. grew up with his violence and no... I have never gotten into a fight with somebody and avoid fighting at all cost. ops ex, if the story isn't bias (all stories are bias to an extent) is a twitz walking down both sides of crazy street. you know my ex was of Hispanic descent and she justified violence all the time 1) I'm a girl 2) it's in our culture. ummm no to both points you're as absusive as you are stupid. sorry for the rant

[@ameixsell]

Why didn't he call the police for the DV?

[@promisedmysun6044]

@@ameixsell if he had no bruises or any other proof, they likely wouldn't have taken OP serious - hell even if he did, the stigma of men being stronger and therefore should have to suck it up is still a big thing sadly. She could have also flipped the narrative to him being abusive towards her and her being scared

[@ronhall5395]

Wow, she is crazy. When confronted about getting help with her infections she came right out and said she just doesn't want sex with him. Not in general, just not with him. So she loves how he takes care of her and supports her, but bedroom activities are no go. What guy in his right mind would marry someone like that. Even couples with robust sex lives end up nearly sexless within 10 yrs. Nope. Move on son, she is not the one. She is the type that will chest on you because your too nice to her, but boring in bed.

[@Vipre-]

@@ameixsell Maybe he was short on bail money. It's the US, 50/50 whether they tell HIM to leave or just arrest him.

[@janedoe885]

Story 2, the ‘no medical advice’ request is completely alien to me. Listening through my wtf reaction was so intense that I actually said GO SEE A GYNECOLOGIST irl, to the benefit of no one lol. Honestly that should be step 1 in this situation. If one gynecologist has no solutions to offer, maybe another will. UPDATE: GF is a piece of crap, she needs charges pressed. What a vile person.

[@robertx8020]

This And it that means that she has to leave the country?? I already feel sorry for her homecountry !

[@theweirdones7544]

Ikr she was so rude for no reason. He’s such a kind man to her

[@vanguardangel6912]

I work as a medical scribe and I was already freaking out screaming “go to gyno”! Infections of any sort can be very dangerous if it’s left untreated. Guys, gals, non-binary pals; please go see a professional if you feel bad, especially when it comes to sexual issues!

[@juliearmfield2634]

Story 2 nta. O.p. dodged a big bullet. She and entitled abusive mentally Disturbed woman

[@kalishaffer8210]

Report her, get her deported. Where did she find the messed up therapist. Weaponized much!

[@Demonic_Culture_Nut]

@@kalishaffer8210 She probably told her þerapist a warped version of events.

[@Vipre-]

Those infections probably came from a laundry list of side guys.

[@poetryqn]

Story 2: Word to the wise: get your stuff out *before* you break up with someone.

[@astronautviolet153]

Story 1 Op need to tell her husband or the friends wife stay safe away from the predator.

[@shadowkissed2370]

Story 2: Since the gf has PCOS, has she become diabetic yet? Have they been testing her A1C? High A1Cs can cause constant yeast infections to the point you itch and swell. She really needs to get the doctors to check out her A1Cs.

[@babysmokie7179]

Story 2- I have PCOS. There is so much misinformation about it out there, my dr basically told me i would have infertility problems. My child is two years old and wasn't something I tried to make happen. PCOS also can greatly effect your labido without medications involved

[@OceanSongBird6355]

Op in S1 makes me really sad u never do anything on purpose to “attract” men that is real hard victim blaming because OP didn’t ask him to kiss her or even consent to him kissing her that is by definition SA I hope she gets rid of this mindset and goes to a therapist to help remove such thoughts or at the least confirm they r wrong and she didn’t do anything wrong (Edit) S2: holy Batman!!! I did not expect that type of ending OP ex is definitely not well and I’m glad OP ended that relationship hopefully he can get an actual healthy relationship that is what he needs compatibly wise and he did press charges I don’t care if her dreams r ruined u don’t beat up someone who was going to leave and didn’t threaten u

[@shanoc5902]

2) You know, I couldn't help but notice a pattern. According to OP his ex claims that all of her exes were "really bad" to her (I assume abusive) and that she wanted to stay with him because of all of the nice things he does for her (let's ignore how she was emotionally abusing him and started talking like a cheater). Now the moment he breaks up with her he's suddenly a narcissistic abusive partner? Yeah. When someone has nothing but bad things to say about *all* of their multiple exes, take it as a bit of a yellow card that the moment things go south you might just end up on that list too. Some people do go from abusive partner to abusive partner and need help, it's also possible for a single abusive partner to throw all their former victims under the bus for sympathy.

[@littlepeeper9223]

The POS from story one sounds exactly like a NiceGuy/Predator, even though it's much the same in that story. I really enjoy your videos 😀

[@Cjaj2]

God Story one really creeped me out you can absolutely tell that that's not the first time he's done that and how fast he tried to escalate things 😬

[@runeingebretsen8378]

On the assault from the girlfriend from south america,he needs to go to the police and report her,because she will report him.

[@Queen_Of_Discord]

BRO YOU DON'T "SHOOT YOUR SHOT" WITH A MARRIED WOMAN, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU YOURSELF ARE MARRIED. WTF

[@OneUponADime]

Story 1 - “I’m going to tell my husband but how-“ “MAKE SURE YOU TELL HIM!! TELL HIM!!” “I’m going to but how-“ “TELL HIM!! BY GOD TELL HIM!!”

[@browniewin4121]

1) Best friend is not a friend, he is a disloyal creep. OP should immediately tell her husband what happened, he needs to know. OP should not believe the lies from this AH. Just tell him how upsetting this is, how you thought this was his best friend, and the other wife is someone considered a friend by OP so for this to happen is so awful for both OP's husband and the creep's wife. After update: I'm so happy to hear OP told her husband and that they are taking advice to file a police report. It is too bad the other wife did not take the news well and tried to blame OP. I hope she soon comes to her senses and realizes where the blame lies. It's good the AH got arrested, he is so awful and that is where he belongs for assaulting and threatening OP. 2) This is not much of a solution, it seems the girlfriend needs to see a good gynecologist to get this yeast infection under control. OP needs to talk with his girlfriend about how they need to deal with this in a better way. After update: I hope the infection gets under control, but it's sad she is so critical about OP's appearance and their sex life. I think OP should consider this relationship is not going to work, she seems pretty unreasonable and unpleasant. Wow, she is really nasty and out of control. I think OP should file a police report because it is not ok for her to have attacked OP. It's good he got out of that relationship.

[@theresaschuebel5151]

That girl friend is an idiot. She knew he was abused and he was abused again. I was emotionally, sexually and physically abused growing up and my ex knew this. He then at the end of our relationship abused me emotionally and neglected me then gaslighting and gray rocked me too. He didn't give a crap

[@Frazzled_Chameleon]

Typical male mistake: interpreting kindness as romantic interest. She was complimenting you, bro, not trying to get in your pants. She’s probably now wishing she'd never met you.

[@quartzskull8772]

The typical male isn't an incel

[@justine8387]

My Dad has this mentality, my son is 12 and just took up a new hobby. There was a girl his age who said hello to him at the club house. When we got home, he told this story like my son had been hit on by the girl. She said hello! I just don't know what to do with that. I am glad he didn't say it in front of my son. I am not ready for the "your granddqd tries but he has some strange views of women talk".

[@snake5solid]

@@quartzskull8772 Doesn't matter. It could be an incel, it could be an average dude, a businessman, a drunk... Guys very often mistake kindness for flirting. Even the most basic stuff could be taken as interest if it comes from a woman.

[@quartzskull8772]

@@snake5solid why do you talk like this is such a generalized thing?

[@snake5solid]

@@quartzskull8772 Because it is ridiculously common.

[@tigernotwoods914]

Holy smokes that story at the end is insane. She’s not only abusive and how dare her attack him and not let him pack his stuff. She’s garbage.

[@sherryluu518]

Story 2. I have pcos and it did take a while, but I was able to get pregnant. I changed my diet, took prenatals, got extra sleep, exercised, etc. I have 3 kids now. 11, 9, and 8 months. It can happen. Please keep in mind, everyone is different! It can happen though.

[@Solarstormflare]

Thanks for sharing, sometimes having pcos feels hopeless

[@nicholaswarlick8239]

Story 1 is why I'm going to move to my future wife's country instead of her moving to mine. So she isn't alone and isn't targeted by predators here

[@konan2206]

Unsightlyfuzz really pissed me off. I have PCOS and yeah, I can get pregnant. I've been pregnant multiple times. HOWEVER that doesn't mean that I've been able to successfully carry any of them. I've had multiple miscarriages over the last 10 years. Why? Because the PCOS has scarred me so much that no egg can stay attached. That shit is so infuriating. "Bless her heart" fuck that person omg. Say "bless her heart" to all my miscarriages.

[@AntlersAndAcorns]

Ah the good ol classic treat a guy like a nice person and they do this

[@andrediamond4374]

Story 2: OP: I don't want medical advice!! Reddit: Oh ok, here's some medical advice. Lol

[@pippo17173]

Husband ex best friend is legit a predator, especially knowing the immigrant status here. So deplorable.

[@InvasionAnimation]

story 2 break up with her. I bet she is getting her wants elsewear.

[@promisedmysun6044]

Yep, convinced of this too - she is unhinged too. That update was wild.. Honestly, how delusional do you have to be to tell your partner that you don't find them attractive altogether and the sex was only great with her exes and expect no consequences??? I am flabbergasted

[@robertx8020]

@@promisedmysun6044 I would also doubt anything she told op about her exes (that they were abusive) I bet she will tell her next victim that OP was abusive too

[@promisedmysun6044]

@@robertx8020 i am by no means a professional..but OP's therapist said that she might suffer from BPD. That is definitely a close possibility. Good for OP on breaking off and escaping..I hated how she tries to spin the story on how he was "dangerous" and feared he would physically abuse her - while she hit him several times

[@jimbobjones9330]

@@robertx8020 You don't even need to "bet" -- she's already telling people that OP is abusive. I have a hunch that every guy that catches onto her bullshit is suddenly "abusive"

[@robertx8020]

@@jimbobjones9330 Against my better judgement, I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt..but you are right

[@jakeand9020]

An unfortunate symptom of the human condition is when we hear two opposing stories we a naturally unclined to believe the first version.

[@GIChiyo]

Story 1: That guy is dangerous wtf Both OP and the husband need to cut this guy right out

[@mindyschocolate]

S2: she’s a jerk. You’re better off without that drama queen.

[@geminiblue]

Story 2 - listening to this story, the whole time I was thinking she was cheating & getting yeast infections from all the side partners

[@LizLuvsCupcakes]

I feel the need to point out that yeast infections aren't STIs. They can be caused by an excess of sex, but that's because it keeps everything warm and moist for a sustained period of time. Anywhere you have warm, moist skin, that's where yeast can grow.

[@kaylafuller8948]

I have either PCOs or endometriosis and I have two kids both conceived without any extra help

[@ThatOddChickenHippie]

For story 2, she should try the arm implant. Got mine and it lasts for years without needing to be replaced.

[@yourmom2189]

I got the arm implant because I suspected my IUD was causing repetitive infections. The doctor even tried to discourage me from switching, saying they didn’t think my IUD was the cause. After I switched, I stopped having infections and haven’t had one since.

[@Vipre-]

Story 2: Dump this B. Seriously "she doesn't find me all that attractive", says it's my fault she doesn't want to have sex, but doesn't want to break up because she "loves all the things I do for her" and is happy going forward in a sexless relationship. GTFOH with that nonsense. Of course she's happy going forward like that because it exclusively benefits her and she only cares about herself. Glad to see the guy had some sense in the end.

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

Story 2 devolved fast. This went from a health issue to does she even like OP? Therapist is def onto something. I didn’t see this getting even worse.

[@shadesofjade]

24:37 no she understands completely and is trying to wear you down. Next it’ll be “you’re so lucky I love you because no-one else will” utter bs!

[@dorianleakey]

The ex's therapist is unlikely to believe what they said. It's probably just what the ex said.

[@valeriew4833]

I wouldn't be attracted to someone when I consistently get physically ill after intercourse

[@deborahyoung1873]

If i had a dollar for every time i was nice to a guy and they thought i was into them, i would be a millionaire. I have learned to come off as snobby or mean, which i really hate doing,but it keeps them from getting the wrong idea.

[@aprilfox9205]

Uhmmm, that escalated quickly...😮

[@OuchingTigerLimpingDragon]

My stepdad bought all us kids a copy of "The Gift of Fear", as well as my mom, and had us all read it. It's a _VERY_ good resource.

[@shereebuckley7208]

I've never heard of IUDs lowering PCOS symptoms. We have a thing called DEPO, that is an injection in the hip and it stops your periods and stops PCOS symptoms. You need to talk to your doctor about this. Especially if the IUD is causing you issues. It will take up to 3 months for the DEPO to work fully as your body needs the time to adjust.

[@nevadeva]

This might be insensitive but I get soooo frustrated when people go on Reddit saying “how do I tell him/her). Just F’ing tell them! Why are you asking strangers? They don’t know you or the other person personally. So how will they know the best way to tell them?!

[@tabytha7636]

If someone is making you feel so threatened You need to leave that area at once and call the cops. You don't stay and agitate the person that you feel threatened by Doing that is just proving that you're not scared. You don't fear them and you do not feel like your life or your livelihood is in threat.

[@minsugasmelanin.6656]

i actually had a friend who got pregnant hatter being diagnosed with pcos. she thought she couldn’t get pregnant so she stopped all attempts to prevent it with her boyfriend.

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

"She says I have sex like a dad and it makes her feel more like a wife than a girlfriend." Wtf does this even mean? What a bizarre and nonsensical thing to say. This broad is off her rocker.

[@bbbddvvndg9476]

Story 2: great, now report her so she loses her visa

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Hey Markee 👍 Enjoy your day/night everyone 👋

[@riffwizardsupreme]

they fucken caught the LISK?!!

[@TheBre1491]

Story 2. So the yeast infections is a worry and understandable, but more like I need to find a solution, let’s take a break while I research more, see more doctors etc. but the never again is very dramatic. Then the I’m not attracted to you, like what the heck? Then she hits him when he tries to leave, and then tries to gaslight him. Yikes. I’m suspicious about the no sex to start with based on the ex’s reaction when the OP left.

[@jameswatson9338]

Story 2: Why did that one comment feel the need to critique the girlfriend for not wanting to have biological children? PCOS makes pregnancy a lot harder and that's enough reason in itself to not want to be pregnant. Hell, you can not want to be pregnant just because it's hard, period. The fact is, that sentence started with "she doesn't want biological children." That should be respected no matter the reason. Our society puts WAY too much emphasis on women bearing biological children, as if adoption or just not being a parent is untenable for a normal woman.

[@UnityDoesWhatever]

Nah, it's the IUD I don't even need to listen to the story to know. Cause that same shit happened to me when I had my IUD. Once it fell out yes FELL OUT I haven't used BC since and have not had a single yeast infection when I would get them almost weekly.

[@carlrood4457]

How can you be "...single until you find a compatible partner."? It takes years to really figure out of you're compatible. You need to be in a relationship to determine if a relationship can work.

[@tamsel814]

You can find out quite a few aspects that make people incompatible prior to a relationship. Just in top of my head age, wanting/not wanting children, smoking, taking drugs, drinking, eating meat or animal products in general.

[@GaiaTheNatureWitch]

Adams wife is delulu

[@secondfavoritecolors2993]

If you’re struggling with the iud and pill, there are arm implants and monthly shots available! There are quite a few options :)

[@darkwolfx9959]

DEPO shot!! If you get infections (bad for IUDs) and are to forgetful (miss pills) get a depo shot once every 3 months and have your doctor call you for every appointment.

[@bbureau12]

Story 1: I'd have had some respect if my dude's excuse was "I'm so sorry, my lips spasmed while trying to comprehend my brain's stupidity." I would have still ratted him out to her husband and his wife, but I wouldn't have been as compelled to hogtie him and toss him into a polar bear enclosure.

[@adamryan977]

Her therapist thinks i am....my therapist thinks she is....Yeah that's why good therapist never diagnose somebody they never talked to in person. That is so unprofessional to just start throwing diagnoses around. You can't diagnose someone by the accord of anyone, especially an ex partner. Focus on your actual patient.

[@TheScaletIbisNW]

The iud always made my pcos worse. I hated the iud. Getting g rid of it was the best choice I ever made

[@snapdragoon1236]

I genuinely hope op presses charges and gets his abusers ass sent back to her country. Too many women get away with literal assault and false accusations. She did both. She deserves a decade in prison, not ops mercy. If you did nothing but swap the genders she would never see the light of day again but her coochie gets her off easy. I’m willing to bet she was just looking for an excuse to stop having sex with op while keeping all the relationship benefits. Anyone who starts coming up with false narratives immediately after assaulting someone never actually liked you let alone loved you

[@greggorman5537]

Op 2 you should get her the boot before she plays these games on other people and destroy lives

[@wolfwhistlewoowoo6297]

Last story: women need to quit weaponizing their status as the “weaker sex” to twist their own cruelty , manipulation , and physically abusive/excessive emotional response tendencies. The social turn towards ALWAYS siding with the female gender has created some horrifically unfair situations and women need to police each other to keep things more ethical. Men need our help because masculinity is being unfairly represented and vilified. Yes, I am a woman and I will call out bad behavior when I see it. Our husbands, fathers, brothers, sons, and friends need and deserve our support. OP’s cvnt of an ex-girlfriend should absolutely be reported and honestly, he should take notes on the red flags he avoided addressing so that his next relationship is much more healthy, fair, and loving.

[@cerbus6597]

first story was like that one movie where this asian woman was in an immigration office and the guy started unzipping his pants as a bribe to get in. good thing the woman broke the glass door and reported the guy on the spot. Second story was quite a twist, first i felt bad for the GF then that all came down when she admitted to not really that attracted to him. so hes just a wallet now and whos to say she wont cheat on him if they said the right words to her? glad he broke it off

[@greggorman5537]

Op 2 your just the guy that pays for it and the guy she bangs is not you

[@mrobinson5201]

Tell your husband. If the best friend is right, which I’m sure he’s not, then you don’t need a husband like that anyway. Best friend is gaslighting and trying to save his ass.

[@laurieanncox7844]

Not related to the above stories, is Markee Industries channel related to this Markee ??

[@FrederikEngelmand]

This is seriously some netorare story level shit in story 1. WOW

[@sugakookie7985]

If every guy that your ex was with was abusive look for those accusations to fly your way, she's always been the problem, also she was cheating on you both of you treated yourselves but she kept coming up with an infection her AP clearly refused treatment.

[@neo84401]

Adam tried to pull some ntr crap.

[@TheBusyHoneyBee]

Story01. The correct way to tell your husband his best friend kissed you is streaming your heart out and make a huge fuss about it. Fuck it all. Make a scandall larger then life, have witnesses of your outrage.

[@tigernotwoods914]

That last part in the comments is not accurate. Some people just aren’t built to be single. It’s just the way they’re wired. Same as some are content being single.

[@de9722]

Fre-shava-cado 😂 I love our generation

[@sablemoreno5095]

You know, ignoring all the ofher stuff for story 2 i just had to have a WTF moment at the "feel like a wife not a girlfriend" when talking about sex. Like what? Whats that even supposed to mean? That makes 0 sense

[@tabytha7636]

WHAT My boyfriend the guy I just told doesn't turn me on and I'm comparing to my ex's turn me down after I said it 😱😱😱

[@jay2thaudy]

Story 2 took a turn. Girlfriend is an awful person. She wants to use him for a caretaker and wallet. They both sound like they are neurodivergent but she's definitely narcissistic as well.

[@Detector1977]

s2: classic alpha widow. Excuses excuses why she won't have sex and then you find out she just isn't attracted to you as he bad boy ex is the one she still yearn for. But of course she loves being provided for...

[@vetaroberts3333]

There are other birth control options, maybe check into them

[@TheIronwil]

The book “Gift of Fear” is an excellent book that tells people to trust their instincts. They’re there for a reason. When you feel afraid, don’t talk yourself down from it until you avoid the danger. Think about it later. In the moment, trust your instincts.

[@tabytha7636]

Geez, this entire post was just "ME,ME,ME" from the girlfriend. This entire post is just about what The girlfriend wants and how she wants it and when she wants it. Dude needs to leave and find anyone else as they will be a thousand times better than her.

[@pauldavisjr.3284]

Second op your girlfriend can decide rather she wants to have sex or not however you can decide that if you want a relationship where your physical needs aren't met. Why do that to youi?

[@DesiresPleasures]

My daughter has pcos and she got pregnant so easy.

[@TheIronwil]

Dead Bedroom: My take on this is that it’s not feasible to go completely celibate while in a romantic relationship. Not sure about the yeast infections. My wife has told me this is largely a matter of hygiene, but it could be different for someone else. I would exhaust all options before declaring that sex was off the table.

[@courtney.marlene]

Poor hygiene can lead to a yeast infection, but something as simple as using a bubble bath that has an ingredient that your body decides it doesn’t like can cause one. A lot of women get them when they take antibiotics, some women get them from wearing underwear made from synthetic fabrics & can only use 100% cotton. You can get them from wearing pants that are too tight for a couple of days, wiping wrong, eating an excessive amount of sugar, sex with a new partner, using fragrance or lotion too far past the bikini line… Some women never get them even if they do any/all of the things listed above. Some women get them every time they change something slightly in their normal routine. While it’s important to practice good hygiene & it’s an area that should be cleaned daily, it’s ironically over cleaning it with products that is more likely to lead to a yeast infection. Vaginas are self cleaning & soap should never be used internally. They are supposed to have a smell, but if it’s very strong or overwhelmingly bad, that’s cause for concern & a Dr. should be seen. Yeast infections are hell & only get worse if left untreated. It’s so important that women (all people actually) be in tune with what’s normal for their body, that way if a yeast infection does occur, you can more easily narrow down what caused it & get treated before the discomfort turns to agony & cursing that you were not born a man lol.

[@telinhajp]

おはよう。Ｍａｒｋｅｅ！！❤🤗

[@ronbeyak9886]

Story 2; i’m getting dirty girl vibes from OPs girlfriend. How do we know she doesn’t keep going back to her dirty diseased other lover. The reason she does not want to have sex is because she’s getting her needs met elsewhere.OPs ex is psychotic and he should lay charges and hopefully get her deported. OPs girlfriend is just crazy,dirty and gross.

[@vetaroberts3333]

Maybe you can change some of your ways about sex

[@JanieBgrand]

When people argue by saying, “my therapist said”, and the comeback it “Well, MY therapist said”, you have proof positive that you’re hearing about the relationship of a leftist millennial! 😂

[@gtj094]

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[@YellaBellaReno]

Birth control makes us attracted to people we wouldn’t (or shouldn’t) be. It’s weird, but without birth control, we can smell genetic compatibility. I guess it follows that getting on birth control can make you unattracted to someone you were previously attracted to? Not super relevant to this story, as it turned out, but maybe helpful to someone else here. Also, if you’re having issues with infections, try taking probiotics and ask your partner to take the same probiotics. I don’t know why this works, but it seems to help, and glob only knows how useless doctors can be about this issue.

[@shellchenonceau6987]

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[@claudiarico1620]

Please press charges ASAP

[@victorr2698]

Lmao RAISE YOUR HAND IF YOU CALL BULLSHIT ON THE FIRST STORY. Here’s what REALLY HAPPENED: “She cheated on her husband with the friend and now is looking for a way out without taking accountability

[@whitneybennett4857]

You're hilarious.